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Many of us have been taught that marriage is sacred and divorce is something to be avoided at all costs. But when the desire to honor God and follow biblical teachings clashes with the reality of unfaithfulness, it creates a painful conflict.
The truth is, choosing healing and peace over staying in a toxic marriage is not a failure; it's an act of courage. Sometimes God calls us to move forward, even when the world tells us to stay.
In this episode with Reverend James, she shares her journey through a challenging marriage and divorce. She talks about the emotional and spiritual struggles she faced, the impact of infidelity, and how her faith helped her find the strength to leave. Tune in to hear her story of overcoming betrayal, finding healing, and rediscovering her purpose through faith.
Song of the week: Pieces of Me by Ledisi
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(00:00:31) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:24) Advertisement: This episode is sponsored by Motivational MD Publishing. Dr. Jasmine Zapata helps resilient women turn their life stories into impactful legacy books. Visit ImReadyToLaunch.com to get started!
(00:02:37) Who is Reverend Beulah James?
(00:03:33) Pieces of Me
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(00:08:33) “Stay married for at least 25 years.”
(00:10:30) The crossroads of faith and divorce
(00:17:05) What pieces of yourself did you have to hide during your marriage & divorce?
(00:20:55) How Rev. Beulah’s marriage shaped her ministry
(00:27:23) How can the church better cultivate healthy marriages?
(00:34:04) Release: Put it somewhere else
(00:37:32) Connect with Reverend Beulah James
Key Takeaways:
"Premarital counseling should be required before you marry somebody."
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About Rev. Beulah James
Reverend Beulah James is a retired pastor in the African Methodist Episcopal Church, a certified clinical chaplain, and a Master of Divinity graduate from Princeton Theological Seminary.
Connect with Rev. Beulah
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beulah.l.james
About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
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Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]
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The Superwoman Complex is a popular but dangerous identity, one that many of us know too well—where you take on everything. It’s not glamorous to wear the superwoman cape, but we often believe that it makes us strong, resilient, and unstoppable. We’re celebrated for doing it all, for being the backbone of our families and communities. But the truth? That same resilience can break you down if you don’t stop and listen to what your body and mind are trying to say.
In this episode with Dr. C. Nicole Swiner, we’re breaking down the “Superwoman Complex” and how it affects our health and happiness. From the pressure to do it all to carrying emotional baggage, we talk about what it really takes to let go and prioritize self-care. Together, we explore the importance of setting boundaries, finding balance, and creating a healthier, more joyful way of living.
Song of the week: Bag Lady by Erykah Badu
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:31) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:44) Bag Lady (Pack Light)
(00:02:51) Who is Dr. C. Nicole Swiner?
(00:04:07) What is the superwoman complex?
(00:13:01) Overachievement addiction
(00:16:07) Focus on self-care
(00:20:27) How the superwoman complex affects relationship dynamics
(00:22:48) Setting the boundaries ahead of time
(00:24:30) How men can help women shed the superwoman cape
(00:29:37) Focus on freedom
(00:32:46) How to Avoid the Superwoman Complex: 12 Ways to Balance Mind, Body & Spirit
(00:34:52) Connect with Dr. C. Nicole SwinerKey Takeaways:
"A lot of my superwoman tendencies are rooted in achievement.
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About C. Nicole Swiner, MD (“Doc Swiner”)
Dr. C. Nicole Swiner is a family physician, best-selling author, and wellness advocate. Known as the Superwoman Complex expert, she founded the #nosuperwoman movement to promote self-care and well-being. She empowers authors through Swiner Publishing Co. and offers wellness solutions at Serenity Hydration & Wellness.Connect with Doc Swiner:
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/docswiner
IG: www.instagram.com/realdocswiner
Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Avoid-Superwoman-Complex-Balance/dp/0986370207About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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We often stay in unhealthy situations because the familiar feels safe. But sometimes, we need the courage to walk away for our healing. We all crave familiarity, but that same comfort can keep us stuck in places we no longer belong. Change is hard, but it’s where the better life begins.
In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Toyin opens up about her journey of overcoming the stigma of divorce and discovering her strength through faith, family, and unwavering support. We explore the power of recognizing when it's time to let go, embracing healing, and surrounding yourself with the right people. Tune in for an empowering conversation filled with wisdom and hope on how to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce.
