This Glorious Mess

This Glorious Mess

Australia

This is not the place for "perfect parents". This is a weekly look at parenting as it truly is - confusing, exhausting, inspiring, completely full of surprises and very messy. Join Andrew Daddo, broadcaster, author of children's books and father of three, and Holly Wainwright, editor, writer and mother of two, as they unpack what parents are really talking about. From toddlers to teenagers, it's all the disasters and delights of parenting, made real.

Episodes

Keep Your Filthy Smoker Hands Off My Baby  

The smokers of the world are huffing and puffing and they want to know - can you really unfriend someone for smoking around your baby? Move over mums and bubs movie sessions, the latest craze is pix, prams and pornography. But would you take your baby to see the new Fifty Shades of Grey flick and risk their first memory being the Red Room of Pain?   Plus, imagine waking up to find a photo of your 10-year-old going viral on the internet. We spoke to the dad of the little surfer dude making waves for his Jaws reenactment. And Andrew Daddo has come up with the smoothest way to talk to his kids about condoms. He also learned they’re not called condoms anymore, they’re just ‘things.’

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo. 

You can buy any book mentioned on our podcasts from iBooks at apple.co/mamamia.

We'd love you to tell another gloriously messy parent about this podcast.

You can contact the show with suggestions or comments via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Or, leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner.

EP of podcasts at Mamamia is Monique Bowley.

Head of entertainment is Holly Wainwright.

The Terrifying Text Slang of Teens  

Remember the innocence of LOL and ROFL? Those were the days. If you're feeling smug that you know what 'bae' means, sorry to break it to you, but there are a slew of new cyber slang terms that will curl your toes. Do you know what GNOC and KYS mean? Yikes. And ICYMI, social media is awash with PSAs. That's parenting service announcements.  From sunscreen rashes to inflatable pool toys that go bad, is it good or too paranoia-inducing? Plus, finally, a kids book where the main character has two mums. We talk to the author who crowdfunded this story of love, acceptance, and families that come in all different shapes and sizes.

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Jo Abi

You can buy Jess's book Enid and Her Two Mums here.

You can buy any other book mentioned on our podcasts from iBooks at apple.co/mamamia.

We'd love you to tell another gloriously messy parent about this podcast.

You can contact the show with suggestions or comments via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Or, leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner.
EP of podcasts at Mamamia is Monique Bowley
Head of entertainment is Holly Wainwright.

Over-Parenting, Lunchbox Politics and Fish Funerals.  

The parenting experts have given us the greatest gift in their latest piece of advice – do less. Sounds blissful. But what happens when Jo 'I track my kids' Abi meets Michael 'your coddling is ruining your kid' Grose? And with school back, there’s a whole new wave of lunchbox rules to navigate and the teachers are watching so closely you would think the kids were smuggling in beer and cigarettes. But it's left us wondering - what the hell is nude food? Plus, Jo has been branded 'Fish Murderer' by her kids. Ouch. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Jo Abi

You can buy Michael's book The Spoonfed Generation or any other book mentioned on our podcasts from iBooks at apple.co/mamamia, where you can also subscribe to all our other shows in one place.

While you're there, leave us a review and tell us what you love about the show. 

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner.

Best of: I Took Nits All The Way To Italy.  

Welcome to the best of This Glorious Mess. We're digging into our back catalogue to bring you the most fascinating and funniest bits from the show. 

Lolly bags: A joyful tradition or more useless stuff we don't need? Imagine waving goodbye to your child as they left to scale Everest. Glenn Azar did just that. His daughter Alyssa Azar just climbed Mount Everest - the youngest ever Aussie to do so. So what's it like having an extreme teen? We speak to the Melbourne mum of twins whose ingenious solution to twin questions went viral. Holly's back from her family holiday, except it wasn't just the kids that enjoyed a European summer. Scratch scratch.

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff 

Best of: I fed a sugar free child all the chocolate in the world.  

Welcome to the best of This Glorious Mess. We're digging into our back catalogue to bring you the most fascinating and funniest bits from the show. 

How the heck do you control screen time? Nikki Gemmell bolted a safe to the floor and only she knows the combination. You're taking someone else's kid to a birthday party. They aren't allowed sugar. Do you tail them to make sure they don't touch the fairy bread? Or do you let them run wild into a land of cakes and jelly snakes?Plus we speak to a midwife who has delivered over 10,000 babies, and ask her about some of the most unusual things she's seen in the birthing suite. She also answers whether or not you really need an Enya CD playing (hint, it's a no...).

