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Are you dating to marry or dating for money? Do women deserve to be paid to be pregnant? Is it possible to fall in love without giving away your power to a man?
These are questions that need answers and in this episode, join Chidera as she covers them!
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Do you struggle with putting your foot down when handling a situation with a guy? Are you often 'too nice' when you should be a little more dubious of men? Have you fallen into the mentality of making men's negligence about you?
In this episode, enjoy a storytime and Chidera's real-time texting conversation with a man who is now blocked!
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Do you feel like that man is romantically edging you? Is there a vibe that he 'kind of' likes you but is holding back? Are you at a crossroads of whether you should keep emotionally investing in him?
If any of the above questions resonate with you, this quick burst of an episode might give you the answers you need...while giving you a laugh!
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Do looks really matter? Should we 'dress for men'? Is it considered 'unfeminist' to use your beauty as leverage?
We cover all these questions in this episode, where The Slumflower dives into beauty as a tool - and whether feminism is helping or hindering our journeys towards the lifestyles we desire...
(Disclaimer: the use of weed as an example in this episode, is in no way a promotion of its use!)
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Do you feel like you 'owe' men sex for a cocktail? Does the 'gold digger' label scare you away from being upfront about your needs? Are you playing to win or are you playing to be fair?
In this episode, join Chidera as she dilutes your fears of asking men for things, and chats through the ridiculousness of male entitlement!
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Are you trying to find the firmness in your voice? Or are you worried you might be a bit too blunt?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through the ways we can all be a little stricter without flying off the rails - and why there's nothing scarier to a man, than a woman who is pissed off and relaxed about it...
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Do you feel bad about dating selfishly? Does the idea of 'using' a man make you feel guilty? Is it exploitative to date men with your best interest at the forefront?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses her favourite ways to exploit men in a world where they systemically and interpersonally exploit women every single day...
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Have you convinced yourself you're stuck with that man? Is he really the best you can do? Why do you even keep giving him chances?
In this brief and funny episode, join The Slumflower as she talks through the lies we tell ourselves to cling onto these men who have passed their expiry date in our lives...
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Is the pressure on to start a family? Feeling broody? Or maybe even experiencing that FOMO feeling as everyone around you is starting to have babies? You are not alone!
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about why you don't need to have kids just because you want to...and the ways we can all show up in a maternal role without having to commit to parenthood *cough cough* shout out to the aunties!
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Are you a first born daughter who has been plagued by the perpetual sense of responsibility...even over the men you date?
Has your first born daughter status evolved into a saviour complex?
Do you feel like you need to be useful in order to be loved?
Dear first born daughters, this one is for us! In this episode, join Chidera as she muses and reflects on her life and upbringing as a first born daughter - and how this has actually empowered her to be stern, bold and fearless in her self-advocacy when dating men.
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Have you been victimised by a Nigerian man?
Are you too nice to the Nigerian men you date? (YES)
Is there a lack of cultural awareness that impinges upon your ability to understand Nigerian men?
However you resonate (or don't) with these questions, you'll enjoy this episode full of insight, banter and cultural context from a Nigerian woman, herself!
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses how best to date Nigerian men to enjoy the best of them and avoid the worst of them...
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Are you that friend who keeps calling your friend to complain about the same man you won't leave?
Are you the friend who wishes your homegirl would get a grip and get over that man, so you can have your friend back?
Or are you that woman who has exhausted all your friendships and has found herself isolated because you keep choosing men over self-respect?
If any of the above resonate, this episode is for you! In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the irritation of being that woman who simply won't learn her bloody lesson...
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Do you find your neurodivergence interfering with your dating life? Have you found your rejection sensitivity makes you more prone to rumination? Has your constant masking made you more used to tolerating discomfort around men?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses how her neurodivergence influences the way she navigates men.
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Are pick-me women simply misunderstood? Are things 'easier' with men when you let patriarchy run its course? What can women do to avoid becoming desperate?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through all the reasons why picking men over yourself will always leave you short-changed and resentful - no matter how exceptional you think your situation is...
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Did you notice yourself almost falling for the botched dream being sold to you? Was it all stating to feel a little too good to be true? Has he switched up on you because his little game didn't work?
Nothing hits better than that 'thank God I didn't fall for him' relief and in this episode, The Slumflower visits the various ways men become sassy and insufferable when their grandiosity backfires!
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If we can all agree that men are scary, then we can al agree that dating men should be worth our time, right? Join Chidera, as she chats through safety, self esteem and making men EARN your trust!
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Do you fantasise about him coming back? Do you tend to develop limerence for men who leave you? Do you allow yourself to feel your anger in full?
If any of these questions resonate with you, this episode might hit home. Join The Slumflower as she discusses why you should test men, why you need to stop 'healing' and why it's totally okay that you might not meet 'the one'.
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Are you an 'understanding girlfriend' who can't quite seem to get the words out when you're annoyed at him?
Have you decided what your non-negotiables are in what you'll tolerate from a guy?
Are you a 'free spirit' or are you giving your power away to men?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she plots out smooth and non-aggressive ways to be more assertive in the presence of men, while maintaining your authentic personality - plus a very saucy South of France storytime...involving a yacht ;)
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So what's the fuss around dating providers? Why are women scared to date selfishly? Why do we slut-shame women who are upfront about their requirements of men who want to sleep with them, whilst we uphold and celebrate the women who settle 'in the name of love'?
In this episode, join Chidera as she explores the concept of men being providers - and why we shouldn't let 'feminism' stop us from having our own cake and eating it too...just like the men do!
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Do men deserve their loneliness? Do women make too many excuses for men? Can women develop the willpower to abstain from sexual and emotional reliance on men?
In this episode, join Chidera as she explores the 'male loneliness epidemic' - and why we should all let men deal with this matter by themselves...
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