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Katie speaks with Daisie-Belle from the Daisie Dates Podcast for a candid chat about modern dating. They explore everything from approaching people in real life to dealing with ghosting and maintaining healthy relationships. Katie and Daisie share their own experiences and practical advice, this episode will help you navigate the dating world with confidence and help you feel less alone in the sometimes chaotic world of modern dating!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Approaching people in real life: Be bold and remember you have nothing to lose. If you get rejected, it's not necessarily about you.
Multi-dating can help reduce dating burnout and provide perspective on potential matches.
How do you deal with being the only single friend in a friendship group?
How to deal with the fear of being ghosted?
What to do when your boyfriend's best friend makes no effort with you?
How do you know when you've found "the spark" on a date?
What to do when the person you are dating says they aren't ready for a serious relationship but will "get back to you" in a few months?
Healthy relationships involve maintaining individual identities, consistent behaviour, and open communication.
The "spark" is often misunderstood. A good connection should feel like getting into a warm bath - safe and comfortable!
Give potential partners a chance beyond the first date, as nerves or circumstances may affect initial impressions.
Understanding attachment styles can provide insight into dating behaviours and help build more secure relationships.
Balancing time between friends and romantic partners is crucial for maintaining a healthy social life and relationship.
BEST MOMENTS
"I always knew that he was gonna tell me what the date would be the next week. When you do meet the right person that's as keen on you as you are them, you actually are never questioning if they're going to ghost you."
"I romanticise my solo time a lot. You have to do that. “
"Butterflies are horrible. I really hope I never ever have to feel like that ever again. It's the one of the worst feelings I think when you're dating. I think that's worse than being ghosted."
"The spark is just a thing that doesn't exist anyway, the thing that everyone's chasing that is not real. I think most people now, I'd hope they know that it's not real."
"I write down like things that I'm really interested in. I have an actual physical list. This might sound crazy, but I think it's good to come in like prepared if there are like awkward silences or the person you're meeting is more introverted."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Daisie-Belle Instagram
Daisie Dates Podcast Instagram
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
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Katie interviews a hilarious, fun-loving American living in London who's looking for an extrovert man. With infectious energy and a passion for spicy food, this single has a lot of love to give to the right person. Expect drunk texts, pub dates and losing every battle but winning life. She shares hilarious dating stories, including a disastrous Bumble date over the "W word"!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The guest has a unique talent for "losing every battle but winning every war" in life, turning setbacks into unexpected opportunities.
You must like spice, this single considers it an "ick" if someone doesn't enjoy spicy food
As an American in London, she's embraced British culture, including developing a love for beer and adopting phrases like "Cheers, mate."
She admits to being prone to drunk texting, viewing it as both a flaw and a way of showing genuine interest in someone she's dating.
She values loyalty and deep connections, as shown by her willingness to support an ex-boyfriend's music career by repeatedly playing his SoundCloud tracks!
The guest is adventurous in her dating life, once impulsively booking a flight to Copenhagen with a first date, showcasing her spontaneous nature.
BEST MOMENTS
"I am notorious for always losing every battle and winning every war."
"If you don't like spicy foods, don't talk to me."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Katie interviews a sports-loving single who brings joy and enthusiasm to everything she does. From her controversial tennis opinions to her game show appearances, this guest shares hilarious dating stories and insights into being a woman in sports. Listen in for a lively discussion on competition in relationships, the rise of women's football, and why letting someone win might be the biggest dating ick of all.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
She appeared on the game show "Pointless" with her sister, making it to the final round twice!
Her worst dating experience involved a series of awkward moments, including her date ordering food separately and swapping spicy meals.
The interviewee is passionate about women in sports, both as players and fans, and has worked on projects to keep girls engaged in sports.
She values partners who can handle losing gracefully and don't let her win out of misplaced chivalry.
The guest enjoys a variety of sports, including basketball, tennis, and football - supporting Liverpool FC and her Mexican team.
