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'One of the worst things that happens to neurodivergent people is their ability to trust themselves and love themselves. Bullying can shape a person's identity and have a lasting impact'
In this episode, Jordan and Simon talk to Summer Farrelly, Animal Behaviourist and Autism Advocate on the topic of bullying. We share personal experiences of being bullied, including by teachers, and highlight the long-lasting impact it can have and have had on our lives. Summer emphasizes the need for teachers to be aware of their power and the effect their words and actions can have on students and the importance of creating a safe and inclusive environment in schools to prevent bullying. We touch on the issue of trolls and the lack of accountability on social media and the need for empathy, understanding, and self-reflection in online interactions.
Bullying can have a long-lasting impact on individuals, especially during their developmental stages.Teachers should be aware of their power and the effect their words and actions can have on students.Neurodivergent individuals often have common experiences of bullying and require greater understanding and support. Bullying can have long-lasting effects on self-esteem and body image.Finding a supportive community and unmasking around like-minded individuals can help build trust and self-acceptance.Online bullying is a prevalent issue, and many people lack accountability for their actions and words.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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"We don't need a neurotypical saviour and a holistic saviour, whatever. We don't need you. We didn't ask you to save us. We need diversity and neurodiversity does serve this purpose."
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Lyric Rivera, a neurodiversity consultant and educator. Lyric shares their journey of self-discovery after being diagnosed as autistic and how it led them to create their Facebook page which now has 179,000 followers.
The conversation touches on the differences in perspectives and understanding of autism between countries, with the UK and Australia being more forward-thinking compared to the US, the harmful narratives and fear campaigns surrounding autism, the dangers of seeking to eradicate or 'correct' autism, the different rules and regulations regarding neurodivergence in the workplace in different states in the US and emphasizes the importance of including autistic individuals in research and decision-making processes.
Takeaways
The UK and Australia are considered by Lyric as 'more forward-thinking' in their understanding of autism compared to the US.Including autistic individuals in research and decision-making processes is crucial.Many employers still lack understanding of neurodivergence and may not provide necessary accommodations. Neurodivergent individuals may face discrimination and challenges in the workplace, such as being denied reasonable accommodations.There are differences in Neurodivergence Laws and Workplace Accommodations in the USNeurodivergent individuals are constantly evolving and changing, and it is important to understand and embrace one's own unique experience.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss neurodivergent people who have shaped their lives and the influence of neurodivergent individuals in various fields. They talk about the impact of Walt Disney, Roald Dahl, Robin Williams and share personal anecdotes and discuss the importance of representation from those who have overcome challenges and inspire others to never give up and the positive influence it can have on neurodivergent individuals.
Takeaways
Stand-up comedians like Robin Williams have been influential figures and have shaped their interests, creativity, and sense of humour.Celebrities like Jim Carrey and Tom Brady have overcome challenges and inspired people, including Simon and Jordan to never give up despite your disabilities.The importance of representation and the positive influence it can have on neurodivergent individuals is discussed.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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"The only people that I spoke to that one, didn't make me feel like an alien and two, spoke my language were neurodivergent people."
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan and Simon are joined by Jordans wife Sylvia. They discuss how they discovered their neurodivergence, how Sylvia was the one who first realized that Jordan might be autistic, and her experience of discovering her own neurodivergence and the positive impact it has had on their family. The couple talk about the importance of understanding and supporting each other, and how they have worked through challenges in their relationship. The conversation highlights the need for patience, empathy, and a different approach to communication when dealing with neurodivergent individuals. Simon shares his journey navigating struggles with school, questioning his identity, and finally finding his tribe. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and acceptance from family and friends, and the power of connecting with other neurodivergent individuals.
