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Pride season is supposed to be all glitter, joy, and celebration—but for many, it can bring up waves of anxiety, loneliness, and even depression. So how do you keep your spirit lifted when everyone else seems to be riding rainbows, and you’re just trying to stay afloat?
In this powerful and heart-centered episode, we’re joined by the fabulous Will Dempsey—licensed social worker, drag queen, and fierce queer mental health advocate from Heads Held High Counseling. Together, we explore how to protect your peace and prioritize your mental health during Pride and beyond.
Will dives into:
• How to climb out of the emotional rabbit hole when anxiety and depression pull you down
• The importance of connection and chosen family in healing and self-discovery
• Ways to activate your pride—not just as a celebration, but as a tool for transformationWhether Pride fills you with sparkle or feels a little heavy this year, this episode is your permission slip to feel it all, find your people, and lift your head high.
About WillWill Dempsey is a social worker, drag queen and queer rights advocate. He is the founder of Heads Held High Counseling, a LGBTQIA+ virtual group therapy practice supporting queer and trans individuals across Massachusetts and Illinois.Will's innovative approach to social work seamlessly blends his creative flair with his commitment to advocacy, making mental health care both accessible and affirming for marginalized communities.Connect With WillWebsiteInstagramFacebookLinkedInHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rahim Thawer (he/him)—psychotherapist, educator, and queer Muslim thought leader—joins us to unpack what sets queer men apart from our straight counterparts. From anticipating rejection in dating and navigating body image pressures, to managing our sexual health with a unique blend of hypervigilance and shame, Rahim explores how systemic oppression shapes the queer male experience. Drawing from his clinical work and upcoming book The Mental Health Guide for Cis and Trans Queer Guys, Rahim reminds us that our differences are
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Today the word "Christian" is polarizing. In fact for many it conjures up words like hate, nationalism, evil, fear. WOW...it should not. Then couple that word with Queer, and you might as well be burned at the stake! Let's not do that. Instead, let's invite Queer Christians to the table to embrace their love of goad and faith, and invite others who do not believe you deserve a place at the table, to have human conversations to change that hate, to love.Repeat podcast guest, Rev. Brandan Robertson joins us today to share his new book Queer and Christian: Reclaiming The Bible, Faith, Our Faith, and Our place At The Table - a joyful celebration of queer faith.In this episode: Discover calm, peaceful, empathetic conversations with the extreme Christians are necessary Learn why coming to church is an act of community and activism Uncover the right questions to ask to reclaim your faith in yourself and your community
About BrandanRev. Brandan Robertson is a noted author, activist, and public theologian, dedicated to exploring the intersections of spirituality, sexuality, and social justice. He serves as the Pastor of Sunnyside Reformed Church in New York City and is the founder and Executive Director of The Devout Foundation.Known as the "TikTok Pastor," Robertson's inclusive theological content reaches over 250,000 followers and has garnered 6 million views. He has authored 23 books, including the INDIES Book of the Year finalist True Inclusion. His work has been featured in TIME Magazine, CNN, and The Washington Post.Robertson is a sought-after speaker who regularly presents at prestigious platforms like The White House and Oxford University, continuing to inspire and challenge audiences around the world. Robertson acquired a Bachelor of Arts in Pastoral Ministry and Biblical Studies from Moody Bible Institute, an Master of Theological Study from Iliff School of Theology, and an Master of Arts in Political Science and Public Administration from Eastern Illinois University.He's presently pursuing aPhD in Biblical Studies at Drew University. He currently resides in New York City.About The BookCelebrate queer faith and take your rightful place at God’s table with Brandan Robertson, the “TikTok Pastor,” Biblical scholar, and social activistFor too long, the Bible has been weaponized to exclude LGBTQ+ individuals, despite Jesus’ radical message of inclusion. In Queer & Christian, Brandan Robertson envisions a faith where all are unequivocally embraced.Ostracized at school, Brandan thought he had finally found his community when he joined the local church. But he soon realized that they were as intolerant as his peers at school had been—if not more so. After agonizing years of repressing his true identity, he discovered that God’s table had always had a place for him. Jesus’ love knows no bounds, embracing everyone unconditionally.Queer & Christian is a joyful celebration of queer faith and an unyielding reclamation of the Bible. Dive into pages that offer:-Compelling, evidence-based counterarguments to the “clobber verses” often used to condemn queerness-Celebrations of queer saints within the Bible—more numerous than you might believe!-Responses to commonly asked questions by queer folks and allies who’re feeling lost within the Christian faithConnect With BrandanWebsiteInstagramTikTokHey Guys, Check This Out!... -
