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  • Since the 1890s, the term queer was initially used as a derogatory slur against gay men until it was later reclaimed by the LGBTQ+ community as a symbol of empowerment and inclusivity. Today, it’s used non-offensively as an inclusive term that embraces a wide spectrum of sexual orientations and gender identities within the community.

    In this episode, we're taking a look into the etymology of the word queer, tracing its origins as a slur, and examining the pivotal moments and motivations behind the LGBTQ+ community's powerful reclamation of the term.

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    Queer (Etymology)Queer (Definition)How the Word ‘Queer’ was Adopted by the LGBTQ CommunityMarquess of Queensberry‘Queer’ History: A History of QueerOscar Wilde TrialReviled, Reclaimed and Respected: The History of the Word 'Queer'Come Out!

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  • In recent years, several states have enacted bans on queer books, citing unsubstantiated claims ranging from content deemed inappropriate to concerns about age-appropriateness. These bans have restricted access to diverse and affirming literature for the LGBTQ+ community, leading to feelings of erasure and marginalization, and hindered the representation and visibility of queer identities, which is crucial for fostering understanding and acceptance.

    In this episode, Alexander Rigby, a New York Times Bestselling Editor at Penguin Random House and curator of the publisher’s LGBTQ+ Network, joins us to discuss the impacts of queer book bans on LGBTQ+ people, how Penguin Random House is continuing to promote queer voices, and ways the LGBTQ+ community can support queer authors and push back against unjust book bans.

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    Listen to Episode 95. Take a Page from #GayBookstagram (with Rod Lujano)Listen to Episode 101. Sci-Fi: The Future is Queer (with TQ Sims)


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    Learn More About Alexander RigbyFollow Alexander on InstagramFollow Penguin Random House LGBTQ+ Network on InstagramCheck Out Pride in Your WordsFollow Penguin Random House on Instagram

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  • Heterosexism is a system of attitudes, biases, and discrimination that privileges heterosexuality and marginalizes and oppresses LGBTQ+ people. This pervasive bias can lead to significant negative impacts on LGBTQ+ individuals, including increased rates of mental health issues, social isolation, and barriers to accessing healthcare and other essential services.

    In this episode, we’re delving into the concept of heterosexism, exploring how it manifests in various aspects of society, the trauma it can inflict on LGBTQ+ individuals, and strategies for overcoming this pervasive bias.

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    Listen to Episode 39. We Are Family: Part 1 (with Michelle Loveless)Listen to Episode 59. Say Bye Bye Bye to Bi Erasure (with Sam McClain)Listen to Episode 63. The Stonewall RiotsListen to Episode 69. That's So Gay (You Really Shouldn't Say That)


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    Homophobia DefinitionGeorge WeinbergHeterosexism (Definition)The Stonewall Riots: Coming Out in the StreetsHeroes of Stonewall: Craig RodwellBeyond “Homophobia”: Thinking About Sexual Prejudice and Stigma in the Twenty-First CenturyPrejudice, Social Stress, and Mental Health in Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Populations: Conceptual Issues and Research EvidenceThe Context of Anti-Gay ViolenceHomophobia: A Weapon of SexismHeterosexism & HomophobiaHeterosexist Microaggressions, Student Academic Experience and Perception of Campus Climate: Findings From an Italian Higher Education ContextMicroaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, Gender, and Sexual OrientationHow Heterosexism Can Be TraumaticHow to Combat Heterosexism

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  • In previous episodes, we explored pop culture’s resonance with the LGBTQ+ community, serving as both a reflection of societal changes and a source of representation and validation. Pop icons in music, film, television, and other media often highlight diverse narratives and characters that resonate with the experiences and identities of LGBTQ+ people while advocating for equal rights and visibility.

    In this episode, Carmine Davis, singer and host of The Carmine Davis Show, joins us to discuss his relationship with pop culture, icons who have inspired his career, and how inclusive pop culture can be a positive force of change for the LGBTQ+ community.

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    Listen to Episode 04. Pop Icons and Their Gay Emotional Appeal


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    Learn More About Carmine DavisFollow Carmine Davis on InstagramTune in to The Carmine Davis ShowStream All Friendship is RomanticBook Carmine Davis on Cameo

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  • Art has been a vital form of expression for queer people, providing a powerful platform to explore, celebrate, and communicate their identities, experiences, and struggles in a world where their voices are often marginalized.