Song of the week: Just Fine by Mary J. Blige
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:16) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:35) Just Fine
(00:03:00) Who is Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
(00:05:09) Familiarity: How did Dr. Toyin find the courage to walk away?
(00:10:05) The stigma of divorce
(00:18:06) What's the biggest lesson your divorce taught you?
(00:23:18) Put the children first
(00:29:00) How to thrive after divorce
(00:37:23) A decade after
(00:40:54) Growth
(00:43:16) Better not bitter
(00:44:00) Connect with Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
(00:46:08) Join our community!Key Takeaways:
"Just because you miss something does not mean you want it back."
"Regardless of who pulls the plug, divorce is not easy."
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor is a senior medical director, Infectious Diseases physician, and HIV advocate with over 20 years of experience. She has led initiatives to improve care for people with HIV and Hepatitis, contributed to Illinois' plan to end the HIV epidemic, and mentors women in medicine and those facing career transitions.Connect with Dr. Toyin:
Web: https://www.tfalandchi.com/; https://www.thedecadeafter.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/doctortfal/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tfalandchi.fabfive
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Decade-After-Surviving-Thriving-Divorce/dp/1974133362About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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In life, it's easy to become attached to things, relationships, or outcomes that we hold dear. While desiring success, love, or stability isn't wrong, it's important to remember these are gifts from God, not sources of fulfillment. When placed above Him, they can become idols, distracting us from the peace and purpose only God provides.
In this episode of Your nEXt Chapter, I explore the concept of idolatry and how things like marriage can sometimes take priority over our relationship with God. I share how my own marriage became an idol and discuss how idols can show up in different forms, from relationships to achievements. Tune in to learn how shifting our focus back to God can restore balance and realign our priorities.
Song of the week: He Wants It All by Forever Jones
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(00:00:25) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:57) He Wants It All
(00:04:19) The definition of idol
(00:08:09) When my marriage became my idol
(00:10:25) Stuck in dead marriage
(00:13:35) How God carefully prepared me
(00:17:44) Idolatry is sneaky
(00:20:39) Obsession because of fear
(00:22:38) Who and what are the idols in your life?
(00:25:46) Re-examine your life
(00:27:05) 3 questions to ask if your relationship has become your idol
(00:30:29) Being unequally yoked
(00:34:18) How God uses it all for good
(00:37:00) God is first
(00:39:08) Join our community!Key Takeaways:
"Idolatry is something that I believe goes way beyond a spiritual doctrine or a religious denomination."
"Obsession with achieving a certain outcome, even a holy one, eventually becomes an idol."
"To have an attachment to a person or a thing or an outcome that supersedes your faith in your trust in God, that is idolatry."
"God is using every single thing that I went through for His good, for His kingdom, and for my good, and for your good."
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Emotional abuse often creeps into relationships unnoticed, leaving individuals trapped in toxic dynamics that are hard to identify and even harder to escape.
In this episode with Tiffany Denny, we explore the insidious nature of emotional abuse and how it can deeply affect individuals, especially in relationships that start out loving but slowly become toxic. Tune in for a candid discussion on emotional abuse and the cycle of manipulation and learn how it affects so many, regardless of their background or status.
Song of the week: What’s Going On by Marvin Gaye
Topics Covered:
(00:00:00) Episode Snippet
(00:00:20) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:55) Circles
(00:02:15) Who is Tiffany Denny?
(00:05:00) How The Relationship Recovery was born
(00:06:55) Boiling the frog
(00:10:42) What are the key signs of emotional abuse?
(00:12:30) Various faces of gaslighting
(00:16:59) The cycle of emotional abuse
(00:20:00) What is a trauma bond?
(00:22:16) Why do high-achieving women attract emotional abusers?
(00:26:00) Start your book of truths
(00:28:00) Find your community and heal
(00:29:18) Courage
(00:30:46) Relationship Recovery Circle
(00:32:44) Connect with Tiffany Denny
(00:33:29) Share this episodeKey Takeaways:
"Gaslighting to me is the most insidious. It's a tactic where the abuser makes you question your reality. They make you feel crazy."
