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Imagine spending years in graduate school, racking up thousands of hours in supervision, investing in continuing education—only to find out that companies are now hiring unqualified mental health coaches instead of licensed therapists… for a fraction of the pay. Sound unfair? It is. And it’s happening right now. Let’s talk about what this means for our profession and what we can do about it.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive into a jaw-dropping trend that’s reshaping the mental health industry: the rise of mental health coaching as a cheaper alternative to therapy. With big corporations jumping on this bandwagon, therapists everywhere need to be paying attention.
We’ll cover:
- What mental health coaching really is (and what it isn’t)
- How corporations are replacing therapists with under-qualified “coaches”
- Why this shift is dangerous for clients and for our profession
- What therapists can do to protect their careers and reclaim this spaceTimestamps:
00:00 - Wait, What?! Big Companies Are Hiring Coaches Instead of Therapists?!
01:34 - The Rise of Mental Health Coaches
02:52 - The Future of Mental Health Care
05:39 - The Differences Between Therapy and Mental Health Coaching
11:40 - How This Impacts Therapists, Your Career, and Your Growth
13:10 - What We Can Do To Fight Back (And Why We Must!)
18:11 - Coaching Certification for Therapists and ResourcesI know this is frustrating. You’ve worked hard to build your skills, develop your expertise, and serve your clients with integrity. It’s infuriating to see big companies sidestep ethical, evidence-based care in favor of cost-cutting alternatives. But here’s the good news: we are not powerless. The more we educate ourselves and take action, the more we can shape the future of our field.
If you’re wondering how you can ethically integrate coaching into your practice (without crossing ethical lines or diminishing your value), check out my free masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. In this training, I break down exactly how therapists can use coaching as a powerful, evidence-based tool for non-clinical clients—helping you expand your impact, attract dream clients, and stay aligned with best practices.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing community of therapists who are standing up for our profession.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.comP.S. I encourage you to share this episode with your fellow therapists. The more we talk about this issue, the more awareness we create!
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Ever had that gut-wrenching moment when a client looks you in the eye and says, "Therapy isn’t working for me"? It's like a punch to the professional solar plexus, right? I get it. When therapy stalls, it can trigger our self-doubt and imposter syndrome. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a failure—it’s a turning point.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive deep into navigating these challenging conversations and turning them into opportunities for growth—for both you and your client.
Together, we’ll explore why clients sometimes feel stuck, how to assess what’s really going on, and most importantly—what you can do to re-engage them in the process. Because let’s be real: simply throwing another CBT worksheet at them and hoping for the best isn’t the answer (been there, done that).
Timestamps:
00:00 – The Dreaded Client Confession: "I don't think this is working."
01:43 – Reflecting on your therapeutic approach.
07:42 – The Eclectic Conundrum: When having too many tools leads to confusion.
12:00 – Roadmaps Over Randomness: Establishing a clear theory of change.
15:14 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Bridging the gap for non-clinical clients.
21:57 – Action Steps: Practical tips to enhance your practice.
29:58 – Resources for thriving as a therapist
Therapy is an evolving process—for our clients and for us. If a client isn’t making progress, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad therapist. It means there’s an opportunity to fine-tune your approach, clarify expectations, or expand your skill set.
In many cases, therapists are using a therapy model for clients who would actually benefit from coaching psychology. If someone is struggling with general life satisfaction, career transitions, or goal-setting—but doesn’t meet diagnostic criteria for a mental health condition—traditional therapy might not be what they need. Instead, a structured coaching approach can help them develop clarity, motivation, and action-oriented change.
Coaching psychology is a real, evidence-based approach that therapists can (and should) be trained in. If you’re curious about strengthening your ability to work with coaching clients—or just want to feel more confident when a client is struggling—check out my Therapist’s Guide to Coaching Masterclass. It’s free, packed with insights, and a game-changer for therapists in private practice.
Don't let these moments shake your confidence. Instead, let's use them as catalysts for professional evolution. If this episode was helpful for you, check out my other podcast episodes for therapists and connect with me on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing tidbits of info over there. I’d love to hear from you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Pass this episode along to a colleague or friend who could use this advice today. Let’s help each other grow.
