Episodes

  • When a relationship is damaged by pornography use and dishonesty, many couples wonder if it's possible to actually fully rebuild trust again.

    There are often lots of staggered or trickle disclosures, which caused a lot of damage to the trust.

    So can it actually be rebuilt again?

    The answer is yes.

    But it requires a very specific approach and that's what I want to share with you in today's episode.

    The more clarity you have about what steps to take and how to rebuild trust, the more you can focus on taking the right actions and start to see progress in your relationship.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?

    Email me here:

    [email protected]

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Are you and your spouse tired of arguing about the same thing over and over again?

    Are you feeling stuck not knowing how to find closure and repair the damage of pornography use in your marriage?

    Most couples get stuck when discussing the pain and hurt they feel and conversations end in fights or distance.

    In today's episode, I want to share with you, one specific tool that you can implement immediately to have better conversations with each other.

    And when you know how to have conversations in a way that creates closure, you can discuss any difficult topic without it spiraling into an argument.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?

    Email me here:

    [email protected]

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

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  • When a man struggles with porn pornography use, it can cause a lot discouragement and fear for both him and his wife.

    So many women live in constant anxiety that the other shoes going to drop and they're gonna get hurt again.

    Husbands often feel an underlying sense of inadequacy because they haven't been able to quit despite their best efforts to stop.

    In today's episode, I share with you some specific things you do in order to break out of the negative pattern and find hope of overcoming this issue.

    Is the difference between managing your triggers and actually being free from them, and that’s what makes progress and growth sustainable.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Mike struggle with pornography for 30 long years.

    The feelings of hopelessness and anxiety debilitated him at times because no matter what he did to quit, it just didn’t bring him the freedom he was so desperately seeking.

    He found this podcast and discovered that there was a new way to approach things after listening to some episodes.

    He decided to reach out to work with me and he felt an immediate change even after the first call (which he’ll share in the episode).

    Now that he’s finished with the process, he say’s the freedom he now enjoys in “indescribable.”

    He wanted to share his experience to help other people learn what helped him on his journey and to give hope to those who feel discouraged.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, it obviously has such a huge impact on a wife.

    Understandably, she takes it very personal. It makes her question everything about the relationship, him and herself.

    She'll often and wonder if she good enough for him? Does he actually love her? If so, how could he have done this? What does all of this mean for me and for us?

    These are very difficult questions that she asks, and it comes from a place of broken trust and security.

    In the healing process it's very important to have these questions answered and to reconcile how he could've done this if he does love her.

    In today's episode we deep dive on how to make sense of all of this and how to start to heal your relationship.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Have you ever struggled with feelings of an adequacy or not being accepted?

    And has that been a trigger for you in the past that has led you down the path towards pornography use?

    If so, you’re not alone. In fact this is a really common trigger for a lot of guys because feelings of rejection or failure or not being enough create heavy negative emotions that we want to get away from.

    In this episode, I'm doing a live call with Steve, where we deep dive into his feelings of inadequacy to help him break these beliefs and create new thought patterns that build self-esteem and self-worth.

    Along to hear how we approach this so you can apply the same tools in your life and overcome feelings of self doubt and shame.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • I once worked with a woman who was completely overwhelmed because her husband continued to struggle with pornography use.

    She was at her wits end.

    She felt like a ball of anxiety always waiting for the other shoe to drop and could never really feel comfortable in her skin and safe in the relationship.

    The moment she started to let her guard down it just so happened that he would mess up again.

    They had been in this loop for the past 10 years of their marriage.

    When she reached out, she asked me this specific question – how do I handle it so that this doesn’t bring me down and it takes a day or week to deal with it?

    We had a conversation that day, and I shared with her a couple of thoughts that helped to soften the pain of betrayal she was feeling.

    I want to share those with you as well so you as a husband or wife, listening to this can know how to find or provide some relief as you’re working on repairing things.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • It's very discouraging for both a husband and wife when a man gets stuck in the cycle of falling back into pornography. Use every few weeks or months.

    In this situation, a wife feels continual anxiety, just waiting for the other shoe to drop.

    A husband feels discouragement and hopelessness feeling like he's not making progress despite his best efforts.

    In this episode, I share with you exactly how to break this cycle for good and how you can create safety in your relationship, knowing that the root of the problem is resolved and the pornography use is eliminated.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • When pornography use is discovered in a relationship it undermines the very foundation and security.

    It often creates suspicion, fear, uncertainty, and a total lack of security and connection.

    After having worked with hundreds and hundreds of couples, I want to share with you the three of pillars that I've seen help create connection and security, faster than anything else.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • One of the biggest fears that women have in this process is that her husband will return to pornography since she won't know about it.

    She’ll bring down her wall, start to trust him again, and then the other shoe will drop and she'll be devastated again.

    How can she know if he is still stuck in his pattern?

    If there’s been dishonesty in the past, how can she know if he is telling the truth or not now?

    It's critical for a husband to demonstrate change in a way that helps her to believe him again.

    It's very discouraging for him when he really is trying and is making progress, but no matter what he does he feels down when she doesn’t believe him.

    In this episode I'll share how you can approach this together to help build security and confidence that things really are different as a result of the new actions he's taking.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Have you ever wondered why you haven't been able to quit pornography permanently?

    Do you feel like you know the tools but just aren't using them in the moment you need them most?

    If the tools you've been trying to implement haven't brought you freedom yet, you're using the wrong ones.

