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This Isn't Therapy... it's the *encore* episode about AI therapists and if they can ever replace the real thing. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a recent BBC article about why teens are seeking out AI therapist bots and what that means for the future of mental health. Conversational AI or, in other words, "chatbots with a personality" are gaining more attention and users are finding new therapy-ish use-cases on platforms like Character.ai and Replika. The pros, the cons, the risks, and the benefits. All that and more!
BBC Article discussed: Young people turning to AI therapist bots
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is a fun, flirty, fab, encore conversation about loneliness versus being alone. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon explore feelings around how we can feel lonely even though we're surrounded by people we love. Also, how being alone does not always mean you are lonely.
P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's the encore episode about the overuse of therapy language and the impact its having on our relationships. Gaslighting? Triggered? Trauma-bonding? What do these words actually mean!? And are we using them correctly? Listen to find out. Also, Jake and Simon welcome special guests: Dr. Miriam-Webster, Tammy Toxic, and Gary Gaslight. This is an episode you absolutely don't want to miss, mmmmmkay?
Articles:
TIME: Gaslighting, Narcissist, and More Psychology Terms You're Misusing by Angela HauptThe New York Times: How the Language of Therapy Took Over Dating by Dani BlumCreators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
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Jake Ernst: @mswjake
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This Isn't Therapy...this is our *final* episode until the summer break!! On this weeks eppy, Jake and Simon asked "how do you navigate change?" Through two #lovelylisteners stories, they explore the honest struggle that comes with sudden change and how defaulting to "old habits" isn't necessarily a bad thing. Juicy! Sidebar: if you're a first time caller or a long time listener, thank you for being here! See you in the fall xo
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's a doomy episode about the ever-evolving landscape of doomslang. Doomslang, coined by author and linguist Amanda Montell, is a term used to describe dystopian jargon like “dumpster fire” and “doomscroll” and “bed rot”. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how the constant conjuring of End Times is having surprising, unintended, and maybe even dangerous, consequences. From bed rot to brainrot, this episode sure packs a doomsday punch! Oh... and be sure to tune in this week for a very imporant Summertime announcement!
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is a fun, flirty, fab conversation about the control paradox! Arg! How do I get more control? Why must I try to fix everything?! Through two #lovelylistener stories, Simon and Jake explore the paradox of managing our fear of not having control by trying to get more of it. Also, what happens when we try to rush to resolve everything, all the time? AKA being a fix it, Ralph!! Listen to find out.
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's a long-overdue convo about inner worlds and inner children! What is an inner child? Does everyone have one? How do I know if I have one? In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how to reconnect with our inner kids and how to know whether or not our inner child needs healing, attention, connection, or care. What follows is a discussion about inner worlds and why or why we shouldn't explore, or escape into, our inner landscape.
Quote from the episode: "Being left alone with our stressful emotions in childhood creates a wounded inner child in need of healing."
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is an (accidental) deep dive into self-improvement influencers and the impact they're having on men: "how to be more alpha by yelling at the ocean!! How to get a six pack by eating a pound of raw liver a day!! Why being sad is a state of mind so go chew on a football!!!! Oh no!! Don't fret though, Simon and Jake keep it flirty and fun as they discuss the online obsession with fitness, mindset, and self-optimization. Are we undoing the progress we’ve made to reduce mental health stigma?!
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- Beware Lifestyle Fascismby Maya Vinokour
-Why the politics of young men and women are drifting further and further apartby Nimo Omer for The GuardianP.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This isn't therapy... it's an episode about the six types of play everyone needs. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the growing rates of play deprivation and how we've become starved of this essential ingredient for wellbeing. They cover the three types of play we need in infancy and childhood and discuss the three types of play we need in adolescence and adulthood. Let the true meaning behind "fun, flirty, and fabulous" commence!
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's a conversation about becoming a confident, capable, and emotionally mature adult. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the mirage of adulthood and the search for the "real adults". If you're feeling the pressure to perform a certain brand of adulthood, you don't want to miss this one. Jake and Simon dive into an article by Kathryn Jezer-Morton for The Cut called Does anyone feel like an actual adult?and tackle the myth of the ~fully realized~ adult. This one's for anyone who feels like they’re cosplaying as an adult or simply wearing a grown up costume.
