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  • In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Jamie Joy, a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry.

    We also discuss:

    How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace)

    Differences between vaginal and anal fisting

    Safety tips, including glove use, nails, and douching

    Why fisting is more emotional and intimate than you’d think

    What to do if you're curious about trying it

    Debunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panic

    The role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal play

    The stigma around anal play—especially for straight men

    Jamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really!

    You can check out more of Jamie's work here!

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Thea Rose, host of Seggs Talk Radio and founder of a new STI testing startup, to talk about what it really takes to build a sex-positive business—from scratch, with heart, and without losing your mind.

    Thea opens up about her messy, honest path as a multi-hyphenate creator, how she juggles podcasting, launching companies, and staying grounded through burnout, ADHD, OnlyFans, and entrepreneurship in a taboo space. If you've ever wondered what it actually takes to build something sustainable in the sexual wellness world—this one's for you.

    We get into:

    How to actually niche down without losing your voice or creativity

    Why your “little business” deserves as much celebration as a wedding or baby

    How to recover when your audience isn't aligned (and why starting fresh matters)

    The role of risk-taking in entrepreneurship (and how it shows up in the bedroom)

    Launching an OnlyFans

    Why being passionate about your work matters more than the money

    Sex-positive branding, burnout, and building your dream audience

    The cost of being underestimated as a woman in business

    Choosing to celebrate yourself in your own way

    Craving more intimacy—even in a city full of people

    Why we have to break away from traditional life milestones

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Allie Hoffman, founder of Catch The Feels—a viral in-person dating experience helping people ditch dating apps and reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and intuition.

    We dive deep into Allie’s groundbreaking “four systems of knowing” and how we can use the body, emotions, thoughts, and inner truth to date with more clarity and self-trust. Allie opens up about falling for poly men while being deeply monogamous, breaking her pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable partners, and how her body often speaks louder than her mind when it comes to sex and relationships.

    We also discuss:

    How to spot the difference between ego and intuition

    Why we keep falling for unavailable people (and how to stop)

    Her practice of using orgasmic energy for sex magic

    The truth about dating apps and why they’re keeping us stuck

    How to “own your erotic map” and be okay with your identity—whether you’re queer, kinky, monogamous or none of the above

    How The Feels was born and what really happens at her IRL dating events

    Why being open to love is the bravest thing you can do

    Sex, breakups, and learning to hear your body say “no”

    How to break your patterns and stop ignoring red flags just because the sex is good

    💌 Want more? Join my Patreon for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes stories from my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram.

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies, and how men can do better in sex and relationships.

    We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused approach to sex. Matt opens up about getting pegged for the first time, navigating group sex with intention, and why he chose to get a vasectomy—and how it’s impacted his confidence and partnerships.

    We also unpack:

    Why pegging changed how he shows up as a top and partner

    Tips for navigating MFM threesomes with care and curiosity

    How to explore dominant and submissive roles without ego

    The mental and physical realities of getting a vasectomy (and why you should get one!)

    How to communicate during casual sex without killing the vibe

    Managing a sex-positive roster (with check-ins!)

    The difference between protective and possessive behavior

    Friendship with exes, emotional responsibility, and being a grown-ass slut

    🎁 BONUS SCENE: Stick around for a surprise scene with Mario Cruz, recorded onboard the spicy Desire Cruise, where we talk about spooning, swinging, and everything in between.

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with NYC-based photographer, ethical slut, and reformed cheater Matthew Kayman for an honest, reflective, and hilarious conversation about evolving from messy dating patterns to intentional, kink-informed, and transparent relationships.

    We unpack his shift from monogamy to polyamory, navigating play parties, unlearning toxic masculinity, and figuring out how to explore power dynamics while remaining ethical and emotionally available.

    ✨ In this episode, we talk about:

    How Matthew realized he wasn’t dating ethically—and what changed thatHis transition into ethical non-monogamy and what it taught him about himselfTips for flirting, FaceTime pre-dates, and dating apps that don’t suckPower dynamics in dating, and how kink helped him explore both dom & sub rolesGroup sex, queer curiosity, and learning how to communicate mid-orgySlutty shame, hot guy privilege, and navigating softness in hookup cultureWhy it’s not just about consent, but context and careLessons from play parties, switching, and setting expectations with new partners

    This is an episode about dating better—not perfectly, but with curiosity, compassion, and accountability.