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Therapists, we need to have a real conversation about insurance fraud.
I know, I know. You’re probably thinking, "Lisa, I would NEVER do that!" But hear me out… many private practice therapists are accidentally stepping over the ethical line when billing insurance. And it’s way more common than we like to admit.
In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the unspoken truth about therapist insurance fraud—why it happens, the systemic pressures that push therapists into ethical gray areas, and most importantly, what you can do to stay on the right side of it (without losing clients or revenue).
Timestamps:
00:00 - The Hidden Issue of Insurance Fraud in Therapy
02:29 - The Dilemma of Non-Clinical Clients
05:35 - The Problem with Fudging Diagnoses
06:25 - The Impact on Couples Therapy
15:46 - The Ethical Stand Against Pathologizing
17:58 - The Solution: Coaching Psychology
22:24 - The Benefits of Becoming a Board Certified Coach
26:47 - Free Resources for Therapists
If this conversation has you rethinking how you structure your practice, I’m here to help with a solution! Many therapists feel stuck in the insurance model, wrestling with ethical gray areas just to make things work. But here’s the truth: there’s a better way.
Therapists who implement a coaching model into their practice not only avoid the ethical dilemma of insurance fraud, but also end up working with highly-motivated, growth-oriented clients and thriving personally, professionally, and financially. It’s a huge win all around.
If you’re a therapist who’s curious about coaching and how it can transform your practice, check out my free Masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. It’s designed to help you confidently integrate coaching into your work, attract and serve motivated clients (who don’t need a mental health diagnosis), and run a profitable, sustainable practice without being tied to restrictive insurance policies. If you want to build a practice that aligns with your values, this is for you.
Also, check out my other LHS For Therapists podcast episodes for more therapist-focused professional development content. Every week I share my insights, research, and interviews with experts in our field so you can thrive as a therapist. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn! It’s a great way to build community and support for yourself as a therapist. I'd love to hear from you!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a fellow therapist—this is a conversation we all need to be having.
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Therapists, have you ever sat across from a client and thought, “Am I really equipped to help with this?” Maybe you’re nodding and empathizing on the outside while mentally Googling a treatment strategy or a diagnosis after they leave. If so, you’re not alone. I’ve been there!
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving into one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for therapists: understanding your scope of competence. We’ll talk about how to recognize when you’re stretching beyond your expertise, why it matters for you and your clients, and how to confidently navigate those gray areas we all face.
Timestamps:
0:00 - The “Am I Winging It?” Moment Every Therapist Faces 1:46 - Why Saying No Can Be the Best Gift You Give Your Clients 5:22 - Developing a Clear Roadmap 10:12 - Handling Client Evolution 17:44 - Warning Signs of Overstepping Boundaries 29:16 - How to Build a Dream Team Referral Network 35:05 - Why Self-Reflection Is Your #1 Tool for Staying Ethical and EffectiveUnderstanding your scope of competence as a therapist can be tricky. Therapists like you do incredible work. But let’s be honest—it’s hard to navigate sometimes! That’s why I created this podcast and my weekly For Therapists newsletter. I’m here to support you, just like you support your clients.
In my weekly newsletter, I gather advice from my interviews with industry experts, the latest research on therapeutic modalities, and strategies for personal and professional growth to help you be the best therapist you can be—without burning out in the process.
If you’d like that steady stream of professional insights, free resources, and a little extra emotional support, sign up for my newsletter here. It's such an honor for me to be able to support you all and the amazing work that you do with your clients. You give so much—let me give back to you.
I’d also love to connect with you on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing my thoughts and experiences and chatting with other therapists over there. It’s a great way to build community and support with people who get it. I hope I see you there!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If you enjoyed this episode, check out some of my others and share it with your professional community—because we all know a colleague who could use a little clarity in this area.
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Okay, therapists—let’s talk about something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared for: getting subpoenaed to testify in court. The moment that letter lands on your desk, the panic sets in—What can I say? What can’t I say? How do I protect my client’s confidentiality while also following the law? And of course, the biggest worry of all: What if I mess this up?
Breathe. I’m here to help! I brought in family law expert Rich Harris—an attorney who knows this world inside and out—to break it all down for you. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you get served with a subpoena, how to avoid big legal mistakes, and steps to safeguard yourself before this happens.