BEST MOMENTS
"I think women in sports, not just necessarily women playing sports, but as a woman fan of a sport, like even watching men's sports as a fan, I think there's a lot that can be done."
"I am quite happy to try new things. I'm always, like, I think I have a good time doing anything. I'll have a good time just sitting on the sofa. And also, like, going on an adventure."
"I'm at a place where I'm quite happy with who I am and I'm quite comfortable with myself and I don't really, I'm not embarrassed about anything about me. Even if I can be weird."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
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Katie interviews a former finance professional who boldly switched careers to become a personal trainer. He shares his journey from number-crunching to fitness coaching, his adventures in learning Spanish, and his quest for a partner who can understand his early-bird lifestyle. This episode offers a unique glimpse into this singles world, from tales of escaping dates to insights on maximising life. Tune in to discover if you're the perfect match for this ambitious, travel-loving, and consistently kind bachelor!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
He transitioned from a stable finance career to pursuing his passion as a personal trainer, showcasing his willingness to take risks.
He values consistency highly, applying it to his fitness routine, language learning, and relationships.
He is learning Spanish, driven by his love for Spanish culture and desire to be bilingual later in life.
As an early riser, he seeks a partner who aligns with his schedule and appreciates the importance of good sleep.
He's an avid traveller and hopes to explore more of the world with a future partner.
He describes himself as having "golden retriever energy" - positive and enthusiastic, unless he's severely sleep-deprived then he can be a moody boy.
He's looking for someone equally active and ambitious, who wants to "maximise life" alongside him.
BEST MOMENTS
"I'm fun, but I'm kind and I'm serious about people. So, you know, if I do make friends with people or I get into a relationship with someone, I do take it very seriously and I'd say I'm quite a loyal person."
"My controversial opinion, I think Abba are massively overrated... This goes for anything that's just overplayed on nights out."
"If I'm up at five in the gym for six, okay. I need to be in bed early. So again, I need someone that understands that I'm an early bird, someone that's on a similar schedule."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Katie chats with Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara for Daters - an app that helps singles track their dates and make better choices when dating. We track a lot of things in life we want to improve or make progress on so why not track your dating journey? Jillian shares her own dating experiences and how tracking her dates on her own app has helped her learn more about herself and the type of person she is looking for. Tune in to learn how to navigate the modern dating world with more self-awareness and positivity.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Clara for Daters helps users track dates by asking helpful post-date questions, enabling them to make better choices in the early stages of dating.
Tracking dates helps daters stay accountable, recognise patterns, and focus on qualities that matter in a potential partner.
Multi-dating, or going on dates with multiple people, can help anxious attachment styles by preventing fixation on one person and encouraging a slower pace.
The data from Clara confirms that conversion rates from dating app matches to in-person dates are low
Focusing on enjoying individual connections and learning from each date brings you closer to finding the right partner, rather than fixating on the end goal.
BEST MOMENTS
"Dating intentionally means going on dates. If you can be on the apps and saying you're dating intentionally and never go on a date, that's not dating intentionally."
"Don't focus on that big end goal. Just focus on those connections in the moment and it'll get closer."
"I feel like that's what you learn the more you multidate - you have these conversations, then you're like, okay, now I feel comfortable to have it again if it came up."
"It's important that we have that safe space to reflect by ourselves. It's important."
"The whole idea is we're trying to make dating fun again. It is tough and you can't sugar coat it, but you can do things as tools like Clara to help get better."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Clara for Daters - https://www.clarafordaters.com/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
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Katie interviews a high-energy, sassy, and always-late single who is unapologetically herself. Discover her unique quirks, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and her love for Grand Designs. With her infectious energy and confidence, this guest is ready to find a partner who can keep up with her "spontanaynay" lifestyle.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
This single is always late but believes she's worth the wait
She has a specific dream life planned out, including living near London, owning three dogs, and having a pickup truck for stargazing dates
Her biggest icks include men who can't find her in a restaurant, wear lycra, have mismatched trouser and sock lengths, and have messy flats
She is confident, can talk to anyone, and has a great strut when entering a room
Spontaneity is key - she wants a partner who's ready for adventures, even after a night out
She embraces her weirdness and quirkiness, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and constantly strutting
Her love for Grand Designs has inspired her dream house plans
BEST MOMENTS
"I'm always late, but I always say I'm always late but worth the wait."
