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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I hosted Danielle Bezalel from the sex-ed with DB podcast to chat about all things consent..

    We dive deep into the complexities of consent culture and the impact of media on shaping segzual attitudes and experiences. We chat about the importance of obtaining clear consent, the nuances of communication and comfort in segzual interactions, and the impact of societal expectations on women and queer individuals in a segzual context. And we unpack the challenges of navigating consent and accountability, addressing the normalised forms of segzual assault, and the importance of instilling empathy in boys from a young age.

    There's loads of stories in this one that may strike you as something you've experienced or can relate to once it's described, but that you never thought about so deeply or recognised as a consent violation. We also address the fact that r*pe culture is still alive and well, being allowed to thrive in the fertile ground of our patriarchal society, and how we can begin to change this.

    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    Follow DB's work here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com/; https://www.instagram.com/sexedwithdbpodcast/; https://www.tiktok.com/@sexedwithdb?; https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-ed-with-db/id1286811573


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Cody Isabel from Mind Brain Body Lab to come on and give us a neuroscientist's perspective on toxic relationships, healing from trauma, and breaking free from abusive dynamics.

    We explore the tendency for people to intellectualize their traumas without experiencing significant progress in therapy. Cody emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and nurturing negative emotions while highlighting the concerns about reinforcing negative neural pathways. With a focus on practical ways to diffuse the power of addictive, drama and abuse cycles, we discuss the significance of somatic experiences and nervous system regulation techniques.

    The conversation also explores the modality of internal family systems (IFS) and the neuroscience of trauma bonding, as well as practical strategies for healing and breaking toxic patterns when recovering after a break-up.

    Join us as we navigate through the intricacies of trauma recovery, emotional healing, and the complexities of leaving abusive relationships.


    Follow Cody's work here:  https://www.mindbrainbodylab.com/ , tiktok.com/@mindbrainbodylab, instagram.com/mindbrainbodylab, facebook.com/mindbrainbodylab


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week on The Labia Lounge pod we're dishing up some intersectional insights as I have some thought-provoking conversations with guest and fat, black and queer activist, Milo Hartill, AKA That Fat Diva!

    We delve into the unspoken impact of internalized biases, such as fat phobia and racism. We explore the insidious nature of societal conditioning and the influence of media portrayal that contributes to the average mainstream person having some seriously messed up internalised prejudices. We have a dialogue around the importance of becoming aware of, and actively addressing and challenging, these biases in order to be better allies.

    And we both share about our personal experiences with privilege, societal perceptions, and the challenges faced due to race, body type, and other factors.

    We also address the discomfort of well-intentioned individuals approaching those with less privilege and the emotional labor expected from marginalized groups.


    Join us as we explore the complexities of societal biases, the privileges we carry, and where we sit on the social justice scale, as well as the vital importance of continued effort towards allyship and deconstructing our internalised fat phobia, racism, ageism, homophobia, etc etc.


    We invite you to engage in open conversations, challenge your beliefs, and strive for a healthier approach to self-acceptance and understanding others.

    I believe that change starts with acknowledging our blind spots and taking steps towards a more inclusive and diverse society, and seeking out and consuming resources like this podcast and Milo's epic activism work to grow our awareness and compassion.


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    Go follow Milo on IG @milohartill and check her out in the next production she's featuring in - a musical in Sydney called Flat Earthers at the Hayes theatre! (hilarious!)


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week on The Labia Lounge pod I got to chat with Anna Rahe from GTS Body about fascia and it's role in pleasure, health, and wellbeing.

    For the past 25+ years, Anna has delved deep into a liberating and empowering relationship with fascia so that as many people as possible can invest in their health, restore their vitality, and connect with their bodies. She speaks about holistic body care around the world and works with top athletes, surgeons, physicians, and celebrities (I'm not gonna name drop but it's pretty bloody impressive - trust me!)


    Anna really knows her shit, and she's an absolute dream to chat to because her warmth, passion and exuberance is totally infectious!

