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  • Ever wondered how to maintain a strong, balanced marriage amidst life's chaos? Sharon Costanzo from Respected and Connected joins us to share her compelling journey from an achievement-oriented upbringing to creating a partnership that thrives on mutual respect and egalitarian values. Sharon opens up about the unique challenges she faced in finding a partner who wasn't intimidated by her career in engineering, and how she and her husband navigated the complexities of household responsibilities, especially after becoming parents. Her insights on giving constructive feedback without causing defensiveness are truly eye-opening.

    This episode dives into the essence of intentionality in relationships, urging couples to move beyond autopilot behavior that often leads to disconnection. We explore how independent, strong-minded women can effectively share tasks and negotiate within their marriages. Sharon emphasizes the power of assuming good intentions and practicing charitable interpretation. By appreciating the small gestures of care and commitment from your partner, you can build a more supportive and understanding relationship, even during conflicts.

    Tune in for heartfelt advice and practical strategies that can transform your marriage through effective communication and mutual support.

    Sharon Mentions:
    Mindsight by Daniel J. Siegel M.D.

    Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terrence Real

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  • Could your marriage withstand the weight of hidden challenges and small compromises? Join us on this powerful episode of the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast as we welcome Brad and Lisa Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit. They courageously share their transformative story from marital strife to triumph, driven by Brad's conviction to reveal the miracles in their relationship as a beacon of hope for others. Their journey is a testament to the power of Christ and unrelenting pursuit of what really matters.

    Our conversation delves into profound themes of faith, redemption, and the dangerous spiral of compromising one's beliefs. Brad recounts a personal story of growing up in a pastoral family and the incremental steps that led to compromising his faith, ultimately resulting in significant consequences. This candid narrative highlights the critical need for addressing secret sins and the impact of these seemingly minor compromises on our lives and relationships. It’s a stark reminder of the importance of maintaining our spiritual integrity and the role of faith in overcoming life's toughest challenges.

    Healing and renewal through Christ form the cornerstone of this episode, as Brad and Lisa emphasize the importance of personal responsibility and spiritual growth. They share their experiences of rebuilding their marriage through a supportive faith community, honest communication, and unwavering commitment. Their story underscores the protecting what is important and maintaining accountability in marriage. Offering a message of hope and resilience, they remind us that while the journey of healing is unique and often challenging, it is ultimately rewarding and filled with purpose when anchored in faith.

    You can find Brad and List at:
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    https://unrelentingpursuit.org/

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  • Ever found yourself lost in translation within your own marriage? This week on The Vision-Driven Marriage we drop a throwback episode to continue on our quest to help you avoid separation. In this episode we return to episode 4 of the podcast to discuss the importance of understanding our differences and giving grace in times when communication is difficult. We tackle the perplexing scenarios of disconnect that crop up during heated moments, dissecting how to triumph over miscommunication and foster a deeper understanding with your spouse.

    The dance of dialogue between life partners is intricate, but what if you had the steps to move in sync, even when the music seems offbeat? In our conversation, we lay out actionable strategies for resolving disagreements and prioritizing each other's emotional needs. We share stories of forgiveness and the art of scheduling conflict resolution, ensuring that the day doesn't end with unresolved tensions. Our discussion is not just about weathering the storm—it's about building a stronger vessel together.

    Closing with a moment of spiritual reflection, we explore the role of faith in fortifying communication within marriage. We offer up a prayer for clarity and unity, seeking divine assistance to knock down barriers and align our hearts with a purpose that transcends our own. Tune in to the Vision Driven Marriage podcast, and let's start speaking the same language of love.

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    The three deterrents are gender differences, childhood habits, and unspoken, unmet expectations.

    Proverbs 25:11 A word spoken at the right time is like gold apples in silver settings.

    Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.

    Eph 4:26 Don't let the sun go down on your anger.

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  • Have you ever wondered how to turn communicating in a relationship from mundane check-ins to profound connections? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we reveal how open and honest communication can act as the glue that binds the hearts of spouses together.

