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In this special live-recorded Q&A episode, Andrew answers your most pressing questions about living a 24/7 D/s lifestyle with honesty, depth, and clarity.
This one is packed. It’s not scripted. It’s not curated. Just Andrew, live on Instagram, answering real questions from real people about dominance, submission, inner work, kink, emotional safety, and what it actually looks like to live a power exchange lifestyle in the real world.
Whether you’re new to the dynamic or deep in it already, this episode will help you reflect on what matters most: trust, leadership, inner strength, and truth.
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💬 Questions Andrew answers in this episode include:
• “Why does it feel like a cop-out when men blame women for being unsafe to masculine expression?”
• “How do I know if a man’s relationship with his inner child is healthy?”
• “How long did you research D/s before bringing it to Dawn?”
• “How do you integrate your dynamic while living full-time on the road?”
• “Why did you add an O-ring to Dawn’s collar?”
• “How can I get my husband to Dom me harder? He’s too soft.”
• “Do you get tired of being around each other all the time in the RV?”
• “How do you deal with judgment or criticism online?”
• “Any recommendations for healing inner child wounds?”
• “How do you navigate a dynamic when the Dom has a dismissive avoidant attachment style?”
• “Can I be submissive if I earn more money or have more assets than my partner?”
• “What do you do when Dawn is sick?”
• “Do you take breaks from the dynamic to recharge?”
• “How do you make and maintain friendships while in a BDSM relationship?”
• “Does Dawn call you ‘Sir’ in front of others?”
• “What’s in your contract beyond rules and tasks?”
• “Why don’t you use punishment in your dynamic?”
• “What should a Dom do if he gets ‘too excited’ during a scene and crosses a line?”
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🧭 Topics also explored:
• The real difference between childishness and inner child wounding
• What to do when one partner initiates D/s but the other isn’t fully in it yet
• The line between submission and self-abandonment
• Embodied leadership vs. performative dominance
• Living the dynamic through life’s challenges—not just in the bedroom
• Why presence, containment, and self-control are non-negotiable traits for a Dominant
• How integrating D/s into everyday life (even when someone is sick or stressed) is what makes it sustainable and fulfilling
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📍 Mentions + Resources:
• Becoming a Dominant Man – Course for men ready to lead from inner strength
• The Self-Respecting Submissive Woman – Free guide
• EMDR therapy, Hypnotherapy, and the book How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera
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🔥 The DOM SUB DEVOTION Podcast: For those who crave love, power, surrender, and truth—without performance or pretense.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most avoided and most essential parts of any real power exchange dynamic: disagreement.
Most people think that if a D/s relationship is strong enough, aligned enough, or deeply polarized enough, there shouldn’t be any disagreement. But that belief is exactly what causes most dynamics to slowly collapse under the weight of silence, resentment, or performance.
The big point in this episode is this:
Disagreement isn’t failure, it’s feedback.
And how you handle it will define whether your dynamic works over the long run, or eventually collapses.
In this episode, I share how Dawn and I have navigated this exact terrain in our 24/7 D/s marriage.
This is something that my wife and submissive, Dawn, and I have navigated over the last 6+ years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic. And we’ve learned that disagreement, when handled with integrity, doesn’t weaken the dynamic—it strengthens it.
Here’s what I get into:
• Why real Authority doesn’t fear resistance—it’s built to hold it
• What happens when you suppress your submissive’s truth instead of integrating it
• How we use our Realignment Protocol to repair conflict without collapsing polarity
• The hidden cost of fake agreement and performance-based submission
• What a Dominant needs to do in the moment she says “no”
• And how structure either becomes a prison, or the very thing that allows her to melt
I also get personal about how I used to handle these moments—reactively, with force or logic—and how everything changed when I learned to pause, listen to the signal underneath Dawn’s voice, and lead from presence rather than control.
Whether you’re deep into a 24/7 dynamic or just beginning to play with power exchange, this episode will give you the tools to stop fearing tension and start using it to strengthen your connection, your sex, and your trust.
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Reflection questions to take into your relationship:
• What helps you feel safest to speak your truth, even when it’s hard?
• What helps you trust your partner to lead or follow, especially in moments of disagreement?
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Thanks for listening and being part of this movement to bring humanity and truth into Dominance and submission.
If this episode hit home, leave a review, share it with a partner, or head to infinitedevotion.com to go deeper.
And remember:
The strongest dynamics aren’t the ones with the least tension.
They’re the ones with the most trust.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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Episode 90 — Why Women Don’t Find Dominant Masculine Men
This is the sister episode to Episode 88 (“Why Submissives Resist”). But this time, it’s not for the men—it’s for you, the women who messaged me by the hundreds after that episode. Women who cried, who remembered, who finally felt seen. Women who said: “This is what I’ve been craving.”
In this episode, I’m speaking directly to you.