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff 

Calling all mums...  

...and dads....Mamamia is working on a new podcast and we need your stories.

Call us on 02 8999 9386

Or send an email to podcast@mamamia.com.au

Best of: The woman who gave birth in peak hour traffic.  

It's the best of This Glorious Mess. We're digging into our back catalogue to bring you the most fascinating and funniest bits from the show. 

Holly Wainwright went on an unplugged holiday to Lord Howe Island last week, and discovered a whole new world - two kids and no wi-fi. Plus, have you ever wondered who donates sperm? Comedian, and possible father of seven, Toby Halligan calls in to answer our questions. Peak hour traffic is painful enough. So just imagine giving birth it in. Adelaide mother-of-two Bianca Grant says it was feet up on the dash, and away she went....as buses drove by...and strangers walked past.  

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff 

 

Best Of: The Couple Who Retired In Their 30's.  

We're digging into the back catalogue and bringing you the most talked-about, the funniest, and the best bits of the show. 

Do you live in a naked house? If you feel overdressed in a towel and can pick your son’s bare bum out of a line-up, the answer is probably yes. And how much is a tooth worth these days? There's one toothfairy that's gone wayyy over the top. For anyone who's got the post-holiday work blues, we meet a couple who retired in their 30's and found out how they did it. Plus, Holly finally nailed getting Billy to eat greens in the form of a spinach pie recipe sent in by a listener. It's practically magic. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

This episode was brought to you by Telstra. 

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff 

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The Road Trip Special.  

If you're hitting the wide open road this summer, wind in your hair, kids howling in the back seat, 'are we there yet?' ringing in your ears... you need this show. To save your sanity, we're bringing you a super bonus bumper game show to keep everyone entertained, at least until the next pit stop. This is one to listen to with the entire family, big ears and small. We'll bring the games and quizzes, you bring the lollies. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner

The executive producer of podcasts is Monique Bowley

The head of entertainment is Holly Wainwright

See you all next year! 

The Brutal 2016 Report Card.  

This week, we're wrapping up our year in parenting. What were the big trends? What baby names are making a comeback? And what were the kids getting up to when they should have been doing their homework? Plus, because the lunatics are running the asylum this week - our kids are taking over nailed and failed with our report card for the year. And it's a B for brutal...

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner

The kids' party for all the uninvited kids.  

Did you know some kids have never been to a birthday party? But hold the tears… This dad found out and now he’s celebrating his birthday in the best way ever. And stop wasting thousands of dollars on presents you end up fishing out of the bin on Boxing Day, we’ve found a place where you can get only the best toys. Plus, what are teachers REALLY saying on those report cards? A guide to reading between the lines.

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner

If you are interested in becoming a foster carer or would like more information, contact Key Assets on 1800 WE CARE or visit www.canifoster.com.au

Key Assets is a not-for-profit foster care provider who supports carers with on-going training, 24/7 support and a dedicated social worker. Carers also receive an allowance to help support the valued work they do.

 

What's that sound? A million bottles being flipped.  

Fads come, and fads go. Marbles, elastics, Pokemon Go. But this time, kids are flipping out of water bottles and Daddo can't get his head around it. Are you a Smug Married Person? Kerri Sackville joins us for an ode to single parents this holiday season, and the social etiquette class you didn't know you needed.  Plus, the passive-aggressive presents we're just dying to give hateful children this Christmas. In one terrifying word - glitter. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo

With thanks to Kerri Sackville

This podcast was brought to you by Key Assets

If you want to buy Kerri's book or subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner

If you are interested in becoming a foster carer or would like more information, contact Key Assets on 1800 WE CARE or visit www.canifoster.com.au

Key Assets is a not-for-profit foster care provider who supports carers with on-going training, 24/7 support and a dedicated social worker. Carers also receive an allowance to help support the valued work they do.

 

Crossfit for kids is on the naughty list.  

Does your four-year-old need to work on his abs? Gruelling, tyre-tossing Crossfit classes are now available for kids, but would you let yours join the cult? And did you hear Santa's too busy to watch your kids this year? Now it's the Elf on the Shelf finding out who's been naughty or nice. And he's not real... Plus, how far would you go to get your child into private school? We meet the dad who hired a team of professionals. 