Takeaways
Understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals requires patience, empathy, and a willingness to learn different communication strategies.Working through challenges in a neurodivergent relationship requires ongoing effort, understanding, and a commitment to personal growth. Discovering one's neurodivergence can be a challenging and confusing journey, but it can also lead to self-acceptance and a sense of belonging.Connecting with other neurodivergent individuals can provide a sense of community and understanding.Society needs to change its perception of neurodivergent individuals and provide better support and resources.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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"Neurodivergent Jenga is like many little triggers, which take away each one of your little bricks"
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the concept of losing spoons and playing Neurodivergent Jenga. We talk the concept of spoons, which represents energy levels, and how different factors can drain or add to their spoons throughout the day. Have you ever been stuck playing Neurodivergent Jenga, where small triggers can lead to a meltdown? We share our personal experiences with triggers and sensory issues and how they can affect our daily lives. Jordan discusses the challenges of being a parent and how neurodivergent children can trigger your own triggers.
Takeaways
Spoons represent energy levels, and various factors can drain or add to them throughout the dayUnderstanding and managing triggers can help prevent meltdowns and preserve spoonsParents of neurodivergent children may face additional challenges and need to find a balance between guidance and understanding.Executive dysfunction can affect daily tasks and routines, leading to triggers.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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"Neurodivergent tax, also known as ADHD tax, is the impulse buying that has been a delight and a burden on me and my finances."
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss impulse buying and 'Neurodivergent Tax'. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with impulse buying, including purchasing expensive items like dogs and sneakers, and having to pay the ND tax. They also touch on the impact of FOMO (fear of missing out) and the role of research in impulse buying.
Takeaways
FOMO (fear of missing out) can contribute to impulse buying, as individuals may feel the need to participate in certain trends or experiences.Research can play a role in impulse buying, as individuals may justify their purchases by conducting extensive research and convincing themselves of the value.Impulse buying can have both positive and negative consequences, ranging from the joy of acquiring desired items to financial strain and regret.Setting boundaries and being mindful of impulsive tendencies can help manage and control impulse buying behaviour.Sales and second-hand items can be more affordable options for satisfying shopping desires.Parents may feel compelled to buy things for their children to ensure they don't miss out.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.
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"My relationship with food is incredibly complex. I hate food that is unpredictable."
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their complex relationships with food. They share their experiences with 'fussy' eating, body dysmorphia, and trauma-related food aversions. They also talk about the impact of neurodivergent traits on their eating habits, such as demand avoidance and hypersensitivity. They highlight the unpredictability of food textures and flavours for neurodivergent people and the preference for routine and familiarity.
Takeaways
Neurodivergent individuals often have complex relationships with food, influenced by factors such as picky eating, body dysmorphia, and trauma-related aversions.Neurodivergent traits, such as demand avoidance and hypersensitivity, can impact eating habits and food preferences.Childhood experiences with food, including restrictions and negative associations, can shape an individual's relationship with food as an adult.Developing a healthier relationship with food may involve exploring new flavours, managing sensory sensitivities, and addressing underlying emotional issues.It is important to be mindful of how we talk about food and body image, avoiding negative language and promoting self-acceptance as understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals' unique food preferences and challenges can promote their overall well-being.Parents should avoid labelling their children as 'fussy eaters' and instead create a positive and supportive environment to encourage trying new foods.Chapters
00:00 RTN Sponsor
01:43 The Complexity of Neurodivergent Relationships with Food
06:26 Childhood Experiences and Food Challenges
09:20 Food as Comfort and Trauma Response
13:15 Struggles with Eating and Starvation
25:15 Negative Associations and Social Exclusion
27:10 Conclusion and Support for Neurodivergent Food Preferences
32:10 Navigating Unpredictability: Food Textures and Flavours for Neurodivergent People
45:06 Childhood Memories and Associations with Food
50:42 Supporting Neurodivergent Children in Developing Healthy Eating Habits
52:09 The Impact of Food on Neurodivergent Individuals' Cognitive Abilities
53:07 Promoting Positive Body Image and Mindful Eating for Neurodivergent Individuals
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Traveling as a neurodivergent person can present unique challenges, such as dealing with sensory issues and knowing your rights for special assistant and accommodations.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan and Simon discuss their recent travel experiences as neurodivergent individuals. They share their personal stories of navigating airports, dealing with special assistance, and the challenges they faced during their journeys. They talk about their fears and anxieties while flying, as well as the strategies they use to cope, the importance of special assistance and accommodations for neurodivergent individuals when traveling, the difficulties and stress that can come with navigating public transportation, especially in unfamiliar cities. The conversation also touches on the most interesting countries visited, the impact of travel on photography, and the cultural differences experienced in different parts of the world.
