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Volleyball legend and podcast host Gabby Reece takes the hot seat and reveals all her secrets to being a successful athlete, wife, parent and business owner with her famous surfer husband, Laird Hamilton.
In this episode you’ll learn:
Sex rules to keep your man happy
How to play farmer and flower to have a long lasting relationship
Gabby Reece's biggest turn on, it's not what you think it might be
Why being kind is better than being nice
Show Notes:
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Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties
Where to (safely) have sex in public
How to navigate a friends with benefits situation
Show Notes:
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Ever wondered how culture has molded your sexuality? My guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabury, dives deep into this topic on today’s throwback ep, revealing how societal norms have conditioned us to suppress our true desires, cheat ourselves, and live inauthentically. But here's the twist: radically authentic love and desire are within reach! All it takes is confronting the myths we've been fed and making a conscious choice to live freely. Ready to break free and embrace your true self? Tune in.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to rethink marriage as a model for growth
All about monogamy and why it’s the societal norm (and if it’s even natural…)
How to replace societal conditioning with worthiness
Show Notes:
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Dr. Shefali: Instagram | Website Podcast: Parenting & You with Dr. Shefali
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QUESTION: If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? I say absolutely! Even if it feels like you’re navigating a minefield, and even if your own parents left you in the dark (because let’s face it, they probably did), I get it – finding the right words can be trickier than solving a Rubik’s Cube. That’s why today’s episode is your ultimate guide, packed with tools, scripts, and resources to help you tackle this touchy topic with confidence and maybe even a little humor. In a couple years, your kid will thank you!
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why should you talk to your children, and teens specifically, about masturbation
The truth behind masturbation myths
Specific verbiage to make these uncomfortable sex talks a little easier
Show Notes:
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The Communication Guide (And Other Guides)
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Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How oral sex can make or break your relationship
What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone
Show Notes:
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How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
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Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life.
In this episode you’ll learn:
What questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
How to get back into the dating scene
Show Notes:
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Pleasure Planner + Other Guides
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Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.
On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!
In this episode you’ll learn:
How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly
Show Notes:
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Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
Ejaculate Responsibly
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Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.
In this episode you’ll learn:
My special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex
How to deal with vaginismus
Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem
Show Notes:
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Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!).
On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love
What to do when you and your partner are both submissive
When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go
Show Notes:
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Sex and Psychology
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In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids
Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding
Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks
Show Notes:
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What’s Your Arousal Type?
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Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones.
In this episode you’ll learn:
All the different types of casual sex out there
How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!)
When it’s best to turn down a potential partner
Show Notes:
Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!
7 Myths of Non Monogamy
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
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Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to measure your chemistry compass
Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!)
How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship
Show Notes:
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Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery…
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding
The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!)
What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down
Show Notes:
The Yes, No, Maybe List
Fetlife
Feeld
#Open
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It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long.
In this episode you’ll learn:
What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator
Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner
Signs that you’re masturbating too much
Show Notes:
Mutual Masturbation Guide
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Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars
When to make things work and when it's not worth it
Why speaking your truth is sexy
Show Notes:
Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
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When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie…
But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O.
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop
Ways to talk dirty without swearing
How to bring back an MIA orgasm
Show Notes:
Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide or use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout!)
Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski
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Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to take charge of your love life
Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer
The value of valuing yourself first
Show Notes:
Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
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Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm
How to take control of your orgasm
Why communication is the most important part of your threesome
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Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How cannabis can affect sexual performance
How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom
My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun
Show Notes:
6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide
The Journal of Cannabis Research Study
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Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How I stopped having performative sex
How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex
My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms
Show Notes:
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