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  • Are you currently making some of the biggest therapist mistakes right now, without even realizing it?

    Chances are that you might be making common therapy mistakes that could harm your practiceā€”or your clients, and thatā€™s why we need to talk about this! Trust me, Iā€™ve been there, and as a clinical supervisor, Iā€™ve seen it all. In this podcast, weā€™ll cover the most common therapist missteps (that you might not even realize youā€™re making!) and actionable strategies to avoid them.

    From building a solid therapeutic alliance to mastering boundaries and practicing self-care, Iā€™m sharing the real talk, personal insights, and free resources you need to thrive in your career. Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned pro, this podcast is packed with value you donā€™t want to miss.

    Timestamps

    00:00 - Introduction: The surprising challenges therapists face

    00:57 - Missing signs of a ruptured therapeutic alliance

    02:06 - How to ask clients for feedback

    05:12 - Boundaries that are too looseā€”or too rigid

    11:53 - Why therapists must prioritize their own wellness

    18:13 - Avoid these private practice pitfalls

    26:16 - Actionable takeaways and free resources

    If any of these mistakes hit home, know this: youā€™re not alone, and youā€™re not doomed! Awareness is the first step to change. If youā€™d like to know where you stand in your practice, take my Banishing Burnout Assessment to discover whether youā€™re on a path to professional success and satisfaction or heading toward burnout. Letā€™s ensure youā€™re flourishing, not just surviving.

    Donā€™t forget to subscribe to this channel for weekly insights, and if you found this helpful, share it with your professional communityā€”weā€™re all in this together.

    Xoxo

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    growingself.com


    P.S. Letā€™s connect on LinkedIn! Join our amazing community of therapists and professionals: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby.

  • Therapists, Are You Coaching Without Certification? You NEED to listen to this! šŸšØ

    Lots of therapists out there are adding ā€œcoachā€ to their title, but without going through any coach training first. They say, "Coaching seems simple, I can just add that to my title, right?" Hold up. You couldā€¦ but should you?

    In this episode, Iā€™m diving into why calling yourself a coach without proper certification is like jumping into a helicopter with only a driverā€™s licenseā€”itā€™s risky, dangerous, and could seriously hurt your career, your reputation, and your clients. šŸ’„

    Iā€™ll break down the real differences between therapy and coaching (hint: theyā€™re NOT the same thing) and share the key steps to safely and successfully incorporate coaching into your practiceā€”ethically and professionally. šŸŒŸ

    Time Stamps:

    01:55 ā€“ Coaching vs. Therapy: Key Differences

    05:34 ā€“ Why Certification Matters

    07:53 ā€“ Blending Coaching with Therapy

    09:35 ā€“ Choosing the Best Coaching Credential

    13:37 ā€“ How to Protect Yourself and Your Clients

    26:50 ā€“ Free Resources to Get Started

    If youā€™re feeling inspired, Iā€™ve got something to help you take the next step. My 2-Part Video Training: Therapistā€™s Guide to Coaching is a free resource that breaks everything down into actionable steps. Youā€™ll get detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach as well as education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs.

    šŸ”” If this podcast resonated with you, please share it with your colleagues or professional network. Letā€™s help each other grow!

    šŸ’Œ P.S. Iā€™d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of your professional journey. Letā€™s build something amazing together.

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  • Ever left a session feeling like youā€™ve just run an emotional marathon? High-intensity clients are inspiring, but they can also be overwhelming, especially if you're an empathic therapist.

    In todayā€™s episode, weā€™re diving deep into practical tools to manage the emotional demands of high-intensity clients while protecting your energy and keeping burnout at bay. Trust me, if you've ever found yourself exhausted after a session, this is the episode for you!

    Together, weā€™ll explore the strategies to help you thrive as a therapist, including ways to balance your caseload, set boundaries, and manage emotional intensity. From my own journey as a therapist and clinical supervisor, Iā€™ll share actionable steps and resources to help you create a sustainable, fulfilling career.