"I am someone who loves like fully and wholeheartedly and I think that I have a lot of love to give to the right person."
"If you want to have fun, you want to have adventures and yeah, you want to be woken up in the middle of the night and go to a drive thru, or go do something fun and random, like, I'm your girl."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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This multi-talented single man brings humour, adventure, and an impressive array of skills to the table. From his musical prowess to his daring hobbies and meaningful career, he's sure to capture the hearts of many! Discover why he just might be the perfect match for someone looking for a partner who can keep them on their toes whilst making them laugh!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The guest is a true hobbyist with an impressive array of skills, including multiple instruments, extreme sports, and stand-up comedy.
He has a successful career as a sustainability consultant, using his math skills for good.
The guest is looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone who shares his sense of humour and adventurous spirit.
He finds it attractive when someone can call him out on his bulls**t and challenge his opinions.
The guest took a big risk by signing up for a stand-up comedy course and now performs regularly.
He puts effort into planning creative and fun dates, which is a major green flag.
According to his friend, the guest is the "full package" and sure to keep a partner on their toes.
BEST MOMENTS
"My most controversial opinion is that people in London should have to have a license to be able to walk and be a pedestrian.”
"I think the biggest risk I've taken was about a year ago, signing up to a stand-up comedy course, and then... I've kept doing it."
"You should date me because I am a good laugh and a good date. And I'll pick the place, which is apparently not that common."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Join Katie as she interviews a charismatic and adventurous single lady who's left the corporate world behind to pursue her passions. This sparkly yoga instructor shares her love for exploring London's bakeries and coffee shops, the types of men she finds most attractive, and her biggest icks in dating.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
She left her corporate grad job after just three months to pursue her non-corporate passions
She's a self-proclaimed list maker and a human map of London's best coffee shops and bakeries and wine bars
Her friends would say she's weirdly attracted to actors, and she admits to having a thing for men with moustaches!
Her biggest icks include men who are closed-minded and vape
She considers herself a massive feminist but still appreciates chivalrous gestures like carrying heavy bags
Her best friend describes her as "sunshine in human form" and praises her for being an incredibly generous, kind, and sparkly person
BEST MOMENTS
"I feel like when I think of the word nerdy, I reframe it as being like, oh it's such a thing where people are super passionate about something and I actually love that."
"I hated the fact that I was in a massive office with the people I was on a call with. Why don't we just go and connect like real people?"
"I've definitely in like my self-care, self-love era. Quite like a soft girly."
"She's kind of touched my life in so many ways that I can't even describe. And honestly, she's just an absolute catch. A gorgeous human being, inside and out."
"I'd want to date someone who is, I'd say quite wholesome, also quite chaotic”
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
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Katie chats with Molly Cookson from 2 Girls 1 Pup about their adventures in dating off the apps so far in 2024. From speed dating disasters to man crawls, they share their experiences and insights on trying new ways to meet potential partners. Get ready for a fun-filled discussion that will make you feel less alone in your dating struggles!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Molly and Katie emphasise the importance of having single friends who can relate to your dating experiences and provide support.
Participating in various dating events and activities can help bring fun back into the dating process and alleviate the pressure of relying solely on dating apps.
Being open-minded when meeting new people is crucial, as you may find a connection with someone you wouldn't have initially considered on a dating app.
Rejection is an inevitable part of dating, both on apps and in person, and it's essential not to take it personally.
Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by trying new dating experiences can be scary but rewarding.
Giving people a chance beyond the first few minutes of interaction is important, as nerves can impact initial impressions.
