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  • In this heartfelt conversation, Kathryn Benko and Macy Cole explore the joys and challenges of motherhood, sharing personal experiences and insights. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, establishing family traditions, and the need for self-care and prioritization. Which eventually leads them into why their One Word for 2026 is what it is. The conversation delves into the significance of faith, surrender, and the power of forgiveness in navigating the complexities of life as mothers. They emphasize the importance of prayer and compassion, and how these elements shape their identities and relationships. Tune in to hear their One Words!

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  • Happy New Year! Welcome to Season 8 of Heart + Sole! Kathryn catches up with Melody Wiseman after a two-month break, discussing their holiday experiences, the importance of routine, and their favorite binge-worthy shows. They dive into the latest season of Salt Lake City, share insights from Taylor Swift's documentary, and reflect on pop culture trends, including celebrity relationships and New Year's Eve celebrations.

    I can't wait for another season of H+S with you!

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  • The podcast is BACK! For today, at least 🙃 And the best part is that Melody Wiseman is back with me on the pod too! Today, we catch up on Halloween, ALL of the shows we are watching (Selling Sunset, RHOSLC, Love Is Blind), and so much more!

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  • Heart and Sole is BACK! In today's episode, Kathryn and Taylor Thomas dive deep into Taylor Swift's latest album, 'The Life of a Showgirl.' They discuss their initial reactions, the production quality, and the missed opportunities in visuals and marketing. The conversation explores the themes of love and happiness in the album, comparing it to Swift's previous works, and analyzing standout songs. They reflect on the cultural impact of Swift's music and what the future may hold for her career. Ultimately, they share their thoughts on the album's reception and engage with listeners about their own experiences with Swift's music!

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  • Kathryn is joined by Grant and Hannah Dunlop to discuss the latest season of Bachelor in Paradise! They explore the new format, the impact of introducing money into the relationships, and the dynamics of the contestants. Tune in for some humor and critical insights on this season, the contestants' relationships, and the overall production changes. Hear why we are wanting a slight return to the original format of the show, and more!

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  • In this episode, Kathryn Benko and Bianca Pastrana engage in a lively debate about the characters Conrad and Jeremiah from 'The Summer I Turned Pretty.' They explore themes of friendship, nostalgia, personal growth, and the complexities of love, while sharing their own experiences and perspectives on relationships. Bianca and Kathryn delve into the complexities of character development in TSITP, focusing on the love triangle between Belly, Conrad, and Jeremiah. They explore the differences between the book and the show, share theories about future relationships and the show ending, and reflect on emotional moments throughout Season 3. Tune in for a very divided and healthy debate!

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    00:00 Introduction and Friendships
    02:56 The Battle of the Brothers
    05:56 Nostalgia and Personal Connections
    08:54 Character Analysis and Relationships
    11:58 Debating Team Conrad vs. Team Jeremiah
    14:53 The Impact of Relationships on Personal Growth
    17:56 The Role of Therapy and Personal Struggles
    21:00 Concluding Thoughts and Future Predictions
    22:01 Character Analysis: Belly and the Villain Debate
    25:04 The Complexity of Jeremiah and Conrad's Relationships
    29:14 Nostalgia and Personal Connections to Characters
    33:27 The Impact of Communication in Relationships
    35:53 Character Development and Growth in Season Three
    41:33 Theories and Predictions for the Series Finale
    45:30 - 51:00 SPOILER ALERT!!!!
    54:02 Emotional Moments and Character Growth
    56:40 Navigating Love and Friendship Dynamics
    01:01:08 Reflections on Fictional Relationships and Real-Life Lessons


  • ARE YOU READY FOR IT?! TS12 is coming soon 🧡 Tune in to hear my thoughts on the upcoming album and the iconic New Heights episode, as well as my feelings on the love triangle in 'The Summer I Turned Pretty.' #TeamBonrad

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  • Re-sharing another Throwback episode from August of 2022! Enjoy!

    PAST DESCRIPTION:
    Kathryn shows up today to share what she has learned in showing up for different areas of life - showing up for yourself, for movement, for relationships, and for your faith!

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  • Re-sharing another Throwback episode from September of 2022! Enjoy!

    Past Description:
    MACY IS BACK! And she takes all of us to CHURCH today with her truth bombs! I love this friendship, because of how we can go from deep to silly to deep just like that. Tune in today to hear how God works through the little moments of our lives, how our stories are being written to encourage others, and how pressing in is where you find your power.

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  • In today's episode, Kathryn interviews Laura Bullock, the Executive Director of Vigilant Hope. They discuss the organization's mission to empower the North and South Side community of Wilmington through grassroots initiatives and relational support. Laura shares insights on Christian Community Development, the importance of listening to community needs, and the impact of proximity in effective community work. They also reflect on their recent trip to Chicago, where they learned from the Lawndale Community Church and the significance of language and making people feel seen. The conversation emphasizes the power of community, mutual support, and the importance of taking small, actionable steps to make a big difference!