    Honest and Open Communication
    Our discussion peels back the layers of fear that often shroud true expression, offering encouragement to couples to embrace vulnerability, share their innermost thoughts, and, in doing so, bridge the emotional gaps that can widen with time. Through our personal journey and the experiences we've shared, we shed light on the perils of assumptions and how they can silently erode the trust and intimacy that are foundational to a thriving marriage.

    Communicating In A Relationship
    In this heart-to-heart, we also equip you with the tools to build a robust communication framework within your relationship. Active listening isn't just a buzzword—it's a lifeline for understanding and being understood. We walk you through techniques like reflective dialogue and emphasize the importance of being fully present, free from the ubiquitous distractions of our digital age. Together, let's explore how establishing regular, intentional check-ins can cultivate a habit of continual engagement and an atmosphere where love flourishes. Get ready to unlock a new level of closeness with your partner that only comes from truly opening up and communicating from the heart.

    We Mention:
    The Quiz
    Intimacy Episodes: Part 1
    Part 2

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  • Unlock the secrets to a more resilient and loving marriage with us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we delve into the art of selfless love on the Vision-Driven Marriage podcast. Inspired by the profound wisdom of 1 Corinthians 10:24, we reveal how putting your spouse's well-being at the forefront can dramatically shift the dynamics of your relationship. Together with insights from our previous guest, Randy Pryor, we explore the foundational practices that keep love alive and prevent the heartache of separation. Prepare to be armed with actionable strategies that will deepen your connection and reinforce your commitment to each other.

    Ever wondered how small deeds can lead to monumental changes in your marriage? Listen in as we discuss the transformative impact of non-sexual touch, proactive listening, and thoughtful gestures that cater to your partner's needs. You'll learn the delicate art of balancing your well-being with the act of putting your spouse first, avoiding common traps like unmet expectations and resentment. We're here to guide you through the nuances of compromise and decision-making that honors your spouse, ensuring that each act of kindness fosters an atmosphere of mutual support and appreciation.

    By the end of our conversation, you'll have a treasure trove of everyday actions that can forge an unshakeable trust and renewed faith in your partnership. From choosing a date location that delights your spouse to sharing in the mental load of daily responsibilities, we're committed to helping you cultivate a vision-driven marriage grounded in the beauty of selfless love. Join us and discover how to create an enduring bond that thrives on genuine care, understanding, and the joy of giving without expectation.

    Things we mention:

    1 Corinthians 10:24

    Hebrews 11:1

    The Little Things, 100 ways to serve your spouse

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  • Have you ever felt the ground beneath your marriage start to crumble, leaving you scrambling for a foothold? Randy Pryor joins us to extend a lifeline, introducing his SOS Reconnection Method for men facing separation head on. As a former workaholic whose marriage was torn apart, Randy transformed his life and now guides others through the labyrinth of marital disconnect. His approach eschews quick fixes in favor of a journey toward lasting change, emphasizing the need for husbands to genuinely become the best versions of themselves and work to understand and validate their wives' feelings.

    This episode peels back the layers of communication and understanding between spouses, showing how embracing differences is crucial to bridging the emotional gap. Randy casts a new light on the art of reconnection, illustrating the potency showing genuine care for your wife through well-crafted text messages and the importance of becoming the best version of oneself. He reminds us that true connection doesn't come from grand gestures but from everyday acts of thoughtfulness and a deep respect for our partner's individuality. His insights offer both a mirror and a map for those ready to navigate the path back to a shared vision of love and commitment.

    As we wrap up, we're left with a powerful reminder that the cornerstone of a resilient marriage lies in personal growth. Randy's experiences invite us to foster our own spiritual and personal development, which not only enriches our own lives but also serves as a catalyst for positive change within our relationships. He leaves us with a treasure trove of wisdom and practical resources for anyone longing to rebuild and strengthen the bonds of matrimony. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we share these transformative lessons, offering hope and actionable advice for a vision-driven, lifelong love.

