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  • This week Good Moms are joined with author, and wellness entrepreneur Shelah Marie to chat about friendships in adulthood, being a bonus mom, how mother wounds show up in platonic relationships, and why your growth isn’t selfish—it’s overdue.

     

    You can expect to hear:

    (04:10) – Why long-term friendships can quietly hold you back, and how to recognize it! (11:30) – Being a “bonus” mom and what it taught Sheila about her inner voice (20:05) – Triggers in friendships and the patterns they inherited from their moms (35:00) – Making new friends as a grown woman  (47:20) – Why sharing your problems isn’t the same as checking in (59:15) – Finding your “main character energy” by actually knowing who you are (1:11:40) – Tarot Time (1:26:00) – Whorie

     

    Whether you're rethinking your circle, making peace with your fertility journey, or just here for the laughs, there’s something here for you! 

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  • "Your setback in life can be the catalyst to your biggest comeback"

     

    This week on Good Moms Bad Choices, Erica and Milah are joined by Olympic gold medalist, former WNBA player, motivational speaker, and the first Black female athlete on the cover of Vogue, Marion Jones.  The ladies talk about raising kids in the age of social media, what it really means to rebuild your life after a public fallout, co-parenting with a partner you can’t stand, and coming out after marriage and kid

     

    You can expect to hear: 

    (03:20) – Marion Jones on going from Olympic glory to prison, and why it was the wake-up call she didn’t know she needed

    (10:45) – How grief shaped her childhood and why she poured her pain into sports

    (18:10) – The emotional moment she saw her estranged father at a game… for the last time

    (24:30) – Milah and Erica on finding out their daughters have secret TikToks

    (30:15) – The truth about coming out after marriage, motherhood, and fame

    (41:00) – Why being a "cool mom" doesn't mean being a pushover

    (52:00) – Erica’s missed WNBA dreams thanks to “the devil’s lettuce”

    (1:15:20) – Tarot Time: What spirit wants you to know right now

    (1:29:10) – Whorie Segment: A Michael Jackson impersonator, an underage Vegas trip, and a dating decision worth erasing

    Whether you're processing your own comeback, figuring out motherhood without a blueprint, or just here for some laughs and a good time, welcome! Send this episode to someone who needs to hear this!

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  • Welcome to Tribe Chat, Good Moms monthly bonus episode series.

     

    This week Erica, Milah, and comedian, entrepreneur, and Mama Lovely Mimi record an ASMR episode that certainitly is stressing dentists out around the world lol. If you want the visuals, make sure to go check out this episode on our YouTube channel.

     

    Also, If you missed last Wednesday's episode with Mimi, make sure to go check it out! We talk about why being a ride or die is overrated, owning the "bad choices" you make in motherhood without attaching shame, and the cardinal rules of having a professional threesome.

     

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  • Happy Mother’s Day Tribe!!!! 

     

    This week, Erica and Milah are joined by comedian, entrepreneur, and Mama Lovely Mimi. The ladies talk about how Mimi went from growing up in foster care and getting into legal trouble, to running multiple businesses and growing a successful brand, while being a mother of 2 (even though if it might've involved some fighting, trap houses, and threesomes lol).

     

    You can expect to hear:

    5:00 – Mimi’s early life in the group home system and how it shaped her

    14:00 – Getting in trouble with the law—and the wake-up call that followed

    21:00 – Love & Hip Hop: what’s real, what’s not, and why she walked away

    33:00 – Raising two kids while running multiple businesses (and still making time for self-care)

    44:00 – What “untraditional” really means and the “professional” way to have threesomes

    55:00 – Why Mimi stopped explaining herself—and what happened next

     

    Stay tuned for next Monday’s special ASMR bonus episode 05/12/25 with Lovely Mimi. You can also catch it on our YouTube Channel. Are you subscribed yet?!

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  • Who said adults can't also play?

