Episódios
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Sarah Benedict shares her deeply personal and harrowing journey involving her late husband, Andrew, and the tragic murder of his first wife, Rachelle. She recounts the early years of their relationship, the challenges of young parenthood, and the shocking events that unfolded in their small town in Texas. As the story unravels, Sarah reflects on the devastating impact of Rachelle’s murder and the investigation that followed, touching on themes of trauma, justice, and the lasting scars of unresolved emotional pain.
The episode explores the complex dynamics of small-town life, the ripple effects of violent loss, and the emotional toll of navigating mental health struggles within a relationship. Sarah speaks candidly about the weight of supporting a loved one in crisis, the heartbreaking moment of Andrew’s suicide, and her journey through grief, searching for meaning and closure.
She highlights the vital role of town support, the power of truth in healing, and the transformative strength that can emerge from tragedy. Sarah also discusses the importance of addressing men’s mental health, breaking the silence around suicide, and supporting children and families through loss.
Project Unbroken
www.projectunbroken.org
Forensic Files' episode covering Rachelle's case:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muPm136yF5I
Mental Health/S.A Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Carissa shares how her spark for life was reignited after meeting and working closely with powerhouse entrepreneur Jessie Lee Ward, who was navigating a Stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis. As Jessie’s personal assistant, Carissa found herself transformed—not just by the challenges they faced together, but by Jessie’s relentless spirit, drive, and vulnerability.
In this powerful episode, Carissa opens up about overcoming chronic depression and anxiety, the deep impact of friendship, and how loss became a catalyst for purpose. She reflects on the importance of emotional honesty with her daughter, rebuilding after separation, and the courage it takes to be authentic while starting a new chapter.
Carissa’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/carissalovesu/
https://www.youtube.com/@carissalovesu
Jessie Lee’s
https://www.instagram.com/imbosslee/
https://www.youtube.com/@Imbosslee
https://www.tiktok.com/@imbosslee?lang=en
Mental Health/S.A Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Amie Ichikawa shares her remarkable transformation from incarceration to becoming the founder of the Woman II Woman organization. She opens up about her experiences behind bars, the emotional and psychological toll of prison life, and the difficult transition back into society. Through her story, Amie sheds light on the harsh realities faced by incarcerated women, the silent battles with PTSD, and the urgent need for mental health support.
She also dives into the complex and often overlooked impact of gender self-ID laws on the safety and well-being of women in prison. Her insights reveal the systemic neglect, lack of proper healthcare, and legislative apathy that continue to endanger vulnerable populations within the justice system.
Amie’s advocacy focuses on the need for reform, empathy, and accountability. She challenges the status quo, amplifies the voices of incarcerated women, and calls for stronger support systems and protections.
*Trigger Warning: Discussion of SA and other explicit content
*We support the trans community and respect their right to safety, identity, and inclusion! This discussion of concern is not directed at trans individuals, but at violent offenders who are abusing gender self-ID laws to cause harm.
Amie’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/ichix310
https://x.com/ichinita310
https://www.facebook.com/amie.ichikawa
Woman II Woman Organization
https://www.womaniiwoman.org
https://www.facebook.com/WomaniiWomaninc
https://x.com/womaniiwomaninc
https://www.instagram.com/womaniiwomaninc
Amie’s Articles of Support
California rape case
https://www.foxnews.com/us/third-strike-trans-rape-suspect-prompts-rebellion-against-ca-law-after-attack-womens-prison
https://abc7chicago.com/post/pronoun-use-center-rape-case-involving-former-chowchilla-central-california-womens-facility-prisoner-tremaine-carroll/15696730/
Wisconsin
https://www.npr.org/2023/06/01/1179301244/minnesota-settlement-lawsuit-transgender-inmate-christina-lusk-prison
New York
https://www.nbcnewyork.com/investigations/man-posing-as-transgender-woman-raped-female-prisoner-at-rikers-lawsuit-says/5067904/
https://nypost.com/2022/04/09/trans-serial-killer-harvey-marcelins-first-prison-interview/
New Jersey
https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/nj-trans-prisoner-impregnated-2-inmates-transferred-mens-facility-rcna38947
Canada
https://torontosun.com/news/national/hunter-whos-pushing-violent-trans-sex-killer-on-female-prisons
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11818117/Canadas-trans-male-female-prisoners-killers-sex-criminals-alarming-study-shows.html
Baby case
https://torontosun.com/news/national/hunter-trans-dangerous-offender-raped-baby-wants-temporary-passes
Washington
https://www.kiro7.com/news/local/former-female-inmate-files-lawsuit-claiming-sex-assaults-inmate-who-identified-woman/6VNDA4Y3TJENPBU2N3UFTJ6YE4/
Mental Health/S.A Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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In part two of his powerful story, Trevor Beaman opens up about his journey through substance abuse, mental health struggles, and the impact of military life on his personal relationships. He reflects on the turning points that led him to seek help, asking for support within the military, and the realizations that came during deployments. Trevor also shares his transition to a new life in Key West and his path to healing through therapies like EMDR and ketamine treatment. This episode explores themes of healing, self-love, and the lasting effects of trauma on identity, parenting, and connection. It highlights the transformative power of therapy, the importance of community, and how sharing our stories can spark purpose, resilience, and generational change.
