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  • Join me for this solo episode where I share my advice on how to cultivate positivity. This isn't about adding loads of positivity hacks into your day but instead how you do this at the core of your being - by looking at your beliefs.

     

    I share what beliefs are, how they are created, how they might be impacting you and questions to reflect on.

     

    If you think a friend would find this episode helpful, I would really appreciate you sharing it with them. And if you’re enjoying the podcast, it would mean the world to me if you could leave a review, as it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

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  • Join me as I interview Daisy Morris, Social Media Strategist and Founder of social media consultancy and online community, The Selfhood. Daisy is a breath of fresh air in the social media world, always sharing down to earth advice and her lived experiences, this episode is no different. In this episode, Daisy shares her incredible journey from losing all of her clients in the pandemic, to writing a book and how she has overcome challenges along the way.

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Daisy’s journey to where she is todayThe pressure to create and grow your followingPrioritising your nervous systemAchieving things she once didn’t think were possibleNegative self-talk TinaOvercoming fear and becoming a TedX speakerMicrodosing confidenceExperiencing social anxietyTurning hardships into your purposeDaisy’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

     

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    The Selfhood WebsiteThe Selfhood InstagramThe Selfhood TikTokDaisy’s LinkedInBuy Community Is Your Currency

     

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  • Join me for this solo episode where I share my advice on how to get fear to become your friend rather than your enemy.

     

    I talk about…

    Why fear shows up to keep you safeHow you may have been unconsciously programmedWhat the root of your fear could beWhy you need to shift your perspective on fearThe comfort zoneHow I've faced my fearsHow you can activate your parasympathetic nervous system to calm your body

     

    Good luck with starting to step out of your comfort zone and making fear your friend. You’ve got this!

     

    Please share this episode with a friend who also wants to face their fears! You could become each other’s accountability partners when you start stepping out of your comfort zone.

     

    If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

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  • Join me as I interview Alyssa Jaffer, a Senior Global Communications Manager at Deliveroo and freelance journalist. In this episode, Alyssa shares her feelings on moving to the UK, experiencing lots of change and how her career has evolved through it all. If you want to understand how to pursue a passion and freelance alongside your full-time role, this is a must listen!

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Alyssa’s journey to where she is todayCultural differences at workShifting her career from Journalism to Digital MarketingRejecting feedback and learning from the processAdvocating for your own careerGetting in our own wayOvercoming self-doubt to write for Stylist magazineWays to focus on how much you’re achievingFinding motivation to freelance alongside a full-time roleAlyssa’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

     

    Connect with Alyssa:

    Alyssa’s WebsiteAlyssa’s LinkedInAlyssa’s Instagram

     

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  • Join me as I interview Goodness Victor, a Music Business Exec working as part of Spotify’s Music Partnerships team. Goodness’ courage to follow her interests and pivot when things haven’t felt right is incredibly inspiring. Her story is the perfect example of following your gut whilst also having a plan.

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Goodness’ journey to where she is todayPivoting from Design and Innovation to the Music industryEnding up in a job that didn’t exist when she was youngerHaving the courage to change when things didn’t feel rightAllowing your career to evolvePositive procrastinationAlways having a planTrusting herself and going with her gutRealise younger you knew what career to chooseGoodness’ 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

     

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    Goodness’ WebsiteGoodness’ LinkedInGoodness’ Instagram

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  • Join me for this solo episode where I share my advice on how to become your best self, from a mindset perspective of course! I will be talking you through the 6 key pillars of mindset: intentions, beliefs, language, thoughts, questions and perspectives. Really hope you find this episode helpful – let me know any lightbulb moments or if you have any questions!

     

    Please share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

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  • Join me as I interview Ire Ife-Alabi, a Partnerships Manager at Frieze. Honing her skills in the world of luxury e-commerce and art platforms, Ire is the perfect example of how living life true to your values can help you succeed. This is the episode for you if you want to feel reassured about how life unfolds beautifully and that success doesn’t necessarily mean starting your own business.