Don't wait until you're in the hot seat—listen now so you can be prepared, protected, and empowered.
Timestamps:
00:00 Getting Subpoenaed is So Stressful!
00:42 Meet Our Legal Expert: Rich Harris
02:05 Your First Steps After Receiving a Subpoena
03:22 Do You Really Have to Testify? Here’s the Truth
08:07 How to Protect Client Confidentiality Like a Pro
12:15 The #1 Mistake Therapists Make With Legal Cases
15:18 Subpoenas in Custody Cases—What You Need to Know
20:53 How to Challenge an Improper Subpoena
26:43 Scam Alert! The Dangerous Hoax Targeting Therapists
30:18 Court Testimony Tips: How to Stay Calm and Confident
34:21 What to Say (and Not Say) If You Have to Testify
41:52 Want to Become a Custody Evaluator? Here’s How!
47:16 Legal ResourcesI hope this episode helped ease any legal anxiety you might have. If you’d like to learn more to feel more confident and protected in your practice, I’ve got you. Every week in my newsletter, I share real-world strategies, expert interviews, and practical tips to help you navigate the trickiest parts of being a therapist.
Plus, I dive deep into clinical best practices and business-savvy insights to help you thrive (not just survive) in this field. Sign up here and let’s make sure you have everything you need to grow, learn, and safeguard your practice while giving your clients your absolute best.
And hey—let’s stay connected on LinkedIn too! It’s a great space to stay in the loop, ask questions, and be part of a community of therapists who get it. Plus, you never know when that one post might save you from a professional headache down the road. Let’s connect —I’d love to see you in my network!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
P.S. Know a therapist who could use this info? Share this article with them! Because no one should have to face a subpoena panic attack alone.
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What if the key to helping your therapy clients with anxiety, depression, or ADHD might actually be sleep? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into the connection between sleep and mental health and the power of sleep therapy with the brilliant Dr. Michelle Okun, an expert in sleep psychology.
We break down the incredible science behind how sleep affects everything from mood and memory to stress and physical health—and how therapists like us can integrate sleep awareness into our practice to achieve better, faster outcomes for our clients.
Chapters:
00:00 - The Overlooked Importance of Sleep in Therapy
01:44 - Meet Dr. Michelle Okun: Sleep Psychology Expert
03:54 - The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health
07:59 - Understanding Sleep Disorders and Their Effects
12:48 - Clinical Practices for Assessing Sleep Issues
25:46 - The Role of Sleep Studies in Treatment
48:32 - Therapist Self-Care: The Importance of Sleep
53:00 - Enhancing Therapy Through Sleep Awareness
I learned so much from this episode. I hope you did too. If this was helpful for you, there's more where that came from! Each week I'm sharing critical info every modern therapist must know, and talking to thought leaders in our field. This is all for you! Sign up for my newsletter so you stay in the loop.
Also, let’s connect on LinkedIn! It’s a place where us therapists can come together to share insights, support one another, and learn actionable strategies to elevate your practice. I’d love to hear from you!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Share this episode with your professional community—it could be the advice one of your colleagues is looking for!
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Therapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery.
You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice!
Timestamps:
00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs
00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert
06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence
09:43: Coping as a therapist
18:29: Burnout Symptoms
25:45: Rest and Recovery
28:27: When to pivot professionally
30:27: The Power of Community
34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next
43:21: Your Identity Beyond WorkIf anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help.
I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive.
Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊
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You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great… but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value.
Why do amazing therapists struggle with therapy client engagement? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring.
In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters
00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists
01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion
03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You
11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals
15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity
23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully
28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition
31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups
34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice
38:17 More Resources to Support YouYour clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too!
In my free “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity.
👉 Join the Masterclass Now and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.
If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. 🌱
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. Connect with me on LinkedIn to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together.
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Ever felt like you’re missing that one tool in your therapy toolkit that could help your clients truly heal and reconnect with their best selves? Well, in today’s episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m chatting with Dr. Dick Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, about the power of IFS and how it can be a game-changer for your clients.
