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  • This Week on Dopey! We are joined by brilliant singer/songwriter/guitar player Duane Betts! Duane grew up touring with the Allman Brothers Band with his father - the legendary Dickie Betts! Duane gets super honest and raw on his childhood on tour, his life bicoastal between Malibu and Florida. Getting into music, playing in bands and how he got lost in the world of addiction and how he found himself clean, sober and enjoying his life. PLUS! Voicemails! Emails and the return of Howard 'Beach' Buksbaum! All that and more on a brand new episode of that good old Dopey Show! notes from the editor:- growing up on tour- mdma youth- living in malibu at cher's house- various music projects- malibu black tar- allman brothers and heroin- car accident while scoring crack- crack and tar dabs- finding his friend dead- crack OD- possession arrest- making him choose between family in the game lol AI NOTES: keywordsDopey Podcast, addiction, recovery, harm reduction, Dwayne Betts, music, personal stories, community support, therapy, drug culture, addiction, recovery, music, family, relationships, heroin, opiates, community, DopeyCon, Dwayne BettstakeawaysDavid shares his struggles with addiction and love for drugs.The importance of compassion in addiction treatment is emphasized.Debate on whether harm reduction strategies enable drug use.Community support is crucial in recovery, as seen in DopeyCon.Listeners share their personal stories, highlighting the podcast's impact.Therapy is presented as a vital tool for self-care and recovery.David discusses his early experiences with drugs and music.Dwayne Betts reflects on his father's legacy and his own musical journey.The transition from fun to addiction is explored in depth.Malibu's drug culture and its influence on David's life are discussed. Addiction can lead to a tumultuous journey filled with highs and lows.Relationships often suffer due to the effects of addiction.Recovery is a personal journey that can take many forms.Music can serve as a powerful tool for healing and connection.Community support is crucial in the recovery process.Experiences with drugs can vary greatly depending on the environment.Finding purpose in life after addiction is essential for long-term recovery.The legacy of family can influence one's path in life and recovery.Engaging with others who share similar experiences can foster healing.Life can be beautiful and fulfilling after overcoming addiction.titlesCelebrating Community: DopeyCon 500Harm Reduction: A Double-Edged Sword? The Role of Community in RecoveryReflections on Life After AddictionsummaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim shares his personal struggles with addiction, the importance of compassion in treatment, and the ongoing debate surrounding harm reduction strategies. The conversation highlights community support through events like DopeyCon, the significance of therapy in recovery, and personal stories from listeners. David also interviews musician Dwayne Betts, discussing his father's legacy and the impact of growing up in a musical family amidst drug culture in Malibu. The episode explores the transition from fun to addiction and reflects on the challenges faced along the way. In this conversation, Dwayne Betts shares his journey through addiction, the impact it had on his relationships, and his path to recovery. He reflects on his experiences with drugs, the challenges of touring, and the importance of community and family in his life. Dwayne discusses how music has become a source of purpose and joy for him, and he emphasizes the beauty of life after addiction. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon and the significance of community engagement in recovery.Sound Bites"I'm a junkie""Compassion and connection are two things I strive to have.""Does this enable users to go hard in the paint?""I just want this to end.""I have all of these experiences from being in nice houses.""I got probably 21."Chapters00:00Introduction to Dopey Podcast and Personal Struggles02:55The Role of Compassion in Addiction Treatment05:47Debate on Harm Reduction Strategies09:07Celebrating Milestones and Community Support11:59Voicemail Stories and Listener Engagement18:05The Importance of Therapy and Self-Care20:01Personal Stories of Addiction and Recovery27:12Interview with Dwayne Betts: Musical Legacy and Personal Journey34:10Growing Up in a Musical Family and Early Experiences with Drugs39:50The Transition from Fun to Addiction49:47Reflections on Malibu Life and Drug Culture01:07:02The Journey Through Addiction01:12:50The Impact of Addiction on Relationships01:20:30Finding Recovery and New Beginnings01:30:11Life After Addiction: Music and Purpose01:34:01Reflections on Recovery and Community01:40:06The Legacy of Family and Music01:46:13The Future of Dopey and Community Engagement

  • On this very controversial teaser my dad and our special guest join in! My Dad gives his controversial take on Safe Spot! Plus DopeyCon info and much much more!

    AI Notes:

    keywordsDopey Podcast, DopeyCon, Safe Spot Hotline, drug addiction, Patreon, father-son conversation, podcast critiques, drug safety, humor, recoverysummaryIn this episode of the Dopey Podcast, David Manheim welcomes his father back to discuss various topics, including the benefits of joining their Patreon, critiques of the podcast, and a heated debate about the Safe Spot Hotline and its implications for drug users. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the complexities of drug addiction and recovery.takeawaysDavid's dad has been listening to recent episodes.Patreon offers exclusive content and discounts for DopeyCon.Merchandise is a perk for Patreon subscribers.David's dad provides constructive criticism of the podcast.The Safe Spot Hotline is a controversial topic.There are pros and cons to the Safe Spot Hotline.David believes the hotline saves lives.Critics argue it may enable drug use.The conversation touches on personal experiences with addiction.DopeyCon 500 is highly anticipated and nearly sold out.titlesThe Return of Dad to DopeyThe Safe Spot Hotline DebateSound Bites"I have listened to the last three or four...""If you want to join Patreon, you go to...""Real Patreon people get all this stuff."Chapters00:00Welcome Back to Dopey03:13Patreon Benefits and DopeyCon06:06Critiques and Improvements08:57Safe Spot Hotline Discussion17:47Debate on Drug Use and Safety23:54Closing Thoughts and DopeyCon 500
  • This week on Dopey we are joined by singer/songwriter, guitar player and all around good guy and new(ish) friend Anders Osborne! Anders and I have a fun talk about next level recovery, spirituality and some of his last days of using! Plus his time playing with Toots and the Maytals and Phil Lesh! Twas a beautiful time! PLUS voicemails, emails, DopeyCon 500, Lux Dungeon's The Muffin Man and much much much more on this brand new episode of the good old Dopey show.

    NOTE: DopeyCon 500 doors open at 4pm show starts at 4:30pm!

    Dopeycon 500 Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    Patreon: whttps://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    Here is what AI said:

    keywordsDopey, addiction, recovery, community, compassion, sobriety, music, mental health, support, personal storiessummaryIn this episode of Dopey, host David Manheim discusses the importance of compassion and connection in recovery, shares listener stories, and reflects on the journey of sobriety. The conversation features musician Anders Osborne, who shares insights on purification, self-discovery, and the duality of experience in recovery. The episode emphasizes the significance of community support, the role of music in healing, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding.takeawaysCompassion and connection are essential in recovery.Community engagement is vital for celebrating milestones.Listener stories highlight the struggles and triumphs of sobriety.Moderation in alcohol consumption can be beneficial for some.Detox experiences can be challenging but transformative.Purification in recovery involves self-discovery and awareness.Loss and grief can significantly impact the recovery journey.Music plays a crucial role in healing and recovery.Ambition can coexist with recovery but should be balanced.Finding purpose through suffering can lead to personal growth.titlesThe Role of Music in HealingNavigating Ambition in SobrietySound Bites"Compassion and connection is just the way to do it.""It's gonna sell out!""Leave a five-star review on iTunes!"Chapters00:00Introduction to DopeyCon and the Podcast's Mission02:56The Importance of Compassion in Recovery05:49Celebrating Milestones and Community Engagement09:09Listener Stories: Struggles and Triumphs12:04Sponsorships and Support for Recovery14:48The Role of Moderation in Alcohol Consumption18:07Reflections on Detox and Early Recovery Experiences20:53Voicemail Stories: Precipitated Withdrawal23:53Introducing Anders Osborne: A Journey Through Recovery26:46Purification and Self-Discovery in Recovery30:08The Impact of Loss and Grief in Recovery33:12The Journey of Sobriety: From Darkness to Light36:02The Role of Music in Healing and Recovery38:54Ambition and Its Place in Recovery41:48The Duality of Experience: Pain and Joy44:51Finding Purpose Through Suffering48:01The Importance of Community in Recovery50:48Final Thoughts and Reflections on the Journey54:08Closing Remarks and Future Aspirations
  • This week on the teaser we are joined by a special guest! He doesn't like when i put his name in the description. We talk all about his plan of making a Banana Ball song! Just listen to the thing...