Trevor’s Links/Socials:
Trevor’s book, No One Else Can See Your Fire: https://a.co/d/5sgQN5R
https://trevorbeaman.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trevor_a_beaman
Veteran PTSD Resources:
https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ptsd/next-step.asp
Combat Call Center: (877)WAR-VETS
PTSD Foundation of America -Veteran Line: (877)717-PTSD
https://ptsdusa.org
Mental Health/S.A Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Trevor Beaman is an active duty U.S. Army Green Beret, a husband, father, and a dedicated advocate for mental health and trauma awareness. He shares his journey from a difficult childhood marked by sexual abuse and dysfunction to the rigorous path of becoming a Special Forces soldier.
He opens up about the harsh realities of war—witnessing extreme violence in Afghanistan, losing fellow soldiers, and grappling with the psychological toll of combat. Trevor discusses how these experiences compounded his struggles with mental health and substance abuse, forcing him to confront the lasting impact of both his military career and his past.
Trevor’s Links/Socials:
Trevor’s book, No One Else Can See Your Fire: https://a.co/d/5sgQN5R
https://trevorbeaman.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trevor_a_beaman
Veteran PTSD Resources:
https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ptsd/next-step.asp
Combat Call Center: (877)WAR-VETS
PTSD Foundation of America -Veteran Line: (877)717-PTSD
https://ptsdusa.org
Mental Health/S.A Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Emma Smith, a licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, shares her expertise in working with survivors of sexual trauma. She explores the crucial role of consent in therapy, the challenges trauma survivors face, and the diverse therapeutic approaches she employs to support healing. Emma also examines the profound influence of societal norms—such as purity culture—on individuals’ experiences of trauma, emphasizing the importance of trust and collaboration in the therapeutic process.
In this compelling conversation, Emma and Chell navigate key aspects of sexual health, trauma, and therapy. They discuss the delicate dynamics of couples therapy—particularly in the context of trauma and infidelity—and the transformative journey from trauma to post-traumatic growth. Emma underscores the significance of specialized training in sex therapy, the exploration of sexual fantasies in a therapeutic setting, and the importance of finding the right therapist. Cultural influences on relationships also take center stage, offering a deeper understanding of how personal and societal narratives shape individual healing and intimacy.
Emma’s Socials and Contact
https://www.instagram.com/emmasmithphd
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/emma-j-smith-nashville-tn/443578
https://linktr.ee/EmmaSmithPhD
Emma’s Website: https://soliloquie.co/
Sexual Assault Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
https://rainn.org/consulting-services/Crisis-Support
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Nathan Wray's journey unfolds from being an "Air Force brat" to facing the harsh realities of bullying, substance abuse, and academic struggles. He reflects on the profound impact of his childhood experiences, the power of support and connection in education, and the invaluable lessons learned along the way. Emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication in both parenting and education, he highlights how these elements shape a child's path to success. His story delves into the consequences of past decisions, including a desperate escape from danger, a turning point with family, battles with sobriety, and the transformative experience of fatherhood. Coping with new responsibilities, financial hardships, and the resilience required to overcome adversity, he ultimately chooses purpose over pain, finding a fresh start in non-profit work. From personal struggles with substance use to becoming a passionate advocate for youth, Nathan sheds light on the importance of emotional regulation, strong support systems, and meaningful student engagement. Addressing the alarming rise of vaping among teenagers and the long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences on mental health, he underscores the significance of positive childhood experiences, the critical role of parental presence, and the lasting lessons from his father about preparation and performance.