    I think you'll love this deep dive into fascia - the nerdy stuff as well as the practical tips and techniques she gives to improve your general wellbeing, as well as your pelvic floor health, your access to pleasure and sensation, and your mind-body connection.


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Check out Anna's work here:

    https://gstbody.com/ https://www.annarahe.com/ https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/ https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/

    And listeners can get a free 7 day trial of GST Body here https://gstvitalifestudio.com/join_us


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I'm serving you up an oldie but a goodie since I had some last minute podcast guest cancellations that meant I don't have a new episode for you this week!

    This chat with Rainier Wylde was a deep dive into shadow work within long term relationships and how to relate more authentically with others while being informed by your shadow.

    Rainier is a poet, a deliciously articulate speaker, and a romantic soul at heart, and I think you'll love this chat if you missed it the first time!

    Check out his work and buy his gorgeous BOOK at https://www.rainierwylde.com/


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week on The Labia Lounge I chat with the world record holder for volume squiring, Lola Jean. Lola is also a fetish wrestler, pro domme and sex educator, with an incredible ability to squirt on cue and fill up literal jugs of the stuff!

    We discuss the myths and misconceptions about squirting, the pros and cons to being a squirter, helpful tips and techniques for teaching yourself how to squirt, and loads more about this highly fetishized bodily function. Lola shares some hilarious and unbelievable stories about how she came to set the world record for squirting large volumes in a short space of time, plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    Check out Lola's work here: courses.lolajean.com. and 7daysofdomination.com

    And use the code LABIAPOD to get 20% off all her courses.


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Madison Griffiths about the nuances surrounding the topic of abortion. We discuss some of the aspects of this experience that aren't often spoken about or acknowledged, and the factors that impact a person's decision making and experiences with abortion that are commonly misunderstood.

    We cover a whole host elements that Madison has written about in her incredible and acclaimed book, Tissue, including gender, language, inequality, queerness, sexuality, and the racial, political and environmental implications of abortion.

    It's a meaty one, folks, and the TMI story at the end is worth sticking around for, let me tell ya!!!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Check out Madison's work and buy her book here: https://ultimopress.com.au/collections/madison-griffiths


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jody Day, the founder of Gateway Women and an advocate for childless women. She's an accomplished and incredibly poetic writer and I was lucky enough to get the scoop on the topic of her latest book, 'Living The Life Unexpected - How to find hope, meaning, and a fulfilling future without children.'


    Jody takes us on a profound journey through her life, sharing her experiences of navigating abortion, fertility challenges, marriage, and societal pressures as a childless woman. We delve into the societal implications of declining birth rates, pronatalism, and the value of individuals without children in our communities. Jody's insight and passion for creating support networks for aging without children will undoubtedly resonate with many of you and plant some thoughtful seeds in the rest. We also touch on the impact of technology on social and dating landscapes and the changing dynamics of relationships. With a focus on empowering women and fostering meaningful conversations, this episode offers valuable perspectives that challenge societal norms and celebrate the unique contributions of every individual. So let's lean in, listen closely, and explore the multi-dimensional journey of involuntary childlessness and aging with Jody.


    Link to the free download for the introduction and first chapter of Jody's book: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64469df1e916153dc771f013

    Check out her work and order Jody's book here: https://gateway-women.com/book


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Labia Lounge we've got Eleanor Hadley back for Part 2 of our episode on The Art of Seduction. This week we've done a quickie for you about dirty talking, the different types of this and how to find your authentic style of bedroom talk, sexting, and how to take an artful nude.


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    Check out Eleanor's stuff here: https://www.eleanorhadley.com


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink



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  • In this episode of The Labia Lounge I chat with Eleanor Hadley about her body of work The Art of Seduction, and how to give an incredible and embodied lap dance. This is part 1 of a two part series where Eleanor schools us on how to use sensual and erotic movement, embodiment, and her five pillar framework to connect more deeply with yourself and lovers.