    Randy Pryor:
    "I'd love to offer a free Reconnection Planning Session to all of (The Vision-Driven Marriage) listeners and viewers. The link is on my website: RandyPryor.com in the "Contact" section. Or, . . . book that call directly right here: http://Hope4SH.com/call"


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    Things We Mention:

    The Fireproof Movie and book:
    The Love Dare: Now with Free Online Marriage Evaluation: Kendrick, Alex, Kendrick, Stephen: 8601404420146: Amazon.com: Books

    Amazon.com: Fireproof : Kirk Cameron, Erin Bethea, Ken Bevel, Alex Kendrick, Stephen Kendrick, Alex Kendrick, David Nixon, Affirm Films; Carmel Entertainment; Provident Films LLC; Samuel Goldwyn Films; Sherwood Pictures: Movies & TV


    Covenant Marriage Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/11783

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  • Have you ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your partner, even when you're both speaking English? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the top three things that keeps couples from playing the long game. In our heartfelt dialogue, we discuss the art of active listening and echo back techniques that forge a path to clarity and closeness. We confront the thorny issue of criticism head-on, revealing how to transform potential roadblocks into opportunities for growth, and share strategies for couples to keep their relationship front and center, even in the face of life's distractions.

    The shadow of contempt and the weight of hopelessness can darken even the sunniest of relationships. In this discussion, we shine a light on these hidden adversaries, exploring how a cycle of criticism and defensiveness can lead to a fortress of bitterness that shuts out love and connection. We expose the traps of guardedness and stonewalling that couples may fall into and guide you through the process of breaking free from these patterns. By addressing the root causes of contempt, we aim to help listeners rediscover the warmth of mutual respect and affection that may have been lost along the way.

    Finally, we navigate the intricate web of intimacy and communication within the sacred space of marriage. We tackle the silent saboteurs of unvoiced expectations and differentiate between productive reminders and the pitfalls of nagging, offering a husband's perspective on these delicate dynamics. As we weave through the different threads of intimacy—physical, emotional, and spiritual—we reveal how they intertwine to strengthen the bond between partners. For those who see themselves in these shared struggles, we open the door to further discussion and support, inviting you to journey with us towards a vision-driven, deeply fulfilling marriage.

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    Doug and Leslie Mention:
    The Gottman Four Horsemen

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  • Feeling lonely in a marriage? Have you and your spouse ever found yourselves surrounded by a life full of blessings yet shadowed by an inexplicable sense of solitude? That's the silent shadow we, Doug and Leslie Davis, confront this week as we candidly open up about our own journey through the nuanced challenges of marital loneliness. Amid the hustle of daily life, parenting, and the sometimes insidious creep of miscommunication, we share a deeply personal story that reveals the transformative effect of loneliness. This episode promises strategies for breathing life back into the quiet spaces of your partnership, transforming potential disconnects into gateways for a stronger, more intentional bond.

    We submerge into the depths of intimacy, exploring its various dimensions as powerful allies against the creeping sense of isolation. Through our conversation, we dissect the layers of emotional, physical, and spiritual closeness, offering you practical tools to kindle the warmth in your relationship's hearth. As we acknowledge the deceits that can divide, we guide you through the art of resolving conflicts with grace and unified problem-solving, ensuring that you and your partner emerge fortified against loneliness. So, snuggle up with your loved one, and join us for an episode that's not just about overcoming marital loneliness but about nurturing a vision-driven marriage that thrives on connection and heartfelt communication.

    Things we mention:

    Episode 11, 12, and a mention of our conversation with Rick & Nancy Kay Grace.

    How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 1 (buzzsprout.com)
    How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 2 (buzzsprout.com)
    Intimacy and Honor with Rick & Nancy Kay Grace (buzzsprout.com)

    Jimmy On Relationships. This reel is a must watch!


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  • Have you ever found yourself at a Christmas celebration, only to realize that what you thought was the perfect gift led to a miscommunication and a need for forgiveness? Leslie and I found ourselves in such a pickle, which became a lesson in grace and understanding—a story we share with you, our cherished listeners. This episode of Vision Driven Marriage is not just a recount of our personal foibles; it's a beacon for all who seek to build stronger, more resilient relationships. If you've ever asked yourself "will my relationship last?" this episode is for you. You will gain insight as we explore the pivotal role of commitment and the power of never entertaining the thought of divorce on the journey to marital longevity.

