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Today is part 2, of a 5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery. Many of these tools are created or inspired by Dr. Ted Roberts who created the Conquer Series which we highly recommend. You can purchase this resources or join a group at PureDesire.org In this episode we discuss the benefits of writing a 10 year letter from the perspective a future, recovered you, as well as creating an emergency kit which is a tool to use for travel, or any time you are feeling tempted to relapse. We mentioned our previous episode "Best Version of You meditation" if you need assistance with the 10 year letter and you can listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru/id1674653111?i=1000611570008
Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
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Today we begin a 5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery. In this episode we discuss technology blockers, a daily scales used to begin identifying sobriety risk and recovery status, and the feelings wheel which assists in expanding our vocabulary around our experiences. Blockers we personally like:Canopy: https://canopy.us/Parental controls that come with Iphone Faster Scale: https://puredesire.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/faster-scale-check-in-2017-1.pdf Feelings Wheel: https://feelingswheel.com
Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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watch Patrick’s testimony starting at 38:21 https://www.youtube.com/live/rirnsSLaYcw?si=I7aPoJ34MBsL42nD
Where to begin:
For betrayor:
1) Find a CSAT in your local area https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357
2) If that's not possible, find a CSAT or sex addiction therapist or coach that works virtually (here are some starting places)
www.puredesire.org
Additional resources: https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/getting-help
3) Connect to a local recovery group (we like the conquer group that you can find locally or online both at puredesire.org and soulrefiner.com
4) Read books and listen to recovery podcasts:
RecoverU podcast (Patrick and Me)Pure Desire podcastPure Desire book by Ted RobertsClean by Doug WeissUnwanted- Jay StringerFor the betrayed spouse:
1) Connect with a trauma therapist or coach who is familiar with sex addiction and works with betrayal trauma recovery - look for someone who also has trauma processing modalities outside of talk therapy
If you are interested in working with Kylene please click this link and book a free connection call to see if it’s a good fit:
https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql
2) Connect with local, or online groups:
CosaSanonBetrayal and Beyond - puredesire.orgInfidelity survivors anonymouswww.btr.org3) Ready books and listen to recovery podcasts:
RecoverU podcast (Patrick and Me)Pure Desire podcastIntimate Deception. Sheri KefferFacing Heartbreak - Stephanie CarnesRISE- Misty Terrell -
Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Follow Sophie on IG @shetalkshealthPodcast: SheTalksHealthRedeeming Roots PodcastFollow Carly on IG @carlyinfocus
Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Show notes:Lily Sais is a former school psychologist who now coaches people how to recover from OCD, anxiety, panic and intrusive thoughts to live a life filled with mental health.Follower her on IG: https://youtu.be/XtT5MrsgSbU?si=hBGzk9xPW0SnQy7A Learn more and work with Lily in her Peace From Within Community:: https://peace-from-within.circle.so/checkout/peace-from-within-community-membership
Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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1. Telling the truth will hurt my spouse more than my secrets
TRUTH: telling the truth and living in authenticity is ultimately what sets you free
Podcast episode from Conversations with Dr Jennifer: Engage in the Process part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conversations-with-dr-jennifer/id1479472319?i=1000526284277
2.Sex is a need
TRUTH - sex is a healthy desire when met in the healthy context of a healthy relationship
3. If I’ve forgiven or committed towards reconciliation it means we can’t talk about it anymore
TRUTH - forgiveness frees you from bitterness - it doesn’t release the betrayer from responsibility and it doesn’t eliminate the need for ongoing conversations and relational growth
4.Porn isn’t the same as an affair (addicted uses it as an excuse, betrayed feels stuck in pain - both feel the need to qualify)
TRUTH - if you have mutually agreed to a monogamous relationship and pornography does not fit within your spiritual, moral, ethical or personal belief systems, it is cheating
5. Sex is how I connect with my partner
TRUTH
Vulnerability and safety is how you connect with your partner and sex can be part of that
Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Connect with Amanda at www.amandatesta.comPodcast: www.amandatesta.com/podcast/Free Gift: www.amandatesta.com/thegoods/
Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Thank you for listening to this episode! We hope it was helpful and encouraging.
If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://linktr.ee/KyleneTerhune
Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU
For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org
Follow Kylene:
On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune
On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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Resources from todays episode:Books: The Great Sex Rescue: https://a.co/d/dDTq7dpSo You are a Believer: https://a.co/d/2MxGpVfUntwisting Scriptures: https://a.co/d/bGeJGFcUntwisting Scriptures Patriarchy & Authority: https://a.co/d/8bsaDEn Resources for freedom from porn and sex addiction:www.soulrefiner.comwww.puredesire.org Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Click this link: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0QlFree FB group for betrayed wives: www.facebook.com/groups/RecoverU
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