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  • Do you really need to get under someone to get over someone? It’s a question that often comes up after separation or divorce, and in this episode, I talk with Clinical Psychology Registrar – Psychologist Ben Schiller to explore if there is any truth behind it.

    We discuss the emotional pull of rebound sex and new relationships, why it’s so tempting to dive straight into something (or someone) new, and whether that really helps ease the loneliness and grief that can follow a breakup. Is it a distraction or does it help you heal? And how understanding our own emotional patterns can make all the difference. It's a BIG conversation with great insights.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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  • Can happiness and divorce exist in the same sentence?

    If you’ve ever felt like your life was supposed to follow a certain script, find the one, live happily ever after, then this episode is for you. But what happens when that story falls apart? Are we destined to be unhappy, or is there another way?

    I’m joined by Stephanie Harrison, author of New Happy: Getting Happiness Right in a World That’s Got It Wrong. Stephanie offers a fresh perspective on happiness, breaking down the outdated myths we’ve been sold, what she calls Old Happy and showing us how to create a New Happy, even in the wake of divorce.

    This episode will challenge the way you think about happiness, success, and starting over. If you’re navigating the grief, guilt, or loneliness that often comes with separation, Stephanie’s insights will help you reframe your experience and find hope in the possibility of a more authentic and fulfilling life.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Stephanie Harrison, Expert in the science of happiness and the creator of the New Happy philosophy, Author

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  • Divorce is one of the hardest things you’ll ever go through. The loss, the uncertainty, the fear of what’s next, it can feel overwhelming. But what if this was also an opportunity to rediscover yourself?

    In this episode, I’m joined by Jillian Turecki, Certified Relationship Coach, Teacher, Author, and Host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love. We have a raw and honest conversation about what it really takes to heal after a breakup, why self-acceptance is more important than self-love, and how to rebuild trust, both in yourself and in future relationships.

    Jillian also shares insights from her new book, It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, and we dive into the lessons we’ve learned from our own breakups, the moments that made us question everything, and the unexpected freedom that comes when you finally let go.

    If you’re struggling to make sense of your divorce or separation, feeling stuck in the heartbreak, or wondering how you’ll ever move forward, this episode is for you.

    What We Talk About The first thing you need to do after a breakup; How to stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting your decisions; Why choosing yourself doesn’t mean disregarding others; The truth about financial independence and why it matters in relationships; How to embrace freedom after divorce instead of fearing it; What a healthy relationship actually looks like; Why heartbreak makes us feel crazy and how to manage those emotions.

    This is one of those conversations that will stay with you.

    This episode is brought to you by Simple Separation. For a stress-free, transparent approach to navigating separation, book a free consultation with their team today.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Jillian Turecki, Certified Relationship Coach, Teacher, Author, and Host of the Podcast, Jillian On Love

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  • Talking to your kids about divorce can feel overwhelming. It may be one of the hardest conversations that you will have. How do you deliver life-changing news without breaking their hearts? How do you reassure them that they are loved, secure, and not responsible for what’s happening?

    In this episode, I’m joined by Bella Duncan, founder of A Kid With Two Homes. Bella brings an incredibly important perspective, one that she’s lived through with her her parents divorce. Together, we explore how to approach this delicate conversation with love, honesty, and compassion.

    Bella shares not just the emotional side of this experience, but also practical tips for parents who may be struggling to find the right words or the right time. If you’ve ever worried about how to protect your children while navigating divorce, this episode is a must-listen.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    1. Why the conversation matters so much.

    2. Timing and age-appropriate communication.

    3. Delivering the news as a team.

    4. What kids really want to know.

    5. Why you must say, “This is not your fault”.

    6. Ongoing conversations, this is not a not one-and-done conversation.

    7. Breaking the stigma of “broken families.

    8. Practical tips for helping kids adjust.

    Resources & Next Steps:
    Bella and I have collaborated and created a program for you, How to Tell Your Kids You're Separating. You can join at the introductory price HERE.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes

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  • Loneliness after a divorce or separation can send you into a spiral of overwhelm.

    In this episode, I explore what loneliness really means, why it feels so intense after a relationship ends, and most importantly, how to start reconnecting with the world around you and with yourself.

    Whether you’re feeling isolated or simply curious about how to move forward, this episode is packed with insights and practical tips to help you rebuild meaningful connections and rediscover fulfillment.

    Loneliness is a signal, not a sentence. It’s a reminder of how much you value connection, and with small, meaningful steps, you can build a fulfilling, connected life again.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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  • I am welcoming back Melissa Browne onto the podcast to help you "Declutter Your Finances". We are sharing with you how to unravel the mystery of financial clutter and offer practical strategies to simplify, prioritise, and take control of your finances — no spreadsheets required. Whether you're adjusting to a new financial reality or just looking to feel more in charge, this episode is packed with actionable advice.

