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There is research on marriages that work and marriages that don't. The ones that last and are joy-filled have this in common: They don't stay stagnant. The couple takes time to discuss the problems in their marriage. They take inventory of what needs help and what is going well. Amanda is here to help you do that! 2023 is the year of fantastic marriage/relationship growth.
Dyadic adjustment scale test: http://www.trieft.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/Dyadic-Adjustment-Scale.pdf
If you want to take action, I created a free goal planning download based on some basic questions about your sex life: https://www.amandaammons.com/pl/2147661053
Referenced In This Episode
The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work Book
The Marriage Clinic Book
Atomic Habits Book
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Growth sexually doesn't just happen. Time to take advantage of the new years goals and include your sexual life! Hear how I go over sexual goals from the previous year and set new ones! Here is to 2023 and more intimacy!
Mentioned in this episode:
Erin Condren Daily Duo 2023 Planner: click here
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Infertility can make sex a chore, can bring anxiety, and make marriage a real struggle! What is worse? It is often a cycle, where the anxiety impacts fertility...impacts anxiety.... and so on. So how do we break out of that! Research is really promising! This week learn how to lessen the impact of inferility on all areas of life and learn how infertility might just be what makes your marriage amazing.
Article on Emotional disorders, Marital adaption, and moderating the role of social support for couples under treatment for infertility
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More resources from Amanda AmmonsDesign Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
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Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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When doing the deep work is overwhelming, you have tried everything to stop your addiction, try these tips!
If you, or someone you know, has struggled with porn or erotica this episode is for you. How to support yourself when things feel overwhelming and porn is too tempting.
Mentioned in this episode:
Episode 55: How I Stopped Watching Porn
Book on Sleep
Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, and keep both books)
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More resources from Amanda AmmonsDesign Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
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Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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If you, or someone you know, has struggled with porn or erotica this episode is for you. How I stopped porn and owned my identity. A journey of ups and downs and relationships. It is real & raw & encouraging.
Mentioned in this episode:
Episode on Masturbation
Episode on Action Taking Steps For Sexual Addiction
My email: [email protected]
Encouraging account for finding porn
Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, and keep both books)
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More resources from Amanda AmmonsDesign Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
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Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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How to use your strengths to make your sex life stronger and easier instead of worrying over your weaknesses. How to use your partners strengths to make the perfect couple combo instead of being frustrated at growth areas.
Taking the Strengthsfinder 2.0 by Clifton test and applying it to my sex life.
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Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, and keep both books)
StrengthsFinder Book with Attached Access Code for the Official Test
Free online Strengths Quest Type Test (please note the validity of this test has not been shown, it is meant to be a replica of the above test)
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Design Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
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Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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What do you do when your spouse was abused sexually? How do you touch them? What do you say? How do you both heal?
Continuing from last week, Amanda answers a listener's question "How do I help my spouse heal from sexual abuse?" What do we do when we can't touch? How do I handle this part of our sex life.
Friends: you didn’t go through it but it doesn’t mean you can’t be angry or frustrated or sad or mourn the loss. It makes sense that helping them heal, and healing yourself, is difficult. Let's tackle it together.
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Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, and keep both books)
5 Love Languages Book
5 Love Languages quick quiz
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Design Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
-----------------------------------
Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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Sexual abuse is real and needs to be handled gently. Join Amanda this week as she talks about how to handle abuse through validating the pain and emotions. Instead of forcing yourself to move on or push through, try working with yourself, your partner, and your creator.
Email me at [email protected] if you want to talk ❤️
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Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, and keep both books)
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Design Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
-----------------------------------
Premarital Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
The sex education course for engaged & newly married women 💝
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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Pleasure in all areas of life has a direct correlation to pleasure sexually. If you are sexually dissatisfied there is a root cause that needs to be dealt with first. It is time to get the big picture because there is much more to each sexual issue than you think! It is more than just finding a new position or trying harder. Time to find pleasure in every area of life, and watch how it changes everything sexually!
Get Two Free Audio Books!
(with a free trial, cancel at any time, keep both books)
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Design Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
-----------------------------------
Premarital Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
The sex education course for engaged & newly married women 💝
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
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Take the challenge to start flirting with your spouse. Use vocal foreplay and make it sexy! Get some tips on how to talk sex with your partner, especially if you are nervous or shy. Build intimacy, make sex easier and sexier, and have fun!
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Emma and Lydia bring a beautiful duo from the Holy Ship Podcast and walk us through learning about sex through different seasons. In this episode we cover:
Different views on sexuality in the United StatesDifferent views on sexuality in the ChurchLearning about your body while singleAdvocating for yourself sexually while datingGod isn't ashamed of sex or you& More!Get in contact with them!
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theholyship.podcast/
Email them: [email protected]
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What do to to help your children through their first times discovering their bodies & what not to do!