    Creating a marriage that stands the test of time doesn't happen by accident. It's the small acts of compromise, the daily reaffirmations of love, and the consistent effort to see past our spouse's imperfections that weave the fabric of a strong partnership. We delve into the transformative power of forgiveness and the importance of keeping the friendship in your marriage alive. Simple gestures, like a hug or a shared laugh, are the threads that bind our lives together. And, as Leslie and I reflect on our journey, we invite you to recognize these moments in your own marriage and see them as opportunities to reinforce your bond.

    We wrap up this heartfelt episode by inviting you, our listeners, to share your own tales and questions about marriage. We know that every couple's story is unique. Whether you're knee-deep in diapers, navigating the teenage years, or adjusting to a quieter house, your experiences enrich the tapestry of our community. We're eager to hear from you through our Instagram at Vision Driven Marriage. Join us in an ongoing conversation about love, life, and the pursuit of a truly Vision Driven Marriage.

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  • Discover the sacred blend of divine guidance and practical wisdom as marriage coaches Colette and Bryce Schaffer join us to unravel the secrets of a successful marriage. They shed light on the sobering reality of marriages breaking at an alarming rate and how to counteract this trend with a robust Biblical foundation. The Schaffers bring nearly thirty years of relationship expertise to the table, offering couples the tools to reinforce their bonds and navigate the modern challenges of matrimony with faith and purpose.

    Our heartfelt exchange with the Schaffers takes us deeper into the heart of a Christ-centered union, where personal spiritual growth and divine affirmation lay the groundwork for a fulfilling partnership.

    Wrapping up the episode, we broach the significance of ongoing self and relational reflection—an essential compass for steering marriages toward continuous growth and harmony. Vision casting emerges as a beacon for couples, illuminating the path to setting and achieving shared goals, and the role of mentorship becomes clear as a cornerstone for constructing resilient matrimonial bonds. The Schaffers introduce their Marriage Builders initiative, extending a helping hand to all who seek to strengthen their marital journey within the embrace of faith.

    The FREE Marriage Enrichment Workshop (Live on April 7th at 6:30 pm Mountain time) Replays will be available afterward. https://www.schafferministries.com/workshop-sales-page

    The Marriage Builders Course: https://www.schafferministries.com/aimee-blue-sp-2-4-2

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  • When Barbara Culver joined us, her words painted a vivid tapestry of a life utterly transformed by faith. Her story, which we're thrilled to share with you, begins with a lonely childhood and unfolds into a rich narrative of love, purpose, and the profound influence of Scripture. As she recounts her path to becoming a cherished teacher of the Word and a guide to many searching souls, you'll feel the warmth of her spirit that has touched the lives of countless students. She brings to light the pivotal moments where church camps played a role in nurturing young believers, revealing the potency of being truly loved and understood.

    Barbara's testament doesn't end with personal growth; it's interwoven with the strength of marriage, her husband's spiritual awakening, and the serendipity of ministry that neither of them expected. Nearly six decades of unity stand as a testament to their unwavering commitment, grounded in the wisdom of scriptures and the sovereignty of God. Together, we explore the challenges and triumphs of married life, affirming the transformative sanctuary that a partner's faith can provide. Her anecdotes of prayer's power in her own marriage remind us all of the unshakable foundation it can build for any couple.

    Even through health struggles that would deter many, Barbara's tenacity shines. Her passion for quilting persists, bolstered by her reliance on the Holy Spirit, and her decision to venture into podcasting at 75 years old underscores a relentless spirit. We're eager to share her engaging podcast, It's His Story, to our listeners, for it is a reservoir of wisdom and hope. Her experiences offer solace and encouragement, and we, Doug and Leslie Davis, send our prayers for your own marital bonds and spiritual journeys. Barbara's resilience and deep-seated faith serve as a beacon for all of us navigating life's ebbs and flows.

