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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Video No 50. Cuckoo Consultants.
By Jon Kenfield. Family Business Mediator. Solutionist.
• This video is unique amongst the 50 in this series in that it looks to an entirely external conflict generator that can act upon the family - as opposed to the other 49 causes, where the family does its own great job of creating its very own conflict.
• Cuckoo consultants come into family business environments, usually from a business background, sporting business-based credentials and perspectives. They create confusion and conflict by promoting perfectly appropriate business advice to the wrong people, in the wrong way.
• They sound sensible, logical and commercial, but their advice is completely unworkable.
• The problem lies in their ignorance of the unique requirements of family business - much as a cuckoo has no concern for the eggs it turfs out of a host nest to make space for its own egg.
• Cuckoos can be existing trusted advisers, keen to protect their clients from outside consultants (the flea wishes to own the dog); consultants from HR or “normal” business backgrounds who believe they have the required experience and skills; advisers who don’t know what they don’t know; or ones who just don’t care.
Solution
• Approach all adviser engagements as life or death projects - because they could be, for your family and for your business.
• Check every proposed adviser’s family business advisory credentials, including training, experience and, most importantly, real testimonials and referees.
• Don’t rely on accreditation alone. Real knowledge and experience, and demonstrable skills, are far more important.
• Meet them, ask questions and judge their answers.
• Importantly, as with all adviser engagements, assess them for the quality of the questions they ask you. Any adviser that proposes or recommends doing anything before they have a reasonable understanding of your needs is a salesperson, first and foremost. In all probability, that’s not the key skill you’re looking for.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Video No 49. Non - Family Conflict Causes.
By Jon Kenfield. Solutionist.
• Can non-family people create conflicts within the family business? You bet!
• Family Business are notorious for creating cliques (read your Shakespeare!): supporters for Mum vs Dad; for siblings against other siblings; for one generation against another; and for getting all family out of the business - so it can be run properly!
• Motivations may be pure, or not, and may be driven by the best interests of the business, or not. It depends.
• Most employees and advisers have their loyalties tested when family businesses reach certain tipping points, and something major has to happen. Employees, at all levels, are obliged to consider their own, and their families’ situations and futures, while advisers can be conflicted into supporting the person who pays their bills. Is that now, or longer term? Who knows?
Solution
• To prevent individuals getting behind family members and creating / broadening conflict, the family needs to be able to present a united front about where things are going, and with whom. This requires a Plan.
• The Plan needs to reassure everyone that the family’s focus is on the future of the business, not on who may lead the business.
• The family also needs to make clear to everyone that it doesn’t welcome partisan support for individuals against others.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict ... and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Video 48. Old Retainers.
By Jon Kenfield. Family Business Mediator.
• Old retainers area a common cause of conflict in family businesses where Mum or Dad has worked with “old Phyllis / Sam” since the early days and has made promises that “we’ll always look after you”. The new business leaders are being made to feel obliged to honour these promises.
• Problems:
o The old retainers are no longer adding much value to the business and,
o They’re always suspected of spying for Mum or Dad on their successors and,
o They can undermine modernisation attempts because “that’s not the way your father/mother would have done it”.
Solution
• Work out what, if any promises have actually been made, and the family’s appetite for dealing with the situation, now it’s been openly ventilated.
• Compare the old retainer’s competencies and contributions against objective HR requirements to get a proper baseline fix on the scale of the issue.
• Negotiate, or impose a more constructive employment arrangement, if possible and appropriate.
• Negotiate, or impose an exit plan, if appropriate.
• Whatever you do, ensure that the final solution is approved and supported by Dad or Mum.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict ... and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Video No 47. Emotional Trauma.
By Jon Kenfield. Solutionist & Family Business Mediator.
• Psychology is the science of understanding how people think, feel, behave and learn.
• I’m not a psychologist - other than at the “chicken soup” end of the scale - however, more than 20 years spent working with denizens of business families provides many opportunities to observe how people do actually think, feel, behave and learn - and the consequences for themselves, their families and friends, and the people they work with.