Find your child touching themselves? Learn how to help them grow up shame-free. Connect with your child, help them find out what values are and how to implement them, and give them the space to have bodily autonomy while remaining their parent.
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How do you remain yourself while becoming one? It is way too easy to lose yourself in a marriage, especially sexually.
It doesn't have to be that way though!
It is time to make sex your own. Get healthy, for YOURSELF and your relationship.
Can't wait for you to join me on my favorite episode yet ❤️
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“More than anything, The best thing you can give someone is a listening ear and your story.”
Your sex story is powerful, and you know things about sex that I don't. You have the history that you have for a reason! Be encouraged and share your triumphs and pains. Someone out there needs you.
Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/amandaammons_
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Time to talk about what kind of sex you want in the future! When should you start talking about sex together? What topics should you cover? How can you best prepare for amazing sex? Hear a shame-free perspective from Kileab and Amanda Ammons how to talk about sex after growing up in the church.
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Design Your Sex Life!
Figure out what kind of sex YOU really want. Instead of what the world tells you to want.
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Premarital Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
The sex education course for engaged & newly married women 💝
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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Honeymoon Packing List for Sex!
Everything you need for amazing sex and intimacy.
Personalized romantic itemsThe fun stuff like lingerie and lube!The items to make your time comfortable & pain-free.Prepare for possible problems-----------------------------------
Things mentioned in this episode:
Episode 24: Q&A with the Husband
Episode 2: Having Sex Conversations That Succeed
Episode 17: Putting Sex on the Schedule is Sexy
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You have to talk to your significant other about your sexual history and what you believe about sex at some point in your relationship. That can be intimidating, scary, and very emotional. Get tips on how to navigate it with ease and grace. Hear a shamefree perspective from Kileab and Amanda Ammons how to talk about sex after growing up in the church.
Premarital Sex Education For Christians!
Passionate Beginnings
The sex education course for engaged & newly married women 💝
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional Connection Communication Understanding How To Please & Be Pleased Physically Bringing Faith and Sex together Dealing With Pain Creating Pleasure Together & MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
Things mentioned in this episode:
Episode 24: Q&A with the Husband
Episode 2: Having Sex Conversations That Succeed
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You aren't wrong for not wanting sex. You aren't wrong if you don't want to even want sex! For years studies on sexual desire have been focused on the male population, and then that standard has been placed on women. There is pressure to be aroused, desire sex at all times, and want to be intimate. Culture, religion, family pressures, counseling pressures, and more all make desire something mandated. What if desire could just be desire? What if you don't have to want sex?
PASSIONATE BEGINNINGS
Sex Course for the Christian Woman
Resources used in this podcast
Sexuality & Sex Therapy by Mark Yarhouse and Erica Tan
Meana, M. (2010) Elucidating women's (hetero)sexual desire: Definitional challenges and content expansion. Journal of Sex Research, 47(2-3), 104-22.
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Once we knew this is for real, we are getting married, all conversational doors were open. We are going to talk about everything.
Don't go into marriage with sex being taboo. There are things you need to talk about and it doesn't have to be complicated.
Hear how talking through your sexual history, and your desires for your married sex life, can be a trust-building, light-bringing time. Let me help make it that!
Passionate Beginnings
The sex education course for engaged & newly married women 💝
Lifetime Access [to current and future content]
Over 30 marriage-changing videos!
A Workbook To Solidify Sexual Confidence & Intimacy
Topics Include:
Love & Intimacy & Emotional ConnectionCommunicationUnderstanding How To Please & Be Pleased PhysicallyBringing Faith and Sex togetherDealing With PainCreating Pleasure Together& MORE!Use the code "PASSION" during checkout for 20% off!
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You know you should talk to your kids about sex, but how? Dr. Hilary Mandzik, host of the Raised Resilient podcast and a psychologist who is ready to change the parenting game, is here to discuss where to start. Learn how a relationship with your kids is foundational to raising sexually healthy children.ow you can’t really go wrong if you try talking to your kids about sex. What age do we talk to our kids about sex. How to incorporate open, attachment style parenting in your discussions. Respond to self-touching/masturbation, adult topics, and more with confidence. Let's de-shame sex for our kids!
Get her free guide, "6 Mindset Shifts to Transform Your Parenting": https://www.raisedresilient.com/mindset
Get in touch with her at https://www.raisedresilient.com/
Or listen to her podcast here: Raised Resilient Podcast
If you are ready to change sex for yourself first, start with getting the sex and intimacy education that most Christians aren't given! visit here: Passionate Beginnings
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You are the #1 who should be talking to your kids about sex. You are a better parent to your kids than porn or media or friends are. No doubt! You are the most influential person in their life and they need you to support them and teach them. To get started you need to know why you are talking about sex. Lets spare them from future pain and shame. Why you should bring it up even if your sex life sucks (hint: you have a lot to share!).
Know why your silence is not golden and know where to start the birds and the bees talk!
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