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Feeling exhaustion or post-holiday blues? How can we step into the New Year feeling refreshed and empowered?
In this honest and vulnerable conversation, spiritual director and author Anjuli Paschall and I unpack our own journeys through holiday people-pleasing and how to reset for the New Year. As we close out the year, many of us grapple with a mix of relief and disappointment, compounded by the pressure of New Year's resolutions and the desire to start fresh. Anjuli offers her expert guidance on understanding these dynamics and introduces practical steps and spiritual practices to help us move forward with hope and clarity.
Here’s what we cover:
* How to break free from holiday people-pleasing
* The #1 way to stop trying to control other people’s feelings
* Why post-holiday let down happens & what to do
* How to develop and cultivate aspirational feelings in your body
* Why the hope of a new year sometimes hurts & how to navigate those feelings
* Prayers to move through complicated emotions
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 30: Protecting What’s Good Without Denying What’s Hard at the Holidays
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Are you curious about how science and spirituality intersect in understanding and treating mental health conditions like OCD?
This week, therapist and spiritual director Ryan Kuja shares his incredible journey through the complex world of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). From a young age, Ryan battled intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviors. Feeling isolated and overwhelmed, at 17, he cried out to God—a pivotal moment that launched him into an unexpected exploration of mysticism, neurobiology, and the intricacies of diagnosis. This episode is designed for everyone, whether you or someone you love is dealing with OCD, or you're simply interested in gaining a deeper understanding of the diverse human experience.
Here’s what we cover:
* Ryan recounts the pivotal moment at 17 when his struggle with OCD drove him to seek divine intervention
* The difference between OCD and common intrusive thoughts—what sets them apart?
* An overview of the latest and most effective treatments for OCD, from clinical approaches to innovative therapies
* Ryan shares the spiritual practices that have not only helped manage his OCD but also enriched his spiritual journey
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 129: Understanding Your Anxiety—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Calm, Advocating For Yourself, and Cultivating Inner Resilience
Episode 51: The 12 Common Thinking Traps, Mind Reading, Mental Filters, and How To Stop Taking Things Personally
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How do you move from feeling stuck to finding meaning and healing in your grief?
In today’s episode, I’m honored to speak with David Kessler, one of the world’s foremost experts on grief and the author who expanded Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s original five stages of grief by adding a sixth stage: meaning. We explore how common reactions like avoidance, blame, and bargaining are a normal part of the grieving process, and how finding meaning can be a transformative step toward healing. Whether you’re grieving a loss or supporting someone who is, this conversation will help you better understand the continuum of grief and the power of creating meaning.
Here's what we cover:
* The 5 stages of grief and how different parts of us experience loss
* David’s 6th stage of grief and how it developed out of his own story
* The most important question to ask someone who is grieving
* David’s 7 guidelines for creating meaning after loss
* Why grief is intimately linked to joy
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 98: I Shouldn’t Feel Alone in My Grief—Why Your Grief Matters & the #1 Most Important Support For Those Who Are Grieving
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Do you feel like you’re constantly caring for others, whether it’s aging parents, your kids, or even your career—and there’s little time left for you?
Women in the sandwich generation, particularly those aged 35-54, report higher stress levels than any other age group. If you’re juggling a heavy load of responsibilities as you care for others, you’re not alone. In this episode, you’ll gain practical tools to help you navigate this season with compassion and healthy boundaries, empowering you with the support and nourishment you need.
Here's what we cover:
* Why caring for others can stir up unresolved emotions and how to address them
* 3 key strategies to help you through stressful seasons
* The antidote for constant guilt
* How to set boundaries that protect your emotional well-being
* Practical ways to invite God into your daily routine
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 6: Do I Really Have an Inner Child? What It Means to Reparent Yourself
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Do the holidays bring a mix of joy and complicated emotions for you?
We're supposed to feel grateful, and parts of us do. But other parts of us feel nostalgic, driven by guilt, exhausted, or even angry. In this honest, vulnerable conversation, author and spiritual director Anjuli Paschall joins me to explore the emotions that surface during the holiday season. We talk about how to navigate these feelings with grace, and how these emotions can be gifts in disguise. We cover. . .
* How to distinguish between true guilt and false guilt
* The surprising connection between anger and exhaustion
* Why nostalgia can be both comforting and bittersweet
* Practical ways to honor all your feelings during this emotionally complex season
* Anjuli’s practice of praying through complicated emotions and finding God’s presence in them
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 30: Protecting What’s Good Without Denying What’s Hard at the Holidays
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Have you ever wondered if someone you know might be on the autism spectrum—or even questioned it about yourself?