    We discuss how to overcome self consciousness and insecurities, build confidence, and be more authentically embodied and able to express ourselves in this way. We chat about how we can ensure our sensual embodiment isn't devolving into catering to the male gaze, and Eleanor gives heps of super practical, tangible tips and tricks for you to try when experimenting with sensual movement and giving a partner a segzy dancey experience!


    Next week in part 2 we'll dive into dirty talk, sexting, and how to take an artful nude!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Follow Eleanor's work here: https://www.eleanorhadley.com


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I had a faaaabulous and enlightening chat with Justine Ange Fonte, the writer and "thanks-but-no-thanks"-text-artist behind the community service account _good.byes_ where Justine writes the difficult texts you're stuck on and helps you navigate the sort of crunchy conversations that we all want to avoid to escape conflict or friction.

    Justine and I yarn about how to have healthy and kind boundaries, how to construct the perfect goodbye text when you're just not feeling it after a date, and how and why it's important to communicate your needs, your "no"s, and your boundaries to avoid people pleasing, self betrayal, bypassing, and resentment, whether that's with a boss, family member, friend or particularly persistent guy you met on a dating app!


    We chat about why pleasure education is essential in sex education, and why both are crucial to having healthy boundaries.


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Check out Justine's work here: justinefonte.com


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Lounge I invited Joanna Macmeikan back on to do a deep dive into UTIs and how t kick the super persistent, chronic or recurrent ones that are ruining your life!

    Joanna is a women's health and hormones specialist, registered TCM practitioner and all-round massive nerd, so she GREAT to talk to about this sort of thing because she leaves no stone unturned in her researching and is generally a wealth of knowledge. So I'm pretty lucky to get to pick her brains - as are you to listen to it!

    We touch on differential testing, common causes, lesser known causes, treatment options - from medical to alternative and holistic - and loads of other useful and fascinating stuff that you didn't know you didn't know about this topic!


    Enjoy this episode of helpful and surprising tips and tools to finally overcome recurrent UTIs - it's jam packed and you'll learn a lot!


    Follow Joanne's work here: https://www.joannamac.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/joanna_macmeikan/


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink



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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I chatted with intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton.

    We discuss some practical tips and strategies to make sure you have epic sex for the rest of your life and continue improving and building on your sensual practices way into old age.

    Susan is an expert sexual bio-hacker, and fearless and unapologetic sexplorer who doesn't believe you should ever give up on having great sex regardless of age.


    Check out her work and all her freebies mentioned in the episode here: http://susanbratton.com/, https://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillions/, https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/, https://twitter.com/susanbratton, https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterLover, https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Kate who runs Virtue and Vice, an events company that've splashed onto the scene in recent times running play parties with a fresh take on the existing scene here in Melbourne.

    I went to my first ever play party run by Virtue and Vice recently and released a full episode where I talked about my experience in depth, and then, low and behold, Kate got in touch from the V & V and offered to come on for a yarn with me to give an even more intimate insight into what goes into this sort of event.


    We discuss the gaps in the market that they identified and why they wanted to start running SOP (segz on premises) parties for the Melbs play party community but do it differently with an emphasis on consent culture, inclusivity and hygiene practices.

    We chat about the trials and errors they've faced being a new company on the block and trying to create a new culture and experience within the play party landscape, the risks that're involved and some considerations that are important for those who put on or attend events like these.

    We talk hygiene, the ins and outs of actually running a sxx party, their goals and dreams for this fringe scene, and what you can generally expect if you give one of these parties a try!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!

    Check out Virtue and Vice's next event at https://www.virtueandvice.com.au/

    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This special bonus eppy of The Labia Lounge is a really vulnerable, insightful and fascinating glimpse into the world of furries and the furry lifestyle from the perspective of a friend of mine who has decided to courageously "come out" as a furry and let me pick their brains about what that means for them.