Maybe you find yourself bored in your couple. Then you decide playing together with another guy could be fun...and it is. Then you decide that maybe having another guy in the middle (so to speak) on a permanent basis will make your relationship thrive (so to speak). And then it doesn't! Helping us explore this whole concept of the Throuple live, is TV producer and Author Jeff Hudson, sharing his brand new book, Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple.In this episode: Discover what can make and break your Throuple Learn how to love yourself enough to move on Find the pathway forward after an longterm relationship becomes the past
About JeffJeff Hudson is a six-time Emmy nominated television producer and won the award for Best Informative Talk Show for the daytime medical series The Doctors in 2010. Jeff has developed and produced an array of reality, talk, and documentary-style programming including MTV’s Fanatic, HGTV’s Deserving Design, Soapnet’s Soap Talk, plus the syndicated series’ Elimidate and The Montel Williams Show, just to name a few.Jeff’s experience with highlighting stories of real people throughout his career has ultimately led him to this very moment—telling a very real, a very honest, and very raw story about himself. As a true advocate for non-monogamous relationships, Jeff made the decision to give a third man equal footing in his already existing 22-year partnership. BAM. POW. OH YEAH. WTF? After his mind-bending throuple experience, Jeff was cast on The CW’s dating show The Matchmaker. Did he find true love again? Or did his polyamorous relationship completely dismantle his life as he once knew it?Jeff is ready to reveal ALL and is available for interviews about his new book Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple.Connect With JeffInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Navigating gay relationships isn't easy, but it can be worth it. Yet, for most gay men, that 1st breakup can be a doozy and waht we often don't realized is where that pain is rooted...it's not where you think. Shedding light on how to overcome trauma, is RTT Therapy specialist, Lonay Halloum, who guides us to explore a powerful therapy technique for navigating relationship pain in a new way.In this episode: Discover a pathway for overcoming self sabotage Learn three key pillars a stellar relationship Discover what RTT therapy is and how it can support you in releasing old habits
About LonayAs a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community myself, I know firsthand the journey of navigating heartbreak and toxic relationship patterns. It’s this personal experience that fuels my passion for guiding others towards healing and transformation.My upbringing in a war country, as well as being gay, I intimately understand the struggles and challenges that can arise from navigating one’s identity and acceptance. The journey to self-acceptance can be fraught with societal expectations, internalized shame, and the fear of rejection. These experiences can deeply impact our sense of worthiness and affect our relationships, particularly our love lives.Through my own journey of embracing my identity and overcoming societal norms, and as a certified RTT practitioner and hypnotherapist, I’ve developed a profound empathy and insight into the unique experiences and traumas faced by individuals within the LGBTQ+ community.I’m dedicated to providing a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their authentic selves, heal from past wounds, and cultivate fulfilling and authentic relationships.Connect With LonayWebsiteInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Relationships are messy - gay or straight! So what happens when you have that candid conversation with your spouse, letting her know that your biseuxal, but you mutually decide that for the betterment of each other, your family, and your future to have a non-monogamous open marriage? What could go wrong? What could go right?Today's guest, and debut Author Wayne Scott, shares about his journey as a bisexual man, and how he and his spouse have navigate "The Maps They Gave Us - One Marriage Reimagined.In this podcast you'll learn: How to make your marriage or relationship, anything you want it to be Two lessons that have had the most profound impact on his relationship Why divorce should not be a social evil
