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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring?
    10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?!
    23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The Asshole For Disliking This?
    33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend’s Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently?
    46:03 - Q5: I’ve Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help!


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  • At the heart of so many relationship questions we've received—and relationships in general—is a common thread: EMPATHY. This "healing force", as our esteemed guest calls it, has the power to not only heal our relationships with others, but with ourselves. So why do so few of us understand its powers?

    Today we're honored to be joined by THE foremost expert on empathy, Dr. Judith Orloff, dubbed “the godmother of the empath movement.” Dr. Orloff is a board-certified psychiatrist and the New York Times best-selling author of several books, including 2017's landmark "The Empath’s Survival Guide" and her latest, "The Genius of Empathy: Practical Skills to Heal Your Sensitive Self, Your Relationships, and the World". Today she helps dispel the misconceptions around empathy, demonstrates how to draw healthy boundaries, and explains the transformative, healing power of SELF-empathy. She explains why it's OK that your partner isn't the same empathy "type" as you, whether or not you can have too much empathy, and how to approach someone whose beliefs you fundamentally disagree with. Today's conversation is the warm hug you needed and will hopefully inspire healing in your more complicated relationships, especially the one you have with yourself.


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To The Legendary Dr. Judith Orloff!
    3:41 - What Is Empathy & Empathy Vs Compassion
    5:10 - What Are Her Thoughts On The Term “Empath” Becoming Mainstream?
    6:52 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Empathy
    10:32 - Drawing Boundaries
    16:19 - Is Empathy Something We’re Born With? Nature Vs Nurture
    17:31 - Can One Really Become *More* Empathic?
    20:38 - The Empathy Types
    23:13 - Mismatched Empathy In Relationships
    29:19 - Tips For Self Empathy
    31:24 - How Can I Make Empathy Work In A Way That Isn’t Ultimately To My Disadvantage?
    34:04 - Is Self Awareness A Prerequisite to Self Empathy?
    34:54 - Tips For Avoiding Empathy-Deficient Types
    37:10 - When It Feels Like Someone Doesn’t Deserve Empathy
    39:19 - Empathy Vs Enablement
    43:29 - Is There Such A Thing As Too Much Empathy?
    45:12 - Sharleen’s Takeaways
    46:11 - Tips For Empathizing With Someone Whose Beliefs You Fundamentally Disagree With
    49:06 - Shandy Debrief


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  • Just 3 weeks after our Love Fest with Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist, the couple announced in a Good Morning America interview that, after only 3 months of marriage, they're getting divorced. Many of you wanted to hear our take on this bombshell news, particularly in the wake of such a recent Love Fest. So today, in a first-of-its-kind bonus episode, we're answering your burning questions Q&A style.


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    Referenced "bet" of Andy's:
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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    2:41 - How Shocked Is Shandy?
    6:46 - When Did You Record The Love Fest With Gerry & Theresa?
    7:29 - Was Dear Shandy The Source Of The Tea That They Were Living Apart?
    10:07 - Why Do You Think It Didn’t Work Out?
    16:20 - When Recording The Love Fest, Did You Sense Anything Was Off?
    20:28 - Do You Think They Were Honest On Your Love Fest?
    20:39 - Did ABC Push Them To Come On Dear Shandy?
    21:20 - Is There A Dear Shandy Love Fest Curse?
    26:07 - Did Andy Bet Money On How Long They Would Last?
    27:00 - Do You Think 3 Months Was Enough To Determine It Wouldn’t Work?
    27:10 - If You Two Met At Gerry & Theresa’s Age And Lived Far Apart, What Would You Have Done?
    29:00 - Does This Make You Love The Golden Bachelor Less?
    29:44 - Do You Think Gerry Will Get Back Together With Leslie?
    30:25 - Should Golden Bachelor Follow A Love Is Blind Format And Cast People From The Same City?
    31:06 - Should The Franchise Scrap Golden Bachelorette?
    32:27 - Why Do You Think They Did The Televised Wedding & Do You Think Production Feels Guilty?
    34:37 - Bonus Question 
    35:03 - Closing Thoughts


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  • She's baaaack! For the first time ever, and by popular request, we've brought BACK a Hot Topic guest to pick up where we left off! Our first episode with Maria Avgitidis—4th generation matchmaker and host of the Ask A Matchmaker podcast—was such a hit that you asked for more! In case you missed our Confessions Of A Matchmaker episode with Maria, aka Part 1, it's here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-shandy/id1525795747?i=1000597672805