    In this episode, Jacoby Nordberg joins us to discuss his experiences as a queer artist, exploring how art serves as a profound medium for expressing his identity and the broader impact of art in empowering and giving voice to the LGBTQ+ community.

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    Learn More About Jacoby NordbergFollow Jacoby on InstagramFollow Jacoby on TikTokCheck Out Jacoby’s Portfolio

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  • LGBTQ+ individuals often struggle to find their community and a place of support, encountering societal stigma and discrimination that can make it challenging to connect with others who share their experiences and understand their unique needs. LGBTQ+ individuals who also have autism often navigate a complex intersection of identities, facing distinct challenges and experiences that require support and understanding.

    In this episode, Max Korten joins us to discuss his experiences as a gay man with autism, queer dating with a developmental disability, and how we can all work together to make the LGBTQ+ community a more inclusive space.

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  • Located at the northern tip of Cape Code in Massachusetts, Provincetown is a coastal town renowned for its vibrant arts scene and historic significance and celebrated as a premier gay tourist destination known for its inclusive atmosphere, lively LGBTQ+ events, and welcoming community.

    In this episode, we’re diving into Provincetown's rich history, exploring how it evolved into a premier gay tourist destination and uncovering the vibrant tapestry of its queer heritage.

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    US Census BureauA Brief History of Provincetown, MassachusettsHow Ptown Got So Gay, Gay, GayWhy Is Provincetown So Gay?Cape Queer? A Case Study of Provincetown, MassachusettsThe Pilgrim HouseThe Pilgrim House Hotel (May 17, 1973)Fantasia Fair: Miscellaneous DocumentsWomencraftsProvincetown Business GuildCarnivalPtown Hacks (Towleroad 2015)Bear Week ProvincetownBear Week

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  • LGBTQ+ advocacy dates back to early 20th-century efforts, such as the formation of the Society for Human Rights in 1924, and gained momentum with landmark events like the 1969 Stonewall Riots, which galvanized a global movement for equality and rights. Despite significant progress, ongoing advocacy is crucial to combat persistent discrimination, ensure legal protections, and promote societal acceptance for LGBTQ+ individuals worldwide.

    In this episode, Anthony Munger, Program Manager for the Louisville Pride Foundation and a licensed social worker, joins us to discuss the importance of continued LGBTQ+ advocacy, especially around areas impacting LGBTQ+ health.

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    Follow Anthony Munger on InstagramLearn More About Louisville Pride Foundation

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  • The Trump administration had a detrimental impact on LGBTQ+ rights by rolling back protections and supporting religious exemptions that allowed discrimination against LGBTQ+ individuals. Looking ahead to the 2024 election, The Heritage Foundation has published Project 2025, a 920-page extremist policy agenda and staffing blueprint with conservative ideals, for the next Republican administration to swiftly implement upon taking office in January 2025.

    In this episode, we’re dissecting the Heritage Foundation's conservative influence, including its significant impact on the Trump administration's policies, and why Project 2025 poses a serious threat to LGBTQ+ Americans and democracy at large.

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    The Heritage FoundationMandate for LeadershipHow One Conservative Think Tank is Stocking Trump’s GovernmentKevin RobertsDonations Have Surged to Groups Linked to Conservative Project 2025Mandate for Leadership: The Conservative PromiseThe White House Gender Policy CouncilCongressional Leaders Form Task Force to Counter Project 2025 and Defend DemocracySign the Petition to Reject Project 2025Sign the Petition Urging Congress to Pass the Equality Act

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  • In today's challenging real estate market, aspiring home buyers grapple with rising prices, limited inventory, and intense competition, making the pursuit of homeownership more difficult than ever. To add a layer of complexity, gay home buyers may encounter challenges such as discrimination, limited representation, and concerns about acceptance in certain neighborhoods, highlighting the ongoing need for a more inclusive and affirming real estate environment.

    In this episode, Ryan Windt, a Philadelphia-based real estate agent, joins us to share key factors that LGBTQ+ people should be mindful of when house hunting, along with homebuying tips and myths.

