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  • Navigating Uncertainty: Conversations on Mental Health, Respect, and Service

    In this episode of 'Navigating Uncertainty,' host Elaine discusses the stark rise in global suicide rates and underscores the importance of addressing mental health and grief. The episode features Mark S. Babbitt, a former serviceman and author, who shares his insights on respect, leadership, and the impact of military service on personal discipline. They look into the challenges military families face, the importance of respect and discipline in personal and professional spheres, and how current political climates influence societal behavior. The episode also emphasizes the need for open and respectful dialogue, especially in global unrest.

    00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning

    00:28 The Stark Reality of Suicide Statistics

    01:44 Purpose and Goals of the Series

    04:24 Meet the Host: Elaine

    06:06 Introducing Today's Guest: Mark S. Babbitt

    07:23 Mark's Military Background and Family Legacy

    12:51 The Importance of Respect and Discipline

    20:51 Navigating Political and Social Chaos

    25:36 Finding Peace and Gratitude

    Bio

    Culture architect. Executive and career coach. Blogger and speaker. Co-author of Good Comes First and A World Gone Social.

    An employee mass exodus is taking place – right in front of our eyes. And it isn’t because of a so-called labor shortage. Instead, we have a RESPECT shortage – and we have far too many workplace cultures that suck.As business leaders are now (finally) learning, today’s workplace can’t – and shouldn’t – function like it did just a few short years ago. As leaders, we must treat employees, customers, and stakeholders with the respect they deserve. And, we must care just as much about respect as we do results.In other words, we must ensure good comes first. Then, and only then, can we expect metrics like engagement, retention, customer service, productivity and profits to improve.My job (and I love my job!) is to help organizations, leaders, and employees see this tsunami of change for what it is: an opportunity to lead, work, think – and compete – differently.How do I help?- I guide leaders to create a purposeful, positive, and productive work culture – a company culture where people expect respect, and the daily showing of respect inspires better results.- I help leaders understand (and then improve) their current level of Workplace Intelligence (WQ) – a metric that helps leaders understand how their teams work best together.- Through coaching and mentoring, I empower professionals, from college graduates to CEOs, to realize their career – and their voice – matters, and I help them get their voice heard.I was recently honored when Inc. Magazine included me in their “Top 100 Leadership Speakers” list and “Top 50 Leadership Innovators.” In addition, Entrepreneur, Forbes, Inc., The Economist, HBR, and many other major publications have featured my work and voice.As a speaker, I’m passionate about delivering “actionable inspiration.” So, we don’t just talk about the “why” – we dive into the “what” and “how.” My goal at every event is to lead an interactive discussion that inspires audience members to go beyond TALKING action… to TAKING action.As the pandemic lifts, I look forward to once again speaking at major events, conferences, corporate leadership forums and industry associations. Pre-pandemic, I spoke internationally at Ignite, IBM Insight, for the Digital Citizenship Institute, and many others. I’ve also spoken for Harvard and the University of China in Hong Kong, Columbia, Princeton, NYU, UCLA, and many other universities.To learn more about how I can help your organization put good first, discover your team’s collective level of Workplace Intelligence (WQ), or inspire action at your next event, reach out here on LinkedIn!

    President WorqIQ Oct 2013 - Present · 11 yrs 3 mosMy focus at WorqIQ – the second-most socially shared workplace and leadership site on the internet – is on helping today's best workplaces, and those who want to create a great place to work, understand and improve their Workplace Intelligence (WQ).We define Workplace Intelligence as the art of creating a better place to work that drives tangible business results. Specifically, we help companies in the seven areas proven to impact WQ:- Organizational Culture and Climate- Transformational Leadership- Employee Engagement (Reimagined)- Purpose-driven Performance- Optimism in the Workplace- Social Intelligence- Community BuildingAt WorqIQ, we help create high-potential, human-focused organizations. How can we best help you?My focus at WorqIQ – the second-most socially shared workplace and leadership site on the internet – is on helping today's best workplaces, and those who want to create a great place to work, understand and improve their Workplace Intelligence (WQ). We define Workplace Intelligence as the art of creating a better place to work that drives tangible business results. Specifically, we help companies in the seven areas proven to impact WQ: - Organizational Culture and Climate - Transformational Leadership - Employee Engagement (Reimagined) - Purpose-driven Performance - Optimism in the Workplace - Social Intelligence - Community Building At WorqIQ, we help create high-potential, human-focused organizations. How can we best help you?…see moreCEO and FounderYouTern Jan 2009 - Present · 16 yrsAs a passionate supporter of young talent, as well as a serial mentor and entrepreneur, I oversee the purpose, vision and strategy of YouTern. YouTern enables young careerists, future business leaders and entrepreneurs to bridge the gap between the college classroom and the “real world” – making them far more employable in a competitive marketplace.At YouTern, our focus is on contemporary career advice, experiential education (internships and apprenticeships), mentorship and development of in-demand soft skills. Delivery methods include on-campus workshops, speaking tours and our award-winning blog, The Savvy Intern.As a passionate supporter of young talent, as well as a serial mentor and entrepreneur, I oversee the purpose, vision and strategy of YouTern. YouTern enables young careerists, future business leaders and entrepreneurs to bridge the gap between the college classroom and the “real world” – making them far more employable in a competitive marketplace. At YouTern, our focus is on contemporary career advice, experiential education (internships and apprenticeships), mentorship and development of in-demand soft skills. Delivery methods include on-campus workshops, speaking tours and our award-winning blog, The Savvy Intern.…see moreOfficial MemberForbes Coaches Council Mar 2015 - Present · 9 yrs 10 mos Greater New York City Area Mark S.’s Profilelinkedin.com/in/marksbabbittWebsitesYouTern.com (Company)SwitchandShift.com (Company)ForwardHeroes.org (Company)WorqIQ (Company)[email protected]
  • Combating Fear and Loneliness: Tools and Insights with David Amerland

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, the host aims to break the silence around suicide loss, ideation, and mental health. The guest, David Amerland, discusses various tools to combat fear and loneliness, such as journaling, self-talk, and breathing exercises. The conversation also touches on the importance of empathy, societal progress in mental health awareness, and the critical role of kindness in navigating change. Listeners are reminded to seek immediate help if they're experiencing mental health issues.

