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  • In today’s episode, I’ve brought my Mom back on the show to dive into a range of topics from the hilarious to the profound. We reminisced about growing up as women in an ever-changing world, trying to date and have sex! Our conversation covered the early passionate days of relationships to the mundane, finding time for sex and reviving your libido. I also had some fun quizzing my mom on modern dating slang. Her take on each word made me laugh. I think you’ll love hearing about the many stages of sex from my mom's seasoned perspective. Exploring dating terms with my mom was a fantastic way to demystify modern relationships! I asked her about breadcrumbing, DTR, red flags, situationships, ghosting, pegging, and rizz, aka…charisma.
     
    Learning points from the episode:

    The evolution of relationships from passion to domesticity.

    The impact of menopause on intimacy.

    The many layers of modern dating terms.

    Insights into maintaining a long-term relationship.

     
    Tune into these articles: 

    I Asked My Mom 5 Things About Sex, Sexuality and Aging: Here’s What She Said

    8 Most Common Sexual Struggles for Couples (& How to Solve Them)

     
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  • So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.

    Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.

    Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.


    Show Notes:


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  • Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article, "The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women."
    Today, Amy and I are actively seeking ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. We're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide.

    The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure.

    The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex.

    Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms.


    Tune into these articles:

    Does Sleeping Apart Help Your Sex Life?

    Kegel Trainers for Bigger, Badder Orgasms


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    As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.'
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  • In this episode, Dr. Emily welcomes her friend and fellow Michigan native, Ophira from The AstroTwins, to discuss their new book, The Astrology Advantage, and their revolutionary I*AM system. This unique system or framework blends astrology with the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs to unlock insights into your personality-- your buttons, skills, passions, and life path.
    As a bonus, Ophi reads Emily's chart, revealing how the I*AM system shapes her career, sex, desire, and goals. They explore the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes, offering a fresh perspective on understanding yourself through astrology. Tune in to learn how astrology influences desire and sexuality and how to align with your authentic sexual self. Get your copy of The Astrology Advantage to dig deeper into your I*AM archetype! Ophi describes the I*AM System as “an astrological personality test” and “Atomic Habits meets The Wisdom of The Enneagram.” You need this book! I could not put it down.
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    What You'll Learn:

    The I*AM System Explained: Discover how the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes correlate with the 13 planets in astrology and your chart.

    Astrology Meets Enneagram: Learn how each IAM archetype connects with the 12 zodiac signs, offering a new lens to understand your personality, desires, and behavior.

    Sex, Shame, and Kink: Understand how your I*AM archetype influences your sexual expression and how to overcome shame or embrace kink through astrological insights.

    Body Confidence and Sexual Fulfillment: Explore how aligning with your archetype helps you feel more comfortable in your body as you pursue pleasure and intimacy.

    Sexual Authenticity: Learn how your sexual style—whether you're an Innovator, Authority, or Maven—affects how you engage with partners and express desire authentically.

    Also, SmartSx, my new membership, launches on September 10th. Please join me and this incredible community of open-minded pleasure-seekers!
    Here's a sneak peak of what you'll experience when you sign up:

    SmartSX is a community and app for individuals prioritizing pleasure and sexual well-being, helping members explore desires and create a fulfilling sex life.

    Great lovers are made, not born: Anyone can learn how to have the best sexual experiences of their lives.

    SmartSX members can directly interact with her and ask questions in the community.

    Inclusive membership: SmartSX caters to everyone—whether you're a beginner or experienced, single or partnered—focusing on understanding, giving, and receiving pleasure.

    Members will uncover their unique desire style, increase their Sex IQ, enhance sexual communication, and gain essential tools for a healthy sex life through discussions, special guests, and experts. Each month features a theme based on Dr. Emily's 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.


