Episodes
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The most important relationship you will have is the one you have with yourself, not a mate. Relationships are only as healthy as the people in them, so you must be healthy within yourself for your other relationships to flourish. Before you can relate with someone else, you need to first and foremost relate to God, and then secondly, you need a relationship with yourself. You will only relate to someone else to the extent that you relate to yourself.
Key Points From This Episode:
Why your relationship with yourself is key to other healthy relationships.The consequences of not being able to relate to yourself.When things around you are constantly changing, know that God never changes.Why sociability doesn’t equal relatable. Relatability is often learned through trial and error.Your first relational responsibility. Galatians 4:7; discovering your role as a loved son/ daughter of God.Discovering your rights as a loved son/ daughter of God.You are adopted and not abandoned! How operating out of an orphan spirit can affect your relationships. How your relationship with God impacts your relationship with yourself!Looking at Adam and his relationships between God and Eve. What makes a person ready to be relatable.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Alright, fellas, this episode is for you! Dr. Henry has a special question that she poses to all the men: “Are You a Man?” God specifically uses the word man, instead of husband, when he talks about finding a wife. Dr. Henry shares great insights into why maturity is essential in being a man and how that relates to dating a real, solid, and stable woman. Don’t miss out, tune in now.
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Dr. Henry introduces the question, posed to the fellas, for today’s episode. 1 Cor 13:11; are you mature or are you still being childish?Why God didn’t say a husband found a wife but used the word man.She talks about the God-given purpose of a man.Why it takes maturity to take the weight of a real, solid, and stable, woman.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Ladies, do you ever feel a sense of hostility towards men because they haven’t made you a wife? How would you feel if we told you that your perspective is wrong? In this episode of Relationality, we are asking the important question: are you a wife? You will hear all about why it is not a man’s responsibility to make you into a wife, why you need to have positive personality traits and behaviors, how to be God’s type of woman, and so much more! If you have ever felt antagonistic because you don’t have a ring yet, this episode is for you!
Key Points From This Episode:
A question for the ladies: are you a wife? Why a woman should already be functioning as a wife before she is found by a man.Why you need to be ‘a good thing’ rather than being mean and bitter. The importance of asking yourself if you are a wife before being dogmatic towards men. What the Bible describes a wife to be and what God’s type of woman is.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Divorcees, where you at? This one's for you! Divorce can leave you feeling as if you’ve let yourself and God down. But the end of your marriage does not mean it is the end of your life, nor will you be forsaken by our Father, The Most High. In today’s episode of Relationship Revelation, we discuss how religious society makes you believe that divorce is irredeemable, how there is only one sin that is not covered by the blood of Jesus, how scripture affirms certain instances when divorce is necessary, and why we need to listen to God when he warns us of bad relationships. Ultimately, both you and your partner should be right with and blessed by God before marriage, but divorce should not be feared if it means saving your life.
Key Points From This Episode:
How divorce can make you feel like you’ve let yourself and God down. The problems with many religious communities’ view of marriage. How blasphemy of the Holy Spirit is the only sin that is not covered by the blood of Jesus. Why the breaking of covenant is what displeases God about divorce.How divorce is necessary under certain circumstances, even within a scriptural context. Mark 10:2-8; divorce is a reality but not God’s original design for humanity.The importance of listening to God when he warns you of a bad relationship. Why the relationship must be blessed, and you should both be right with God before marriage.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Attitude is one of the main things that causes a lot of friction in a relationship. Today’s episode of Relationality is about Believer Beatitudes. Do you need an attitude adjustment? In Matthew 5:1-11 Jesus preached one of His famous messages all about a great relationship principle, having the right attitude! Tune in to hear from Dr. Henry as she runs through the Beatitudes and how they relate to our relationships. Part of a healthy relationship is two whole individuals with their attitudes in check. Don’t miss out!