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About Tiffany Denny
Tiffany Denny is the Co-Founder of The Relationship Recovery, a bestselling author, and podcast host dedicated to helping others heal from toxic relationships. With over 15 years of experience as a coach and speaker, she empowers individuals to reconnect with themselves and reclaim their power. Tiffany’s work combines personal experience, professional expertise, and a deep belief that everyone deserves safe, loving relationships.Connect with Tiffany Denny:
Web: https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/therelationshiprecovery/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanycdenny/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-denny-a38866282/
YouTube: www.youtube.com/@therelationshiprecovery
Podcast: https://www.therelationshiprecovery.com/podcastAbout Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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Divorce is a traumatic experience that shakes our beliefs about ourselves, our relationships, and our future. But with empathy, we begin to heal and rebuild, moving forward not as victims, but as empowered individuals who can redefine our lives.
In this episode with Dr. Alauna, we dive into the powerful impact of trauma, especially in the context of divorce. Dr. Alauna shares how trauma shapes our emotions, thoughts, and relationships. We explore how our brain processes emotions and the role of empathy in healing. Join us as we explore how to heal ourselves and how to create healthier relationships.
Song of the week: What’s Going On by Marvin Gaye
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:20) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:55) What’s going on?
(00:02:30) Trauma Psychiatrist: Who is Dr. Alauna?
(00:03:57) Dr. Alauna’s definition of trauma
(00:05:37) The invisible weight of trauma
(00:11:38) Divorce is traumatizing
(00:15:35) Why we struggle with marriage
(00:23:57) Forgiveness: Healing for yourself
(00:28:23) Rethinking relationships
(00:30:49) Forgive yourself
(00:34:57) Connect with Dr. Alauna, Trauma PsychiatristKey Takeaways:
“Trauma is any event that causes you to negatively shift the way you think about yourself, the world, and other people.”
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Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Alauna Curry
Dr. Alauna is a Trauma Psychiatrist, Speaker, Author, and Empathy Expert dedicated to an empathy-based approach to healing. She emphasizes that trauma—whether from physical abuse, sexual trauma, climate disasters, or emotional invalidation—affects the brain in similar ways. Her mission is to de-stigmatize trauma and empower individuals to self-regulate their emotions.Connect with Dr. Alauna Curry:
Web: https://www.dralauna.com/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/dralauna/
IG https://www.instagram.com/dralauna/
Podcast: https://www.mindingyouramygdala.com/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
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In this episode with my dear friend and Soror, Dr. Rhonique, we open up about the transformative journey of healing after divorce. Dr. Rhonique courageously shares her experience of enduring emotional and psychological abuse during her marriage and the difficult decision to leave for her well-being and the well-being of her children. Tune in as we explore the power of vulnerability, resilience, and faith in reclaiming strength and purpose after divorce.
Song of the week: You Will Win by Jekalyn Carr
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(00:00:16) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:08) Advertisement:This is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Join her Recalibrate Retreat on Jan 11, 2025. Visit SoulLoveCoach.com for details!
(00:06:03) Surviving a loveless marriage
(00:10:01) The plan to leave a toxic marriage
(00:13:48) Trusting God through the desert
(00:16:41) Vulnerability in Divorce
(00:32:20) One word for your next chapter: Faith
(00:33:30) Plan. Pray, Protect your peace
(00:34:57) Connect with Dr. Rhonique ShieldsKey Takeaways:
“I knew that God would not leave me, no matter what I was going through. He has a purpose for my life.”
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
Join our community to receive our newsletters and to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Rhonique Shields
Rhonique Shields, MD, is a distinguished board-certified pediatrician, accomplished healthcare executive, and proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated. Dr. Shields balances her professional achievements with her role as a dedicated mother of three and an enthusiastic lover of life.Connect with Dr. Rhonique Shields:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/drflorho/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhonique-shields-md-mha-faap-884b6b67/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co
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The road through divorce was not easy and was filled with moments of pain and uncertainty. But in my daughters’ eyes, I saw strength, wisdom, and the courage to keep moving forward.
In this episode with my daughters, Diara and Danielle, we explore the impact of divorce and the lessons we’ve learned about love, marriage, and family. Together, we reflect on the challenges we’ve faced, the personal growth we've experienced, and how our perspectives on relationships have evolved since the ending of my marriage to their father.