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Ire’s journey to where she is todayMentally draining internshipsMaking mistakes and owning up to themTransitioning from Fashion to the Art industryHaving an impact from doing a 9-5Not knowing where she's going but knowing how she wants to do itAlways being kindEmbracing fun in life’s overwhelming momentsHow life can feel like ticking boxesIre’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

     

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  • Join me as I interview Teresa Ferreira, a Brand Consultant and Creative Director, specialising in sustainability and impact. In this episode, Teresa discusses how she worked her way up the corporate ladder before founding her studio for purpose-led businesses to leverage creativity for positive change and strategy to create standout brands. I’m so excited for you to hear her journey and have no doubt it will help, especially if you’re considering taking this leap yourself.

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Teresa’s journey to where she is todayBeing an arty kid in an academic familyExperiencing burnoutHaving many mid-life crisis’Allowing ourselves to be humanPushing yourself out of your comfort zone to get out of your rutDeveloping creative confidenceHow she detaches herself from her creative ideasLearning to love the “what am I doing with my life” momentsTeresa’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

     

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    Teresa’s WebsiteTeresa’s LinkedInTeresa’s Instagram

     

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  • Join me for this solo episode where I take you through 6 steps to help you take action plus my thoughts on following your intuition. Grab a pen and paper, make some notes and I hope you find this helpful!

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

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  • Join me as I interview Amber Shand, a Keynote Speaker, Consultant, and Software Engineer. In this episode, Amber discusses her experience of University and how her journey has enabled her to help women in tech to take up space, use their voice, and build confidence, through the She Bytes Back community. If you’re interested in moving into a completely different industry and role, this is a must listen! Amber’s inspiring energy is just what you need!

     

    Please do share this episode with a friend who you think would find it helpful! If you’re enjoying the podcast I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, it helps me reach even more people to normalise not having it all figured out.

     

    Together we discuss:

    Amber’s journey to where she is todayFeeling shame around not getting great gradesGoing through the process of University clearingNot taking no for an answer and taking bold actionHaving a vision and focusing on the first stepBottling up emotions to embracing how she feelsFinding compassion towards herselfPeople not seeing her potentialAsking herself what she wants her story to beAmber’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Emotional Agility Book

     

    Connect with Amber:

    Amber’s WebsiteAmber’s LinkedInAmber’s InstagramShe Bytes Back

     

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  • I am so incredibly excited to be sharing season 2 of What am I doing with my life? With Elyssa Desai. 


    If you ever sit there thinking what am I doing with my life? This is the podcast for you. I hope each episode will help inspire and motivate you, as well as help you feel less alone.


    Each episode is shared weekly on a Wednesday, with a few short and sweet bonus episodes sprinkled in too. Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss an episode.


    Listen for a little taste of what is coming up in season 2...


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  • Join me for this bonus solo episode to wrap up season 1 of the podcast. During this episode I share my advice if you feel stuck and have no idea what you're doing with your life. Grab a pen and paper as you're going to want to make some notes on the 6 steps I think you should focus on. I hope you find this helpful - I have faith in you, you've got this!


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. 


    I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode, whether you had any lightbulb moments and how you find going through these steps. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching on Instagram if you share this episode with your community and feel free to dm me.


    Episode links/resources:

    The Multi-Hyphen Method by Emma Gannon bookJoin me on InstagramJoin me on Tik TokVisit my website

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  • Join me as I interview Sincerely Oghosa, style and travel influencer. From a young age Oghosa realised her passion in life but her parents didn’t approve - I know so many can resonate. In this episode, Oghosa shares how she navigated this and ended up in a career she loves even though it was unexpected. We discuss allowing ourselves to fail, how you can pick up useful nuggets even from jobs you hate and seeing her life as a movie. This conversation is the perfect example of the typical route isn’t always best and if you keep on focusing on what you love and your why, you will most likely end up where you want to be. If you follow Oghosa on social media, you’ll know how hilarious she is - she is also full of some incredible wisdom which I have no doubt will help you on your journey.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @sincerelyoghosa, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Oghosa’s journey – ending up in a career she loves even if it is unexpectedHow she built her content creation career across 10 yearsFinding fragments of joy when she was in an awful jobDealing with the battle of her parents not approvingGoing viral (+ her tips)How watching biopics helped her in her journeyLucky numbers and angel numbersHer high school musical momentHow the influencer industry changed in the aftermath of George Floyd's murderAlways moving in a new direction & trying new thingsOghosa’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Oghosa’s InstagramOghosa’s Tik TokOghosa’s YouTube