IFS is more than just a therapy model—it's a transformative approach that helps clients access their own core Self, heal their internal wounds, and lead their lives with compassion, confidence, and calm. It's about connecting with the different "parts" of our psyche and fostering self-leadership.
You’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of IFS and how it can benefit both your clients and your practice. Whether you’re just starting out or already familiar with IFS, this conversation is packed with wisdom, insights, and actionable steps that you can start applying right away.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS)
01:07 - Understanding the Core Concepts of IFS
06:03 - The Role of the Therapist in IFS
08:55 - Challenges and Insights in IFS Therapy
19:48 - Outcome Research and Broader Applications
25:12 - Legacy Burdens and Cultural Impact
29:14 - Resources and Training for Therapists
33:47 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
I learned so much from this episode, and I hope you did, too. My mission is to empower, inspire, and care for therapists like you by sharing meaningful conversations, evidence-based insights, and practical tools to help you thrive personally and professionally.
Let’s stay connected so I can keep you in the loop about new episodes, resources, and ideas that make a difference in your life. Sign up for my newsletter right here and join a community that’s all about lifting each other up. You give so much to others—it’s time someone’s here to support you.
Also, if you found this helpful, pass it along to your professional community—we’re all in this together. ❤️
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community! Join me here: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.
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Therapists, let’s get real—when was the last time you focused on YOUR goals? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m turning the spotlight on you. We’ll dive into the transformative power of therapist goal-setting—not just for your practice, but for designing a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly aligned with your values.
Here’s the deal: If you’ve been putting everyone else’s needs first (sound familiar?), it’s time to check in with yourself. Together, we’ll walk through a simple process to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and how to actually make it happen. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for avoiding burnout and reigniting your passion for the work you love. 💡
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: Focusing on Therapist Goals
01:27 - The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists
03:30 - Personal and Professional Inventory
04:56 - Emotional and Physical Well-being
07:49 - Continued Development and Support Systems
13:01 - Quality of Life and Work-Life Balance
14:45 - Professional Growth and Specialization
33:11 - Setting and Achieving Specific Goals
37:27 - Conclusion and Resources
If you’re ready to grow in your career, check out my Therapists’ Guide to Coaching 2-Part Training. You’ll get a step-by-step guide to clarifying your professional goals, detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach, and education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs to get you there. Adding coaching to your practice can be a game changer in achieving the success and satisfaction you’re looking for. I hope you check it out.
Love this kind of content? Hit the Subscribe button and share this episode with your professional community. Let’s help each other grow and thrive. 🌱
Happy New Year!
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Let’s connect! Join me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
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🔥 Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? 🔥
Hey there, fabulous therapists!
What if the very tools you trust to safeguard your therapy practice are secretly working against you? That’s the exact realization I came to one Saturday morning while reading my mental health EHR provider’s Terms of Service—coffee in one hand, highlighter in the other. What I uncovered left me shocked, angry, and determined to take action.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sharing my journey from that unsettling discovery to successfully migrating my practice to a trustworthy platform. I’ll expose the hidden dangers lurking in EHR agreements, including data exploitation, intellectual property grabs, and third-party mishaps, while giving you actionable tips to protect your practice.
Timestamps to Guide Your Journey:
00:00 Introduction: A Shocking Discovery
01:17 The Terms of Service Nightmare Begins
02:43 Uncovering the Exploitation
04:14 The EHR System’s Hidden Agendas
10:00 Taking Action: The Radical Steps
15:08 The Migration Challenge
18:24 Sharing the Experience
22:15 The Power of Collective Action
24:09 Practical Tips for Therapists
27:13 Conclusion and Resources
As I mentioned in this episode, this experience was just one of many (too many) that I've dealt with in recent years. Unfortunately there are a number of scams targeting therapists, and more than one of my colleagues has gotten duped by them. I share all the details plus the action plan I put in place to harden my practice in this email series: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists. I hope you access it to keep yourself and your practice safe!
🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more essential insights tailored for therapists. If you found this video helpful, share it with your professional community to help us all stay informed and empowered.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Want to connect more personally? Join me on LinkedIn and become part of an amazing community of therapists committed to thriving together. Let’s continue this conversation and grow stronger, together. 😊
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Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! 🤯
When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about.