Nathan’s Socials and Links
https://www.nathanwrayspeaks.com
https://www.facebook.com/nwrayspeaks
https://www.instagram.com/thatnathanwray
https://www.tiktok.com/@thatnathanwray
https://www.gigsalad.com/nathan_wray_harriman
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Tessa Jennings shares her deeply personal journey through mental health struggles, addiction, loss, and redemption after a tragic DUI accident that took a life and led to her imprisonment. She opens up about the emotional and legal consequences of her actions, the overwhelming guilt she carried, and the societal judgment she faced. As she navigated the hardships of incarceration, she also endured the devastating loss of her sister to suicide, highlighting the painful intersections of grief, mental health struggles, and the failures of the mental health system. Tessa reflects on her path to healing, the coping mechanisms that helped her—including skydiving—and the difficulties of rebuilding her life after prison. She discusses the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and using her experiences to raise awareness about addiction, mental health, and the power of second chances. Through her story, she hopes to inspire others to find meaning in their struggles and to advocate for compassion and change.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
Drunk Driving Prevention Resource
https://www.responsibility.org/end-impaired-driving
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Chell, the host, shares her deeply personal journey through trauma, love, and loss. In order to help other widows, she opens up about the heartbreaking experience of losing her first husband due to a tragic drunken night that ultimately led to the accident. She reflects on past experiences—including tumultuous relationships and the weight of generational trauma—that have shaped her life. Chell candidly recounts the events of the accident, the emergency response, and the heart-wrenching decisions that followed. Her story stands as a testament to resilience and the complex process of healing from profound grief. Through her narrative, Chell illuminates the emotional struggles of widowhood, the challenges of societal judgment, and the transformative power of empathy and support. Her reflections on the raw realities of grief and personal healing aim to offer comfort and understanding to others navigating similar journeys.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Naima Hill opens up about her profound journey through grief after the tragic loss of her daughter, Avy, and her beloved dog in a devastating car accident. She shares the raw reality of navigating immense sorrow, the challenges of finding support, and the ways in which society often falls short in offering empathy to those experiencing deep loss.
In her quest to honor Avy’s memory, Naima turned her pain into purpose by founding a nonprofit dedicated to creating spaces that celebrate love and remembrance. She reflects on the contradictions of joy and sorrow, the weight of PTSD, and the complexities of moving forward while carrying the past.
In this heartfelt conversation, Naima and Chell explore the impact of trauma and grief, the struggles of overprotection and fear, and the unpredictable stages of healing. They discuss the power of storytelling, the importance of community, and the ongoing journey of finding light amid the darkness. Naima’s resilience serves as a testament to the strength it takes to rebuild after loss, proving that even in the depths of grief, love and legacy can endure.
Avy’s Sunshine Tribe Foundation
https://avyssunshinetribe.com/
https://www.instagram.com/avyssunshinetribe
https://www.facebook.com/AvysSunshineTribe
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Raven shares her powerful journey of self-discovery, resilience, and healing. Growing up within the strict Jehovah’s Witness religion, she faced trauma, identity suppression, and addiction, struggling to reconcile her true self with the confines of her upbringing. She courageously speaks about the deep scars left by multiple instances of sexual assault and the lasting impact of those experiences on her mental health. Throughout her story, she reflects on navigating family dynamics, sobriety, and the profound role of plant medicine in her recovery. She emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for consent, exploration, and self-discovery, especially within marginalized communities.
Raven also highlights her advocacy for the military, particularly the Marines, while shedding light on her experiences with complex romantic partnerships. In addition, Raven delves into her empowerment through the world of BDSM, emphasizing the significance of safety, trauma healing, and living authentically. She introduces her alter ego, Raven Roulette, who symbolizes her journey of reclaiming power and self-expression. She also shares her harrowing experience with an abusive partner who exploited her involvement in the BDSM world to manipulate and harm her.
Through writing and her upcoming book, Raven hopes to inspire others to confront their trauma, embrace mental health awareness, and find their voice. Her advocacy aims to provide resources for healing and create a supportive community where others can share their stories.
Raven’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/theravenroulette https://www.instagram.com/drippinginhope
Raven’s book - Releasing this Spring
Dark Erotic Poetry Called "I Should Have Murdered You When I Had A Chance."
Raising mental health awareness for Sex Workers & United States Armed Forces.