     

    This week, Erica and Milah are joined by Michael Hollice, founder of The Play, the largest ethical play party on the West Coast, to talk all things sexual health, testing, and why playing as an adult doesn’t have to be taboo.

     

    The three chat about what it means to explore pleasure with honesty, curiosity, and consent at the center. From destigmatizing STI testing (seriously, just pee in the cup) to navigating ethical non-monogamy and threesomes that don’t end in tears (or texts from your ex), this episode is a real one. Whether you're lifestyle-curious or just want to strengthen your "no," this conversation reminds us that sexual freedom starts with self-awareness.

     

    You can expect to hear:

    6:00 – Erica and Milah debate if Lola Bunny is actually Black (deep cartoon discourse)

    15:00 – Michael’s cheating confession and how it sparked a journey into open love

    22:00 – The awkward (and honest) truth about first threesomes

    30:00 – STI testing: how to do it, why it matters, and yes, there’s a rectal swab

    40:00 – Consent: how to say no and mean it with love

    52:00 – Why play parties aren’t just sex parties—and how The Play sets a new standard

    1:08:00 – Learning to say no without guilt (and why most of us were never taught how)

    1:30:00 – DIBS: Desires, Intentions, Boundaries & Sexuality—the real pregame

     

    Share this with a friend who thinks "sex parties" are just for freaks, and remind them: there’s power in knowing your status, healing in being honest, and freedom in simply playing.

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  • Ever wish life came with a user manual? Turns out, it kind of does — and it's called Human Design.

     

    Welcome back to Monday Tribe Chat our monthly bonus episode series! This week, Erica and Mila bring back Human Design expert Erin Claire Jones to revisit their charts and share practical ways to use Human Design to make decisions, communicate better, and build a life that actually feels good. 

     

    In this episode you can expect to hear: 

     

    (0:00)  Catching up with Erin + her new book  How Do You Choose (3:30) What the heck is Human Design (and why it actually helps) (9:00)  Erica and Mila’s Human Design types and why their dynamic works so well (15:00)  Quick breakdown of the 5 Human Design types (22:00)  Struggling with decisions? Try yes/no questions (29:00)  Why we miscommunicate (and how to stop) (35:00)  Parenting by design: understanding your kid’s needs (42:00)  Why some of us are literally built for rest (50:00)  Human Design and relationship drama decoded (58:00)  Growing pains: fear, friendship shifts, and change (1:05:00)  Making decisions when you're emotional vs. intuitive (1:12:00)  Erica and Milah learn their prime is when their  50+ Years Old

     

    Reminder: Give yourself permission to be exactly who you are

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  • This wee, Erica and Mila sit down with activist, podcaster, and former model Lisa J. Phillips. In honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), Lisa courageously shares her story of grooming, abuse, the psychological aftermath and ultimately, reclaiming her power. Together, they explore the complex layers of trauma, the silent conditioning society places on women, and how survivors can find healing through truth-telling and connection.

     

    Lisa opens up about the early days of her modeling career, how she unknowingly entered Epstein’s world, and the psychological grip that followed. She also discusses how launching her podcast From Now On became a lifeline — a space to share not only her story but those of other survivors navigating similar paths in the entertainment and creative industries.

     

    ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual assault and abuse.

     

    You can expect to hear: 

     

    (4:00) – Introducing Lisa J. Phillips

    Lisa joins the show. They discuss her work, her podcast From Now On, and her mission to uplift the voices of sexual assault survivors in entertainment.

    (8:00) – Lisa’s Background in Modeling & the Fashion Industry

    Lisa shares her career history, how she entered the modeling industry, and how she eventually crossed paths with Jeffrey Epstein.

    (11:00) – The Island Encounter & Epstein’s Grooming Tactics

    Lisa recounts her disturbing first encounter with Epstein and how grooming masked as generosity and mentorship drew her in.

    (15:00) – Power Dynamics & Society’s Conditioning of Women

    The hosts and Lisa discuss how women are conditioned to stay quiet, feel shame, and internalize blame, especially in male-dominated industries.

