Episodes
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What does it really take to succeed as a top male OnlyFans creator? Today I'm joined by Apollo, one of Australia's leading OnlyFans creators, Porn star, stripper AND male escorts. We dive into the mindset, discipline, and realities behind building a career in the adult industry, covering everything from performance pressure, confidence, and physical conditioning to audience growth and personal relationships.
Apollo shares why a significant portion of his audience is made up of straight men, how he approaches fitness like a professional athlete, and the unique marketing strategies that helped him stand out in female dominated industry. We also discuss the challenges of dating, navigating jealousy when both partners create explicit content, and the unexpected requests that eventually led him from content creation into full-service sex work!
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Madelene is the founder of Nocturnal, a members-only erotic society creating elevated experiences through intimate workshops, erotic cinema nights, and beautifully curated luxury parties in Melbourne.
In this episode, we explore the psychology of desire, modern relationships, and the emotional complexity of entering erotic spaces as a couple. We discuss why these experiences can deepen connection for some relationships and expose fractures in others.
Madelene shares how Nocturnal was born, what draws people into the lifestyle, the importance of communication and consent, and the conversations couples need to have before stepping into these environments.
An intimate and nuanced conversation about sex, trust, fantasy, jealousy, and human connection.
https://www.nocturnalcreatures.com.au/
https://www.instagram.com/nocturnal_____animals/
https://www.instagram.com/bruxaofficial/
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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Kit grew up in a strict Mormon household and left the Church at just 16. After a falling out with her parents left her couch surfing and struggling financially, she took a chance on OnlyFans - and quickly found success. With her distinctive look and a highly engaged fanbase, Kit now earns over $110K per week
Despite holding degrees in mathematics and psychology, sheâs chosen to focus full-time on building her OnlyFans business and personal brand.
In this episode we touch on what it really takes to connect with fans and grow a loyal audience, the unexpected twists in her journey, what sexual oppression at a young age does to girls, how she accidentally got herself a sugar baby, her experience with a male escort and what men are doing wrong when it comes to pleasing woman these days!!
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Journalist by day, high-class escort by night.
Amanda stepped into a double life in her late 30s, becoming âSamantha Xâ after growing bored of the newsroom and craving more money and time with her family.
She was worried her age would hold her back, but quickly discovered the opposite. Building a thriving career, running her own escort agency, and becoming a more confident version of herself.
But when she outed herself on national TV at a time when sex work was still deeply taboo, everything changed.
In this episode, we dive into how she built her Samantha X empire, what sheâd never do again, what she still misses⊠and the reality of life after leaving the industry, when the world knows your name.
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Georgie Percell was elected at just 30 years old, making her the youngest woman in Parliament at the time. Sheâs also one of the most unconventional MPs - refusing to conform to the standard boring suit and openly owning her âcolourfulâ past as a stripper.
We talk about the skills she brought from the strip club to Parliament House, how stripping taught her to advocate for herself and handle difficult men, and why she refuses to hide parts of her story.
We also dive into the constant online harassment she receives for challenging misogynistic industries, the scrutiny women in politics face, especially those who bravely speak out about harassment -and the backlash she experienced for returning to work after her recent pregnancy.
Sex workers are often told that if we do this work, weâll never go on to get a âreal job.â Georgie is living proof that when you own your past, it can actually become your biggest strength.
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To be an âoutâ sex worker is not an easy title to hold because in 95% of the world, itâs a criminal offence. NSW, Australia was the first place in THE WORLD to decriminalise âprostitutionâ - thanks to a few iconic whores, including Julie Bates. She fought for sex worker rights, testified against police corruption and took on organised crime lords to enforce condoms in brothels during the AIDS pandemic during a time where a condom was used as evidence against woman and brothel owners and grounds for arrest!! Sheâs an activist, and icon, recognised by the queen and still a sex worker to this day! Julie bates changed the world for sex workers everywhere and literally saved countless lives through AIDS prevention. Itâs an honour to have her on Make Them Pay
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Tilly Lawless was the first young, Australian woman I followed who spoke publicly and unapologetically about her work in the sex industry. She is highly educated, articulate, and strikingly nonchalant when describing her experiences in brothels or as a private escort. Tilly has transformed her lived experience into two novels and is currently writing a third, all while continuing to work as an escort in Sydney. Although she does not identify as a sex worker advocate, her TED Talks and books have had a profound impact on sex workers and have played a significant role in educating civilians about the realities of the sex industry.