Takeaways
Special assistance and accommodations are available for neurodivergent individuals when traveling, and it's important to take advantage of them.Understanding one's neurodivergent identity and seeking support can help alleviate the difficulties and stress of traveling. Neurodivergent individuals may have specific needs and preferences when it comes to travel, such as meticulous planning and having alternative plans.Traveling to events and destinations that align with personal interests can enhance the travel experience for neurodivergent individuals.Different countries and regions offer unique cultural experiences and landscapes that can be both awe-inspiring and challenging for neurodivergent individuals.Chapters
00:00 RTN Sponsor
01:18 Traveling as a Neurodivergent Person
24:08 The Restlessness of Long Journeys
31:09 Navigating the Anxieties of Flying
45:18 Challenges of Crowded Trains
50:06 Importance of Special Assistance and Accommodations
57:16 Stressful Experiences in Unfamiliar Cities
01:08:12 Nature vs. Cities: Preferences for Travel
01:14:06 Exploring Interesting Destinations
01:23:09 Cultural Differences in Travel Experiences
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"Growing up in an undiagnosed family made me feel different from others and lead to a sense of being strange or weird!"
This episode of the Neurodivergent Experience discusses growing up in an undiagnosed family. Sophie James, Jordan's daughter, joins to share her experience about feeling different from other families, the challenges of navigating the school playground, the lack of support from the school, and the importance of bonding through daddy-daughter days. Sophie, shares her perspective on growing up with an undiagnosed autistic father and the challenges they faced as a family and reflect on the changes that occurred after Jordan's autism diagnosis and the newfound understanding and acceptance it brought them.
Takeaways
Struggles and successes in school can vary for neurodivergent individuals, and it's important to focus on the strengths and abilities rather than just the deficits.Neurodivergence can impact family dynamics, and understanding and support from parents can make a significant difference in a child's experience. Neurodivergent experiences can vary, with some individuals being more external and emotional, while others are more internal and repetitive.It is important to lower unrealistic expectations and standards in friendships to foster healthier relationships at school.Having a diagnosis can provide validation and support, but it is not always necessary for personal growth and understandingChapters
00:00 RTN Sponsor
01:18 Introducing Sophie James
08:50 Independence and Struggles in Primary School
16:23 Challenges in the School Playground
32:02 Impact of Neurodivergence on Family Dynamics
36:15 Growing Up with an Undiagnosed Autistic Father
48:25 The Shift in Understanding and Acceptance
55:30 The Impact of Not Having A Filter
01:00:11 Understanding Each Other's Differences
01:07:41 Self-Awareness and Acceptance
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Society's perspective on autism has shifted, but there is still work to be done to combat misinformation and stigma.
In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Steve Silberman, the author of NeuroTribes. They discuss the impact of Silberman's book on the neurodivergent community and the importance of embracing neurodiversity. They delve into the history of autism and the misconceptions surrounding Hans Asperger, the legacy of autism, the shift in society's perspective on autism and the importance of finding support within the neurodivergent community. Silberman shares his perspective on the medical model of autism and we explore the impact of the book 'NeuroTribes' in creating advocates for neurodiversity, the concept of the autism spectrum, the need for more frequent and dedicated opportunities for autistic children to engage in their special interests, as these interests can lead to meaningful and successful lives.