    What You’ll Learn:

    Face the Numbers, Face the Truth: Understand why knowing exactly what you earn, owe, and spend is the foundation of financial freedom—and why most people avoid it.

    Declutter in Bite-Sized Chunks: From food budgets to electricity bills, Melissa’s methodical approach helps you tackle financial clutter one step at a time.

    Break Free from Bad Habits: Discover how small unconscious actions, like using credit cards or buy-now-pay-later services, could be silently sabotaging your goals.

    The 30-Day Detox for Your Wallet: A game-changing exercise that resets your relationship with money and empowers you to spend with intention.

    Dealing with Debt, Made Simple: Melissa demystifies the four types of debt, how to handle each, and why not all debt is created equal.

    Forget Budgets — Build a Plan That Works: Learn how to create a lifestyle-first approach to managing money that feels achievable and sustainable.

    Shifting Mindsets Around Money: Strategies to reduce financial anxiety, build resilience, and create a financial future that aligns with your values.

    Inspiring Insights:
    - Why financial modeling for your kids isn’t just important — it’s a legacy.
    - How acting “counter-culturally” can free you from the relentless pressure of consumerism.
    - The truth about financial resilience: It’s not about having it all; it’s about living a life aligned with your core values.

    Free Resources from Melissa:
    50+ Ways to Find $10K in 12 Months: Creative ideas to generate extra income, from pet sitting to strategic savings — no second job required. CLICK HERE.

    Melissa’s Financial Courses: Gain clarity and confidence with Melissa’s practical, approachable programs designed for real life. CLICK HERE TO JOIN.

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Melissa Browne

    Melissa Browne, is an ex-accountant, ex-financial advisor & ex-working till she drops.

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  • It started with "I do" and ended with "It's over".

    I sit down with Sarah Catherall, journalist and author of "How to Break Up Well: Surviving and Thriving After Separation" to talk about her "Chapter 2" and life after separation and divorce. Sarah shares her experiences of navigating the end of her marriage, raising her children, and creating a fulfilling new chapter in her life.

    Key Takeaways:

    The Reality of Separation:

    Sarah discusses the moment her marriage ended and how she coped with the unexpected changes. She reflects on how the pressures of parenting, work, and life contributed to the breakdown of her relationship.

    Talking to Children About Divorce:

    Practical advice on preparing for and having the conversation with children about separation.

    Rebuilding After Divorce:

    Tips for maintaining connections with extended family and finding new ways to co-parent effectively.

    Dating and Repartnering:

    Sarah reflects on her early dating missteps after divorce and what she learned about introducing a new partner to her children. Advice for taking it slow and respecting your children’s feelings during this transition.

    Can you Break Up Well? Absolutely you can!

    Resources Mentioned:
    Sarah Catherall’s Book: How to Break Up Well: Surviving and Thriving After Separation. Buy in Australia Here. Buy in New Zealand Here.

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    This episode is brought to you by Simple Separation. For a stress-free, transparent approach to navigating separation, book a free consultation with their team today.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Sarah Catherall

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  • I sit down with Despina Mavridou, author of "Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?", about her personal experience growing up in the middle of her parents’ high-conflict divorce. Despina shares her powerful story from being a child used as a messenger between her parents to becoming a mediator and advocate for kids in similar situations.

    Key discussions:

    Despina opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of being caught in her parents' conflict and the toll it took on her as a child. The devastating effects of using children as messengers and the impact it has on their sense of responsibility and guilt. How parents can better support their children during separation by being mindful of their emotional needs and avoiding placing them in the middle of conflicts. Despina shares how her childhood shaped her adult relationships, including her fear of abandonment and the impact of divorce on her own marriage. Practical advice for parents navigating separation, including seeking help before mediation and focusing on the kids’ well-being. Despina’s hope that her book will give children a voice and help parents understand the long-lasting effects of divorce on their kids.

    If you're navigating your own separation and wondering how to help your children through this difficult time, this conversation is a must-listen.

    You can find Despina's book *Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?* on Amazon, in English, Portuguese, and Greek.

    Resources:
    - "Mum, Dad, Can You Hear Me?" by Despina Mavridou
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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Despina Mavridou

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • Nikki Parkinson talks to Christina Salvo, the CEO of Simple Separation about her divorce story, which began amicably but devolved into a ten-year legal battle. Christina highlights the complexities and emotional toll of prolonged court involvement.

    Key discussions:

    Systemic Flaws:

    Discusses the broken aspects of the family court system. Emphasises how financial constraints often prevent individuals from effectively advocating for their parental rights and needs.

    Mediation Insights:

    Importance of mediation as a viable alternative to litigation. Christina shares her mission to support couples through mediation. Focus on the need for more comprehensive training around property settlements within mediation services.