Dating can be challenging and emotionally taxing, so it's essential to be kind to yourself throughout the process.
BEST MOMENTS
"You could be the best peach in the world, but not everyone likes peaches."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
2 Girls 1 Pup - https://www.instagram.com/2_girls_1_pup/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
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This week's single guest is an optimistic and adventurous single man who's looking for a long-term relationship and a supportive teammate. From laidback dates in Mexico City to his controversial opinions on women's Tinder bios, this guest takes an interest in people and will keep you entertained while sharing his unique perspectives.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The guest appreciates maturity and experience in dating, having previously dated women up to 8 years older than him.
He believes women aren't held accountable for the outrageous things they put in their Tinder bios, and provides humorous examples in the episode
His most toxic trait is getting stroppy when losing at video games or board games
The guest's worst dating story turned out to be his best, involving a woman who was 2 hours late to their date in Mexico City
He emphasises the importance of supporting one another and having each other's backs in a relationship.
The guest has lived and worked in various countries, teaching languages and running his own tutoring business.
BEST MOMENTS
"Women aren't really held to account for what they say in their bios".
"One of these is a lie. I hate men. I have a baby. I have a job. Turns out the lie was, yeah, she doesn't have a job."
"If you beat me in a video game or a board game, which is unlikely, by the way, I will get a bit stroppy. I might not talk to you for like, 10, 15 minutes."
"I want to have a relationship with someone where we're just smashing life together as a team, supporting each other, caring for each other."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Katie interviews a lively and adventurous single woman who is seeking a like-minded partner to join her on life's exciting journey. From her unique dating experiences to her endearing quirks, this guest knows what she wants and that is someone fun, and lively who will appreciate her enthusiastic spirit.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The guest is a spontaneous, adventurous woman who loves trying new things and is always up for a challenge, seeking a partner who shares her zest for life.
She admits to being a bit picky when it comes to dating but ultimately knows what she wants
The guest's worst dating story involves a frustrating experience during COVID times, highlighting the importance of communication and optimism in relationships.
She's attracted to men who wear backward caps and is turned off by those who complain to wait staff after a meal or stand outside the pub waiting for their date.
The guest is a primary school teacher with a heart of gold, showcasing her patience and caring nature in both her personal and professional life.
She's passionate about dance, comedy, and live music so a festival is her favourite space
The guest describes herself as "enthusiastic," always ready to dive into new experiences and share her passion with others.
BEST MOMENTS
"I love dance, and I love comedy and I love live music, festivals combine all of that, so, they're my favourite places."
"Hello Fresh, Goodbye Fresh”
"My one word for review is enthusiastic, reason being I just feel like whatever you're passionate about, I can also get passionate about that, like yeah you love it. I'm in, I'll get into it as well."
"I'm actually not picky, I just feel like, when I know that I like someone, I know that I like them."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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This week's guest is a charming and adventurous wildlife photographer who is looking for a long-term relationship. With a love for exercise, nature, live music, and genuine human connection, this easygoing and carefree guy shares his impulsive tendencies and nerdy passions.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
The guest's ideal partner should have a love for life, enjoy travelling, and have a compatible work schedule
His self-proclaimed toxic traits include impulsive buying and an unhealthy Deliveroo habit
Wildlife photography is his nerdy passion, and he even creates an annual calendar featuring his best shots for friends and family.
A dream life for him would include living in the country, having access to nature, live music, and a flexible job that allows him to help people.
Instagram can be a red flag if someone is constantly posting and not living in the moment
The guest's friend describes him as a positive, charming, enthusiastic, and loyal person with a great sense of humour and a love for the outdoors.
BEST MOMENTS
"There are four things in life that make me happy. Like, make me feel most alive, and they are genuine human connection, live music, I love live music, nature and exercise."