    (19:00)– The Psychological Aftermath & Normalization of Abuse

    Conversation around how young women often minimize or normalize abuse due to lack of awareness, fear, or manipulation.

    (25:00) – The Long-Term Impact of Abuse & Coping Mechanisms

    Lisa opens up about how she coped with trauma through partying, suppression, and the lasting effects on her self-worth and identity.

    (30:00) – The Turning Point: Speaking Out & Confronting Epstein

    Lisa explains the moment she realized she needed to walk away and the chilling conversation she had with Epstein before cutting ties.

    (35:00) – Exposing the Hidden Network

    A deeper dive into the darkness behind Epstein’s network, including Lisa’s revelations about Prince Andrew and the secrets many are still protecting.

    (40:00) – Reflections on Childhood, Family Dynamics & Vulnerability

    Lisa reflects on how her upbringing may have contributed to her vulnerability and desire for mentorship and validation from older men.

    (48:00) – Collective Healing, Shared Stories & Suppressed Trauma

    The hosts share personal experiences with assault, silence, and how society teaches women to disconnect from their intuition and voice.

    (55:00) – The Path to Healing: Therapy, Community & Owning Your Story

    Lisa shares how EMDR therapy and connecting with other survivors helped her begin to heal. The group discusses how community, honesty, and safe spaces are crucial in healing from sexual trauma.

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  • “I’m not like a regular mom, I'm a cool mom” - Mean Girls 

     

    This week, Good Moms celebrate their favorite holiday with some mom juice and cannabis to answer questions from the tribe! 

     

    The ladies chat about how a single mom’s intuition is built differently (so don’t play with her!), the bachelor party rules of engagement (are you actually supposed to fuck the prostitute)? , disciplining your child (“cool mom” and a “pushover”, and an accidental OnlyFans soft launch.

     

    You can expect to hear: 

    3:00 – Erica talks about actually meeting Nelly

    10:45 – The “jet ski” logic behind men and bachelor parties

    18:00 – Introducing new partners to your kid (without the awkward sit-down)

    30:30 – Being the chill parent without being a push over parent

    40:00 – Erica’s foot trauma gets healed… live on air 👀

    54:00 –  Favorite cannabis strain

    1:09:00 – Affirmation of the week

    1:22:00 – Tarot Time (Exactly what you might need to hear!) 

    1:30:00 – Whorie Segment: 3 women, 1 man theres sucking, theres f***, theres… Well, just go listen! 

     

    Roll up and share this episode with a friend because moms who smoke cannabis are GOOD MOMS too - just a little extra lit.

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  • This week, Good Moms sit down with Pardison “Pardi” Fontaine—rapper, writer, ex-teacher, girl-dad, and lowkey lover boy, for a hilarious, healing, and relatable conversation.

     

    Pardi shares stories from his days as substitute teacher, why he thinks marriage has lost it’s merit, his idea of "the perfect date", and his shift into Film & TV. The three also talk about being a “recovered cheater” and the importance of honesty in a relationship.  

     

    You can expect to hear: 

    5:00- How Pardi went from “Pardi McFly” to “Pardison Fontaine” 

    17:15- Dealing with Dad guilt and being a present father 

    18:05- Pardi talks about his Father being a Gospel Singer & the dynamic between his parents growing up. 

    21:00- Why marriage has lost it’s merit and the true dedication it requires to relearn your partner in every phase of their life. 

    42:00- Pardi’s Ideal date 

    55:00- The balance between the masculine and feminine and how that’s changed today

    1:03:00- Being a “recovered cheater” 

    1:09:00- Affirmation: You’re gonna die one day, fuck it! 

    1:11:00- Shifting into Film & TV 

    1:12:00- The 3 play the game “Trigger” and Pardi answers rapid fire questions 

    1:22:00- Tarot time

    1:30:00- Whorie from Pardi 

     

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  • This week, Erica and Milah are joined by their partners Orlando and Shekem to talk about how men prepare, pursue, and grow with a partner. 