Takeaways
The history of autism reveals the mistreatment and discrimination faced by neurodivergent people.The medical model of autism focuses on deficits and dysfunctions, but a more inclusive and positive perspective is needed.Neurodiversity is a natural variation of human neurology and should be embraced and accommodated.The autism spectrum is not linear but encompasses a range of neurodivergent experiences.Special interests are a vital part of the lives of autistic individuals and should be embraced and nurtured.Finding support within the neurodivergent community can be invaluable for both autistic individuals and their families.00:00 RTN Sponsor
01:12 Introduction
03:14 The Impact of Steve Silberman's Book, NeuroTribes, on the Neurodivergent Community
09:54 The History of Autism and the Progress of Neurodiversity
36:33 Embracing Neurodiversity
37:31 The Autism Spectrum
42:57 Unpacking the History of Autism Diagnosis
44:22 From Deficits to Strengths
49:32 Challenging Ableism and Cure Culture
53:48 The Power of Special Interests
01:08:10 Support and Accommodation
Steve Silberman: Award-winning science writer, author of NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity (Avery 2015).
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Navigating romantic relationships can be challenging for neurodivergent individuals.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their experiences with romantic relationships. They share stories from their teenage years including the challenges of navigating dating and intimacy, the impact of past traumas and the importance of being true to oneself in a relationship, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Jordan discusses how meeting his wife, Sylvia, changed everything. They formed a deep connection and understood each other on a level that no one else did and attributes their successful relationship to both of them being neurodivergent. He expresses gratitude for having Sylvia in his life and credits her for helping him better himself. Simon reflects on his past relationships and how they were influenced by his neurodivergent traits and shares his experiences of being taken advantage of and feeling misunderstood in past relationships.
Takeaways
Being true to oneself is important in building a healthy and fulfilling relationship but past traumas can impact how we approach and experience them.Dating and intimacy can be particularly difficult for neurodivergent individuals, who may struggle with social cues and communication.Building a relationship without masks and being open and honest can lead to a stronger connection, being in a relationship with someone who is also neurodivergent can lead to a deep connection and understanding.00:00 Introduction and Setting the Topic
07:42 Navigating Dating and One Night Stands
26:30 Difficulties with Initiating Intimacy
35:21 Building Relationships while Masking
44:11 Confidence and Attracting Attention
57:36 Finding Connection and Understanding in a Relationship
01:05:32 The Power of Gratitude in a Successful Relationship
01:15:26 Reflecting on Past Relationships for Personal Growth
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Art and creative expression can be a powerful way for neurodivergent individuals to communicate and share their unique experiences.
In this conversation, Jordan James and Simon Scott talk to Bret Malley, a recently diagnosed neurodivergent individual, and father of an autistic son. They discuss Brett's journey of self-discovery, his experiences as a filmmaker and artist, talk about his upcoming documentary film, The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism, led by Bret and starring Jordan and the challenges he and his son face in the US education system.
The conversation explores the need for flexibility and multiple ways of learning in education, particularly for neurodivergent individuals, and emphasize the importance of listening to parents and understanding the unique strengths and weaknesses of each child.
The upcoming documentary film 'The Divergent Gift; Unboxing Autism, led by Brett Mallie, aims to amplify the voices of the neurodivergent community and promote acceptance and inclusion.
Takeaways
The education system often fails to accommodate the diverse learning styles and needs of neurodivergent students, leading to feelings of frustration and isolation.There is a need for a shift in the education system to prioritize individuality, autonomy, and support for neurodivergent students. Education should provide flexibility and multiple ways of learning to accommodate the diverse needs and interests of students, particularly neurodivergent individuals.Teachers should listen to parents and take the time to understand each child's unique strengths and weaknesses in order to provide appropriate support.Storytelling, animation, and creativity can be powerful tools for expressing the neurodivergent experience and promoting understanding and acceptance.00:00 Introduction and Background
14:10 Art as a Form of Communication
35:50 The Need for a Shift in Education
44:34 Flexibility and Autonomy in Education
51:48 The Importance of Listening to Parents
01:08:00 The Power of Documentary Film in Advocacy
Bret Malley: Educator, Speaker, Professional photographer, author of Adobe Master Class; Advanced Compositing in Adobe Photoshop CC, and all around Photoshop magician specializing in surreal, epic, and imaginative image creation.