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Holly Buss shares her powerful journey of overcoming emotional abuse, manipulation, and religious grooming. She recounts how, as a high school student, she was groomed by an older man—her teacher—into the beliefs of Reformed Christian Reconstructionism, as well as into a marriage that was marked by control and emotional turmoil. This experience of religious and psychological manipulation left her isolated, particularly during motherhood, as she struggled with severe mental health challenges. Holly reflects on her fight to reclaim her identity and protect her children from her ex-husband’s manipulative behavior, highlighting the emotional and legal battles she endured.
The conversation explores the challenges women face when navigating a biased legal system, particularly survivors of trauma. Holly emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, documentation, and community support in overcoming these obstacles. Holly and Chell also discuss the complexities of parenting after separation, the need for self-care and healing, and the importance of strong support networks and safe spaces to empower women to rebuild their lives and reclaim their voices.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-7233
Find local resources: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources/
Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Center
https://dvsacenter.org
U.S Department of Justice’s Legal Assistance for Victims Program: https://www.justice.gov/ovw/legal-assistance-victims-program
Safe Horizon’s Legal and Court Help: https://www.safehorizon.org/our-services/legal-and-court-help/
Resources for assistance - financial, housing, necessities, food, etc.
https://www.findhelp.org
https://www.domesticshelters.org
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Holly's Story
06:04 Grooming and Manipulation
10:00 Courtship and Control
15:52 Marriage and Realization
21:50 Motherhood and Survival
32:56 Recognizing Emotional Abuse
34:51 Planning an Escape
36:37 The Fallout of Divorce
41:24 Escalation of Abuse
48:03 Finding Relief and New Beginnings
51:12 The Cost of Justice
54:30 The Turning Point in Court
01:00:35 Empowerment Through Legal Knowledge
01:04:21 Navigating the Costs of Justice
01:10:43 The Importance of Documentation
01:12:18 Finding Support and Community
01:16:28 The Impact of Courtroom Bias
01:24:39 The Role of Empathy in Justice
01:34:45 Navigating Parenting After Separation
01:41:40 The Importance of Self-Care and Healing
01:45:08 Empowering Women in Crisis
01:51:31 Funding the Fight Against Abuse
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Sarah Marie shares her journey through trauma, addiction, and mental health struggles, describing how growing up in a small town where secrets were hidden left her feeling vulnerable and fearful. She opens up about her battles with addiction, bulimia nervosa, and episodes of psychosis, which deeply impacted her life. Once a successful spiritual medium with a social media following, Sarah’s declining mental health led her to step away from her business and public presence, leaving her followers wondering what had happened.
After navigating various rehabilitation programs, including a Scientology-based center, she found the right support to begin healing. Sarah emphasizes the power of Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS), the importance of facing emotional triggers, and the need to cultivate healthy internal systems. Now focused on helping others, she shares a message of resilience and hope, encouraging those who feel broken to believe in the possibility of recovery and transformation.
Sarah’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/sarahmariecollective
https://www.sarahmariecollective.com COMING SOON!
Sarah will have a free safety plan workbook for people to download on her website!
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Sarah Marie's Journey
02:02 The Impact of Small Town Secrets
04:59 Teenage Rebellion and Struggles
09:56 Rock Bottom and Unconventional Rehab
15:08 The Turning Point: Mental Health Care
20:55 Discovering Healing Through Internal Family Systems
22:38 Creating Change Through Internal Systems
29:19 Understanding Triggers and Embracing Emotions
34:00 Building Systems for Collective Healing
39:56 Vulnerability and the Power of Sharing Stories
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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Lorah Gerald discusses her experiences as a domestic adoptee and her advocacy for better mental health care for those affected by adoption. She highlights the hidden history of adoption, particularly the Baby Scoop Era, and its psychological impacts on adoptees. Lorah emphasizes the importance of healing for both adoptees and adoptive parents, the ethical concerns surrounding the adoption industry, and the need for education and awareness about adoption trauma. She also shares her journey into yoga and how it serves as a tool for healing and community support.