Song of the week: In My Daughter's Eyes by Martina McBride
Topics Covered:
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(00:00:38) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:02:08) In my daughter's eyes
(00:04:53) Unhealthy patterns in marriage
(00:09:17) Lack of love in society
(00:12:18) Infatuation vs. Devotion
(00:20:32) Processing changes after marriage
(00:22:58) Learning to trust again
(00:24:15) Healing through music
(00:28:30) Parent and child’s emotions matter
(00:34:41) Rest
(00:33:36) ReturnKey Takeaways:
"There's a big difference between loving someone, being in love with someone, and being devoted to loving that person forever."
"It is very important to rest because nothing will get done if your cup is empty."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.Connect with Danielle:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellle.symone/About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Website: https://yournextchapter.co/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.coEmail: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future, and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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It’s easy to get caught up in the heaviness of life’s transitions, but I’ve learned that sometimes we must create space to celebrate what lies ahead. This journey hasn’t been easy. But there’s power in embracing every season of your life.
In this episode with my friends and Sorors, Dr. Maiysha and Dr. Terri, we celebrate the beauty of new beginnings. We talk about the significance of my "Freedom Party"—a celebration not of divorce, but of stepping boldly into a new season of life. We discuss the importance of intentionality, faith, and welcoming new beginnings, while honoring our community.
Song of the week: It’s My Time by Kelly Price
Key Takeaways:
“We faced different struggles, but I often borrowed your faith, your faith became my faith when I was in uncertain times.”
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by Melissa Brown, The Soul Love Coach. Melissa is a licensed therapist, life coach and ordained minister who specializes in blending the spiritual with the psychological in her transformative work with women. Contact Melissa via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.soullovecoach.com. Make sure to mention the podcast to receive special pricing in the month of January.Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Terri L. Major-Kincade
Dr. Terri L. Major-Kincade is a board-certified Pediatrician and Neonatologist, author, and acclaimed speaker. She specializes in neonatal palliative care, health disparities, and perinatal hospice.Connect with Dr. Terri!
FB: https://www.facebook.com/DrTerriMD/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/doctorterrimdAbout Dr. Maiysha Clairborne
Dr. Maiysha Clairborne is a Family Medicine Physician, consultant, TEDx speaker, author, and founder of The Mind Re-Mapping Company. She specializes in helping organizations create inclusive, psychologically safe workplaces through trauma-informed training and leadership development.Connect with Dr. Maiysha:
Website: https://mindremappingacademy.com/
IG: www.instagram.com/DrMaiyshaAbout Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole!
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co
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Love is often presented as the answer to all challenges, but I've come to understand that it isn't always enough to sustain a relationship when the foundations aren't built on mutual respect, understanding, and healthy boundaries. It’s easy to give love, but true love—healthy, reciprocal love—requires more than just good intentions.
In this solo episode, I share my journey from early crushes to a 28-year marriage and the lessons I’ve learned about love, commitment, and what it truly means to give and receive love. I reflect on the complexities of love and relationships, particularly those that span decades and experience both beauty and pain. Take a moment to listen, reflect, and perhaps even question what you believe about love. Let’s unpack this together.
Song of the week: What's Love Got to Do With It by Tina Turner
Key Takeaways:
"I thought I could love my ex into doing the right thing and becoming a better person but you can't love someone's brokenness away."
"You can't allow your love for the other person to overshadow your love for yourself."
"Love is one thing to write on cards, another to say, but a whole different thing to show."
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Connect with Dr. Nicole:
Web: https://yournextchapter.co/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co FB:https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Forgiveness is often misunderstood as a way of excusing or condoning the wrongs done to us, but in reality, it is about reclaiming our own peace. In this episode with the Forgiveness Coach, Brenda Reiss, we explore the power of forgiveness in one’s healing journey and how holding onto anger, resentment, or past hurts can weigh us down and consume us.
Song of the week: Pick Up Your Feelings by Jazmine Sullivan
Key Takeaways:
“Self-forgiveness frees us from self-imposed guilt, shame, and regret.”
“When we choose to let go of blame, there is peace, healing, and the freedom to live a more fulfilled life.”
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This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Founder, Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, is a career transitions and wellness coach who specializes in empowering women to excel as their true, authentic selves. Contact Dr. Toyin via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.tfalandchi.com. Make sure you tell her Dr. Nicole sent you!Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Brenda Reiss
Brenda Reiss, the Forgiveness Coach, is passionate about guiding women through the transformative power of self-forgiveness. Her personal journey of reclaiming her life through self-compassion and breaking free from victimhood fuels her mission to help others do the same. Brenda believes that by exploring what holds us back and embracing the possibility of change, we can step into the lives we are meant to live. With deep humility and honor, she supports women on their own paths to healing, offering the tools and guidance needed to forgive themselves and create lasting transformation.