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Documentary: https://www.thedivergentgift.com/
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Neurodivergent characters are becoming more prevalent in TV and film, although many are still coded rather than explicitly identified as neurodivergent.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss autistic representation in TV and film. They explore characters like Sherlock Holmes and Gregory House, who exhibit neurodivergent traits, and delve into the X-Men and how the characters in the series represent neurodivergent experiences, the importance of neurodivergent artists and creators in shaping these characters and emphasize the relatability of superheroes and the impact of pop culture on the neurodivergent community. The conversation addresses the issue of negative representation and stereotypes in shows like 'The Good Doctor' and emphasizes the need for authentic representation by neurodivergent people and concludes by emphasizing the significance of accurate and diverse representation in media.
Takeaways
The representation of neurodivergent characters often reflects the desire for recognition, validation, and understanding experienced by many neurodivergent individuals.Autism Awareness Month and similar initiatives can be seen as performative and insufficient, as acceptance and celebration of neurodivergent people should be continuous.There are examples of neurodivergent characters in various TV shows, including The Big Bang Theory, The Office, Parks and Recreation, and Rick and Morty. Neurodivergent characters in media, such as Doctor Who and Mr. Bean, provide representation and relatability for neurodivergent individuals.Companions and teams play a crucial role in the stories of neurodivergent characters, highlighting the importance of social connections.Negative representation and stereotypes in shows like 'The Good Doctor' can be harmful and perpetuate misconceptions about neurodivergent individuals.Authentic representation by neurodivergent people is essential for accurate and diverse portrayals of neurodivergence in media.00:00 Introduction and Autistic Representation
10:37 The X-Men: Neurodivergent Superheroes
36:39 Neurodivergent Characters in Big Bang Theory
45:31 Neurodivergent Representation in IT Crowd: Richard Ayoade
52:26 Neurodivergent People Thrive in Collaboration
01:03:02 The Good Doctor: Perpetuating Stereotypes
01:10:43 Neurodivergent Representation in Brooklyn Nine Nine
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Collaboration and understanding between different species, including humans and animals, can lead to a more harmonious world.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott talk to Summer Farrelly, an Autistic inclusion advocate and animal behaviorist. They discuss Summer's journey to becoming a zoologist, their special interest in chickens, and their assisted animal learning program. Summer shares how their understanding of animal behavior has helped them navigate social settings and learn about human behavior. The conversation delves into the topic of advocacy and the impact of positive feedback from the community, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and sharing personal experiences in advocacy.
Takeaways
Understanding animal behavior can provide insights into human behavior. Learning from animals can teach us valuable lessons about cooperation and survival.Studying animal behavior can provide insights into human behavior and vice versa. Favorite animals can vary among individuals, and personal preferences are influenced by various factors.Authenticity and sharing personal experiences are key in advocacy, as they can inspire and help others.Understanding and advocating for neurodivergent individuals is important for creating an inclusive society. Positive feedback from the community can have a profound impact on advocates and reinforce the importance of their work.Building meaningful friendships can be a challenge for neurodivergent individuals, but finding like-minded people can lead to strong connections.Starting as a content creator and advocate can be a way to connect with others and make a positive impact. Social media can have both positive and negative effects on individuals, and it's important to find a balance and prioritize real-life connections.Disability and ability are two sides of the same coin, and it's important to embrace and appreciate both aspects of one's neurodivergent identity.00:00 Introduction to Summer Farrelly
04:32 Defining Neurodivergence and Autism
06:29 Living the Neurodivergent Experience in Australia
08:25 Summer's Journey to Studying Zoology
10:21 Passion for Animals and Special Interest in Chickens
20:21 Favorite Animals and Evolved Dinosaurs
28:49 Navigating Social Interactions and Friendship
37:51 Assisted Animal Learning Program
42:13 The Power of Authenticity
51:06 Navigating Challenges
56:24 The Impact of Positive Feedback
01:06:55 Embracing Neurodiversity
01:14:37 Self-Acceptance and the Journey of Advocacy
Summer Farrelly, Autistic Inclusion Advocate & Animal Behaviorist:
Website: https://summerfarrelly.com.au/
Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/Chickens2love
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Masking is a survival technique used by neurodivergent individuals to fit in and avoid harassment or bullying. It takes a toll on mental health, leading to anxiety, low self-esteem, and a constant fear of slipping up.
