Episódios
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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇
In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses child-led therapy with Nicole Casey, a speech-language pathologist known for her work with gestalt language processing. The conversation delves into the importance of child-led approaches, how they differ from traditional methods, and what parents should look for in therapy sessions. They also touch on the misconceptions around play-based therapy, the challenges and benefits of truly child-led sessions, and the significance of honoring all forms of communication. Nicole shares her experience of growing her practice and social media presence, advocating for child-centered methods, and collaborating within the field to offer authentic support for neurodivergent children.
00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic
00:21 Meet Nicole Casey: Speech Therapist and Advocate
01:59 Nicole's Journey and Social Media Impact
09:03 Defining Child-Led Therapy
11:18 Balancing Therapy Goals with Child-Led Approaches
15:56 The Importance of Play in Therapy
27:31 Communication Beyond Spoken Language
32:11 Kids Taking Initiative
32:29 Recognizing Progress in Therapy
33:38 Mindset Shifts for Parents
34:55 Child-Led Therapy in Practice
38:05 Navigating Real-World Challenges
40:07 Balancing Boundaries and Freedom
45:34 Adapting Child-Led Approaches in Different Settings
49:22 Conclusion and Resources
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Nicole Casey on Instagram @connectionsspeechpathology and her website www.greatlanguagepartner.com
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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In this mini episode, Dr. Tay discusses the distinction between Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Inspired by conversations with parents in her group therapy program, she delves into the complexities and overlaps between the two diagnoses. Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of understanding PDA within the framework of anxiety and highlights the stigmas associated with ODD, especially in racialized communities. She also touches on the limitations of behavioral approaches and the significance of adopting neurodiversity-affirming practices.
00:00 Introduction and Life Updates
00:45 Exploring PDA and ODD
02:03 Nuances and Misconceptions
02:49 Clinical Perspectives and Research
05:33 Therapeutic Approaches and Stigma
09:52 Evidence-Based Practices
14:46 Conclusion and Future Episodes
*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
RESOURCES
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.
DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.
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In this episode, Dr. Tay interviews Kaley Stymeist about "Spell to Communicate" (S2C), a method used to support non-speaking autistic children in expressing themselves. Kaley shares her journey with her son Hudson, who is progressing his communication through S2C after language regression. The discussion covers the methodology of S2C, emphasizing its neurodiversity-affirming approach and the importance of motor planning. Kaley also addresses common misconceptions and the need for structured training. Listeners learn where to find S2C practitioners and how to get started.
00:00 Introduction to Spell to Communicate
00:42 Meet Kaley Stymeist
01:03 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission
02:20 Kaley's Family and Autism Journey
03:07 Hudson's Birth and Early Challenges
06:49 Discovering Spell to Communicate
15:38 Hudson's Progress and Motor Planning
25:32 Starting with Presuming Competence
25:50 Introduction to Three Letter Boards
26:16 Transition to 26 Letter Boards
26:54 The Importance of Prompting
28:32 Building Motor Control and Accuracy
30:08 Progressing to Open Communication
33:18 The Goal of Spell to Communicate
39:09 Addressing Concerns and Misconceptions
44:50 Finding a Practitioner and Training
47:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Kaley on Instagram @kaley_and_3 and learn more about her S2C practice @autismsoulspeak
⚡️ find a local S2C practitioner >> https://i-asc.org/
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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Dr. Tay shares a mini-episode where she dives into the complexities and controversies surrounding Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy in the autism field. She presents a balanced perspective on ABA, emphasizing the importance of informed consent and considering the diverse needs and privileges of families. Dr. Tay also highlights different neurodiversity affirming modalities under the ABA umbrella, upcoming podcast guests, and her own experiences, urging the need for more nuanced conversations in the field.
00:00 Introduction and Personal Update
00:52 Welcome to the Parenting Space
01:05 Diving into ABA Therapy
01:22 Controversies and Perspectives on ABA
01:41 Upcoming Podcast Guests and Topics
04:55 Informed Decision-Making for Families
05:42 Advocating for Neurodiversity Affirming Practices
07:06 Changing the Field from the Inside Out
08:55 Accessibility Issues in Neurodiversity Affirming Therapy
09:18 Challenges in Child Care for Working Parents
10:02 Intersectionality and Racial Perspectives in ABA
11:05 Safety and Compliance for Non-White Children
12:08 Balancing Family Needs and Therapy Approaches
12:43 Open Dialogue and Future Conversations
13:34 Supporting Families Through Free Resources and Memberships
14:47 Encouraging Informed Consent and Advocacy
15:37 Conclusion and Future Episodes
RESOURCES
⚡️ listen to episodes 26, 59, and 128, which further discuss ABA and varying approaches. and check out the Making the Shift episode on ABA that inspired this episode!
