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When Your Toddler Looks at You and Still Does It (What’s Really Happening + What to Do)
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From Throwing to Lining Up: What Your Child’s Play Is Really Telling You with Ruth Vercoe
The Missing Piece in Gentle Parenting (And Why It Feels So Hard)🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
This episode explains why toddlers sometimes make eye contact, hear “stop,” and keep touching, spitting, or hitting anyway—and why treating it like defiance can escalate things.
It covers four common reasons underneath the behavior: nervous system activation (impulse control goes offline), a connection check fueled by uncertainty, a reinforcement loop where repeated reacting becomes stimulating and words lose weight without follow-through, and normal developmental experimentation with cause and effect.
Instead of yelling, threatening, or repeating yourself, the focus is on interrupting the pattern by changing the structure: move closer, use fewer words, block access, move out of range, or change the environment. A preschool example shows how removing a child from an overstimulating area stopped throwing immediately by shifting state through leadership, not punishment.
00:00 Toddlers Ignore You
00:42 Common Scenarios
01:36 Why Advice Backfires
02:42 Four Hidden Drivers
02:58 Nervous System Overload
04:02 Connection Check
05:45 Reinforcement Loop
06:48 Developmental Experimenting
07:57 Break The Reactivity Loop
09:35 Preschool Example
10:30 Hitting At Home
12:54 Shift The Pattern
14:12 Recap And Closing------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
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The Missing Piece in Gentle Parenting (And Why It Feels So Hard)
🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
This episode explains why gentle parenting can feel harder than yelling when it’s done without enough structure.
When kids are dysregulated, language processing drops, so long explanations and collaboration during meltdowns often backfire and leave parents carrying the whole load.
The missing piece is “structure containment”—not punishment, but setting up the environment and clear boundaries that prevent escalation before it starts.
Examples include removing toys temporarily to stop destructive behavior, limiting access to throwables during transitions, and using a chalk circle as a visual pool boundary.
The episode also reframes regulation as being the stable nervous system in the room, not eliminating meltdowns, and argues that structure plus empathy plus leadership builds real listening without fear or endless negotiation.
00:00 Why Calm Parenting Feels Hard
00:51 When Empathy Backfires
02:06 Structure and Containment
02:21 Fixing Chaos with Environment
04:06 Client Wins with Boundaries
07:05 Regulation First Leadership
07:33 Holding Firm Through Tantrums
10:21 Beyond Strict vs Gentle
12:46 Wrap Up and Free Guide------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Why 'Doing More' Is Backfiring With Your Toddler w/ Ashley Ventrice
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In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, Heather talks with Ashley Ventrice, a parent, educator, and host of The Ashley Ventrice Show, about how nervous system safety and emotional regulation start with the adults.
Ashley shares how she built a childcare center designed for both toddlers and parents, including structured play, sensory learning, predictable routines, soft separation for preschool transitions, and a space where parents could stay, connect, and even watch the classroom via live stream.
They discuss simple ways to recreate a calmer play setup at home with a designated play area, toy rotation, and more open-ended play options versus closed-ended toys.
Ashley also shares her health journey after years of over-functioning and people-pleasing, including being gaslit by doctors, pushing for brain and spine MRIs, learning she had a 9mm lesion on her brainstem, and how serious autoimmune illness forced her to slow down, advocate for herself, and set boundaries.
The conversation covers why routine and predictability help both kids and adults, how over-scheduling can stress the whole family, how social media comparison can add pressure, and why parent community matters. Ashley emphasizes modeling emotional regulation for kids by naming feelings, noticing body signals like anxiety, taking deep breaths out loud, and teaching emotional intelligence early. She closes with a message for exhausted moms: rest is allowed, a regulated parent matters more than a perfectly structured day, and listening to your body before it has to scream helps you stay present for your children.