    Today Maria returns to answer follow up questions from Part 1, but also to give us her tough-love and honest take on the rules of dating. Sharpen your pencils, Shandies, because Dating School is in session! How is swipe culture affecting dating today? What's Maria's 12-Date Method, and her Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep? Who pays on the first date, and does she believe in living together before getting engaged? Finally, what is Maria's "controversial" opinion, and will Shandy agree or disagree? As always, Maria's brutal honesty is a breath of fresh air and Shandy's delighted to welcome her back!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome BACK To Matchmaker Maria!
    2:41 - How Does She Define Her 93% Success Rate?
    8:49 - What’s The Most Awkward Conversation She’s Had To Have With A Client?
    11:38 - Decisions Paying Clients Make That Frustrate Her
    16:21 - What Would She Say To People Who Think Her Matchmaking Fees Are Too High?
    24:46 - How Swipe Culture Affects The World Of Matchmaking
    29:01 - The 12-Date Rule
    40:30 - Pre-Date 3-2-1 Prep
    47:44 - Who Pays On The First Date?
    52:29 - Maria’s Controversial Opinion
    56:30 - What If Someone Never Gets Asked On A Second Date?
    59:39 - Living Together Before Getting Engaged
    1:09:01 - Moving For Love & “Importing”
    1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief


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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough?
    7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag?
    21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don’t Know How To Escalate Things—Help!
    42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help!
    53:08 - Q5: Am I The Asshole, Board Game Edition

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  • It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a couple whose love story they are very familiar with, as Charity's season was hotly recapped here at Dear Shandy! The world fell in love with Charity & Dotun's relationship, and Shandy is thrilled to have them join for what can truly be described as a double date!
    Today Charity and Dotun give the juiciest, most satisfying and SPECIFIC answers about their first impressions, common misconceptions, beliefs that have changed, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a hilariously exhausting Newlyweds Game, exhausting because too much fun was being had! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Charity & Dotun!
    4:20 - Is Shandy Together?
    5:23 - First Impressions
    20:20 - How They Complement Each Other
    23:10 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves
    31:50 - Early Hurdle
    35:59 - How They Fight
    42:25 - Most Common Misconception
    49:49 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
    55:33 - The Newlyweds Game
    1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:39 - Finale Kick Off
    3:07 - Joey’s Family
    10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date
    17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date
    22:15 - Proposal Day
    24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey
    28:18 - The Breakup
    35:27 - The Proposal
    37:14 - After The Final Rose
    42:07 - Bachelorette
    51:10 - Andy’s A-Game
    52:12 - Shandy Word Watch
    53:32 - Night One Predictions
    54:58 - Special Introduction


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  • It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by none other than the Golden Bachelor himself, Gerry Turner, and his blushing bride, Theresa Nist! The world stopped to watch these two fall in love late last year, then again when they tied the knot on live television in January, and Shandy is beyond thrilled to host this exclusive post-wedding interview! (Psst: turns out Theresa is a Shandy!!!)


    Today Gerry and Theresa describe how they complement each other, their love languages, what their early hurdle has been (spoiler alert: it's ongoing!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a delightful Newlyweds Game revealing many fun tidbits about this beautiful couple! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Gerry & Theresa!
    2:34 - First Impressions 
    6:32 - Three Adjectives
    8:13 - How They Complement Each Other
    13:00 - Gerry Becoming Golden Bachelor
    15:29 - Love Languages
    16:46 - Early Hurdle
    22:24 - How They Fight
    25:27 - Common Misconceptions
    28:01 - Beliefs That Have Changed
    30:29 - Love Advice
    32:17 - The Newlyweds Game
    44:14 - Shandy Debrief


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10, aka Women Tell All!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:30 - Women Tell All Kick Off
    4:17 - The Hashing Out Of Drama
    12:11 - Lexi Hot Seat
    12:55 - Jenn Hot Seat
    16:39 - Maria Hot Seat
    24:23 - Tulum/Last Week’s “Cliffhanger”
    29:59 - Rose Ceremony
    31:17 - Rachel Hot Seat
    35:32 - Joey Hot Seat
    36:16 - Bloopers
    39:32 - Previews
    40:05 - Shandy Predictions