    Here is what AI said....

    summaryThis episode of Dopey Tuesday Teaser discusses DopeyCon, the DopeyCon theme song challenge, and Ray's involvement in the Banana Ball game. The hosts also talk about their songs and their plans for DopeyCon. The conversation touches on various topics such as addiction, music, and pop culture.keywordsDopey, DopeyCon, theme song challenge, Banana Ball, addiction, music, pop culturetakeawaysDopeyCon is an upcoming event that the hosts are excited aboutThe DopeyCon theme song challenge is happening on PatreonRay is involved in the Banana Ball game and has written a song about itThe hosts discuss their songs and plans for DopeyContitlesSongs and Plans for DopeyConRay's Involvement in Banana BallSound Bites"DopeyCon is coming. It's our fifth DopeyCon. It's October 5th. It's in New York City.""We will put up all the songs on Dopey Patreon, and the one with the most likes wins.""Dopey con is October 5th. Yeah, do you have a song? No, you don't have a song. What's your plan?"Chapters00:00Introduction and DopeyCon05:05DopeyCon Theme Song Challenge08:13Ray's Involvement in Banana Ball09:11Songs and Plans for DopeyCon
  • This week on Dopey! We are joined by Cookie Magnate, creator of Janie's Life Changing Baked Goods - Janie Deegan! Janie might be the feel good Dopey of the year - a drunk and homeless New Yorker who saved her soul by making cookies! Janie's story starts off innocently enough before she tumbles down the stairs of total rock bottom insanity! Plus there are multiple voicemails, emails and much more on this sad, salty but ultimately super sweet new episode of the good old Dopey Show!

    AI Notes:

    summaryJanie Deegan, the founder of Janie's life-changing baked goods, joins the podcast to discuss her journey and the impact of her baked goods. She shares how she got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village. Janie also talks about her early experiences with alcohol and the thrill of drinking as a teenager. The conversation touches on the challenges of production and the potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli. Overall, the episode explores Janie's life-changing baked goods and her personal journey. Janie reflects on her early experiences with alcohol and drugs, from feeling like an outsider in her teenage years to finding her identity in partying. She discusses her codependent and abusive relationship in college, where she turned to alcohol as a way to cope. After graduating, she moved back to Ann Arbor and her alcoholism escalated, leading to financial and personal problems. Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. After experiencing the emotional bottom of her alcoholism, Janie enters a period of darkness and depression. She meets a sober guy who becomes a bright spot in her life, but she is unable to maintain a relationship with him due to her drinking. Janie's drinking escalates, leading to consequences and interventions from her friends and family. She goes through multiple rehab programs and detoxes, but struggles to fully commit to sobriety. Eventually, she ends up in a shelter and then in a therapeutic community on the Upper West Side. Janie Deegan shares her incredible journey from addiction and homelessness to becoming a successful entrepreneur. She talks about her experiences in rehab, her struggles with sobriety, and how baking became her outlet and passion. Janie's story is a testament to the power of resilience, determination, and finding purpose in life.keywordsJanie Deegan, Janie's life-changing baked goods, sobriety, alcohol, East Village, production challenges, collaboration, Katz's Deli, alcohol, drugs, identity, codependency, abuse, college, partying, coping, addiction, Ann Arbor, alcoholism, emotional bottom, depression, sober relationship, consequences, interventions, rehab, detox, shelter, therapeutic community, addiction, homelessness, sobriety, entrepreneurship, baking, resilience, determination, purposetakeawaysJanie Deegan got sober at 25 and became a superintendent in the East Village.She had early experiences with alcohol, including drinking from her parents' liquor cabinet and attending a Halloween party in the West Village.Janie's life-changing baked goods have had a significant impact on her life and the community.The potential collaboration between Janie's Cookies and Katz's Deli is discussed.The episode highlights the challenges of production and the importance of finding the right business plan and vendors. Janie's early experiences with alcohol and drugs were influenced by her desire to fit in and escape her anxiety and low self-esteem.Her codependent and abusive relationship in college further fueled her reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism.Moving back to Ann Arbor after college intensified Janie's alcoholism, leading to financial and personal problems.Janie's behavior became increasingly out of control, causing concern among her friends and family. Alcoholism can lead to a period of darkness and depressionHaving a support system and a sober relationship can provide hope and motivation for recoveryConsequences and interventions from friends and family can be catalysts for changeRehab programs and detoxes may not be effective without a genuine commitment to sobrietyHomelessness and living in a shelter can be a reality for individuals struggling with addiction Resilience and determination are key in overcoming addiction and rebuilding one's life.Finding a passion or creative outlet can be instrumental in the recovery process.Being authentic and embracing one's story can inspire and help others.Support and mentorship from others can make a significant difference in one's journey to recovery.Building a successful business requires hard work, perseverance, and a willingness to take risks.titlesThe Thrill of Drinking as a TeenagerFrom Superintendent to Baker: Janie Deegan's Journey The Downward Spiral in Ann ArborConcerns from Friends and Family The Challenges of Committing to SobrietyNavigating Homelessness and Shelters in Addiction Finding Purpose and Passion in Baking: Janie's StoryFrom Addiction to Entrepreneurship: Janie Deegan's JourneySound Bites"I'm making it really big with my pie crust cookies. I don't need your stupid fucking cookie.""Come to me with a business plan and some vendors who are ready to place purchase orders.""I just remember thinking it was so wild. There's cops everywhere and we're getting away with this.""I don't remember having an identity before I started drinking.""I was alone at some frat school in upstate New York and I was like, I don't know what else to do.""I'm finally free. I'm at University of Michigan. I'm having a blast.""I'm still a person. I'm still like a young lady who just graduated from like a really good school.""Alcohol is a depression. It really is.""He was like emanating this light.""I'm like, this is great. I'm like back on the Upper West Side, like I'm not paying rent, know, I'm on Medicaid, whatever.""What are you doing here? What's a nice girl like you doing here? And I'm like, I'm different.""I guess I gotta leave right now, right? And so I was like, okay, let me go to the bathroom and I just leave and I all my clothing there."Chapters00:00Introduction and Janie's Journey27:31Janie's life-changing baked goods38:05Finding Identity in Party Culture46:32The Downward Spiral in Ann Arbor01:09:00Concerns from Friends and Family01:15:46The Emotional Bottom01:23:02Moving to New York and Escalating Addiction01:32:30From Rehab to Shelter01:44:51The Illusion of Sobriety01:53:42From Addiction to Entrepreneurship02:04:55Building a Business and Finding Purpose02:19:18The Invention of the Pie Crust Cookie02:26:09Embracing Authenticity and Finding Success
  • This week on the Teaser! Evan gets busted for rolling a blunt whilst having suboxone! PLUS meal plans! PLUS LSD shenanigans and much more!

    Join Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    DopeyCon Tickets: https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    What AI THINKS:

    summary: In this episode of Dopey the podcast, Dave talks about his recent food choices and the upcoming Dopeycon event. He also plays a voicemail from a listener sharing a story about a drug-induced reality shift. Dave and Evan then have a conversation about Lake Ronkonkoma and share some personal stories. The episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listener.keywordsDopey podcast, food choices, Dopeycon, voicemail, drug-induced reality shift, Lake Ronkonkoma, personal stories, song, shoutouttakeawaysDave shares his recent food choices and talks about barbecuing chicken thighs and air frying cauliflowerDopeycon is an upcoming sober cultural event with various guests and influencersA listener shares a story about a drug-induced reality shiftDave and Evan discuss Lake Ronkonkoma and share personal storiesThe episode ends with a song and a shoutout to a listenertitlesFood Choices and Cooking HabitsA Song and Shoutout to a ListenerSound Bites"I just made a banana peanut butter and chocolate powder protein smoothie and it was really good""Dopeycon looks to be the sober cultural event of the year, if not the decade""I'd been drinking all day with my boyfriend at the time and we went to go get a bag from one of our dealers"Chapters00:00Food Choices and Cooking Habits02:14Dopeycon: The Sober Cultural Event05:07A Listener's Drug-Induced Reality Shift11:17Stories and Memories of Lake Ronkonkoma20:59A Song and Shoutout to a Listener
  • This week on Dopey! We are reunited with Dopey Legend, Folk Singer, Comedy Genius and Super Naturally Good Story Teller Steve Poltz! Steve plays tunes and takes us on a journey to the optimist and pessimist inside! PLUS the tackle box full of drugs and how Steve maintains his sunny disposition! Next Thuan from Mountainside is back to share with us how spirituality works and how it can be accessed! PLUS voicemails, emails and much more on this brand new, good timey episode of that Good Old Dopey Show!