00:00 The Over-Functioner Wake-Up Call: Slow Down Before Your Body Screams
01:00 Welcome + Meet Ashley Ventres (Nervous System, Regulation & Boundaries)
02:52 Inside Ashley’s Childcare Center: Designing Nervous-System Safety for Kids & Parents
06:43 Sensory Play & Space Setup: Montessori-Inspired Zones That Help Toddlers Regulate
08:10 Recreate the Calm at Home: Toy Rotation + Open-Ended Play Tips
11:15 Ashley’s Health Journey: Autoimmune Illness, Medical Gaslighting & Self-Advocacy
15:31 Learning to Rest + Set Boundaries (and Handling the Pushback)
19:14 Modeling Regulation: Teaching Toddlers Emotional Literacy, Anxiety & Coping Skills
23:47 Routines for Everyone: Predictability, Over-Scheduling & Slowing Family Life Down
27:32 Comparison, Community & Mom Connection: You’re Not Alone
31:04 Final Message: A Regulated Mom Matters More Than a Perfect Day + Where to Find Ashley------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Calm Superpower Cohort. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Before You Call Them a Bully: What’s Really Happening in Sibling & Friend Power Struggles
This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series! Click the link below to listen 🎧
🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)
🎧 Episode 3 — When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection
🎧 Episode 4 — Before You Call Them a Bully: What’s Really Happening in Sibling & Friend Power Struggles(this episode)
🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
In this episode, we discuss misunderstood child behaviors, focusing on 'the bully.'
Learn how kids' roles in sibling and peer dynamics are actually nervous system strategies. Explore how behaviors like screaming, grabbing, and having meltdowns are survival responses, often misinterpreted as mere bad behavior.
I break down how roles like the rule keeper, attention seeker, fixer, and attuner interact and how pressure from these roles can cause a defending child to react strongly ('The Defender'). This episode is a deep dive into understanding the root causes behind what we see as problematic behavior, offering insights into improving relationships and emotional regulation.
00:00 Introduction to Relationship Dynamics
00:15 Understanding the 'Bully' Label
00:33 Nervous System Strategies in Children
01:07 Common Behavioral Responses
01:36 Series Recap and Episode Overview
02:42 The Role of the Defender
04:12 Attention Seekers and Defenders
05:59 Fixers and Defenders
06:56 Attune Children and Defenders
09:27 Misinterpretations and Manipulation
10:52 Emotional Reactions and Adult Responses
14:47 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Events------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection | Toddler Toolkit Podcast
This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!
Episodes to be linked soon!
🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)
🎧 Episode 3 — When Play Makes Things Worse: Protecting Your Child Without Breaking Connection (this episode)
🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)(coming soon!)🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
In this episode, we talk about finding a balance in your child's social interactions.
Learn how to protect your child's nervous system without cutting out friends or hurting sibling relationships.
We discuss practical strategies like setting playtime boundaries, planning recovery time, and intervening when necessary.
We also delve into understanding different social dynamics and teaching children self-advocacy.
Join us for tips on maintaining healthy, supportive relationships for your child's long-term well-being.
00:00 Introduction: Balancing Time and Relationships
01:08 Reframing Protection: Leadership, Not Rejection
01:57 Understanding Nervous System Capacity
02:56 Containment Strategies for Healthy Relationships
03:22 When to Step In: The Role of Parental Leadership
04:43 Avoiding Power Struggles Among Children
05:49 Reframing the Problem Child Narrative
07:23 The Importance of Recovery Time
08:03 Respecting Boundaries: Avoiding Forced Closeness
11:45 Teaching Self-Advocacy and Social Skills
12:43 Conclusion: Building Safe and Healthy Relationships
13:15 Upcoming Episodes and Resources------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think) | Toddler Toolkit Podcast
This episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!
Episodes to be linked soon!
🎧 Episode 1 — Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)🎧 Episode 2 — Which Role Does Your Child Fall Into? (It’s Not What You Think)
🎧 Episode 3 — Protection Without Ending Relationships (Adult leadership + boundaries) (coming soon!)
🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)(coming soon!)🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
In this episode, we discuss why kids fall into certain roles with siblings and friends and how these roles are nervous system adaptations, not personality traits. We identify common roles like the attention seeker, rule keeper, attuner, and fixer, and explore how parents can unintentionally solidify these roles. Learn how to interpret and manage these dynamics without labeling, and how to support healthier relationships among kids. Make sure to subscribe to Toddler Toolkit Podcast for more insights in our Valentine's series.
00:00 Introduction: Understanding Roles in Children's Dynamics
02:33 Why Roles Form Among Children
04:14 Common Roles Kids Fall Into
09:27 How Parents Reinforce Roles
11:11 Interpreting Roles Without Labels
13:26 Long-Term Impact of Early Dynamics
13:51 Conclusion and Next Steps
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"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Why Siblings and Friends Spiral Faster Together (It's not Bad Behavior)
🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
Ever wondered why your child acts differently with their sibling or a close friend? This episode kicks off a series that explores how children's relationships, especially with siblings and close friends, impact their behavior. It's not about bad behavior, but about their nervous systems interacting. Learn about 'sibling amplification,' why kids can spiral together, and how to support your child's emotional regulation in these relationships. Let's reframe how we view these interactions and move from focusing on behavior correction to understanding and supporting the underlying nervous system dynamics.
00:00 Introduction: Understanding Child Behavior Dynamics
00:35 The Concept of Nervous System Interactions
01:40 Exploring Sibling and Peer Amplification
02:12 Why Kids Spiral Faster Together
07:49 Managing Spirals: Separation vs. Containment
09:08 Proactive Strategies for Parents
13:31 Conclusion: Supporting Your Child's Nervous SystemThis episode is part of a 4 Part Valentine's Series!
Episodes to be linked soon!
🎧 Episode 1 — Amplification (How nervous systems feed off each other)🎧 Episode 2 — Roles (Who kids become inside)
🎧 Episode 3 — Protection Without Ending Relationships (Adult leadership + boundaries)
🎧 Episode 4 — Not a Bully (The moment everyone misreads)
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"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
What Your Toddler’s Tantrum Is Actually About
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
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-Why Your Toddler Keeps Melting Down: The Pattern You’re Missing🎉New YouTube Channel🎉: @TheHeatherSchalk
Ever been baffled by your toddler’s sudden meltdown — even when you stayed calm, explained, and did “everything right”?
In this episode, we’re unpacking what toddler tantrums are actually about — and why so many well-intentioned strategies fail.
You’ll learn why tantrums aren’t random or manipulative, but signals from a nervous system that’s overwhelmed, disappointed, or stuck in transition. More importantly, you’ll see how aiming at the wrong problem can accidentally make tantrums worse — even when you’re trying to help.
I walk you through two powerful, real-life examples that change how you see tantrums entirely:
A sibling “sharing” struggle that isn’t about sharing at all A preschool shoe battle that looks like “not listening,” but is really about something elseThese examples show why fixing the behavior often misses the real need — and what happens when you respond to the right problem instead.
We’ll also cover:
The most common tantrum triggers parents overlookThe one question that instantly shifts how you respondWhy teaching during a meltdown doesn’t work (and what does)A real-life IHOP moment that shows how modeling regulation can prevent a meltdown before it startsBy the end of this episode, tantrums won’t feel so confusing — or so personal. You’ll start seeing them as communication, not misbehavior, and you’ll know how to respond in a way that actually helps your child move forward.