"I would just say I like people that have a love for life”
"The main thing I'd have said is that he's a very, very positive person. He'll always see the upside in a situation or opportunity. There's always a silver lining and he's always keen to try to get people excited about something. And it's very infectious having lived with him for a long time."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Get ready to explore the spicy world of sex and self-acceptance with body positivity coach Kitty Underhill in this special live recording of Single Sounds. Katie and Kitty dive into the importance of self-knowledge, communication, and embracing your kinks and fetishes for the best sex of your life. Discover how to reconnect with your sexual energy and navigate the wild world of dating with confidence. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their relationship with their body and sexuality.
Sponsored by LUVISS
KEY TAKEAWAYS
· Reconnecting with your sexual energy starts with self-discovery and understanding your wants, needs, and boundaries.
· Communication is key to great sex; listen to your partner's bodily cues and tailor your technique to their individual desires.
· Lube and sex toys are your teammates, not your competition; embrace them to enhance your sexual experiences.
· Explore your kinks and fetishes by talking openly with friends and partners, and remember that shame perpetuates in silence.
· Attend sex parties with an open mind and clear intentions. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to.
· Confidence and communication are essential for feeling more present and satisfied in the bedroom.
· Self-knowledge and self-acceptance are the foundation for a fulfilling sex life and better relationships with yourself and others.
BEST MOMENTS
"The best way you can improve your sexual performance is communication. We're not a copy and paste of each other."
"Lube is lit. Lube is amazing. I don't know if anyone has ever tried to use a penetrative sex toy without lube. Like, don't do that."
"If you want to feel more present in the bedroom, if you want to have more exciting experiences, explore these kinds of things, so much of it comes down to communication and confidence."
"Shame proliferates in silence. If you don't have these conversations, you could be sitting there being like, 'I really want someone to pee on me, but no one wants to.”
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Connect with Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Connect with Kitty Underhill - https://www.instagram.com/kittyunderhillx
LUVISS lubricant (SS20 for 20% off) - https://www.luviss.com/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
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Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
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Katie interviews a chaotic yet predictable single lady who's open to dating various types of men but has a soft spot for tall, sporty guys. With controversial opinions on condiments and a tendency to plan ahead, this episode is packed with hilarious dating stories and relatable moments. Tune in for a fun-filled discussion on love, life, and the importance of portable phone chargers!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
· The guest is open-minded about who she dates but tends to prefer tall, sporty guys, especially rugby players.
· She has controversial opinions about condiments, believing ketchup and mayonnaise aren't necessary for life.
· The guest admits to struggling with going with the flow and being spontaneous, but she can be impulsive at times.
· Her worst dating stories involve accidentally insulting vegetarian dates
· She's weirdly attracted to people who can make plans more than two days in advance, as she appreciates organisation and planning.
· The guest's best friends describe her as a rare hybrid of high energy and organisation, loyal, kind, and having a great set of friends.
· She describes herself as "predictable chaos" - a bit nutty but never surprising, so potential dates know what to expect.
BEST MOMENTS
"So I just don't think ketchup and mayonnaise are that necessary to life."
"I'd say I could win an award for my phone always dying. Probably beat most people at it, so. Not the best award…"
"I'm a bit nutty, but I don't think it ever surprises anyone. They know what's coming."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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This week's guest is a bit of a hopeless romantic with a lot of love to give. His New Year’s resolution is to try and tame his fashion spending habit, particularly with the colour beige, and he is not one to shy away from the camera. He shares stories from awkward burlesque shows to navigational mishaps even in London despite growing up there.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
This London-born single is a hopeless romantic ready to experience love, travel, and will sweep a girl off her feet.
While naturally reserved with new people, he warms up and reveals his caring, affectionate nature once comfortable.
His vanity is balanced by self-awareness, as evidenced by his conscious effort to smile more in photos despite his "smouldering" default.
A non-drinker, he seeks partners who share his values of meaningful connections over alcohol-fuelled interactions.
His strong, long-term friendships are a testament to his loyalty and ability to form deep bonds.
Living at home allows him to prioritise personal growth and financial stability while still enjoying the London dating scene.