    00:00 Introduction to Suicide Zen Forgiveness

    01:17 Guest Introduction: David Amerland

    02:27 Tools to Combat Fear and Loneliness

    02:47 The Power of Journaling

    04:18 Self-Talk and Distancing Techniques

    05:56 The Double Sigh Technique

    08:26 Mental Health Awareness and Societal Progress

    13:04 Stigma and Mental Health in Business

    15:46 The Complexity of Mental Health Stigma

    18:07 Social Issues and Mental Health

    20:56 The State of Our Society

    21:31 Addressing Real Issues

    25:19 The Power of Unity

    26:23 Hope in Adversity

    32:08 The Green Revolution

    37:31 Embracing Change

    40:36 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    BIO

    I write books on the mechanics of human behavior and how they affect business, and life in general. Some of them turn out to be about search, marketing, decision making and social networks. Pre-pandemic, I gave keynote speeches, workshops and presentations internationally. I don't do that anymore. Google me for everything else.

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    David's Site

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  • Addressing Mental Health, Fear, and Connection: A Conversation with David Amerland

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, the host introduces the podcast's mission to break the silence, stigma, and shame surrounding suicide and mental health. The first guest of the new series, David Amerland, joins the conversation to provide insights on knowledge, human behavior, and the impact of connections. Amerland discusses the heightened fear and anger in the modern world, exacerbated by real-time information and social media, and offers strategies for maintaining stability and hope. The discussion also covers the importance of kindness, community, and how to handle feelings of helplessness in times of crisis.

    00:00 Introduction to Suicide Zen Forgiveness

    01:17 Meet David Amerland

    02:10 David's Insight on Intelligence and Knowledge

    04:27 Understanding Human Behavior and History

    05:38 Navigating Modern Challenges

    12:24 The Role of Technology and Media

    27:07 Coping with Natural Disasters and Fear

    33:00 Conclusion and Next Steps

    BIO

    David Amerland is an author and expert in business, marketing, and search, having written over a dozen books, including "The Tribe That Discovered Trust" and the best-selling "Google Semantic Search." He is known for providing insights on SEO, business strategies, and marketing through his blog and social media.

    His latest Book Intentional is ground breaking.

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  • Out of the Darkness: Bruce Simpson Suicide to Advocacy

    Host Elaine features Bruce Simpson, a 74-year-old attorney from Lexington, Kentucky, who shares his deeply personal battle with self-worth, depression, and suicidal thoughts. Bruce opens up about a critical mistake in his career that led him to meticulously plan his death, an attempt thwarted by unexpected events. After a night of deep emotional turmoil, an estranged friend offers help, which catalyzes Bruce's transformation. He recounts his journey through hospitalization, recovery, and his newfound commitment to mental health advocacy. Bruce aims to break the silence around mental health struggles, encourage open conversations, and provide support for others. This powerful narrative emphasizes empathy, understanding, and challenging the stigma associated with mental illness.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    01:16 Meet Bruce Simpson

    03:20 Bruce's Early Struggles with Self-Worth

    04:50 The Turning Point: Feeling Worthy

    06:29 The Plan for Self-Inflicted Death

    09:26 Health Issues and New Challenges

    11:36 The Breaking Point: A Mistake and Its Consequences

    15:18 The Attempt and Unexpected Outcome

    19:47 Seeking Help and Final Thoughts

    23:23 A Moment of Reflection

    23:50 A New Perspective on Life

    24:28 The Power of Truth and Authenticity

    25:39 A Life-Changing Experience

    26:29 Skepticism and Belief

    27:55 Returning Home

    29:08 Facing the Consequences

    31:06 The Road to Recovery

    32:45 Spreading Awareness and Offering Help

    33:33 The Importance of Mental Health Treatment

    35:17 Breaking the Stigma

    38:00 A Call to Action

    41:02 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    47:04 Closing Remarks and Resources

    BIO
  • Errol Doebler: Healing from Traumatic Brain Injury and Finding Hope

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine Lindsay talks with Errol Doebler, a former Navy SEAL and FBI agent who shares his incredible journey of overcoming traumatic brain injuries using cold exposure and intranasal insulin treatments. Errol discusses the emotional and cognitive struggles he faced after being injured and how he developed a leadership process that ultimately saved his life. He emphasizes the power of understanding and acknowledging one's emotions as a key to behavioral change and personal growth. This poignant conversation offers hope and actionable insights for those grappling with mental health challenges, depression, or suicide loss. Tune in to learn more about Errol's story, his leadership practices, and how you can implement small daily changes to improve your well-being.

    00:00 Introduction to Suicide Zen Forgiveness

    01:16 Meet the Ice Cold Leader: Errol Doebler

    02:22 Errol's Journey: From Navy SEAL to Leadership Consultant

    04:43 The Impact of Traumatic Brain Injury

    07:21 Discovering a Life-Changing Treatment

    11:16 The Power of Cold Exposure and Meditation

    21:31 A New Mission: Advocating for Intranasal Insulin

    22:41 The Power of Intranasal Insulin

    23:14 Leadership from the Inside Out

    24:18 Rewiring the Brain: A Personal Journey

    25:16 The Process of Behavioral Change

    29:18 The Mind's Power and Placebo Effect

    31:41 The Ice Bath Experience

    34:26 Daily Practices for Mental Health

    38:03 Emotional Awareness and Its Impact

    41:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Bio

    Errol Doebler is the creator and author of Ice Cold Leader, Leading from the Inside Out. He teaches leadership and emotional intelligence tools to business leaders around the world. Errol developed this methodology through his experience as a United States Naval Officer, where he served as a Surface Warfare Officer and Navy SEAL, and through his years of working with the FBI where he was awarded the FBI’s second highest award The Shield of Bravery. Errol is one of the few people in the world who has had the distinction of serving as a Surface Warfare Officer, SEAL and as an FBI Special Agent and FBI SWAT Operator.