You say you want a Dominant man. You ache to surrender. You long to be led. But do you actually want to let go of control? Do you know the difference between craving submission and living it?
This episode is not here to coddle you. It’s here to hold up the mirror—to call you back to yourself, and to the sacred edge where true submission begins. We’ll talk about projection, ego traps, feminine control patterns, somatic trust, and the death of performance-based submission. I’ll show you what it really takes to embody a life of devotion—and why that Dominant man you long for can’t lead you until you actually choose to follow.
This one is raw, deep, and likely confronting. But if you let it in, it could change everything.
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💡 Key Themes Covered:
• Why longing is not the same as readiness
• How projection and blame block real surrender
• The subtle ways women unconsciously kill leadership
• The difference between safety and comfort
• Why trust begins in your own nervous system—not in his behavior
• The trap of performing submission vs. living it
• How to turn daily moments into acts of devotion
• Why the right man won’t fight you for the lead
• The terrifying and liberating truth of being reshaped by love
• How true submission starts as a practice, not a personality
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🔥 Memorable Lines:
“Crying over what you don’t have doesn’t make you ready for it.”
“You’re not submissive because you want a strong man. You’re submissive when you’re willing to meet your edge and stay open anyway.”
“Don’t ask for a dominant man to lead you if what you really mean is: lead me only in the ways I like.”
“You don’t become submissive by getting a collar. You become submissive the moment you choose to live without control.”
“Real submission isn’t obedience. It’s openness.”
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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Episode 89 – Let Go of the Game: Healing Without Effort with Sven Loss
In this illuminating and soul-stirring conversation, Andrew welcomes Sven Loss—a widely respected teacher of inner freedom and truth—to explore a radical idea:
What if healing doesn’t require years of work?
What if transformation is instant—if you stop trying?
This episode is a deep dive into the paradox of healing, identity, and transformation within the context of polarity, power exchange, and intimate relationships. Andrew and Sven both share their stories of awakening—not through slow self-improvement, but through moments of surrender that changed everything.
Together, they dismantle the illusion that “working on yourself” leads to wholeness and instead reveal:
• Why the effort to let go is actually a form of holding on
• How your addiction to fixing yourself is the very thing keeping you stuck
• Why deep healing often begins the moment you stop performing and trying
• How your relationship patterns are shaped by early life conditioning—and how to break the cycle
• The real reason most people don’t know what they want (and why that’s okay)
• How masculine and feminine embodiment naturally emerge when you stop pretending
• The truth about safety, leadership, and freedom inside power exchange relationships
• Why dominance begins with surrendering to truth—not performing control
This episode is especially powerful for couples navigating a D/s dynamic, polarity work, or deep inner work in partnership. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of trying to heal, be more masculine or feminine, or “get it right,” this episode will give you permission to stop… and just be.
🌀 Featured Guest:
Sven Loss is a Relationship and Transformation Coach. He helps people break free from subconscious patterns that drive their behaviour and how they show up in relationships and life. His work guides clients toward self-realisation, healthy relationship dynamics and a general sense of peace with their lives and themselves.
🖤 Links & Resources:
→ Learn more at infinitedevotion.com
→ Follow Andrew & Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion
→ Connect with Sven on Instagram: @sven.loss
→ Connect with Sven on Instagram: https://svenloss.com
📌 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who’s ready to stop trying and start living.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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Get UNSHAKEABLE - The FREE email mini course. 7 days. 7 lessons on how to build yourself into an unshakeable Dominant force in your life and relationship. Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable
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If your woman isn’t submitting to you—especially if she says she wants to—it’s not because she’s broken. It’s because you’re not actually dominating her.
And if you’re a submissive who struggles with being able to let go, this might be a deep comfort.
In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew delivers a powerful and confronting message to Dominant men: Her resistance is not the problem. It’s the feedback. You don’t need more tactics, scripts, or kinky techniques—you need more depth, more integrity, and more internal strength.
This is not about getting her to behave. It’s about becoming the kind of man whose presence makes surrender inevitable.
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🔥 What You’ll Learn:
• Why women test you (and why it’s not a bad thing)
• The real reason she spirals, brats, questions, or pulls away
• What “holding the frame” actually means in a 24/7 D/s relationship
• The core masculine mistakes that destroy trust and safety
• The difference between controlling her and containing her
• How to dominate her erotically, emotionally, and psychologically—without ever needing to explain yourself
• Why Dominance is a vow, not a vibe—and what it costs to lead a woman this deeply
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📌 Key Quotes:
“Her resistance isn’t rejection. It’s revelation. She’s showing you exactly where your dominance isn’t deep enough to hold her.”
“You don’t dominate her with your words. You dominate her with your life.”
“She doesn’t want to understand you. She wants to feel that you won’t move when she storms.”