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is a flirty fab conversation about loneliness versus being alone. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon explore feelings around how we can feel lonely even though we're surrounded by people we love. Also, how being alone does not always mean you are lonely.
P.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...
Contact: [email protected]
Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is the second-half of a convo about needs (we love a Part 2!!) In this episode, Jake and Simon are piggy backing off last week's episode about uncovering our needs and are now exploring what happens when our needs lead to comparison or conflict. You know her, you love her, she's a little messy: please welcome to the stage....✨Mimetic Rivalries✨!! DC vs Marvel, Apple vs Google, Simon vs Jake 🥵 - when we become too similar, rivalry occurs....is this a bad thing?!
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is a two-part conversation about meeting your needs. What are my needs? What are your needs? How do we meet each others needs?! Oh boy!! In this fun, flirty, fab *throwback* episode, Jake and Simon chat through Primal, Survival, and Growth needs: their evolutionary purpose, self-care, and the difficulty of figuring out what we needs are, in the first place...
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Creators & Guests
Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
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Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is a critical look at the argument that children need less therapy, not more, and how this "mental heath culture" is stripping parents of autonomy, ultimately causing more harm than good. In this episode, Jake and Simon dive into a review (written by Anna Nordberg for Slate) for a book by a right-leaning conspiracy theorist titled Bad Therapy. "In Bad Therapy, Shrier [the book's author] ladles heavy helpings of anecdote over some scientific research to argue that therapists, school counselors, and the language of therapy that has influenced parenting in the past decade or so are, in her view, harming kids." So, what really is harming the kids? Is it therapy or maybe, just maybe, it's something else...
Source: Who’s Making The Kids Cry by Anna Nordberg for Slate
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
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Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's the episode about mimetic desire: why we want what other people want. Human beings learn everything, including our desires, from imitation. In this episode, Jake and Simon go deep and peek behind the comparison curtain to reveal the reasons why we come to want what other people have. If you've ever thought "Ooh, I want that!" or "I should follow that trend..." or "I want more of that lifestyle." then this episode is for you.
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
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Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy...this is an episode about some hard truths learned in therapy. Ever wonder how to give your therapist some feedback?! Or even how would my therapist react if I gave them some feedback?! Through a story posted by an anonymous reddit user, Jake and Simon examine a therapists' struggle after they received some challenging feedback from a client. Then, through some lovely listener submissions, we flip the script and explore some hard truths some folks have taken away from their therapists. Grab a bib coz baby this episode is juicy!!!!!
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it's the surprise solo session with Jake! In this episode, Jake shares two snippets from his weekly newsletter Just Trying To Help. Jake walks us through his theories for how social media is re-wiring our brains, reshaping our moods, and changing how we connect.
P.S. Happy Leap Year! Ribbit Ribbit!
How Social Media Re-Wired Us AllThe Rise of Algorithmic Moods
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it’s a very frank conversation about oversharing and opening up about your mental health online. In this day and age, we've normalized sharing everything online, but is it really helpful? That's the question being asked by Freya India in her recent article "Stop Opening Up About Your Mental Health Online." In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the cultural pressure to participate in digital vulnerability and whether or not that's productive or helpful in the long run. Tune in for a nuanced convo about our digital footprints, constant documentation, online boundaries, and how algorithms create pressure to to be, look, think, and feel a certain way.
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn't Therapy... it’s a bold, beautiful, and brave conversation about ~scrutiny~. Lol no really, it's an important convo about how criticism, judgment, shame, and scrutiny have their way in the public and personal discourse. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about the pros and cons of critical observation and how our judgments help us navigate complex social environments. Oh, and hello, hi to the Swifties and non-Swifties! There's a nugget in this episode for all of you too. 😘 🏈 And stay tuned for a new Asking For A Friend, where Jake and Simon talk about if all emotional reactions are really that deep!
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Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host
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Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This isn't therapy... it's the episode where Brené Brown answers a question from Jake about emotions: "I was thinking about the phrase Mixed Feelings and how feeling more than one feeling at a time can make it hard to label feelings accurately. How do we label emotions precisely when we are feeling a mix of feelings and experiencing separate layers of emotion?"
This is a clip from Brené Brown's episode on her podcast Unlocking Us: Audience Q&A.
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