    💌 Want more? On Patreon, you’ll get the unedited version of this episode, behind-the-scenes tea on my dating and sex life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram.

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by sex educator, performer, and self-proclaimed “dildo slinger” Dirty Lola (@dirtylola) for a raw and hilarious conversation about shame, sex, and self-acceptance.

    From growing up in a naked household to navigating deep religious trauma, Lola shares the journey of becoming a fearless advocate for shameless pleasure and body confidence. We get into:

    Her early sex-positive explorations and yes—high school sex parties!

    The complex layers of body image, fatphobia, and family shame

    How shame shows up in our sex lives and what to do about it

    Why orgasms don’t equal worth, and how to stop performative sex

    What she’s learned about micropenises, penis shame, and making pleasure work for everyone

    How to start loving your body—even before it’s your “goal body”

    Tips on letting go of external validation and dressing for YOU

    Aging, menopause, and staying slutty at every stage of life

    How to be a better partner by showing up with kindness and compliments

    This episode is brought to you by Splash Blanket - the world’s most luxurious waterproof blanket. Feel more free and liberated in the bedroom with code ALEXA

    😏 Want to hear more behind the scenes? On Patreon, you’ll find the unedited version of this episode, stories from my personal dating life, and access to my Close Friends list on Instagram

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Catherine Drysdale—sex & relationship coach—who’s on a mission to help women and femmes unlearn the “good girl” scripts that keep them small, quiet, and out of touch with their desires.

    We talk about:
    • What “good girl conditioning” really means and how it shows up in our lives

    • The difference between Good Girl Conditioning and being a "good girl" in a power dynamic• The pressure to be nice, palatable, and liked (and how that impacts our relationships and sex lives)• Why so many of us have trouble asking for what we want—especially in bed• The link between patriarchy and the fear of being “too much”• How to begin reclaiming your voice, your wants, and your power• Ways to get comfortable with discomfort, especially when it comes to setting boundaries• Rewriting your relationship with shame, worthiness, and sexual expression

    This is a permission slip to take up space and live more fully, more loudly, and more authentically.

    ✨ At the end of the episode, we also chat about how this work spills into dating, communication, and how to support other women on the same journey.

    🎧 Plus! Don’t forget to check out my Patreon where I share the unedited version of this episode, updates on my dating and sex life, and give members access to my Close Friends on Instagram.

    Thank you, Beducated, for sponsoring this episode and making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is back onboard the Temptation Cruise!
    In this episode, Alexa reconnects with Mario Cruz, Cruise Director for Temptation Cruises, to dive even deeper into what makes a lifestyle-friendly cruise such a unique, exciting, and welcoming experience.

    Recorded live from the February 2025 sailing, we chat about:

    How Temptation Cruises create a safe, respectful, and fun environment for all guestsTips for first-timers: how to navigate nerves, set boundaries, and make connectionsDebunking common myths about swinger and lifestyle cruisesThemed nights, play areas, workshops, and how to make the most of the onboard eventsHow privacy and discretion are prioritized for every guestHow these cruises can open doors to self-discovery and new adventuresThe difference between Temptation and Desire Cruises (and which might be a better fit for you!)Funny, surprising behind-the-scenes stories from working onboard

    ✨ PLUS: Alexa and Mario invite YOU to join the next Temptation Cruise this November 2025! Whether you're new to the lifestyle or just looking for a sexy, judgment-free vacation, this could be your next adventure.

    🔥 Want more? Join my ⁠Patreon⁠ for unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes tea on my personal dating & sex life, and access to my Close Friends on Instagram!

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Alex Fine, educator, activist, parent and founder of the pleasure-forward brand Dame, to talk about how to find the sex toy that actually works for you—and how to confidently use it, whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner.

    Alex shares how Dame is redefining pleasure with intentional, inclusive design, and we get into how to move past shame, communicate your needs, and create sexy experiences that center your pleasure.

    Whether you’re new to toys or looking to level up, we’ve got guidance on how to explore in ways that feel exciting, not overwhelming.