    Barbara's Podcast: It's His Story It's His Story | Podcast on Spotify
    Find her on Facebook: Barbara Culver-Speaker | Facebook

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  • Is jealousy truly a hallmark of love, or have we been led astray by common misconceptions? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we embark on a journey to uncover the biblical truths about jealousy in marriage. We tackle the pervasive myth that jealousy is an expression of love, instead revealing how true love, as depicted in 1 Corinthians 13, thrives without envy or possessiveness. Our discussion delves into the nuances between jealousy and envy, dismantling the notion that the two are synonymous. We stress the importance of understanding the protective nature of jealousy, as opposed to the covetousness of envy, aiming to steer couples towards a union that encapsulates the fullness of God's intention for love and marriage.

    This episode isn't just about busting myths; it's about finding strength and unity in the spiritual intimacy that prayer brings to a marriage. By drawing a distinction between the possessiveness often mistaken for jealousy and the humble, selfless love that Scripture advocates, we seek to enlighten our listeners on the true nature of divine jealousy. Where the world sees control, we find partnership and equality, grounded in a biblical understanding that honors and protects the sacred covenant of marriage.

    In our closing segment, we open our hearts in a collective prayer, confronting the struggles that envy and jealousy can impose on a relationship. We share our gratitude for the righteous example of divine jealousy, using it as a beacon to guide us towards honoring, loving, respecting, and caring for our spouses in a manner that resonates with God's flawless design. We invite you to reflect on the insights shared and to join us in the ongoing quest for hope, encouragement, and practical wisdom as we navigate the complex emotional landscape of marriage together.

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    IG: @TheVisionDrivenMarriage

    Things we Mention:

    Ephesians 4:26
    1 Cor 13:4-7
    1 Cor 10:13
    Phil 4:13
    2 Cor 5:17
    Romans 12:1-2

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  • Jealousy can be a silent saboteur in the strongest of marriages, yet it's a topic many couples shy away from discussing. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we courageously tackle this subject with five steps to overcome jealousy in relationships. Together, we untangle the complex web of emotions that fuel jealousy in relationships, illuminating a path to self-awareness and open, healing dialogue. Whether you’re struggling with your own green-eyed monster or are supporting a partner through their battle, we offer a strategy for understanding and surmounting the obstacles that threaten trust and love in your relationship.

    In our conversation, we lay out actionable steps to safeguard your union from the erosion of jealousy in relationships. Discover the profound role of prayer in seeking divine intervention to confront emotional triggers and learn how gratitude, forgiveness, and contentment can become your allies against the tide of negative feelings. If the journey seems daunting, fear not; we underscore the invaluable role of professional support from counselors and coaches who can pave the way for couples to embark on this voyage of growth and reconciliation. Embark with us as we explore how to maintain a marriage where both partners feel truly valued and secure, free from the shackles of jealousy.

    Things we mention:

    Episode #62 With Shanenn Bryant

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  • Ever wrestled with the green-eyed monster gnawing away at your relationship? Leslie and I unpack the signs of jealousy in marriage, distinguishing between the kind that's rooted in love and the variant that harbors destructive selfishness. You're not alone if you've felt that twinge or witnessed it in your partner.

    We delve deep into the intricate dynamics of marriage as we explore the often overlooked but profoundly impactful emotion of jealousy. Join us as we uncover the subtle yet significant signs of jealousy that may manifest within your marriage, shedding light on crucial insights to navigate this complex terrain. From subtle cues to overt behaviors, understanding the signs of jealousy is essential for fostering trust, communication, and mutual understanding within your relationship. Whether it's feelings of insecurity, possessiveness, or suspicion, recognizing these jealousy signs can be transformative in fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage. Tune in as we unravel the intricacies of jealousy and equip you with invaluable tools to nurture a thriving partnership.

    We Mention:

    Our interview with Shanenn Bryant in episode #62


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  • Have you ever felt the sting of jealousy in a relationship and wondered if others struggle with the same silent battle? Shanenn Bryant, a relationship confidence coach with a deeply personal tale of conquering jealousy, joins us on the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast to shed light on this common yet often unaddressed challenge. Her raw and relatable story begins in the shadow of her father's alcoholism, a journey that led her to realize the widespread nature of jealousy and its effects on trust within relationships.