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    Listen to Episode 24. Gay Villages: Won't You Be My Gaybor? Listen to Episode 106. Long Live Queer Nightlife (with Amin Ghaziani)

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    Send Ryan Your Real Estate InquiriesFollow Ryan on InstagramWhy You Should Let a Gay Realtor Help You Find Your Next Home!Why Gayborhoods Matter: The Street Empirics of Urban SexualitiesOnce a Crucial Refuge, ‘Gayborhoods’ Lose L.G.B.T.Q. Residents in Major Cities

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  • During Pride month, many corporations and "allies" enthusiastically showcase their support, donning rainbows and sponsoring LGBTQ+ events. But once July 1st rolls around, the vibrant displays of pro-LGBTQ+ sentiments often fade from their workplaces, leaving questions about the depth of their commitment to inclusivity.

    In this episode, we’re addressing “performative allyship,” a form of superficial activism that focuses on the appearance of allyship rather than meaningful action, and discussing how “allies” can and should do better.

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    Corporate Performative Allyship: It’s Hurting Your Bottom LinePerformative Allyship: How to Spot It and Avoid Engaging with ItPerformative Allies Are Out Here Being Fake As HellThere's More to Allyship Than Pride and RainbowsPride Month Marketing: Avoid Performative AllyshipTrue Allyship: A Toolkit for Allies of the LGBTQIA+ Community

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  • Throughout LGBTQ+ history, drag has held an essential role as a form of expression, resistance, and solidarity, offering a platform for self-discovery and challenging societal norms. From fighting back in the Stonewall Riots to raising funds for research during the AIDS crisis, it has been instrumental in fostering community, amplifying voices, and advocating for equality and acceptance.

    In this episode, Bev (@itsbevbitch), Philadelphia’s very own Queen of Comedy, joins us to share her experiences as a fabulous drag performer and how drag continues to intersect activism while pushing back against anti-drag legislation.

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    Learn More About BevWatch Bev’s PerformancesFollow Bev on InstagramFollow Bev on TikTokFollow Bev on FacebookFollow Bev on XBook Bev on CameoSupport BevThe Extraordinary Rise of Drag Brunch: A Dining Delight or a Betrayal of Queer History?

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  • Despite the rainbows and parades, Pride tends to remind the LGBTQ+ people of the systemic oppression queer communities have faced, highlighting the ongoing journey toward true equality. Amidst this struggle, it's crucial to embrace and celebrate queer joy as a testament to resilience and a beacon of hope for a more inclusive future.

    In this episode, we’re delving into the importance of queer joy and how we can embrace it year-round to challenge the narrative that being queer is rooted in trauma while continuing to raise our voices for further progress and equality.

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    Queer Joy: What It is and Why We Need More of ItSustaining Queer Joy and Potentiality: Through Independent Production with Homoground Music PodcastThe Art of Queer JoyQueer Joy As EmpowermentCelebrating Queer Joy During PrideThis is What LGBTQ+ Joy Looks LikeThe Queer Joy ProjectThe Queer Joy Project: Tell Your StoryThe Queer Joy Project: Get Involved

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  • Poetry serves as a rich medium where the intersecting identities of gay men, encompassing aspects of sexuality, gender, race, class, and more, intertwine to craft narratives that reflect the multifaceted experiences and perspectives within the LGBTQ+ community.

    In this episode, Anthony DiPietro, author of kiss & release, joins us to discuss the importance of inclusive literature, the queerness of poetry, and incorporating pride in his writing.

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    Learn More About Anthony DiPietroFollow Anthony DiPietro on InstagramRead kiss & release

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  • In previous episodes, we discussed how the shifting dynamics of gayborhoods and dating app culture have impacted queer nightlife. While the closure of traditional gay bars might be viewed by some as a cause for concern, it fosters a broader conversation about the organic evolution of queer social spaces.

    In this episode, Amin Ghaziani, Professor of Sociology and Canada Research Chair in Sexuality and Urban Studies at the University of British Columbia and author of six books and countless academic articles, joins us to discuss his research and findings on today’s queer nightlife and how we can all work together to create a future where every individual finds belonging and celebration in our shared spaces.