    ✨ In this episode, we cover:

    How to choose a toy based on your anatomy and what you likeTips for using toys with a partner without making it weird or performativeHow to bring up toys with a partner if they’re nervous or skepticalThe difference between clitoral, vaginal, anal, and blended stimulation—and toys for eachHow to care for your toys so they last (and stay safe to use)Debunking myths like “you’ll get addicted to your vibrator”How Dame is shaking up the industry with body-safe, beautifully designed productsThe role of design in enhancing your pleasure and creating easeMasturbation as a form of self-connection and stress reliefWhy you don’t have to “fix” anything—pleasure isn’t a performanceSuing the MTA so they could advertise on the subway

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro. Whether you’re a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasure—we’ve got you covered.

    Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and professional experience. We talk technique, confidence, communication, and why good oral isn’t just about what your mouth is doing—but also how present, excited, and connected you are.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    How to make oral feel incredible with your mouth and your whole body

    Deepthroating 101: tips, angles, breathing, and how to stay in control

    What makes a blowjob feel intimate (even when it’s casual)

    How to avoid jaw fatigue and still make it look/feel amazing

    Common mistakes people make when giving oral to penis-havers

    The power of eye contact, vocal feedback, and enthusiasm

    Communication tips—how to ask for direction without killing the mood

    The difference between porn blowjobs and what people actually want

    What to do if you're nervous, insecure, or don’t love giving oral (yet)

    How Zachary’s bisexuality influences his approach to pleasure

    The importance of mutual pleasure and making oral a two-way experience

    This episode is informative, hot, and actually helpful—no shame, no judgment, just real talk about how to become a more generous, confident, and attuned lover.

    Thank you Fantasia for being a sponsor on today's episode. Check out fantasiatoy.online to see what your fantasy feels like!

    ✨ Unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes of my dating & sex life, and access to my close friends list on Instagram available on Patreon

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas—techniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral lover—no magic tongue required.

    In this episode, we discuss:

    The most common mistakes people make when going down on someone

    How to build confidence if you feel awkward or unsure

    Kenneth’s signature “sex hacking” approach and why it works

    The anatomy of pleasure: why understanding the clitoris is essential

    Why going slow is underrated and how to read your partner’s body cues

    Communication tips that don’t kill the vibe

    Techniques for different sensations: flicking, sucking, pressure, and more

    How to involve your hands, body, and breath for maximum connection

    Tips for anyone struggling to orgasm from oral stimulation

    What Kenneth learned from working with thousands of vulva owners

    Busting myths about what “good oral” looks like

    How to prioritize pleasure over performance

    Kenneth’s top tips for becoming a more intuitive, generous lover

    Whether you’re new to oral or want to refine your technique, this episode is full of real, actionable tips that can immediately change your sex life.

    ✨ Unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes of my dating & sex life, and access to my close friends list on Instagram available on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-april

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with writer and relationship expert Hayley Folk to talk about an unconventional but increasingly popular relationship setup: living separately from your partner. Why do some people thrive in separate spaces? What are the benefits and challenges? And is this a better setup for non-monogamous relationships?

    We also dive into one of Hayley’s most viral Cosmopolitan articles—what to do with your ex’s nudes. Should you keep them? Delete them? Ask permission? And is it really wrong to revisit them from time to time?

    Plus, we discuss what it’s like navigating relationships as a queer person, how queerness plays a role in her job and personal life, and why non-monogamy can feel so natural in queer spaces. Hayley also shares her experiences at sex parties—how they’ve helped her feel empowered as a woman and what she’s learned from attending them.

    Why more couples are choosing to live apart

    The pros and cons of maintaining separate spaces

    How non-monogamy fits into the equation

    How to set clear boundaries and expectations

    The debate around keeping your ex’s nudes—what’s ethical?

    How queerness plays into relationships, non-monogamy, and intimacy

    Hayley’s personal experiences at sex parties and why they make her feel empowered

    How past relationships shape how we handle intimacy

    This episode is for anyone questioning traditional relationship norms and looking for fresh perspectives on love, space, queerness, and digital boundaries.

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Miss Lauren to talk about how to take charge in the bedroom, tap into your confidence, and explore power dynamics in a way that feels fun and natural. Whether you’re looking to spice things up or just want to feel more in control, this episode is packed with practical tips and expert advice on owning your desires.

    We cover:

    How she got started and what it's like working at a dungeon.How to start dominating your boyfriend—even if you’ve never done it before.

    Why confidence is key—and how to build it in and out of the bedroom.