    AI SAYS:

    summaryDavid Manheim shares his morning routine of eating oats and drinking coffee, and discusses his positive outlook on life and his love for people. He talks about building his career from gig to gig and the importance of staying grateful. David also mentions the impact of the Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created. Steve Poults shares his practice of declaring every show as the greatest show he's ever played, and how it brings joy to both him and the audience. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and enjoying the journey rather than focusing on external success. The conversation also touches on the pressure to always be positive and the occasional moments of doubt or sadness. David and Steve discuss their love for connecting with people and spreading positivity through their music and interactions. In this part of the conversation, Steve Poltz shares a deeply personal story about the tragic death of his friend due to drug addiction. He also discusses his own struggles with addiction and how it led him to quit drinking. The conversation touches on themes of loss, forgiveness, and the fragility of life. Steve also talks about his love for music and his experiences as a musician. Overall, the conversation is a mix of light-hearted moments and profound reflections on addiction and recovery. In this episode, David and Tuan discuss spirituality and its role in recovery. They explore the concept of higher power and how it can be accessed through various practices. Tuan shares his daily spiritual routine, including meditation, attending meetings, and using a mindfulness bell app. They also touch on the idea of quantum jumping and the importance of living a life centered around spiritual principles. The episode ends with a call for musicians to submit songs for the upcoming DopeyCon theme song contest. keywordsmorning routine, positivity, career, gratitude, Dopey Nation, greatest show, pressure, doubt, sadness, connection, spreading positivity, addiction, drug addiction, loss, forgiveness, fragility of life, music, musician, recovery, spirituality, higher power, recovery, meditation, meetings, mindfulness, quantum jumping, spiritual principles, DopeyContakeawaysHaving a positive outlook on life and spreading positivity can bring joy to oneself and others.Building a career from gig to gig and staying grateful for the opportunities can lead to organic growth and fulfillment.The Dopey Nation and the sense of community it has created can provide support and inspiration for those in recovery.It's important to be true to oneself and enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on external success.While it's natural to experience moments of doubt or sadness, maintaining a positive mindset and connecting with others can help overcome these challenges. Addiction can have devastating consequences, leading to the loss of loved ones and personal struggles.Quitting one substance may be necessary to break the cycle of addiction and prevent further harm.Music can be a powerful outlet for expressing emotions and connecting with others.Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process, both for oneself and for others.Life is fragile, and it's important to appreciate the present moment and make choices that prioritize well-being. Spirituality can be accessed through various practices and beliefs, such as meditation, attending meetings, and living by spiritual principles.A higher power can be a person, nature, or the universe, and it can provide guidance and support in recovery.Being aware of and utilizing spirituality in moments of vulnerability can help bring ease and peace.Living a life centered around love, compassion, gratitude, and humility can contribute to a more spiritual existence.Musicians are encouraged to submit songs for the DopeyCon theme song contest.titlesThe Dopey Nation: A Community of Support and InspirationEmbracing the Journey: Finding Fulfillment in the Present Moment The Power of ForgivenessEmbracing the Fragility of Life Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song ContestExploring Spirituality and Higher Power in RecoverySound Bites"Every day when I wake up, I go, this is the greatest day.""I love people that are the addicts. I love them. I love them so much.""Brand new song.""I probably would still be drinking today had I not discovered my love of cocaine.""Once you go into crack, it's a dark world.""Life is a thing where you just think about, you know, there's a million things I wish I could go back and not have done.""Being human and feeling all the emotions is a spiritual experience.""Spirituality is accessing a higher power, whether seen, felt, heard, or just known.""Releasing character defects is a moment-to-moment choice, and meditation can help expand the window between stimulus and response."Chapters00:00Introduction and Morning Routine09:46Spreading Positivity and Building a Career19:46The Dopey Nation: A Community of Support29:50Embracing the Journey and Overcoming Doubt40:06Connection and Positivity in Recovery47:49Music and Drug Stories48:28The Tragic Consequences of Addiction52:06Finding Healing and Sobriety Through Music58:26The Power of Forgiveness01:09:49Embracing the Fragility of Life02:55Exploring Spirituality and Higher Power15:01Daily Spiritual Practices for a Grounded and Peaceful Life29:50Quantum Jumping and Setting Intentions44:53Living by Spiritual Principles and Embracing a Higher Power01:00:05Calling for Musicians: DopeyCon Theme Song Contest01:15:03Conclusion and Final Thoughts
  • This Tuesday is classic old school dumb shit. Me yelling at the Subway sandwich maker, fumbling and bumbling. We hear a Dopey story all about Oasis and their impending reunion. Plus we hear a tease from the PATREON show with Cormac and Selby all about weed, PCP and more on this Tuesday Patreon Teaser! PLUS DOPEYCON 2024 tickets are on sale at https://buytickets.at/thedopeyfoundation/1311031

    Discounted Tickets on Patreon at:

    https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

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    summaryIn this episode, Dave talks about DopeyCon 2024, his love for Oasis, and shares some personal stories. He also discusses his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in college. The conversation touches on topics such as drug business sense, the sacredness of psychedelics, and the effects of excessive drug use.keywordsDopeyCon 2024, Oasis, drugs, addiction, personal stories, drug business, psychedelics, excessive drug usetakeawaysTickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patronsDave shares his love for Oasis and their reunionHe talks about his early experiences with drugs and selling drugs in collegeThe conversation explores drug business sense and the sacredness of psychedelicsDave reflects on the effects of excessive drug usetitlesDave's Love for OasisDopeyCon 2024 and the LineupSound Bites"Tickets for DopeyCon 2024 are available to non-patrons""The big news is that Oasis got back together""It totally changed my life forever" Chapters00:00DopeyCon 2024 and the Lineup05:03Dave's Love for Oasis13:44Early Experiences with Drugs and Selling16:16Drug Business Sense and the Sacredness of Psychedelics18:41The Effects of Excessive Drug Use
  • This week on Dopey - we had a very special opportunity to spend some time with Tim Kelly - a super inspirational alcoholic/drug addict in recovery. Tim and I did this talk 3 weeks ago - he was basically on his death bed. Last Friday morning Tim finally succumbed to his cancer and died. This episode allows Tim to tell his story of what its like to face death sober. It was humbling and powerful and I was extremely grateful to be able to do it. PLUS John 'Sugar Bear' Bukaty got to travel to 'Tim Fest' where a bunch of Tim's friends - and legendary musicians like Anders Osborne, Ivan Neville, Jason Ricci and Alex Orbison went to see them play. John also got to talk to some of them as well as his friends! All that plus some Dopey emails and more on this heart wrenching new episode of that good ol Dopey Show! AI SAYS:While he was episode of Dopey is dedicated to Tim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery who was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Tim's friends organized Tim Fest, a concert event to celebrate his life. The episode features interviews with Tim and his friends, including musicians like Anders Osborne and Jason Ricci. Tim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful Dead. The episode also includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers. Tim shares his experiences of attending Grateful Dead shows and his struggles with alcoholism. He talks about his journey of finding spirituality through the 12-step program and the importance of willingness and vulnerability. Tim also discusses his current battle with cancer and his perspective on life and death. This conversation covers Tim Kelly's battle with cancer, his journey in recovery, and the impact he had on others. The themes include spirituality, family dynamics, addiction, sobriety, and acceptance. The conversation highlights the importance of support systems, the challenges of addiction and recovery, and the power of love and connection. The takeaways include the significance of living a meaningful life, the importance of being present, and the impact of Tim's legacy. The titles could be 'Finding Meaning in the Face of Adversity', 'The Power of Love and Connection', and 'Embracing Life's Challenges with Courage and Resilience'.keywordsTim Kelly, addiction, recovery, cancer, Tim Fest, Grateful Dead, music, Dopey listeners, sponsors, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, spirituality, 12-step program, cancer, life, death, Tim Kelly, cancer, recovery, spirituality, addiction, sobriety, family dynamics, support systems, love, connectiontakeawaysTim Kelly, a man with 21 years of recovery, was diagnosed with terminal cancerTim Fest was organized to celebrate Tim's life and featured interviews with Tim and his friendsTim shares his journey of addiction, recovery, and his love for the Grateful DeadThe episode includes stories from Dopey listeners and sponsors promoting addiction recovery centers The Grateful Dead played a significant role in Tim's life, and he attended numerous shows throughout the years.Tim struggled with alcoholism and found solace and support in the 12-step program.He emphasizes the importance of willingness and vulnerability in finding spirituality.Tim is currently battling cancer and has a positive outlook on life and death. Living a meaningful life in the face of adversityThe importance of being present and embracing life's challengesThe power of love and connection in recoveryThe impact of Tim Kelly's legacytitlesFrom Addiction to Recovery: Tim's JourneyStories of Hope and Healing from Dopey Listeners The Grateful Dead and the Impact on Tim's LifeEmbracing Life and Death in the Face of Cancer The Power of Love and ConnectionFinding Meaning in the Face of AdversitySound Bites"Welcome to the show. Well, thank you for having me.""I always say that AA, the Grateful Dead, and yoga have influenced my life.""When I was at the top of Alpine Valley, I had arrived.""John Belushi, I see the light.""Violent Thumbs are opening up.""People started coming around to me to get things done.""And that's why I was so bummed. You know, obviously it was God's fucking tropical storm or whatever that, but I was so bummed because I, I never, don't say never. rarely go.""Phenomenal man. Agreed. I want to talk more about, I want to talk about your son. Okay. Like when your son was at his worst, does he go straight to you? In two ways, in violent ways, and then when he's in remorse for help.""But a wrestling altercation, you it's not punches, it's more wrestling. And he hates me. He hates me because he hates my recovery. He knows since then and he's made his amends to me. He says it was, I knew that's where I was going to be and you were cheating me."Chapters00:00Introduction and Sponsor Promotion02:22Reflecting on Loss and Life03:20Life's Challenges and Gravitas04:14Impactful Stories from Dopey Listeners06:06Humorous and Disgusting Stories10:19Encouraging Listener Stories11:13Sponsor Promotion and Introduction to Tim Kelly12:41Tim Kelly's Journey and Tim Fest14:07The Last Recording of Tim Kelly15:06Interview with John Bucati at Tim Fest20:16Interview with Tim Kelly41:00The Influence of the Grateful Dead and Yoga45:52Falling in Love with the Grateful Dead46:51Conclusion and Sponsor Promotion48:19Struggles with Alcoholism56:02Finding Spirituality through the 12-Step Program01:19:43Love and Relationships in Recovery01:28:32Embracing Life and Death01:33:17Embracing Unexpected Opportunities01:34:44Family Dynamics and Addiction01:36:41Navigating Recovery and Rebuilding Relationships01:39:07Acceptance and Finding Support01:42:03Spirituality and Facing Mortality01:45:26Managing Pain and Medication in Recovery01:48:49Living a Meaningful Life in the Face of Adversity01:52:44Reflecting on Life's Challenges and Legacy