In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the concept of masking and unmasking in neurodivergent people. They explore the reasons why individuals mask their true selves, the fear of not being taken seriously, the pressure to conform to societal norms, along with the deep masking experienced during teenage years. The conversation explores the benefits and challenges of masking disabilities, the dehumanizing perspective towards people with disabilities and why unmasking is a journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
Takeaways:
Society's judgment of neurodivergence and disability as weaknesses contributes to the fear of being authentic and the need to mask.Social media can be a breeding ground for bullying and judgment, as people feel detached and empowered to tear others down.The desire for companionship and acceptance drives individuals to mask their true selves, but it is important to find a balance between fitting in and being authentic.Authentic friendships are built on being real and accepting each other's true selves.Teaching children to mask in certain situations can help them navigate the world, but it's important to also encourage their authentic selves.Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:32 Masking and Unmasking
01:30 The Freedom and Comfort of Masking
04:22 The Toll of Masking
05:23 The Challenge of Being Fully Authentic
06:22 The Persona of Masking
07:22 The Loss of Energy and Foundations
08:20 The Deep Rest from Masking
09:19 Putting on Masks to Fit In
10:19 Using Comedy and Stand-up to Mask
11:42 The Unmasking Effect of Conversations
12:40 The Intensity of Unmasking
13:37 The Breakthroughs of Speaking Out Loud
14:26 The Impact of the Podcast
19:15 Knowing and Communicating Limits
20:14 The Need for Companionship
21:35 The Pressure to Fit In
23:56 The Dark Side of Social Media
25:17 The Fear of Disability
28:15 The Fear of Being Ostracized
29:10 The Toll on Mental Health
30:16 The Pressure to Meet Neurotypical Standards
31:43 The Gazelle Among Lions
33:39 The Fear of Ridicule
35:02 The Dehumanizing Experience
37:25 The View of Neurodivergence as a Developmental Disability
39:17 The Gaslighting and Lack of Self-Trust
40:14 The Benefit of Masking
45:04 Hyperfocus on Autism
46:29 Uncomfortable with Asperger's Label
47:56 Hyperfixation on Autism Stereotypes
50:21 Stimming and Comfort Objects
56:41 Masking as a Teenager
01:02:54 Starting the Unmasking Process
01:05:14 Struggling with Self-Identity
01:07:14 The Privilege of Masking
01:18:24 Teaching Masking to Neurodivergent Children
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Early development is a critical time for neurodivergent individuals, and interventions like ABA therapy at a young age can interfere with natural brain development.
Warning - this episode contains themes that some individuals may find distressing.
In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott are joined by Maisie Soetantyo, an openly autistic ADHDer and founder of Autism Career Pathways. They discuss Macy's experience working with autistic children and shares her concerns about the limitations and potential harm of ABA therapy, highlighting the importance of individuality and unique experiences. They also discuss the need for parents to trust their intuition and find affirming approaches to support their autistic children. The conversation sheds light on the misconceptions and language surrounding autism, and the growing movement towards more inclusive and respectful approaches to therapy and support. Maisie introduces her latest project, Guiding Extraordinary Minds (GEM), which aims to provide support and training for autistic professionals, parents, and educators. She also highlights the mission of her non-profit organization, Autism Create Pathways, in reducing barriers at workplaces for autistic individuals.