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    Learn More About Amin GhazianiFollow Amin Ghaziani on InstagramFollow Amin Ghaziani on XRead Long Live Queer NightlifeRead Why Gayborhoods Matter: The Street Empirics of Urban Sexualities

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  • In previous episodes, we discussed the origins of Pride and the importance of continuing to stand up for equality. However, members of the LGBTQ+ community debate the meaning, purpose, and execution of modern-day Pride celebrations, which highlights the lack of diversity within mainstream events.

    In this episode, Tyrell Brown, Executive Director of the radical social justice organization Galaei, joins us to discuss the importance of intersectionality and the ongoing work needed to ensure that Pride truly reflects the diversity of our community.

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    Learn More About Tyrell BrownFollow Tyrell Brown on InstagramLearn More About GalaeiLearn More About Philly Pride 365Follow Galaei on InstagramFollow Galaei on FacebookFollow Galaei on X

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  • Following the Stonewall Riots, San Francisco’s Castro District gained a reputation for its relative openness and soon emerged as a gay haven. During the 1970s and 1980s, a group of predominantly white, masculine-presenting gay men gained prominence for their uniform aesthetic, characterized by closely cropped hair, well-groomed mustaches, denim attire, and a rugged, hyper-masculine appearance.

    In this episode, we’re exploring the origins and characteristics of this archetype, referred to as the Castro Clone, along with some famous Clones, and how this subculture both challenged and perpetuated narrow ideals of masculinity.

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    Castro CloneCastro District, San FranciscoThe History of the CastroCruisin’ with the Mustache CrewArthur EvansHow the '70s “Clone” Look Paved the Way for the Queer Clothing of TodayThe Incredibly Gay History of Manly ClothesAfraid You're Not Butch Enough?The Fabulous Sylvester: The Legend, the Music, the Seventies in San Francisco

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  • Healthcare promotes the wellbeing of individuals and fosters societal resilience by addressing health challenges, preventing diseases, and providing essential medical support. However, marginalized communities, such as the LGBTQ+ community, have historically encountered challenges in accessing inclusive healthcare, facing discrimination, stigmatization, and inadequate understanding of their unique health needs.

    In this episode, Max Austin, author of How Can We Be Wrong?, joins us to discuss his experiences as a nurse coming out during the early 1990s HIV/AIDS crisis and ways to advocate for more inclusive healthcare.

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    Learn More About Max AustinBuy How Can We Be Wrong?Follow Max Austin on InstagramFollow Max Austin on TikTokFollow Max Austin on X

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  • Societal pressures surrounding marriage often fuel negative perceptions of being single, creating undue stress and stigma for those who haven't followed traditional relationship paths. Meanwhile, gay men may encounter challenges in forming healthy long-term relationships due to societal prejudices, lack of legal recognition, and historical marginalization, contributing to a higher prevalence of singlehood within the community.

    In this episode, we’re exploring the joys of embracing singlehood, finding happiness in solitude, and navigating the journey towards self-love while overcoming the societal stigma and pressures of single-shaming.

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    Single PersonHow Many People are Single in the World? Answered 2024What Single Shaming is and How to Respond If Someone Does It to You'Single Shaming': Why People Jump to Judge the Un-PartneredGay Promiscuity StatisticsThe Effect of Sexual Orientation on Singlehood: Evidence from the Greek Cultural Context57% of Single Adults in U.S. Not Looking to Date, Survey SaysNormalize Being Single in Your 30s as a Healthy Relationship StatusReasons Why You Need to Embrace SinglehoodHow to Embrace Being Single

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  • Inclusive representation in various literary genres offers LGBTQ+ people a sense of visibility, validation, and connection as they see their experiences authentically mirrored, which fosters a more affirming narrative for readers. One such genre, sci-fi, often serves as a creative and inclusive space, intertwining with queerness to explore diverse identities, relationships, and societal constructs beyond conventional norms.

    In this episode, TQ Sims, author of Godspeed, Lovers, joins us to discuss the importance of inclusive literature, the queerness of the sci-fi genre, and his futuristic novel.

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    Follow TQ Sims on InstagramRead Godspeed, LoversVisit The Lovers Universe

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