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  • By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the Reunion!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping + Surprise For Andy
    1:33 - Overall Thoughts
    6:13 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed
    7:56 - Amy & Johnny
    9:25 - Jeramey, Sarah Ann & Laura
    19:11 - Trevor
    25:04 - AD & Clay
    31:52 - Highlights
    36:36 - Jessica & Jimmy
    40:05 - Megan Fox
    43:31 - Chelsea
    45:39 - Brittany & Kenneth
    48:26 - Matthew
    50:13 - Chelsea & Kwame
    50:56 - The End


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off
    2:31 - Rachel
    8:38 - Kelsey
    15:13 - Daisy
    23:56 - Cliffhanger
    30:39 - Andy’s A-Game
    32:00 - Shandy Word Watch
    35:20 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the finale, episode 12!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:42 - Chelsea & Jimmy
    16:53 - Bachelorette Party
    18:24 - AD & Clay
    42:55 - Amy & Johnny
    47:07 - Ending Moments & Thoughts


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometowns!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    4:13 - Kelsey’s Hometown
    14:20 - Rachel’s Hometown
    28:14 - Daisy’s Hometown
    36:20 - Maria’s Hometown
    48:34 - Rose Ceremony
    52:53 - Andy’s A-Game
    53:19 - Shandy Word Watch
    55:00 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the third Netflix release, episodes 10 and 11!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:59 - Amy & Johnny
    6:22 - AD & Clay
    17:30 - Laura & Jeramey
    24:50 - Sarah Anne
    33:01 - Chelsea & Jimmy
    53:43 - Jessica
    57:46 - Trevor
    59:33 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:39 - Episode 7 Kick Off
    4:00 - Daisy’s 1-On-1
    8:19 - Evening
    12:02 - The Final Group Date
    15:06 - Evening
    24:30 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1
    26:33 - Evening
    31:59 - Rose Ceremony
    33:56 - Andy’s A-Game
    35:46 - Shandy Word Watch
    38:51 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the second Netflix release, episodes 7-9!


    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:32 - Amy & Johnny
    6:56 - Brittany & Kenneth
    22:28 - AD & Clay
    35:55 - Chelsea & Jimmy
    48:59 - Jessica
    51:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d
    54:08 - Laura & Jeramey
    1:05:48 - Who We Would Go For


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  • Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:46 - Episode 6 Kick Off
    4:56 - Group Date
    9:46 - Evening
    24:19 - Kelsey T’s 1-On-1
    27:21 - Evening
    29:37 - Maria’s 1-On-1
    32:55 - Evening
    34:34 - Lexi
    36:54 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
    43:50 - Rose Ceremony
    47:45 - Andy’s A-Game
    49:27 - Shandy Word Watch
    52:22 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 2 of 2!

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy
    11:14 - Jessica & Jimmy
    15:33 - Chelsea & Trevor
    18:15 - Post-Fight & Breakups
    22:49 - Chelsea & Jimmy, cont’d 
    27:58 - Beach Party
    33:01 - After The Party
    37:14 - Who We Would Go For


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  • Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 1 of 2!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:00 - Matthew
    4:36 - Amy & Johnny
    8:30 - Brittany & Kenneth
    19:33 - AD & Clay
    34:02 - Sarah Ann & Jeramey
    40:21 - Laura & Jeramey


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  • It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Bachelor Nation's latest power couple, Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell! These happen to be two "villains" Shandy never believed were villains in the first place, and it was so fun to finally hang out IRT to hear behind-the-scenes tidbits and learn about their relationship dynamic!

    Today Brayden and Christina share their thoughts on true "contentment", how they overcame their early hurdles, and of course, how they fight! We're also treated to an exclusive Brayden-and-Andy freestyle rap and beatbox performance! Finally, a hilariously chaotic Newlyweds Game you do NOT want to miss! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Brayden & Christina!
    3:01 - Did Being “Villains” Help Bond Them?
    6:27 - The Beginning
    9:02 - Brayden’s Near-Death Experience & Subsequent Realizations
    16:31 - Contentment & Brayden On His Season
    22:12 - How They Complement Each Other
    26:35 - How They Fight
    37:29 - How Brayden Is So Zen
    42:04 - Early Hurdle
    49:46 - Common Misconceptions About Their Relationship
    52:23 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since Finding Each Other
    54:51 - The Newlyweds Game
    1:12:21 - Brayden Freestyles While Andy Beatboxes!!!!!!!!!!!!
    1:16:18 - Shandy Debrief


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