• Personal emotional trauma sits quite high amongst serious causes of conflict in those business families.
• Sometimes causes were accidental:- unforeseen and uncontrollable events, such as a home or car accidents.
• Sometimes economic or political - recession, depression, or war.
• Sometimes environmental - fire, flood, famine, drought, pestilence.
• Sometimes domestic - violent or abusive homes; absent, broken, inadequate or misguided parenting; lack of emotional intelligence or support.
• All causes create trauma. All trauma can lead to disruptive behaviours and dysfunctional relationships and, while these can be countenanced in a family they don’t go down well in business.
Solution
• The first and by far the most important response is: take courage and be honest. If a family member’s emotional trauma is causing bad behaviours, somebody has to own the problem and help to create a solution - the damaged individual almost certainly can’t do it alone.
• Don’t hide reality due to personal guilt, embarrassment, or excess of protectionism - that only reinforces bad behaviours and eventually leads to explosion or implosion.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict ... and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Audio No 46: Ethnic Issues & Cultural Norms.
By Jon Kenfield - Solutionist and Family Business Mediator.
• When a family’s culture is strong, it can exert powerful influences on personal expectations and behaviours - both in the family and in its business activities.
• Most ethnic cultures are based on historic traditions which, by definition, are anchored by the past: from another time, another place, and usually very different circumstances.
• These cultures may make little sense, and have limited appeal, to people who haven’t grown up immersed in them - which is the classic situation for first and second generation migrant families from a troubled Europe.
• We often see something similar with Asian families - when parents had a traditional upbringing, and their children have grown up in modern Australia.
• When “old-school”, ethnically influenced decision-making produces business decisions that are seriously out of step with modern (normal) commercial thinking - over anything from business leadership and family succession to business investment - cultural differences and generational tensions flare into catalysts for frictions which, left unresolved, lead to conflicts - with current and next generation family members, and non-family employees. The consequences can become very unpleasant.
Solution
• Respect differences: there’s nothing wrong here, just an inappropriate and probably unworkable mixing of family with business decision-making that’s failing to satisfy anyone, and everything.
• Separate family from business decision making.
• Create separate plans and rules for each.
• Establish separate structures and different processes - and remember which environment you’re in when making decisions.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict ... and how to deal with them.
Family Business Mediation Video 45 Lack of Talent in the Family.
• Business founders are often driven individuals. They may be motivated by creative drive, frustration in another job, identified opportunity, need to work, obligation to provide work for family members, or many other possibilities.
• Following generations are usually less driven, mainly because they have a less desperate need to make a business in the first place.
• As businesses grow and evolve, their needs change. They may require more advanced technical, commercial and management skills. Founders, and in-place leaders may develop these skills, or not. Their progeny may develop required skills, or not.
• As families grow through generations, the talent pool in the family may broaden, as business needs increase. When businesses grow strongly, families generally can’t keep up with their needs and have to recruit non-family specialists and professionals to help.
• Some families cling to the belief that some or all leading roles should be occupied by family members - despite this being objectively impractical. This can lead to wrong people in wrong positions in the position - an obvious cause of conflict. Solution
• Start with family values - what does the family actually want; what do individual members want? - to be happy, or to be working in the business?
• Do they work to live, or live to work? Is it a family first, or business first family?
• Once these questions have been worked out to everyone’s satisfaction, a Family Plan can be developed that works towards satisfying everyone’s desires.
• Part of the planning process involves assessing current resources, including personnel resources, and especially family member capabilities and intentions.
• If completed early enough, family members can be educated and trained towards appropriate future roles in the business, preferably from their childhood.
• The Family Plan should be synchronised with the Business Plan. The issue of family talent can then be made a structural discussion, rather than a personal one.
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50 Common Causes of Family Business Conflict ... and how to deal with them
Audio No 32: Business Succession & Continuity.