00:00 Introduction: Understanding Toddler Tantrums
01:14 Why Tantrums Feel So Confusing
03:49 Common Tantrum Patterns
07:02 The Question That Changes Everything
08:10 Why Teaching Doesn't Work Mid-Meltdown
09:23 Real-Life Example: The Pancake Meltdown
12:34 Changing the Pattern, Not the Moment
15:50 Conclusion and Resources------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Two Reasons Toddlers Don’t Listen (and Why Certain Strategies Fail)
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"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit podcast! In this episode, we tackle a common frustration among parents: 'Why doesn't my toddler listen even when I'm calm?' The answer might surprise you—it's often not a listening problem but a nervous system issue. Learn why toddlers' behavior during transitions, trips, and daily routines can spark meltdowns and power struggles. We'll discuss effective strategies for handling disappointment, loss of control, and autonomy stress. By the end, you'll have practical tips for increasing cooperation and understanding your toddler's true needs. Don't forget to check out our free guide, 'The Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast.' All links are in the show notes!
00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:11 Understanding Toddler Listening Issues
01:10 Why Not Listening Feels Personal
01:44 Common Not Listening Patterns
03:07 Dealing with Disappointment and Loss of Control
06:44 Autonomy and Transition Stress
08:02 Increasing Cooperation and Avoiding Power Struggles
09:33 Effective Transition Strategies
12:56 Conclusion and Final Tips------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Toddlers Don’t Lie — They’re Communicating (Here’s What to Do)
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast! In this episode, we talk about why toddlers and preschoolers say 'I don't wanna go' and how they communicate distress through behavior, stories, and resistance.
We'll explore how different rules and environments can create nervous system distress in children and how parents can respond effectively.
This episode is useful for co-parents, married parents or partners with different parenting styles, grandparents, daycare transitions, and more. We will also cover five common ways toddlers communicate nervous system distress and discuss how to respond without shutting them down. Join us to learn how to better understand and support your child's behavior and meltdowns.00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:03 Understanding Toddler Communication
00:16 Why Kids Say 'I Don't Wanna Go'
00:22 Nervous System Distress in Toddlers
00:48 Toddlers Don't Lie: A Deeper Look
02:04 Behavior as Communication
03:39 Five Common Ways Toddlers Communicate Distress
04:23 Avoidance as a Coping Strategy
05:19 Symbolic Communication: Making Up Stories
10:57 Fear of Being Alone: Sleep and Separation
13:05 Dysregulation at Pickup and Drop Off
14:21 Clinging to One Parent
15:20 How Not to Shut Down Your Child's Distress
17:55 Clarifying the Truth Without Teaching Fear
21:27 In Closing: Supporting Your Toddler's Communication
22:50 Resources and Next Steps------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Why Your Toddler Keeps Melting Down: The Pattern You’re Missing
✨📝Featured Article:
10 Toddler Parenting Tips From Experts You Can Use Today (What Toddler Experts Wish Every Parent Knew)
Companion Episode:
The Hidden Reason You Snap and 4 Things That Stop the Cycle
In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast, we'll explore how the hardest moments with your toddler – tantrums, meltdowns, power struggles – aren't the real problem.
Learn about the underlying patterns in both your toddler's behavior and your own reactions. Discover how changing these patterns can ease perfectionism, shame, and blame, and improve your parenting experience.
We'll also touch on personal experiences, the importance of self-compassion, and plans for upcoming podcast episodes and YouTube content. Tune in for practical, heartfelt advice just before the New Year.
00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:41 Understanding Toddler Behavior Patterns
01:17 Personal Reflections and Holiday Challenges
02:46 The Toddler Reactivity Loop
04:13 Addressing Root Causes of Toddler Behavior
05:52 Parental Patterns and Self-Compassion
08:03 Breaking the Pattern: Practical Tips
12:54 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Plans------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Is Your Dog Really “Fine”? The Hidden Signals Parents Miss (w/ Dog Meets Baby’s Dominika Knossalla-Pado) - Toddler Toolkit Podcast
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FB: https://www.facebook.com/DogMeetsBabyByDominikaIn this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, host welcomes Dominika Knossalla-Pado, a professional dog trainer since 2008 and founder of Dog Meets Baby.
Dominika shares her journey starting with her training at the acclaimed Academy of Dog Trainers, her life-changing experience adopting her dog Lola, and how her predatory reaction to her newborn twins motivated her to create essential resources for families.