His directional challenges have led to memorable dating experiences, showcasing his ability to find humour in awkward situations.
BEST MOMENTS
"I just feel like the smouldering sort of look is like something that people are more drawn to. That's how my twisted mind thinks sometimes."
"I'm using the same places [for dates] in rotation."
"I'd say I'm someone who has a lot of love to give, a lot of care and affection, I'm someone who wants to experience things with new people and the travelling, the romance, the kind of being swept off your feet is something that I'm all the way here for as I get older and get grumpier."
"One of my friends was like, 'oh, I got engaged over the Christmas period'. And you're so happy for them. But also you fucking bastard."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Join Katie on a hilarious journey with her latest guest, a high-energy, short queen from London seeking the love of her life. This episode is filled with laughter as they discuss the guest's quirky dating preferences, roasting as a love language, and her dream of owning a fishing/ surfing shack on a tropical island. Get ready for a fun-filled episode packed with dating advice and witty banter!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Roasting is the guest's love language; she shows affection by playfully making fun of her romantic interests.
The guest is attracted to men who do silly things for no reason and have strong opinions they can passionately debate.
Being dramatic doesn't equate to being emotional or sensitive; the guest is easygoing despite her high energy.
The guest's ideal partner should be open to travelling every three months and considering a future outside the UK.
Quality time with loved ones is a priority for the guest, whether it's a wild night out or a peaceful Sunday walk.
Self-awareness and the ability to laugh at oneself are essential traits the guest values in herself and others.
BEST MOMENTS
"When I fancy someone or when I like them, I roast them."
"I wish more people knew that I'm dramatic, I'm not emotional."
"I really have this thing where…I really like guys who do like, silly things for no reason."
"I love people who have opinions. Like, please tell me you have thoughts of your own, like you have autonomy over your own body, free will."
"Despite her cool, confident exterior, she's an incredibly caring person who loves her friends and family and prioritises quality time with the people she loves."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Katie chats with a charming 31-year-old West London man who is ready for a long-term relationship. Standing at exactly 6 feet tall, this adventurous guy is looking for dates filled with laughter and a tall queen. He is very comfortable expressing his interests and embraces his nerdy side. If you're looking for a guy that might just sweep you off your feet (literally!), then this episode is a must-listen!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Laughter is key to a great date and relationship for this single guy
He's attracted to women, especially those on the taller side (5'9" and up)
Overthinking and hyper-fixating on hobbies is his toxic trait
Being a Dungeon Master for D&D games requires vulnerability and creativity
Skiing/ snow sports is on his bucket list, despite growing up without much opportunity for expensive holidays
Giving a date a piggyback through the mud was a memorable bonding experience!
BEST MOMENTS
"Laughter really is the big thing. I think if you're laughing with someone, you're losing yourself in the moment with them."
"Every so often when a new topic of interest comes along. And I think some people are like, okay, yeah, that was cool. I tend to be like, well, I'm going to learn everything there is to know about this thing."
"I do like a tall girl. There's something about it that ticks that box."
