Episodes
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A wide-ranging conversation on the burdens women carry and the narratives that sustain them. We discuss a listenerâs story about invisible labor as well as fear and safety, false rape accusations versus sexual violence, gender expectations, and new research that reveals female biology is far more active than weâve been led to believe and more. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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A wide-ranging conversation on the burdens women carry and the narratives that sustain them. We discuss a listenerâs story about invisible labor as well as fear and safety, false rape accusations versus sexual violence, gender expectations, and new research that reveals female biology is far more active than weâve been led to believe and more. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In the first half of this episode, we examine questions like why is sleeping with men considered something that lowers a womanâs valueâŠbut the ultimate insult to a man is that he slept with a man? Why is a drunk woman irresponsible while a drunk man is excused? Why is a woman who prioritizes her career âselfish,â while a man doing the same is âambitiousâ?In the second half of the episode, we take a research-based look at the manosphere, incel ideology, and the growing body of evidence separating loneliness from misogyny. We break down the differences between the red pill, black pill, incels, and the broader manosphere, examine how online grievance communities radicalize vulnerable men, and discuss what the research actually says about hostility toward women. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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Itâs Katieâs birthday, and her best friend is joining us for the episodeâwho also happens to be Jayâs twin sister. The result is laughs, tangents, sibling stories, and unfiltered conversation.This episode we are asking questions. Do women actually talk more than men, or is that just another persistent stereotype? Are womenâs medical procedures reimbursed at lower rates than comparable procedures for men? And why do women often pay more? From prescription medications and car insurance to pink tariffs and other gender-based price disparities?Along the way, we catch ourselves uncovering yet another example of internalized sexism in real time, proving that even when you spend your time examining gender inequality, it still has a way of sneaking up on you.Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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This weekâs episode is a true grab bag of commentary and internet rabbit holes. We react to trending TikToks, including womenâs educational attainment and the decreasing value of college, the enduring sexualization of breasts, why Satan is almost always portrayed as male, and why momma bearâs porridge was too cold. On the news front, we discuss the âthree miscarriage ruleâ and examine a recent case involving a light sentence for a sexual assault perpetrator. We round out the episode discussing sexual assault statistics and a recent study involving men admitting to assault. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode, we unpack the deeper social shift transforming modern relationships: for the first time in history, large numbers of women no longer need marriage for financial survival. As economic dependence declines, relationships are increasingly based on choice rather than necessity, changing what people expect from partners and what makes someone desirable in the dating market.Celeste Davis Substack Article:https://celestemdavis.substack.com/p/the-real-reason-dating-is-so-hard?utm_medium=iosSources & Resources: https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode, we unpack tall poppy syndrome and why ambitious women are still seen as unlikeable, intimidating, or âunladylike.â Using themes from Off With Her Head by Eleanor Herman, we explore how society punishes women for wanting power, success, visibility, and leadership, while rewarding those same traits in men. From historical examples to modern studies, we examine why culture still cuts down women who refuse to stay small.Sources & Resources:https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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TW: details about sexual assault are discussed in this episode. This episode explores sexual coercion, purity culture, and marital rape. Katie shares some of her personal stories, experiences and background. We define key terms, explains the legal realities surrounding consent and spousal assault, and share statistics that highlight how common coercion is. The goal is to give listeners clear language to understand and recognize sexual coercion. Sources & Resources:https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.siteRAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), 24/7. Free and confidential. Online chat at online.rainn.org.National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), or text START to 88788. 24/7, free, confidential.StrongHearts Native Helpline: 1-844-762-8483. Culturally appropriate support for Native Americans and Alaska Natives.Love is Respect (for teens and young adults): 1-866-331-9474 or text LOVEIS to 22522. Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode we discuss language and labor trends. From terms like emasculate and bachelor to the documented pattern of wages dropping as professions become female-dominated, to the breaking 2026 student loan policy that illustrates sexist patterns in real time. The evidence points to a consistent reality: the value of work often shifts based on who is doing it.Sources & Resources: https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode we are diving into a smorgasbord of quick-fire topics from cultural double standards to the narrative that boys are âfalling behind,â to the criminalization of normal biological and trauma responses that women rely on to survive. And yes, we end at the female pinnacle aka orgasm. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode, we talk about our life âhacksâ. We also explore how understanding a partnerâs hormonal cycle can improve empathy, reduce misunderstandings, and strengthen relationships. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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Most of us were raised to believe discipline meant obedience, silence, and control. In this episode, we sit down with Megan Campbell, LCPC and host of I Have Shit to Say, to unpack how traditional discipline mirrors patriarchal power systems and what it costs our kids long term.We talk about positive discipline, behavior as communication, connection before correction, and why emotional regulation matters more than compliance.Whether youâre parenting or unpacking your own childhood, this conversation will not disappoint. Sources & ResourcesI Have Sh!t to Say Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-have-sh-t-to-say/id1871781291 https://sharingperspectives.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/image.pnghttps://apps.apple.com/us/app/positive-discipline/id363488035https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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This episode came out of Katieâs recent spiral over realizing perimenopause and menopause are ahead, and how wildly unprepared most women are for it. We get into symptoms, the silence around it, the research gaps, the lack of real medical education, and why so many women often enter this stage of life blindly.Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode we discuss the recent deaths of Renee Good and Alex Pretti, explore how current political narratives divide us, and confront our own privilege in interpreting events. We might not say all the âright thingsâ in this episode, but we are talking about it because being silent isnât an option at this point. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode we open up about our own mental health journeys: the breakdowns, the misdiagnoses, the burnout, and the slow, painful process of unlearning what the world told us about who we should be.Mental Health Helpline:www.findahelpline.com Neurodivergent Therapist Directory: https://ndtherapists.com Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.sitePinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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Almost everything from cold plunges and diets to GLP-1 drugs, gut microbiomes, and creatine supplementation has been studied primarily on men. In this episode, we break down current trends and how the foundational research often excludes or underrepresents women, and what that means for your health, hormones, and performance. We discuss why the benefits hyped online may not translate the same way for women and how thatâs not womenâs fault.Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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For decades medicine treated men as the standard and women as the exception. In this episode, we uncover how ânormalâ lab ranges, drug doses, and even imaging interpretations have biases and how that legacy still harms women today.Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode we uncover the history of gender bias in the U.S. justice system from jury exclusion and landmark cases to the daily realities of incarceration like limited menstrual products, reproductive neglect and losing parental rights. Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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In this episode, we tackle one of the most weaponized passages in Christian history, 1 Corinthians 14:34-35, the infamous âwomen should remain silent in the churchesâ verse. But what if Paul wasnât commanding silence at all? What if he was quoting and then correcting the Corinthians for trying to muzzle women?We dive into one of the scholarly theories that flips this passage on its head, exploring how context and translation have shaped centuries of gender hierarchy and how theology, power, and patriarchy intersect within the text itself.Sources & Resources https://katieandjayfillmore.my.canva.site Pinkpill Shop:https://pinkpillrx.etsy.com/listing/1790887598 Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/PinkpillRx?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creatorEmail us: [email protected]
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TW: Religious Trauma
In this episode we take on one of the most weaponized passages in the New Testament. We look at how 1 Timothy 2:11-14 has been wielded to shut women up, strip them of authority, and justify systems that keep men in charge. We dig into what was actually happening in Ephesus at the time, why “Paul’s words” weren’t written as a universal gag order on women, and how centuries of mistranslation and church politics turned a contextual warning into a tool of control. - Show more