Dominika discusses safety tips, educating children on dog behavior, handling dog and toddler interactions, and the importance of setting boundaries during high-energy times like mealtime. She also introduces her new children's book, 'Lola and the Bubble Mission', which aims to teach kids about respecting a dog's space. Learn from Dominika's expertise to make sure your household is a safe and happy environment for both kids and dogs.
00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:03 Meet Dominika Knossalla-Pado: Dog Trainer Extraordinaire
00:25 Dominika's Journey: From New York to Dog Meets Baby
00:32 Lola's Story: From Shelter Dog to Family Member
00:37 The Birth of Twins: A Life-Changing Event
01:11 Creating Dog Meets Baby: A Resource for Parents
01:27 Dominika's Upcoming Children's Book: Lola and The Bubble Mission
02:30 Dominika's Media Features and Global Reach
03:17 A Life-Changing Moment in the Park
03:33 Pursuing a Dream: From Poland to San Francisco
06:14 Lola's Adoption and Training Journey
09:08 Challenges of Balancing Twins and a High-Energy Dog
10:05 Navigating Predatory Reactions: A Scary Experience
18:40 The Importance of Preparation and Training
22:30 Understanding Dog Behavior: Signs of Comfort and Tolerance
23:23 Recognizing Stress Signals in Dogs
24:26 Communicating with Dogs: Subtle Signs
25:39 The Importance of Understanding Dog Body Language
27:15 Teaching Children Safe Dog Interactions
30:13 Helping Children Overcome Fear of Dogs
37:51 Managing High-Energy Times with Dogs
41:13 Introducing 'Lola and the Bubble Mission'
43:01 Where to Find More Resources------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Your Toddler Isn’t Misbehaving — They’re Unanchored (Here’s What They Need)
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit Podcast, we dive into the real reasons behind toddler meltdowns and unruly behavior. Learn how understanding your child's 'state' and nervous system can help you guide them back to calmness without power struggles. From changing the environment to sensory resets, we'll discuss practical tips to help your toddler regulate their emotions. Don't forget to check out the free guide 'The Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast,' available in the show notes.
00:00 Understanding Toddler Meltdowns
00:22 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:55 The Real Issue Behind Misbehavior
01:38 State Drives Behavior, Not Discipline
02:35 How to Reset Your Toddler's State
04:02 Personal Stories and Practical Examples
10:45 Effective State Change Strategies
14:19 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Reset Your Toddler Before the Holidays: How to Bank Calm in Their Nervous System (and Yours) | Toddler Toolkit Podcast
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
When you get the FREE Guide, you get access to my Black Friday Deals this Week! Don’t forget to mark your calendar:
✨ Wednesday 11/26: The 5-Workshop Vault — $3
✨ Friday 11/28 : The Calm Parent Holiday Pass — $7
✨ Cyber Monday 12/1: The Premium Calm Superpower Transformation Bundle — $17Make sure to also listen to this episode:
Holiday Overwhelm: Why Your Toddler Falls Apart Around Family (and How to Make Thanksgiving Easier)Welcome to the Toddler Toolkit Podcast! In today's episode, we're diving into strategies to reset your toddler’s nervous system before the holidays, helping both you and your child remain calm during the festive chaos.
We'll explore the concept of 'calm banking,' inspired by Dr. Matthew Walker's sleep banking principles, to proactively build your toddler's emotional resilience.
Learn about the impact of good sleep, the sensory diet, connection banking, and predictability boosting on your toddler’s stress levels. Plus, discover practical tips to stay grounded and prepared as a parent.
We also discuss special offers like the $3 Mini Toddler Toolkit workshop vault, the $7 Calm Parent Holiday Pass, and the $17 Calm Superpower Transformation Bundle. Don't miss out on these fantastic resources to make your holiday season smoother. To access these deals, download the 'Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast' guide via the link in the show notes. Have a fantastic Thanksgiving, and we'll see you in the next episode!