In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. 💪
Chapters:
00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you?
02:55 When it happened to me: The full story
05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling
06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet)
15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper
18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies
22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities
24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confidentWeird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own.
If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions!
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Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it?
Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practice—or your clients, and that’s why we need to talk about this! Trust me, I’ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, I’ve seen it all. In this podcast, we’ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize you’re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.
From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, I’m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you don’t want to miss.
Timestamps
00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face
00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance
02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback
05:12 - Boundaries that are too loose—or too rigid
11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness
18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls
26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources
If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If you’d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether you’re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Let’s ensure you’re flourishing, not just surviving.
Don’t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional community—we’re all in this together.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
growingself.com
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Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! 🚨
Lots of therapists out there are adding “coach” to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You could… but should you?
In this episode, I’m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driver’s license—it’s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. 💥
I’ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: they’re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practice—ethically and professionally. 🌟
Time Stamps:
01:55 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences
05:34 – Why Certification Matters
07:53 – Blending Coaching with Therapy
09:35 – Choosing the Best Coaching Credential
13:37 – How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients
26:50 – Free Resources to Get Started
If you’re feeling inspired, I’ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapist’s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. You’ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs.
🔔 If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Let’s help each other grow!
💌 P.S. I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Let’s build something amazing together.
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Ever left a session feeling like you’ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist.
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you!
Together, we’ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career.
Chapters:
00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients
00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists
02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity
05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path
17:11: The Importance of Boundaries
19:39: Building a Support System
23:36: Balancing Your Caseload
26:45 Resources for Longevity
You give so much to others—it’s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, you’ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving.
If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community — we’re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Let’s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here!
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Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if you’re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential.
It’s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFI’s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your client’s lives… for better or for worse.
In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face.
Chapters:
00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators
01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights
03:23 The CFI Process Explained
11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings
18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists
24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs
34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements
34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness
35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs
39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System
41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety
44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems
45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse
56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change
Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge! P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Let’s build an amazing community—one connection at a time!
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Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU?
In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapists—things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice.
From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists
- 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam
- 03:32 The Fake Client Scam
- 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam
- 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam
- 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam
- 09:35 The Fake Training Scam
- 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam
- 12:35 The Simple Practice Con
- 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts
I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here.
Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Let’s look out for each other.
P.S. I’d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! I’d love to hear from you.
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Therapists, this one’s for you. We’re living in intense times, and it’s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when we’re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief?
And then there’s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? It’s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But it’s also an invitation—a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot.
In today’s episode, we’ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. We’ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But we’ll also dive deeper—into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally.
Here’s what we’ll cover:
1:07 – The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when we’re personally stretched thin?
5:28 – Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth.
9:53 – Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isn’t selfish—it’s essential.
12:41 – Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us.
16:05 – Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot?
21:47 – Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution.
You’re doing hard, meaningful work, and it’s okay—necessary, even—to acknowledge your limits. Let’s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing.
I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists.
If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. 💪
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Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles?
This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! I’m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegel—one of the world’s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, we’re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice.
Dr. Siegel’s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights that’ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do.
✨ Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover:
00:00 — Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever
00:24 — Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research
03:15 — Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development
04:30 — Yes, We’re Talking Enneagram in Therapy!
06:43 — Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiology—It’s a Thing
09:39 — Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today
11:08 — How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles
15:54 — Real-World Strategies to Transform Your PracticeIf you’re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you can’t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beat—and share this episode with other therapists who’d love these insights too.
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🛑 Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest — are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with “I should know this already” vibes? If you’ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to “put themselves first” 🤦♀️), this one’s for you.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, we’re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. 💥
Chapters:
🌀 The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout – Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: it’s not just about bubble baths).🧠 Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload – Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work.
📉 Signs You're Headed for Burnout – Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Let’s unpack what that means for you.
🎒 What "Doing the Work" Looks Like – Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship – we explore what might actually help you feel balanced.
🤝 Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. – Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth.
✨ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that it’s okay to not have it all together.
Stay connected with me on LinkedIn — let’s build a community that lifts each other up. 🌱 Click here to connect.
🎧 Don’t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now – because your well-being is just as important as your clients’.
xo,
Dr. Lisa
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