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or even missed entirely, especially in those who don’t fit common stereotypes. In this episode, neuropsychologist Dr. Donna Henderson joins us to unpack the complexities of autism, neurodiversity, and how we can better understand and support those around us.
What You’ll Learn:
* The 7 key criteria for identifying autism
* When to pursue a neuropsychological evaluation
* Why talk therapy often falls short for neurodivergent individuals
* How someone can exhibit an "autistic nervous system" without having ASD
* Practical ways to support loved ones
This conversation will deepen your understanding of neurodiversity and help you see the world - and those you love - in a new light.
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 129: Understanding Your Anxiety—A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Calm, Advocating For Yourself, and Cultivating Inner Resilience
Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction
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Do you ever feel stuck in anxious thoughts?Are you longing for more moments of calm throughout your day?Every single one of us has a relationship with anxiety. The goal isn't to eradicate anxiety; it’s to work with anxiety to create more peace and balance in our lives. In this episode, I guide you through a clear, step-by-step understanding of your relationship with anxiety. Whether you’re navigating your own anxious moments or supporting loved ones, you'll learn how to identify root causes and key insights needed to find calm and clarity.Here’s what we’ll cover:* How to understand your unique experience with anxiety* Key root causes of anxiety, including genetics, personality, and environment* The impact of High Sensitivity (HSP) and neurodivergence on anxiety* 3 practical techniques to calm anxiety and cultivate strong internal leadershipHave a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:Episode 54: Can I Pray My Anxiety Away? A Surprising Approach to the Anxiety Pandemic & How to Walk Yourself & Your Kids Through It with Curtis ChangEpisode 109: Healing Burdens From the Past—How to Overcome Childhood Wounds and Heal Your Younger Self with Tammy SollenbergerEpisode 97: I Shouldn't Feel This Anxious—Insights on Trauma & Healing with Monique KovenThanks to our sponsors:Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today.Go to AquaTru.com and enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout to get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier!Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!Go to puritywoods.com/BESTOFYOU or enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order.Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU.Music by Andy LuitenSound editing by Kelly KramarikWhile Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Are you carrying burdens that aren't entirely your own? Could understanding your family's past be the key to unlocking a healthier future?
In this powerful episode, we dive into the concept of generational trauma with my guest, Gina Birkemeier, therapist and author of the book & workbook, “Generations Deep”. Gina shares her personal and professional insights on how deep-seated family issues can affect us and how both faith and therapy play pivotal roles in healing and breaking these cycles.
You'll learn. . .
* What generational trauma is and how it subtly influences our lives
* Why Gina realized that she needed therapy and Jesus
* What epigenetics is and how our genes remember & sometimes inherit the trauma of previous generations
* How to understand cycle breaking & to end the cycle of dysfunction
* About the legacy burdens we carry from our family's past.
Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 127: Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships
Episode 101: I Shouldn’t Feel Angry—Exploring the Violence that Shapes Our Family Stories & How to Heal with Lisa Jo Baker
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Are patterns from your past influencing how you show up in relationships today?
In this episode, we explore how early family dynamics—like criticism, control, & emotional immaturity—shape our adult relationships. This process isn’t about placing blame but about building awareness of behaviors that impact self-worth, boundaries, and relational health. By naming these patterns, we open a path to greater confidence, healthier connections, autonomy, and healing.
In this episode, we cover:
* The two essential ingredients for building secure parent-child attachment
* The role of enmeshment and individuation in emotional health
* 5 common parenting patterns that disrupt secure attachment
* 5 questions to assess how these patterns may be impacting you today
* Practical steps to heal and change
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
Have a question or an episode idea? Leave them here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
The Best of You: Break Free From Painful Patterns, Mend Your Past, and Discover Your True Self In God
Episode 109: Healing Burdens From the Past—How to Overcome Childhood Wounds and Heal Your Younger Self with Tammy Sollenberger
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Did you know that by adulthood, most people have experienced some form of sexual wounding?
Today's conversation with Sam Jolman, therapist and author of the new book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got," is one of my absolute all-time favorites. Why? It truly surprised me.
It’s so rare to find a nuanced conversation about sex—especially in a world where we’re constantly tugged between a reductive view of “purity” and an equally reductive sense of “permissiveness.”
This conversation is packed with absolute gems—there’s depth, wisdom, and healing in every moment that’s relevant to all of us, no matter our stories.