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
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TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.
DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.
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In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Rob Gorski, known as The Autism Dad on social media, to discuss his experience as a father raising three autistic children. They explore the unique challenges and opportunities of fatherhood in the autism community, the grief process associated with diagnoses, and the importance of leaning into emotions. Rob shares his journey of starting a blog, the evolving support needs of his children, and the importance of self-care and mental health for parents. They also discuss the societal expectations for dads and the need for more inclusive and supportive conversations around fatherhood and autism.
00:00 Introduction and Today's Special Guest
00:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission
02:01 Rob Gorski's Family and Autism Journey
03:22 Challenges and Insights on Autism Diagnoses
08:48 Support Needs and Progress of Rob's Children
12:42 Navigating Parenting and Personal Challenges
13:39 The Role of Dads in Autism Parenting
18:05 Emotional Struggles and Mental Health
28:38 Understanding the Impact of Parental Emotions
29:34 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting
31:10 Navigating Social Media and External Judgments
32:54 The Importance of Repair and Recovery
34:50 Challenging Parenting Norms and Expectations
39:03 Advocating for Your Child's Needs
44:06 The Power of Vulnerability and Self-Care
48:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Rob on Instagram @theautismdad and on his website
⚡️ listen to our recent episode on Rob's podcast about autism in girls
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language they have been exposed to the most.
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In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Carrie Cariello, a mother of five, including an autistic young adult. Carrie shares her family's journey, advocacy work, and the unique challenges and triumphs of raising an autistic child. They discuss practical strategies for fostering independence, the importance of community, navigating the education system, and marital dynamics. Carrie also shares insights into the transition to young adulthood, including finding supportive college programs. This episode offers hope, practical advice, and a reminder that families are not alone in their journey.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview
02:09 Meet Carrie Cariello: A Journey Through Autism
03:00 Carrie's Family and Early Diagnosis
04:07 From Writing to Advocacy
06:40 Navigating Challenges and Safety Concerns
08:59 Parenting Strategies and Splinter Skills
17:50 Redefining Family Dynamics
27:48 Parenting Challenges and Triumphs
28:41 Navigating Discomfort and Fix-It Mode
29:16 Dinner Time Dilemmas
31:28 College Program Search
36:24 Balancing Marriage and Parenting
40:12 Encouraging Independence
45:48 Final Thoughts and Resources
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Carrie >>
Instagram @carrie_cariello
Facebook @whatcolorismonday
Website Link: https://carriecariello.substack.com
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Maggie of Unfurling Littles and explores Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) from an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) lens. They discuss how to incorporate neurodiversity-affirming practices into ABA to create a compassionate, child-led approach. Maggie shares her journey into the field, her own lived experience as an autistic individual, and practical examples of how ACT principles can be applied within ABA for the benefit of both children and their families. The episode also addresses common concerns about traditional ABA and offers insights on fostering mindful play and regulation.
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
00:46 Guest Introduction: Maggie from Unfurling Littles
02:33 Maggie's Journey into Early Childhood Special Education
03:43 Challenges and Criticisms of ABA
06:28 Maggie's Personal Neurodivergence Story
08:29 Founding Unfurling Littles and Professional Challenges
10:59 Navigating ABA and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices
14:38 Introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
16:39 Implementing ACT in Family and Child Goals
21:26 Balancing Family and Child Values in Therapy
27:08 Practical Applications of ACT in Therapy
29:25 Measuring Engagement and Joy in Child Interactions
29:59 Integrating Child-Led Approaches in Therapy
30:27 Present Moment Awareness and Neurodiversity Affirming Practices
32:04 Mindfulness in Neurodiversity Affirming Care
34:16 Handling Dysregulation with ACT Principles
36:32 The Importance of Validating Emotions
40:41 Healing Through Neurodiversity Affirming Practices
44:33 The Evolution and Future of ABA
50:49 Connecting with Families and Resources
52:45 Final Thoughts and Next Steps
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Maggie on Instagram @unfurling_littles and her website https://www.unfurlinglittles.com
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
Note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
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If you find value in this podcast and want even more support, tune in to learn about “EVOLVE the membership.” This new membership offers a lower-cost, flexible alternative to traditional clinical services, designed to provide accessible support and education for autism families. I share personal insights about my journey from academia to entrepreneurship, the challenges faced in balancing multiple roles, and the motivation behind creating this membership. Making this launch happen even while I’m in Europe (and truthfully it feels quite sentimental!).