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  • Join me as I interview Teri Ann Bobb-Baxter, actress, voiceover artist and founder of Speak Up Drama. This conversation is the perfect reminder that education and your past in general don't need to define your future. During this episode, Teri shares how a pivotal moment at school changed her life and shaped her career - now she gets to run her business alongside her purpose and passion. We discuss not allowing one thing to make you feel like you'll never be successful, perspective shifts and how she now teaches kids to be confident, something she used to struggle with when she was younger. Teri's positive energy is infectious and I hope you finish this episode with a smile on your face and some action steps to implement.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @teribobb, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Teri's journey – from struggling to find her voice at school to becoming a voiceover artistHow finding acting changed her life Navigating the world of actingBeing dropped by her agentFeeling stuck and needing changeHow challenging moments have come up to give her strengthComing up with the idea for Speak Up Drama and growing the businessHow sharing her journey was on her vision boardTeri's 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Teri's Actor WebsiteTeri's InstagramSpeak Up Drama's WebsiteSpeak Up Drama's Instagram

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  • Join me as I interview Sophie Anne Perry, Beauty Industry Educator & Practitioner with over 14 years experience in the beauty and wellness space. This conversation is a huge reminder to enjoy the journey, focus on your purpose and know you will get there, the fun is figuring it out along the way. I have no doubt you’re going to want a pen and piece of paper to write down some of Sophie’s advice, she shares so much wisdom! It's no surprise she's established herself as a much-loved positive voice in the beauty industry. During this episode, we discuss how her career has evolved, growing her confidence doing Instagram lives, goals without timeframes and much more.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @sophieanneperry, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Sophie's journey – from hairdressing to finding the elements of the beauty industry she lovesFalling into her career and always enjoying the journeyAllowing your career, purpose and life to change as you evolveComparison and how to take a positive from itHer first Instagram live - feeling completely out of her comfort zone and how she found confidence to do itDealing with trolls What she actually does day-to-dayNot limiting yourself with 5/10 year goalsSophie's 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Sophie's WebsiteSophie's TikTokSophie's Instagram

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  • Join me as I interview Gina Jackson, travel writer, content creator, and the author of two books: 'British Boutique Hotels' and 'London Hotels'. If you're familiar with Gina's blog and Instagram, you'll understand when I say I want to dive into every one of the beautiful photos she shares. During this episode, Gina discusses how consistency and creating her own opportunities have led to some incredible career moments, including becoming an author. This conversation is a lesson in not being afraid to put yourself out there and asking yourself what is the worse that can happen - I really hope it gives you some encouragement on your journey to pursue something you've been thinking about for a while.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @ginagoesto, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Gina's journey – feeling like a small cog in a big wheel to taking the plunge to work for herselfLiving a life she once didn't think was possibleStarting her blog as a creative outlet at UniversityComparisonThe importance of consistencyHow she pitched her book ideaCreating your own opportunitiesSeeing yourself and your career as a business How her full time career and every step along the way has helped herGina's 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    British Boutique HotelsLondon HotelsGina's BlogGina's Instagram

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  • Join me as I interview Emily Valentine Parr, Influencer, Talent Manager and Influencer Coach. If you follow Emily on social media you know she always shares her life so authentically - this episode is no different. Emily openly discusses her journey from job hoping to being fired and landing her first £5000 deal while on holiday in Cuba. She has an incredible mindset and you can really hear the inner belief she has in herself - I have no doubt you will feel motivated listening to this conversation and be able to use some of her words of wisdom for your own life.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @officialemilyvalentine, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community.