• This is the big one for conflict! Business leadership succession, and a perceived transfer of associated family leadership, can be enormously confronting, especially to leaders and driven entrepreneurs.
• The outgoing leader has reservations about stepping aside, while the incoming successor is in a hurry to take over.
• Succession should be a process over a long time, rather than an event. Tensions can rise.
• Outgoing leaders require financial security and releases from liability.
• Incoming successors need freedom to stamp their personalities on the business - this can be a dangerous time.
• Changes in staffing, including old retainers and advisers, are common, with a consequent loss of corporate knowledge and wisdom.
Solution:
• Create, negotiate and agree a business succession plan, over time, as part of the business strategy plan. Use an inclusive process to bring everyone on board.
• Communicate to all stakeholders throughout the succession process.
• Recognise the outgoing leader’s fear and encourage them to accept a sponsoring role throughout the process.
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Audio No 44. Retirement & Other Exits
• Generational transition - “Succession” - is THE major cause of conflict in business families. It always has been, and it’s on the rise as baby boomers retire in increasing numbers.
• “Retirement” means “to put out of use” and it’s a terrifying prospect, highly or formerly active individuals, especially competitive business people.
• Retirement needs to be a process, not an event, planned, managed and implemented over time.
• The tension between up and coming employees, next genners and in place leaders can become intolerable.
• Pressure from all sides - business and family - on a leader who’s not ready to step aside, for many reasons, creates confusion, etc.Solution
• Plan retirement well in advance to ensure there is a specific retirement date in everybody’s mind and that the outgoing leader is ready, willing and eager to move out, back or aside when the time comes.
• If, as frequently happens these days, the leader does not want to stop working now, or anytime soon, work with them to plan as much involvement in the business as everybody wants, for as long as everyone is willing.
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Audio No 43. Poor Business Performance.
• Business performance, or more likely lack of, is a common cause of conflict.
• Some family members employed in the business may be underperforming, or sabotaging the efforts of siblings, resulting in poor business performance.
• Another cause of conflict is when employed family members continue to draw salaries, while non-working family members receive no benefits when profits are low.
• Suspicions can flare amongst passive shareholders that the books are being manipulated, despite knowing almost nothing about the business, when there’s a sense of entitlement to certain benefits.
• Ultimately, poor business performance can be used to heap blame on siblings / family members, justifiably, or otherwise.Solution
• Call a family meeting and have the results of the business explained by a non-family, or external, accountant.
• Get the accounts audited (last resort, unless the business is large & the conflict is serious).
• Provide regular performance reports to upgrade knowledge, explain business issues & manage.
• Explore and mediate the underlying cause of conflict -
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Audio No 42. Family Values.
• Values are what drive us to do what we do, the way we do it.
• Family values are the values honoured and shared by a family, and taken into their business.
• Even highly conflicted families usually agree on most of their important values. This often helps to re-humanise everyone in family mediations - they’re actually all about the same things.
• When values are in conflict people are in conflict. It means they’re not on the same page, and are unlikely to get there if the differences are fundamental.Solution
• Values differences are almost impossible to reconcile because people are being driven by fundamentally different things.
• If they’re working together in a family business, unless differences can be reconciled through skilled mediation, the best thing is probably separation - to preserve the family by avoiding making the business a battleground.
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Audio No 41: The Next Generation.
• The classic definition of a family business is one that substantially involves at least 2 family members as owners and operators.
• Family businesses tend to take themselves more seriously, the more generations of family they have in their pedigree.
• Almost every family business dates the beginning of recorded history from the commencement of their family business.
• Most families are, or can easily be, motivated by the idea of their business passing through to future generations.
• The prime cause lies in different personalities, education, and socio-economic upbringing.
• It’s nobody’s fault, but it can cause major conflict when the next generation doesn’t display the characteristics the older generation demands.Solution
• Engage the next generation as early as possible in the ethos and operations of the family’s business - vacation work etc.