     

    Shekem & Orlando give men a checklist they’ll need to complete before even THINKING about a relationship. And yes, hygiene is on that list ; this is your reminder to wash those sheets! Surprisingly though, so is begging lol! 

     

    You can expect to hear: 

    (9:00) Erica introduces her partner Shekem to the tribe

    (20:00) The Ultimate Pre-Dating Checklist For Men  

    (25:00) Why you need to travel with your parter 

    (34:00) The importance of verbally “choosing” your significant other

    (47:00) Why Shekem’s energy was a “nervous system reset” for Erica  

    (57:00) Is your relationship fun? 

    (1:05:00) Why “Can we talk?” is never a great start to a sentence 

    (1:16:00) Real true masculinity 

    (1:26:00) Playfully inquiring

     

    The ladies also share what you can expect at our upcoming retreat in Costa Rica!! We're giving $1000 off, FIND OUT HOW!!!!!

     

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  • "If you ignore the whispers, the universe will start screaming!"

     

    This week Good Moms discuss psychedelics, finding soul alignment, and intimacy through celibacy with author, Dharma coach, and host of Highest Self podcast, Sahara Rose.

     

    In this episode, you can expect to hear: 

     

    Sahara Rose talks about perimenopause at 21, the power of Ayurveda, and a life-changing meeting with Deepak Chopra (10:00)  Dharma and Finding Alignment to your Soul’s Purpose (17:00) How the healing is in the embodiment, not the over-explanation to others The divine timing of divorce, Huachuma, and movement (30:00)  How Ayahuasca helped Sahara reach clarity through an epiphany revealed via Carmen the Hip Hopera Elements, energetic leakage, keeping connection (48:00) Hot Take! The ladies get real about waiting 3 months for sex, conscious celibacy, and creating sacred spaces with your partner (1:09:00) 

     

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  • Have you ever sat in a doctor’s office filling out forms, just guessing your whole medical history? Same! 

     

    This week, Good Moms are joined by community healer, author, friend, and founder of Precious Dreams Foundation,  Nicole Russell Wharton! Nicole shares how she found out the hard way that family silence isn’t just frustrating, it can actually be dangerous. 

     

    After six surgeries in one year and a diagnosis that should’ve never been a surprise, Nicole started asking questions that her family had never talked about (It’s likely yours hasn't either!) This led her to start asking hard questions, uncovering hidden family histories, and ultimately writing her book, “Breaking Generational Silence: A Guide To Disrupt Unhealthy Family Patterns and Heal Inherited Trauma” 

     

    Share this episode with a friend so we’re not all out here putting “I don’t know” on every damn medical form! 

     

    What you can expect to hear:

    (3:10)  Come see Good Moms at Black Effect Podcast Festival!! 

    (9:30) Why the ‘good woman’ stereotype is outdated 

    (14:45) Nicole shares how her lung collapse was connected to her menstrual cycle; ultimately leading to her endometriosis diagnosis

    (27:30) The importance of asking your family uncomfortable questions and some things to keep in mind while you do it

    (34:15) Bad Choice of the Week Segment

    (41:20)  How Nicole got her dad to finally open up, by showing him death certificates and family records. In her own words…"I had to ask my dad questions with receipts—because Black families don’t just volunteer information."

    (49:55) Why generational trauma shows up in our bodies, and how breaking silence is the first step toward healing

    (1:02:40) Nicole talks about her infertility struggle and reveals some surprising information with Erica and Milah

     

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  • "Every woman has a season of dumb bitch-ness. But don’t worry, you too can heal."

    In today’s episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, we are joined by the Sunday Times #1 Bestselling author and host of the Slumflower Hour podcast, Slumflower. The ladies chat about financial feminism, growing up with mama trauma, and owning self pleasure. 