    Ways to take the lead in sex—without feeling awkward or forced.

    How to introduce power dynamics in a fun, flirty way—no whips or leather required.

    The psychology behind why some people love being told what to do—and how to use that to your advantage.

    Findom (financial domination) 101—what it is, how it works, and why it’s more common than you think.

    How to communicate what you want—and make sure your partner is on board.

    Easy ways to get started with small, subtle power shifts that can change everything.

    A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Lindsay Wynn, founder of Momotaro Apotheca, a brand dedicated to holistic vaginal health and wellness. After struggling with recurrent BV and yeast infections with no long-term solutions in sight, Lindsay set out to create products that actually support vaginal and vulva health—without harsh chemicals or unnecessary shame.

    In this episode, we have a raw and informative conversation about all things vulva health, vaginal wellness, and self-care. We dive into:

    How to prevent and treat common vaginal issues like BV, yeast infections, UTIs, and irritation—what actually works and what’s just a marketing gimmick.The biggest culprits behind vaginal pH imbalance, from antibiotics and semen to diet, stress, and even your favorite pair of leggings.The dos and don’ts of vulva hygiene—should you wash with soap? Do you need probiotics? Are feminine wipes your friend or foe?Debunking common vulva myths, like whether certain foods change your taste and if tight underwear really causes infections.How sex impacts vaginal health, plus practical pre- and post-sex care tips to help you stay balanced.The truth about discharge and odor—what’s normal, what’s not, and why we need to stop pathologizing natural bodily functions.How to find the right products for vaginal health and what harmful ingredients to look out for.Changing the conversation around intimate wellness—why vaginal health is still so taboo and how we can normalize these discussions.Our personal experiences with squirting—Lindsay is still exploring, but she shares a position we should all try (trust us, you’ll want to take notes).

    This episode is packed with science-backed insights, personal stories, and expert advice to help you feel empowered, confident, and in tune with your body.

    A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA60 to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:

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  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Dr. Sonya Maya, a pre-licensed psychologist, sex therapist and content creator. Dr. Sonya helps people navigate relationships, pleasure, and personal growth with confidence and clarity. In this episode, we explore how to have casual sex in a way that feels empowering, enjoyable, and drama-free—whether you're new to it or looking to refine your approach.

    We discuss:

    How to know if casual sex is right for you—some people thrive in no-strings-attached encounters, while others struggle.How to set clear boundaries and communicate expectations so everyone is on the same page.How to avoid catching feelings (or handle it if you do) and ways to check in with yourself.Destigmatizing casual sex, especially for women and queer folks, and breaking down harmful stereotypes.How to stay physically and emotionally safe, including STI prevention, handling rejection, and self-reflection after hookups.Navigating casual sex in ethical non-monogamy and how it differs from traditional dating.Red flags to watch out for and how to recognize when a casual partner might want more than you do.How to make casual sex more enjoyable—from mindset shifts to exploring pleasure in a way that works for you.

    If you've ever struggled with setting boundaries, worried about emotional entanglements, or just want to make sure you're approaching casual sex in a way that feels good for you, this episode is full of practical tips, expert insights, and real talk to help you have more fulfilling, shame-free casual experiences.

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Sex Educator, Embodied Intimacy Coach, Marketing Director for Magic Wand and host of the Fuck Yeah podcast, to talk about one of the most sought-after yet misunderstood experiences: full body orgasms. Recorded in Costa Rica at the Shameless Sex Retreat, this episode dives deep into what full body orgasms really are, how they happen, and how you can tap into them.

    Sarah shares her journey from discovering sex-positivity in college to becoming a leading voice in pleasure-based sex education. We talk about how shame, stress, and disconnection block pleasure, and how somatic techniques, breathwork, and body awareness can help you reclaim your pleasure and access deeper orgasms.

    We also cover:
    🔸 Why so many people struggle to connect with their bodies (and how to change that)
    🔸 The myths around orgasm gaps, genital-focused pleasure, and what it really means to be “multi-orgasmic”
    🔸 How curiosity and playfulness can enhance your sexual experiences
    🔸 Why full body orgasms aren’t just about sex—they’re about embodiment, confidence, and overall well-being

    A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't!