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  • Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?
    I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How to Identify and Break Negative Dating Patterns

    The Importance of Assertiveness in Dating

    Strategies for Building Self-Confidence in Dating


    Show Notes:


    Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

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  • Let's explore the world of sex parties! Are you curious if this scene is for you? This episode is your go-to guide for everything about sex parties. We'll cover the various types available, from kink-centric gatherings to more relaxed swinging events. I'll guide you through finding these parties, understanding the etiquette, and what to expect when you arrive. We'll discuss how to mingle effectively and, importantly, what to wear to blend in or stand out. So join me at this podcast, Sex Party! 
    Don't forget to join the waitlist for SmartSX, which launches on September 10th, 2024. This incredible membership will offer you access to exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

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  • In today's episode, we’re diving into the questions you've been too shy to ask out loud—yes, those. Remember, shame has no place here, especially when it comes to your sexual curiosities and concerns. We’re all in this together, exploring the complex yet exhilarating world of sex, so let’s break down those barriers and talk openly.
    In this episode you’ll learn: 

    How do I handle rejections for sex from my partner when they masturbate daily?

    If their “porn” type looks different than my body type, does that mean they may not be attracted to me?

    Is it normal to think about someone else during sex?

    How do I get my partner to understand I’m not a porn star…Yes, I’ll try things, but…I’m not that kinky.

    I’ve never squirted. Is that normal? How can I get myself to squirt?

    Can too much use of a vibrator desensitize or burn my clitoris? 

    How can I get a clitoris orgasm by mouth without it taking hours?

    I don’t like to masturbate in front of my partner because it's hard for me to focus. Is something wrong with me?


    Show Notes:


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  • Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts. 
    What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men.
    In this episode you’ll learn: 

    About the wide range of orgasms people can experience and why each is unique.

    Why libido levels vary between individuals and how this impacts sexual relationships.

    How pornography can shape unrealistic expectations and affect real-life sexual experiences.


    Show Notes:


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  • Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us are ready to sex-periment right now. Justin shares fascinating sex research from the COVID era, the sex communication practices heterosexual individuals can learn from the LGBTQ+ community, and how to make casual sex better for women. (Spoiler alert: emphasize her pleasure.)
    We also unpack the Kinsey Scale and why sexuality is so freaking fluid, why threesomes are such a popular fantasy, and what our porn preferences reveal (and don’t reveal) about us. Finally, we talk about sex education as it’s practiced in The Netherlands, and give you some incredibly useful tools for talking to your kids about sex (because it’s really important!).
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    How to Improve casual sex

    Insights from the LGBTQ+ Community

    Tools for talking to your kids about sex


    Show Notes:

    More Justin Lehmiller : Website | Instagram | X | Podcast | Book



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  • On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed.
    We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual lover, useful tools for addressing low libido, how to pursue a threesome or open relationship, how to easily create intimacy in a relationship, what your Zodiac signs say (or don’t say) about compatibility with your partner, what to do if your hookup buddy wants a relationship (but you don’t), and the mind-blowing effects of EMDR therapy.
    We also share our top methods to build erotic tension and why focusing too much on your partner’s desire can hold you back in the bedroom. As an added bonus, we walk through ways to reach your ‘power yes’ in sex, the effects of toxic masculinity, and how to communicate as an invitation—not a confrontation.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    How to identify and attract a sensual lover through astrology and self-awareness.

    Tools and techniques to address low libido and build erotic tension in your relationship.

    Practical advice on navigating open relationships, threesomes, and understanding compatibility through Zodiac signs.


    Show Notes:

    More Dr. Jennifer Freed: Website | Instagram



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  • Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relationship and your sex life. So why do some people absolutely refuse to go?
    On today’s show, I’m giving you the therapy low-down, so you can decide whether you should try it – or, if it’s the right call for you and your partner. I’m talking: signs it’s time to look for a therapist, pros and cons of solo therapy vs. couple’s counseling, whether sex therapy is right for you, what to expect from a typical therapy session, and how to find therapy that works for you – including budget-friendly options. Plus, I take your therapy-related questions on porn addiction, sexual trauma and what to do if you tried to improve your sex life with your partner…but they cheated anyway.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    The Importance of Addressing Sexual Trauma

    The Power of Open Communication in Relationships

    Seeking Professional Help is a Sign of Strength


    Show Notes:


    Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.

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  • If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.
    From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    Insights into how Melanie Rose creates sex rooms that are both functional and sensual

    Practical advice on managing bodily fluids during sex

    How designing a personalized sex room can empower individuals and couples to explore their sexuality more freely


    Show Notes:


    More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest



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  • Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    Discover the positive reasons to explore anal play on your own, regardless of your anatomy.