    Chapters:

    00:39: Understanding High-Intensity Clients

    00:58: Challenges for Empathic Therapists

    02:49: Strategies for Managing Emotional Intensity

    05:39: Finding Your Niche and Career Path

    17:11: The Importance of Boundaries

    19:39: Building a Support System

    23:36: Balancing Your Caseload

    26:45 Resources for Longevity

    You give so much to othersā€”itā€™s time to give yourself a moment of care. I created the Banishing Burnout Assessment to help you pause, reflect, and take charge of your professional and personal wellness. Click the link, and in a few quick questions, youā€™ll have the insights and tools you need to flourish in your practice. I hope it helps on your journey toward thriving.

    If this episode resonates with you, make sure to subscribe to the channel for more info on growing in your therapy practice. And share it with your professional community ā€” weā€™re in this together!P.S. Want to stay connected? Letā€™s connect on LinkedIn and keep building this amazing community. Join me on LinkedIn here!

  • Therapists: Ever wonder how to best support therapy clients when the legal system gets involved? If your clients are going through custody disputes, or if youā€™re a marriage and family therapist working on custody evaluations, understanding the role of a Child and Family Investigator (CFI) is essential.

    Itā€™s also essential for you to know about the dark side of child and family investigations: Not all CFIā€™s are qualified, or ethical. And, their recommendations can have a huge impact on the trajectory of your clientā€™s livesā€¦ for better or for worse.

    In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Randall, an experienced family law attorney and CFI, to give you the inside scoop on how CFIs work, their impact on custody cases, and how therapists can be true advocates for their clients. Get ready to learn the tips and insights that will help you guide clients through one of the most challenging processes they may ever face.

    Chapters:

    00:31 Understanding the Role of Child and Family Investigators

    01:43 Introducing Stephanie Randall: Expert Insights

    03:23 The CFI Process Explained

    11:26 Therapists' Role in Legal Proceedings

    18:10 Challenges and Ethical Considerations for Therapists

    24:06 Concerns About Untrustworthy CFIs

    34:45 Understanding Investigation Requirements

    34:56 Challenges in Reporting and Public Awareness

    35:44 The Role and Impact of CFIs

    39:22 Therapists as Allies in the System

    41:03 Empowering Clients and Addressing Safety

    44:31 Navigating Co-Parenting and Legal Systems

    45:49 Recognizing and Reporting Abuse

    56:03 Advocacy and Systemic Change

    Be sure to subscribe to this channel for more insights like these, and share this episode with your professional community to spread the knowledge! P.S. I'd love to stay connected with you! Join me on LinkedIn, where we can share ideas, support each other, and keep growing together. Letā€™s build an amazing communityā€”one connection at a time!

  • Therapists, did you know that there are 8 scams specifically targeting YOU?

    In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I share eye-opening stories from my practice and reveal the top scams aimed at therapistsā€”things I never imagined would happen until they started affecting people in my own practice.

    From "police officers" threatening your license to fake clients requesting sessions, scammers have found shockingly creative ways to target mental health professionals. Check out the

    Timestamps:

    - 00:00 Introduction: Scams Targeting Therapists

    - 00:33 The Scary Police Officer Scam

    - 03:32 The Fake Client Scam

    - 04:38 The Fake Insurance Rep Scam

    - 05:42 The Fake Tech Scam

    - 08:26 The Fake Collaboration Scam

    - 09:35 The Fake Training Scam

    - 10:35 The Fake Credentialing Scam

    - 12:35 The Simple Practice Con

    - 15:57 Staying Safe: Tips and Final Thoughts

    I have so much more information to share about these including real stories about when each of these happened in my practice, and the playbook I developed for my organization in response. Get the WHOLE story and my personal "private practice protection" strategies right here.

    Make sure to subscribe for more resources like this and share with your network to keep others informed! Letā€™s look out for each other.

    P.S. Iā€™d love to connect on LinkedIn to continue this conversation. Come be a part of an amazing community of growth-minded professionals! Iā€™d love to hear from you.

  • Therapists, this oneā€™s for you. Weā€™re living in intense times, and itā€™s no secret that showing up for others can feel especially hard when our own emotional reserves are running low. How do we stay present, compassionate, and fully engaged with our clients when weā€™re also grappling with our own fears, frustrations, or even grief?

