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In this episode, we talk about Separation Anxiety and how you can assist your children through an Aware Parenting lens.
[2.01] Global separation anxiety and development
[2.57] Maps and Models around behaviour and Separation - 3 main reasons
[4.45] Lack of information for children
[9.15] Childrens needs with Separation
[13.00] Trusting yourself on the right care for your child
[15.40] Built up feelings that affect separation
[21.03] Practical example of how separation issues from the past can surface
[23.40] What is our energy saying around the separation
[26.00] What if we hold on to tightly and compassion for ourselves
[29.01] Natural timing and highly sensitive children
[33.21] How could drop-offs look like at school or kinder or daycare
[35.55} Tips for caregivers for a child who is upset
[37.05] The beauty of listening to loss
[39.20] Attachment play with Separation Games
[45.00] Other ideas around helping your child with Separation
[50.30] Invitations and Offerings to assist you with Separation
This week’s invitation:
1. Tune into what happens for you when you separate from your child. How does your child respond?
2. Do you have old wounds from when you were left as a child?
Resources:
Marion’s course: Inner Loving Presence Process Course: http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in
Lael’s sessions via Skype - [email protected]
Emma Dumas Separation Resource - http://www.expandingminds.com.au/
Aletha Solter Books : The Aware Baby, Tears and Tantrums, Cooperative and Connected, Attachment Play
As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast
You can find Marion at www.marionrose.net and Lael at www.laelstone.com.au
And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed every two weeks.
Sending you much love, compassion, and grace in your parenting journey.
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In this episode, we talk about attachment play, which is a term coined by Aletha Solter, Ph.D. to describe the 9 types of play that can be used to help children cooperate, feel connected, heal from painful past experiences, release fear and powerlessness, and express feelings that otherwise lead to hitting, not sleeping and repressing feelings.
We explain how attachment play works, why it’s the opposite of behaviourism, how we can use it to help children cooperate, and we give examples of how it can be used in really specific ways.
Most of all, it brings more connection, joy and fun into family life!
Further resources:
Attachment Play by Aletha Solter, Ph.D. http://www.awareparenting.com/attachmentplay.html
Attachment Play Course by Marion Rose, Ph.D. http://www.attachmentplaycourses.com/join-in
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In this episode, we talk about the importance of us having emotional support as parents in order to increase our capacity to parent in this way.
We include:
Presence;
The power of listening;
Empathy buddies; and
Professional support.
Listening Partnerships - Carolina Valenica Coleman
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In this episode, we talk about relationships within the context of Aware Parenting, including:
co-parenting, divorce, intimacy, and long term relationships.
We talk about one parent practicing Aware Parenting when the other parent isn't on board and navigating Aware Parenting with a wider family who don't understand or don't resonate.
We also talk about the importance of our inner relationships and doing our own Inner parenting work.