    Learn the truth behind common anal myths and misconceptions.

    Get detailed tips on toys and insertion techniques, from beginner to advanced levels.


    Show Notes:


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  • Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the waters with someone virtually before having sex IRL. Or maybe the idea just turns you on! No matter the case, today’s episode is all about FaceTime sex and how to pull it off.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    How to get in the mood for FaceTime sex and tips to help yourself feel more comfortable on-screen

    Answers to listener questions, such as how to spice it up and how do you end a sexting session

    How to position your camera and what to actually say in the moment


    Show Notes:


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  • Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I trust myself, that I’ll know how to navigate this situation? These are the questions we all ask ourselves, even if it’s subconscious. Our bodies and brains regularly scan for danger, but when you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, sometimes the red flags just look like flags.
    So on today’s show, I take your questions on trust and safety, because as we know, safety is the precursor to hot sex. So what happens when you’re having mind-blowing sex with a partner, but catch them chatting with sex workers online? What happens when you’ve been love-bombed, by someone who isn’t what they seem? Or maybe you’ve had past relationship trauma, and don’t trust new partners to take it slow with you? We get into all of it. Finally: do you trust yourself to facilitate a hookup? Do you trust that you can help a partner heal from sex-negative messaging? These are the questions I’m exploring today, and trust ME: by the end, you’ll walk away with some great tools for sticky situations.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    Being upfront and honest in a new relationship is very important

    Lowering your expectations for a one night stand or a situation-ship

    When someone tells you who they are, believe them


    Show Notes:


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  • Breakups. They can be a painful experience. Trust me, I know. After spending time considering your partner to be such an important aspect of your life, losing them can be like a mini-death. If you have decided your relationship is over and are struggling to know what to do next, this episode is for you. I give my top tips for how to cope and answer all your questions.
    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How to cope with a breakup 

    Tips for giving better oral sex 

    Tools for communicating your needs


    Show Notes:


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  • Tune into this conversation with the incredible Dr. Josh Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist fellowship-trained in sexual medicine and specializing in the management of male and female sexual dysfunctions. Dr. Gonzalez has been featured in Vogue and is a medical contributor to Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, among others. He is a sexual health expert who has built a following on TikTok and Instagram, where he uses social media to educate on sexual and reproductive health. He is also the co-founder of Popstar, a men’s supplement addressing semen health. I loved talking with Dr. Gonzalez. I can’t wait to share his incredible work with you.
    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    That 50 percent of infertility cases are related to male factor infertility. That’s half of the cases, but somehow, we default label infertility as a female issue.

    How oral contraceptive pills cause an elevation in a protein called sex hormone binding globulin in women. This is a protein you don't want large amounts of in your body, as it binds up all of your hormones. When the hormones are bound, they can't be effectively used.

    About the groundswell of men coming into Dr. Gonzalez’s office requesting vasectomies after the overturning of Roe v. Wade.

    How you can easily test your sperm with at-home collection kits. For not much money, you can freeze your sperm, too.


    Show Notes:

    More Dr. Josh Gonzalez: Instagram | Website | TikTok


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  • So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives, and what might actually be behind them. We’re also diving into penis size, pleasure, and communication. There are so many ways to enjoy a penis - but first, ya gotta talk about what you BOTH want.
    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How to make eye contact during sex

    What to do about sexsomnia (aka having sex in your sleep)

    How to talk to your partner about not having much sex experience


    Show Notes:

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  • Did you know that nipple sensations for vulva-owners ignite the same parts of the brain as clitoral stimulation? Today, we’re unlocking all of the overlooked erogenous zones including nipples. ALL genders can potentially have more pleasure and orgasms through nipple play—you just need the proper tips and tricks.  
    We hear from a masseuse who is exploring the reality of “happy endings” as well as a couple who’s interested in perfecting the “g-spot orgasm” and closing the orgasm gap. (I like to call it the “g-area”... Find out why!)
    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How to have a nipple orgasm

    Ways to help with the orgasm gap

    How to respond to a partner who you feel may not be sexually attracted to you 


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  • Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.
    In this episode you’ll learn:

    How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them 

    What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross

    How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it)


    Show Notes:

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