    In a heartfelt conversation, Shanenn opens up about the intricacies of building trust while navigating one's insecurities. Her insights into transforming thoughts and behaviors illuminate the path to deeper connections beyond the reassurances of a partner. We also address the delicate balance of support and enabling within a marriage, offering listeners coping techniques and ways to create a supportive environment that does not foster dependency.

    Rounding out our discussion, we explore the importance of communication and empathy in managing jealousy. Shannon generously provides resources for continued growth, including her own podcast, "Top Self," ensuring that listeners leave equipped with tools to strengthen their marital bonds and foster trust in the face of jealousy. Join us and take a transformative step toward fortifying the foundation of your relationships.

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    Shanenn mentions Box Breathing as a form of anxiety/panic relief.

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  • Have you ever witnessed the incredible transformation that faith can bring into a marriage? Scott and Katie LaPierre join us this Valentine's season to unpack the potent blend of grace and tenacity that defines a vision-driven marriage. Their story, a genuine testament to the power of Biblical principles, delves into the intricacies of parenting, homeschooling, and ministry life, all while nurturing the sacred bond of matrimony. They remind us that even the most profound differences between partners can be the very catalysts for growth, drawing a couple closer together as they navigate life's hurdles with God at the helm.

    Wrapping up the episode, we celebrate the Valentine season by discussing the milestones of transformation and redemption that arise when couples and individuals wholeheartedly surrender to Jesus Christ. David and Tracy Sellars share inspiring stories from the heart of their ministry, Vows to Keep, describing a wife's relentless pursuit of a covenant marriage in the wake of her husband's infidelity – a poignant reminder of God's redemptive power.

    Whether it's rekindling a covenant love or taking the step to fully commit one's life to Christ, the transformative power of God's grace in marriage is a profound testament to the hope and love that blooms when we let God lead the way. Join us for an episode that reaffirms the power of faith to renew, restore, and revitalize our most cherished human connection.

    Find Scott and Katie LaPierre at:
    https://www.scottlapierre.org/
    Find David and Tracy Sellars at:
    https://www.vowstokeep.com/


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  • Have you ever stood, hand in hand with your partner, facing a gale that threatened to tear you apart? Angie and Matt Baughman did just that, weathering a storm of intense scrutiny that challenged to undermine their marriage. They, along with Ron and Halee Wood, join us this week on The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast to share their extraordinary journeys of faith, love, and unwavering commitment. Their stories are not just narratives; they are lifelines thrown into the tumultuous seas of marriage, offering hope and guidance for staying afloat during the roughest of tides.

    The Baughmans open their hearts to reveal a juncture in their lives that became a testament to the strength found in unity, a unity that only comes from following Christ. Matt's resolve to stand beside Angie in a battle that raked up past traumas transformed a moment of vulnerability into one of impenetrable solidarity. Ron and Halee, too, unfold layers of their relationship, renewing their vows annually and illustrating how shared grief and loss can become the bedrock for healing and transformation. Through their eyes, we see God's divine work at hand, knitting together the fabric of relationships into a masterpiece of resilience and restored hope.

    Our episode comes full circle as Ron and Halee revisit the essence of marriage vows and the traditions that breathe life into them. Their story, along with the Baughmans', is not just heard; it's felt. It's a testament to the power of a blessed marriage rooted deeply in faith. As you join us in celebrating Valentine's Day all month long, may your own vows echo back to you, not just as words once spoken, but as a living promise that grows and evolves, fortified by the grace of shared experiences and the relentless pursuit of a partnership driven by divine love.

    Find Angie at
    livesteadyon.com

    Find Ron & Halee at
    runtheracetogether.com

    Previous episodes:
    The Vision-Driven Marriage Episode #23 with Ron and Halee Wood
    https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/12876452

    The Vision-Driven Marriage Episode #27 with Angie Baughman https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/13052101

    Find Doug and Leslie at
    HeartCallMInistries.org

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    Theme music: Dead Winter
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  • When Anna McLaughlin humorously tossed her suitcase in frustration, little did she know it would unpack a journey of introspection and faith within her marriage. And when Rick and Nancy Kay Grace realized that they didn't want their marriage to be like that of their parents, they knew that they needed to invite Jesus to be at the head of their marriage. In this special episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we celebrate the month of Love with testimonies to God's redemptive love and restoration that only He can provide in marriage.