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
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Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Life is filled with challenges, and sometimes we can't face them alone. We all need someone to lean on, especially when things get tough. Friendship is about showing up for each other in the most vulnerable moments, offering support, and being a steady presence when everything else feels uncertain.
In this episode with my good friend and Soror, Dr. Suleika Michel, we will explore the importance of friendship and the deep connections that help us through challenging times. Together, we'll reflect on our decades-long friendship, share how Suleika supported me during my divorce journey, and explore what it truly means to be a good friend.
Song of the week: Count on Me by Whitney Houston and CeCe Winans (Waiting to Exhale Soundtrack)
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(00:00:15) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:03) Advertisement: This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor empowers women through career transitions and wellness. Reach her at [email protected] and visit www.tfalandchi.com.
(00:03:00) Who is Dr. Suleika Michel?
(00:04:20) Count on me
(00:12:18) How can I be a supportive friend?
(00:16:06) Building a strong prayer life
(00:25:53) Moment of laughter
(00:31:03) Nicole’s Next Chapter
(00:35:43) Take the next step
(00:37:20) Connect with Dr. Suleika MichelKey Takeaways:
"Quality in friendship is much more important than quantity."
Episode Sponsor
This episode is sponsored by TfalandChi Coaching and Consulting, LLC. Founder, Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, is a career transitions and wellness coach who specializes in empowering women to excel as their true, authentic selves. Contact Dr. Toyin via email ([email protected]) and be sure to visit the website: www.tfalandchi.com. Make sure you tell her Dr. Nicole sent you!
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Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Dr. Suleika Michel
Dr. Suleika Just-Buddy Michel, a board-certified OB/GYN with 20 years of experience, is dedicated to educating females about their bodies. As the first African-American partner in her practice, she advocates for minimally invasive surgery and is a skilled DaVinci robotic surgeon.Connect with Dr. Suleika
Web: https://www.drsuleikamichel.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/drsuleikamichel/FB: https://www.facebook.com/DrSuleikaMichel/Book: https://www.amazon.com/WiseTeenz-Faith-Based-Health-Education-Girls/dp/1644840413About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to cre -
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We all go through life's messiness, and some of us try our very best to make things work, giving all our effort until it consumes us. But it doesn’t have to be that way! Surrender holds a power beyond our own efforts. When we choose to surrender, we allow ourselves to step back, not from our responsibilities, but from the pressure to force outcomes that may not be aligned with our true path.
In this episode with Coach Melissa Brown, we'll unpack the intricacies of surrender and what it truly means to release our grip on the outcomes we envision. Melissa sheds light on the journey of letting go and aligning our goals with a higher purpose.
Song of the week: I Surrender All (Ricky Dillard & New G)
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(00:00:00) Episode Snippet(00:01:25) Our first guest, Coach Melissa Brown(00:03:04) A journey of faith, healing, and purpose(00:10:19) The anatomy of a decision(00:14:21) Letting go of silent agreements(00:17:33) Why is surrender key to stepping into the next chapter? (00:21:21) Surrender is a daily practice(00:25:34) Trusting God’s will in marriage(00:28:40) How Coach Melissa’s nEXt Chapter inspires her work with women(00:32:17) Healing takes courage(00:36:43) Connect with Coach Melissa BrownJoin our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.
About Melissa Brown:
Melissa Brown is an ordained minister, licensed therapist, and entrepreneur with over two decades of experience listening to God and taking risks. She is on a mission to help women who are up to big things in the world to experience the personal success that can match what they have achieved in their professional careers. She founded Soul Love so that women might come back into alignment with who they are on every level, especially when life and relationships become challenging and out of balance.
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Web: www.soullovecoach.comIG: www.instagram.com/soullovecoachFB: web.facebook.com/lifecoachmelissabrownEmail: [email protected]
About Your HostDr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!
Connect with Dr. Nicole!
Web: https://yournextchapter.coIG: www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co FB: www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co Email: [email protected]
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The idea of "worth" is something that touches all of our lives, but what does it really mean? At its simplest, worth refers to how valuable we believe ourselves to be. However, many of us carry beliefs shaped by our upbringing and experiences that can distort this sense of value. When we challenge these beliefs that fuel our scarcity mindset, we open ourselves to the idea that we deserve abundance in all areas of our lives. Embracing our worth enables us to take risks, pursue our passions, and demand the respect and love we deserve.