    This creates a problem in a relationship as well –

    A woman can't trust her husband who keeps returning back to pornography, even if he is trying his best.

    There's nothing wrong with you, it's just the approach that you've been taught isn't working.

    In this episode, I share with you how you can identify what tools you need to be using instead and how you can change your approach to really get traction and find success.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Many couples fear that it's not possible to eliminate pornography use from their lives. Men struggle for decades with urges and temptation without the right tools.

    This leads them to fall back into old patterns and makes them believe they can't ever quit.

    Kevin was a man who went through my program and not only got the tools to quit pornography for good, he lost the desire to view it at all.

    No more temptation. No more urges. This is what freedom looks like.

    In today's episode, he shares with you the steps he took and how he approached things in order for him to find this freedom.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Many couples struggle with feelings of uncertainty and insecurity in their marriage.

    Years of deception and lying erodes the foundation of trust, and a lack of communication or transparency keep things stuck.

    In this episode episode, I share a very easy-to-implement tool that can help you to build security in your marriage again. But missing this can keep your wheels spinning in your marriage despite making progress on a personal level.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

    To get more tools to help you resolve communication breakdowns, check out these previous episodes:

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QMGxl99muUDOoojYPOUnX?si=5Tl5gg4tQgmLG6QAynIsdQ

    https://open.spotify.com/episode/5IJ812sUVt3x0CKj7Juj8R?si=2d18kEQ3Rm2c_G4kubBQ3g

  • Many men and women wonder if quitting porn is actually possible to do or if it's something that just needs to be managed for the rest of their life.

    The good news: YES! It's 100% possible to quit and never return.

    In this episode I'll share with you specifically what I've seen work best to help men quit Porn and never return.

    The more you have about what the underlying problem is, the more the solution becomes obvious.

    Once you implement those solutions, the old patterns lose their power, which gives husbands confidence that they can move forward without messing up again, and it gives a wife peace of mind knowing she can actually be safe and let her guard down when he's done the work.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • One very difficult hurdle that many women struggle, with is the idea of forgiveness or staying in the relationship with someone who hurt them so much.

    If she forgives him, does that mean he's getting away with everything?

    Does it make her feel like she has no dignity left if she stays in the relationship? That she just accepts behavior she completely stands against?

    In this episode, I share with you a different way to look at the situation to help you feel more comfortable staying in the relationship without feeling like he's getting away with it.

    I also share how a husband can help facilitate closure and healing in the relationship when she’s struggling in this phase of the journey.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Rebuilding sexual intimacy after damage by pornography can be a challenge for many couples.

    A wife often has fears and concerns like:

    How do I know he's not fantasizing when we're intimate?What if he's just using me and I'm being manipulated?I feel inadequate and not attractive enough

    A husband often wants to know how to help his wife through her triggers and how to restore their intimacy together.

    In this episode, I meet with a couple live and help them work through these blocks and know what tools to implement to repair their physical intimacy and develop a deeper connection together.

    If you like this style of episode, please send me an email and let me know! I'll be doing a few more of these to see if it helps you as a listener. If it does, I'll do more. If it doesn't, then I won't!

    You can send your feedback to [email protected]

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • Going out into public can create a lot of anxiety for both a husband and wife.

    She's worried about who he's looking at and what he's thinking about, and he's worried about her getting triggered and feels anxious not knowing what to do or how to help her.

    In this episode, I share with a few specific things that you can do to address this issue to help build security in your relationship.

    If objectification has been a problem, I also share tools to help you break those patterns and overcome the behavior altogether.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Click here for info to work with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • If you had to get to the other side of a mountain, would you rather take a tunnel through it or climb all the way up and around it?

    It still takes effort and intention to get to the other side, but one path is far more streamlined.

    In this episode I share with you 3 things that can help take you through the tunnel when it comes to repairing your relationship.

    There isn't a one size fits all approach when it comes to restoring your marriage and overcoming pornography, but there are principles that the most successful people focus on in order to get the results they want.

    In today's episode, I share with you 3 of them that can make a huge difference for you and your progress.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Go to http://stopporn.info/ for more information about working with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support.

    It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    Rebuild Trust Workshop

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Click the Couples Healing website and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • When pornography use is discovered in a relationship, there is often a lot of grief and hurt that surfaces.

    Shock about how this could have happened. Feeling stuck in pain not knowing how to make sense of it.

    And grief about what the relationship once was and uncertain about how to move forward.

    In this episode I share a few specific ways to approach grief, sadness, and hurt that enables healing and closure from the past.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Go to stopporn.info for more information about working with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support. It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    trust.stopporn.info

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.

  • After pornography use, a husband becomes a source of pain as well as a source of comfort for his wife. this can be such a confusing place for both people to be.

    Sometimes she doesn't want to be around him at all, but other times she needs him close and for him to provide reassurance.

    As a man, oftentimes he doesn't know what to say or how to help so he ends up giving space when really what she needs is his support.

    In this episode, I share with you specific things that you can do in order to turn the relationship into a place where is felt.

    I also share tools for a husband to know how to navigate the ups and downs of conversations and how to support her in the moments she needs it most.

    For therapy with Sam:

    I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

    If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

    Go to stopporn.info for more information about working with me directly.

    Join the free, private men’s community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support. It's even better because it's not on Facebook anymore, it's on a much better platform that will facilitate a lot more support and help for men:

    Join the Private Group Here

    Get access to my trust building workshop:

    trust.stopporn.info

    Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

    Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

    Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction.