This is Why You're Single

This is Why You're Single

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Creators of the upcoming humor and advice book, Laura Lane and Angela Spera candidly breakdown real-life dating disasters with a new "reason why you're single" every week.


Age Is Just A Number ft Dr. Karin Anderson Abrell  

This week, relationship expert Dr. Karin Anderson Abrell tells us all about the time she called off a wedding 2 months before it was supposed to happen. Then we talk about timelines, shady dudes on Bumble and "the P word!" This week's episode is brought to you by Squarespace, MVMT, and Leesa.

You Can't Agree On a Date Spot  

This week, the girls are obsessed with Laura's dog, who is now a viral internet sensation. They also reminisce on hooking up in cars, question matching with friends on dating apps and agree that a "good" date is subjective. This week's episode is brought to you by Adam and Eve!

Your Imagination Runs Wild  

The girls discuss a very important email they received (spoiler: we are indirectly responsible for an engagement). Then get into the worst form of cheating and what to do if you're dating someone with no sexual desire! This week's episode is brought to you by SquareSpace and Smile Direct Club!

You Live for Other People  

The girls talk about how sober-living can be awkward for dating, confront long term partner's dating historys, and analyze who our moms want us to fuck!

The Grass Is Always Greener  

The girls are shocked to learn how long the average American is having sex (longer than one of us!), intrigued by the idea of doing laundry on a date, and stumped by an intense game of Would You Rather.

You Recycle Old Relationships ft. Comedian Cristina Cote  

Comedian Cristina Cote (and her Russian model alter ego Svetlana) join us to chat rejection, fetishes and the joy of running into Bumble matches IRL. This week's episode is brought to you by Blue Apron!

You Haven't Embraced Your Inner Nerd ft. DragonFruit dating app CEO  

This week, we are joined by self-proclaimed geek Orie Enav, the founder of DragonFruit, a dating app for nerds! We chat about blocking people on dating apps, humblebrags and our own personal geekdoms (linguistics, anybody?). This week's episode is sponsored by Squarespace!

You're Passive Aggressive  

This week, it's just us girls talking about awkward bikini waxes, lessons learned from threesomes and outgrowing friends. This week's episode is sponsored by Squarespace!

You're Slut-Shaming Yourself ft. Lisa Klienman  

This week, comedian Lisa Klienman (Refinery29's Sexxess) joins us to chat shaving in front of significant others, friends with benefits and the S-word. This week's episode is brought to you by TrackR

You Need Boob Confidence  

It's just the two of us this week! Things get very personal when we talk about stray boob hairs, Olympians we may or may not have canoodled with and the weird side effects of birth control. This week's episode is brought to you by Tidal and Squarespace!

You Don't Know Dating Lingo ft. Tessa Hersh  

This week we welcome funny-lady Tessa Hersh (UCB, Truth Fairy) and find out why you should order the same meal as your date, how to send a confirmation text and what DGYF stands for (Spoiler: Dang Girl You Fine). This week's episode is brought to you by Blue Apron!

You Need to Focus on You ft. Trans Playwright Tobly McSmith  

This week we welcome playwright Tobly McSmith (Katdashians, Showgirls the Musical) who tells us what it's like to date as a trans man in NYC and about his past as a slave to a dominatrix. Then we get into Pokémon Go-inspired sex toys, trace the origin of the female orgasm and learn how to love ourselves (not in the masturbation kind of way). This episode was sponsored by Blue Apron and TrackR!

One-Year Anniversary Special!  

Paaaarrttyy! We celebrate our one year podcast anniversary by looking back on our favorite episodes. We also get life updates from some of our most popular listeners and guests, including Scott Rogowsky (who is dating our listeners?!) and Stephen from SXSW (got dumped by his GF for coming on the show?!).

Your Type Sucks ft. Elliott Brooks  

The lovely Elliott Brooks (currently starring as Khloe in the Off-Broadway hit KATdashians!) joins us to talk about how Pokémon Go is more popular than porn, falling for her handsome trans boyfriend, and, yes, the Kardashians. This week's episode is sponsored by Blue Apron.

You Have A Secret - Shhh!  

Laura and Angela tackle intense listener questions like "What should I do if my guy has a fetish for watching me sleep?" and "Should I keep dating a Trump supporter?". Yikes. Then we reveal secrets in a game of Never Have I Ever. This week's episode is sponsored by TrackR!

There's No Time To Date  

This week the girls dive into the phenomenon of "benching," hear from a listener who got ghosted after losing her virginity and finally compete for how many swipes and matches they can get in under 10 seconds.

Everybody Good Is Taken  

Laura and Angela go one-on-one to figure out why people flirt on airplanes, how to date when you're a lady with a disability and if Nickleback is a deal-breaker.

Dating Is Expensive  

It's just Angela and Laura this week! We talk about how often ladies are turned on, Grey's Anatomy-style dating in hospitals, and C-list stars in Laura's home. We also review some of our favorite (and meanest) listener emails and comments!

You're Too Nice ft. Broad City's Arturo Castro  

Arturo Castro (everyone's favorite stoner roommate from Broad City) joins us to talk about his perfect girlfriend, being "barely straight," cry-gasms and virgins! This week's episode is sponsored by Squarespace and TrackR.

You Don't Know When To Sleep With Him  

Laura and Angela have a heart-to-heart about what happens when your double date companions show up stoned. Then we are shocked when Cosmo tells us out how many men fake orgasms and play our own version of strip poker. This episode is sponsored by Blue Apron!

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