    We cover all the predictable stuff you'd want to ask a furry about what goes on in the bedroom, what the appeal is and what about it turns them on. Plus you'll discover so many unexpected nuances and misunderstood facets of this sub-culture in our discussion as Liam generously shares about some little-known elements to the practice of being a furry in their personal experience. Things like the struggles, the spiritual connection, and the immersive and liberating aspects of primal expression, play, kink and toys that can enhance sxxual exploration.


    It's a really epic chat, that we have casually while lolling about on my bed (nice to get to do a podcast in person for once), and I wish for everyone to hear this sort of content for the purposes of educating themselves and better understanding a realm that the mainstream makes fun of and most misunderstand. It's the resource that Liam wishes they'd had when they were first exploring this kinky side of themselves in secret and with a lot of shame and misconceptions weighing down the process. Plus it's a resource that will make those of you who AREN'T kinky or into this sort of thing be more aware, understanding and compassionate allies that will create more safety in the world and the bedroom for those who ARE into this stuff.


    Either way, listen to it!!!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I interviewed Jessa Zimmerman, a specialist in helping couples who have different levels of desire in long term relationships.

    Jessa and I talk about desire discrepancy and how to overcome the challenges this can pose for a couple, the things that both partners often do that make it worse, and what to do when you're desire levels inevitably change to be different from one another.

    We tackle this most common of questions that couples counsellors and sex therapists get a LOT: "What do I do when my partner has a higher/lower libido than me?"


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink


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  • This extra special bit of juicy bonus content is a little bit different to our usual Lab Lounge eppies...

    As a special treat Hannah thought it'd be fun to interview me about my recent adventure attending my first ever sxx party so that we could get the full run down on this very novel and very interesting new experience!

    Hannah grills me on every little detail of the night from start to finish and it's a hilarious and fascinating insight into a secret world that most never get to witness.

    This particular play party, Virtue and Vice, had a BDSM/kink dungeon within the larger party, run by friends at Sehnsucht.

    I went on an professional development/R&D excursion there to suss out whether it'd be suitable to set up The Labia Lounge LIVE and interview party goers as part of a special Sxx Party Edition episode.

    So watch this space for that in future...but for now, give this one a listen if you've ever been curious about the erotic play party space and what goes on in this unique, saucy underground scene!

    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


    Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink



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  • This week in The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jill from Sex Ed Princess about all sorts of juicy and not-so-juicy thangs!

    We cover boundaries, abusive relationships, how men can be better allies, the lack of societal support in addressing harmful behaviour from men, period cakes and unsolicited d pics! There's loads of great stuff in here as we share stories about our experiences being sxx educators and navigating the world of dating and sxx.


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Check out Jill's amazing content here: @sexedprincesss on all platforms and website: https://jill-lissner.com/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


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  • This week in The Lab Lounge I chat with Sarah Hester Ross, a musical comedian and hilarious singer songwriter about making it in a male-centric industry.

    We discuss the "boys club" culture of the comedy world, head pushing, Sarah's career journey using humour to tackle taboo and feminist topics, her religious upbringing and how this impacted her sex life, and we even make tentative plans to have a belated hoe phase in her sixties!

    I'd highly recommend checking out one of my faves of her anthems, 'Stop Giving Men Microphones' and her new comedy special 'Don't Mess With A Redhead'!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Follow her work here: sarahhesterross.com @sarahhesterross


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


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  • This week on the C*NT COUCH I sat with April Davis from Haus of Vagina for some real talk about the things that're getting sand in our clams as sxx educators and feminist advocates. We discuss everything from faking O's and the menstrual cycle, to late stage abortion and maternal mortality rates. We also get pretty honest about the not-so-glamorous realities of trying to carve out a livelihood as a sxx educator in a suppressed, patriarchal society. Fun times!


    Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


    Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!


    *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/


    Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/


    Check out April's work at Haus of Vagina here:  https://haus-of-vagina.ck.page/69fbb47ca3 and follow her on IG https://www.instagram.com/hausofvagina/


    Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings


    And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/

    AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc


    And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zk


    Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf


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