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💼 For Men Ready to Lead:
If you’re tired of trying to perform Dominance instead of embodying it—if you’re ready to become the kind of man a woman can truly submit to—this episode is for you.
This work is not for the faint of heart. But if you’re willing to burn away your approval-seeking, collapse, and control, what remains is a man whose Dominance is sacred. Unshakable. Devotional.
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🔗 Work With Me:
Want help creating this level of depth and leadership in your relationship?
Explore my coaching, courses, and resources below, or click here:
👉 https://infinitedevotion.com/store
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💬 Support the Show:
If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it.
Leave a 5-star review on Apple or Spotify to help us reach more men and couples doing this work.
Her submission begins with your presence.
Your leadership begins with your vow.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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In this special Q&A episode, Andrew answers real, raw, and vulnerable questions submitted by submissive women from around the world. These are not theoretical musings—they’re lived experiences. Stories of longing, pain, fear, and devotion from women navigating the tension between their deepest cravings and the reality of their relationships.
This episode is for everyone—especially Dominant men.
Because behind every question is a woman trying to surrender… but finding nowhere safe to land. A woman who wants to obey, to offer herself, to be reshaped… but is met with comparison, neglect, shutdown, or confusion. Andrew shares both practical insights and piercing truth about what it really means to live this lifestyle—and why so many women feel heartbroken in their attempts to do so.
Topics include:
• How to live a D/s dynamic with kids or family at home
• Navigating kink and submission inside busy or dominant careers
• What to do when your man says he wants to lead… but doesn’t
• Dealing with shutdown, trauma, comparison, and inconsistency from a Dom
• How a woman’s pain and truth can shape a man—not destroy him
• Whether expressing deep emotions is disrespectful
• The fine line between surrender and self-abandonment
• What to do when it’s time to walk away
And so much more.
This episode is as much a mirror as it is a guide.
It is a call to women to keep feeling, keep expressing, and never submit to what is not worthy.
And it is a challenge to men: If you want her to submit, be a man she can safely surrender to.
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🔗 Mentioned in this episode:
• Becoming a Dominant Man course
• Free “Unshakeable” email series for Dominant men
💬 Got a question for the next Q&A episode (for Dominants)? Send it to Andrew via Instagram @_infinitedevotion or reply to any email on the mailing list.
🖤 If this episode moved you, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your reviews help more men and women find the guidance they’re searching for.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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This episode comes with a free gift — my 7-day email series called Unshakeable. If you want to live this kind of leadership in your body—not just understand it—sign up today. You’ll get seven powerful lessons AND one-week free access to my Becoming a Dominant Man course and live men’s group call.
Get it here: https://infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable
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In this episode, I dismantle the common misconception that Dominance is just a role you play in your relationship. It’s not. True Dominance begins as an internal state—a deep, grounded strength that reshapes your relationship with yourself, your body, your mission, your leadership… and yes, your submissive.
This is the episode I’ve been needing to record for a long time. After working with hundreds of men, I’ve seen a pattern: when a man begins to embody Dominance not as performance but as identity, every area of his life changes—career, parenting, social presence, spiritual depth, fitness, integrity, sex, and love. This episode is a roadmap for that kind of transformation.
You’ll learn:
• Why your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have
• How inner Dominance enhances your leadership in work, parenting, and community
• The direct link between self-respect and sexual authority
• Why setting emotional boundaries prevents burnout and deepens connection
• How embodiment makes you magnetic—and why that matters more than charm
• The hidden cost of nice guy energy in your life and career
• How grooming, health, and fitness are spiritual practices for Dominant men
• Why your life is what tells her it’s safe to submit—not your rules
• And how to step into vision-driven leadership that reshapes your entire reality
You’ll also hear personal stories, client breakthroughs, and actionable challenges to help you find your next edge as a man committed to power, truth, and freedom.
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Resources mentioned:
• 🔥 Free email series: Unshakeable
• 💪 Online course: Becoming a Dominant Man
• 📚 Online course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic
• 🧭 Blog: Core Values Exercise for Dominant Men
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If this episode spoke to you, leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on YouTube. Share this with a man who’s ready to become unshakeable.
Because when one man rises, he invites others to rise with him.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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In this raw, revealing, and richly layered conversation, Andrew welcomes writer, speaker, and feminine guide Ginger Kern to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast. What unfolds is not just a dialogue—but a masterclass in embodied polarity, truth, desire, and what it really takes to create sacred union.
Together, they dive into:
• The difference between performative desire and embodied eros
• Why truth—not integrity—is the highest value in a power exchange relationship
• How men and women both must submit to something greater to be truly free
• The journey of a woman learning to trust her voice, her body, and her desires
• What it feels like to be in the presence of a man who is aligned with truth
• The trap of the “Hungry Mind” and why embodiment—not more knowledge—is the portal to change
• Conditional vs. unconditional love in the context of devotion, polarity, and human relationship
• The erotic, energetic, and existential responsibility of being fully in your human experience
Ginger brings nuance, reverence, and fierce clarity to what it means to be a vessel for life, love, and truth. Andrew challenges listeners—especially men—to claim their full power not through force, but through unwavering alignment.
