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This episode is an invitation to think outside of normative relationships and even potentially lead you to question what we've been taught about love, commitment, connection, and relationships
Polyamory and kink are often misunderstood or even stigmatized, but here’s the truth: the more we understand the spectrum of human desire, the more permission we give ourselves to date — and love — more authentically.
EPISODE TIMELINE
00:45 - Intro & expanding relationship perspectives03:30 - Eric's background as a relationship therapist05:20 - Demystifying kink and non-monogamy08:45 - Defining consensual non-monogamy11:30 - Understanding kink beyond stigma14:15 - Developing self-agency in relationships18:40 - Primary vs reactive emotions24:30 - Communication pitfalls and solutions29:15 - Navigating jealousy and insecurity36:20 - Steps for exploring non-monogamy42:00 - When partners disagree about non-monogamy47:30 - Exploring kink safely54:00 - Final advice: Interrogate your desiresIN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE
How to develop self-agency in relationships - the key to all relationship successThe crucial difference between primary and reactive emotions that transforms communicationWhy "interrogating yourself" is essential before exploring non-monogamy or kinkHow jealousy can become a pathway to growth rather than relationship destruction Essential resources for safe exploration of alternative relationship dynamicsRESOURCES MENTIONED:
Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue JohnsonPolysecure by Jessica FernThe Ethical Slut by Janet HardyCome As You Are by Emily NagoskiBad Sex by Nona Willis Aronowitz"It's through this self-interrogation that we learn about ourselves and then we can communicate that to others and then we suddenly are living a more satisfying life. I love this topic, again, not because I feel like the way of the future is kink or the way of the future is non-monogamy or polyamory, but because it is crucial in all of our lives, I believe, that we look into things that society might have said, no, don't look in this box or don't look in this box."
- Eric Fawcett
CONNECT WITH ERIC
Eric Fawcett is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in helping intimate partnerships effectively navigate concerns ranging from communication, to sexuality, to trust ruptures, and beyond. Before pursuing his MFT degree, Fawcett spent three decades as a recording artist, as a creative entrepreneur, and as a published writer and speaker addressing the relational joys and challenges of the collaborative process.
Fawcett has long believed that the training that relational therapists receive prepares them to work with people-systems far beyond couples and families. In his private practice — Attune Relational Wellness — Eric also works with organizations seeking to increase trust and cohesion among its members. Eric is an enthusiastically affirmative LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC ally and advocate, and welcomes clients regardless of faith tradition or socio-political viewpoint.
More about Eric at his private practice website: www.attunerelational.comSTAY CONNECTED WITH MADDEN:
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What truly is the difference between anxious masculine energy and grounded masculine energy? And how do they both appear in relationships while dating:
Madden sits down with Jen Briggs to explore the crucial differences between anxious and grounded masculine energy in dating. One type feels magnetic, intense, and immediate, while the other feels steady, intentional, and secure. They discuss how to spot the difference between these energies, what your attraction to each reveals about your own patterns, and practical ways to attract more grounded masculine energy into your dating life. From recognizing love bombing to trusting your body's wisdom, this episode offers eye-opening insights to help you date differently.
EPISODE TIMELINE
00:00 - Welcome and introduction to the topic of masculine energy03:42 - Introduction to guest Jen Briggs and her dating journey07:15 - Defining masculine vs. feminine energ11:30 - Why women often attract anxious masculine energy15:45 - Signs of love bombing vs. genuine interest21:10 - The importance of patience and clear communication25:30 - Trusting your body's signals and nervous system31:20 - How to attract grounded masculine energy35:40 - The power of vulnerability and being present38:25 - Final advice for breaking dating patternsIN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN
The fundamental differences between anxious and grounded masculine energyHow to recognize when someone is love bombing versus genuinely interestedWhy your body often knows about red flags before your mind catches upHow being present and patient can help attract healthier relationshipsThe importance of trusting your intuition even when your mind wants to rationalizeWhy vulnerability and taking down walls is essential for finding authentic connectionPractical ways to recalibrate your nervous system for healthier dating experiences"I don't need you because I'm whole, but I want you. That is very different than needing someone from a place of lack. A grounded masculine is going to be repelled by a woman who is coming from a place of 'I need this right now' versus 'I'm in my desire right now.'"
- Jen Briggs
CONNECT WITH JEN
Jen Briggs is a podcast host, real estate powerhouse, and a woman who believes in bringing your whole self to both business and love. On her podcast, The Whole Shebang, Jen holds real, unfiltered, and sometimes juicy conversations that help people reconnect with their authentic truth. After getting divorced six years ago at age 43, Jen has navigated the modern dating world as a single mother, exploring patterns in relationships and doing the inner work to attract healthier connections. Her personal journey of balancing masculine and feminine energies informs her insightful perspective on dating and relationships.
The Whole Shebang Podcast
Real Estate Done Right(ish) Podcast
Jen's Website: jenniferbriggs.com
Jen's Instagram: @jennifer.e.briggs
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Пропущенные эпизоды?
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What happens when ambitious, driven, independent women meet modern dating culture?