    And then thereā€™s this: What happens when our job is to hold unconditionally positive regard for people whose perspectives or values may be wildly different from our own? Itā€™s tough. It can feel like an impossible balancing act. But itā€™s also an invitationā€”a doorway, if you will. A chance for reflection, recalibration, and maybe even a professional pivot.

    In todayā€™s episode, weā€™ll explore what it means to take care of ourselves as therapists so we can keep caring for others. Weā€™ll talk about practical strategies for emotional resilience and self-care, sure. But weā€™ll also dive deeperā€”into the tension between our personal values and professional roles, and how navigating this can actually help us grow, both personally and professionally.

    Hereā€™s what weā€™ll cover:

    1:07 ā€“ The Therapist's Struggle: How do we stay professionally present when weā€™re personally stretched thin?

    5:28 ā€“ Self-Care Strategies for Therapists: Small, powerful practices to protect your emotional bandwidth.

    9:53 ā€“ Boundaries and Tough Decisions: Why safeguarding your energy isnā€™t selfishā€”itā€™s essential.

    12:41 ā€“ Navigating Differences: How to hold space for clients with vastly different views, and what this work can teach us.

    16:05 ā€“ Aligning Work with Your Values: When is it time to consider a professional pivot?

    21:47 ā€“ Growth Through Challenge: Using this moment as a catalyst for deeper empathy and professional evolution.

    Youā€™re doing hard, meaningful work, and itā€™s okayā€”necessary, evenā€”to acknowledge your limits. Letā€™s talk about how we can support ourselves, and each other, to stay strong and keep growing.

    I hope this episode offers you some comfort, clarity, and the tools to keep thriving as a therapist. You can check out the full article on my website along with other resources for supporting therapists.

    If you found this helpful, please share it with your colleagues and subscribe for more supportive content like this. šŸ’Ŗ

    P.S. Letā€™s stay connected! Join our professional community on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

  • Ever wonder how to truly help your clients build more secure attachment styles?

    This episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists is for you! Iā€™m sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Daniel Siegelā€”one of the worldā€™s leading experts in attachment science and childhood development. Together, weā€™re unpacking the latest research and ideas you can take straight into your practice.

    Dr. Siegelā€™s approach goes beyond the basics of attachment theory, blending personality, temperament, and attachment into a powerful framework that creates truly personalized client experiences. This episode is full of actionable insights thatā€™ll not only expand your therapeutic toolkit but also inspire new ways of thinking about the work you do.

    āœØ Hereā€™s a sneak peek of what we cover:


    00:00 ā€” Why Attachment Styles Matter More Than Ever
    00:24 ā€” Meet Dr. Siegel: The Mind Behind the Research
    03:15 ā€” Moving Beyond Theory: Practical Tools for Attachment and Development
    04:30 ā€” Yes, Weā€™re Talking Enneagram in Therapy!
    06:43 ā€” Integrating Enneagram & Neurobiologyā€”Itā€™s a Thing
    09:39 ā€” Research-Backed Applications You Can Use Today
    11:08 ā€” How Personality & Temperament Shape Attachment Styles
    15:54 ā€” Real-World Strategies to Transform Your Practice

    If youā€™re ready to unlock new therapeutic strategies and create real breakthroughs with your clients, this is an episode you canā€™t miss. Hit subscribe now so you never miss a beatā€”and share this episode with other therapists whoā€™d love these insights too.

    And letā€™s stay connected on LinkedIn! Join me here to keep the conversation going and be part of an amazing network of therapists.




  • šŸ›‘ Therapists, can we have a moment? Be honest ā€” are you actually supporting yourself the way you guide your clients to? Or are you skating by with ā€œI should know this alreadyā€ vibes? If youā€™ve ever felt like your own personal growth is falling to the bottom of the priority list (even while telling clients to ā€œput themselves firstā€ šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø), this oneā€™s for you.

    In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, weā€™re diving deep into why therapists need their own therapy, personal growth, and coaching. Because let's face it: helping others thrive takes a lot out of you. Without the right support system? Hello, burnout. šŸ’„

    Chapters:
    šŸŒ€ The "Why" Behind Therapist Burnout ā€“ Discover the real reasons therapists hit a wall (spoiler: itā€™s not just about bubble baths).