    Advice for Couples:

    Encourages maintaining a collaborative mindset to reduce emotional and financial strain during separation. Offers practical tips for effective communication and conflict resolution.

    What is the Future of Family Law:

    Reflection on the evolving landscape of family law. Focus on creating supportive frameworks that prioritize the well-being of children and families.

    Resources Mentioned:

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    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Christina Salvo, CEO of Simple Separation

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    This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

  • In this solo episode, I am sharing a snippet of my personal story that's been unfolding in my life, offering you some valuable lessons along the way. While navigating this situation was far from easy, it tested all my divorce coaching skills and taught me a lot about the power of responsibility and response-ability.

    In this episode, I share insights on:

    Responsibility vs. Response-Ability: Learn the key differences between these two concepts and how they can shift the way you approach difficult situations, especially with your ex-partner. Practical strategies to help you remain calm and composed, even when life throws curveballs. My personal reflections on how communication is at the heart of all our relationships, whether with your ex, your kids, or anyone else.

    I introduce you to my three go-to tips for taking responsibility and response-ability:

    Breath is your best friend. The 24-Hour Rule. Taking Radical Responsibility.

    Resourses mentioned in this episode:

    The 24-Hour Rule Podcast.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • What is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and why do you need one on your team?

    In this episode, Nikki is joined by Emile Flowers, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP). Emile sheds light on the often overlooked aspect of divorce — mortgage planning. As a CDLP, Emily plays a crucial role in ensuring that divorcing clients are set up for success post-separation, particularly when it comes to housing and financial stability.

    Emile shares her journey from being a stay-at-home mom to becoming a key player in the divorce lending field. She explains how crucial it is to involve a CDLP early in the divorce process to avoid issues like incorrect settlement agreements and financial pitfalls. Together, Nikki and Emily discuss the importance of bringing the right professionals into your divorce team, ensuring that both parties come out of the process financially secure.

    Listen in to hear Emile's top tips.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Emile Flowers

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

    This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

  • And exhale ...

    Nikki sits down with Linda Vazin, a breathwork expert, to chat how breathwork can be a powerful tool for emotional healing during and after divorce.

    Nikki and Linda dive into -

    Why it's important to let yourself fully experience emotions like sadness and anger, rather than rushing through them. Breaking old patterns we inherit from our families. What makes transformational breathwork different? A favourite of Nikki's Reacting vs. responding. Taking responsibility for relationship patterns. How holding onto unresolved emotions can affect your physical health and how breathwork can release these stored emotions.

    If you are going through a separation or divorce you will definiatly want to add Nikki and Linda's tips to your Toolkit. It's an episode is full of real-life wisdom and practical tips.

    Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Linda Varzin

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  • Grief, healing, new beginnings, and the transformative power of separation and divorce — this episode covers it all.

    Nikki sits down with best friends Diana Edwards and Nicola Dale from the "Over The Back Fence" podcast. These two powerhouse women share their personal experiences through their separation and divorce. In 2024, with 'grey divorces' on the rise, the question often asked is "What do you do when a long-term marriage comes to an end?" With decades of wisdom behind them, Di and Nicola share their lessons from ending their 36 and 25 year marriages.

    Di opens up about the end of her 36-year marriage, sharing her two-year grieving process. 'I’ve closed that door on my past marriage, and I’ve walked through another into my new life,' she reflects.

    Nicola talks about the end of her 25-year marriage, how she navigated the heartache, found freedom and joy in being single, and eventually found love — only to face the pain of a public breakup after a high-profile, four-year relationship. How did she survive? With grace, integrity, and a wealth of insights that she shares with you in this episode.

    Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Di Edwards and Nicola Dale, Over the Back Fence Podcast

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

    This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

  • In this weeks episode we welcome back Clinical Pyschologist Ben Schiller to talk about schemas and how they impact the way individuals cope with divorce and separation. Ben explains what schemas are and practical strategies for recognising and managing these schemas to improve emotional regulation and decision-making.

    There are so many takeaways in this episode.

    Nikki and Ben talk about -

    What Are Schemas? Common Schemas in Divorce. Coping Strategies for Managing Schemas. Self-Soothing Techniques. Oh these are good - what is your Toolkit? How to identify Your Triggers.

    Plus so much more.

    Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Ben Schiller, Clinical Psychologist

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • This week we are kicking off Season 3 with Bella from A Kid With Two Homes.

    Nikki sits down with Bella Duncan, who shares her experiences growing up as a child of divorced parents. Together, they explore a topic that many parents struggle with: how to handle talking about your ex when your kids are around. Bella opens up about how overhearing her parents’ negative comments impacted her as a kid and how she eventually found ways to communicate her feelings. This is a must-listen for any parent wanting to protect their children’s emotional well-being during and after separation!

    Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE.

    Guest: Bella Duncan, A Kid With Two Homes

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

    This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation. You can find our more about Simple Separation HERE.

  • In this episode Nikki Parkinson is joined by Mel Wilson, Journalist, co-host of The Juggling Act and author of Parenting in Progress, to discuss the complexities and personal transformations associated with co-parenting after divorce. Mel opens up about her personal post-separation experiences and shares her emotional journey of parenting post-divorce

    Nikki and Mel chat -

    Navigating the new norms of parenting post-separation and the immediate challenges of transitioning from a coupled life to single parenthood. Lessons learned from children amidst the divorce. Redefining the concept of family and personal identity during such transformative periods. Strategies for managing emotional challenges in the early stages of separation. How to change the perceptions and stigmas around divorce. The impact of new relationships on co-parenting dynamics and personal recovery.

    This episode offers an exploration of the trials and transformations associated with co-parenting after divorce. It underscores the importance of self-care, embracing change, and the positive growth that can arise from navigating through these challenging transitions.

    Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Mel Wilson

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  • In this episode Nikki Parkinson is joined by Lawrence (Larry) and Joni Jones. Larry is a former amily Court Judge of the Superior Court in New Jersey and Joni a Mental Health Professional and together they have created Point C, an incredible educational resource for anyone navigating divorce and separtion with children.This episode delves into the complexities of divorce, particularly focusing on its impact on children.

    Nikki, Larry and Joni discuss -

    The Origin of Point C and the inspiration behind creating Point C. Why all parents need this educational reource. The impact of Divorce on Children. How children are affected by parental conflict during divorce. Signs of distress in children and the importance of positive role modeling. Larry offers his judicial experience, discussing how the legal system handles divorce and the potential benefits of early intervention and educational programs. Co-parenting challenges and effective strategies for effective co-parenting. Tips for managing family dynamics during holidays and significant events in the aftermath of a divorce or separation.

    The Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guests: Lawrence and Joni Jones

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • In this episode Nikki Parkinson engages in a insightful conversation with family law expert Siobhan Mullins, author of "The Guy's Guide to Separation and Divorce." Siobhan shares her journey as a family lawyer and her shift to supporting couples in preparing separation agreements. The focus of her book, The Guy's Guide to Separation and Divorce, is on aiding men through the emotional and practical challenges of separation.

    Nikki and Siobhan discuss -

    Debunking the 50/50 myth. Understanding "Best Interests of the Child". Practical Parenting Arrangements. Communication and Co-Parenting. The most common questions asked my men going through separation. Siobhan's to three tips for men going thorugh separation.

    The Divorce and Separation Podcast offers valuable insights and practical tips for individuals navigating the challenges of separation, making it a resourceful guide for those seeking support during this emotional journey.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • In this episode Nikki Parkinson, discusses the importance of effective communication during divorce or separation with her guest, Leah Mether. Leah is a communication and soft skills specialist with over 15 years of experience and the author of two books.

    Do you ever find yourself having to communicate under pressure? Leah walks you through how to steer yourself through the challenge of conflict, personality clashes, and difficult conversations. Both Nikki and Leah emphasise that communication is key to maintaining positive relationships, especially when you are under pressure, like during a separation or a divorce.

    Leah and Nikki dive into -

    The importance of Communication. Leah shares her professional background in communication and how her personal experience with divorce has shaped her views. Leah's Five C's of Effective Communication. The Biff Method and it's framework. Managing Emotions and Expectations and the importance of self-regulation and setting realistic expectations for communication with an ex-partner. Advice for Challenging Conversations (because we will at some stage all have them!).

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Leah Mether, Communication and Soft Skills Specialist.

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

  • In this episode, host Nikki Parkinson engages in a candid conversation with Christina Salvo, the CEO and founder of Simple Separation, about de facto relationships. They delve into what constitutes a de facto relationship in the eyes of the family law system.

    Christina clarifies how, legally, de facto relationships are treated and whether they are similar to marriages when it comes to financial settlements, children's arrangements, and child support. They discuss how asset division in de facto relationships is determined based on factors such as relationship duration, contributions, career sacrifices, income disparities, and age differences.

    The importance of protecting assets in de facto relationships is a focal point, and they explain how financial agreements or prenuptial agreements can safeguard individuals.

    This conversation highlights the importance of initiating the conversation about a financial agreement early in the relationship. Tune in to hear Nikki and Christina'a strategies for approaching this potentially sensitive topic.

    If this episode resonated with you, Nikki invites you to subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share the podcast with others who may benefit from the discussions.

    Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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    Guest: Christina Salvo, CEO and Founder of Simple Separation

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    Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.