In this episode, I’ll share a transformative journey that reshaped my understanding of worthiness, scarcity, and self-value. After returning from an incredible retreat, I felt compelled to share insights that taught me to honor my own worth—something I realized I’d often undervalued. As I continue on this path, I’m more aware than ever of the importance of a mindset rooted in abundance and self-respect. By choosing to value myself, I hope to inspire others to recognize that we are all deserving of the best—not just in special moments, but in how we live every day.
Song of the week: Worthy by India.Arie
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(00:00:08) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:39) Everyone of us is worthy
(00:04:25) My Facebook post about reclaiming my worth
(00:06:14) Why I'm frugal
(00:12:13) How my parents’ divorce shaped my view of worthiness
(00:15:13) Unpacking holiday memories
(00:17:25) Overcoming the fear of wanting more
(00:20:04) The impact of a scarcity mindset on my marriage
(00:23:40) What is the scarcity mindset?
(00:25:42) How I learned to embrace luxury
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"When you believe that money, love, joy, or happiness are limited, you move through life with fear and a focus on lack, often settling for cheaper experiences."
"When you have these deep-seated beliefs, they govern how you move through life."Join our Community
Join our community to be the first to hear about exciting announcements and opportunities to connect.About Your Host
Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023 she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend”, Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Let’s Connect!
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Email: [email protected]Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Join Dr. Nicole as she shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith.
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Life is never perfect. It may look perfect at times, but it can never truly be that way. There will always be ups and downs, challenges, and unexpected turns. For me, it was divorce. For you, it may be something else. When reality comes knocking at your door, it's important to find a safe place to be vulnerable. Often, we view vulnerability as a sign of weakness rather than strength, but when you truly see its importance, you realize that vulnerability can be your superpower.
Embracing vulnerability means accepting that it’s okay not to have everything figured out and trusting that God can turn ashes into beauty. Even when we feel shame or guilt about our failures, it’s essential to find a safe space to express our feelings and share our hearts. Remember, every challenge we overcome is a testament to our resilience and God’s wonderful grace in our lives. Our testimony will soon be our legacy and a guide for others who are walking down the path we once traveled.
In this first episode, I share about the power of testimony and how our stories can shape our nEXt chapters. My goal is to create a space where you feel safe to explore your feelings and know that you are not alone. I’ll be sharing my own experiences and inviting guests who have also walked through tough times. We will work our way through the learnings and tools to set us up for a better future. Thank you for being here and taking this first step with me! I’m excited to see where this journey takes us, and I can’t wait to hear your stories, too. nExt chapter, here we come!Song of the week: “Testimony” by Anthony Brown & group therAPy
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(00:00:15) Welcome to Your nEXt Chapter Podcast
(00:01:50) Why did I start a podcast?
(00:03:41) Meet Dr. Nicole
(00:05:26) The power of sharing
(00:07:19) Vulnerability is my superpower
(00:10:39) Honoring my mother’s legacy
(00:12:15) Healing through music
(00:14:42) Power in my testimony
(00:17:17) More than a podcast
(00:19:30) Allow people to care for you
(00:20:33) What to expect
(00:21:51) What is a nEXt chapter?
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Dr. Nicole is a pediatrician, the owner of a successful healthcare consulting company, a riveting keynote and TEDx speaker, and the mom of two beautiful young adult daughters. From the outside, she appeared to have it all. But in 2023, she faced the most difficult challenge of her life- ending a 28-year marriage and navigating heartbreak, deception, and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial “strong friend,” Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating a safe space where other women who have experienced a “divine disruption” can heal, recover, and THRIVE!Follow us on Social Media:
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Your nEXt Chapter podcast explores the challenges and triumphs women face as they reclaim joy, reimagine the future and redefine their identity after divorce and other unexpected life transitions. Dr. Nicole shares insights from her journey as a high-achieving professional woman navigating divorce while walking in her Christian faith. Meaningful conversations with experts, thought leaders and women who are thriving in spite of life’s challenges will both captivate and empower listeners. No one should enter their nEXt Chapter alone. Dr Nicole makes sure you don’t have to.