    Site and Social links:

    Website: https://icecoldleader.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/errol-doebler/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_ice_cold_leader/?hl=en

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@icecoldleader

  • Breaking the Silence: A Conversation with Kadin McElwain

    In this episode of 'Suicide Zen Forgiveness,' the host invites Kadin McElwain, an autistic college student, writer, and activist, to discuss the stigma around autism and mental health. Kadin shares his experiences of navigating life as a 20-something with autism, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding for those with mental health challenges. They explore themes of respect, advocacy, and the impact of upbringing on behavior. Kadin talks about his advocacy work, including planning fundraisers for autism awareness. The episode encourages viewers to appreciate the uniqueness of everyone and offers insights into promoting positive interactions across differences.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    01:16 Meet Kadin McElwain: An Autistic Activist

    02:27 Kadin's Perspective on Autism and Society

    06:28 Challenges and Experiences in Education

    12:08 Generational Differences and Advocacy

    16:42 Kadin's Hobbies and Personal Interests

    20:09 Final Thoughts and Messages

    28:18 Conclusion and Farewell

    29:38 Closing Remarks and Sponsor Acknowledgements

    Bio

    Kadin McElwain is an autistic college student, writer, and activist on a mission to raise as much awareness about autism as possible. During his life, his capabilities were questioned due to who he was. But thanks to a supportive set of parents, he proved his naysayers wrong.

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  • Breaking the Silence: Expert Parenting Strategies with DJ Stutz

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, the host is joined by DJ Stutz, an early childhood specialist and parent coach, to discuss the critical importance of tackling the stigma surrounding suicide loss and mental health. DJ shares her extensive experience and insights on effective parenting strategies, emphasizing the significance of communication, emotional regulation, and setting boundaries. Through engaging narratives and practical advice, DJ and the host explore the vital role parents play in a child's development, advocating for resilience and empathy from a young age. They also stress the value of allowing children to experience and process emotions healthily, and preparing them to face life's challenges with confidence. Tune in to gain valuable knowledge on enhancing family dynamics and supporting children's mental and emotional well-being.

    00:00 Mission to End Silence and Stigma

    01:16 Introduction to Today's Speaker: DJ Stutz

    04:05 DJ Stutz's Background and Expertise

    08:42 Parenting Challenges and Strategies

    10:20 The Importance of Emotional Education

    12:56 Personal Stories and Reflections

    32:09 Teaching Children Emotional Vocabulary

    35:23 Understanding Children's Emotional Responses

    35:55 Empowering Children to Solve Problems

    36:48 Personal Stories of Resilience

    39:28 Encouraging Risk-Taking in Children

    43:31 The Importance of Failure

    46:05 Parenting Strategies and Reflections

    54:23 Balancing Respect and Independence

    58:36 The Role of Intuition and Gut Feelings

    58:56 Conclusion and Resources

    BIO

    DJ Stutz

    Speaks & Tackles Everyday Challenges with Expert

    Guidance Through One-On-One Parent Coaching

    DJ provides personalized guidance for parents, sharing insights tailored to your family dynamics, both through one-on-one coaching and engaging guest speaking sessions. Her expertise empowers you to craft effective strategies, enhance communication, and foster a harmonious relationship with your children. Here are some of the strategic parenting skills DJ will help you develop in both one-on-one coaching sessions and through her speaking engagements

    Effective Communication Behavior Management Parenting Styles Sibling Rivalry Emotional Regulation Routine and Structure School-related Issues Technology and Screen Time Sleep Challenges, Parental Self-Care Transitioning Life Stages Coping with SpecialNeeds Building Resilience Effective Co-Parenting

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  • Show NotesEmbracing Love: A Journey Through Life's Challenges

    In this heartfelt conversation, Elaine interviews Mamina Das about her journey to understand and choose love, stemming from the deep affection her parents shared. They discuss the challenges of maintaining this perspective amidst life's adversities, including immigrating to Canada and raising a family. Mamina shares her personal practices, such as working with autistic children and engaging in mindful meditations, that help her stay centered in love. The discussion emphasizes the importance of grief, the power of mindfulness, and the enduring impact of maintaining loved ones' memories.

    00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome

    00:39 Exploring the Concept of Love

    02:05 Personal Stories and Family Influence

    06:15 Challenges and Growth

    10:12 Adapting to New Environments

    16:49 Rediscovering Passion and Self

    23:08 Daily Practices for Love and Mindfulness

    30:39 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    Bio

    Indian Origin, Canadian Citizen , ABA Therapist (with Autism Spectrum Disorders) ,Curator@ Holistic Conversations Podcast,

    Author of Children’s Book my first book ( under Publishing, BOOM BOOM BLOOM ),

    (Early Childhood Educator, RBT, Member with Mechanicsburg Arts Centre,

    Teacher Sunday School (ISKON, Spiritual), Human Resource Generalist, Donor Relations Coordinator with Non Profit Organizations, Event Organizer for Community Services, Radio Jockey, Rule Breaker(I have my own rules ...Hahhaaaaaaa). I am Love, I choose Love

  • Breaking the Silence: Daryl Dittmer's Journey of Recovery and Resilience

    In this episode of 'Suicide Zen Forgiveness,' host Elaine interviews Daryl Dittmer, a dedicated advocate for mental health and recovery. Daryl shares his candid and compelling story, detailing his struggles with addiction from a young age and his transformative path to sobriety. His journey demonstrates the importance of self-awareness, the power of the 12-step program, and the value of resilience. Daryl also discusses his two books, 'When I Stopped Fighting' and the upcoming 'When You Stop Fighting,' which provide insights into overcoming personal battles and achieving emotional clarity. Through their conversation, Elaine and Daryl emphasize the critical need for empathy, support, and self-improvement. They conclude by touching on broader themes of purpose, the human mind, and the importance of allowing life's challenges to nurture growth.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    01:16 Meet Daryl Dittmer

    04:57 Daryl's Early Struggles and Turning Point

    09:45 The Road to Recovery

    20:52 The Power of the Human Mind

    23:37 The Importance of Emotional Awareness

    30:38 Daryl's Journey Through College

    33:17 Reevaluating Beliefs and Life Choices

    34:45 Childhood Experiences and Education

    38:49 Influential Moments and Life Lessons

    41:54 Writing and Publishing Journey

    50:29 Insights on Success and Failure

    51:59 Purpose and Helping Others

    58:44 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    BIO

    Daryl said God may or may not have been calling me for a purpose. I’m not in charge of what God decides to do, nor would I pretend I might know. I’m pretty sure though, he was hoping I’d get my head out of my ass, so I can help others do the same.

    Having spent decades working to improve himself and his life, Daryl Dittmer has committed himself to helping others do the same, through his books, his interactions, and how he chooses to show up in this world, every day.

    He lives in the mountains of North Georgia with his wife, Kristina, and their two labs, Dexter and Joker, writing, hiking, reading, learning, and growing.