00:00 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:39 Black Friday Deal Announcements
02:21 Understanding Calm Banking for Toddlers
04:36 Implementing Sleep Banking Strategies
06:24 Sensory Diet and Connection Banking
12:46 Predictability and Parent Preparation
16:26 Handling Imperfect Holiday Situations
20:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Holiday Overwhelm: Why Your Toddler Falls Apart Around Family (and How to Make Thanksgiving Easier)
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
When you get the FREE Guide, you get access to my Black Friday Deals this Week! Don’t forget to mark your calendar:
✨ Wednesday 11/26: The 5-Workshop Vault — $3
✨ Friday 11/28 : The Calm Parent Holiday Pass — $7
✨ Cyber Monday 12/1: The Premium Calm Superpower Transformation Bundle — $17In this episode, we address the common issue of holiday overwhelm for toddlers and why they often have meltdowns during family gatherings.
We’ll provide practical tips on how to manage your toddler’s behavior, prevent sensory overload, and reduce social pressure. We’ll also offer scripts to handle unsolicited parenting advice from family members and share mantras to help you stay calm. Plus, stay tuned for exciting Black Friday deals designed to help you manage holiday stress with fewer tantrums and more tranquility at home.00:00 Understanding Toddler Overwhelm During Holidays
02:32 Tips to Handle Unsolicited Advice and Expectations
04:13 Exciting Black Friday Offers for Parents
07:00 Managing Toddler Meltdowns and Holiday Triggers
09:33 Holiday SOS Tools and Strategies
11:52 Proactive Scripts for Family Gatherings
14:09 Thanksgiving Mantras for Parents
17:28 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
The 7 Types of Toddler NO’s (and How to Respond to Each One)
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!
Recommended Podcast Episodes Referenced in the episode:
How Your Child’s Hurtful Words Reveal the #1 Thing You Need Most
What “No!”, “Go Away!”, and Other Toddler Phrases Actually MeanIn this Toddler Toolkit podcast episode, we discuss the seven types of toddler 'no's and the best strategies for each one.
We'll cover types like transition 'no', routine 'no', social 'no', connection 'no', cognitive load 'no', sensory 'no', and fatigue 'no'. Understanding these can help parents avoid power struggles and better support their child's needs. Also, get details on the Black Friday special and the Calm Superpower cohort.
00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:15 Understanding Toddler Behavior
01:35 The Seven Types of Toddler Nos
02:08 Special Announcements and Offers
03:22 Deep Dive into Toddler Nos
03:55 Transition Nos
04:55 Routine Nos
06:32 Social Nos
08:00 Connection Nos
09:22 Cognitive Load Nos
10:41 Sensory and Fatigue Nos
14:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
5 Mistakes Parents Make When Toddlers Say No (And What to Do Instead!)
Welcome to the 100th episode of Toddler Toolkit Podcast!Join the Calm Superpower Cohort HERE!
In this 3-week live experience, starting November 3rd, we’ll walk through the three biggest areas of toddler struggle:
1️⃣ Listening and cooperation
2️⃣ Meltdowns and emotional coaching
3️⃣ Triggers and your own calm superpowerYou’ll get live Q&As, short lessons, and strategies that actually work in real life.
In this episode, we discuss the five common mistakes parents make when their toddlers say 'no' and provide effective strategies to handle these situations. From avoiding saying 'no' too often, to understanding the root cause behind the behaviors, and the limitations of offering choices, we cover it all. Tune in for practical tips to navigate your toddler's challenging moments and improve your parenting approach. Plus, don't forget to check out our free guide on the Seven Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast. See you in the next episode!
00:00 Welcome to the 100th Episode!