     

    What you can expect to hear in this episode:

    Taxing men, voicing your needs, and life as a dominatrix (7:00)  Want Him vs Need Him: Male utility and what it means to be a provider (19:00)  Slumflower recounts her experience growing up Nigerian and the impact of strict parenting on her identity (28:00)  Female friendships and how cutting off her mother increased her confidence (48:00) Daddy issues/ Mommy issues: The ladies share perspectives on forming an identity outside of parents (1:12:00) Monogamy, men, masturbation (1:17:00)

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    Welcome to the premiere of the monthly bonus episode where it's safe to vent , share unpopular opinions and naked truths. Make sure you subscribe so u don't miss any bonus episodes! Every week we are spilling tea and current events

     

     

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  • "Once upon a time two single moms walked into a bar” … yada yada yada .. 7 years later they celebrate their baby turning SEVEN!!

     

    Tribe, can you believe it’s been 7 years since Erica and Milah created Good Moms Bad Choices?! I mean, literally imagine committing to something everyday for 7 years, it really changes you! In this episode, the ladies reflect on their seven years of friendship, business, and “bad choices” that turned out to be… pretty damn good.

     

    From manifesting a whole-ass empire, to occasionally stepping into your “Karen” bag Good Moms get nostalgic (and really high) while they remind you... sometimes you gotta be like Buddha Bitch. 

     

    What you can expect to hear:

    The power of collaboration and why women should stop trying to do everything alone How female friendships are actually the secret to the "soft life" A high-thought theory about brainwaves, AI, and why your phone knows what you're thinking A bad choice of the week involving yoga, a white lady, and an unexpected Karen moment from Erica Why Chicken, Weed, and Men are all you really need in life (and OBVIOUSLY your girls!) 

    Timestamps:

    2:15 – Erica and Milah reflect on seven years of Good Moms Bad Choices

    10:45 – Why collaboration is a superpower, not a weakness

    18:30 – The connection between softness, sisterhood, and self-growth

    26:50 – Is AI reading our minds, or are we just that powerful?

    34:20 – Black people can Karen too

    42:55 – The essential trinity 

    Roll up, pour up, and share this episode with your girls! 

     

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  • Welcome back to Good Moms Bad Choices! In this week’s episode, we get very pro black and a little militant (just a little) with motivational speaker and entrepreneur, Derrick Grace II (@derrickgrace2). Stopping through all the way from Tampa, FL, Derrick is known for his strong stance on gun rights and his mission to teach self-defense to his community (especially all 8 of his daughters) Join us as we discuss every topic under the sun - from fatherhood and interracial dating, to Donald Trump and polyamory. What you can expect to hear in this episode:

     

    Derrick gets real about his early upbringing, entrepreneurship before fame, and the path to self-defense advocacy (8:00)  Truth Time: Derrick’s thoughts on infidelity, being a father of 10, and infiltrating the white community by dating blondes (18:00) The ladies and Derrick discuss polyamory, raising eight daughters, how to properly search your Air BnB for spy cameras (25:00)  Hot Take: Derrick talks legacy, thriving off adversity, and why he believes Donald Trump is the answer to America’s daddy issues )50:00)  Trigger: Erica and Milah learn Derrick’s love language, thoughts on God, and why Scorpios are top tier (1:01:00) 

     

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  • Happy Humpday, Tribe! Did you catch our YouTube Live while recording this episode? If not, don’t worry—we’re going live once a month (3rd week of every month) and we’ll send you a notification when we do, join our newsletter and subscribe to our YouTube for updates! 

     

    This week, we’re back from our 14th retreat in Costa Rica and every time we return we’re reminded of how real magic is and the power of collective energy! In this episode we talk about reintegrating back to the states, the inevitable changes to your body and owning your goddess belly, and, of course, we share some bad choices of the week!