  • Tuesday Teaser with John Bukaty! We recap the park city song summit and talk drugs, addiction and dumb shit. A bunch of recovery - the horrible review and more! summary: The conversation is a teaser for the Patreon show and includes discussions about the Park City Song Summit, DopeyCon tickets, TikTok series, and live painting. The hosts also talk about creativity and art in recovery, as well as the positive impact of Dopey on people's lives. The conversation ends with a song.keywordsPatreon show, Park City Song Summit, DopeyCon tickets, TikTok series, live painting, creativity, art, recoverytakeawaysThe Park City Song Summit was a great experience with amazing music and artists.DopeyCon tickets are going on sale, and Patreon members can get a discount.The hosts discuss the importance of creativity and art in recovery.Dopey is a safe place for artists to share their stories and experiences.The conversation ends with a song.titlesA Musical FinaleGet Your DopeyCon TicketsSound Bites"The Park City Song Summit was by far the best year""DopeyCon tickets are gonna go on sale to non-Patreon members""Dopey is a big cosmic ball of creativity through recovery"Chapters00:00Introduction01:43Highlights from the Park City Song Summit03:11Get Your DopeyCon Tickets05:05The Power of Creativity in Recovery07:20Dopey: A Safe Place for Artists18:24A Musical Finale

  • This week on Dopey! It is Dopey Day Again! We are celebrating ChrisMiss and remembering Chris and all of our fallen friends. We are joined by Chris's mom and sister today to remember Chris! We hear about some of their favorite memories and listen to what it's like living on after you lose someone!

    PLUS TONS OF VOICEMAILS, EMAILS, REMEMBERING THE FALLEN DOPES!

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    This part of the conversation focuses on the ongoing impact of losing loved ones to addiction and the importance of remembering and honoring their memory. The hosts discuss their personal experiences of remembering those who have passed away and the comfort it brings. They also touch on the significance of anniversaries and milestones in relation to grief. The conversation transitions to Dopey Day, a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive. The hosts share messages and greetings from the Dopey Nation community, highlighting the support and connection within the community. They also discuss the grief and healing process, including visiting Chris's grave and engaging in activities that remind them of him. The chapter ends with a reflection on the complexity of addiction and the challenges of recognizing relapse in loved ones. In this part of the conversation, David and Arden discuss the pain and guilt that comes with losing a loved one to addiction. They reflect on their own experiences of not recognizing the signs and blame themselves for not being able to prevent the tragedy. They emphasize the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion in the healing process. They also discuss the difficulty of moving on and the bittersweet feeling of seeing others continue with their lives while their loved one is gone. They share their thoughts on how to support someone who has lost a child and offer advice on finding hope and healing after such a devastating loss. In this part of the conversation, Annie discusses her ambivalence towards the significance of the new year and reflects on her recovery journey. She shares her struggles with addiction, including relapses and the challenges of staying sober. Annie contemplates recommitting to the 12-step program despite her reservations about certain aspects of it. The conversation ends with messages from Dopey Nation members and a classic Dopey episode featuring Chris and Dave. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim shares some personal stories and anecdotes about his experiences with drugs and recovery. He talks about his disease and the constant struggle to stay sober. He also discusses his experiments with psychedelics and the possibility of achieving similar experiences through meditation and spiritual practices. The conversation ends with various members of the Dopey Nation sharing their messages of love, remembrance, and gratitude.keywordsaddiction, grief, remembrance, Dopey Day, support, community, healing, relapse, addiction, loss, guilt, forgiveness, self-compassion, moving on, support, hope, healing, ambivalence, new year, recovery, addiction, relapse, 12-step program, messages, Dopey episode, personal stories, anecdotes, drugs, recovery, disease, sobriety, psychedelics, meditation, spiritual practices, love, remembrance, gratitudetakeawaysRemembering and honoring loved ones who have passed away from addiction can bring comfort and a sense of connection.Anniversaries and milestones can be significant triggers for grief and reflection.Dopey Day is a holiday created to pay homage to those lost to addiction and celebrate those who are still fighting to stay alive.The Dopey Nation community provides support and connection for individuals navigating addiction and recovery.Visiting gravesites and engaging in activities that remind us of loved ones can be a way to feel connected and take care of their memory.Recognizing relapse in loved ones can be challenging, especially when they are intelligent and convincing. Losing a loved one to addiction can bring feelings of guilt and self-blame, but it's important to forgive yourself and recognize that the outcome was out of your control.It is not helpful or respectful to ask someone how they didn't know about their loved one's addiction. Each person's experience is unique, and blaming oneself or others does not change the outcome.Over time, the acute grief and self-questioning may fade, but it can resurface on certain days or during difficult moments. It's important to give yourself time and space to process these emotions.Seeing others move on with their lives can be bittersweet for those who have lost a loved one to addiction. It's a reminder of what could have been and can bring a mix of emotions, including hope and pain.Finding support from others who have experienced similar losses can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and provide a sense of understanding and connection.Engaging in acts of service and helping others can be a way to honor the memory of a loved one and find healing in the aftermath of loss. The new year may not hold significant meaning for everyone, and personal growth and change can happen at any time.Recovery from addiction is a challenging journey with ups and downs, and it's important to seek support and make a commitment to change.The 12-step program, while not perfect, can provide a supportive community and structure for recovery.The Dopey Nation community continues to honor and remember Chris and Annie, and their stories inspire others to stay strong in their own recovery journeys. The constant struggle to stay sober and prioritize recoveryThe potential for psychedelic experiences through meditation and spiritual practicesThe importance of love, remembrance, and gratitude within the Dopey NationtitlesDopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and CelebrationGrief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One Moving On and Finding HopeNavigating Guilt and Self-Blame Messages from Dopey NationContemplating the 12-Step Program Messages of Love, Remembrance, and GratitudeThe Struggle of Sobriety and the Disease of AddictionSound Bites"To know that they're remembered in some capacity, I'm just assuming, you know what I mean?""Every August 16th, we celebrate Dopey Day, aka Christmas in August.""Happy Christmas in August Dopey Day episode.""The best gift they gave him is when we really suspected something was wrong, they said, doesn't matter what happened, we'll pay for the next rehab, we will get you, we will work with you so you get better.""Even if we had known, even if we had the best interventionist and the best companion and the best treatment center, it doesn't matter, it still could have ended where it was.""I don't think it's ever helpful to ask somebody, how don't you know? I actually find that really disrespectful and obnoxious and just not a helpful comment.""How do you feel now we're coming up on the new year? Is the new year significant to you?""I've kind of decided I'm going to recommit to 12 step thing, which I'm not 100 % happy about.""I would just like to wish the Dopey Nation a very, very happy new year and I hope to see you all at DopeyCon 2023.""My disease is in the parking lot doing pushups, waiting for me to go out.""I cannot imagine you found any sort of psychedelic experience without taking a hallucinogen.""I got a bunch of this that DMT stuff it was what about dope stories the podcast with crazy Mike and the other guy from fish or whatever that thing I think that's ending didn't we see that was anything so yeah, we're gonna replace dope stories whatever that might be"Chapters00:00Remembering and Honoring: Finding Comfort in Remembrance05:47Dopey Day: A Holiday of Remembrance and Celebration14:20Grief and Healing: Navigating the Loss of a Loved One27:01Visiting Graves and Engaging in Activities: Keeping Memories Alive37:30Recognizing Relapse: The Challenges of Supporting Loved Ones47:19Navigating Guilt and Self-Blame56:19Finding Healing Through Acts of Service01:36:28Reflecting on the Significance of the New Year01:43:28Struggles and Commitment in Recovery01:54:14Messages from Dopey Nation02:17:15Classic Dopey Episode: The GHB Bottle02:24:07Exploring Psychedelics and Alternative Spiritual Practices02:37:38Coincidences and Strange Encounters02:44:09Messages of Love, Remembrance, and Gratitude
  • This Week on a super new bonus Dopey Tuesday! We are joined by filmmaker and recovering addict John W. Comerford! We hear all about his super psychedelic path of addiction and recovery! John tells about his unsupervised nyc youth- we learn the secrets of old New York's music scene and Grateful Dead culture and much more on this super duper bonus episode of that good old Dopey Show!

