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The advice that we hear non-stop is that you need to be authentic to be a leader. Most people are frustrated because they are authentic to the team, yet it is still not working.
There are stages of authenticity a leader walks through. The first stage is when you focus on making everyone around you feel okay. The second stage is you go from keeping yourself to allowing it to be spoken out loud. At this stage, people are transparent. And for the third stage, you move beyond authenticity of self as your sole goal. Leaders must walk through these three stages.
Listen as we dive deep into these stages. Why is it happening, and where authenticity is important? Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam discusses what's next for the Live Show, the process of developing leadership, and more!
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The leader needs to be humble. We love that as a concept, but what we do is we try to conduct ourselves in a way that we deem humble to avoid being humbled.
The irony is that people will talk about how important it is to be humble as a leader. But then, we are actively taking every possible step to avoid the experience of being humbled.
Being humbled is not an easy experience. To be humbled, we must be willing to confront and face our arrogance. We end up empowering others to not step into the spotlight ourselves.
Some people are so allergic to the idea that they might be arrogant and hide behind the safety of this performative humility. Sometimes, what a leader needs to do is to empower while holding the spotlight. Sometimes, what a leader needs to do is to be the one who stands and allows themselves to be praised and take credit.
Listen as you learn more about humble leadership, servant leadership, and more! Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam discusses The Art of Possibility, Slowing down and being with our/other's process, Is resistance necessary?, Podcast lessons and takeaways, and more!
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Fear is the earliest emotional state. It has been with us from the very beginning. It is essential for your survival and is the primary mechanism by which you've arrived at this point in your life.
The role of fear is very simple: It is to do whatever you must do to ensure that you stay in the realm that you are completely comfortable in and familiar with.
One of the ways that fear is effective is it creates a mechanism by which we learn to become afraid of being afraid.
What we don't typically do is bring much of any reverence to fear. We usually dismiss it and try to set it aside.
Listen as you will know what is the underlying way of being of the fear and how it works. Enjoy the show!
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"I made a mistake, and I'm never going to make that mistake again. I will do my best so that mistake never again occurs." These are the words we say when we make a mistake.
Most of the time, we force ourselves to be a master of something that we don't want to be. When that ability to perform comes from our hearts, and we just love doing it and wanting to be better, that is a beautiful thing. But what if our unwillingness to let ourselves off the hook becomes the fuel of our performance?
Listen as Adam Quiney will discuss more about this topic, the leadership, and the 'Gate of Suck.' Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam live coaches special guest Mike Dankert about talking about his thoughts and feelings with his partner.
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How do we do Intensive? The underlying format of the Intensive is kind of less important. Most of the time, people are often curious about the curriculum because they are comparing it with what others offer.
With an informational experience, the common question is, do you already know this or not? And if you don't already know this, then there is something you can learn. That is very different from transformational experience.
The transformational container is not about learning something new, it is about unlocking access to a new way of being for you.
What we do is support you to have the experience you want to have regardless of particular circumstances. If we can support and help you create a breakthrough regardless of particular circumstances, that breakthrough becomes available everywhere in life. That is the power of a transformational container.
Listen as we discuss more about how the Intensive works its magic. Enjoy the show!
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Seeing the path versus seeing a path is one of the more fundamental traps we fall into when we are engaging in the process of developing someone's leadership, coaching someone, and supporting someone.
It often happens in friendships, family relationships, romantic relationships, and parent-child relationships. It is a product of a desire to help someone along their path.
You are watching them walk their path, and then what you want to do is you want to give them some advice, tell them what to do, and make suggestions.
This desire comes from a good place. Usually, it is because you genuinely want to support people and make a difference to people.
The impact of this in the short term is that people might feel better. It will also make us feel good and put us on the leader pedestal.
But at some level, what you are doing when you do this is that you are creating the energy of not trusting someone along their path. It is not trusting that the path someone is walking is the exact path that they need to be walking.
Listen as you will learn more about the distinction between seeing a path versus seeing the path for someone, the reasons we do it, and the impact of it. Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam discusses Beneficial discomfort vs. harmful, Clients hiring your mentors/peers, Not making everything in your business about you, Leading yourself behind the scenes when no one is watching, Helping people along their path vs. their own process, Whatever spicy takes comes up in the moment, and more!