This episode is for you if:
→ You’re tired of trying to “do” submission or Dominance and want to live it
→ You’ve felt the call to union—but haven’t known how to embody it
→ You crave truth, depth, and integrity in love, sex, and self-leadership
→ You’re ready to go beyond the surface and hear what devotion actually demands
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Ginger Kern is a writer, mentor, and guide for women on the path of the devotional feminine. She is the root of Mythic Feminine, an ecosystem supporting women in soul nourishment & Union with men. Her work supports women in restoring sovereignty, soulfulness, and full-range embodiment of Truth in service of Life.
Links:
@mythic.feminine on Instagram
Soul Sanctuary membership community for women
Free resources & newsletter signup
Cathedral of Love Masterclass
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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After last week’s conversation with my friend Christina (@solarfemininearts) about her pulling back from her work to fully drop into being a wife and mother, I realized it was time to share what’s been happening behind the scenes in my own marriage—and what’s evolved for us since Dawn pulled back from the podcast and Infinite Devotion a few months ago.
This is the full update on our dynamic—what’s shifted, how it’s evolved, and why it’s never been hotter, deeper, or more alive than it is right now.
Dawn had a moment of truth at the beginning of the year where she knew—without a doubt—that she needed to step away from our business and this podcast. It didn’t make logical sense, and part of both of us resisted it. But I chose to lead us through it. And what it’s created in our lives, our marriage, and especially our D/s dynamic… is almost indescribable.
In this episode, I break down exactly how her surrender has deepened, how I’ve had to grow as her Dominant, and why I had to stop softening around her ego and start holding the standard without apology.
I also open up—publicly, for the first time—about how much our sexual dynamic has exploded. Kink, obedience, ownership, and submission are now more central to how we live. We haven’t shared much about the sexual and kink side of our dynamic for good reason, but avoiding that truth going forward would mean hiding the most alive and real parts of our relationship.
If you’ve followed us because of the emotional depth, the love, the realness—we’re still here for that. But we’re also done leaving out the erotic truth at the heart of it all. This is the life we’re living. And it’s time to let you in.
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Inside This Episode, I Share:
• Why Dawn stepped away from Infinite Devotion—and what that made possible
• How over-analyzing our relationship started killing our polarity
• The exact shifts I made in my leadership to meet her deeper submission
• How I stopped backing down when her resistance showed up
• Why her resistance was often a mirror of my own hesitation
• What it means to raise the standard instead of lower it
• How kink and obedience have taken over our sex life—in the best way
• Why I’m done hiding how erotic our marriage has become
• And why the results of living this way are showing up everywhere: more love, more fun, more money, more freedom
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02:08 Dawn's Decision to Step Back
03:01 Impact on Relationship and Dynamic
04:56 Living the Dynamic More Authentically
07:41 Changes in the Podcast and Business
13:29 Traveling and New Adventures
14:36 Growth in Dominance and Submission
20:49 Embracing the Sexual Side of the Dynamic
24:52 Facing Resistance and Raising Standards
34:16 Public Perception and Social Media Growth
42:57 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans
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Connect with Us:
• Follow Andrew and Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion
• Learn more at infinitedevotion.com
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• Share it with a friend who needs to hear this message.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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In this deeply vulnerable and powerful episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with longtime friend Christina McBoyle (known on Instagram as @solar.feminine.arts), to explore the humbling, life-altering journey she has been walking through marriage, motherhood, and identity death.
Christina shares intimately about her evolution from being a widely recognized feminine embodiment teacher to being initiated into living her teachings on an entirely new level. After marrying her husband Ryan within six weeks of meeting, becoming pregnant shortly after, and moving through the intense transformations of wifehood and motherhood, Christina realized that the very identity as a teacher and healer that had once empowered her was now standing in the way of the deeper love and union she craved.
This conversation covers:
• How Christina’s years of teaching feminine embodiment eventually revealed hidden blind spots in her own life
• The moment she realized her work was blocking her capacity to fully surrender in marriage
• The subtle ways purpose and service can become hidden ego attachments for women
• The painful but essential process of descending into deeper truth and authenticity
• What it really feels like to give up old identities and allow love, devotion, and motherhood to fully reshape you
• A raw discussion about women, work, purpose, survival mechanisms, and letting go
• Why true union requires ego death—and how that’s more liberating than terrifying
• Practical wisdom for women feeling the tension between their careers and their deepest relational desires
This is a rare, real, unscripted conversation between two people devoted to living what they teach—not performing it. If you are a woman navigating the gap between what you know and what you live, or if you’re longing for a deeper experience of love, union, and surrender, this episode will speak straight to your soul.
