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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!



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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - A Very Random Introduction
    3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist?
    11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question?
    21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams?
    32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!
    52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker?



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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!



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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:18 - Men Tell All
    36:50 - Bloopers
    41:30 - Preview
    44:02 - Andy’s A-Game
    46:52 - Shandy Word Watch
    48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions



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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off
    11:58 - Guy’s Overnight
    39:45 - Pascal
    42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight
    51:51 - Andy’s A-Game


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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress?
    18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do?
    29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy?
    45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws?
    1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice?



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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:27 - Guy’s Hometown
    13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown
    28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown
    37:09 - Chock’s Hometown
    49:00 - Rose Ceremony
    1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game
    1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch
    1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions



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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off
    12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1
    18:43 - Mark
    24:55 - Back On The Date
    32:58 - Group Date
    39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1
    47:47 - The Next Day
    50:27 - Rose Ceremony
    56:06 - Andy’s A-Game
    57:44 - Shandy Word Watch
    1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions



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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate? 
    13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure?
    23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend?
    33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?
    55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors


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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    4:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off
    5:04 - Group Date
    22:59 - The Next Day
    26:00 - Jordan’s 1-On-1
    33:50 - Guy’s 1-On-1
    39:33 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
    51:19 - Rose Ceremony
    53:35 - Andy’s A-Game
    54:26 - Shandy Word Watch
    57:27 - Shandy’s Predictions
    1:03:30 - F***, Marry, Kill


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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:37 - Episode 3 Kick Off
    6:02 - Pascal’s 1-On-1
    13:18 - Sharleen’s Frant
    25:14 - Group Date
    39:45 - Jonathan’s 1-On-1
    49:13 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
    57:20 - Gerry
    1:03:21 - Rose Ceremony
    1:03:53 - Andy’s A-Game
    1:04:09 - Shandy Word Watch
    1:07:48 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend’s Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think?
    11:43 - Q2: Am I The Asshole For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend’s 2-Year Old’s Birthday Party?
    16:32 - Q3: My Baby’s Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role?
    37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin?
    46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose?
    59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair?


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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping & Random Question
    3:11 - Episode 2 Kick Off
    8:52 - Group Date #1
    18:26 - Chock’s 1-On-1
    25:34 - The Next Day
    27:40 - Group Date #2
    34:40 - BBQ
    46:59 - Rose Ceremony
    52:26 - Andy’s A-Game
    55:21 - Shandy Word Watch
    57:19 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere of the Golden Bachelorette!


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    Time Stamps:
    Coming soon!


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  • It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat!


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    2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652


    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters?
    3:58 - What’s The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person?
    6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be?
    15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet?
    18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor? 
    22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle?
    24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show?
    25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of?
    28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less?
    35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting?
    35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper?
    36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil
    37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line?
    40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship?
    43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby’s Name?
    44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It?
    47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner’s Younger Self Something, What Would It Be?
    51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You?
    55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live?
    58:40 - Thank You


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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex?
    11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice?
    27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This?
    45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say?
    1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What’s My Next Move?


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  • Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the shocking FINALE of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!


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    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:00 - Jenn’s Family In Hawaii
    27:58 - Devin’s Final Date
    30:26 - Doctor Odyssey
    31:42 - Marcus
    38:19 - Neil Lane
    40:26 - Record Scratch
    1:00:33 - Proposal
    1:13:09 - Golden Bachelorette Preview
    1:13:43 - Andy’s A-Game
    1:19:12 - Fashion
    1:22:32 - Shandy Word Watch
    1:23:35 - Night One Predictions
    1:24:35 - Overall Thoughts


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  • It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a Bachelor Nation POWER COUPLE who has been married for nearly a year. You got to know Caelynn on Colton Underwood's season of The Bachelor, and Dean on Rachel Lindsay's season of The Bachelorette, but it was on season 6 of Bachelor in Paradise where we saw them escape reality TV, hand-in-hand!
    Today Caelynn and Dean chat their true first impressions of one another, the ways in which their partner isn't what they might have predicted for themselves, what the biggest misconceptions about them are, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a relaxed but very fun Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome Caelynn & Dean Bell!
    3:42 - Their New Surname
    8:25 - First Impressions
    21:13 - The Podcast
    26:33 - How They Complement Each Other
    33:39 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves
    40:07 - How They Fight
    45:22 - Common Misconceptions
    52:01 - What They’ve Learned Through Working Together
    58:18 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
    59:15 - The Newlyweds Game
    1:12:00 - Shandy Debrief