    More on John: www.linktr.ee/johnwcomerford

    PLUS SHOOTING METHADONE VOICEMAIL!!!!! and MORE!

    Emilia's Notes: - brothers intervention- realizing his mom was taking percs his whole childhood- lsd at red rocks- mdma sale arrest- bill w and huxley- bill w and belladonna- brother's death

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    In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses the purpose of the Dopey podcast and emphasizes the importance of real recovery work. He also shares personal experiences, including being alone in his house for the first time, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating his nine years of sobriety. The conversation then transitions to a voicemail from a listener who shares his experience of shooting methadone and being prescribed benzos at a methadone clinic. The episode concludes with an interview with John Comerford, a film producer and music presenter, where they discuss their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs. David Manheim reflects on his early experiences with music and drugs, including attending jazz shows and experimenting with acid at a young age. He discusses his identity formation and the role of feeling and experience in his life. He shares stories of his tumultuous family life and the impact of addiction on his brother. David also talks about his introduction to the Grateful Dead and the transformative power of their music. He delves into his own struggles with alcoholism and drug addiction, including selling ecstasy and his eventual decision to get sober. In this final part of the conversation, David and John discuss their experiences with addiction and recovery. They share personal stories of their struggles with drugs and alcohol, including John's time in jail and David's journey to sobriety. They also talk about the importance of community and support in the recovery process. David shares some of the projects he is currently working on, including a documentary about General Yamashita's gold and a character study of Sarah Jane Moore, the woman who attempted to assassinate President Ford.keywords: Dopey podcast, recovery work, personal experiences, hernia, sobriety, methadone, benzos, film producer, jazz, alcohol, drugs, music, drugs, jazz, acid, identity, addiction, family, Grateful Dead, alcoholism, sobriety, addiction, recovery, jail, sobriety, community, support, documentary, General Yamashita's gold, Sarah Jane MooretakeawaysThe Dopey podcast is meant to be supplemental to someone with a recovery program and is not a substitute for real recovery work.Personal experiences, such as being alone in the house, dealing with a hernia, and celebrating sobriety milestones, can be shared openly to reduce shame and judgment.The listener's voicemail highlights the dangers of shooting methadone and the inappropriate prescribing of benzos at a methadone clinic.The interview with John Comerford explores their love for jazz and their experiences with alcohol and drugs.Music, such as jazz, can have a profound impact on emotions and enhance the experience of substances like cannabis and alcohol. Early experiences with music and drugs can shape one's identity and worldview.Addiction can have a profound impact on individuals and their families.The transformative power of music can provide solace and inspiration.Recovery from addiction requires a shift in focus from the problem to the solution. Addiction can lead to serious consequences, including jail time and death.Recovery requires a commitment to change and a willingness to seek help and support.Community and connection are essential in the recovery process.Sobriety opens up new opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment.Projects like More Than Music Foundation aim to foster wellness and educational opportunities for musicians and audiences."titles"The Importance of Real Recovery WorkListener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos Finding Sobriety and a New PathThe Impact of Addiction on Family The Power of Community in RecoveryFinding Purpose and Fulfillment in SobrietySound Bites"Good morning, Dopey. Good morning, Dopey. Ay -ay -ay.""This Friday is Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August.""I'm on the methadone program here in my state, in my home state, and I've been on it since 2013.""What these guys are putting out there has magnitude, and it has power.""I didn't really develop an intellectual life until I was like in my mid-late 30s.""That's why she's an hour late all the time. That's why she doesn't know why I'm at Irving Plaza at 13.""I mean, you jails, institutions and death is where we're headed. If we don't change it""I reapplied to Boulder. I got in because I told them the story of what happened.""It's completely life-changing because I mean, Tommy had been my friend for a long time and was involved with the fellowship and always talked about how he wouldn't give up his sobriety for anything."Chapters00:00Introduction and Overview01:15The Importance of Real Recovery Work03:41Personal Experiences: Alone in the House and Dealing with a Hernia09:09Listener Voicemail: Shooting Methadone and Prescribed Benzos18:58Interview with John Comerford: Love for Jazz and Experiences with Alcohol and Drugs36:04Early Experiences with Music and Drugs39:01Family Dynamics and Addiction44:12The Transformative Power of Music46:04Navigating Addiction57:45Selling Drugs and Consequences01:08:13Finding Sobriety01:11:01From Jail to Filmmaking01:18:08The Power of Community in Recovery01:21:00Uncovering Hidden Stories01:27:19Finding Purpose and Fulfillment in Sobriety01:34:15More Than Music: Fostering Wellness and Education
  • This week on Dopey! We got horrible news that our dear friend, contributor and all around beloved OG favorite Dope - Annie Ellie died this week. We remember her and play her first voicemail which was, tragically and ironically all about a time she overdosed and almost died. We also play her review of DopeyCon 2022 and another thing she had sent in. Then Reno from the 'It's All Bad' podcast came to meet me at Jeremy's house when I was in Los Angeles - ironically for the Rich Roll show which aired last week! Reno tells his gnarly story of addiction and recovery! We hear all about his crazy beginnings in addict life and the hell he went through before it all got pretty good for him. Plus Dopey emails and much more on a brand new super tragic episode of that good old bitter sweet Dopey Show!