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Guest:
Christina McBoyle
Instagram: @solar.feminine.arts
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Connect with Us:
• Follow Andrew and Dawn on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion
• Learn more at infinitedevotion.com
If You Loved This Episode:
• Share it with a friend who needs to hear this message.
• Leave a 5-star review and tell us what landed for you.
• Tag us on Instagram and share your favorite moment!
Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
00:33 Meet Christina Mc Boyle
01:17 Christina's Journey in Healing Arts
02:29 The Shift to Feminine and Masculine Energy
03:58 Meeting Ryan and Transformative Union
05:49 The Challenges of Teaching and Living Union
09:19 Identity Death and Authenticity
25:32 The Necessity of Patience and Ego Death
30:44 Understanding the Concept of Descent
31:32 The Misconception of Submission
33:01 The Deepest Freedom in Surrender
35:56 Motherhood and Identity Death
39:53 Balancing Work and Relationship
45:19 The Feminine Imperative and Desire
53:48 The Process of Letting Go
57:23 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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This episode is for the woman who’s tired of performing.
Tired of feeling stuck in her head.
Tired of trying to be the right kind of woman—when what she really wants is to be all of herself.
If you’ve ever felt the war inside between being soft and being powerful…
Between being seen and staying safe…
Between following your impulse and following the rules…
This conversation will wake you up.
I sit down with the fiercely embodied Madelyn Moon—author, teacher, and artist of love—for a raw, electrifying, and liberating exploration of what it means to fully express. Not just with your voice, but with your whole body, your shadow, your heart, your pleasure, your rage.
Madelyn shares how she guides women into deep energetic capacity—through sacred theater, shadow work, and radical self-expression. If you’ve ever struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional repression, or disconnection from your body, this episode is your medicine.
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🔥 WHAT YOU’LL FEEL IN THIS EPISODE
• Why your impulse is the most trustworthy thing you have
• The difference between performance and embodiment
• How shadow work can set you free instead of shaming you
• What it looks like to reclaim rage, grief, humor, and desire
• Why you don’t need to fix yourself—you need to express yourself
• How grief can soften you open if you let it
• Why being witnessed in your truth changes your whole nervous system
This isn’t surface-level empowerment.
This is the descent into your body, your knowing, your wild, holy truth.
And you’ll walk away feeling more permission than you’ve ever felt… to be all of you.
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🌹 WHO THIS IS FOR
• Women exhausted by trying to do it all right
• Women who want to stop hiding and start feeling
• Women ready to use their voice, their art, their body as an instrument of liberation
• Women curious about sacred rage, erotic power, and reclaiming grief
• Women who feel too much—and are starting to realize that’s their gift
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✨ CONNECT WITH MADELYN MOON
• 📸 Instagram: @madelynmoon
• 🌐 Website: maddymoon.com
• 🎁 Free 3-Part Series: The Unfuckwithable Artist
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Madelyn Moon is a leading voice in the world of feminine-masculine relationships, devoted to serving women in liberating their expressive, artistic hearts with themselves, with partners, and with the world.
Her work and story has been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as BBC, The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice, Greatist, Men's Health, PEOPLE and ABC News Nightline.
Madelyn is the host of the top 100 ranked podcast, The Madelyn Moon Show, and the author of the best-selling book on conscious intimacy, Artist of Love. She teaches live programs, workshops and courses year round.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:33 Revisiting the Conversation
01:10 Guest Introduction and Background
01:44 Exploring Women's Energetic Capacity
03:54 The Power of Choices
05:34 Decision Fatigue and True Desire
06:37 The Sacred Art of Instinct and Impulse
08:06 Embracing the Oracle Within
13:24 The Role of Sacred Theater and Improv
20:12 Breaking Through Perfectionism
24:19 Fully Experiencing Emotions
27:08 Understanding the Consequences of Tension
27:45 The Role of Shadow Work
28:02 Exploring the Depths of Shadow
28:49 Client Case Study: Push-Pull Dynamics
31:34 Creating Objective Relationships with Shadows
33:02 The Healing Power of Compassion
39:21 Grief as a Part of the Healing Process
47:12 Madeline's Work and Final Thoughts
49:12 Making Art Out of Pain
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In this profound and powerfully honest episode, Andrew is joined by Traver Boehm—author, speaker, and founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. This raw and revealing conversation dives deep into the emotional and spiritual reality of being a man in today’s world.
Traver shares the personal story behind his movement, how heartbreak and disillusionment cracked him open, and why he’s devoted his life to helping men reclaim both their primal power and emotional truth. Together, Andrew and Traver explore men’s sensitivity, the cultural disbelief in men’s inner lives, and the loneliness and pain so many carry silently.
