Episodes
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She's back for a record-breaking THIRD time on the podcast because that's how much I love this Enneagram ninja. That's right, I'm talking about Caryn Berley. Today she teaches us about the Type 9's Habit of Attention - our tendency to focus on others' agendas as an adaptive strategy (an autopilot setting, if you will) to help protect us from engaging too closely with our woundedness. We discuss the what, how, and why of our Habit of Attention, and what we can do about it throughout our growth journey.
Fascinating, no?
BTW...
Did you miss Nines Rising, our virtual retreat for Type 9s? Tickets are still available for our retreat bonus session with Caryn Berley on June 11th, held virtually from 7:30 pm - 9:00 pm EST. Included with your ticket is a recording of the Nines Rising retreat that was held on 5/4/2024. Purchase your ticket and recording at www.Enneagram9.com.
Connect with Caryn:
www.CarynBerley.com
@carynberley
Connect with Kimberly:
www.enneagram9.com
www.kimberlyeclipse.com
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I'm posting today's episode on Mother's Day because this conversation is a Badass Mother F*cker. I'm super proud of this baby right here. You MUST listen. That's an order!
This panel discussion took place at Nines Rising 2022 and it contains the beautiful, raw, heartwrenching testimonies of Peacemakers with different dominant wings and subtypes. We explore the heart center of intelligence - in other words, we talk about what it's like to FEEL all the FEELINGS. (Gulp!)
PS. If we missed you at Nines Rising 2024 on May 4th, you've got another shot at experiencing it! You can purchase a recording of the event PLUS grab a ticket to our bonus session on June 11th, 2024 from 7:30 - 9:00 PM (EST). Picture a "mini" version of our retreat, with a Q+A and live coaching with Caryn Berley. Head to Enneagram9.com for more info.
IG: @the_enneagram9_show
Astrology Readings for Type 9s: www.KimberlyEclipse.com
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Exciting news! I'm giving away a FREE ticket to Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Type 9s! It's just one week away, on Saturday, May 4th.
Here's how to enter:
1. Follow the podcast on your favorite podcast player.
2. Leave a rating + written review.
3. Screenshot your review and send it to me via email ([email protected]) or via Instagram (@the_enneagram9_show).
A winner will be randomly selected on Tuesday, April 30th. They will be notified via the method used to submit their screenshot.
If you'd like to skip the giveaway and grab your ticket, head to www.enneagram9.com and use the discount code "PODCAST25" at checkout for 25% off.
In this episode, I also share some negative/ constructive feedback I recently received about my personality, and the crucial questions we 9s should ask ourselves, especially after being critiqued. -
She's back! Holly Perez joins us once again to discuss the concept of leadership from within, specifically in the area of work. As an entrepreneur with a full-time day job in the corporate world, she shares what it looks like for a Type 9 to be BOSS.
Why getting clarity, prioritizing, and decision-making are so challenging for 9s.How action-taking, somatic work, joining co-working/ accountability groups, and even astrology help Holly overcome Type 9 challenges she experiences as a business owner and corporate employee.What leadership and boldness look like for a Type 9.What she learned about her 9-ness from years of attending leadership summer camp for kids.What it was like to be coached live in front of an audience during Nines Rising, a virtual retreat for Type 9s.
We discuss:Tickets are still available for Nines Rising, a virtual retreat for Type 9s, on Saturday, May 4th (plus a bonus session in June). Visit www.Enneagram9.com for more info. For 25% off your ticket, use code "PODCAST25" at checkout.
Find Holly here:
H.A.P. Organizing
@haporganizing
Find Kimberly here:
www.Enneagram9.com
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This one's for the Master Mergers out there -- the 9s who habitually and unconsciously adopt people's needs, desires, preferences, opinions, and even communication styles as a way to maintain connection with others, thus creating an internal sense of harmony within themselves.
The simple, one-liner magic bullet that will help with mergingThe 2 keys (well, 2.5 keys) to unlock the magic bulletHow this all ties in with Nines Rising, our virtual retreat for Type 9's on Saturday, May 4th
In this episode, I share:Get more info on Nines Rising and purchase your ticket at www.enneagram9.com. Use the discount code "PODCAST25" at checkout for 25% off the price of admission.
Keep in touch!
Email: [email protected]
Website: www.enneagram9.com
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Welcome to your weekly therapy session - no co-pay required! This is a can't-miss conversation with Enneagram-Informed Marriage and Family Therapist Michael Shahan.
The meaning behind one of Michael's guiding principles: You're Not What's Wrong With YouWhat growth looks like for Nines while in therapyWhat holds Nines back from growing while in therapyPractical tips to help you through your next "shame spiral"Why paying attention to your body is so important for NinesThe different manifestations of staying small and the ugly truth about how this impacts otherspersonal wins and challenges that Michael and I have experienced as Nines
We discuss:...and so much more!
Tickets for Nines Rising (a virtual retreat for Type 9s) are available at www.Enneagram9.com. Use code "podcast25" at checkout for 25% off!
Michael Shahan:
www.MichaelShahan.com
@MichaelShahan_Therapy
Kimberly Eclipse:
www.KimberlyEclipse.com
www.Enneagram9.com
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I'm back! I accidentally took a year-and-a-half-long bathroom break but am pumped for Season 3 of the show.
An intuitively channeled Letter from Love for Type 9sHow my relationships have turned upside-down as a result of the Type 9 growth I experienced in my time away from the podcastA special invitation to Nines Rising 2024 - a virtual retreat for Type 9s on May 4th, 2024! I'm offering 25% off to Early Bird 9s who grab their seat by Monday, 4/1 at midnight (PST). Head to www.Enneagram9.com for all the details and use the code "Podcast25" at checkout.
In this episode I share:
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Hey, 9s. I didn't see this mid-season pause happening, but here it is. Listen to find out what's going down, and make sure you keep in touch (follow/ subscribe to the podcast + find me on IG) because I'm whipping up some pretty cool stuff for you upon my return.
Tickets are still available for Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Peacemakers happening this Saturday, 11/5. Grab your ticket at www.enneagram9.com.
Keep in touch:
www.enneagram9.com
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This one's short and sweet. Nines around the interwebs helped to create this list of best careers/ day jobs for Type 9s according to their own lived experience.
And what the heck is a peace bucket, you ask? Come listen and find out!
Tickets are still available for Nines Rising, a virtual retreat for Peacemakers. Grab your ticket at www.Enneagram9.com.
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Hey, Nines! I recently asked Type 9s what their biggest challenge is when navigating adult friendships, and in this episode, I share their answers and stories.
In part 2 of this series, which will be aired next week, I'll share some thoughts on moving through these challenges. For now, take a listen and see which of these testimonials you can relate to.
Have you grabbed your ticket to Nines Rising, my virtual retreat for Type 9s? No? Whaaat? Whyyyy? For more info or to save your spot, visit www.Enneagram9.com.
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Finally! Our first Type 9 panel!
the story of how they typed themselves as 9show the perpetual yearning for perpetual peace and harmony shows up in their liveswhat the fear of loss and separation looks like in their relationshipsand what it's like to lack clarity, and certainty around their own identity at the very different seasons of life they're in
I've gathered a diverse group of Peacemakers ranging from college-age to their fifties, who open up about:This is a great episode if you want to hear from people who struggle with the same challenges you struggle with, and if you want to learn more about what it means to be a 9 in the real world.
Grab your ticket to Nines Rising (a virtual retreat for Type 9s): www.Enneagram9.comBook a Type 9 Astrology Reading with Kimberly here.Connect on Instagram: @the_Enneagram9_showRate + review the show if you like what you're hearing!
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Hey, 9s! This is a can't-miss episode that blends Type 9 basics with deep conversation about how differently each Nine experiences life and engages with the world.