Takeaways
Parenting neurodivergent children requires a balance between accommodating their needs and fostering independence.Stimming is a natural and necessary behavior for autistic individuals, and it should not be discouraged or suppressed.Parenting intuitively and problem-solving in the moment is crucial for supporting neurodivergent children.Using affirming language and providing positive information about autism can help individuals embrace their neurodivergent identity and feel empowered.00:00 Introduction
03:13 Starting Work with Autistic Children
07:25 Turning Away from ABA Therapy
12:19 Issues with ABA Therapy
31:00 Advocacy and Affirming Approaches
33:25 Negative Portrayal of Autistic People in Media
34:17 The Damage of ABA Therapy
38:39 The Challenges of Advocacy
41:25 Accountability and Safe Spaces
47:34 Balancing Accommodation and Autistic Identity
50:22 Parenting Intuitively and Supporting Neurodivergent Kids
56:37 Guiding Extraordinary Minds and Autism Create Pathways
Maisie Soetantyo is an openly autistic ADHDer who has been working with autistic people for over 30 years. She is the founder of a nonprofit in San Francisco Bay Area, Autism Career Pathways. She is also the founder of Guiding Extraordinary Minds (GEM), a platform for autistic folks to guide parents and professionals.
Links: https://linktr.ee/maisiesoetantyo
Website: www.autismcareerpathways.org
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Employers should recognize the value of neurodivergent minds and provide opportunities for them to showcase their unique skills and abilities. With the right support, they can thrive! This episode of the Neurodivergent Experience focuses on being neurodivergent in the workplace as Jordan and Simon share their personal experiences of navigating the working world as Neurodivergent people. From dealing with unsupportive managers, the impersonality and lack of empathy found in the working world - as well as the mental health challenges that arise from masking whilst navigating the workplace - they talk the importance of creating an inclusive work environment and the potential for individuals with neurodivergent minds to excel in their fields if supported and recognised.
Takeaways:
Neurodivergent individuals often face challenges in the workplace, including a lack of understanding and awareness of their rights, bullying, discrimination, and a lack of recognition for their contributions in the workplace.Navigating the working world can be similar to the struggles Neurodivergent people experienced in school.The impersonality and lack of empathy in the working world can be particularly difficult for neurodivergent individuals, who may have a different perspective and approach to work.Creating an inclusive work environment that accommodates neurodivergent needs is crucial for success, support and recognition from managers and colleagues can make a significant difference in the lives of neurodivergent individuals in the workplace.Individuals with neurodivergent minds have unique strengths and abilities that can contribute to their fields.Disclosure of neurodivergence at work is a personal decision and may depend on the specific circumstances and environment.00:00 Intro
01:00 Masking and struggles in the workplace
11:37 First jobs and challenging work environments
19:38 Effects of meltdowns and pressure at work
23:57 Neurodivergent minds and their contributions to society
32:22 Negative experiences with management and lack of understanding
44:52 The Impact of Diagnosis on Work
48:40 The Challenges of Disclosing Neurodivergence at Work
51:25 Creating Inclusive Job Applications
56:47 Recognizing and Utilizing Neurodivergent Abilities
Whether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.
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Language matters when discussing autism, and it is important to use inclusive and empowering language that recognizes the abilities and strengths of autistic individuals. In this episode, Simon and Jordan are joined by Dr. Luke Beardon, Author and Senior Lecturer in Autism at The Autism Centre, Sheffield Hallam University. Dr Luke talks about the majority of students in his courses studying autism being autistic, the negative narratives and misinformation surrounding autism, the us vs them narrative, gaslighting and professional misinformation, the identity crisis faced by late-diagnosed individuals, and the criticism of high-functioning individuals on the autism spectrum.