    šŸ§  Triggers, Vicarious Trauma, and Emotional Overload ā€“ Learn how ignoring your own emotions can sneakily affect your client work.

    šŸ“‰ Signs You're Headed for Burnout ā€“ Are you feeling disengaged, annoyed, or emotionally distant? Letā€™s unpack what that means for you.

    šŸŽ’ What "Doing the Work" Looks Like ā€“ Therapy, coaching, retreats, mentorship ā€“ we explore what might actually help you feel balanced.

    šŸ¤ Therapists Coaching Therapists? Yes, Please. ā€“ Why the coaching model might just be the missing piece in your professional and personal growth.

    āœØ Whether you're already doing the work or need a nudge to get started, this episode offers insights, humor, and some tough-love reminders that itā€™s okay to not have it all together.

    Stay connected with me on LinkedIn ā€” letā€™s build a community that lifts each other up. šŸŒ± Click here to connect.

    šŸŽ§ Donā€™t miss this deep-dive into self-care, personal growth, and walking the walk as a helping professional. Hit play now ā€“ because your well-being is just as important as your clientsā€™.

    xo,

    Dr. Lisa

  • Ever feel like somethingā€™s ā€œoffā€ in your therapeutic relationships but canā€™t quite put your finger on it? The answer might lie in hidden power dynamics that could be impacting your clients in ways you didnā€™t realize.

    In todayā€™s episode, *The Hidden Power Dynamics in Therapy*, Iā€™m diving into the subtle, often unnoticed imbalances that naturally occur between therapist and clientā€”and more importantly, what you can do to manage them effectively so that they don't sabotage the work.

    Iā€™ll walk you through practical strategies to create more equitable relationships, promote client autonomy, and avoid the common pitfalls of disempowerment and dependency.

    With over 50 therapists under my supervision, Iā€™ve seen firsthand how even well-meaning professionals can fall into these traps. Iā€™ll also be sharing personal insights and tools you can start using in your next session.

    Join me for this vital conversation and letā€™s work together to ensure weā€™re empowering our clients in every way possible AND avoiding the pitfalls that can ruin therapy (and even get you in hot water as a therapist).

    What Youā€™ll Learn:

    03:24:Why Power Differentials Are Unavoidable

    11:21: The Consequences of Unmanaged Power Dynamics

    22:26: Strategies for Reducing Imbalances in Your Sessions

    25:00: How to Collaborate and Be Transparent with Clients

    32:11: Final Thoughts & Free Resources for Therapists

    I canā€™t wait for you to tune in!

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    And donā€™t forget! I have a *FREE* 2-part training just for therapists, where Iā€™ll show you how to get clear about your professional trajectory, and integrate coaching techniques into your practice for even more effective results. You can access it at growingself.com/coaching

  • Do you talk about yourself too much in therapy??

    Therapists, weā€™ve all been there. You want to connect with your client, show empathy, and maybe even share a bit of your own story to create that bond. But could your personal anecdotes be doing more harm than good? In today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, weā€™re diving into the delicate balance of self-disclosure in therapy. How much is too much, and how do we ensure our personal shares are actually helping, not hurting, our clients' progress?

    If youā€™ve ever found yourself wondering where to draw the line between therapeutic empathy and oversharing, this episode is for you. We'll explore real-life examples where well-meaning therapists let their personal stories take center stageā€”leading to client disengagement, boundary issues, and even professional consequences.

    In this episode, Iā€™ll guide you through:

    00:53: The ā€˜Letā€™s Talk About Meā€™ Scenario
    When a therapistā€™s own grief overshadows their clientā€™s healing processā€”where the session turns from support to storytelling.

    02:51: The Fitness Enthusiast's Misstep
    How a seemingly helpful share about personal fitness goals left a client feeling inadequate, anxious, and ultimately disconnected.

    04:31: Validation Gone Wrong
    The dangers of seeking client approvalā€”when a therapist inadvertently puts the focus on their own choices rather than the clientā€™s growth.

    05:59: Family Drama in Therapy
    What happens when a therapist's overshare about their own relationship problems creates discomfort and confusion for the client.