Today, we talk about the impacts of speaking publicly, the scrutiny she received, and how it ultimately led her to step back from the online world. We explore why she never wanted to be a role model, and how she was simply doing what felt right to her, and the high standards forced upon you when you gain an online following
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Join me and Thea Rose from Seggs Talk Radio, as she unveils plans for a new sugar-dating platform, Mila Dating - designed to restore standards and trust in the scene. We get into why existing sites have become oversaturated and unregulated, how FOSTA/SESTA and COVID shifted the market, and the safety-first features Thea is prioritising like secure ID verification for men and transparent income verification for women to reduce catfishing and fraud. Tune in for a fun conversation about what it takes to build a respectful, reliable community from two woman with experience in the field.Join the Waitlist NOW....https://mila.dating
Music by Toby Young & Jacob Long
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After a tragic loss in her teens, Jessica turned to drugs to deal with overwhelming guilt, and sex work to disassociate and become someone else. She worked for a decade in secret, after her parents reaction taught her that no one would ever accept her if she told them what she did.
Now, 10 years out of the industry, Jessica speaks candidly about the long term impacts of shame, stigma and bad experiences she faced during her time in the industry. She opens up about the hard work she had to do to accept herself and learn to love herself unconditionally
Trigger warning: this episode contains references to suicide and drug addiction which some individuals may find distressing, help is always available 24/7
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TRIGGER WARNING: this episode touches on sex trafficking, domestic violence, gang violence and substance abuse
Charlie was coerced into the sex trade as a young teen - unable to escape the people who trafficked her, even after moving across the world. While this story is undeniably dark, Charlieâs ability to survive, heal, and reclaim their life is genuinely inspiring. I had the pleasure of meeting them at one of their workshops, where they helped others work through the deep shame often attached to sex work. I know everyone has something to learn from Charlieâs story, but if this does bring up sensitive themes for you - especially around exploitation, DV or coercion - please take care and listen at your own pace.
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Lily Phillips became one of the most well known Only Fans creators and controversial porn stars of our generation, after her "100 men in a day" challenge. She then went on to break a record by sleeping with 1000 men in one day. Her challenges and stunts, as well as her collaborations with Bonnie Blue, saw her take on a lot of criticism from the wider community as a bad role model for young woman - but since when were adult stars meant to be role models, and why has it fallen on them to educate kids on sex?
In this must-listen episode, Lily Phillips sits down for her deepest interview yet.
Lily opens up about why she doesnât like being compared to Bonnie Blue, her firm belief that sex education needs to happen younger, and why sheâs officially done with challenge-style content.
We dive into:
âą Mental health in the adult industry
âą How she feels about being labeled 'Predator'
âą The importance of female friendships and how theyâve supported her career
âą How to be better in bed and what most people get wrong about sex
âą The effects sex work has had on her relationships
âą The pressure she feels to be a positive role model for young women
âą How she handles criticism on social media
âą Which surgeries sheâs had and her thoughts on cosmetic work
âą What the men who attend her events are REALLY like.
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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This week , I sit down with one of my best friends, Elyse - to catch up on everything Iâve learned over the last six months of Make Them Pay. We dive into the surge of women joining Seeking Arrangements and OnlyFans, the truth about sugar dating, and whether rising awareness of this industry actually helps sex workers. We also talk about setting healthy boundaries, the future of monogamy, navigating sex parties, and whether hiring an escort is the safest option when exploring a threesome. If youâre interested in modern relationships, sex work realities, online dating, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode is for you.