Lorahgerald.com
https://lorahgerald.com/classes-%26-merch Code: Free Class
Adoptee Resources on Lorah’s Site
https://lorahgerald.com/adoptee-resources
Lorah’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/theadoptedchameleon
https://www.facebook.com/TheAdoptedChameleon
https://www.tiktok.com/@theadoptedchameleon
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters
00:00 Lorah Gerald's Background and Adoption Experience
04:25 The Hidden History of Adoption
09:24 The Baby Scoop Era and Its Impact
14:16 Trauma and Mental Health in Adoptees
19:07 The Adoption Industry and Its Challenges
24:14 The Importance of Understanding Adoption Dynamics
25:24 The Trauma of Birth and Adoption
28:52 Coercive Tactics in Adoption
31:10 The Impact of DNA Testing on Identity
33:30 Understanding Adoption Trauma
35:57 Generational Trauma and Foster Care
39:12 Healing Through Yoga and Mindfulness
43:31 Finding the Right Support in Mental Health
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Chell sits down with Seth Gehle to uncover his journey from a childhood marked by relentless trauma and sexual abuse to becoming a published author and motivational speaker. Seth courageously shares his story of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional home shaped by addiction, neglect, and manipulation. He reveals the profound impact of the ongoing sexual abuse he endured at the hands of a trusted adult, the silence and shame that followed, and the lasting scars it left on his sense of self.
Through raw and vulnerable storytelling, Seth reflects on his rebellious youth, the betrayal of those he should have been able to trust, and the critical turning points that shaped his resilience. He delves into the complex emotional battles he faced, including the struggle to recognize manipulation and the difficult path to seeking help and reporting his abuser. Mentorship became a lifeline, guiding him through some of his darkest moments as he worked toward healing and survival.
Together, Chell and Seth explore the psychological weight of sexual abuse trauma—its lasting effects on trust, identity, and emotional well-being—and emphasize the importance of embracing vulnerability in the healing process. They discuss breaking the silence, confronting shame, and the role of therapy and self-compassion in overcoming the long-term effects of abuse.
Seth’s Socials
https://www.instagram.com/seth_gehle?igsh=M2J0Y21tNGdlYXZu
https://www.youtube.com/@sethgehle
https://www.facebook.com/share/1Uwjt6kSab/?mibextid=wwXIfr
https://sethgehle.com
Seth’s book: Strength Beyond the Shadows
https://a.co/d/2RI0m67
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
988
National Sexual Assault Hotline
RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line
741741
https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials
https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/
https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Seth Gehle and His Story
01:33 Seth's Childhood and Family Dynamics
05:20 Abuse and Neglect in Early Life
09:14 The Impact of a Dysfunctional Home
16:25 The Role of Foster Care and Its Challenges
18:41 Rebellion and Troubled Youth
27:07 Finding a Mentor Amidst Chaos
31:46 The Betrayal of Trust and Abuse
42:29 Manipulation and Control in Relationships
45:30 The Complexity of Sexual Abuse
52:53 Resilience Amidst Trauma
57:34 Hope and the Will to Overcome
01:12:01 The Complexity of Manipulation
01:25:17 The Turning Point: Reporting the Abuse
01:35:39 Life After Trauma: Military and Healing
01:40:17 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help
01:42:28 Embracing Shame and Vulnerability
01:43:32 The Power of Being Triggered
01:53:19 The Importance of Sharing Your Story
01:57:04 Spring Cleaning for the Mind
02:00:19 The Decision to Heal
02:05:09 The Role of Empathy in Healing
02:06:59 The Courage to Share Your Story
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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In this powerful conversation, Melissa Greene opens up about her journey through church trauma, sharing her experiences of growing up in a conservative megachurch shaped by fear-based teachings. She reflects on how these doctrines influenced her childhood, her moments of doubt and questioning during college, and the transformative power of travel and personal growth in expanding her perspectives. Melissa dives into the complexities of confronting privilege, navigating LGBTQ+ inclusion within the church, and embracing compassion and understanding as pillars of spirituality.
She also discusses her time in the contemporary Christian music scene, the challenges of fostering inclusivity within faith communities, and the importance of accountability in leadership. Melissa shares her bold decision to leave a church and create Imaginarium, a non-profit organization focused on building a non-hierarchical, inclusive spiritual community. The conversation touches on the profound impact of prison ministry and the belief in the inherent worth of every individual, regardless of their past.
This episode is an inspiring exploration of faith, growth, and the pursuit of authentic spirituality.
Please excuse our audio quality towards the end of the episode!
