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  • Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...

    🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS**
    **(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop).
    0:00 Intro
    2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined
    9:20 What is an Archetype?
    13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example
    15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor
    21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society...
    25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man
    34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship
    38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work
    39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype
    41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth
    48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work
    51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work
    53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book)

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    🔶 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:

    2024 Wild Man RetreatJeremy's WebsiteJeremy's New Book


    🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

    Taylor's Upcoming Retreat (July 2024)Taylor's WebsiteTaylor's Instagram

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  • This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode.

    ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).

    🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    ✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:
    0:00 Intro/Welcome
    2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)
    10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...
    15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)
    25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm
    32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities
    36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact
    41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact
    43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)
    45:55 The Art of Attunement
    48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm
    55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability
    1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs
    1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability
    1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles
    1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization
    1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing
    1:45:52 Men are Good

    If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.

    Thank you for being part of this conversation!

    -Taylor

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    🔶 CONNECT WITH MISCHA:

    Mischa's Website: www.evolve.menMischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck


    🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

    Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.lifeTaylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson

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  • Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.

    🔴🎥 You can watch the Youtube version here.

    And if you resonate with this episode...

    Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat in Asheville, NC - specifically designed to help men overcome the most common blocks we face, so you can thrive in life, sex, relationships AND your WHY for being alive. The program is called Liberate Your Life(Force), and you'll find all the info below. 👇

    🔱 RETREAT INFO & APPLICATION 🔱
    https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
    🔸 Enrollment is by application only
    🔸 Space is limited to 18 men
    🔸 Enrollment is open, on a first come first serve basis

    COURSE & RETREAT DATES:
    🔸 In-Person Retreat: July 11th-14th
    🔸 9-Week Training: Starts June 17th, with weekly exercises for you to complete on your own time, AND live group calls every Monday evening from 6-8pm EST.

    More info here: https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce

    QUESTIONS?
    If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a voice message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

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    EPISODE CHAPTERS:
    00:00 Intro
    02:58 Thomas's Background in Men's Work
    04:06 How We Met & What We're Doing Together
    10:36 Our Personal Blocks...
    18:18 We Need the Right Conditions to Heal & Grow
    22:12 Life Wants us to Heal and Feel Pleasure
    25:12 From Hyper-Mentality to Feeling Alive
    33:16 From Numbness to Consciously Choosing Feeling
    42:32 Integration of the Heart and Vitality
    48:31 Integration of Sex and Heart
    57:45 True Power Goes to Men on a Mission
    1:03:52 What Makes a Powerful Man?
    1:05:16 In-Person Retreat: Liberate Your Life(Force)
    1:09:37 Closing Thoughts

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    #menswork #menshealth #mensmentalhealth

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  • These could use some refinement:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:29 - Opening
    02:08 - Ricky’s Background
    02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues
    05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness
    09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy
    17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today
    22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations
    27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships
    31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society
    35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team
    38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs
    41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship
    48:10 - What Makes Us Happy
    54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable
    57:59 - Final Words
    01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky Arenson

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  • My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.

    In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.

    *NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.

    ABOUT NAEMA
    Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:45 - Opening
    06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women
    08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)
    15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience
    19:20 - What to do before sex
    23:15 - Technique to help her open
    24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?
    26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?
    32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris
    34:00 - Waiting for the ask
    36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration
    40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain
    45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma
    47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex
    50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner
    54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes
    56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way
    1:01:30 - Outro

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    🔱 CONNECT WITH NAEMA

    🔸 Instagram

    🔸 Naema’s YouTube

    🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge

    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

    🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

    🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

    🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.

    As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.

    Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.

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  • Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.

    🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:
    💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram
    💫 Microcosmic Orbit Partner Practice
    *(I forgot to add these graphics in the Youtube version of this interview, so I'm adding them here).

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

    0:00 Sex Transmutation Intro

    2:44 What is Sex Transmutation?

    3:40 Practical Examples

    5:24 Transmutation of Ejaculation During Sex

    7:08 Porn: Transmuting the Desire

    9:15 Sex Transmutation at Work

    12:13 Sexual Desire is Healthy (Don't Ignore It)

    12:54 Somatics & Transmutation Example

    16:52 When Someone Is NOT Attracted to You

    17:45 The REACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation

    29:01 Taylor's Personal Sex Example

    33:44 The PROACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation

    37:39 Intro to Sexual Energy Integration Exercise

    38:36 Exercise: Sexual Energy Integration

    43:41 How to End Sex Without Ejaculation

    45:25 Sexual Energy Conservation VS Cultivation

    49:28 The Most Important Technique of All...