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In this episode, I chat with professional male escort Tommy Hart for an honest and eye-opening discussion about the male escort industry, female pleasure, and the dynamics of modern relationships.
Tommy reveals why many women choose male escorts over casual dating apps, and how couples work with him to reignite intimacy and rekindle sexual chemistry in their relationships. We dive deep into the misconceptions men have about female pleasure, and what both men and women can do to enhance sexual satisfaction and emotional connection.
Tommy also shares the realities of being a male sex worker, why professionalism and boundaries are vital, and how some self-serving motives in the industry can harm clients and trust. Plus, he offers empowering insights on how women can build confidence in the bedroom and improve sexual wellness within their relationships.
If youâre interested in sex and intimacy, relationship advice, or understanding the truth about the escort industry, this is an enlightening conversation you donât want to miss.
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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From the outside it looked like Alexis had the perfect Sugar Daddy, he bought her a car, house, took her overseas to buy award winning horses, she even stopped working to start her dream business - funded by him. But her dreams slowly turned into a nightmare when he went through her phone bill....
Music By Toby Young and Jacob Long
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This weekâs guest is one of my favourite sugar daddies, and heâs here to help me challenge the way people see the men who pay for companionship. Too often, society feeds us the idea that theyâre creepy, disrespectful, or incapable of getting a woman without paying. He gives a very honest insight into why rich men opt for paid companionship over social dating sights,
By the end of this episode, I think youâll agree with us that this is just another myth about the sex industry.
We dive into how we met, what our arrangement looks like, and why he first turned to sex workers during his marriage. He also shares what he would say if his daughter wanted to become a sex worker, and he gives an honest warning about a common trap women should look out for before entering the industry.
Iâm so grateful he was willing to come on and be this open and honest! helping me push back against the shame and stigma that still surround this work and change the representation of the men
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This week Iâm joined by Jade Blair (@jadeblairxox) - a sex worker and advocate with 9 years in the industry. From working as a private escort and in brothels to building her career on OnlyFans, Jade has seen it all. Sheâs volunteered with sex worker advocacy groups across Australia and in 2025 won Best Industry Advocate at the Australian Adult Industry Awards.
We talk about why normalising sex work makes the industry safer, how autism effects her work, the way male clients are just as misrepresented as the sex workers, and the controversial TikTok money counts
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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In this episode, I speak with Dallas Rayne, who has spent 16 years working across the sex industry in Australia. Dallas has done it allâstrip clubs, private escort work, brothels, and even becoming one of Australiaâs most famous porn stars before OnlyFans whipped out the porn industry. We dive into the taboos around sex work, how the industry has impacted her dating life and relationships, and what first inspired her to step into the world of sex work. We also touch on how she became the most awarded sex worker in Australia, holding titles such as Best Female Stripper, Best Private Escort, Best Milf, Hall of fame, Best Australian Porn Star & Alpha Female Industry Leader!
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In 2025, a full time corperate job is still not enough to afford the lifestyle most desire. 'Barbie' was tired of being broke, and wanted to see what is would be like to work part time in a brothel. She's now worked in four of Melbournes brothels, so she knows a thing or ten about red-flag and green-flag establishments, and how to stay safe in this work and in your every day sex life
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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10 years ago I was living a very different life, I moved back to America to be with Texas, but when I arrived, he was no where to be seen. This is when my stint as a call girl started....
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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Have you heard of the Madonna-Whore complex?
This week, we dive into the juicy duality of being both a registered nurse and a stripper - and how society still struggles to accept women who choose both. Kate is a registered nurse, as well as a pole dancer for 20 years, co-owns a pole studio, and founded Haus of GAIA, where she mentors women to reclaim their sexuality and regulate their nervous systems - all grounded in her background in trauma nursing and resuscitation education.
We talk Madonna-Whore complex, sexual expression, breaking rules, and what it really looks like to be a woman who does it all - without apology
Music by Toby Young and Jacob Long
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