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⚡️a comprehensive video library
⚡️community support
⚡️expert masterclasses
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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:32 Launching a New Membership
02:24 Personal Journey and Professional Growth
04:42 Challenges and Expanding Services
06:51 The Evolve Membership Details
09:46 Balancing Personal and Professional Life
12:02 Advocacy and Real-Life Stories
18:03 Membership Benefits and Pricing
31:35 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Dr. Tay and Rachel Madel, a speech language pathologist specializing in AAC, dive into the benefits of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) for autistic children, both non-speaking and verbally fluent children. They dispel common misconceptions about AAC, discuss various high-tech and low-tech AAC tools, and emphasize the importance of modeling and integrating AAC into daily routines. They also explore the impact of AAC on motor planning, literacy, and overall communication skills. Rachel shares practical tips for parents starting the AAC journey, highlights the significance of robust systems, and challenges the use of PECS. The episode includes insights on how technology can enhance communication, even among children with well-developed spoken language, and offers various resources for further learning.
00:00 Introduction to AAC and Its Importance
00:47 Meet Rachel Madel: AAC Specialist
02:34 Understanding AAC: Tools and Techniques
06:07 The Role of Technology in AAC
09:37 Starting the AAC Journey: Tips for Parents
14:21 Addressing Misconceptions About AAC
19:57 Motor Planning Challenges: Apraxia vs. Dyspraxia
26:08 Popular AAC Apps and Tools
30:01 The Importance of Core Words in AAC
30:20 Grammar and Literacy in AAC Systems
31:04 Modifying AAC Systems
32:54 Motivating Children to Use AAC
36:04 The Role of Modeling in AAC
39:00 Why Not PECS?
43:54 Introducing AAC to Verbal Children
46:46 Resources and Final Thoughts
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Rachel on Instagram @rachelmadelslp, find resources on her website www.rachelmadel.com, and listen to her podcast Talking with Tech
⚡️ get on the waitlist for Rachel's course, AAC Ally
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Stefanie, the president and co-founder of the nonprofit Lilly's Voice. Stefanie shares the inspiring story of her non-speaking autistic daughter, Lilly, whose journey with augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices led to the creation of the nonprofit. Lilly’s Voice provides AAC devices to children who have communication differences for families who cannot access these tools through conventional means, such as through school funding, insurance, or other grant mechanisms. Lilly’s Voice also provides education on AAC. The episode covers the importance of AAC, debunks common myths, and emphasizes best practices for parents to support their children's communication. Stefanie also discusses fundraising efforts and the impactful work of Lilly’s Voice.
00:00 Introduction to Lily's Voice Nonprofit
02:19 Meet Stephanie: The Inspiration Behind Lily's Voice
03:32 The Journey to AAC: Challenges and Discoveries
05:51 Launching Lily's Voice: A Nationwide Nonprofit
08:34 Understanding Apraxia and the Role of AAC
12:11 Debunking Myths About AAC
20:01 Navigating the Process of Acquiring AAC Devices
25:48 How Lily's Voice Supports Families
27:18 App Limitations and Popular Choices
28:02 Guidance for Parents on Choosing Apps
30:20 Personal Experiences with AAC Apps
31:28 Best Practices for AAC Devices
34:55 Learning and Customizing AAC Devices
40:12 Fundraising and Support for Lily's Voice
45:25 Encouragement and Final Thoughts
46:39 Conclusion and Next Steps
RESOURCES
⚡️ learn more about Lilly's Voice, apply for a scholarship, and learn about AAC on their website
⚡️ connect with Stefanie through the nonprofit’s Instagram account @lillysvoice and Lilly’s personal page @afriendforlillybug
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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Dr. Tay is joined by Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar, an AuDHD communication researcher, to discuss the intersection of neurodiversity and research, with a particular emphasis on BIPOC representation within the autism community. Kali shares her personal journey of discovering her autism diagnosis and her efforts to highlight the representation of Black autistic individuals on social media. The conversation covers broad topics such as the history of autism subtypes, the diagnostic challenges faced by BIPOC individuals, and the complexities of clinical diagnosis. Dr. Tay and Kali also delve into the importance of evolving our understanding and terminology around autism to build greater acceptance and support as well as how to use social media as a tool to learn while also knowing its limitations.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview
01:19 Host's Background and Podcast Purpose
02:22 Guest's Personal Journey with Autism
04:49 Challenges and Representation in Autism Research
07:14 Social Media and Misinformation
11:31 Navigating Research and Personal Experience
26:11 Discussion on Autism Subtypes and Diagnosis
30:53 Understanding PDD-NOS and Stigma
31:47 Challenges with DSM-5 Levels
32:58 Regional Differences in Diagnoses
33:44 Functional Assessment Over Levels
35:24 Issues with Profound Autism Label
37:18 Spiky Profiles and Individual Differences
39:22 BIPOC Representation in Autism Conversations
39:55 Cultural Barriers to Diagnosis
42:57 ODD and PDA: Shifting Perspectives
49:53 Complexities of Diagnosing Anxiety
51:24 Finding Affirming Practitioners
53:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Kaligirwa on Instagram and TikTok @blackspectrumscholar and check out her resource library
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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Dr. Tay and Emily Hamblin, a parent coach and neurodivergent mom of four, discuss practical strategies for self-compassion, regulating the nervous system, and addressing the challenges parents face. The episode covers the crucial role of self-care, debunking the notion that it's selfish, and highlights the impact it has on the parent and the entire family. Emily shares her personal journey, including her experiences and how understanding her own sensory needs and emotional triggers significantly improved her family dynamics. They discuss how to model healthy coping mechanisms for children and the importance of addressing underlying behaviors.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:15 Meet Emily Hamblin: A Journey into Neurodivergent Parenting
02:31 The Challenges of Parenting Neurodivergent Children
03:31 Shifting Perspectives: From Control to Compassion
08:40 Understanding Self-Compassion and Its Importance
13:55 The Impact of Self-Compassion on Parenting
15:55 Modeling Positive Behavior for Children
17:46 The Beginning of a Challenging Journey
18:59 Coping with Extreme Parenting Stress
20:35 Finding Support and Validation
21:56 Balancing Self-Care and Parenting
23:35 Navigating Guilt and Self-Care
27:57 Teaching Emotional Intelligence to Kids
29:36 Membership Programs and Resources
32:34 Final Thoughts and Resources
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Emily Hamblin on Instagram @enlighteningmotherhood and learn more about her services https://emily-hamblin.com/
⚡️ listen to my episode on Emily's podcast Enlightening Motherhood episode 126
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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Dr. Tay and Dr. Joy Eberhardt, a holistic pediatrician specializing in integrative and functional medicine, discuss PANS (Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) and PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections). They delve into the complexities of diagnosing these conditions, particularly in neurodivergent children, and the importance of a holistic approach that includes conventional, integrative, and functional medicine. The conversation also covers the significance of parental advocacy, understanding neurodivergence, and defining thriving for both children and parents. Dr. Eberhardt shares insights into her clinical practice, challenges in differentiating symptoms, and ways to support families through personalized care plans.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:10 Meet Dr. Joy Everhart: Holistic Pediatrician
00:43 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission
01:49 Welcoming Dr. Joy to the Podcast
02:32 Dr. Joy's Journey and Expertise
04:08 Understanding Neurodivergence in Dr. Joy's Family
08:24 Dr. Joy's Professional Practice and Expansion
13:20 Navigating Pediatric Care and Neurodivergence
17:41 Introduction to PANS and PANDAS
25:51 Understanding the Complexity of Child Burnout
26:50 The Importance of History in Diagnosis
28:14 Exploring PANS and PANDAS
30:04 Identifying and Treating Inflammation
32:57 The Three-Legged Stool Approach
36:35 Holistic and Integrative Medicine
38:22 Defining Thriving for Your Child
41:33 Advocacy and Finding the Right Support
48:07 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Dr. Eberhardt on Instagram @orchidpediatrics and visit her website www.orchidpediatrics.com
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
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Dr. Tay and Sunita Theiss, an Indian neurodivergent mom, discuss Sunita's journey through autism diagnoses for herself and her children, the impact of South Asian cultural values on her parenting, and the integration of neurodivergent needs within religious communities. Sunita shares her personal experiences, the challenges of advocating for her child's needs within faith-based settings, and practical strategies for creating more inclusive communities. Together, they discuss the importance of accommodations, self-advocacy, and intentional parenting.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Overview
00:54 Host's Background and Podcast Mission
01:57 Sunita's Family and Personal Journey
02:51 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family
05:22 Cultural Influences and Misattributions
11:44 Parenting Approaches and Self-Advocacy
21:40 Accommodations and Long-Term Support
26:41 Meeting Online and Family Backgrounds
27:11 Integrating Different Upbringings
27:42 Reparenting and Healing
28:29 Family Time and Dinner Table Dynamics
31:21 Parenting Strategies and Research
33:28 Navigating Neurodivergence in the Family
37:01 Cultural and Community Reactions
41:30 Supporting Neurodivergent Families in Religious Communities
49:00 Final Thoughts and Resources
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Sunita on Instagram @sunitatheiss, visit her website, and read her Substack
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
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In this solo episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of being comfortable with being wrong and sitting with the discomfort that accompanies it. She draws from her personal experiences and professional journey to provide insights on navigating life with an autistic child while balancing evidence-based practices with neurodiversity-affirming approaches. Dr. Tay addresses the evolving landscape of autism care, emphasizes the value of lived experiences, and offers practical advice to parents.