• Build next generation teams - investment, philanthropy and environment groups - & teach business fundamentals - meetings, research, problem solving, decision making, leadership & teamwork.
• No cloning - the next generation will stand on your shoulders.
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Audio No 40. Buying & Selling Interests In The Business
• Conflict occurs when family members feel locked into holding ownership in a family business against their wishes - they would prefer to sell / exit - and there’s no agreed mechanism for doing so.
• Conflicts also occur when family members can’t stitch up acceptable deals for trading their respective interests in the business.
• Conflict arises when some family members regard themselves as owners, and want to act as such, while others see themselves as stewards, and want to act as such.Solution
• Does the family have a mechanism for buying and selling interests in the family business? Possible? Partly possible? Acceptable?
• If not, and it could happen, develop a formula and process when things are calm. Put it into a shareholder agreement, family constitution etc.
• Is it workable at this point in time Eg: money available, value & valuation formulas etc.
• Hold a Family meeting to discuss individual needs re ownership of the business.
• Negotiate / develop an acceptable basis for a deal (use a mediator if necessary).
• Do the deal, or agree to at a pre-determined time in the future.
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Audio No 39: Ownership Vs Stewardship
• Ownership entitles business owners to do whatever they like with the business.
• Ownership is here and now / short term, selfish thinking.
• Stewardship requires owners to hold and improve the business for the sake of current and future generations.
• Stewardship has a long term, altruistic focus.
• Conflict arises when some family members regard themselves as owners, and want to act as such, while others see themselves as stewards, and want to act as such.Solution
• Hold a Family meeting.
• Explain the difference between Owners and Stewards and ask everyone to identify which camp they’re in.
• Develop a long term Family Plan, including intentions for the business, based on above decisions.
• Defuse conflict by recognising the different focus and responding to whichever is chosen for the family.
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Audio No 38: Sibling Rivalry.• Often caused by family circumstances and parenting styles, exacerbated by distractions of family business.
• Perceived or actual parental favouritism.
• Differences in temperament and personality.
• Jealousy over parental love.
• Parental modelling of conflict styles - normalising / reinforcing aggression and lack of conflict resolution skills
- parents ignore conflict and teasing.
• Viewing the sibling as a competitor rather than a collaborator.
• Protection of weaker family members - bird with broken wing.
• Preferring and advancing one child over the other in business.Solution
• Psychometric testing - science of personality differences.
• Establish objective and commercial objectivity in the business - performance, merit and contribution, rather than bloodline.
• Separate business support (performance-based) from family support (personal needs based).
• Have family members supervised and mentored by non-family staff / directors etc.
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Audio No 37: Lack of Agreed Policies & Procedures
• Business families are even more complicated than ordinary families - because they combine family with business.
• All complex organisms and organisations require clarity and certainty about what is to be done, and how to do it. This avoids the confusion and conflict.
• Family policies give shape and understanding to the family’s past, present and future actions.
• Business policies increase operational efficiency, and help to inject commercial objectivity.
• Lack of policies = lack of discipline > potential for conflict when needs and interests clash.
Solution:
• Take the time to identify areas of conflict, or potential conflict, in the family and/or in the business.
• Use the relevant issues as a focus for discussion about developing a policy for dealing with the issue - family benefits.
• The process of collaboratively developing a policy allows festering issues to be flushed, so they can be dealt with, resolved, and avoided in the future.
• Conflict can often be defused by validation and recognition.
• If compensation is appropriate / required, make it a sensible negotiation.
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Audio No 36: Personal Financial Security• Financial security tends to become a more serious issue as people get older and have less capacity to adapt and overcome financial challenges.
• Fear is always a major motivator and financial security, or the lack of it, is an easy thing to get bent out of shape over.
• Ages and stages: as older family members start looking towards retirement, or at least lower income generating capacity, they become more concerned about preserving money and transferring it out of the business into personal savings, or alternative investments.
• Meanwhile, younger family members have much longer time horizons, and more immediate funding needs.