    07:40: The Rise of Life Coaches and Boundaries
    How the 'tell-all' culture in amateur coaching differs from the professional standards we as therapists must adhere to.

    08:22: Boundaries and Ethical Guidelines: Keeping It Professional
    A look at the strict ethical codes (APA, ACA) governing self-disclosure and how to use them to maintain your integrity in practice.

    11:37: Potential Pitfalls and Client Retention
    Wondering why clients are ghosting or disengaging? It could be your oversharing. Learn how to spot red flags in your own practice.

    17:08: Best Practices for Therapists
    From seeking consultation to structuring sessions for client feedback, Iā€™ll share actionable steps to ensure your self-disclosure is always in service of the client.

    Whether youā€™re a seasoned therapist or just starting out, maintaining clear, professional boundaries is essential for both client outcomes and your own career longevity. Letā€™s make sure weā€™re always showing up in the most helpful, effective way for the people who trust us with their growth.

    Want more? Head over to GrowingSelf.com/therapists for articles, podcasts, and resources to keep you at the top of your game. And hey, donā€™t forget to subscribe to this podcast to get notified when there's a new episode chock full of perspective and tips to support your personal and professional wellbeing as a therapist.

    xo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    P.S. Have we connected yet on Linkedin? If not, join the conversation! https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/

  • Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow.

    We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls.

    So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

    I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens!

    xoxo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    P.S. ā€” In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach

  • "Is Your Practice a Legal Time Bomb?"

    As ethical, caring therapists with the best of intentions, we never set out to cross boundaries or make missteps in our practice. But the truth is, even the most well-meaning therapists can stumble into dangerous territory and even serious ethical violationsā€”often for things we never thought would be an issueā€¦ until itā€™s too late.

    We both know youā€™re a fantastic therapist, but Iā€™d love for you to take a moment and reflect: could there be something in your current process that has the potential to get you in trouble down the road?

    In the latest Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists podcast, Iā€™m breaking down the ethical landmines that blow up in therapistsā€™ faces all the time. You may think youā€™re covering your bases, but these hidden aspects could be the ones that catch you off guard.

    šŸ‘‡ Hereā€™s what you think you knowā€”but with a twist šŸ‘‡

    You know you shouldnā€™t abandon clientsā€¦ but are you unintentionally doing it in ways youā€™ve never considered?

    You know your caseload needs managingā€¦ but what hidden oversights in documentation could cause a massive issue?

    You know about boundariesā€¦ but what about the subtle boundary crossings that might not seem like a big dealā€”until they are?

    You know dual relationships are a no-noā€¦ but do you know the sneaky ways these can happen without even realizing it?

    Youā€™re confident in your scope of competenceā€¦ but how can you be sure youā€™re not accidentally stepping out of it without knowing?

    šŸ’” Why this matters: No one plans on being grieved or losing their license, but the smallest oversights can create the biggest problems. This episode is about uncovering those hidden risks and making sure youā€™re truly protected.

    If you found this episode helpful, donā€™t forget to subscribe to this podcast so you never miss out on more tips for growing your practice and protecting your career. And hey, if you know other therapists who could use some help dodging those ethical landmines, share this episode with them!

    Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    P.S. Letā€™s keep this conversation going! Connect with me on LinkedIn here to connect with me and be part of an amazing community of like-minded professionals.

  • Therapists aren't psychics, but they can seem that way. Why? The best of the best never stop assessing!

    Think you truly know your long-term clients? What if I told you thereā€™s a key youā€™re missing to unlock their next breakthrough? Staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them backā€”letā€™s change that.

    As therapists, we love building deep, meaningful relationships with our clients over timeā€”but staying comfortable with your clients could be the one thing holding them back. Complacency in therapy is more common than you think, and the biggest mistake seasoned therapists make is getting too comfortable. Hereā€™s how to avoid it and keep your clients growing.

    In todayā€™s episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, Iā€™m diving into why ongoing assessment is the key to unlocking deeper growth for your clientsā€”and, more importantly, for you. If youā€™ve stopped assessing your long-term clients, youā€™re missing the hidden layers of growth that could transform their journey.

