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In this episode, we're diving deeper into the world of haters and exploring strategies to fight back and reclaim our power. Building upon last week's discussion on the general vibe of haters (rancid), we're now delving into actionable steps to address their negativity head-on.
Is it worth fighting back against haters, or should our energy be focused elsewhere? How can we maintain our peace of mind when dealing with individuals who seem determined to misunderstand us? These are just some of the questions we'll be addressing in this empowering episode.
Bonus: I'm inviting you to send me screenshots of people hating! If I receive enough submissions, I'll do an episode or video reacting to them. So don't hold back – share your experiences and let's turn the tables on the haters together! (Send submissions to the Friend Crush IG (@friend.crush).
Tune in now to discover effective strategies for dealing with haters and reclaiming your power in the face of negativity. Don't let the haters get you down – join the conversation and let's rise above (or go to hell) together!
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In this podcast episode, we delve into the intriguing topic of dealing with haters – those individuals who seem to go out of their way to criticize and spread negativity. But wait, this isn't your typical discussion on handling constructive criticism; we're focusing specifically on those who are just plain rude and judgmental for no apparent reason.
Ever felt like someone made their problem your problem, even when you were simply minding your own business? You're not alone. In this two-part series, we'll explore the psychology behind haters and provide practical strategies for dealing with their unwanted negativity.
Part one kicks off by dissecting the mindset of haters, distinguishing between genuine feedback and baseless criticism. We'll discuss how to maintain your peace of mind and emotional well-being when faced with unwarranted negativity, especially from individuals you neither know nor care about.
But wait, there's more! Tune in next week for part two, where we'll tackle the age-old question: Should you fight back against haters, and if so, how? Get ready for an empowering discussion on reclaiming your power and setting boundaries in the face of adversity.
If you've ever found yourself grappling with the perplexing behavior of haters, this episode is for you. Join us as we unravel the mysteries of negativity and equip you with the tools you need to rise above it. Don't let the haters get you down – tune in now and focus on being hot and having fun!
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In this episode of "Girl Confessions," our guest Seven bravely shares her deeply personal journey, starting from running away from home in China to embarking on a tumultuous adventure that led her to Canada. She opens up about her experience of entering into a visa marriage, navigating the complexities of divorce, and the emotional toll it took on her.
Seven's story isn't just about romantic relationships; it's a rollercoaster ride of self-discovery, one-sided crushes, periods of celibacy, and the intricacies of platonic friendships with men. With candid honesty, she shares the highs and lows of her journey, offering insights into love, loss, and resilience.
While Seven's experiences may be unique, her story resonates with anyone who has faced challenges in relationships, struggled with self-acceptance, or embarked on a journey of self-discovery. Join us as we delve into Seven's story, exploring themes of courage, vulnerability, and the pursuit of happiness against all odds.
Grab your headphones, buckle up, and prepare for an emotionally charged episode that will leave you inspired and empowered. Tune in now to listen to Seven's extraordinary journey unfold.
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In this episode, I delve into the personal journey of leaving my hometown, Perth, and the social challenges I faced during that transition. While my departure wasn't the smoothest, I navigated the change as best as I could at the time, and I've come to terms with my actions since then.
Leaving one's hometown, especially from a smaller or more isolated place like Perth, comes with its unique set of emotional and social hurdles. I share my experiences, reflections, and insights on starting fresh in a new environment, offering candid advice and perspectives for listeners who may be embarking on a similar journey.
From coping with homesickness to forging new connections and adapting to unfamiliar surroundings, I cover various aspects of the relocation experience. Whether you're contemplating a move or simply curious about the process, this episode provides valuable insights and relatable anecdotes.
Join me as I open up about the realities of leaving one's hometown and offer guidance on embracing change with resilience and grace. Don't miss out on this honest conversation – tune in now and embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth!
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Welcome back to another episode of "Girl Confessions"! Today, we've got another juicy installment for you. Miss Lisa spills the tea on her whirlwind romance with a creative director, complete with unexpected twists and turns.
Get ready to hear all about the rollercoaster ride of lovebombing, flaky boys, and dating app adventures in Tokyo. But that's not all – buckle up as Lisa reveals the shocking revelation that the same creative director might be dating her look-alike!
From heart-pounding flings to eyebrow-raising encounters, this episode has it all. Join us as we dive deep into the complexities of modern romance and navigate the highs and lows of dating in the digital age.
So grab your favorite beverage, cozy up, and get ready for some scandalous stories. You won't want to miss this wild ride – tune in now and enjoy the latest installment of "Girl Confessions"!
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In this week's episode, we delve into the ever-relevant topic of "Full-Time vs Freelance" work arrangements. Join us as we unravel the romanticized notions surrounding freelance work and explore nuance in the pros and cons of both career paths.
With careful consideration, we navigate the myriad factors that individuals must weigh when making the leap from full-time employment to freelance. From financial stability to work-life balance and beyond, we uncover the personal implications behind this career decision.
Whether you're contemplating a career change or simply curious about the realities of different work arrangements, this episode offers insights and practical advice. Tune in as we dispel myths, attempt to offer guidance, and empower listeners to make informed decisions about their professional futures.
Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that goes beyond the surface to explore the complexities of modern work life. Hit play and join us as we navigate the full-time vs freelance debate together!
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Welcome to Episode 93! In this week's episode, we dive deep into the intriguing topic of "Nice Guys" and "Pick-Me Girls". Join me as we explore the similarities and differences between these two personas, and dissect the confusing connection between seeking validation and genuine connection.