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Church Trauma
02:54 Melissa's Journey in the Church
06:04 Fear-Based Teachings and Their Impact
09:05 The Us vs. Them Mentality
11:49 Questioning Beliefs in College
14:55 Traveling and Expanding Perspectives
18:09 Confronting Privilege and Theology
20:45 Experiences in Africa and Their Lessons
23:59 Finding Love and New Beginnings
27:06 Confronting LGBTQ+ Issues in Faith
27:55 Navigating Faith and Identity
30:13 The Shift Towards Inclusivity in Faith Communities
35:45 Challenges of Leadership and Accountability
42:15 The Birth of a Non-Profit: Imaginarium
48:18 Transformative Experiences in Prison Ministry
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
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In this episode, we dive into some of the craziest Reddit stories about infidelity and family drama. From a husband discovering his wife is cheating on him with his son to a father’s shocking betrayal of his dying wife, we explore the messy, emotional fallout of these situations. There’s even a wild tale involving a girlfriend and a rapper that you won’t believe. Join us as we unpack the chaos, share our thoughts on love and loyalty, and find some humor in the absurdity of it all.
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
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In this conversation, we explore the intriguing relationship between trauma survivors and their unique affinity for horror movies. We discuss how horror films provide a sense of control over fear, offering a safe space to confront intense emotions. The discussion dives into the psychological and physiological responses evoked by scary movies, showcasing their potential for cathartic release and the grounding, empowering effect they can have for those with trauma. We examine why these films resonate so deeply with trauma survivors, shedding light on the complex interplay between fear, resilience, and emotional healing.
Additionally, we analyze how horror films can mirror real-life fears and traumas, serving as both a connection point and, for some, a source of discomfort. By discussing the duality of these responses, we highlight how some trauma survivors find solace and empowerment in facing fears, while others may experience retraumatization. Hypervigilance and the influence of real-life fears also take center stage, underscoring the importance of understanding personal limits when engaging with horror content.
*Trigger Warning: Brief mention of SA scenes in movies*
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Trauma and Horror Movies
08:54 The Connection Between Trauma and Horror
13:07 Understanding the Appeal of Scary Movies
22:11 Psychological and Physical Reactions to Fear
24:02 The Aftermath: Relief and Reflection
25:29 Exploring Darkness in Horror Films
28:40 The Symbolism of Fear and Trauma
35:31 The Duality of Trauma Responses to Horror
39:59 Hypervigilance and Real-Life Fears
43:53 Understanding Personal Limits with Scary Movies
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In this episode, Chell and Kenna Bane take a deep dive into the intricate world of narcissism, drawing from their personal experiences to shed light on the challenges of navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals. They unpack the signs of narcissistic behavior, the dynamics of love bombing, and the emotional manipulation that often defines these toxic connections. The discussion also examines how narcissism affects self-esteem and emotional well-being, offering insights into the journey of healing, reclaiming self-worth, and breaking free from unhealthy cycles.
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Narcissism: An Introduction01:56 Personal Experiences with Narcissistic Relationships12:12 The Cycle of Love Bombing and Manipulation22:00 The Impact of Narcissism on Self-Perception33:01 Healing and Moving Forward from Toxic Relationships34:51 The Heroin Analogy: Emotional Dependency37:48 The Impact of Emotional Abuse39:10 The Cycle of Love and Pain46:01 Recognizing Narcissistic Traits50:26 Understanding Narcissism: Key Characteristics01:01:24 Healing After a Narcissistic Relationship
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In this deeply personal episode, host Chell Bane sits down with Kenna to explore her experience of growing up without her father, who passed away when she was just six months old. Together, they delve into the complexities of grief, the unique challenges of losing a parent before forming memories, and the emotional development that stems from such loss.
Kenna reflects on how her father’s absence shaped her identity, relationships, and coping mechanisms, including humor and introspection. Chell and Kenna also discuss the broader impacts of loss, from navigating family dynamics to understanding codependency, independence, and emotional healing.
This conversation shines a light on the importance of processing grief, maintaining open communication in relationships, and finding strength in vulnerability. Through raw and heartfelt dialogue, the episode offers insights into the ongoing journey of healing and the profound ways loss can shape a person’s life.
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Loss: A Personal Journey05:20 Understanding Grief: Growing Up Without a Father21:47 Coping Mechanisms: Humor and Reflection36:21 Emotional Development: The Impact of Absence40:10 Navigating Codependency and Independence45:07 Understanding Grief and Loss49:51 The Impact of Absence on Relationships55:13 Communication Styles in Relationships59:47 Reflections on Parenting and Growing Up01:10:14 The Complexity of Grief and Healing
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