    In this episode, weā€™ll cover:

    [00:00] The power of long-term client relationshipsā€”and the hidden risks they carry.

    [00:56] Why continuous assessment is crucial for staying in tune with your clients' evolving needs.

    [02:17] Strategies to avoid getting complacent and stay connected to your clientsā€™ goals.

    [06:15] The ethical responsibility we have as therapists to assess whether weā€™re still truly helping our clients.

    [18:16] How to spotā€”and addressā€”client dependency before it becomes unhealthy.

    [21:01] Monitoring shifts in your clients' identity, values, and goals so you can keep the work relevant and effective.

    [23:02] The critical importance of addressing addictive behaviors that may surface over time.

    This episode is packed with actionable insights that will help you stay sharp, ethical, and deeply connected to your clients as they grow and change. Discover how continuous assessment keeps your clients (and you) thriving. If you want to continue being the transformative guide your clients need, hit play now.

    This isnā€™t just about helping themā€”itā€™s about making sure you continue to love, enjoy, and grow in your work too.

    Letā€™s dive in!


    Warmly,
    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    P.S. Are we connected yet on Linkedin? Join the conversation!

  • Unfortunatly, feeling like a fraud sometimes is part of the experience of being a therapist. Even a good, competent, highly effective therapist!

    If that anxious whisper of ā€œAm I even helping anyone?ā€ has floated through your mind, 1) you're not alone and 2) I'm so glad you're here today for this conversation!

    In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, Iā€™m diving deep into therapist imposter syndromeā€”that sneaky self-doubt that makes you question your competence and wonder if you're doing enough for your clients.

    Hereā€™s the thing: Imposter syndrome isnā€™t a reflection of your abilities; itā€™s a sign of how much you care about your work. And guess what? If you felt completely confident all the time, youā€™d stop growing, and your clients might not get the best version of you.

    In this episode, weā€™re breaking it all down: where imposter syndrome comes from, why it's so common in our profession, andā€”most importantlyā€”how you can manage it and use it as a tool for your own professional evolution. Iā€™m sharing actionable strategies that help turn imposter syndrome into an engine for growth, so you can show up for your clients with renewed confidence and authenticity.

    šŸ”‘ Hereā€™s what weā€™ll cover:

    Why every thoughtful therapist experiences imposter syndrome

    How to reframe those self-doubts into something positive

    Building a growth mindset that keeps you evolving as a therapist

    The importance of community, mentorship, and reflection in managing imposter syndrome

    Practical tips you can start using right now to manage those nagging thoughts

    Donā€™t let imposter syndrome paralyze youā€”let it push you to grow. Tune in to learn how to navigate this common struggle, find your confidence, and keep showing up for your clients in the best possible way.

    šŸ‘‰ For more therapist resources and tips, visit growingself.com/therapists and letā€™s definitely connect on LinkedIn!

    xoxo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    #TherapistLife #ImposterSyndrome #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapistGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #TherapyCareer

  • Did you know that our healthy, appropriate therapeutic boundaries have the potential to cause hurt feelings, emotional barriers, and even ruptures in our relationships with clients? šŸ˜¬ Itā€™s true! Even though these boundaries are vital for ethical practice, they can leave clients feeling hurt, frustrated, or confused if weā€™re not handling them with care and intention.

    In this episode, Iā€™m diving deep into how therapeutic boundaries for therapistsā€”from declining social media requests to maintaining client autonomyā€”can unintentionally create emotional distance if weā€™re not communicating about them properly. Iā€™m sharing strategies to prevent these ruptures by being proactive and transparent about why we set boundaries and how they protect both us and our clients. šŸ’”

    By addressing these moments head-on, you can turn potential ruptures into opportunities for connection, trust, and growth. šŸ™Œ

    šŸ‘‡ Timestamps šŸ‘‡
    00:00 Understanding Client Perceptions
    01:02 Introduction to Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
    02:12 Common Therapist Boundaries
    02:40 Navigating Social Media and Public Encounters
    03:45 Proactive Communication and Transparency
    07:14 The Role of Silence in Therapy
    08:24 Dual Relationships and Boundaries
    10:36 The Importance of Not Giving Direct Advice
    12:32 Coaching vs. Therapy
    17:14 Respecting Client Autonomy
    17:56 Addressing Potential Ruptures
    20:35 Final Thoughts and Resources

    This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you handle therapeutic boundaries for therapists intentionally, ensuring they donā€™t become the source of misunderstandings or ruptures. Youā€™ll learn how to maintain strong, trusting relationships with your clients while holding firm to ethical practices.