    Daryl said God may or may not have been calling me for a purpose. I’m not in charge of what God decides to do, nor would I pretend I might know. I’m pretty sure though, he was hoping I’d get my head out of my ass, so I can help others do the same.

    SOCIALS BOOKS

    Amazon.com: When I Stop Fighting: The Unexpected Joy of Getting My Head Out of My Ass: 9798891092129: Dittmer, Daryl: Books

    Home | Daryl Dittmer

    Author Daryl Dittmer (@whenistopfighting) • Instagram photos and videos

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    When I Stop Fighting (@theunexpectedjoys) | TikTok

    When I Stop Fighting is an eye-opening, honest, unapologetic take on life. It’s about overcoming obstacles, overcoming addictions, and taking risks.
  • Breaking the Silence on Suicide and Mental Health with Mike Stenger

    In this episode of 'Suicide Zen Forgiveness,' host Elaine Lindsay engages in a profound conversation with guest Mike Stenger about his journey from suicidal ideation as a teen in Ohio to becoming a successful marketer in San Diego. The discussion highlights the importance of ending the silence, stigma, and shame surrounding suicide and mental health issues. Mike shares his personal story, emphasizing the critical role of open communication and empathy. The episode also explores the impact of social media, the challenges of depression, and the necessity of kindness and empathy in everyday interactions.

    00:00 Mission and Introduction

    01:16 Meet Mike Stenger

    02:07 Elaine's Google Plus Story

    07:34 Mike's Struggles and Turning Point

    16:21 Moving to San Diego

    18:19 Dealing with Depression

    21:16 The Impact of Social Media

    28:57 The Dark Side of Social Media

    32:08 The Importance of Empathy

    35:57 Teaching Empathy in Schools

    40:20 The Power of Listening

    45:10 Spreading Kindness

    49:07 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    BIO

    From suicidal teen living in the boonies of Ohio to a successful direct response marketer living in sunny San Diego, when Mike’s not cranking out converting copy for his clients, you can find him out and about walking his husky Zoey or living the dad life.

    I met Mike in the early days of Google+ and we have remained friends these past thirteen years.

    Social and Link

    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/mikestenger

    Website: mikestenger.com

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    Autism Advocacy and Personal Stories: A Conversation with Sam Mitchell

    In this episode of 'Suicide Zen Forgiveness,' host Elaine Lindsay interviews Sam Mitchell, an international motivational speaker, entrepreneur, and host of the popular podcast 'Autism Rocks and Rolls.' The episode looks into Sam's experiences as an individual on the autism spectrum, highlighting his achievements and raising awareness about neurodiversity. They discuss breaking societal stigmas and the importance of empathy and understanding, while also exploring Sam's personal journey, accomplishments, and future goals. The podcast aims to inspire and educate listeners on issues related to mental health and autism, offering hope and resilience.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    00:54 Meet Sam Mitchell: A Multifaceted Entrepreneur

    02:03 Sam's Podcast Success and Notable Guests

    05:46 Understanding Neurodiversity and Empathy

    08:27 Sam's Personal Insights and Strengths

    17:23 The Importance of Individuality and Fun

    18:17 Sam's Personal Life and Relationships

    20:58 Future Goals and Aspirations for the Podcast

    22:23 Discovering Hidden Talents

    23:22 The Art of Broadcasting

    24:03 A Journey in Radio

    24:54 Favorite Country Singers

    25:38 Exploring Music Preferences

    27:51 Scottish Traditions and Bagpipes

    28:51 Wrestling Legends

    30:38 Understanding the Autism Spectrum

    32:28 Breaking Stereotypes

    38:24 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    Bio:

    Hello! My name is Sam Mitchell and I run a successful podcast called Autism Rocks and Rolls. I have autism myself and my podcast has exploded and become very successful! I would like to be a guest on your podcast to spread the mission of my podcast and nonprofit.

    I am at 18.3K downloads. I have had some big names on my show: Armani Williams, first NASCAR driver open about having autism, and American Idol Rocker James Durbin who has autism and Tourette’s. My biggest guest of all was Dr. Temple Grandin, professor in Animal Science at Colorado State University and autism activist. I had WWE legend Mick Foley on my show! Huge guests are upcoming as well!

    I also am a motivational speaker, entrepreneur, sell merchandise, have several sponsors, sell ad space, am writer and blogger, and love to promote my podcast and business. I also have a published TED Talk called Souled Structure.

    My official Website is autismrocksandrolls.com.

    I am a high-functioning human being on the autism spectrum, but have a mission: to show people that I am not broken, do not need to be fixed, there is no normal in this world, and I am successful, with autism. I want to celebrate the successes of all people. I embrace who I am and feel as though everyone should do the same. My mission is powerful and this extraordinary idea is catching on and getting the world’s attention.

    I have made it to the top 10 in the People's Choice Podcast Awards, placed second in the state of Indiana for the JAG Entrepreneurship project, was selected as the best business at the CEO trade show in Indiana, have had tremendous guests on my show, and am in the top 200 podcasts in all of Canada while also being a current Davey Award winner.

    Corporation President of Autism Rocks and Rolls

    [email protected]

    www.autismrocksandrolls.com

    812-699-7811

    "Humankind, do both"

  • Healing Through Forgiveness: Brenda Adelman's Journey

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, Elaine, your host shares the mission to break the silence, stigma, and shame surrounding suicide loss, ideation, and mental health. Her guest, Brenda Adelman, an award-winning actress and playwright, discusses her life story, including the tragic murder of her mother by her father and the complex path to self-forgiveness.

    Brenda emphasizes the importance of releasing anger and resentment, setting healthy boundaries, and embracing self-love. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize their mental health and seek support when needed. Practical exercises and stories are shared to help those struggling with forgiveness, making this episode a powerful tool for healing and resilience.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission

    01:16 Meet Brenda Adelman

    01:48 Brenda's Story of Tragedy and Forgiveness

    04:34 The Power of Storytelling and Healing

    08:59 Understanding and Releasing Shame

    12:22 Forgiveness and Setting Boundaries

    19:40 Personal Stories of Forgiveness

    34:33 Daily Practices for Healing

    37:03 Conclusion and Resources

    Bio

    Brenda Adelman, the daughter of a Jewish father and an artist mother, grew up in the Mill Basin section of Brooklyn, New York. A fan of Broadway shows since childhood, she studied acting at several prestigious schools in London, New York, and Los Angeles.