We'll unravel the complexities of gender expectations in modern dating and interrogate the roots of insecurity that often fuel these dynamics. Are "Nice Guys" and "Pick-Me Girls" really seeking the same thing, or are their motivations driven by different insecurities?
Tune in for an insightful discussion that challenges conventional notions of romance and self-worth. Let's unpack these behaviors together and uncover the deeper truths behind the quest for validation. Don't miss out – hit play and join the conversation!
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Welcome to this week's episode of "Girl Confessions"! Join us as we dive deep into the world of relationships and self-discovery with our special guest, Sandy. In this candid conversation, Sandy shares her experiences of being a 'crazy' girlfriend, navigating toxic patterns with boys, and the unexpected benefits of having an unhinged crush.
Get ready to hear some juicy stories as Sandy reveals how she discovered her ex was cheating on her through Google and social media. From delusional crushes to heartbreak, Sandy opens up about the highs and lows of her journey and the valuable lessons she's learned along the way.
Whether you're looking for some relatable experiences or seeking inspiration to break free from toxic patterns, this episode is for you! Tune in and join us as we slay through laughter, tears, and everything in between. We hope you enjoy our conversation – buckle up for a wild ride!
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Welcome to "Go Where You're Appreciated: Finding Value and Self-Worth in the Right Places." In this episode, we delve into the pivotal question: What is our discomfort in service of? We'll explore when we should allow things to be easy instead of assuming success and happiness require suffering.
Discover how to nurture genuine appreciation and self-worth, especially when you're trying to force it from incompatible people and situations. Join us as we unpack the importance of seeking environments where you're truly valued and respected. Tune in for insights on creating a life where you can thrive and embrace challenges without prolonging unnecessary struggle. Let's embark on this journey together and learn how to go where you're appreciated.
Optimize your self-worth and happiness by understanding when to embrace ease and let go of the need for suffering. Hot & Having Fun 43VA!
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In this week's "De-Center Everything: Men, Women, Beauty, Feminism & More – Focus on Yourself for True Empowerment" episode we consider how in the process of #realizingthings, we often get caught up in binaries and believe that if one thing doesn't work for us, we must swing to the opposite extreme. This podcast is about de-centering and bringing awareness to certain frameworks, ideologies, and external validations.
Join us as we explore how creating a little distance from these limitations can unlock our true potential. We’ll discuss how to step away from societal pressures and focus on self-empowerment, self-love, and having fun. It's a process, it's a journey, and we're all in this together. Tune in to learn how to be hot, have fun, and live your best life by focusing on what truly matters – YOU!
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This week we dip into the intriguing world of Shera Seven and the complex dynamics of 'dating for money.' From fleeting thoughts to evolving perspectives, we'll explore how my understanding of this phenomenon has evolved over time. Can clownery pay the bills? Probably not. But let's unpack the realities and nuances of 'dating for money' together. Share your thoughts and join the conversation!
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WELCOME TO SEASON SIX OF FRIEND CRUSHHHHH WOOO
Join us as we delve into the transformative concept of emotional accountability/responsibility. Ever experienced a moment where a term perfectly encapsulates a significant aspect of your life? That's precisely how I felt when I began reflecting on emotional accountability. It goes beyond mere empathy; it's about recognising the role each of us plays in our own emotional experiences without expecting others to bear our burdens in unhealthy ways, you know what I mean?
Often, it's this very aspect that hinders us from either maintaining or rekindling relationships with those who have let us down or disrespected us.
Let's unravel the layers of emotional accountability and its profound implications on our interpersonal connections.
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special treat for friend crush listeners ~ i've received a few messages like this one so i felt the wheels turning in my brain and generated this response. i definitely missed out a few things but i hope that this provides helpful perspective for anyone that relates to the situation described.
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this episode might be triggering for anyone that's convinced themselves that they like being in a situationship so listen at your own risk :)
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jealousyyyy is a disease fr - its a human experience, but one that when unmanaged can create more harm than good, mostly to yourself!!! how can we better understand and differentiate jealousy and envy we experience towards others and also when its directed towards us?
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answering a listener message i received recently that prompted me to reflect on what it means to be a "high value woman" and my thoughts on this conversation that's been happening online, growth, trauma, grief and why people cheat.
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i've done an episode on this before but i feel like its recently come up a lot in conversations with people in their early-mid 20s. my quarter life crisis was so intense but i feel like i've come out the other end better than i entered it so hopefully this gives you something to look forward to if you're going through this rn!! you are not alone <3
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i think one of the best ways to develop healthier boundaries is to find activities that you care about that feel beneficial to you (keep you hot and having fun) and allow you to orient your schedule around them. it can't just be work because that's not always just for you, it needs to be a hobby! the dedication to investing time and or money to connecting with yourself is not only beneficial for you but also for how you show up in your relationships. on top of that it also provides an easy filter to see whether others are respectful of this hobby and by extension you and your time.
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we previously talked about 'what do you get out of it' and recently i've been thinking about 'what do you have to offer' two sides of the same coin kinda. when we better understand who we are and what we contribute to relationships and situations, coupled with an awareness of how we want to live (hot & having fun philosophy), this also assists in how we can make more intentional decisions, better understand and assert boundaries and distance ourselves from connections and experiences that we're not compatible with.
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self-deprecation can seem harmless at times but i feel like when taken to far it can really get in the way of your ability to grow and expand how you see yourself. wild the ways that we can be our own worst enemy! in this episode i discuss how i've come to better understand how to manage self-deprecation in ways that aren't self-destructive.
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