    This episode is a heartfelt testament to the transformative power of seeing marriage through a divine lens. Our guests peel back the layers of their relationships, sharing the raw and enlightening moments where spirituality and personal growth converge in their sacred unions. Expect to discover how self-reflection and honoring one another can lead to a robust, vision-driven marriage as our stories weave through the trials and triumphs of letting faith guide the marital course.

    Rick & Nancy Kay illuminates the episode with a revelation of how treating a spouse with the dignity they deserve can revolutionize a partnership. Rick and Nancy reveal the game-changing impact of recognizing one's wife as a daughter of the King, a narrative that reshaped their approach to marriage and invites listeners to reconsider their own. It's not just about love; it's about honor, respect, and the willingness to invite Jesus to preside over the relationship. Whether you're navigating early marital struggles or seeking to deepen an already strong bond, prepare to be inspired by the authentic experiences and divine wisdom that can turn the ordinary into something truly extraordinary.

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  • Have you ever witnessed a transformation so profound that it shifts your perspective on love and commitment? Coach Cristie's metamorphosis from a distrustful skeptic to a beacon of hope for faith-infused marriages is nothing short of miraculous. Alongside her, we explore the trenches and triumphs that come with nurturing a relationship under God's guidance. From navigating the echoes of parental divorce to making the bold move to a single-income family, Cristie's tale is a testament to the power of belief, mentorship, and divine intention in creating a resilient marital bond.

    Our conversation then turns to a topic that's close to many of our hearts: personal growth and its pivotal role in marital bliss. Cristie opens up about the wisdom gleaned from "The Empowered Wife" by Laura Doyle, particularly the six intimacy skills that revolutionized many relationships in her life.

    To cap off our heartfelt exchange, we share the charming "clean car story," a narrative that illustrates the subtle art of inspiring connection through positive expression. We celebrate the beauty of rediscovering the enchanting qualities in our spouses, emphasizing the power of appreciation to eclipse criticism. With Coach Cristie's infectious zeal lighting the way, we offer strategies and hope for those yearning to not only remain in their marriage but to flourish within it, rejoicing in the shared journey of self-improvement and rediscovery. Join us for an episode that promises to embolden your faith, encourage your heart, and put a little more sparkle in your marriage.

    Things We Mention:
    Tim Keller's book The Meaning of Marriage
    Laura Doyle's book The Empowered Wife
    Jerry Bridges's book Trusting God
    James Clear's book Atomic Habits

    Family Life's Weekend To Remember Marriage Retreat

    Where you can find Cristie Cerniglia:
    https://relationshipswithamap.org/
    Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipswithamap
    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/relationshipswithamap


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  • Have you ever wondered what it truly means to have a marriage that not only survives but thrives? Join us, your hosts Doug and Leslie Davis, as we share insights into the essential threads of spiritual and emotional maturity and their impact on building a resilient Christian marriage. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom where we dissect the transformative power of maturity on communication, vulnerability, and ultimately, marital unity.

    Imagine a relationship where challenges are met with grace, empathy, and a deep understanding of each other's emotional journeys. Throughout this episode, we navigate the complexities of expressing emotions in a partnership, especially for men who may wrestle with society's expectations. We offer you strategies to foster self-awareness and self-regulation, and we reveal how these emotional skills lay the groundwork for a stronger, more empathetic bond between spouses. Our dialogue dives into the direct correlation between the health of your emotional connection and the strength of your marriage.

    Concluding our heart-to-heart, we reflect on the beautiful synergy between spiritual and emotional maturity. It's an incredible journey to witness how shared spiritual values and goals can lead to a more profound sense of unity and growth, both individually and as a couple. We discuss practical steps towards embodying the fruits of the Spirit within your marriage, and how this spiritual pursuit can enrich your relationship and deepen your connection with God. Embark on this enlightening path with us and discover how a vision-driven marriage can transform your life.

    Mentions:
    Hidden Fruit by Robert Bass

    Episode #12 How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 1

    Episode #13 How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 2


    Amos 3:3

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