Tune in now & get your non-monogamy insights for making it work.About WayneWAYNE SCOTT’s essays have appeared in numerous publications, including The New York Times, Huffington Post, The Sun, and The University of Chicago Magazine. His New York Times essay “Two Open Marriages in One Small Room” was adapted for the Modern Love podcast in 2021 and eventually “dutchified” for Modern Love (2022), a TV adaptation based in Amsterdam. Scott was also a Tin House Fellow in 2019. He continues to use his voice to inspire others to live and think outside of the bounds of normativity.Connect With WayneWebsiteHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Financial uncertainty in 2025? Don’t panic—David Lester, TV money expert, coach, and author, is here to help! Known as "Your Money Gay Best Friend" (MGBF), David dishes out tough love, smart money moves, and a little fabulous flair to get your finances in check.Key lessons you'll learn: How to build a rock-solid money mindset Smart strategies for navigating financial uncertainty Why investing in FREE entertainment saves you more than just money
Tune in now & get your financial glow-up!About DavidAs Americans brace for financial uncertainty in 2025, David Lester, a proud and out TV money expert, financial coach, and two-time author, is here to help listeners tackle their finances with his signature blend of expertise, humor, and practical advice. Known as “Your Money Gay Best Friend” (MGBF), David tells it like it is—offering tough love and fabulous financial fixes to help everyone create their dream money mindset.With over 20 years of experience working with top financial institutions like Merrill Lynch and RBC, and media appearances on CBS, FOX, BNN, and more, David is a go-to authority on personal finance. He’s written I Heart Money and From Middle Class to Millionaire, and his insights have been featured in CNBC, VICE Money, HuffPost, and Entrepreneur. Recently, he taught “Art as an Investment” at Christie’s HQ in London, blending his expertise in alternative investments like art with traditional financial strategies.Connect With DavidWebsiteInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Connection. We all yearn for it in different ways - personally, professionally, and erotically. Plus, connection in so many other ways. Yet what happened for me over a 4-day Connect Retreat with Court Vox - Certified Intimacy and Sex coach, was surprising, intriguing, scary, exiting, and led me places I never would have imagined - in all areas of my life.Today I share my raw truths, experiences, and insights in this episode. You'll discover: The truth about what drove me to go to the retreat and what I had to release Where eroticism showed up where I least expected it What I am no longer afraid to do to fully in my erotic self
About RickRick is a well-known culture disruptor in the LGBTQ+ community and world (in a good way), “closet buster (coming out coach),” and bold move coach for gay men (the gay man's life coach) – inspiring gay men to live life with no excuses, no fears, no apologies.Tapping into his 25+ years experience in personal development, and leveraging being a late bloomer, coming out of the closet at 36, he’s created a no B.S. approach for thriving as a gay man and father – personally and professionally.His writing has been featured in Huffington Post, YourTango, The Good Men Project, e-Harmony. He is a published author - Frankly My Dear I’m Gay - and currently working on his second book. His love for podcasting (Life (UN)Closeted and 40 Plus: Real Men. Real Talk), has led him to publish over 900 episodes and counting. He is also a highly sought after speaker and speaker trainer.His mission is to inspire gay and bisexual men to fully embrace the truth of who they are for unapologetic living on their terms.He loves wine, his two grown daughters, and his husband, in that order but don’t tell the hubby where he fits in the pecking order.Connect With RickWebsiteInstragramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
COVID changed everything—our priorities, our beliefs, and the way we see ourselves. For celebrity hair colorist Corey Powell, it sparked a deeper calling: to help others in the LGBTQ+ community break free from the stories holding them back. After years of coaching clients from his salon chair, Corey took the leap to become a life coach, guiding the LGBTQ+ community toward living their most authentic lives.
In this heartfelt conversation, Corey and I go man-to-man on:
The power of pausing to create deeper connections
What "mattering" truly means for yourself and others
How to escape the autopilot of life and rediscover your purpose
Tuning into the heartbeat of your soul to live authentically
If you're a gay man over 40 ready to shed limiting beliefs and embrace your truth, this episode is for you. Let’s explore what’s possible when you stop holding yourself back.