    Together we discuss:

    Emily’s journey – how she went from job hoping to becoming an influencer How she dealt with being fired - and kept herself motivatedWhy taking action was key during her journey even when she didn’t have the confidence Landing her first £5000 brand deal while on holiday in Cuba Navigating friendships as your paths change Expectations in relationships How she helps aspiring influencers Stepping outside her comfort zone to launch the Influencer Business Academy Emily’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Sign up to Emily's newsletterJoin the Influencer Business Academy waitlist (Affiliate Link)Emily's free webinar - The Full-Time Influencer Formula: 3 secret steps to landing consistent 4-figure brand partnerships (even with a small following)Emily's Tik Tok Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

    ADHD resources from Emily:

    Emily's ADHD journeyI Am Paying AttentionCandin Phillips

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  • Join me as I interview Derin Adetosoye, content creator and presenter, working for Formula E and Formula 1. Derin exudes positive energy and I’m sure you will finish this episode feeling as motivated as I did with a strong belief that everything happens for a reason. During our conversation, Derin discusses becoming a content creator at 14, being influenced to choose a different path to her passion and how being 1 mark away from getting into University ended up being the biggest blessing. She has been on a journey of self-love and connecting to what she truly wants and needs in life, which I know will inspire you.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @derinadetosoye on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Derin’s journey – from YouTube, to missing out on Uni then landing an incredible opportunity  Starting a YouTube channel when she was 14How vlogging her GCSE results was a pivotal momentBeing influenced by her teachers to follow a more academic pathMissing her first choice Uni by 1 markAlways having patience, faith and trustWhy cultivating self-worth and self-love is so importantHow she built her confidenceIntentional livingSeeing life like a exciting drive to an incredibly beautiful destinationDerin’s 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Derin’s InstagramDerin’s YouTube ChannelAtomic Habits

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  • Join me for this bonus solo episode as I talk about my journey. From the years of having no idea what I was doing with my life, moving from job to job feeling unfulfilled, doing a complete career 360 and crying on my first day as it felt completely wrong to finding my purpose, starting my coaching diploma and launching my own business.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching on Instagram if you share this episode with your community.


    In this episode I share:

    My journey - how I went from job hopping, to finally doing something I loveNot enjoying learning at school and Uni - how this has changed nowHow a career rock bottom moment was actually one of the best things to happen for meQuitting jobs and the belief I always heldMy proof it was possible for meHow I helped myself through moments of self doubt, uncertainty and comparisonBeing scared of public speaking but now loving doing a speech at my weddingFiguring out my purposeMy 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Join me on InstagramJoin me on Tik TokVisit my website

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  • Join me as I interview Courtney Smith, Stylist, Creative Director, Presenter and all-round style maven. Speaking with Courtney was an absolute joy, it's hard not to feel motivated by her journey and determination since her fashion shows aged 7. In this episode, Courtney discusses how she went from months of sending emails with no replies, to a cancelled screen test which led to an incredible career opportunity. She’s taken risks, pivoted and always strived to be the best version of herself. I can’t wait for you to hear all the wisdom she shares, which I know is going to help you in your journey.


    I would appreciate it so much if you could leave a review, rate and subscribe to the podcast - thank you so much in advance!! If you leave a review, please screenshot it and email to me at [email protected] so I can send you a free visualisation track. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode and whether you had any lightbulb moments. Please tag me @elyssadesaicoaching and my guest, @courtneysmithstyle, on Instagram if you share this episode with your community. 


    Together we discuss:

    Courtney’s journey – always having huge passion for clothes and being determined to pursue that How a comment from one of her tutors influenced her career direction Moving back to Ireland, after studying in London, and the challenge to find work plus keep herself motivated How a cancelled screen test turned into an incredible career she wasn’t expecting Career pivots, taking risks and being in different phases of your career Getting back to being in front of the camera with Closet Confidential Being in the 5am club before it was a trend Courtney’s advice if you would love to do what she does Manifesting things on her vision board – even when she hasn’t realised it Courtney's 3 pieces of advice if you’re feeling stuck right now, thinking what am I doing with my life...

    Episode links/resources:

    Courtney's InstagramCloset ConfidentialThe Artist's Way

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