"At that moment where it was, okay, I can't have your memory of this date, be that you've ruined your shoes."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
[email protected]
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Katie chats to professional matchmaker Siobhan Copland of Cupid in the City in this fun and informative episode. Siobhan shares her journey into becoming a professional matchmaker, the process of finding compatible matches, and how she accommodates specific preferences. She also discusses the cost structure of her services and shares some favourite success stories. This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering hiring a matchmaker or looking for their perfect match.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
· Matchmaking is ideal for those who are intentional about finding a long-term partnership and want someone to share their established lifestyle with
· Compatibility is assessed through personality tests, shared values, and physical attraction
· Siobhan's matchmaking process includes a Zoom call, a face-to-face meeting, and a membership that provides coaching, personal styling, and introductions for up to a year
· Men tend to have more specific physical preferences, while women's attraction can grow based on personality and how a man makes them feel
· Communication is key to maintaining interest between dates, and Siobhan recommends men take the initiative to plan the second date soon after the first
· Joining a matchmaker's network is free, but becoming a client ensures more personalised attention and a higher likelihood of finding a compatible match
· Mindset plays a significant role in dating success, and working with a matchmaker can help clients gain clarity on what they want and identify patterns in their dating habits
BEST MOMENTS
"If a guy can't even meet that basic standard to book, to find a coffee shop, to sit down and make sure she has a seat, like... No"
"In these early stages, you want a man to be slightly obsessed with you"
"80 per cent of it is actually mindset. Just going in being like, I'm going to have a great date”
"I want my clients to feel special, I want them to feel, you know, that it's like a start of a new process”
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Siobhan Copland - https://www.instagram.com/siobhancopland/
Cupid in the City - https://www.cupidinthecity.com/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE GUEST
Siobhan Copland is a passionate matchmaker dedicated to helping singles find their perfect match and is the founder of the matchmaking service Cupid in the City. What began as a series of delightful events in 2010 evolved into a more personalised approach, leading to the launch of the personal introductions service in London in 2013.
Under Siobhan's guidance, her team has successfully united numerous individuals, creating beautiful and lasting partnerships. Their expertise and commitment have earned Cupid in the City multiple accolades, establishing it as a premier matchmaking agency for professionals throughout the U.K.
Cupid in the City believes in fostering genuine and meaningful dating experiences. Their approach combines expert advice with a curated pool of eligible singles, eliminating the need for endless swiping, database browsing, or playing games. They focus on facilitating authentic connections that lead to real dates and, ultimately, fulfilling relationships.
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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This week's guest is a bubbly and enthusiastic 27-year-old woman looking for love. She shares her hilarious dating stories, and impressive hosting skills thanks to her unique degree and love of making breakfast in bed for others. She also reveals her attraction to biceps, beards, and backs. This girl knows what she wants in a partner and small acts of kindness will never go amiss with her - pick her up from work and you'll be golden.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
It’s important to this guest that a potential partner is proactive in arranging dates and has a solid friendship group.
Sharing personal interests and passions, even if they differ from your own, is an attractive trait.
Being kind and thoughtful, like picking someone up from work unexpectedly, is what she is looking for.
She believes it's important to respectfully speak up and address issues with food or service at a restaurant to ensure a positive dining experience.
She is an "acts of service" kind of person, such as making breakfast in bed for those special people in her life.
Quoting movies in random situations is a unique and endearing quirk.
BEST MOMENTS
"I'm attracted to biceps, beards, and backs. All the B's."
"If you come round, you will have, the full experience. The full works. Like, breakfast in bed if you're lucky."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Or via email: [email protected]
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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Katie interviews a 30-year-old remote worker seeking a serious relationship with a woman to build a future together. This charming and ambitious guest shares his quirky interests, from learning about relationships through the kama sutra to investing in innovative start-ups. If you're looking for a witty, well-groomed, and family-oriented man who can cook a mean curry and bust a move on the dance floor, this could be your perfect match!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
· He is open to dating women aged 25-35 across the UK, with a preference for London despite living in Southampton himself.
· He's seeking a serious relationship with someone ambitious who shares his values and is open to personal growth.
· His interests include technology, investing in start-ups, learning about different cultures, and reading.
· He values having a mix of male and female friends and believes it's important for understanding different perspectives.
· He shares entertaining stories of his worst dates, including a woman who harassed him with prank calls and another who baked a cake with his face on it!
· His dream life involves progressing in his career, being there for his family, and potentially working remotely from Tenerife during the winter.
BEST MOMENTS
"Humans are weird. I think what you're attracted to is someone's imperfections that are really cute and unique to them."
"The observations that I'm reading, like why people would have ended relationships, hasn't changed from 2000 years ago."
"I'll tell you a joke, and if you laugh at this joke, you know that I'm the one for you."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
[email protected]
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