Traver also opens up about his experiences with darkness retreats—radical, solitary immersions into absolute darkness—and how they’ve initiated him into deeper self-understanding, ego death, and trust in his own soul’s call. He offers a powerful challenge to men: Dare to feel. Dare to be fully human.
This episode is a must-listen for any man who’s ever felt alone in his pain… and for anyone who’s ready to meet the courage that lives inside vulnerability.
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What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
• How Traver turned heartbreak into a mission to support men
• Why emotional sensitivity is a masculine strength, not a weakness
• The hidden epidemic of male emotional isolation—and how to break it
• Why the phrase “I’ve never said this out loud before” changes everything
• How to balance emotional expression with purpose, structure, and spine
• The truth about numbness, avoidance, and the cost of living half-alive
• What it’s like to spend 28 (and soon 49) days in total darkness—and what that journey reveals
• Why Traver believes something must break for a man to be reborn
• How to cultivate a human experience that’s raw, real, and relational
• Two sentences every man needs to hear: “I believe you. I believe in you.”
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Links & Resources:
• https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm
• The Uncivilized Nation
• Preorder Traver’s New Book: 28 Days in Darkness
• Listen to Traver’s Podcast: The Uncivilized Podcast
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:33 Guest Introduction: Traver Boehm
01:21 Traver's Journey: From Divorce to Men's Movement
03:49 The Impact of Traver's Work
08:12 The Sensitivity and Strength of Men
13:59 Challenges Men Face in Society
19:26 Emotional Intelligence and Relationships
23:20 The Importance of Emotional Expression
32:51 Exploring Emotional Tools
33:58 Balancing Primal and Divine Energies
34:26 The Importance of Mission and Purpose
35:00 Using Emotions as Fuel
36:10 Integrating Both Sides of Masculinity
43:21 The Power of Darkness Retreats
52:10 Facing the Unknown in Extended Darkness
01:02:31 Final Thoughts and Advice for Men
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This is a conversation I had on A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Stephan—and I knew immediately I needed to share it with all of you here on Dom Sub Devotion as a bonus episode.
It was one of the most potent, grounded, and heartfelt conversations I’ve had on love, polarity, Dominance, and the deeper spiritual truths that live underneath our dynamics. I didn’t want you to miss it.
In this episode, Isabelle and I explore:
• What it actually means to live in polarity in a long-term relationship
• How my wife Dawn and I transformed our marriage through embodying Dominance and surrender
• The emotional truth underneath a woman’s “too much” and a man’s “not enough”
• Why most men fear a woman’s full emotional range—and how to become the kind of man who can hold all of her without collapse
• What everyday masculine leadership looks like—from structure to sexuality to sensitivity
• Why feminine surrender doesn’t happen through force, but through deep trust in his strength
• The truth about polarity: it’s not something you try to “do,” it’s what naturally arises when you let go of what’s in the way
• And how all of this is not just about relationship—but about meeting God, not through light and ease, but through destruction, healing, and the fire of full embodiment
This isn’t a theoretical conversation. It’s real, raw, and personal. I speak directly from my lived experience as a man, a Dominant, and a husband walking the path of total devotion and truth.
I’m honored to bring this episode to you. May it move something in you the way it moved something in us.
— Andrew
🎙 Originally aired on: A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Follow Isabelle on Instagram @Isabelle_a_stephan
🎧 Shared with love and gratitude on Dom Sub Devotion
📲 Follow me on Instagram @_infinitedevotion
Find out more about my work at https://infinitedevotion.com
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🔥 This episode will change how you see love, sex, and relationship forever.
What if the real reason your relationship feels flat, passionless, or distant isn’t because of the circumstances… but because you’ve been performing instead of living?
In this solo episode, Andrew peels back the layers of what Dominance and submission actually mean—far beyond the kink, the rituals, or the roles. He shares the deeper truth of what’s really happening underneath these dynamics and why, when lived fully, they become the most powerful structure for radical intimacy, erotic connection, and personal transformation.
Whether you’re deep in a power exchange dynamic, brand new to the concept, or think you have no interest in it at all—this conversation will wake something up in you.
You’ll learn:
• Why intimacy isn’t about sex—it’s about truth.
• How polarity actually works (and why most people don’t understand it).
• Why you can’t fake attraction—and how to reignite it.
• The difference between performing roles and living from authentic devotion.
• What masculine and feminine surrender actually looks like.
• How this work heals not only your relationship, but your entire life.
This episode is for anyone who knows there’s more possible in love, in sex, and in life—and is ready to stop performing and start living.