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    yIn this episode of Dopey, Dave mourns the loss of Annie Ellie, a beloved member of the Dopey Nation who died of an overdose. He shares voicemails and memories of Annie, emphasizing the importance of reaching out for help and support. Dave also interviews Reno from the podcast It's All Bad, discussing their experiences with addiction and the challenges they faced. They talk about their early drug use, encounters with the law, and the journey to recovery. Reno shares his insights on navigating the prison system and finding a path to a better life. David Manheim shares his experiences with addiction and relapse, highlighting the importance of community and connectivity in recovery. He discusses his time in rehab and the intense group therapy sessions that helped him confront his character defects. David also talks about his Neapolitan background and how his natural skills of connecting with people served him both in his addiction and in his recovery. He reflects on the shame and guilt that came with his relapse and the impact it had on his personal and professional life. David emphasizes the importance of sharing stories of addiction and recovery to combat loneliness and provide hope to others. In this final part of the conversation, Reno reviews his drug use experiences, including his encounters with PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, and ketamine. He also shares a wild story about trying to access his tax refund while in the midst of addiction. Annie, a fan of the show, provides a review of DopeyCon 2022 and expresses her love for Brandon Novak. The episode concludes with Annie's tribute song to Brandon Novak.keywordsaddiction, overdose, mourning, support, recovery, podcast, interview, drug use, law, prison, life, addiction, recovery, community, connectivity, rehab, character defects, Neapolitan, shame, guilt, relapse, personal life, professional life, sharing stories, drug use, PCP, GHB, DMT, Ibogaine, ketamine, tax refund, addiction, DopeyCon, Brandon NovaktakeawaysThe loss of a loved one to addiction is a tragic reminder of the importance of reaching out for help and support.Sharing memories and voicemails can be a way to honor and remember those who have passed away.Early drug use and encounters with the law can be wake-up calls that lead to a desire for change and recovery.Navigating the prison system can be challenging, but finding a community and seeking help can lead to a better life.Recovery is a journey that requires commitment, support, and a willingness to change. Loneliness and disconnection are breeding grounds for addiction, while community and connectivity are essential for recovery.Group therapy sessions in rehab can help individuals confront their character defects and work towards personal growth.Natural skills, such as connecting with people, can serve both in addiction and in recovery.Relapse can be a part of the recovery journey, and it's important to learn from it and seek help.Sharing stories of addiction and recovery can combat loneliness and provide hope to others. Reno reflects on his experiences with various drugs, highlighting the dangers and consequences of addiction.Annie's review of DopeyCon 2022 showcases the sense of community and connection among Dopey fans.The tribute song to Brandon Novak demonstrates the impact and admiration he has among the Dopey Nation.titlesMourning the Loss of Annie EllieFinding Community and Support in Recovery Confronting Character Defects in RehabThe Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery A Tribute to Brandon NovakAnnie's Review of DopeyCon 2022Sound Bites"If you're using and you're really, you don't want to die and you don't want to get really hurt, call that number.""I love Annie and I will totally miss her.""Discover Recovery: An Amazing Treatment Facility in the Pacific Northwest""Addiction is a disease. Loneliness really thrives. Addiction really thrives in loneliness. Connectivity is one of the bigger things that unlocks addiction.""They did this thing called the game where they would circle up chairs in the middle of a room and there were no rules whatsoever, except for no violence.""I'm Neapolitan. And that's one of the characteristics. Is Neapolitan besides chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry?""Love all the acts, crack, smack, and Brandon Novak.""Oh Mr. Novak, this is Mrs. Novak.""Mr. Novak is good, Mr. Novak is kind, Mr. Novak don't care."Chapters00:00Mourning the Loss of Annie Ellie10:48Recovery and Support19:46Interview with Reno from It's All Bad32:11Early Drug Use and Encounters with the Law44:47Finding a Path to Recovery46:59The Role of Community and Connectivity in Recovery48:19Confronting Character Defects in Rehab55:42The Impact of Relapse on Personal and Professional Life01:14:46The Power of Sharing Stories of Addiction and Recovery01:32:17Wild Drug Use Experiences01:57:33Annie's Review of DopeyCon 202202:06:14A Tribute to Brandon Novak
  • This week on Patreon Teaser! We first hear from Micro! Who tells us how he accidentally got addicted to fentanyl - then we take a walk down memory lane with Cormac and Scott Wic - and hear when Chris read Wic's first email all about Flakka!

    DopeyCon 2024 Tickets only available on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

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    summaryIn this episode of Cormac's Chemical Corner, Cormac and Scott Wick discuss their experiences with drugs, including Flakka and cocaine. They share stories of addiction, paranoia, and the challenges they faced. The conversation also touches on the upcoming DopeyCon event and the celebration of Dopey Day in honor of Chris's birthday. The episode concludes with a musical performance by Scott Wick.keywordsCormac's Chemical Corner, drugs, addiction, Flakka, cocaine, DopeyCon, Dopey Day, celebration, musictakeawaysFlakka is a synthetic street drug that can induce intense paranoia and hallucinations.Addiction can lead to desperate and dangerous behavior, such as flushing drugs down the toilet in a panic.DopeyCon is an upcoming event that offers savings for Patreon subscribers.Dopey Day is a celebration of Chris's birthday and a show of solidarity with addicts in recovery.Scott Wick showcases his musical talent with a performance at the end of the episode.titlesRemembering Chris: Dopey Day CelebrationDopeyCon: A Gathering of the Dopey NationSound Bites"My thing is stored in Coke, but I did have a short run with a synthetic street drug called Flakka. It's a stimulant similar to Coke, but one tiny bump is probably equal to two huge rails of good Coke.""As I am taking the second bump, there is a loud pounding at the door. I run to the people to see who it was, and I see what appears to be an entire SWAT team. Red lights flashing, dogs, detectives with megaphones, Raider trucks the whole night.""Dopey Day, AKA Christmas in August, where we all put the Dopey logo over our eyes in solidarity with addicts who are still suffering, also celebrating addicts who are in recovery, and paying homage to those we lost, including Chris."
  • This week on Dopey! We had the absolutely sweetest guest ever - filmmaker and Breathe Life Healing Center Regional LGBTQIA+ Outreach Representative - Brian Whisenant! Straight out of Mississippi and the Dopey Nation, Brian came to my dad's house to tell his insane tell of Meth Addiction, crazy chem sex, and heart breaking trauma! Brian's journey is one of the dopiest ever told! PLUS lots of nitrous, recovery and dumb shit! Plus loads of dumb shit including a 'sex sling! Loads of debauchery, heart break and recovery in the latesrt new episode of the good old Dopey show! Summary: Brian Wisnand shares his personal story of growing up gay in Mississippi, experiencing molestation and rape, and the impact it had on his sexuality and addiction. He discusses the importance of addressing trauma and the stigma surrounding it. Brian also talks about his movie, which explores his experiences and the journey of healing and recovery. David Manheim shares his experience with meth addiction and the connection between meth use and sex parties in the gay community. In this final part of the conversation, Brian discusses his experience with sex parties and the fusion of drugs and sex. He talks about his struggles with meth addiction and his transition to using Adderall. Brian also reflects on his relationship with his mother and the challenges of coming out as gay. He shares his thoughts on Narcotics Anonymous (NA) and the importance of honesty in recovery. The conversation concludes with Brian discussing his short film, Wrath Mercy, and his hopes for its release.KeywordsBrian Wisnand, Mississippi, gay, molestation, rape, trauma, addiction, healing, recovery, movie, meth addiction, sex parties, gay community, recovery, psychosis, sex parties, meth addiction, Adderall, coming out, Narcotics Anonymous, honesty in recovery, short filmTakeawaysGrowing up gay in Mississippi in the 90s was challenging due to the lack of understanding and acceptance.Brian experienced molestation and rape by an older man, which had a profound impact on his understanding of his own sexuality.The trauma and confusion surrounding the abuse contributed to Brian's addiction and disassociation.Addressing and sharing his story has been a crucial part of Brian's healing and recovery journey.The stigma surrounding trauma and the need for open conversations and support are highlighted in Brian's experiences. Meth addiction can lead to engaging in risky sexual behavior, such as participating in sex parties.The use of meth in the gay community is more common compared to other communities.Meth use can lead to psychosis and paranoia, causing individuals to have distorted perceptions and beliefs.Recovery from meth addiction often involves addressing underlying trauma and patterns of behavior.The intertwined nature of meth use and sex parties can create a cycle of seeking pleasure and escape. Brian shares his experiences with sex parties and the fusion of drugs and sexHe discusses his struggles with meth addiction and his transition to using AdderallBrian reflects on his relationship with his mother and the challenges of coming out as gayHe emphasizes the importance of honesty in recovery and shares his thoughts on Narcotics Anonymous (NA)The conversation concludes with Brian discussing his short film, Wrath Mercy, and his hopes for its releaseTitlesThe Impact of Trauma on Sexuality and AddictionNavigating the Challenges of Growing Up Gay in Mississippi The Impact of Meth Use on Mental Health and PerceptionThe Cycle of Seeking Pleasure and Escape in Meth Addiction The Power of Honesty in RecoveryComing Out and Navigating RelationshipsSound Bites"I was molested like a lot of people like when I was 15 years old""I didn't even know what rape was. I didn't know what any of these things were.""I got triggered. Not triggered to use, but triggered to be traumatized.""Why do some drug addicts live and some don't?""There may be a video of me out there wearing a wrestling outfit""I remember saying, 'Are you a homosexual?'""Sniffy's like, why did I even bring that up?""Sniffy's has sex parties""You unfuse meth, sex, and technology"Chapters00:00Introduction: Brian Wisnand's Story30:17Growing Up Gay in Mississippi38:09Trauma and its Impact43:38Addressing Trauma and Healing46:00The Connection Between Meth Addiction and Sex Parties54:25Addressing Sexual Identity and Coming Out01:05:34The Gay Pillowcase Story01:19:16The Impact of Meth Use on Behavior01:22:39The Role of Technology in Meth Use and Sex Parties01:27:27The Intertwined Nature of Meth Use and Sexual Behavior01:28:54Exploring the World of Sex Parties and Drug Use01:33:13From Meth Addiction to Adderall: Brian's Journey01:38:27Coming Out and Navigating Relationships01:45:13The Power of Honesty in Recovery01:49:59Wrath Mercy: Brian's Short Film and Future Plans

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  • This week on the Dopey Patreon Tuesday Teaser mini show we first take a moment of gratitude for Rich Roll and the Rich Roll Show for having me on! It was an unbelievably cool experience and welcome to any Rich Roll people!!!! Then we get into the usual Patreon Tuesday stuff! Join Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    Buy DopeyCon Tickets only on PATREON!!!!! Dopeycon is October 5th in New York City!