Takeaways:
Autism research should start from understanding the positive aspects, rather than focusing solely on the negative stereotypes and challenges.Autistic individuals experience the world differently, particularly in terms of sensory sensitivities, and it is crucial to understand and accommodate these differences.The environment plays a significant role in the experiences and outcomes of autistic individuals, and efforts should be made to create inclusive and supportive environments.Understanding and respecting the diverse experiences and perspectives of autistic individuals is essential for accurate representation and effective advocacy. Mental health is an important aspect of overall well-being and should be understood and prioritized.Language matters when discussing autism, and it is important to use inclusive and empowering language that recognizes the abilities and strengths of autistic individuals.A harmonious coexistence between neurodivergent and neurotypical individuals is essential for a more inclusive society.00:00 Introduction
04:27 Popularity of the Course
07:19 Negative Narrative and Pejorative Language
09:38 Harmonious Coexistence of Neurodivergent and Neurotypical
13:25 Validation and Defense of the Autistic Community
15:22 Microaggressions and Gaslighting
20:08 Invalidation and Identity Crisis
22:04 Importance of Advocacy and Listening
23:50 Misconceptions about Eye Contact
25:13 Language Matters and Individuality
31:49 Critics and Individual Experiences
36:01 Blaming Autism for Everything
37:01 Invalidating Difficulties
38:28 Autism + Environment = Outcome
42:47 Trust and Communication
51:20 The Power of Language
56:06 Exploring Energy and Environment
Dr Luke Beardon,Senior Lecturer in Autism, The Autism Centre, Sheffield Hallam University:
PgCert Autism Part-time 2024 - Sheffield Hallam University: https://www.shu.ac.uk/courses/teaching-and-education/pgcert-autism/part-time
Website: https://www.shu.ac.uk/about-us/our-people/staff-profiles/luke-beardon
Books: https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Dr-Luke-Beardon/author/B072HC7SHS
Whether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.
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Meltdowns can be overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences, often triggered by sensory overload or unexpected events. In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share what meltdowns feel like from a neurodivergent perspective. They cover the causes and effects of meltdowns, the importance of self-care and coping mechanisms - such as stimming and finding ways to recharge - the challenges of social anxiety and the power of communication.
In this episode you can expect to learn about:
Meltdowns can have a significant impact on mental and physical well-being, and recognizing the signs can help prevent or manage them.Factors such as fatigue, hunger, and emotional issues can contribute to the intensity of meltdowns.Self-care and finding supportive environments can help regulate emotions and prevent meltdowns.Creating breathing room and recovery after a meltdown is essential for self-care and maintaining mental health.Prioritize understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals rather than trying to 'fix' them.Stimming is an essential coping mechanism for neurodivergent individuals to navigate a challenging world.The impact of past trauma can affect present reactions and behaviours.00:00 Intro
01:28 Explaining Meltdowns and Emotional Regulation
08:08 Types of Meltdowns and Coping Mechanisms
12:14 Managing Meltdowns and Recharging
25:15 Stimming and Early Intervention
30:05 Childhood Meltdowns
37:21 The Aftermath of Meltdowns
43:05 Driving and Anxiety
44:17 The Impact of Words and Trauma
52:29 The Power of Self-Acceptance and Healing
Whether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.
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Find joy and fulfillment in being true to oneself and challenge societal expectations and stereotypes. In this episode, Jordan and Simon discuss the joy and importance of embracing childlike behavior as adults. They encourage listeners to embrace their childlike interests and hobbies, share experiences around the struggles of navigating authority and social hierarchy, the importance of autonomy and individuality for neurodivergent people and why we should respect others who may have unique perspectives and abilities that differ to our own.
In this episode you can expect to learn about:
The concept of retaining infant synaptic pathways and the advantages of a 'baby brain' in terms of hyperlearning and creativityTreat others with respect, especially neurodivergent individuals who may have unique perspectives and abilities.Adopt a supportive managerial style that focuses on helping team members grow and giving them autonomy.Avoid being judgmental or condescending when someone makes a mistake; instead, offer guidance and support.Question social norms and be aware of the impact of your words and actions on others.00:00 Intro
02:02 Embracing Childlike Behavior as an Adult
07:30 Understanding Neurodivergent Brain Development
10:20 Hyper Learning and Eye Contact
16:30 The Joy of Going to Disneyland and Embracing Inner Child
20:18 The Impact of Masking and Not Being True to Oneself
24:38 The Burden of Societal Expectations and Toxic Masculinity
26:31 The Importance of Being Treated with Respect
27:35 Struggling with Authority and Social Hierarchy
34:40 Different Managerial Styles
44:04 The Judge's Fist Bump and Acceptance of Differences
Whether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.
Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepod
Facebook: theneurodivergentexperience
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