⚡ Ready to go deeper?
https://infinitedevotion.com
https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
00:33 Beyond Dominance and Submission
01:41 The Essence of Intimacy
04:42 Exploring Polarity
10:50 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies
14:44 The Dance of Opposites
28:39 The Power of Surrender
37:23 The True Meaning of Dominance and Submission
39:10 The Pitfalls of Performance in Dominance and Submission
40:21 The Essence of True Dominance and Submission
42:30 The Courage in Submission and Dominance
44:34 The Spiritual Discipline of Intimacy
47:14 The Transformative Power of Polarity
48:38 The Journey of Healing and Growth
54:44 The Universal Lessons of Dominance and Submission
01:03:41 The Impact of Polarity on Life Beyond Relationships
01:10:58 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity
01:16:13 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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In this powerful episode of the Infinite Devotion Podcast, I down with the profoundly impactful Chris Bale, a man I respect like no other.
We explore the journey of men navigating their inner authority, the importance of a 'lone wolf' phase, and the nuanced understandings of dominance, sensitivity, and intimacy in relationships. From discussing men's need for inner development to the essence of true power and generosity, this episode dives deep.
Towards the end of this episode, I share some personal reflections on how Chris’ work has impacted me, making this a heartfelt and transformative conversation. Tune in and allow this dialogue to profoundly impact your perspective on masculinity and personal growth.
About Chris:
Chris is an Internationally known Energy-Worker, Spiritual/Intimacy Mentor, Qi Gong teacher & Acupuncturist - who supports and activates deep transformations in the lives of others, and has been doing so for well over a decade(more info below). Over the years he has worked with thousands of individuals from all over the planet, and from many different walks of life.
Chris has an extensive educational background in many different healing modalities; including Traditional Chinese Medicine, Acupuncture, QiGong & Medical QiGong, Energy Healing, & Sexual Alchemy.
Through his mission, he shares his experiential knowledge to assist and guide others into deeper consciousness, love, health and embodiment - Offering potent mentoring, energy work and trainings for both men, women & couples.
You can find more about Chris and his work at https://awakenedintent.com or on Instagram at https://instagram.com/chrisbaleawakened
00:00 Understanding Dominance and Generosity
00:46 Introduction to the Infinite Devotion Podcast
01:49 Impactful Words from Chris Bale
03:04 Challenges Men Face in Modern Society
05:47 The Journey of Self-Reliance
17:14 The Importance of Devotion and Commitment
30:59 Sensitivity and Power in Men
34:05 Understanding Relaxation and Sensitivity
35:20 The Role of the Body and Mind in Relaxation
36:57 Challenges in Achieving True Relaxation
39:11 The Importance of Qigong and Systematic Practices
40:16 Lifestyle Changes for Ultimate Freedom
44:01 The Role of Women in Men's Self-Discovery
46:20 The Lone Wolf Era and Men's Emotional Journey
51:39 The Importance of Discernment in Learning
01:00:51 Embracing Mistakes and Personal Growth
01:04:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, I answer a series of listener-submitted questions about dominant-submissive (DS) relationships. Topics include:
02:22 Starting as a New Dom
05:44 Favorite Things About Dawn
08:46 Finding a Partner Like Andrew
12:48 Switching from Leadership to Submission
16:22 Dealing with Attachment Styles
21:19 Navigating the Kink Scene
25:39 Handling Backlash
28:24 Balancing Strictness and Love as a Dom
31:49 Reassurance in a DS Relationship
37:59 Desiring a Polyamorous Lifestyle
40:29 DS Relationship After Sexual Assault
45:53 Dominant vs. Master-Slave Dynamics
48:07 Showing Off Your Submissive
51:03 Leading Without Ego
54:05 Supporting a Dom with Mental Health Issues
58:12 Conclusion and Call to Action
If you have questions that you’d like me to answer in a future episode, leave them as a comment, or send us a Direct Message through Instagram https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
Thanks for listening!
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
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In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, Andrew speaks with Jeremie Lotemo about the transformative journey of breaking away from conventional professional paths to find deeper meaning, purpose, and connection as a man.
The discussion explores how Jeremie and Andrew help men cultivate confidence and leadership in their lives and relationships, moving beyond the pursuit of material success to seek fulfillment.
Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they delve into the importance of surrender, the balance between masculine strength and vulnerability, and honoring differences in relationships. Essential tools like journaling, physical activity, and creating structured spaces are shared as ways to support men in their growth and emotional resilience.
00:33 Guest Introduction: Jeremie’s Journey
01:06 Finding Purpose and Fulfillment
03:11 Creating Men's Circles
03:58 Exploring Deeper Connections
08:02 Balancing Masculine Strength and Warmth
13:22 Self-Acceptance and Shadow Work
15:27 Understanding Resistance and Symptoms
27:27 Devotion and Responsibility
34:30 The Breaking Point: Masculine and Feminine Integrity
35:11 Complementary Opposites in Relationships
36:57 The Power of Emotional Surrender
41:03 The Three Tiers of Love and Commitment
52:46 Tools for Staying Grounded and Present
57:25 The Importance of Structure and Discipline
01:02:20 Honoring Differences: A Path to True Connection
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Bio: Jeremie Lotemo is a poet & men’s coach. Jeremie is known for his body of work around healing the masculine shadow, and creating new paradigms of masculinity. Since 2020, Jeremie has made it his life’s work to help 10,000 men through workshops, courses, and masterclasses, reclaim their edge, confidence, and lead powerful relationships and lives.