In this episode Madden sits down with Caprisha, a breakthrough advisor for purpose-driven women, to discuss the unique challenges high-achieving women face in dating and relationships. They explore what it really looks like to soften without shrinking, to receive without lowering your standards, and how powerful, independent women can rewrite the rules of love and partnership.
EPISODE TIMELINE
00:00 - Introduction and Madden's personal story03:54 - Current statistics on women's success and independence05:32 - Introduction to Caprisha and her work06:57 - How high achievement impacts dating08:55 - The misconception about complementary partners12:37 - The art of softening without shrinking14:42 - Balancing masculine and feminine energy16:35 - The surrender process that attracts the right partner19:20 - Balancing success and relationship21:08 - Practical steps to find your playful sideIN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN
The misconception about what type of partner truly complements a successful womanHow to shift from a checklist mentality to seeing the human behind potential partnersPractical ways to soften your approach to dating without compromising your successThe spiritual surrender process that magnetizes the right partnerWhy playfulness and "allowing yourself to suck" at things might be your most attractive qualityHow to balance professional achievements with relationship presence"Your biggest asset is your warmth, your softness, your fun, your playfulness. Those are the high-level skills in your relationship, not your doing and how much you're achieving." - Caprisha
CONNECT WITH CAPRISHA
Caprisha is a Breakthrough Advisor for purpose-driven women, guiding them to their leaned-back, prosperous Queen path. As the visionary voice behind Royal Remembrance, she shares her dynamic wisdom through eclectic courses, transformative programs, and intimate 1:1 experiences, helping women reclaim their feminine embodiment in business, life, and relationships. Blending ancient womb healing practices with practical strategy. Caprisha empowers women to refine their power and create embodied, timeless, and rich movements both online and in real life. She is the vibrant host of the Royal Remembrance Podcast, and her magnetic presence extends to her YouTube channel, Caprisha Richards, captivating an international audience of over 200,000 followers and supporters. With her grounding energy and effortless magnetism, Caprisha's insights have touched the hearts and minds of thousands worldwide.
Caprisha's Instagram: @caprivanaa
Royal Remembrance Podcast
RESOURCES USED FOR THIS EPISODE:
Women Outpacing Men in College
Pew Research Center: Young women earn more than men in several U.S. cities
Brookings Institute: The male college crisis
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If you’re tired of dating on repeat and wondering why you keep attracting the same type of partners, this episode is for you! Attachment styles play a major role in how we show up in relationships—how we connect, how we handle conflict, and even why we push people away (or cling too tightly).
Today, I’m joined by Tori McCabe, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in attachment and relational trauma. Together, we’re unpacking how your attachment style shapes your dating life and, most importantly, how you can start moving toward more secure, fulfilling relationships.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:
🩷 The four attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and how they play out in dating
🩷 Why we’re drawn to certain partners (and why it often leads to heartbreak)
🩷 How to stop repeating toxic relationship patterns
🩷Practical steps to move toward secure attachment, even if you’ve been anxiously or avoidantly attached for years
🩷 How to identify a partner who is emotionally available and aligned with what you need
🩷Can your attachment style change over time? (Spoiler: Yes!)
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Power of Attachment by Diane Poole Heller
CONNECT WITH TORI
You can connect with Tori's Practice HERE
STAY CONNECTED WITH MADDEN
My instagram: @maddenzappa
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Ever been ghosted? Left in the dark with no explanation? Waiting for answers that never come? You’re not alone. In this episode of We’re Dating the Same Guy, we’re diving deep into the painful reality of not getting closure—and how to move forward anyway.
💔 Why we crave closure and whether it actually helps us heal💡 The hard truth: Why some people will NEVER give you the answers you want
🛑 How waiting for closure keeps you stuck in the past
✨ The mindset shifts that help you create your own closure and move on for good
Madden shares her personal story of a relationship that ended with zero explanation, how she spent weeks obsessing over "what went wrong," and the game-changing realization that finally set her free. If you’re struggling to let go of someone who won’t give you the clarity you need, this episode will give you the tools to stop waiting—and start healing.
FAVORITE TAKEAWAYS:
✨ "What is meant for me will not pass me."✨ If they won’t choose you, you have to choose you.
✨ Closure isn’t about getting answers—it’s about making peace with what you already know.
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Welcome to the very first episode of We’re Dating the Same Guy—the podcast that dives deep into what’s really driving your love life. If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of men, facing the same relationship frustrations, and repeating the same cycles—this is the podcast for you.
WHAT TO EXPECT IN EPISODE 1:
🩷My personal wake-up call that made me realize I was dating the same guy over and over again
🩷The two biggest patterns I kept falling into (and maybe you’ll be able to relate)
🩷The psychology behind why we repeat dating cycles
🩷Most importantly, how to finally break free and start dating differently
It’s time to recognize the patterns, take back your power, and create the love life you actually want.
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Welcome to We’re Dating the Same Guy—the podcast that dives deep into what’s really driving your love life. If you've ever wondered why you keep dating the same guy... over... and over... and over again... then this is for you.
We begin APRIL 1.
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