Key Points From This Episode:
Matthew 5:1-11; a great relationship principle about having the right attitude. Why we need to focus on the “be” — a healthy representation of Him!Dr. Henry goes through the nine Beatitudes and how they relate to relationships. When you have these Beatitudes you and your relationships will be blessed!Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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We are back with another episode of Relationality, where Dr. Henry shares foundational truths for healthy relationships! In this episode, we talk about Bae Bondage. God does not send us to do missionary dating to help set people free. If we connect with someone who is in bondage, we often fall under that same bondage. Stay tuned as Dr. Henry shares some insightful truths on what we need to be aware of when entering relationships and how we can become free of bondage! Don’t miss out!
Key Points From This Episode:
Types and shadows [biblical] carry symbolic value. The meaning of bondage and how it ties in with sin.How we are in bondage to different things; our soul is still lurking with old nature things.How we can become free of bondage.How bondage impacts our relationships. God’s heart for you and your relationships. Generational curses and sin bondage. Why you want to date a bondage breaker, not a bondage maker!Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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In today’s episode Dr. Gwen answers the question, 'Why do I get married?' She discusses the impact society has had on the institution of marriage and why we need to realize that God instituted marriage, and that what is from God is good! She also shares some healthy and unhealthy reasons to reflect on before you decide to get married. Don’t miss out, so tune in now!
Key Points From This Episode:
An introduction to the question discussed in today’s episode, 'Why do I get married?' The impact of today’s society on the institution of marriage.Since marriage is a God thing, it is a good thing!Dr. Gwen shares unhealthy reasons behind getting married. Healthy reasons to consider when thinking about getting married.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Our topic today is trust trauma, something all of us have some experience with, especially in relationships. Trust in relationships is earned and not just freely given at the beginning, so a good rule is to test before you trust. We can oftentimes be shielded from all that God has and is because of our own trauma with trust, but if we keep in mind that God cannot lie, we can be set at ease because, by His living and active word. So ladies and gents, test the hand before the heart and let those partners earn your trust.
Key Points From This Episode:
A story about trust being breached in Dr. Henry’s own relationship experience. Why having trust trauma from people gets in the way of trusting God.How trust has to be earned in relationships. An interesting fact about how female eagles choose their mates. The Bible says to love, not trust, with all your heart.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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God created us as triad human beings, meaning that we are made up of three parts, namely, spirit, soul, and body. And while our body may seem the most real to us, it is our soul that truly shapes who we are. In today’s episode, we discuss how past traumas create soul holes, how suppression prevents us from healing, and how we can find a way to be whole again by releasing our pain. Join in today for this life-giving conversation and let your suppressed soul be whole!
Key Points From This Episode:
How God created us to consist of three parts: spirit, soul, and body. Understanding your soul and the way it shapes how you see yourself.How past trauma can affect our soul.The concept of soul holes and the impact they have on our lives.Why so many people suppress their soul wounds.How suppression can prevent you from healing and becoming whole.Why soul wounds don’t die, they multiply.How a beautiful body can obscure a wounded soul.Dr. Henry talks about Philippians 2:12.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Many folks shy away from talking about sex, whether it’s at home or church. But the truth is that God would not have created sex if it wasn’t good for us. Today on the show, we discuss the concept of biblical sexuality, the importance of education around sex, and how God intended for us to express sexual love. Make sure you tune in for this candid episode on love, sex, and how to heal from past indiscretions.
Key Points From This Episode:
Why the church struggles to discuss issues around sex. Why sex education is so important.The concept of biblical sexuality and how sex has been perverted by the enemy.A reminder that sex, and sexual desire, is not a bad, or sinful, thing.When desire becomes lust and how it opens the door for demonic spirits.An overview of statistics on STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) in the US.Why sex outside of marriage is harmful to your spirit.Understanding STDs as Sexually Transmitted Demons.Dr. Henry discusses First Corinthians 6:15 - 20 in relation to sexual immorality.Why the devil doesn’t want you to be free.Practical tips to go through deliverance if you have had sex outside of marriage.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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A rewarding relationship is the result of hard work. Today on the podcast, we talk about Lazy Love. Dr. Henry shares thoughts on the impact on a relationship due to a lazily built foundation. She shares scripture-based advice about putting in the work to see your relationships thrive. Anything worth having will require work. Don’t miss out on this episode, so tune in now.
