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Regarding the acquisition of marital resources and self-inflation:In a marriage, if a man can obtain stable life care and emotional support, he is very likely to achieve positive improvements both physically and mentally.It is somewhat reasonable that a wife may find it difficult to continue to serve as a projection carrier after marriage. When a wife remains stagnant for a long time, in the eyes of her husband, she may gradually lose the space that allows him to fantasize and endow her with idealized traits. Therefore, a man may seek a projection object outside the marriage. Because projection requires a sense of mystery and unpredictability.Men who are indulged in this kind of projection will experience cognitive dissonance. When a man projects his ideal image onto a certain woman, in order to maintain the rationality and continuity of this projection, he will often selectively ignore or whitewash the problems existing in that woman and only be willing to see the side that conforms to his imagination.
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本集播客探讨了当代男性爱的能力下降的现象，指出其原因在于：年轻男性依赖“拜金”行为逃避付出；社交媒体助长了利用和操控人际关系以获取利益的不良风气， ；社会对“花花公子”的推崇扭曲了爱情观；便捷的社交软件导致男性沉迷于短暂关系，缺乏建立深度情感的能力；以及， 男性主动选择了这种轻松的路径 。
This episode of the podcast explores the phenomenon of the decline in contemporary men's ability to love, and points out that the reasons are as follows: Young men rely on "money-worshiping" behaviors to avoid making efforts; Social media has fueled the bad trend of exploiting and manipulating interpersonal relationships to obtain benefits; Society's admiration for "playboys" has distorted the concept of love; Convenient social apps have led men to be addicted to short-term relationships and lack the ability to build deep emotional bonds; Moreover, men have actively chosen this easy path.
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This episode explores the impact of social media and dating apps on modern people's romantic relationships. It points out that the convenient online interactions have led people to form two patterns in intimate relationships. One is being addicted to short-term or polyamorous relationships and pursuing the excitement of novelty, yet possibly being unable to adapt to long-term commitments. The other is longing for long-term relationships but feeling physically and mentally exhausted and doubting their self-worth in the process of constantly attempting short-term interactions. Only plain, lasting and mutually trusting long-term relationships can enable people to live a happy life.
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The importance of the tradition.
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If, during the course of our work, we are confronted with substantial uncertainties and find ourselves in a work environment that lacks the capacity to embrace diverse thinking and the clash of viewpoints, then what meaning or value can be ascribed to the act of composing our work reports?
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People Who Show Weakness to You Are Actually Manipulating You.
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If you are overly sensitive and irritable in an intimate relationship, it may not be that there is something wrong with your emotion management, but that there is something wrong with the relationship itself.
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Love is not unconditional. Please admit, identify and express your own emotional needs.
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Do you regard over-giving as a means of getting rewards and gaining recognition?
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The other person is getting worse and worse, and part of it is the result of our "training".
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Before the storm arrives, make sure that we have taken the lifebuoy with us.
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In an intimate relationship, the reason why you dare not put forward your needs is not that you are not brave enough, but that you don't feel safe.
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Why do we fall in love with others so easily? Why is it that regardless of the other person's qualities, we can fall in love with them so easily? If our love is rational, then why are we in so much pain?