The wake-up call Lee experienced that prepared her to fully receive and embrace the Enneagram as a powerful tool for growthWhy Lee initially dismissed the possibility of being a Type 9 in her early days of studying the Enneagram Type 9 basics: common names, traits, core needs/ desires/ fears, and wingsA peek behind the curtain of Kimberly's messy dance with anger What it looks like to be a 9 wing 1 vs. 9 wing 8The Type 9 stereotypes that don't resonate with LeeFactors that color your unique expression of 9-nessPositivity and "9-fine"Leaks and Tabs: how we experience and collect thoughts and feelingsLee's biggest wins and toughest challenges as a 9 this yearThe capacity to hold space for the emotions of others -- and hold IN our own emotions
I'm interviewing certified Enneagram teacher and coach Lee Milligan, a social 9 wing 8. FUN FACT: Lee will be a panelist at Nines Rising, a virtual retreat just for 9s! Grab your ticket here.
During our chat we discuss:Grab your ticket to the Nines Rising virtual retreat at www.Enneagram9.com. Use promo code "Podcast20" for $20 off through 9/28/22.
Connect with Lee:
www.LeeMilligan.co
Instagram: @ritualenneagram or @enneagramtypecast
Podcast: Enneagram Typecast
Connect with Kimberly:
Book an Enneagram 9 Astrology Reading here.
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So you came back for more, huh? Welcome to Season 2 of The Enneagram 9 Show!
Why I had to change the podcast title again A big announcement: I'm hosting the world's first EVER virtual retreat just for Type 9s! You MUST attend. That's an order. :) Listen for all the details on how to grab your ticket to Nines Rising on November 5th, 2022.Why growth for 9s looks and feels terrible -- and what to do about ithow you can get $20 off your ticket to the Nines Rising retreat!
In this episode, I dive into:Nines Rising retreat info + tickets: www.Enneagram9.com
IG: @the_enneagram9_show
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Surprise! We've reached the Season Finale. Believe me, I'm as surprised as you are. You'll definitely want to check out this episode because not only am I sharing some behind-the-scenes fun facts and thoughts, but I'll be unveiling what's in store for Season 2 and how YOU can be involved in it!
If you'd like to participate in one of our Type 9 panel conversations to be aired in Season 2, reach out to me via IG or email. I'd love to have you!
E-mail: [email protected]
Instagram: @kimberly.eclipse
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Hey, 9s! I just woke up and rolled out of bed to record this episode, so I'm keeping this description short and sweet. I review the Top 5 Regrets of the Dying (a powerful book by Bronnie Ware), identify the regrets many 9s resonate with, discuss my own big life regrets, and talk about what we Peacemakers can do to live a more courageous, engaged, full life.
www.KimberlyEclipse.com
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Hey, Fellow 9s! In today's mini episode, I encourage you to ditch the shame you have around your troubles with consistency and aim for a different (but related) goal instead.
www.KimberlyEclipse.com
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Introducing my Summer Booty Shorts Series! Each week during the summer, I'll drop short and punchy mini-episodes to get you thinking, feeling, and taking action.
In this episode, I share the heartbreaking, profound, and eloquent thoughts of a Peacemaker pal I met in a Facebook group for 9s. Take a listen to what he's identified as his hidden agenda as a (social) Type 9.
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Hey, Friends! Guess what. The listeners have spoken and I happen to agree with them. This podcast has gone back to being a show for Type 9s!
I'm switching to a weekly publishing schedule! New episodes will drop every Tuesday.Get ready for my Summer Shorty Series (mini-episodes to feed your Peacemaker soul)Longer format interviews and solo casts will resume in the fall.
Other happy news:In this episode I discuss:
Why desire is such a scary, seemingly dangerous idea for 9sWhy I gave into fear and changed the focus of this podcast, and why desire brought me back on trackCapital "D" Desires vs. Lower Case "D" DesiresThe triggering story we tell ourselves about desireWhy desire is more important than willpower and discipline Why it's important to manage our energy resources wisely, prioritizing desireWhy being crystal clear about our desires-- then talking about them, obsessing over them, and speaking them out loud-- is the muscle we need to strengthen as 9sConnect with Kimberly | Book a Type 9 Astrology/ Intuitive Card Reading:
www.KimberlyEclipse.com
Instagram: @kimberly.eclipse - Show more