Show notes

Your hosts today were Holly Wainwright and Mamamia's resident author Jacqui Lunn.

If you want to buy Jacqui's book or subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner.

Teaching your kids the value of a buck.  

Do your kids turn into greedy little monsters when Christmas rolls around? We invited The Barefoot Investor Scott Pape to tell us how we can teach kids about money at the most expensive time of the year. And speaking of wish lists as long as your arm, have your kids got a Hatchimal on theirs? We discuss the most sought-after presents that spark toy shop brawls. And if you're looking for a more original gift idea, meet the mum who wants to buy her 12-year-old a boob-job.

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo

With thanks to Scott Pape

This podcast was brought to you by Officeworks Free School List Service.

If you want to buy Scott's book or subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff.

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When you decide to move the kids to Bali  

What happens when you move three kids under five from Sydney to live in Bali? We speak to author Fiona Higgins, who says the reality isn't the Instagrammable holiday we imagined. Plus, with celebrities calling their kids everything from Apple to Dream Kardashian - where are all the Bobbys and Sues? And if you've been hearing this parenting buzzword everywhere, we have an explainer on 'sharenting'. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo

With thanks to Fiona Higgins.

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner and Elissa Ratliff.

The birth guru who says labour doesn't have to hurt  

If you're sick of horror stories about birth, you're going to love Milli Hill. The founder of the Positive Birth Movement has some revolutionary ideas about how women approach having babies, so grab the scented candles and uncross your legs. Also, how do you answer the question: "What does sexy mean?" when it comes from a six-year-old and, is it really true that the smaller the house, the happier the family?

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo 

With thanks to Milli Hill from the Positive Birth Movement

If you want to subscribe to This Glorious Mess, go to apple.co/mamamia, where you will find all of Mamamia’s podcasts, as well as any book we ever talk about on any of our shows in one place.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Rachel Wagner.

My 6-Year-Old Is Not Getting A Manicure  

There’s nothing better than a bit of pampering at the salon, but do you bring the kids? Holly says no. Plus where are your kids right now? If you answered ‘how should I know?’ you may need a lesson in stalking. Writer Jo Abi has an app that lets her track her kids, so she’ll never have to wonder if they made it to school safely. Creepy? Yes. Necessary? Maybe. 


Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo 

With thanks to Jo Abi.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Elissa Ratliff.

The Mum Who Says Boo To Halloween Treats.  

What's scarier? Halloween or the looming childhood obesity crisis? While all the darling kiddies are running around from house to house gathering lollies this weekend nutritionst Susie Burrell advises us to put the brakes on the chocolate train. Gulp. Plus, want to raise a sporting prodigy? Don't talk to a coach, talk to the bank because it will cost you at least $300,000. Yikes. And there's a very compelling case for why we need more honest grandmas on social media. 

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo 

With thanks to Susie Burrell.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show was produced by Elissa Ratliff with assistance from Luca Lavigne.

Parenting is an introvert's worst nightmare.  

What’s it like to be forced to socialise with other parents when you’re a huge, screaming introvert? Carla Gee joins us with some tips, such as; how many times can you lock yourself in the toilet? And is it rude to drown out other parent chatter with a white noise app? The dad who came up with a brilliant scheme to get kids off screens; involving only a piece of folded up paper. There's advice for parents of biters. And, the mum whose quick thinking turned a possible party nightmare around. Nailed it.

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo 

With thanks to Carla Gee

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show is produced by Monique Bowley.

Thanks to Huggies Active; feels like a comforting hug.

Birds Nest Parenting is the new trend for fractured families.  

When parents split up, how do you negotiate living arrangements? 50-50, moving house during the week? The week with mum and the weekend with dad? Now there is another option, favoured by Gwyneth Paltrow no less, called bird's nest parenting, that could be the perfect solution. Plus, with Australia calling for marriage equality we speak to gay parent and campaigner Jacqui Tomlins about why we need to stop kids from using the word "gay" as an insult. And what did your parents let you do that these days would be seen as bad parenting? Ahhh...the days of old..when you could smoke at 14 and have eight-year-olds sleep outside in New York City...

Show Notes

Your hosts were Holly Wainwright And Andrew Daddo 

Thanks to campaigner Jacqui Tomlins. Find out more at her blog, here.

Tell us your story via email tgm@mamamia.com.au

Leave us an audio message at 02 8999 9386

This show is produced by Monique Bowley and Elissa Ratliff.

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