    Returning from the Jungle – Erica and Milah reflect on their Costa Rica retreat and the challenges of jumping back into motherhood and real life. (3:20) Living with your partner – Why Milah is reconsidering living with a partner. (12:45) Look, sometimes your body is going to jiggle – Erica shares her recent insecurities with her body and her journey towards embracing that belly fat aka her goddess belly. She also shares that , she might have to retire wearing the mumu at home and make a return to lounging in lingerie (21:10) Super Bowl in Costa Rica – How Kendrick Lamar activated their superpowers at a beachside dive bar (35:55) Bad Choice of the Week – A surprise "Diet-Lite orgy  and why clear communication during any sexual experience is key, even if you have to take a meeting in the closet (50:22) Tribe Questions & Tarot Time – Answering your questions about breakups, spinning the block, and pulling the Judgment card for the collective (1:08:00)

    RETREAT GIVEAWAY We’re sending one lucky winner to our next Good Vibes Retreat—find out if it’s you and join our Patreon community exclusive updates! 1:22:10)

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  • Hey Tribe, welcome back to Good Moms Bad Choices! We’re so excited to continue the Journey of Love February! This Valentine’s Day, we’re celebrating the mamas, the lovers, and everything in between. 

    In this week’s episode, the Good Moms share write-in stories from queens who escaped the shackles of Babydaddyhood to find real love. We promise you’ll love every minute of the conversation! What you can expect to hear:

     

    What’s new? Valentine’s Day, The Breakfast Club, and countdown to Costa Rica (3:00) Bad Choice of the Week: Rose Addicts Anonymous and the evolution of vibrators (13:00) Nerdy Guy, Niagara Falls, and The Work Husband: Erica and Milah discuss real-life single moms who found love in unlikely places (20:00) Don’t Nut and Judge! The Good Moms talk male hypocrisy in love & dating (37:00) If you’re reading this, the Universe has a message for you: Hoe a little (49:00)

     

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  • What’s up, Tribe, and welcome back to Good Moms Bad Choices! January was amazing, but its time to turn the page on the calendar and embrace beautiful new energy as we enter ‘The Journey of Love February.’ This month is all about the heart - join Erica and Milah to catch up and discuss what’s new in the world of motherhood, marriage, and amor!

     

    In this week’s episode, the ladies offer witty and sharp perspectives about personal growth in love, supporting your kids through their friend drama, and how to honor your true needs in a partnership. 

     

    Mama Bear to the Rescue! The Good Moms discuss protective parenting and helping your kids fight their battles (8:00) Bad Choice of the Week: Help! My kids saw me in my lingerie! (20:00) My Happily Ever After: Erica and Milah discuss the prospect of marriage, dreams of becoming a housewife, and the top 5 ways to be confident in love (32:00) Yoni Mapping: Releasing Trauma and Increasing Pleasure (57:00) Its OK to fuck up, but also, what do you (really) bring to the table: The Good Moms have an honest discussion about finding accountability and growth before love (1:03:00)

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  • Happy Humpday, Tribe! Did you tune into our amazing YouTube livestream? We hope you did! And if you missed it, no worries we got your back! This week, the Good Moms go on YouTube Live to discuss Milah’s exciting news, the harsh realities of life after TikTok, and how to balance productivity with purpose.

     

    A Fiancée! Erica and Milah talk about Milah’s engagement and how they planned the perfect surprise 3:16 Bad Choice of The Week: Happy New Year, I’m divorcing my husband! 13:26 Surviving the TikTok Ban: Threads, Red Note, and why we’re never going back to Clubhouse 20:33 Chatting with the Tribe on Youtube Live: Why it's OK to cry at a sex party and balance productivity with purpose 24:50  The ladies give tips on ritualizing good habits and discuss the role vulnerability plays in nurturing new friendships 40:00  OUR FIRST GIVEAWAY! An update on the winner, what’s in the goodie bag, and how to enter the next contest 55:00  Introducing Erica and Milah’s newest non-profit, H*es With Hope. Be charitable! Bring awareness to your local 304, call 1-800-HLP-4HOS 1:08:00

     

     

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