    Brenda Adelman’s mother, an award-winning artist and photographer, was shot and killed in her home in Brooklyn, New York, in 1995. Brenda’s father pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter and served two and half years in prison.

    In Brenda's own words...

    "Within days my father had contacted my mother’s older sister who ended up being there for him in a very peculiar way. He moved in with her and sometime later they got married.

    In the meantime my father was charged with second degree murder but because the weapon, his gun, was never recovered, his sentence was reduced to five years in prison for Involuntary Manslaughter. He got out in two and a half years for good behaviour.

    At first, unable to bear the thought of losing both my parents, I wouldn’t accept my father had meant to kill my mother. My brother disagreed and because he felt the system hadn’t held my father/ his step father accountable (2 ½ years for what he believed was cold-blooded murder) he decided to pursue the only other avenue he had which was a civil lawsuit. I disagreed and as a result my brother and I stopped speaking to each other for six years.

    After my mum’s death I felt a deep sense of shame and despair. What did it say about me if this is what had happened to my parents? The only thing that helped transform these negative emotions was writing my story.

    I was doing an acting course in LA at the time so I wrote and performed a 15-minute personal piece and at the end of which I noticed people crying. I was amazed because instead of being judged for what I’d revealed I received a standing ovation and so much empathy and compassion.

    While my Dad was in prison I wrote to him several times asking “tell me what happened”, but he ignored my questions and in the end we stopped communicating. Later when he was out of prison he contacted me again. I was pleased to hear from him until I realised he was only interested in getting his hands on my inheritance money. I realised then that he was toxic and decided to pursue the civil court case with my brother, I was still desperate for my father to tell the truth and assumed he would have to take the stand.

    I really thought he would show up at court, but he never did. He skipped town to Florida and transferred his money into off-shore accounts. My aunt also disappeared. Although we won the case – winning a judgment of 2.2 million dollars for the Wrongful Death of our mom – my brother and I never collected a cent and I ended up paying tens of thousands of dollars in fees to my lawyer.

    To help me deal with the pain during all this time I was trying to forgive. But I didn’t know how as I assumed forgiveness was about reconciliation and I didn’t want my dad back in my life. However, during the process I realised forgiveness also meant resolving inner conflict and clearing my heart of hate; it meant that if I thought about my father my day wasn’t wrecked anymore.

    The missing step was embracing my anger in a healthy way.

    I still felt a deep level of anger at myself for ever trusting my father, which was demonstrated by my over-eating. I had so much self-judgement and you can’t really forgive someone else unless you’ve forgiven yourself. It was while taking a course in spiritual psychology that I recognised how with each negative thought directed at my father I was re-wounding myself.

    Suddenly I had an insight into the oneness of ‘us’ and I was inwardly guided to go to the top of a mountain in Los Angeles and carry out a ceremony of release using one of my father’s hats which I threw over the mountain side. With this simple ritualistic gesture something was released inside of me. From that moment I wasn’t burdened anymore.

    As for forgiving my aunt, that has been much more difficult, but I strive to be able to let go of any righteousness I may feel about her because I know that this little bit of righteousness will only hurt me more.

    In 2004 I received a letter in the mail from my aunt’s attorney with a copy of my father’s death certificate saying he’d died of a heart attack. It was a relief in a way, because I realised there had been a part of me trying to get my dad back but now reconciliation was no longer possible. At that point something settled in me and for the first time since my mother’s death I was able properly to grieve."

    ~ Brenda Adelman

    Since then, with a degree in Spiritual Psychology, Brenda has written a one-woman show, “My Brooklyn Hamlet”, based on her life story which she has performed all around the world. Her work today focuses on helping people transform pain into healing narratives: forgivenessandfreedom.com

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    https://www.instagram.com/brendaadelman/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendaadelman-storyteller

    Forgiveness and Freedom

    Official Site

    One Woman Show "My Brooklyn Hamlet"

  • Unmasking the Pain: A Journey of Trauma and Healing with Barbara Hayward

    In this powerful episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine Lindsay welcomes Barbara Hayward, a medium clairvoyant and spiritual advisor, to share her deeply personal journey of trauma, loss, and healing. From enduring childhood molestation and a traumatic teen pregnancy involving forced adoption, to battling addiction and mental health issues, Barbara recounts how she navigated profound pain and emerged as a remarkable figure in spiritual coaching. Despite facing immense hardships, including severe psychiatric struggles and suicide attempts, Barbara has transformed her experiences into a source of empathy and compassion in her work. The conversation highlights the generational impact of trauma and the healing process, her rediscovery and reunion with her biological son after decades, and the enduring strength that comes from sharing one's story. This episode serves as an inspiring testament to resilience and the human spirit's capacity for forgiveness and connection.

    00:00 Mission to End the Silence

    00:50 Meet the Guest: Barbara Hayward

    01:51 Barbara's Journey Begins

    04:18 A Troubled Childhood

    07:44 Teenage Struggles and Early Pregnancy

    10:52 Facing Family and Societal Pressures

    13:44 The Aftermath and Moving Forward

    22:54 A Mother's Struggle and Words of Advice

    23:34 The Breakdown of a Marriage

    23:51 Turning to Alcohol and Meeting Dennis

    24:07 Revealing the Truth to the Children

    26:07 The Psychiatric Journey

    27:32 A New Life in New Zealand

    27:54 The Search for Brett Charles

    33:47 Reconnecting with a Lost Son

    36:20 The Impact of Forced Adoptions

    37:50 Reflections and Closing Thoughts

    43:59 Outro and Acknowledgements

    BIO

    At around the age of 30 years old, Barbara found herself a single mother with 2 young boys after her marriage had disintegrated. A marriage that right from the beginning was never destined to succeed.

    Barbara’s early life was one of polar opposites. There was laughter, fun and a great love of school, years of enjoying been a Marching girl winning lots of medals. Sexual molestation at a very early age, rape at 12 and having a baby taken away from her at birth due to forced adoption at 16. This event broke Barbara from which she has never fully recovered.

    Eventually marrying the father of her baby at 20 years old, they had 2 more sons. When her marriage failed when she as 30, she was left to raise 2 quite young sons on her own.

    Around this time she met a lady Crystal, who was instrumental in helping Barbara enter a world that she did not even know existed,… The Spiritual world. After 8 years of training with Crystal, her Spiritual journey began. Barbara had by now met a man who was to be her life partner.