Key Points From This Episode:
How two people coming together is a clash of cultures. The importance of patiently building together.The consequences of a lazy person.The parallel of the story of the two builders. Why you need to put in the work to lay a solid foundation for your relationships. Dr. Henry talks about Proverbs 6:10-11.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Before embarking on anything big in life, most people typically do their homework. For some reason, however, this doesn’t usually seem to be the case when it comes to relationships. In this episode, we talk about home “heart” work and why it’s so necessary to do this before starting a relationship. You’ll learn how to examine your heart, why you should ask God to examine your heart too, and how to go about researching the heart of the person you want to date. Dr. Gwen believes that if you want to attract a healthy person, then you have to do your heart work so you can become a healthy person yourself. Tune in today to find out how!
Key Points From This Episode:
How people do their homework before embarking on anything big, except relationships.The definition of home “heart” work.How the bible tells us to “examine ourselves.”The problem of finding fault in the other person in a relationship.How, after searching yourself, you should ask God to do some research on you.What Dr. Gwen learned about herself when she did this.How confronting your flaws doesn’t excuse the hurt that others may have inflicted on you.Why you want to research the heart of the person you want to date. How to search someone else’s heart according to the bible.Why this is relative to dating.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Twitter
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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To thine own self, be true. A profound statement made by the English poet, William Shakespeare. This saying should be a motto because if it’s not a reality for you, how can you be true to anyone else? Join today’s episode to hear from Dr. Henry as she talks about the importance of knowing who the true you is and why it’s imperative to healthy relationships. She also shares six powerful questions to unlock the true you. Tune in now!
Key Points From This Episode:
The importance of being honest with and about yourself.Dr. Henry shares one of David’s prayers regarding truth (Psalm 51:6).A personal dating story from Dr. Henry.What true leadership looks like.The role of honesty and truth with intimacy. Six powerful questions to unlock the true you.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Love is not a feeling, an emotion, or lip service, so what is it? In today’s episode, Dr. Henry addresses the question — What’s love got to do with it? Before we can fully understand the answer to this question, we have to understand the definition of what love is and what it is not. Join Dr. Henry as she takes listeners through the foundations that are essential for successful relationships and leads us through the answer to the question regarding love!
Key Points From This Episode:
What love is not.What love is.Dr. Henry answers our question: What’s love got to do with it?Why we were created.The short version of 1 Corinthians 13.Why love is not an absolute necessity.What is really needed for a successful relationship.Why marriage is more than just a legal contract.Why having knowledge, general and specific, is key to a healthy relationship.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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It is with good reason that God resists the prideful. Being prideful is a dangerous state to be in because it glorifies itself when all glory belongs to God. Pride makes you behave in a way that is conceited and filled with superiority. Pride is also destructive and disastrous in any relationship. Many of us have had to deal with prideful people in our lives, and if you want to be in a healthy relationship, then you need to banish the prideful. In today’s episode, we reflect on the pitfalls of pride, the conflict it causes, and unpack why pride always leads to a collision. Join us today for a fruitful discussion on how to deal with pride and create a healthy relationship that grows gracefully!
Key Points From This Episode:
What Proverbs teaches us about why God does not tolerate pride.Why being prideful is so dangerous.Why you cannot have a prosperous relationship with someone who is prideful.How pride will cause conflict in your relationships.How pride prevents you from having a healthy relationship.Three evils that pride can lead to: self-deception, hard-heartedness, and strife.How pride differs from having healthy self-esteem.Why pride always leads to a collision.How to have a graceful relationship.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Relationship Revelation Episode 16 | A Hard Heart is Hard
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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In Luke 4:18 Jesus states that he came to mend broken hearts. Whenever we as human beings engage in a relationship, we are creating an emotional bond. And while these emotional bonds can bring us immense joy, it also leaves us vulnerable to pain, rejection, and abuse. In today’s episode, we explore the trauma of a broken heart, its impact on our lives, and how we can begin to heal. We reflect on the immense value that God places on relationships, and why we should do everything in our power to mend our relationships with our loved ones. Tune in for a profound discussion on the impact of trauma and how to heal a broken heart.