    Then we hear a crazy Dopey story from Kimber King and read a nice note from the Dopey Nation before listening to a snippet from the super funny and informative talk with Doug Bopst!

    Send in emails and voicemails to [email protected]

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    SummaryIn this teaser episode of the Dopey podcast, David Manheim expresses his gratitude for being a guest on the Rich Roll show and welcomes listeners from the Rich Roll community. He promotes the Patreon episode with Dopey Fitness guru Doug Bopes and discusses the upcoming DopeyCon event. David also shares a voicemail from Kimber King, who tells a story about a drug-related incident involving her ex-boyfriend. The episode concludes with a conversation between David and Doug about the impact of quitting weed.KeywordsDopey podcast, Rich Roll, Patreon, DopeyCon, addiction, recovery, drug-related incident, weedTakeawaysDavid expresses gratitude for being a guest on the Rich Roll show and welcomes listeners from the Rich Roll community.The Patreon episode features a conversation with Dopey Fitness guru Doug Bopes about the impact of quitting weed.DopeyCon is an upcoming event that includes guests such as Hank Azaria, Jason Biggs, and John Joseph.Kimber King shares a story about a drug-related incident involving her ex-boyfriend.David and Doug discuss their experiences with weed and the challenges of quitting.TitlesDavid and Doug's Conversation: Weed and QuittingDopeyCon: An Exciting Event with Celebrity GuestsSound Bites"Welcome to any refugees who heard the Rich Roll show""Patreon is still the only place to buy tickets for DopeyCon 5""They're gonna stay on the phone with you while you use, and if you die, they're gonna send help"Chapters00:00Gratitude for Rich Roll and Welcome to Rich Roll Listeners01:45Patreon Episode with Doug Bopes: The Impact of Quitting Weed02:14DopeyCon: An Exciting Event with Celebrity Guests04:09Voicemail Story: Kimber King's Drug-Related Incident11:24David and Doug's Conversation: Weed and Quitting
  • This week on Dopey! We are joined by 'Against All Odds' author, and 'Roll Call with Chappy' podcaster - Peter 'Chappy' Meyerhoff! We leave no stone unturned in this junky prison opus. Chappy gives us the good bad and the ugly from early incarceration to 12 long years in prison where he was the shot caller on multiple prison yards. His story goes nuts when he gets involved with a female corrections officer who smuggles him heroin which he deals then becomes hopelessly addicted to. I'm not gonna give it all away in this write up! But it's seriously beautiful and Chappy cries!

    PLUS We commemorate the loss of Brian 'Hotwheelz' Connelly and play his first voicemail - plus poetic emails extra voicemails and much much more on this new prison flavored episode of that good old Dopey Show!

    Summary: Peter 'Chappy' Meyerhoff, a former prisoner and recovering addict, shares his story and mission to help others in this episode of Dopey. He discusses his experiences in prison, his near-death fentanyl overdose, and his journey to sobriety. Chappie opens up about the challenges of aligning his past prison persona with his current role as a mentor and advocate for prisoners. He also reflects on the impact of becoming a father and the struggles he faces in navigating his new life. Despite the difficulties, Chappie remains committed to inspiring and supporting others in their recovery journeys. David Manheim discusses his strained relationship with his father and the decision to cut ties with him. He shares his experience of growing up in a dysfunctional family and the resentment he feels towards his father. David also opens up about his journey into drug addiction, starting from alcohol and weed at a young age and eventually progressing to harder drugs like crystal meth and heroin. He talks about his time in prison and the power dynamics and politics that exist within the prison system. David reflects on his past actions and the impact they have had on his life. Chappie shares his story of addiction, prison, and recovery. He talks about his early experiences with drugs and how he quickly became addicted. He describes his time in prison, including the challenges of withdrawal and the prison politics he had to navigate. Chappie also discusses his relapse after his first release from prison and the near-death experience that led him to finally get sober. He emphasizes the importance of staying sober and helping others, and how his perspective on God and spirituality has evolved throughout his journey.Keywordsprison, addiction, recovery, sobriety, near-death overdose, fatherhood, vulnerability, father-son relationship, drug addiction, prison, power dynamics, politics, addiction, prison, recovery, drugs, withdrawal, prison politics, relapse, sobriety, God, spiritualityTakeawaysPeter Chappie Meyerhoff shares his experiences as a former prisoner and recovering addictHe discusses the challenges of aligning his past prison persona with his current role as a mentor and advocate for prisonersChappie reflects on the impact of becoming a father and the struggles he faces in navigating his new lifeDespite the difficulties, Chappie remains committed to inspiring and supporting others in their recovery journeys David's strained relationship with his father led him to cut ties with himHe reflects on his journey into drug addiction, starting from alcohol and weed and eventually progressing to harder drugsDavid shares his experiences in prison and the power dynamics and politics that exist within the systemHe reflects on his past actions and the impact they have had on his life Addiction can quickly take hold and lead to a life of crime and incarceration.Prison can be a challenging environment, but it can also provide an opportunity for self-reflection and growth.Relapse is a common part of the recovery process, but it's important to learn from it and make a commitment to sobriety.Spirituality and a belief in a higher power can play a role in recovery, even for those who were initially skeptical.Helping others and staying connected to a supportive community are crucial for maintaining long-term sobriety.TitlesAligning Past and Present: Chappie's TransformationNavigating the Challenges of Recovery and Fatherhood Journey into Drug AddictionPower Dynamics and Politics in Prison From Addiction to Incarceration: Chappie's StoryNavigating Prison Politics: Chappie's ExperienceSound Bites"I've been struggling in life lately, man, like... I have really, really bad imposter syndrome now.""In recovery, vulnerability is strength.""It's like real life stuff. And that's what me and my dad's relationship is still... tough, man.""I don't need his shitty advice and to be honest I think he's fucking grumpy as shit""I'm just done with this relationship, you know?""He's whipped to her and she does whatever, he does whatever the hell she says and she runs shit""I felt like stuff is like just finally going to go my way when I got out""I had this argument with my mom the other day, because was like, know, depressed, been going through this shit. And mom was like, you're making more money than you've ever made in your life. like, the literal reverberating. Money doesn't make you fucking happy, mom.""I was like, holy shit, maybe this is God's sign of showing, like, I'm gonna start catching some breaks now or something"Chapters00:00Introduction and Background25:27Challenges of Aligning Past and Present35:22Struggles of Recovery and Fatherhood38:07Dealing with Depression and Imposter Syndrome40:24Complicated Relationship with Father41:24Strained Father-Son Relationship48:31Journey into Drug Addiction57:18Power Dynamics and Politics in Prison01:06:57Reflecting on Past Actions02:51From Addiction to Incarceration: Chappie's Story23:01Navigating Prison Politics: Chappie's Experience42:52The Near-Death Experience that Led to Sobriety: Chappie's Turning Point01:02:46Evolution of Belief: Chappie's Journey with God and Spirituality01:23:09Staying Sober and Helping Others: Chappie's Commitment to Recovery01:56:04Conclusion
  • Alright Tuesday Lovers! Dopey Tuesday is back with a vengence! Go to https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast for the full episode! BUT - there is stuff here that is not available anywhere else!!! Like Wylie's insane voicemail and me bickering with my sweet father!