Here’s what we dive into:
- How to establish safety, consent, and trust in intimate relationships
- An eye-opening statistic from Harvard about what kids long for from their parents on the topic of sex
- How to have a truly meaningful “sex talk” with your kids
- What God actually desires from us when it comes to sex
- Sam's advice for those who’ve experienced sexual wounding or brokenness and want to begin the healing process
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Episode 125: Recovering From Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith with Dr. Camden Morgante
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Today's episode is a fascinating conversation about the phenomenon of "purity culture." You've heard the phrase, but my guest today, licensed therapist and purity culture expert, Dr. Camden Morgante, is here to explain exactly what it was and how it created a culture of shame, fear, and coercion around sex, especially for women.
We explore the damaging myths purity culture perpetuated and the ways it continues to affect women and married couples, especially around issues of intimacy and self-worth. Dr. Camden shares essential insights on how to heal from these harmful messages and move forward in faith, while also offering practical advice for anyone struggling with shame-based sexuality.
Key Takeaways:
- What purity culture is and its lasting impact on Millennials and Gen X
- The 5 damaging myths, including the "gatekeeper," "damaged goods," & "flipped switch"
- The most important strategy for couples dealing with disappointment around sex
- The real meaning of intimacy beyond physical connection
- Dr. Camden’s practical advice for overcoming shame and reclaiming your faith
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Episode 48: Loving Your Body as a Spiritual Practice, Why the Flesh Isn’t the Body, and 3 Heresies We Kind of Believe
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If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries or wondered why it’s so hard to respect them in others, this episode is for you. We dive deep into how to set and receive healthy boundaries, and why so many of us confuse healthy limits with toxic behaviors. Spoiler: setting boundaries isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for healthy, thriving relationships.
But that’s not all. When our boundaries are shaky, complicated emotions—like guilt, resentment, or anxiety—often arise. And instead of dealing with them, many of us reach for quick fixes: we numb. We avoid confronting those tough feelings that boundaries bring to the surface. Today, I’ll break down why we numb, how to recognize it, and the steps you can take to stop avoiding your emotions and start healing.
This episode covers:
* The difference between healthy boundaries and toxic behaviors
* How to communicate boundaries without guilt or shame
* Practical ways to receive boundaries from others gracefully
* How to recognize when you’re numbing emotions (and what to do about it)
* Why boundaries and emotional numbing are deeply connected—and how to untangle them
You deserve relationships that nourish you, not drain you. This episode will help you understand the power of boundaries and guide you toward emotional freedom.
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If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 24: Boundaries, the Spectrum of Toxicity, and a Note About Evil
Episode 26: How to say "No" to toxicity
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What do you do after someone hurts you?
How do you heal the pain that lingers inside of you?
This is such an incredibly helpful, honest and vulnerable conversation with my friend and fellow therapist Chuck DeGroat, author of the brand new book Healing What's Within. Chuck taught us so much about the harmful realities of narcissism in his book, When Narcissism Comes to Church, and now he's helping us heal the lingering wounds.
Here’s what we cover:
1. The moment that launched 5 years of inner chaos for Chuck
2. 3 surprising questions God asks to each of us
3. How Adam & Eve were manipulated
4. The first step when dealing with narcissism
5. How take feedback from others
6. How to ask for what you need from others
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
Pre-order Healing What’s Within: Coming Home to Yourself--and to God--When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 97: I Shouldn't Feel This Anxious—Insights on Trauma & Healing with Monique Koven
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Has anxiety ever made it hard for you to connect with God?
Do you love God but sometimes struggle with church?
Today's episode is such a breath of fresh air. I had the pleasure of diving into a deep, insightful conversation with New York Times bestselling author John Mark Comer. We explore the powerful intersection of mental, emotional, and spiritual health, uncovering how these aspects work together to create a whole, integrated person.
Here’s what we cover:
1. Misconceptions in the church about true discipleship
2. The benefits and limits of therapy for personal growth
3. What to do when anxiety or past trauma make it hard to engage spiritual practices
4. John Mark’s candid experiences with therapy and what he’s learned
5. The two essential spiritual practices for holistic well-being
6. Our thoughts on the overlapping circles of emotional & spiritual maturity
Listen to Dr. Alison Cook discuss fasting with John Mark Comer on the Rule of Life Podcast
Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.
If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:
Episode 67: The Link Between Faith & Emotional Healing—Gen Z, College Life, & A Hidden Search for Meaning with Cindy Gao
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We all face doubt, disappointment, and even disillusionment at times.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you my framework for cultivating a vibrant inner spirituality—one that doesn’t bypass or exile the hard parts of this faith journey.