Key Points From This Episode:
Why a broken heart is akin to a broken life.How Jesus came to us to mend broken hearts.The depth of damage that verbal and emotional abuse causes.Why it takes so much time to mend a broken heart.How trauma fractures the soul.God’s views on divorce, and why we need to mend fellowships that are broken.An overview of three basic traumas: a crushed spirit, a hurt soul, and a broken heart.How past trauma can affect our current relationships.How you can begin to heal the trauma of your past.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Sometimes, it is not what we say, but how we say it, that makes an impression. Welcome! This episode is more specifically geared towards the ladies, but fellas, you can learn it and share it with the women in your world! How we, as ladies, dress, is an expression of our spirit and soul’s DNA. As women of the kingdom, we want to dress to express godliness. Stay tuned for more real and relative truths from Dr. Gwen. Enjoy!
Key Points From This Episode:
How what we, as ladies, wear is an expression of our spirit and soul’s DNA.How what we wear is perceived by those around us.How dressing to express relates to relationships. Why you can still look good; but dress to express godliness.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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Connection in the world is not like the connection in the Kingdom. Covenant not contract will be the topic of today’s episode! Welcome back to another episode of Relationality, where Dr. Gwen lays down foundational truths for healthy relationships. Being in a covenant is the willingness to put aside your DNA and bring together a corporate DNA. Tune in as Dr. Gwen talks us through the difference between contract and covenant, what a covenant requires from you, and more!
Key Points From This Episode:
The different principles contract versus covenant are based on. What makes loyalty, loyalty; consider the cost.What to consider when committing to a covenant. Anything that is tested can be trusted.God is institutional.Different levels of covenant. What it means to be in a covenant.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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As believers, prayer is one of our inheritances. The Bible says we can come boldly to the throne of God to obtain mercy and find grace in the time of our need. Prayer is the communication line between heaven and earth, and it requires both speaking and listening. There are many types of prayer, and there are principles that go with prayer. It’s important to know whether your partner can pray because prayer is a key foundation of a relationship. Does Bae have both earthly moves and the prayer ability to move heaven? Tune in to hear more about prayer and the role it plays in your relationships.
Key Points From This Episode:
As a believer, prayer is one of our inheritances thanks to Jesus who tore the veil.Luke 18:1; we should always pray. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 says pray without ceasing. Prayer is the dialogue between heaven and earth.Prayer requires speaking and listening.Dr. Gwen shares the different types of prayers.How prayer invites God into your relationship. Why you want a partner that knows how to pray and touch heaven. If you can’t pray, you have nothing to say. Mark 11:25; prayer should be a non-negotiable.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
Relationality Podcast
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In the Kingdom, you have to die in order to live. Matthew 16:25, the focus verse of today’s episode, explains a Kingdom principle that must be applied in relationships in order for relationships to be healthy. Being selfless requires sacrifice, and people don’t like sacrifice because it doesn’t feel good to our fleshly nature. Everyone wants a loving, living, relationship, and it seems that no one is willing to die, but we need to remember that life in the kingdom comes after death. Tune in as Dr. Gwen shares more about why “me, myself, and I” has to die for you to see a healthy, thriving relationship. Enjoy.
Key Points From This Episode:
Today’s focus; me, myself, and I has to die.The verse for the episode: Matthew 16:25.Paul’s dissertation on love: 1 Corinthians 13.Why sacrifice is necessary for relationships to survive. Losing yourself doesn’t mean not being yourself; lose the agenda of selfishness. 2 Timothy 3: the last days has people walking around as lovers of themselves. The test of self-will in a relationship. Are you willing to follow through [a relationship] when it requires sacrifice? Self-will leads to destruction.Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Gwendolyn Global
Dr. Gwen on Instagram
Dr. Gwen on Facebook
Dr. Gwen's Email
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