About CoreyWith over three decades in the industry, celebrity colorist Corey Powell has built a reputation for transforming more than just hair—he helps clients redefine their self-image. Trained under the legendary José Eber, Corey has worked with stars like Cameron Diaz, Reese Witherspoon, and Debra Messing, perfecting his signature blonding techniques.Beyond the salon, Corey champions self-worth and personal growth, particularly for gay men navigating life without a clear roadmap. Through his philosophy of creating a luxurious relationship with yourself, he offers practical steps for embracing confidence, singlehood after 40, and finding purpose in an ever-changing world. On 40+ Gay Men Gay Talk Podcast, Corey shares insights on self-expression, reinvention, and the power of showing up as your best self—inside and out.Connect With CoreyWebsiteInstagramFacebookHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Life feeling a little too much lately? You’re not alone. But what if you could hit reset and find your calm—no matter what’s happening around you? Even if that means you relinquish your family upbringing, get ex-communicated from your church, and finally start living your truth as a gay man, as you always meant to be.Enter Chad Michael Hardy, author of Law of Zero, here to help you ditch the stress, drop the guilt, and reclaim your joy.What you’ll learn: Chad’s 5-step approach to finding peace, love, and balance How to break free from guilt and stop the overthinking spiral Why zero isn’t just a number—it’s a state of mind
If you’re ready for less stress & more YOU, this episode is a must-listen!About ChadWhile the world today seems filled with upheaval and uncertainty, finding calm within the chaos can feel impossible. Enter Chad Michael Hardy – a new author who’s compelling and inspiring memoir/self-help story is especially timely in today’s polarized climate. While avoiding political discourse, he offers fresh ways to process personal stressors and find clarity in challenging times.Chad’s backstory: From gaining global fame as the creator of the controversial “Men on a Mission” calendar that led to excommunication from his faith and revocation of his BYU degree, Chad’s journey also includes embracing his identity as a gay man raised in a devout Mormon household.Now, Chad is channeling his unique insights into Law of Zero, his debut book that reached #2 on Amazon’s Gay & LGBTQ+ Bestsellers list (Gay & LGBTQ+) and #16 in New Age Self-Help in less than a week of debuting on January 7th.In Law of Zero, Chad blends his remarkable story with practical guidance to help others reset, recharge, and reclaim joy. His five principles - Find Awareness, Secure Alignment, Take Ownership, Release to Receive, and Engage Power - provide actionable tools to manage stress, rediscover balance, and live authentically.Connect With ChadWebsiteInstagramChad's Business InstagramLinkedInHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
We all love a good adventure, but let’s be real—traveling as a gay man isn’t just about picking a destination; it’s about finding places where you can truly feel safe, seen, and celebrated. So, where in the world can you be your fabulous, free self without worry?This week, I’m joined by LGBTQ+ travel expert & Queer Adventurers founder, who’s here to drop all the tips on traveling smart, safe, and stress-free.What you’ll learn: How to spot red flags & know if a place is safe for LGBTQ+ travelers The best ways to maximize your travel budget while seeing the world Hacks to plan trips without the overwhelm – because travel should be fun, not stressful!
Pack your bags, grab your passport, and tune in—this episode is your ultimate gay travel guide.About LindseyLindsey Danis empowers LGBTQ travelers to understand and advocate for their needs and plan incredible adventures while feeling seen, heard and supported.Lindsey writes regularly about LGBTQ travel for publications including AFAR, Condé Nast Traveler, TripSavvy, GayCities, and Longreads. Lindsey is the founder of the LGBTQ travel blog, Queer Adventurers, which offers travel planning advice, money-saving travel tips, and destination guides written for an LGBTQ audience, with a focus on female and nonbinary people. Newsletter subscribers get LGBTQ travel trend updates and free resources on how to make the most of every trip. Lindsey lives in the Hudson Valley of New York with her partner and two dogs. When not writing, Lindsey can be found hiking, kayaking, or cooking.Connect With LindseyWebsiteQueer AdventuresAuthor InstagramTravel InstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
How do you balance faith, sexuality, and life—without losing your mind? Finding the just right path to authenticity can feel overwhelming, even chaotic. But here’s the truth: authenticity is a journey, not a destination. And living your most fulfilled life as a gay, Jewish Rabbi (or whoever you are) is exactly the path you’re meant to walk.