    Click here to sign up:⁠

    ⁠https://beducate.me/shecomesfirst⁠

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠) sits down with ⁠Amy Baldwin⁠—sex educator, co-host of the ⁠Shameless Sex Podcast⁠, and author—to talk about everything from learning to enjoy receiving to becoming amazing at oral and navigating non-monogamy.

    Amy shares what it was like growing up with a sex-positive mom, opening a sex shop with her, and not having her first orgasm until 18—plus how she only started having really good sex in her 30s.

    We also go deep into her journey in non-monogamy, how she and her partner opened up their relationship, and how their rules vs. agreements evolved over time.

    We cover:

    🔹 Growing up sex-positive & running a sex shop with her mom

    🔹 Why it took so long to start having good sex (and what changed!)

    🔹 Her journey into non-monogamy and what she’s learned along the way

    🔹 Her top blowjob tips for mind-blowing oral

    🔹 Why so many people struggle with receiving pleasure & how to get better at it

    🔹 The sex myths we wish we’d unlearned so much sooner

    If you want to get better at giving and receiving pleasure, understand non-monogamy from someone who's lived it, and break free from old sexual conditioning, this episode is a must-listen!

    Check out the ⁠Shameless Sex Tour ⁠happening in Austin, Dallas and Santa Cruz!

    A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.

    Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't!

    Click here to sign up:⁠

    https://beducate.me/shecomesfirst⁠

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sat down withApril Lampert in Costa Rica at theShameless Sex Retreat to talk about everything from sex shop secrets to navigating infidelity. April, co-host of theShameless Sex Podcast, has spent years helping people break free from shame and embrace pleasure—but her journey started in avery different place.

    In this episode, we cover:
    🔹 Growing up in aconservative household and unlearning sexual guilt
    🔹 What working at asex shop taught her about human desire
    🔹 Theinfidelity in her past relationships & how she handled it
    🔹 Herslut era and what it taught her about sexual empowerment
    🔹 The hygiene tips everyone should know for a better sex life
    🔹 Why she’sstill intimidated by sex parties, despite talking about them all the time
    🔹 How much of what she learns onShameless Sex actually makes it into her real life

    April keeps itreal, raw, and hilarious, and this conversation is packed with insight, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tune in for an episode that will make you rethink everything youthought you knew about sex and shame.

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Jacqueline Soule, a system disruptor who feels everything—literally. From experiencing orgasms on bumpy roads to planning her life around her menstrual cycle, Jacqueline shares how deep body awareness has shaped her life.

    We discuss how to be more mindful and make everyday moments more pleasurable, how she taught her kids about cycles and sex education, and what it’s like to navigate relationships with mismatched desire levels. Plus, she reveals what life is like without a negative internal voice—and how you can start silencing yours.

    Topics include:
    ✨ Tips on becoming more in tune with your body
    ✨ How to bring more pleasure into mundane daily moments
    ✨ Why she plans her entire life around her menstrual cycle
    ✨ Teaching kids about sex ed, body image & self-awareness
    ✨ What it’s like to have no negative self-talk
    ✨ Navigating a higher libido than your partner
    ✨ The power of sensory awareness & pleasure

    If you’re curious about deepening your connection with your body, tuning into pleasure, and embracing your natural rhythms, this episode is for you!

  • Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Amber Mallery, an award-winning sex educator and advocate for inclusivity in sexual health education, for an inspiring and candid conversation about sex, self-discovery, and prioritizing personal growth. (also see @bijoux_indiscrets)

    Amber shares her journey into sex education, her passion for fostering inclusive spaces, and how she navigates challenging but essential conversations around intimacy and relationships. They dive deep into their shared experiences giving workshops on Desire Cruises, discussing the unique dynamics of teaching about pleasure and empowerment in such a liberating environment. Amber also opens up about her decision to prioritize herself, how it’s impacted her life and work, and why self-care is vital for showing up fully for others.

    From breaking stigmas around pleasure to exploring new areas of intimacy safely, Amber and Alexa unpack everything you need to know to foster connection, confidence, and self-love in and out of the bedroom.

    Amber’s journey to becoming a sex educator Giving workshops on Desire Cruises and empowering others Why prioritizing yourself is vital for growth and connection Breaking down stigmas around sexual health and pleasure Tips for improving communication and intimacy in relationships Exploring kink and new areas of sexuality safely Creating inclusive, sex-positive spaces The importance of representation in sex education

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their knowledge, embrace pleasure, and live unapologetically.