Here’s what I cover:
1. The surprising secret to emotionally resilient faith
2. What is an inner family of parts?
3. Research on different faith orientations
4. The 5 languages (e.g. parts!) of faith
5. How to honor (& lead) each of these parts
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Boundaries For Your Soul Series on Youtube
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Today’s conversation is a fascinating deep-dive into celebrity culture with Katelyn Beaty, editor and author of Celebrities For Jesus: How Personas, Platforms, & Profits are Hurting the Church. We explore the dynamics of celebrity culture and its profound effects on both the church and our personal sense of worth and mission. Here’s what we cover:
1. The importance of developing an inner locus of control
2. How celebrity culture impacts the church
3. Parasocial relationships & influencers as attachment figures
4. Reevaluating what true success looks like
5. How to discern trustworthiness in people you follow
Check out Katelyn's book Celebrities for Jesus here
Find Katelyn's conversation with Chuck DeGroat on celebrity and narcissism here
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It was an absolute honor to sit down with New York Times bestselling author & public historian Dr. Jemar Tisby for an incredibly rich conversation about his brand new book,The Spirit of Justice. We discuss his own story of coming to faith and what led him to explore stories of Black Christians who tirelessly pursued healing, goodness, and justice against impossible odds.
Here’s what we cover:
1. The impact of culture on mental & emotional health
2. The double-edged sword of religion
3. The dissonance Jemar felt as a Black Christian in predominantly white settings
4. The lifelines who helped him shore up his faith
5. What is the spirit of justice?
6. Jemar’s thoughts on therapy
7. What stories of resistance teach us about following Jesus
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Today, Cindy and I are tackling your questions about therapy, shedding light on research, common challenges, and insights to help you on your own healing journey! Here's what we cover:
1. Which modality should I use (DBT / CBT / IFS / EMDR)? (4:30)
2. What is the most important factor in getting results? (8:53)
3. What is trauma-informed therapy? (10:07)
4. How do therapists deal with getting triggered by a client? (16:03)
6. What if I’m “too much” for my therapist? (21:51)
7. Does therapy take the role of sin too lightly? (24:28)
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Episode 67: The Link Between Faith & Emotional Healing—Gen Z, College Life, & A Hidden Search for Meaning with Cindy Gao
Episode 70: Mastering the Art of Emotional Intelligence—How to Harness the Power of Your Emotions to Improve Your Relationships
Episode 23: Am I wounded or am I sinful?
Episode 113: A New Vision of Human Flourishing—A Christian Approach to Mental Health with Duke University Psychiatrist & Theologian Warren Kinghorn
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Have you ever felt like you’ve grown and healed, but the people around you haven’t?
In today’s episode, I’m joined by my friend and therapist, Dr. Monique Gadson, for a powerful conversation about how to ignite change not only within ourselves but also within the systems we're deeply connected to—whether that's our families, churches, or work environments. Here’s what we cover:
1. Dr. Monique’s insights from her work as a therapist within a church setting (8:06)
2. The difference between toxic cultures and imperfect human gatherings (17:00)
3. How kindness can sometimes hinder growth (29:07)
4. How to be "in" but not "of" a system (36:04)
5. The effects of culture-wide PTSD (38:35)
6. Practical ways to find and nurture hope (43:45)
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Episode 33: People Pleasing & Developing Your Own Inner Compass—Thoughts on Depression, Mental Health & the Church, and Finding Hope in Dark Places w/ Dr. Monique Gadson
Episode 60: How to Make New Friends, Identify Red & Green Flags, & Extract Yourself From an Unhealthy Situation w/ Aundi Kolber & Dr. Monique Gadson
Episode 73: True Belonging vs. Groupthink, Cliques, & Trying to Fit In—How to Belong to Others While Staying True To Yourself
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Did you grow up in a blended family? Are you navigating the complexities of creating one?
Blended families face unique challenges, and it can be overwhelming to sift through the stigmas and bad advice that often surround step-parenting. In today’s very personal episode, I’m joined by blended family expert Ron Deal. Together, we explore how step-families can become a powerful part of God’s redemptive story, offering healing and hope in the midst of grief, loss, and complicated circumstances.
Today’s episode is filled with powerful tips for ANY family about how to become healthier.
Here’s what we cover:
1. The two key ingredients to building and sustaining a healthy family (8:39)
2. Common sources of dysfunction in families and how to address them (11:32)
3. What the church often misunderstands about blended families and how we can shift the narrative (25:00)
4. The redemptive power of step-families in transforming pain into purpose. (36:53)
5. Empowering children to navigate change and loss with resilience (29:41)
6. Practical ways to honor grief within families and create a supportive environment (41:39)
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Episode 85: The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction
Episode 12: Overcoming the Pain of Divorce with Eryn Eddy
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