Joining the conversation today is Rabbi Steven Greenberg—author of Wrestling with God and Men: Homosexuality in the Jewish Tradition and founder of Eshel, an Orthodox LGBTQ+ advocacy and support organization. He’s here to share his wisdom on embracing all of who you are and aligning faith, identity, and purpose as a Jewish queer man.
Key lessons you'll learn: What does authenticity mean to you and how to live and define it on your terms Keys for embracing your Jewish (or other faith-based self) with your gayness How to get support from Eshel if you desire it
About SteveRabbi Steven Greenberg is an educator, writer and speaker who has led the call for LGBTQ+ inclusion in the Orthodox world.He is the author of Wrestling with God and Men: Homosexuality in the Jewish Tradition, (University of Wisconsin Press) for which he won the Koret Jewish Book Award for Philosophy and Thought in 2005.Rabbi Greenberg is presently the Founding Director of Eshel, an Orthodox LGBTQ+ community support, education and advocacy organization and lives with his partner, Steven Goldstein, and daughter, Amalia, in Boston.Connect With SteveWebsiteFacebookInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
HIV may be a lifelong journey, but it is not a death sentence. Yet, for Black gay men, that journey often comes with unique challenges—stigma, erasure, and systemic barriers that make living openly and authentically even harder.
As we close out Black History Month, we sit down with Jordan J. Edwards - Deputy Director for the Normal Anomaly Initiative, whose candid and unfiltered approach will challenge you to see beyond limitations and embrace the power of your own visibility.
In this episode, you’ll: Uncover the difference between representation and representing yourself—a game-changing distinction Learn why visibility is crucial in the fight for queer and Black liberation—and how you can take action Discover ways to ensure your story and existence aren’t erased by society
This is a conversation about truth, resilience, and reclaiming space.About JordanJordan J Edwards (He/Him/His) is a Deputy Director for the Normal Anomaly Initiative.Through his passion and lived experience as a person living with HIV, Jordan serves the Black, Queer plus community by developing curriculum, increasing opportunities for transportation, and linkage to care services for those living with HIV and those interested in PrEP.Jordan became a 2024 White House Rising Leader and a Greater Than HIV Ambassador through his development in the HIV sector.Connect With JordanWebsiteJordan's InstagramThe Normal Anomaly Instagram Hey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Black gay men don't feel safe talking about this? That includes a lot of territory. But why do they feel this way? It's because of the double margins they experience and then add to it familial socializing and you've got the perfect reason black, gay, men struggle to show themselves fully in society. Visionary leader, host and founder Dear Black Gay Men podcast, Jai The Gentleman joins me today for a raw, candid, chat about being black and gay on the planet.Key lessons you'll learn: How black men get lost in the sauce and learn to hide their truth Gain a glimpse into most inspiring lessons Jai learned from his family to make him the gay man he is today Discover how create spaces where everyone is included - regardless of their skin color
About Jai The GentlemanUnder the visionary leadership of host and founder Jai The Gentleman, the Dear Black Gay Men podcast has gained a loyal and growing audience across the nation, with each episode offering a candid, humorous, and always insightful look at life through the lens of Black queer identity.Dear Black Gay Men emerged as Jai’s love letter to every hopeful single who yearns for genuine connection and understanding. Jai amplifies the voices and experiences of Black gay men through raw, authentic content and conversations free from taboo, and his national platform has become a trusted space where no topic is off-limits, fostering open discussions on everything from love and relationships to mental health, identity, and self-empowerment.Connect With Jai The GentlemanWebsitePodcastInstagramFacebookBanned book clubHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Open relationships for gay men: a recipe for disaster or the key to thriving love? This week, we’re breaking it all down!Join me and Dr. Wade Maggert as we explore: Why monogamy might not be your vibe (and that’s okay!) How to set rules and boundaries that actually work Understanding your attachment style so you can thrive, whether you’re open, poly, or somewhere in between.