    Barbara, Denis and her 2 sons found themselves living in New Zealand, far away from Melbourne, Australia.

    Barbara’s Spiritual journey embraces her own radio program for 3 years as a clairvoyant, workshops, Seminars, Psychic Fairs, quest speaking at Churches and much, much more.

    Barbara and Denis have moved between Australia and New Zealand many times until one day while celebrating her 60th birthday, she received news that her son who was taken was trying to locate her after 43 years

    Barbara, now at 71 years old, has begun a new career. Having a very successful Facebook page as well as an up and coming YouTube channel. The Old Girls Spiritual Stuff.

    Socials

    FB facebook.com/theoldgirlsspiritualstuff

    YT https://www.youtube.com/@BarbaraHayward-1953

  • Healing Through Pain: Tony Lynch's Journey from Tragedy to Triumph

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine Lindsay chats with Tony Lynch, a men's grief coach, author, and podcaster. Tony shares his powerful life story of overcoming immense pain, including childhood trauma, gang involvement, incarceration, and heartbreaking family losses. Despite experiencing homelessness and planning his own suicide, Tony found his purpose in helping others through their grief and loss. They discuss the importance of empathy, the challenges men face in grieving openly, and the creation of Tony's nonprofit 'Memories of Us'. This episode is a testament to resilience, transformation, and the human spirit's capacity for healing.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    01:17 Meet Tony Lynch: A Journey of Resilience

    02:48 The Taboo of Grief in Society

    05:08 Personal Stories of Loss and Empathy

    13:44 Tony's Early Life and Struggles

    16:54 Turning Points and Life Lessons

    25:41 Confronting Loss and Grief

    26:53 A Journey of Healing Begins

    28:11 Finding Support and Realizations

    29:07 Creating a Safe Space for Men

    29:40 Building a Nonprofit Amid Challenges

    31:39 Embracing Social Media and Podcasting

    33:07 Personal Healing and Transformation

    38:51 Reflecting on the Journey

    44:35 Connecting with the Audience

    47:19 Closing Remarks and Gratitude

    BIO

    I’m Tony Lynch, host of the Grief…Let’s Talk About It podcast and founder of Memories of Us Ltd., which is a global grief network that offers grief support for men.

    My journey started on Halloween of 2015 when my son overdosed due to some miscalculations by his pharmacist when she mixed his medication wrong. What should’ve been a normal Saturday turned out to be a nightmare.

    small #personaltraining #buisinessowner recently started a #nonprofit...

    #MEMORIES OF US we offer resources and support to #men who have lost loved ones we support each other as we navigate the world of #grief and the many stages...

    #MEMORIES OF US have partnered with other great #nonprofitorganizatons that specialize in #mens/womensmentalhealth/#veteranspeersupport/ #recovery as well as #supportgroups for those that have been affected by #suicide

    Socials

    Website: Memories2.orgInstagram: Memories4.usLinkedin: Tony lynchFacebook: Memories of us…grief support for menYoutube: Memories of us podcastOther: Memoriesofuspodcast.transistor.fm Which is our podcast where you can hear stories of men that have gone through their own trauma and found their strength

  • Breaking Silence: A Journey from Mental Hellness to Mental Wellness with David Woods BartleyShow Notes

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine welcomes David Woods Bartley, who shares his powerful and emotional story of surviving a suicide attempt and his journey towards mental wellness. David discusses his battle with depression, the profound impact of electroconvulsive therapy (ECT), and the importance of human connection in suicide prevention. He also reflects on the influence of supportive relationships and the significance of openly sharing struggles to encourage empathy and hope.

    0:00 David-W-Bartley Audio

    01:17 Welcome and Introduction

    02:53 David's Struggle with Depression

    04:54 The Turning Point: Forest Hill Bridge

    08:23 The Power of Connection

    10:24 Journey to Mental Wellness

    16:20 Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) Experience

    19:11 Reflecting on Trauma and Healing

    29:59 Reflecting on Family and Relationships

    31:31 Military Family and Personal Heroes

    33:29 The Impact of ECT on Memory

    36:19 Insights on Mental Health and Neuroplasticity

    39:25 Sharing Personal Stories and Writing a Book

    43:28 Customer Service Philosophy and Personal Anecdotes

    45:53 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

    Bio

    My name is David Woods Bartley. I am both a suicide attempt and childhood rape survivor turned two-time TED Talker and international mental health trainer.

    David Woods Bartley has seen his fair share of successes and setbacks, from directing a nationally recognized nonprofit to battling the long-term effects of childhood sexual trauma and a life-threatening mental illness. The latter, a brutal knock-down, drag-out fight with clinical depression, led David to a suicide attempt.

    Thanks to the support of many people and being shown the necessity of putting one’s self-care on a pedestal, David continues the essential yet challenging journey from the isolation of mental “hellness” to the inclusive space of mental wellness.

    His life having been saved, David is committed to moving the conversation about suicide, male sexual trauma, and mental illness from the dark shadows where they now live to the forefront of public concern. In doing so, his mission is to shine a bright light on the crisis we now face and open doors to the possibility of mental health for everyone, everywhere.

    Currently, David is a member of the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the International Association for Youth Mental Health, the National Storytelling Network’s Healing Story Alliance, and Active Minds. In addition, David holds certifications in Mental Health First Aid for Adults and Youth, SafeTALK (Suicide Awareness for Everyone), and the suicide prevention technique known as QPR (Question, Persuade, and Refer).

    In addition to giving two TED talks and being named a 2021 Mental Health Champion by the prestigious Steinberg Institute, David has presented morethan 600 times to audiences across the United States, Canada, Central America, and India, giving in-person and virtual presentations on the subjects of suicide, male sexual trauma, mental health, organizational culture, andservant leadership.