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We are now on the last part of Adam Quiney's series, 'Anatomy of a Retreat.' He talks about completion.
In most events, webinars, sessions, or ceremonies, people end with a small celebration or an afterglow. There's not a lot of care put into the notion of completion.
When we talk about the notion of being complete, it is sort of having no leftover energy. No open loops of energy around something. At a retreat, their commitment is that people not leave incomplete.
Listen and know more about the idea of completion and what we mean by it. Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam discusses Why bother coming from your essence?, Bringing together different personality types, Leading through breakdowns, The elimination of desire, Working with narcissistic leadership, Leadership of Self, Leading wet noodles, Leadership consent and more!
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With an educational retreat, the curriculum is the utmost priority. Without that, there is not much happening. That is how most of the webinars, workshops, and retreats operate.
In a retreat where the priority is transformation, the curriculum is secondary to that. They are using tools and techniques, new concepts, and exercises that people went through.
For Adam Quiney, whatever is going on in the moment, that is their curriculum. It doesn't matter how fast you think you should go. Move at a tempo.
Listen to the 3rd part of this 4-part series about the Anatomy of a Retreat about Curriculum. Enjoy the show!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam discusses Navigating your hobbies and your relationship, Benevolent manipulation, Selling what you do, How transformation unfolds, IFS and other modalities, How and when to compromise, Toxic goals vs. Authentic desire, and more.
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Adolf Hitler was an Austrian-born German politician who rose to power as the leader of the Nazi Party. Hitler did horrible things and ultimately was a horrible person.
Adam's challenge question for this episode is, "How would you coach Hitler?"
The starting point for working with anyone is to see the light in the face of whatever is currently showing up at the moment.
In this episode, Adam set an example of coaching Hitler before he started the Holocaust. Listen as he covered different topics in this question like survival mechanism, magnetism, and presence. Enjoy the show!
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In the second episode of the Anatomy of a Retreat by Adam Quiney, he discussed the topic 'Finalizing with the Leadership Team.' He talks about what happens during the retreat proper and the nature of the transformational container.
The nature of a transformational container is that it almost doesn't matter what conversation you are having. If you are holding a container transformationally, you are doing your work with your coach to clear where you stand.
Our work with the leadership team is about something other than the content. It is about creating containers such that people feel like they can be vulnerable, and they can take responsibility.
Listen and know more with this topic!
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On this week’s mid-week episode, tune in as Adam live coaches special guest Sherry Shannon-Vanstone around funding for her company.
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Adam Quiney, who is fresh from Costa Rica, will discuss things about a transformational retreat.
In this episode of The Transformational Leader, you will learn about the things that are required to lead a transformational retreat and the idea of what goes into causing transformation.
The transformational process isn't really about teaching. Teaching doesn't cause transformation, teaching causes education.
Listen as you will know the first part of the 'Anatomy of a Retreat,' the logistics and preparation. Answering the questions, "How to set up a transformational retreat, and what is happening to the early part of that?"
Enjoy the show!
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Adam Quiney covered two topics in this episode of The Transformational Leader. These two topics have a lot of commonalities. The questions that, "When do I no longer need coaching?" and a feeling that some people have that "Coaching is a cult."
No one needs coaching. Not a single person needs a coach. As soon as you impose this idea upon them that they need a coach, it's going to be harder for them to open themselves up to the idea that they can benefit from one.
When do you no longer need a coach? Right now. You don't need a coach. Listen as we tackle more about these topics! Enjoy the show!
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In this episode of The Transformational Leader with Adam Quiney, he talks about narcissism.
The trait of narcissism. It is what people are referring to when they say, "Oh, he was a narcissist."
Typically, one of the ways that this trait shows up is when someone always talks about themselves or someone who is always trying to give recognition to themselves. In addition, these are the people who steal the spotlight or just hold the spotlight and don't give anyone else any space.
As you rise in leadership, you are naturally going to see these kinds of traits.
Listen and know the options you can do to address this kind of trait and how to understand narcissism. Enjoy the show!
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