RESOURCES
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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Dr. Tay and Chandele Morris, an inclusive educational consultant and author, discuss the barriers in the educational system, the importance of understanding neurodiversity and tangible steps to be better advocates for autistic children. Chandele shares her experiences as a former educator and a parent of an autistic/ADHD child, emphasizing the need for inclusive education and the significance of updating educational training. The episode also highlights practical strategies for creating inclusive classrooms and the role of community and resources in supporting neurodivergent children.
00:00 Introduction to the Educational System and Advocacy
00:41 Meet Chandele Morris, an Inclusive Educational Consultant
02:25 Understanding Neurodiversity in Education
03:29 Challenges in Teacher Training and Awareness
05:45 The Need for Systemic Change in Education
09:24 Inclusion vs. Segregation in Classrooms
15:41 Real-Life Examples and Solutions for Inclusion
27:10 Fidgets and Sensory Breaks in Classrooms
28:01 Inclusive Classroom Practices
29:01 Understanding Neurodivergence in Families
29:38 AAC Devices and Communication
31:24 Teaching Empathy and Inclusion
36:25 Challenges in Changing Educational Systems
41:36 Finding Community and Support
44:06 The Role of Children's Books in Neurodiversity
46:38 Conclusion and Next Steps
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Chandele Morris
Instagram @Diversityofminds
TikTok @Diversityofminds
Facebook @Diversityofminds
⚡️ check out Chandele's books
The Beauty of Us All
I'm Just a Kid: A Social Emotional Book about Self-Regulation
⚡️email [email protected] to schedule an author visit, professional development, or order bulk copies of books
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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Dr. Tay and Courtney English discuss:
importance of sensory systemsintroduction to sensory profileshow to support sensory regulation at homeRESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Courtney English on Instagram @courtneyenglish.ot and on TikTok @courtneyenglish.ot
⚡️ get access to Courtney's resources here, including learning about your child's sensory profile
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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Dr. Tay and Dr. Daniella Boyd discuss:
Daniella's personal and parental journey in navigating neurodivergenceAn explanation of DIRFloortime, including engagement in play and relationship-based activities.Supporting BIPOC neurodivergent children and the adaptability of Floortime to meet culture-specific needsRESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Dr. Daniella Boyd through her website https://allplayisok.com/ or through Instagram @montessoriandsensory
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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Dr. Tay and Dr. Sarah Wayland discuss:
her journey and insights into using relationship-based dynamic intelligence (RDI) to enhance family bonds and your autistic child's growththe role of co-regulation and autonomy in parenting your autistic childpractical advice for parents on integrating RDI principles into daily lifeRESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Sarah Wayland, Ph.D., parent coach + founder of Guiding Exceptional Parents on her website and on Facebook and LinkedIn
⚡️ learn more about Relationship-based Dynamic Intelligence (RDI™) and working with Dr. Wayland
⚡️ purchase her book along with Dr. Donna Henderson and Jamell White "Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else"
⚡️ reference another great resource from Dr. Wayland: Behavior Revolution
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
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Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss:
navigating the IEP processworking with your child's school to have a shared understanding of PDA (pathological demand avoidance), a theorized profile of autismproposing appropriate accommodations and support strategies for PDA learnersRESOURCES
⚡️ keep learning and purchase the course Supporting PDA Learners: Centering Connection, Autonomy and Equality in the IEP Process
⚡️ connect with Jessica Hanzo, LMFT on Instagram @pda.project and visit her website
⚡️ connect with Lisa Basking Wright, IEP coach on Instagram @lisabaskinwright, on Facebook, and visit her website
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110
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