    00:00 Introduction to Vigilant Hope and Laura Bullock
    03:07 Understanding Christian Community Development
    05:48 The Impact of Proximity in Community Work
    09:00 Lessons from Lawndale Community Church
    11:47 The Importance of Listening and Relationship Building
    14:59 Language Matters: The Shift from Homeless to Unhoused
    17:46 The Power of Community and Mutual Support
    20:51 How to Get Involved with Vigilant Hope

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  • In this episode, Kathryn and Melody are back together to discuss all the latest happenings in reality TV; including Love Island USA, Real Housewives of Miami, and Bachelor in Paradise. Melody shares her thoughts on the LIUSA finale, we gab about the new addition to Miami Housewives, AND we talk about how pumped we are that BIP is back and production is wayyyy better!

    00:00 Welcome and Authenticity in Podcasting
    03:07 Hormonal Health and Personal Well-being
    05:51 Reality TV: Love Island Insights
    09:06 Cultural Dynamics in Relationships
    11:52 Dating Culture and Relationship Dynamics
    15:08 The Valley and Reality TV Critique
    18:01 Housewives of Miami: Drama and Dynamics
    20:44 Bachelor in Paradise: New Season Overview
    23:43 Cast Dynamics and Predictions
    27:03 The Future of Bachelor Nation
    29:54 Wrap-Up and Final Thoughts

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  • In this engaging conversation, Kathryn speaks with Mary Marantz, author of 'Underestimated', about her journey from growing up in a single wide trailer in West Virginia to attending Yale Law School and ultimately choosing a career in photography, podcasting, speaking, and writing. Mary shares her insights on overcoming fear, the importance of accountability, and the power of gratitude. She emphasizes that fear is a boring liar that keeps us from pursuing our dreams and encourages listeners to take action, even when scared. The discussion highlights the significance of recognizing the voice of fear and the impact of storytelling in empowering women to embrace their true potential.

    00:00 Introduction to Mary Marantz and Her Mission
    02:18 Growing Up in a Single Wide Trailer
    04:48 The Journey to Yale Law School
    10:40 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Fear
    19:30 Transitioning from Law to Photography
    26:21 The Writing Journey and Underestimated
    30:35 Fear as a Creative Enemy
    33:03 Understanding Fear and Its Impact
    36:40 The Power of Neuroplasticity
    39:34 Building Resilience Through Hardship
    42:03 The Importance of Accountability
    48:56 Embracing Self-Acceptance
    51:34 Reflecting on Personal Growth
    54:37 Encouragement to Overcome Fear

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  • In this engaging conversation, Kathryn Benko and Rebecca George explore themes of faith, identity, and the challenges of waiting in life. Rebecca shares her journey as a pastor's wife, her experiences of longing, and the message behind her book 'You're Not Too Late.' The discussion emphasizes the importance of community, vulnerability, and turning to scripture for encouragement during times of waiting. Listeners are reminded that they are not alone in their struggles and that God is always at work in their lives.

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  • My bestie, Sara Leonard, is back on the pod for a quick catch up! We talk about our timeline vs. God's timeline, Sara entering her 3rd decade, and she vulnerably shares about her fertility journey.

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  • Eileen Noyes is a dynamic author, speaker, coach, host of The Unsidelined Life Podcast, and the founder of Lady Bellator - a movement dedicated to empowering women to overcome challenges and embrace their God-given purpose. Drawing from her powerful journey as an NFL wife and mother to a blended family of 15 children, Eileen offers authentic insights on resilience, faith, and navigating life’s adversities.

    Today, she shares pieces of her story; including being a mom of 8 children, leaving a marriage and husband who was immersed in a cult, and how she has used her struggles to encourage women to know their worth and identity in Jesus!

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  • Re-sharing another Throwback episode from November of 2022! Enjoy!

    What did you need in your biggest seasons of desperation? Step into that! God can use your story to be someone else's survival guide. No matter how "big" or how "small," that time is NOW to step into our callings!

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  • The girlies are back for a good ol' fashioned catch up session! Melody shares about her travels to Germany, her hubby's new passion project, and what shows she is currently watching!

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  • My girl, Summer Lambert, is BACK!! We talk all about her incredible pregnancy news and what that has looked like, our obsession with Survivor, and how we are surviving life right now!

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  • Jennifer Griffith, author of the deeply moving memoir Both Sides of Then: Finding Love After Abandonment and the host of the popular podcast About Your Mother, which explores the complex dynamics of motherhood, family, and generational trauma. Jennifer's unique perspective comes from her own experience growing up with a mother whose past shaped their relationship in ways she couldn’t fully understand. Through Jennifer's exploration of her mother’s life, she reflects on how trauma can echo through generations, influencing how we relate to ourselves and our families. I really enjoyed our conversation about how everyone's story matters, the impact that your story can have on others, and how our past shapes our future!

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  • Betsy Armstrong, whose memoir, The Mother of All Decisions: A Memoir of Mother Loss, Legacy and Adopting Kids in Midlife, is a story of resilience, hope, and defying the odds. Betsy’s journey began with losing her mother, home, and family at a young age. After years of avoiding the question of legacy, her mother’s death at 46 made her confront what truly mattered. Overcoming grief, Betsy transformed her life, running marathons and quitting a corporate job to live with purpose. Then, at nearly 47, she decided to become a mother through adoption, facing a failed adoption, a Russian courtroom drama, and a medical crisis along the way. Betsy’s story is one of triumph, perseverance, and making the impossible possible!

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