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    ORGASMIC MASTERY COURSE:
    🔱 Master this practice in the bedroom, learn to last as long as you want, have strong erections, and experience full body orgasmic pleasure with my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that begins on February 8th.

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  • Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.

    Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video.

    And...

    🔴 Get Your Testosterone Levels Tested Here
    And use this code: TAYLORNEWYEAR for a big discount


    In this episode, you'll:
    • Learn about the science behind lab tests, stress's impact on hormones, and strategies to combat age-related changes.
    • Gain wisdom on decoding your body's signals through advanced diagnostics and lifestyle adjustments.
    • Discover tools for a revolutionized existence, including mastering metabolism with continuous glucose monitoring and employing heart rate variability in stress management.
    • Better understand how you can have longevity, energy, strength, and enduring zest for life.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:27 - Opening
    02:15 - Dr. Tracy Gapin's Background
    05:44 - Common Underlying Causes of Hormonal Problems
    07:09 - What Is Low Testosterone
    11:04 - Stress and The Link Between Testosterone and Cortisol
    16:13 - The Effects of Low Testosterone on the Mind & Body
    18:52 - Ways to Improve Testosterone Levels
    20:08 - Impact of Low Testosterone on Society
    21:52 - Minimizing Exposure to the Toxins in Our Environment
    25:19 - Lifestyle & Time Frame To Improve Hormonal Levels
    34:22 - Living With Suboptimal Levels of Testosterone Without Realizing
    35:56 - The Natural Process of Aging and Finding Balance with Performance
    39:30 - The Feeling and Experience of Optimal Hormonal Levels
    41:47 - Healthy, Normal Sex Drive After 40 Years
    44:38 - Advances in Men's Medicine Space
    51:14 - Living With Intention, Sleep & Diet
    56:35 - Final Advice
    58:19 - How To Find and Connect With Dr. Tracy Gapin

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    🔱 CONNECT WITH DR. GAPIN:
    🔸 Gapin Institute
    🔸 Dr. Gapin's Website
    🔸 High Performance Handbook

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
    🔸 Instagram
    🔸 Website

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    #testosterone #menshealth #lifeoptimization #hormones

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  • This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.

    🔴🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here.

    The best way to ask me anything about this episode would be to comment on the youtube version I linked to above. And if you have BDSM recommendations, please feel free to DM me on Instagram. I'm all ears.

    MY 2024 PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION PLAN

    Somatic Experiencing Practitioner TrainingEmbodied Men's Leadership Training (with John Wineland)Somatic Coach Training Program (with Strozzi Institute)

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    My Testosterone Video (On Youtube)Sex Upgraded Podcast (On Youtube)

    🔱 UPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN:
    🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024. This is a 10-week training for any man who wants to become the best lover they can be - the kind of lover who blows his partner's mind - AND feels 100% confident and sexually alive in the process. Check out the course page for more info.


    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    0:00 Why I Made This Episode
    2:30 The 3 Big Trainings I'm Taking in 2024
    3:01 1 - Somatic Experiencing Practitioner Training
    5:52 2 - Embodied Men's Leadership Training
    8:28 3 - Strozzi Somatic Coaching Training
    10:23 BDSM Training? (I Need Your Advice...)
    11:21 Male Hormone Optimization
    13:17 ADHD & Sex
    16:16 Living a Balanced Life...
    18:11 Request: I Need Your Help...

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  • Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?

    In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.

    You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.

    I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).

    If you're interested, check out the links below:

    🔱 MEN'S SEX COACH TRAINING:
    🔸 Check out the sex coaching certification program here.
    🔸 And join here: https://bit.ly/Mens-Sex-Coaching-Program
    *If you join through this link, I'll receive a small commission as a thank you for connecting you to this program. That commission will help me continue to create this podcast. Thank you! :)


    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 Intro & Welcome
    08:53 Cam's Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach for Men
    20:26 Benefits of Working With a Sex Coach
    33:02 Understanding Masculinity and Sexological Approaches
    47:12 Importance of Anti-Racism Education in Coaching
    53:39 Exploring Tantra Communities and Sexuality
    59:49 Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) and Training Program


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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...

    🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    Some topics we cover:

    Is sex sinful?Is masturbation sinful?What about sex before marriage? Is that a sin?Can sex be sacred as a Christian?What does sacred sex mean from a Christian perspective?What does the bible say about masturbation?What does the bible say about sex before marriage?What does the bible say about sex in general?


    Join Dr. Kevin Jenson and I to explore the cultural divide between sex and spirituality, while examining Christianity, epistemology, and ancient texts, to create an entirely new perspective of healthy sexuality that's possible for Christians - without losing their faith.

    Kevin Jenson is a distinguished author and scholar, who shares insights from his life path, bridging the gap between his Christian faith and sexual desires.

    And for the record, I don't see myself as a Christian... though as I write this on Christmas Eve, I'm about to head into a church service with my family. I grew up in a Christian household, and was heavily influenced by this faith. That's why I thought it'd be interesting to do this episode.

    I've also worked with a LOT of Christian men, who want to have great sex and NOT let go of their faith. I want to support them in their desires for that, and so whatever positive content I can create to help these men and their partners, the better.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:28 - Opening
    03:34 - Kevin's Background
    09:17 - The Conflict Between Sexuality and Spirituality
    12:22 - Epistemology & the Ways of Knowing
    19:20 - Christian Views on Sex & Masturbation
    23:17 - Sex Positive View within Christianity
    31:45 - The Original Intent about Sexuality in the Bible
    36:59 - The Church & The Dichotomy of Healthy Sexuality
    41:48 - The Myth of Onan & Is Masturbation Sinful
    48:07 - The Christian View of Male/Female Dynamic in Society
    53:24 - "Porneia"
    59:17 - Prayerful Sex
    1:05:41 - Kevin's Journey of Sharing His Work in The (Christian) World
    1:12:02 - In & Out Group in the Christian Community
    1:15:31 - How to Connect with Kevin
    1:16:46 - Christian Trauma

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    🔱 CONNECT WITH KEVIN:
    🔸 Special page for Sex Upgraded podcast listeners
    🔸 Kevin’s Website
    🔸 Kevin's Instagram: @drkevinjenson

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
    🔸 Instagram
    🔸

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  • This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.

    There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 Intro
    01:28 Opening
    03:02 Papillon's Professional Background
    03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries
    09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm
    14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with
    17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection
    21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted
    29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person
    35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect
    38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone
    47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs
    52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization
    54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light
    57:02 Restorative Justice
    58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness
    1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look Up


    GENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
    In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma.

    Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes.

    Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.


    🔱 PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS
    🔸 Papillon's Website
    🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon
    🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids
    🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version)
    🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend.

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
    🔸 Instagram
    🔸 Website

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  • What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?

    In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions.

    Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:

    00:00 Intro & Welcome

    02:36 Hema’s Story

    05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained

    10:21 What is the history of Tantra?

    19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India

    21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego

    28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power

    33:53 Tantra for Common Householders

    37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex

    39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss

    43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss

    45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra

    50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra

    57:48 Practices Hema Recommends

    1:01:42 Closing

    🔱 CONNECT WITH HEMA:

    🔸 Work with Hema: https://talk2hema.youcanbook.me/

    🔸 Hema’s Website: https://hemaholisticmystic.com/

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:

    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/

    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:

    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge

    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:

    🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast

    🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson

    🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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    #neotantra #tantra #tantricsexuality

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  • Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.

    Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...

    🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 Intro & Welcome
    02:13 Why Tantra is Important for Men
    08:37 Common Questions (What is a Tantra Chair? Is Tantra Dangerous?)
    10:22 Tantric Sex Positions & Kamasutra
    13:56 Ejaculation Mastery
    16:09 Alternatives to Ejaculatory Orgasm
    19:16 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms (Kriya Vati - Multiple Orgasms for Men)
    30:35 Shawn's Experiences with Ejaculation Growing Up
    33:05 Taylor's Most Amazing Sexual Experiences
    36:15 Want to Last Longer in Bed? (Most Women Won't Like It)
    41:50 Is Tantra Dangerous?
    44:00 Redefining the Concept of Sex
    53:37 Emotional Intelligence is KEY to Sexual Mastery
    1:00:15 Build Your Capacity for Sexual Energy

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    🔱 CONNECT WITH SHAWN:
    🔸 Shawn's Upcoming Workshop (Discount Code: "Taylor"):
    🔸 Shawn's Website "Tantra Quest"

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins February 8th, 2024)
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery (Self-Study Enrollment is Open Now)

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
    🔸 Taylor's Website

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  • Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.

    Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!

    🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    00:00 Intro
    03:31 Working With Porn Addiction
    06:57 The Formation of Addictive Pattern with Porn
    08:43 The Reality of the Porn Industry
    12:57 Porn Stays in Our Energetic Field Some Time After Watching
    15:35 Psychedelics & Porn, and Porn in Virtual Reality
    21:27 Alternatives to Watching Porn
    23:46 Is There Healthy Masturbation While Watching Porn?
    26:52 The 11 Porn Users Archetypes
    44:47 How You Masturbate is Important
    55:16 How to Treat Your Penis
    1:00:54 Circumcision


    🔱 CONNECT WITH TYSON:
    🔸 Tyson's Facebook
    🔸 Tyson's Website

    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.

    ⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.

    🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS
    00:00 Welcome
    03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach
    09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating
    12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile
    19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself
    24:01 Profile Photo Optimization
    29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating
    34:29 Profile Description Optimization
    43:26 Clarify Your Desires
    51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People
    54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry
    1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching

    🔱 CONNECT WITH KOEN:
    🔸 Koen's Website

    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today

    🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    IN THIS EPISODE
    00:00 Welcome
    02:07 Yuval Introduced
    04:04 Traditional Sexual Polarity Questioned
    07:46 Embracing Authenticity
    09:11 Living a Life of Authenticity
    11:30 Societal Myths & Masculinity / Femininity
    19:53 The Human Experience is Complex
    23:38 Sexual Polarity, Fluidity and Tension in Sexual Dynamics
    37:35 Sexual Polarity IS Valuable
    44:59 How to Create Sexual Polarity
    51:41 Embrace Newness and Mystery


    ⚠️ IF YOU'RE LACKING SEXUAL CHARGE...
    Yuval suggests looking at your own inner experience and figuring out if YOU are excited about life. There is a strong correlation between overall lust for life and sexual experiences... There's also a need for mystery, newness, and distance in long-term relationships to maintain erotic aliveness. Yuval encourages playfulness as a way to connect with life and explore different aspects of sexuality too

    ⚠️ ABOUT POLARITY...
    Yuval challenges the concept of feminine and masculine energy. He believes that relying on these binary definitions limits people's potential for authentic expression. Yuval encourages people to explore their own qualities and desires rather than conforming to societal expectations.


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    🔱 CONNECT WITH YUVAL:
    🔸 Yuval's TikTok
    🔸 Yuval's Instagram
    🔸 Yuval's Website

    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • "There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?

    What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.

    🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.

    EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
    0:00 Intro
    2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys
    6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys?
    14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living
    23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man
    27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine...
    33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity
    38:48 Victim Mindset Problems...
    42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women
    48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication
    56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions

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    🔱 CONNECT WITH JASPER:
    🔸 Jasper's Instagram
    🔸 Jasper's Youtube
    🔸 Jasper's Legendary Lover Program

    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?

    These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.

    We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those systems. It's rich content, and it can be confronting... but it's work we need to do, and I'm excited to do this work WITH you.

    In addition to the episodes in season 3, I also recommend checking out the podcast and article below, because they dive into this topic beautifully. You may not agree with everything, but it will certainly inspire some deep & critical thinking, which I believe is necessary for where we are today.

    "Understanding Men & Their Trauma"- with Gabor Mate on the Man Enough Podcast"Men are lost. Here's a map out of the wilderness." - article by Christine Emba


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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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  • Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective).

    In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship.

    🔸 You can also watch this episode on youtube.

    One of my favorite parts of this episode is hearing Jonathan talk about the difference between what he learned in medical school and what is actually useful for helping patients live healthy thriving lives. It's thought-provoking to say the least.

    Hope you enjoy!

    And if you have any requests for future episodes, please let me know!

    *NOTE: In this episode we mentioned Jonathan's interview on the Sacred Sons Podcast. (Click the link in this note to listen to that episode).


    🔱 CONNECT WITH JONATHAN
    🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Fortitude Retreat
    🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Instagram
    🔸 Dr. Brajtbord's Website

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    🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
    🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 27th, 2023)
    🔸 Semen Retention Mastery

    🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
    🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
    🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide

    🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
    Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/

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