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  • Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're doing double, we're breaking down both Episode 8 and Men Tell All of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    0:53 - Episode 8 Kick Off
    2:27 - Devin’s Overnight
    12:50 - Jonathon’s Overnight
    19:05 - Marcus
    24:30 - Marcus’ Overnight
    38:03 - Episode 9 Kick Off
    41:58 - Rose Ceremony
    46:00 - Men Tell All
    51:00 - Sam M’s Hot Seat
    56:10 - Jonathon’s Hot Seat
    56:47 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives Promo
    58:10 - Grant
    1:00:53 - Jenn 
    1:14:03 - Andy’s A-Game
    1:14:40 - Fashion
    1:19:20 - Shandy Word Watch
    1:22:28 - Shandy’s Predictions


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  • Today's guest has come hotly requested by many of you and we're so happy to dissect the not-so-happy topic of childhood trauma with her. Anna Runkle, aka the one and only  @CrappyChildhoodFairy , is the author of the upcoming book "Re-Regulated" (releases October 1, 2024 - preorder below). She has amassed a whopping 860K+ Youtube subscribers with her content covering how to heal from Complex PTSD—or as she has coined, Childhood PTSD.

    If you struggle with regulating your emotions, if you get stuck in “looping,” repetitive, negative thoughts, if you struggle with anxiety, depression or overwhelm, or if you always find yourself with unavailable or inappropriate partners, it's highly possible a childhood of neglect or abuse might be to blame. Anna knows the experience well because she lived it herself. Today she breaks down the symptoms of CPTSD as well as her tried and true techniques to regulate your emotions and regain control of your life and your relationships. Listen on to heal!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Anna Runkle, Aka The Crappy Childhood Fairy!
    3:00 - What Is CPTSD?
    4:18 - Loneliness And How It Relates To Childhood
    5:59 - Can One Truly Heal Childhood Trauma?
    7:15 - Anna’s Story
    15:25 - What Do These Patterns Look Like?
    17:40 - Anna’s Techniques
    20:35 - Is To Heal To Find Closure Or Forgiveness?
    26:25 - What An Adult Child Should Do About A Parent Who Still Exhibits The Behavior From Their Crappy Childhood
    30:53 - What If The Adult Child Is The Sole Provider For That Parent?
    32:50 - “My Codependent Mother Wants To Be My Friend. Is It Ok To Tell Her I Need A Parent?”
    34:47 - Does Childhood Trauma Affect One’s Own Decision To Have (Or Not Have) Children?
    39:00 - Anna’s Own Twice Daily Practice
    44:33 - Analysis Paralysis
    48:24 - “Why Don’t I Remember My Childhood?”
    49:09 - Narcissism
    50:16 - The Word “Because”
    53:35 - The Parent’s Perspective
    57:22 - Shandy Debrief


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  • Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Hometown Week of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:05 - Devin’s Hometown
    14:56 - Jeremy’s Hometown
    28:32 - Jonathon’s Hometown
    33:42 - Marcus’ Hometown
    36:34 - Pub Man Chat
    42:39 - Rose Ceremony
    45:43 - Previews
    46:02 - Grant
    48:51 - Andy’s A-Game
    51:12 - Fashion
    55:18 - Shandy Word Watch
    59:07 - Shandy’s Predictions



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  • It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes you feel like one of the final two women on The Bachelor, how long is too long to give him to make his choice? And if your friend's public breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable, is it OK to say so? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!


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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction
    3:04 - Q1: My Boyfriend Didn’t Make Me Feel Prioritized—Am I Overreacting?
    12:21 - Q2: Our Friends Are Chronically Tardy And Have Even Stood Us Up—Help!
    21:33 - Q3: I Feel Like I’m Final Two On The Bachelor—How Long Do I Give Him To Decide?
    46:06 - Q4: I Told My Friend She Should Be Done Breastfeeding—AITA?
    55:56 - Q5: My Brother’s Habit Is Driving Me Nuts—Tell Me What To Do, Shandy!


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