• Owners cannot responsibly hand over the keys of the kingdom until they feel safe and secure.
Solution:
• Recognise and respect that “personal arrangements” can conflict with “business arrangements” when immediate needs clash with longer timeframes.
• Develop and agree a financial plan for outgoing family members that eliminates business liabilities.
• Consider vendor terms purchase arrangements for business interests if there are no other options.
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Audio No 35: Discipline (lack of).
• Discipline: (a) Internal = self-control and self-regulation; (b) External = system of controls + enforcement measures + consequences for non-compliance.
• Lack of discipline = lack of accountability.
• Extreme situations, threats that threaten the family and the business.
• The concept of discipline is often ignored or dismissed in a mature family context, as family conflict experts, we constantly deal with the results of poor family discipline that’s been transferred into a family business.
• In essence, internal and external discipline are designed to ensure good and appropriate behaviours in relevant environments.
• Personality differences mean that:
o Some family members stick by the rules, while others don’t, conflict.
o Some family members are self-disciplined in the absence of rules, while others are not, conflict.
• When Parents provide unequal / unbalanced support for different children, conflict.
Solution:
• Discuss and agree behavioural expectations and rules, as a family.
• Use an experienced adviser to facilitate the process.
• Transfer outcomes into the business.
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Audio No 34: Family Dysfunction.
• Family Dysfunction: A dysfunctional family is a family in which conflict, misbehaviour, and often child neglect or abuse on the part of individual parents, occur continuously and regularly.
• Family dysfunction occurs when the family system is broken. There’s a high chance of conflict developing if the dysfunction is allowed to spill beyond personal disruption into the wider family and/or into the family’s business activities.
• Systems need to be self-organising to ensure survival.
• In families, excuses and accommodations are often made, which unbalance the system because more resources
(financial / emotional etc) are sent in one direction - which causes greater unbalance, conflict and dysfunction.
Solution:
• Identify signs of dysfunction and respond promptly and decisively, in both family and business. The signs are usually products of lengthy states of being - so they won’t be fixed quickly, or through inexpert attention.
• Engage independent / external / expert resources to help.
“We cannot solve great problems at the same level of thinking that created them” - Einstein.
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Audio No 33: Family Succession & Continuity.
• This is a big one for conflict! Family succession and associated control of family wealth can be even more confronting than taking over control of the business.
• Loss of family leadership can feel like a loss of relevance and identity.
• Owner has reservations stepping aside, successor is in a hurry to step up.
• Succession should be a process over long time. Plenty of opportunity for tensions to rise.
• Outgoing leaders require financial security, and releases from liabilities. Need to be confident before handing over responsibility for future family stewardship.
• Incoming successors need freedom to stamp their personalities on the family after the changing of the guard.
Solution:
• Create, negotiate and agree a succession plan, over time, through an inclusive process that takes everyone on the same journey.
• Agree attitudes towards Stewardship and Legacy and formalise objectives, expectations and processes.
• Communicate, communicate, communicate to all stakeholders throughout the succession process.
• Recognise the outgoing’s fear of the abyss & respect its reality.
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Audio No 31: Decision Making: Family & Business.• Many business families, even large and sophisticated ones, don’t have any coherent form of problem solving or decision making process. Up to a point, decisions can be made autocratically, without concern for scrutiny or opposition. Beyond a tipping point, this no longer works, and family members, and/or employees, object to decisions being made without their input, or insist on decisions being made with their input.
• This is often seen as a challenge. It may be accepted willingly, opposed violently, or anything in between.
• Strategic decisions are big decisions that may have a major impact on the family and or the business.
• Big decisions cannot safely be made without adequate information, due consideration and appropriate consultation.
Solution:
• As a family or business group, develop and commit to a formal problem solving and decision making process, appropriate to circumstances.
• Practice using the process on small matters before putting it to the test on important, strategic issues.
• Document decisions made according to due process for a Board, Family Council, etc.
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