It’s time to break free from outdated ideas and discover what works for YOU. Tune in for laughs, insights, and real talk.About WadeDr. Wade Maggert, esteemed mental health expert and advocate, harbors a past as vibrant as his current professional pursuits. Before his doctoral days, the world knew him as DJ Ra, spinning tracks in the most electrifying gay nightclubs across global capitals. His journey through the highs of fame was a prelude to personal transformation. Encountering the consequences of an intense lifestyle led him to therapy, revealing the scars of an anti-gay upbringing. Embracing self-love marked the beginning of his dedication to mental health, inspiring a profound shift from electrifying dance floors to empowering lives in the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.With a Master of Social Work from UNLV and a groundbreaking PhD in Depth Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute, Dr. Maggert has pioneered research into the depths of the masculine psyche. As an educator and a seasoned practitioner, his mastery extends from academia to the frontlines of mental health advocacy. His specializations in advanced therapeutic techniques have revolutionized treatment paradigms. At the helm of three VA mental health programs and at the heart of his private practice, Dragonfly Psychotherapy, Dr. Maggert is a trailblazer for trauma and addiction recovery within the LGBTQ+ community. Beyond his professional prowess, he is a Zen Buddhist adept, weaving the tranquility of meditation into his therapeutic approach and sharing his wisdom at the Houston Zen Center. Dr. Maggert's life's work is not just his occupation, but his offering to the world.Connect With WadeWebsiteInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Sex. Sexual Dysfunction. You're junk just ain't working right. Don't panic gay men. But get the right help.Today, Dr. Joshua R. Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist and sexual health specialist based in West Hollywood, dives deep into the world of gay mens sexual health, hormone balance, and of course the overall biggest challenge - erectile dysfunction. Trust me this Doc delivers!!!Today we tackle... Managing erectile dysfunction (ED) and arousal disorders. The latest breakthroughs in sexual health technology, like SoftWave® therapy and penile doppler ultrasounds. Tailored care for the LGBTQ+ community and addressing unique health challenges. Minimally invasive solutions for common urological issues, including BPH and hormone imbalances.
Whether you’re curious about restoring vitality, enhancing intimacy, or simply learning more about your bod and sexual health as a gay man, you won't want to miss this conversation backed by science and delivered with compassionate care.About Dr. GonzalesJoshua R. Gonzalez, MD, is a board-certified and fellowship-trained urologist and sexual medicine specialist who focuses on managing sexual dysfunctions in men and women at his self-named practice, Joshua R. Gonzalez, MD, in the West Hollywood neighborhood of Los Angeles, California.At his state-of-the-art facility, Dr. Gonzalez understands the toll hormone deficiencies, menopause, arousal disorders, and erectile dysfunction (ED) can take on one’s quality of life. He offers complete general urology and sexual health care at his office to patients, many of who identify as members of the LGBTQ+ community.He invests in advanced technology, such as penile doppler ultrasounds and SoftWave® therapy, to ensure that his patients receive the highest quality of care without invasive surgery. He strives to uncover the root of sexual dysfunction through comprehensive testing one-on-one time with his patients.Dr. Gonzalez uses his extensive experience to find the best treatment for every patient, whether they have a hormone imbalance or an enlarged prostate. The practice is home to a wide range of minimally invasive treatments for urology and sexual dysfunction treatments, including UroLift® for benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and hormone replacement therapy (HRT).Dr. Gonzalez aims to help every patient restore their vitality and regain control over their sexual function.Connect With Dr. GonzalesInstagramDr. Joshua's Testosterone Replacement WebsiteHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Let's be honest. The planet is a little crazy these days, from politics to divides amongst us as humans on a wide variety of issues - including our rights being stripped away for being LGBTQ+- it is only going to get more challenging for many of us in marginalized communities. Today's podcast is for you gay men, truly for you, to help you find ways to navigate these challenging times and to stay resilient even in the face of those who would have us erased. Here's tips for staying on track, and being good to yourself.Hey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies
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Disco! For most gay men of a certain age - like those of you who listen to 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk - Disco represented so much of our lives then and now. It was the age of freedom, fun, pushing the "extremes" and also the age of loss due the HIV/AIDS epidemic.In his newly released book, Author Frank DeCaro, takes us on a frolicking, entertaining, yet serious tribute to the overlooked art form of disco, which has never been given its proper due, nor taken its true place in the historic struggle for LGBTQ+, gender, and racial equality.Key lessons you'll learn: How Disco became a movement towards more LGBTQ+ rights Gain a glimpse into some of the stories in the Disco era that shaped us as gay men today Discover how Disco can still teach us so many thing about our present day struggls as LGBTQ+ individuals
About FrankFrank DeCaro’s work has appeared in myriad publications including the New York Times Magazine, Martha Stewart Living, Entertainment Weekly, Newsweek, Vogue, and the Advocate. He is also the author of Rizzoli’s Drag: Combing Through the Big Wigs of Show Business. on their journey.Connect With FrankWebsiteHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Some of the deepest challenges we face as gay men, is letting go of shame around virtually everything we do. From sex and relationships, to body image and the overt need to prove ourselves in our careers. Today, along with my guest, Brandon Simpson, we cover a wide variety of topics to help you bring more joy into your life as a gay or bisexual man without letting today’s world, steal your confidence to be you.This week, we’re breaking down: Shame: How to release the weight of societal judgments and embrace your authentic self. Boundaries: Why setting them is self-care, not selfish. The Tech Effect: How apps and screens have changed the way we connect—and how to find real intimacy in a digital age. The Bright Side of Sex & Porn: Let’s talk about pleasure, exploration, and how to embrace the positive role they can play in our lives.
Through this honest conversations we hope you find wayst to build confidence, foster connection, and live unapologetically in the world.About BrandonBrandon Simpson is an Associate Therapist in Southern California. Throughout Brandon’s career, he has made it his mission to create safe spaces for LGBTQ people to be their most authentic self, without the pressure of the work around them.
Brandon is trained through the International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals to help individuals and couples affected by sex and porn addiction. Brandon chose to become a therapist to create nonjudgmental spaces for open dialogue where people can pave the way for personal growth and healing.
Connect With BrandonWebsiteInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies -
Sex, intimacy, and connection—beyond the labels and limits. Society teaches us, as gay men, to define sexuality by where it happens, but what if it’s really about how we connect with ourselves and other gay men?Whether it’s a hookup or a long-term partnership, intimacy and liberation are possible everywhere. It’s all about unlocking your body’s wisdom as a gay man and embracing the full spectrum of erotic energy - without shame.Join Court Vox, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach and host Rick Clemons, as we explore the deep, playful, and sacred sides of sexuality. We're getting mentally naked with what it means to fully embody pleasure—solo or with a partner.Key lessons you'll learn: How to remove the shame away from being an erotic being Learn how to access your deeper emotions and desires as a gay man Discover how to call the erotic self into all aspects of your life
Join us as we invite vulnerability to be our friend, and then join us at Court's Event - Connect, March 6 - 9, 2025 and enter 40PLUS at check out and receive a $100 discount.About CourtCourt Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, based in Los Angeles CA . He is Founder of The Bodyvox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, clients cultivate toys to unlock limitations and shame, to embrace a deeper sense of intimacy with their whole self.Traditional forms of therapy are done solely through talk, while the work of a somatic coach is to further this form of work via body-based exercises, experiential learning, and touch, in comfortable, judgment-free, and caring environments. Body acceptance, exploration of sensation and desires (and learning how to ask for what you want), boundary-setting and intimacy work are some of the many reasons clients seek this form of learning.Vox is a sex educator experienced working with clients of all sexualities and genders and has been featured in AskMen.com, Cosmopolitan, and Well & Good magazines. He offers workshops and retreats across the globe for GBTQ men, and is also part of an elite team of sex educators that create the celebrated program for women, Back to the Body.His online course and community, Invitations to Intimacy, offers foundations in embodiment suited for the eroticerotic, as well as a community of like-minded individuals to support one another on their journey.Attend Courts Events in 2025Connect - Enter 40PLUS at check out and receive a $100 on your registration for this event. SacredConnect With CourtWebsiteInstagramHey Guys, Check This Out!Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why.Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More!Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk CommunityBreak free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies - Mostrar mais