    David has been invited to present to organizations such as the United States Army, the United States Coast Guard, the Food and Drug Administration, OSH India, Sutter Health, AbleTo, the California Highway Patrol, the Indiana Organization for Nursing Leadership, the University of Connecticut, Boston College, the California Northstate School of Medicine, and a wide range of elementary, middle and high schools, community organizations, and diverse faith denominations

    2-TimeTEDx Speaker | International Mental Health Presenter | SME on Suicide

    2021 Steinberg Institute Mental Health Champion

    Links and Socials

    www.davidwoodsbartley.com

    X: [email protected]: @davidwoodsbartley

  • Life after Darkness: Andy Grant's Journey through Depression and Recovery

    In this episode, Andy Grant returns to discuss his recent battle with a prolonged period of depression and suicidal ideation. He candidly shares his struggles, the importance of seeking help, and the various tools and steps he utilized to climb out of the dark place. The conversation emphasizes that mental health is not linear and provides hope and actionable advice for anyone facing similar challenges.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Reintroduction

    01:03 Andy's Struggle with Depression

    03:16 The Turning Point

    03:52 Reconnecting with Life

    12:26 The Power of Gratitude and Tools for Recovery

    18:54 Rediscovering Joy in Downsizing

    19:46 Unexpected Fun in Letting Go

    21:49 Adjusting to a New Home

    23:42 Community and New Beginnings

    27:05 The Power of Asking for Help

    30:04 Gratitude and Moving Forward

    31:24 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    BIO

    ANDY GRANT

    (noun)

    transformational energy coach.

    founder of Real Men Feel.

    healer.

    author and teacher.

    See also: husband, world traveler, actor, speaker, teacher, lifelong learner and suicide prevention activist. Andy believes in living a life you love and creates books, workshops, and programs supporting that.

    Andy Grant

    Healer & Life Activation Practitioner certified by The Modern Mystery School™

    Transformational Life Coach

    Author

    Contact Andy at [email protected]

    Socials

    https://www.facebook.com/AndyGrantLoveYourLife/

    https://twitter.com/navitascoaching

    https://www.instagram.com/theandygrant/

    https://www.youtube.com/@AndyGrant

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/andyfgrant

  • Breaking the Silence: Sonya Shorey on Mental Health, Suicide, and Empathy

    In this episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host Elaine Lindsay interviews Sonya Shorey, President and CEO of Invest Ottawa, Bayview Yards, and Area XO. Shorey shares her deeply personal journey with mental health, suicide, and the importance of open, empathetic conversations. They discuss the critical roles of psychiatric care, the impact of hidden family struggles, and the need for greater societal support and research in mental health. Shorey also emphasizes the power of individual actions and the importance of fostering a culture of empathy and openness.

    00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement

    00:43 Guest Introduction: Sonya Shorey

    02:25 Sonya's Professional Background

    04:03 Personal Connection to Mental Health

    05:37 Family History and Mental Health

    09:14 Generational Impact and Stigma

    10:34 The Importance of Open Conversations

    16:06 Honoring Loved Ones and Breaking Patterns

    28:03 Memory Wall Initiative

    29:48 Supporting Entrepreneurs and Founders

    30:40 Inclusivity and Community Efforts

    32:46 Mental Health in Entrepreneurship

    33:57 Empathy Training for First Responders

    37:09 The Importance of Emotional Education

    38:21 Personal Stories and Impact

    46:07 The Power of Small Actions

    49:51 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    51:31 Closing Remarks and Acknowledgements

    52:25 Sponsor Messages and Farewell

    BIO

    Sonya Shorey, President and CEO, for Invest Ottawa, Bayview Yards, and Area X.O, is a strategy executive and management consultant with more than 22 years of leadership experience with private and public organizations. With expertise in regional, national, and global technology, entrepreneurial, economic development, and innovation-based organizations, she specializes in corporate and communications strategy development and execution. This includes investment strategies that secure new cash and in-kind contributions from public and private sources. Since 2005, Sonya has led, strategized, authored and/or made a significant contribution to successful multi-year funding proposals and initiatives valued at more than $203 million from municipal, provincial, federal, and international governments.

    Within her executive leadership role with Invest Ottawa, Bayview Yards and Area X.O, Sonya plays a pivotal role in developing, leading, and executing strategy for all three organizations. This includes:

    Area X.O, the futureplex of innovation and collaboration for next-generation smart mobility, connectivity and autonomy technologies; The Women Founders and Owners Strategy and Action Plan. This includes co-founding SheBoot, the investment-ready bootcamp for women tech founders designed and delivered by women entrepreneurs and investors, and founding International Women’s Week in Canada’s Capital; and International Women’s Week.

    The first Pan-Ontario Scale-Up Platform of its kind aimed at enabling and accelerating the growth, scaleup and commercial success of more $100 million revenue-generating tech companies in Canada.

    Social

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/sonyashorey/

  • Show NotesHarnessing Resilience: Jennifer Henczel on Community BuildingOvercoming Adversity: Jennifer Henczel's Journey to Building Community and Resilience

    Elaine Lindsay host, welcomes Jennifer Henczel, founder of Women in Podcasting, to share her inspiring journey of resilience and entrepreneurship. Jennifer discusses her transition from a grueling full-time job to becoming a successful entrepreneur, catalyzed by a life-altering tragedy involving her husband.

    Through building supportive communities, she found strength and a path to thriving. Jennifer offers valuable insights into the importance of community, overcoming isolation, and tips for those looking to transition to self-employment. This moving narrative underscores the power of connection and shared human experience.

    00:00 Introduction to Jennifer Henczel

    01:26 Jennifer's Journey to Resilience

    02:57 The Life-Changing Accident

    06:38 Building a Thriving Community

    10:48 The Power of Connection

    13:24 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Community

    20:05 Conclusion and Future Plans

    BIO

    Jennifer Henczel is a Podcaster, Author, and Founder of the Women in Podcasting Network and Inspiring Innovators Club. Jennifer’s mission is to lift women’s voices and stories globally.

    Jennifer Henczel is known for her ability to build thriving, supportive and collaborative communities, and she teaches others how to do the same. She loves creating opportunities for women to connect and collaborate in meaningful ways. Using her “Rise. Reach. Results! Roadmap,” Jennifer provides tools, templates and trainings to help her members generate more impact and influence. Jennifer speaks about her mindset, messaging and monetization strategies for building communities, leveraging content and turning expertise into multiple streams of income.

    Jennifer is an award winning leader and has won or been nominated for a number of awards. Most recently, she is the winner of the Innovator of the Year Award at the Quill Podcast Awards.