Links:
Private Men's Community
My Podcast "Dear Men"
My Youtube Channel
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
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Podcast Notes
Why I have tracked my submissive’s cycle for over 1700 straight days - Dom Sub Devotion Podcast
For more details and background on this episode, along with some reflections questions, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/blog/episode-75
There are few things that I teach that are more impactful than what I share in this episode.
Tracking Dawn’s cycle, for over 1700 straight days now, has given me an understanding of her, and of women in general, in a way that I could have never imagined.
Not only has it helped me learn more about her and find a deeper acceptance for how she evolves throughout the month, the grace and patience that this understanding has helped me to have with and for her has also given her an entirely new depth of self acceptance.
And this self acceptance has contributed more to the depth of her trust and submission than probably any other thing.
Listen to this episode, men and women both. You will learn some powerful things about what makes a woman a woman, and just maybe, have a little more patience and compassion for her, or yourself, in the process.
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Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Check out Structuring Your D/s Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:35 The Most Impactful Thing for a Dominant Man
01:13 Understanding a Woman's Hormonal Cycle
07:58 The Four Phases of the Hormonal Cycle
21:21 Tracking and Working with Her Cycle
26:38 Practical Tips for Dominants
32:27 Deepening Trust and Acceptance
56:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with Nadia Munla, an embodiment and intimacy coach, to discuss the intricate dynamics of Dom/sub dynamics, especially as they relate to women in their feminine energy.. Nadia shares insights from her 11+ years of coaching, emphasizing the importance of deep intimacy, self-awareness, and the transformational power of embodiment practices.
The conversation explores how women can transition from people-pleasing behaviors to genuine submission, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies, and practical steps men can take to lead effectively in relationships.
Nadia also touches on the societal challenges both men and women face in embracing their true desires and roles within power exchange dynamics.
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About Nadia
Nadia is an Embodiment & Intimacy Coach who helps leaders become better lovers and guides people into a deeper level of embodied expression.
Through her work with women and couples, she is on a mission to bring more erotic aliveness, intimacy and confidence into her clients' lives.
She is also the creator of Embody by Nadia™, an embodiment method that has helped thousands of women reconnect to their pleasure, power and play.
Embody has been featured at the Health Coach Institute, Soul Camp (East & West), Goddess-on-the-Go, World Domination Summit, and many other events/retreats in Bali, Peru, Tulum and Hawaii. Embody has been taught at a UK Women’s Prison, at an Eating Disorder Clinic and will soon teach classes to teens and WOC fighting depression.
Nadia’s core belief is that embracing our full range is the way we access our deepest potential and create space for an Embodied Union that heals the planet.
You can find her at nadiamunla.com and on Instagram @nadiamunla
Nadia is offering listeners of Dom Sub Devotion a 50% discount off of a single session with her. Email [email protected] and mention this podcast!
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Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
01:32 Meet Nadia: Embodiment and Intimacy Coach
03:02 Challenges Women Face in Self-Intimacy
07:08 The Journey to Erotic Aliveness
12:02 Balancing Feminine Expression and Business
20:44 The Power of Submission and Embodiment
31:00 Union and Partnership in Dominance
32:04 Generosity in Dominance and Submission
33:38 Challenges of Receiving and Worthiness
36:34 Vulnerability in Dominance and Submission
38:57 The Complexity of Leadership
43:29 Feedback and Communication in Relationships
46:00 Balancing Strength and Sensitivity
49:56 The Role of Dominance and Leadership
57:57 Integrating Heart and Erotic Energy
01:00:35 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information
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Episode 73: Embracing Change: Dawn’s Evolution and Our Commitment to Authenticity
There’s nothing more important than living what we teach.
We don’t teach you a bunch of stuff that we learned from other people…we live this life as a 24/7 Dom/sub couple. We have for more than 6 years. And our relationship always has, and always will, come before our business.
We don’t just want you to listen to what we say…watch what we DO.
This episode is my reflection on how we decided to have Dawn step back from the podcast. What went into that decision? How does that square with the concept of integrity? And what other lessons can you learn from how we navigated this decision?
This episode dives into all of that and more.
Enjoy!
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Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.
Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
00:30 The Evolution of Our Podcast
03:01 Dawn's Transformation and Decision
16:51 Understanding Integrity in Relationships
25:58 Living the Concepts We Teach
39:09 Lessons for Dominants and Submissives
45:36 Conclusion and Future Plans
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