    SummaryIn this conversation, David Manheim talks with his father about various topics, including toilet paper, tonic water, Patreon, DopeyCon, and a voicemail from a listener. They also discuss the difference between seltzer and tonic water, and David plays a song he wrote.Keywordsdrugs, addiction, dumb shit, toilet paper, tonic water, Patreon, DopeyCon, voicemail, seltzer, songTakeawaysThe conversation covers a range of lighthearted topics, including toilet paper and tonic water.They discuss the importance of supporting Dopey on Patreon and the upcoming DopeyCon event.David's father shares his thoughts on the show and his experiences as a listener.David plays a song he wrote, showcasing his musical talent.TitlesA Voicemail from a Dopey ListenerDavid's Musical Talent: A Song ShowcaseSound Bites"I don't think you know the difference between tonic water and seltzer.""Somebody made a comment that you should be kinder to your father.""I need some money, money in my pocket like this"
  • This Week on Dopey! We are paying homage to Chris on the 6th anniversary of his tragic death. We are joined by Jed Payne from Church and Other Drugs Podcast and talk about his harrowing Kratom recovery and how he got to celebrate his first father's day! PLUS Stephen Murray from the Safe Spot Hotline calls in to help us celebrate Dopey Day AKA ChrisMiss in August with the new CALL-A-DOPE piece of Dopey Day! If anyone is using please call 1-800-972-0590 to help prevent overdose! PLUS emails, voicemails, tattoos, Dopeycon, Dopey Day! PLUS we sneak The This American Life Dopey Segment just to fuck everybody up! All that and more on a brand spanking new but. eerily familiar episode of that good ol Dopey Podcast!!!! In this part of the conversation, David Manheim discusses various topics including Bob Marley, Dopey Day, DopeyCon, and his personal experiences with addiction and recovery. He also shares an email from a listener and announces anniversaries of Dopey Nation members. Jed from Church and Other Drugs Podcast joins the conversation and talks about his journey of addiction, relapse, and recovery. In this part of the conversation, David and Jed discuss Jed's harrowing experiences with addiction, including his relapses and the impact on his personal life. They also touch on the dangers of using substances like kratom and the importance of seeking help and treatment. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the upcoming Dopey con and the partnership with Safe Spot to provide support for addicts. The conversation in this part of the recording focuses on the Save Spot hotline, a helpline for people who use drugs and want to ensure their safety. The hotline provides support and guidance to individuals before and during drug use, with the goal of preventing fatal overdoses. The hosts discuss the importance of the hotline and how it can save lives. They also emphasize the non-judgmental and supportive nature of the hotline, as well as the sense of community it fosters. The episode concludes with a tribute to a friend who died from an overdose. In this final part of the conversation, David Manheim reflects on the tragic death of his co-host Chris and the future of the Dopey podcast. He shares the events leading up to Chris's relapse and overdose, including their last episode together and the signs of Chris's drug use. David grapples with feelings of guilt and responsibility, but ultimately decides to continue the show as a way to honor Chris's memory and raise awareness about addiction. The episode ends with a lighthearted banjo cover of Dave's song and a message of hope for the future.KeywordsBob Marley, Dopey Day, DopeyCon, addiction, recovery, email, anniversaries, Church and Other Drugs Podcast, addiction, relapse, treatment, kratom, Dopey con, Safe Spot, Save Spot hotline, drug use, safety, fatal overdose, support, community, non-judgmental, tribute, addiction, relapse, overdose, grief, podcast, Dopey, memory, awarenessTakeawaysBob Marley's music is loved by many, and David Manheim and his guest discuss their favorite songs.Dopey Day is celebrated on August 16th, and listeners are encouraged to record messages to be included in the Dopey Day show.DopeyCon is an upcoming event that will feature various guests and activities.David Manheim shares an email from a listener who found strength and inspiration from the Dopey podcast.Jed from Church and Other Drugs Podcast shares his personal journey of addiction, relapse, and recovery. Addiction can lead to devastating consequences, including relapses and strained relationships.Substances like kratom can be addictive and have negative effects on one's quality of life.Seeking help and treatment is crucial for recovery and maintaining sobriety.The Dopey con event provides an opportunity for individuals in recovery to connect and support each other.Partnerships with organizations like Safe Spot can offer valuable resources and support for addicts. The Save Spot hotline provides support and guidance to individuals who use drugs and want to ensure their safety.The hotline aims to prevent fatal overdoses by offering non-judgmental and supportive assistance before and during drug use.The hotline creates a sense of community among its operators and callers, who share a common experience.The hosts emphasize the importance of reaching out for help and the potential to save lives through the hotline.The episode concludes with a tribute to a friend who died from an overdose, highlighting the devastating impact of addiction. The tragic death of Chris highlights the devastating impact of addiction and the constant risk of relapseGuilt and responsibility are common emotions experienced by loved ones after a relapse or overdoseContinuing the podcast is a way for David to honor Chris's memory and raise awareness about addictionThe banjo cover at the end of the episode serves as a reminder of the importance of finding joy and hope in the midst of griefTitlesDopey Day and DopeyConCelebrating Bob Marley's Music Celebrating Sobriety at Dopey conJed's Harrowing Journey Through Addiction Building a Supportive Community: The Save Spot HotlinePreventing Fatal Overdoses: The Role of the Save Spot Hotline Reflecting on Tragedy: Chris's Relapse and DeathGuilt and Responsibility: Navigating the AftermathTitlesThe Dangers of Smoke Shop Drugs: Tianeptine and KratomFrom Counselor to Patient: Navigating Treatment and Rehab Exploring the Symbolism of DreamsOvercoming Kratom Addiction: Jed's Story Sound Bites"Vivitrol is just naltrexone, so it is only an opioid antagonist.""The sublicate shot you do the first three days after the shot, you are blasted, dude.""I got just blindsided with cravings like you wouldn't believe.""You're such a fucking piece of work. I swear to God.""I woke up in was the intense feeling of impending doom and unbelievable fear and panic attack, dude.""Yeah, I'm still on Vivitrol."Sound Bites"What's my favorite Bob Marley? We're doing Joby, we're not doing Bob Marley.""Welcome to Dopey, the podcast on drugs, addiction, and other dumb shit.""Call a Dope on Dopey Day.""I got sick. Oh, God. I was on an eight-hour bus ride from Puerto Vallarta to Guadalajara and I was just in the bus bathroom puking my guts out, dude.""I'm just struggling to get honest. So I just, I tell my parents and I tell my boss that, hey, don't worry, but I am extremely suicidal. So I'm going to go to a mental institution for 30 days.""The reason that I'm doing all of this is just like immediately plucked away and it's just, it's... I can't even really accurately convey like the fucking emotions.""If Chris, when he was using, could have called this number, maybe we wouldn't be doing all this.""You can still get high, but if it goes wrong, you don't have to die.""How do we scale this hotline to the point where we make what we would call a population level impact?""The worst thing that could have ever happened happened, and Chris relapsed and died.""Dopey, as the nation knew it, is gone, along with Chris.""The show is mostly a recovery show now. I guess that is true. But it always was in its own way."Chapters00:00Introduction and Bob Marley05:54Email from a Listener21:20Remembering Chris and His Legacy28:00Jed's Journey of Turning His Life Around39:08Jed's Experience with TNeptine50:43The Dangers of Kratom and the Importance of Seeking Help56:02The Consequences of Relapse01:08:24Partnering with Safe Spot to Support Addicts01:26:16The Importance of the Save Spot Hotline01:31:19The Unpredictability of the Dope Supply01:41:40The Impact of the This American Life Episode01:49:09Todd as the Foil to the Sober Good Life02:00:11The Tragic Loss of Todd02:07:01Tragedy Strikes: Chris's Relapse and Death02:14:29Guilt and Responsibility: Navigating the Aftermath02:19:49Honoring Chris's Memory: Continuing the Dopey Podcast02:35:19Finding Joy in Grief: A Banjo Cover and Message of Hope

  • Whats up everyone!

    This is our Tuesday Patreon Teaser! Please subscribe to Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast

    JD sent a fire dopey voicemail!

    Plus a clip of me, Jeremy and Greg hanging out talking about Greg's sex appeal and smuggling Mushrooms to Ithaca many years ago.

    DopeyCon 2024 - DC5/DCV is coming!

    Who is ready????

    Here are AI notes:

    SummaryIn this episode of Dopey, Dave introduces the Dopey Tuesday episode available on Patreon and promotes DopeyCon tickets. He then plays a voicemail from a former hater who shares a story about smoking maggots. Dave discusses the Patreon Zoom meeting and the attraction people have towards Greg and Jeremy. They talk about their charisma and sexual power, and share stories about their past adventures. The episode ends with a song.KeywordsDopey, podcast, drugs, addiction, dumb shit, Patreon, DopeyCon, lineup, voicemail, hater, smoking maggots, Patreon Zoom, charisma, sexual power, adventures, songTakeawaysDopey Tuesday episodes are available on PatreonDopeyCon tickets are on sale on PatreonEven former haters can become contributors to the showGreg and Jeremy have a certain charisma and sexual powerThey share stories about their past adventuresThe episode ends with a songTitlesCharisma and Sexual PowerThe Dopey Tuesday Teaser SongSound Bites"Join Patreon, buy a ticket to DopeyCon""I smoked maggots somehow""Greg is incredibly attracted to people"Chapters00:00Introduction and Patreon Promotion03:12Voicemail: Smoking Maggots13:23Discussion: Charisma and Sexual Power17:05Story: Bringing a Bag of Drugs21:04The Dopey Tuesday Teaser Song