00:14 Introduction to Toddler Toolkit
00:54 Mistake #1: Saying No Too Much
02:03 Mistake #2: Trying to Change Too Many Behaviors
03:57 Mistake #3: Misunderstanding the Root Cause
05:49 Mistake #4: Teaching What Not to Do
06:52 Mistake #5: Assuming Choices Are the Only Fix
10:48 Recap and Final Thoughts------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
Moms, You Don’t Need More Patience—You Need More Presence (w/ Katie Krimitsos)
If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, ‘I just need more patience,’ this episode is your permission slip to stop striving and start being. Katie Krimitsos, founder of the Women’s Meditation Network, joins us to share how presence—not perfection—is what actually brings calm in motherhood.
Say goodbye to Anxiety with Katie!
Download the 5 Secrets to Unleashing Your Meditation Magic, HERE!
Listen to Dailly Affirmations with Katie:
I Am Proud of the Mother I Have Become-HereIn this special episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we sit down with Katie Krimitsos, founder of the Women's Meditation Network. Katie's meditations have been downloaded over a hundred million times by women worldwide. Join us as Katie shares her inspiring journey from recording in her bedroom closet to reaching nearly 200 million downloads.
We discuss the power of stillness amid motherhood chaos, moving from reaction to reflection, and embracing the idea that we already are love. This episode is full of grounding and emotional wisdom for every overwhelmed or disconnected mom. Katie also shares practical tips on building a meditation practice, the importance of self-love, and intentional parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that will resonate with moms everywhere.
00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:05 Meet Katie Krimitsos: Founder of Women's Meditation Network
01:07 Katie's Journey: From Bedroom Closet to Global Impact
02:55 The Turning Point: Pregnancy and Intuition
04:26 Launching the Women's Meditation Network
04:56 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
07:04 Balancing Motherhood and Meditation
10:36 The Power of Meditation in Motherhood
12:29 Debunking Meditation Myths
17:34 Connecting with Intuition Amidst Chaos
21:13 Mindful Parenting: Handling Meltdowns with Grace
22:54 Struggles with Reading and Self-Perception
24:06 A New School Brings New Beginnings
25:36 The Power of Meditation in Parenting
28:14 Intentional Parenting and Family Values
30:35 Self-Compassion and Overcoming Mom Guilt
37:37 Modeling Love and Self-Acceptance
42:20 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog -
How Your Child’s Hurtful Words Reveal the #1 Thing You Need Most
Join the Calm Superpower Cohort HERE!
In this 3-week live experience, starting November 3rd, we’ll walk through the three biggest areas of toddler struggle:
1️⃣ Listening and cooperation
2️⃣ Meltdowns and emotional coaching
3️⃣ Triggers and your own calm superpowerYou’ll get live Q&As, short lessons, and strategies that actually work in real life.
And when you enroll by October 31st, you’ll save $100 and get a free Toddler Toolkit T-shirt while supplies last.Listen to a related and helpful episode, 'The Hidden Reason You Snap and 4 Things That Stop the Cycle' here.
Back to the Episode:
Ever feel stung by your toddler's words?
In this episode, we talk about why toddlers say hurtful things like 'Go away, Mommy' and 'I don't love you,' and how these moments reveal what you need most as a parent.
We'll discuss toddler tantrums, emotional boundaries, and the hidden fix-it loop that can leave you feeling drained. Learn how to stay calm and ensure your peace doesn't depend on your child's behavior.
Plus, join the Calm Superpower cohort starting November 3rd for strategies to handle listening, meltdowns, and triggers. Sign up by October 31st to save $100 and get a free Toddler Toolkit T-shirt!
00:00 Introduction: The Hidden Fix-It Loop
00:31 Understanding Toddler Tantrums and Hurtful Words
00:58 Introducing the Calm Superpower Cohort
02:19 Exploring Emotional Boundaries
06:51 The Hidden Fix-It Loop Explained
10:14 Nervous System Link: Safety vs. Seeking
11:30 Emotional Boundaries vs. Emotional Walls
18:26 Practical Responses to Hurtful Words
20:25 Conclusion and Next Steps------------------------------------------------------
"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!
Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.
Grab the The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog - Mostrar mais