    Socials and Links

    Facebook Profile: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.henczel/Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/womeninpodcastingFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenpodcastersclubLinkedin Group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/13907777/Instagram: www.instagram.com/jennifer.henczelYoutube: www.youtube.com/c/womeninpodcastingTwitter: www.twitter.com/jhenczelLinkedin: ca.linkedin.com/in/jenniferhenczelTiktok: www.tiktok.com/@jenniferhenczelClubhouse: https://www.joinclubhouse.com/@jenniferhenczel

    Jennifer Henczel:

    Jennifer Henczel’s Bio: https://www.womeninpodcasting.net/biosWomen in Podcasting Network www.womeninpodcasting.net/join/clubWomen Podcasters Club https://www.womenpodcasters.comRise Reach Results Roadmap https://www.risereachresults.comInspiring Innovators Club https://www.inspiringinnovatorsclub.com
  • Finding Light After Darkness: Tywanah Yvette's Inspiring Journey

    In this heartfelt episode of Suicide Zen Forgiveness, host and guest Tywanah Yvette, also known as Black Butterfly Goddess, share her powerful story of overcoming unimaginable abuse and trauma. Tawana discusses her spiritual awakening and how she now uses her experiences and newfound strength to guide others out of their own darkness. From surviving domestic abuse to attempting suicide, Tawana's journey is a testament to resilience, hope, and the transformative power of love. Tune in to learn how she connects with her ancestors, helps others through her mentorship program, and is set to become a published author. Also featured are reflections on the importance of supporting veterans and a shoutout to the invaluable roles of first responders.

    00:00 Mission to End Silence and Stigma

    01:17 Introducing Tywanah Yvette

    03:39 Tywanah's Early Trauma and Struggles

    07:43 A Turning Point: Near-Death Experience

    11:19 Healing and Spiritual Awakening

    12:57 Empowering Others Through Personal Journey

    20:13 Breaking the Cycle and Moving Forward

    23:28 Breaking the Cycle of Generational Trauma

    24:56 Understanding Victimization and Empathy

    28:29 The Plight of Homeless Veterans

    32:18 Honoring Military Service

    35:56 Upcoming Projects and Personal Growth

    39:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    BIO

    My name is Tywanah, and my journey has been one of profound resilience and self-discovery. From the moment I entered this world, I've been fighting against the odds.

    Born prematurely in 1975, both my mother and I faced a life-threatening situation. Her battle with pneumonia, coupled with a soaring fever, cast a shadow of uncertainty over our survival. Amidst this struggle, my biological father, a charismatic figure with a dark side, inflicted deep wounds upon me, leaving scars that would shape my life's path.

    At the tender age of 15, I summoned the courage to confront the harrowing truth of my past, only to be met with abandonment by most of my family. Left to navigate the harsh reality of the NYC group home system, I found solace in becoming a mother at 18, albeit for reasons tainted by insecurity and societal pressures.

    Despite enduring a tumultuous marriage and a debilitating car accident in 2004 that stripped away my ability to provide for my family, I persevered.

    In 2020, I encountered yet another formidable adversary – a covert malevolent fourth-grade

    teacher who relentlessly sought to undermine my spirit. His relentless attacks pushed me to despair, culminating in a desperate attempt to end my own life. However, amidst the darkness, a glimmer of hope emerged through the spiritual connection with my mother, who imparted her psychic gifts unto me.

    Despite enduring profound loss and heartache, including the estrangement from my children, I've emerged with newfound strength and purpose. Empowered by the support of my ancestral lineage, spanning five generations, I've embarked on a mission to inspire others to shed the masks of societal expectations and embrace their true selves.

    My story is one of resilience, bravery, and unwavering authenticity, and I am committed to sharing it boldly with the world.

    Through this darkness, Black Butterfly Goddess was birthed, and is now a beacon of light for those who need unconditional love and support.

    Socials

    LinkedIn:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/blackbutterflygoddess/#:~:text=www.linkedin.com/in/blackb

    utterflygoddess

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556005901505

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/blackbutterflygoddess/?fbclid=IwAR0Q23fqeosAYJpvIgcRoE2

    XJegBAGSx4t_7PYU6iW0WCPcd65m54XfT_uc

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/BBGoddess888

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCad60fQW8CD8ty8cfWS1qhg

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@blackbutterflygoddess

    Website: www.blackbutterflygoddess.com

    Email: [email protected]

  • Unveiling Stoicism: Jody Betty's Journey Through Trauma and Healing

    In this episode, Elaine Lindsay welcomes back Jody Betty to discuss her new interest in Stoicism and its impact on her life and healing journey. Jody opens up about her childhood experiences with abuse and trauma, explaining how she felt stuck even after extensive therapy. Inspired by Stoic philosophy, she began exploring inner child work, learning to reparent herself and confront her past. Jody shares insights on the practical applications of Stoicism, such as taking pauses before reacting and focusing on what is within one's control. The episode also highlights Jody's work in creating supportive spaces for other trauma survivors, emphasizing the importance of enjoying the healing process and finding joy in daily life. Elaine and Jody reflect on the significance of perspective shifts, active listening, and self-validation in providing emotional well-being.

    00:00 Introduction to Suicide Zen Forgiveness

    00:50 Meet Jody Betty: A Journey of Resilience

    01:27 Exploring Stoicism and Personal Growth

    02:48 Inner Child Work and Healing

    05:30 Jody's Story: Overcoming Childhood Trauma

    09:38 The Power of Sharing and Empathy

    12:45 Applying Stoicism in Daily Life

    23:46 Embracing Change and Overcoming Fear

    26:57 The Art of Active Listening

    28:38 Embracing the Present Moment

    30:33 Finding Joy in Little Moments

    33:46 The Beauty of Photography

    43:03 The Journey to Stoicism

    45:40 Conclusion and Gratitude

    BIO

    Jody Betty is an author, acclaimed blogger and photographer.

    Jody is a three time suicide survivor, and endured multiple sexual traumas from infancy to age 14. She spent many years with unhealthy and destructive coping skills. Jody eventually chose the path of healing, and now shares her stories online to help others understand they are not alone in their thoughts and feelings.

    Jody’s viral blog, “I Want You to Want to Live”, written in 2016, has reached over two million people worldwide, and is translated into a number of different languages. Jody left her email in the blog, and to date, has received over 4000 incoming messages. She has replied to every single one.

    In her free time, Jody passionately advocates and helps people dealing with suicidal crisis’, and mental health issues. She loves to spend time in nature and by water, as that is where she finds her peace. Jody resides in Niagara Falls, Ontario.

    Jody Betty Mentalhealthrawandopen.Podbean.com