    Letā€™s talk about how to turn these ā€œweirdā€ moments into opportunities for growth and connection. Listen now! šŸ”„

    Xoxo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    PS: Letā€™s stick together and be friends on Linkedin!

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  • Ever found yourself feeling personally triggered by your clients, or silently (perhaps guiltily) feeling judgmental about their values or life choices? Perhaps your client is having an affair, or engaged in criminal activity, or is behaving in ways that are destructive to others. It's normal to have feelings about this!

    You're not aloneā€”and this episode will change the way you handle it.

    In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapist, weā€™re diving into a topic thatā€™s so essential to our work: how to remain non-judgmental when your clientsā€™ values conflict with your own. I know it can feel challenging sometimesā€”believe me, weā€™ve all been there! But hereā€™s the thing: when you really dig into this work, it not only makes you a better therapist, but it also helps you grow emotionally and personally in ways you didnā€™t expect. šŸŒ±

    The magic of practicing unconditional positive regard is that it stretches you. It makes you more tolerant, more accepting, and honestly, more compassionate in your personal relationships, too. This episode is all about leaning into that discomfort, embracing your clientsā€™ unique journeys, and using it as a tool for your own growth.

    Letā€™s explore together how mastering non-judgmental support can foster deeper empathy and help you build stronger relationships in both your professional and personal life. Ready to level up? Letā€™s dive in!

    Timestamps:

    00:00 ā€“ How Values Conflicts Impact Therapists AND Clients

    05:05 - Therapists Are Human!

    12:30 - The First Step: Self Awareness

    14:55 - Authentic Curiosity

    18:15 - Working Within Cognitive Dissonance

    23:18 - Professional Path Choices

    33:03 ā€“ Practical Tips for Counselors

    33:14 ā€“ Supporting Clients on Their Journey

    33:26 ā€“ Embracing Non-Judgmental Support

    33:54 ā€“ Personal Growth Through Professional Practice

    34:28 ā€“ Fostering Tolerance and Perspective

    Hit play, get comfy, and let's grow together! šŸŒŸ #TherapistLife #UnconditionalPositiveRegard #PersonalGrowth #Empathy #TherapyJourney

    Xo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby


    PS: We therapists need to stick together. Letā€™s be friends on Linkedin!

  • Hey there, fabulous therapists! Are you tired of feeling overworked and underpaid? If you're ready to finally break free from financial stress and build the prosperous career you deserve, youā€™re in the right place. Today, I'm diving into powerful, actionable tips to help you boost your income and achieve financial success as a therapist ā€” starting right now.

    Iā€™ll walk you through the best-paying therapy jobs and specializations, explore different employment options, and show you how to thrive in private practice. Whether you're considering advanced degrees, curious about high-paying roles like neuropsychology or industrial/organizational psychology, or simply wanting to explore new avenues, Iā€™ve got you covered.

    And if youā€™re thinking about starting your own private practice? Yes, itā€™s challenging, but it's also one of the most rewarding paths you can takeā€”both financially and personally. Iā€™ll share what you need to know about the business side of things, from choosing a niche to building your online presence and growing a referral network.

    Plus, I'll reveal additional revenue streams that can complement your practice, so you can create a career that not only aligns with your values but also brings you joy and financial peace of mind.

    Letā€™s dig deep, get inspired, and start creating the prosperous, fulfilling career youā€™ve always dreamed of. Remember, your financial well-being is just as important as the amazing work you do for others. Stick with me, and letā€™s make this happen together!

    Timestamps:

    0:00 - Introduction and Why This Matters

    1:32 - The Best-Paying Therapy Jobs and Specializations

    4:15 - Exploring Different Employment Options

    7:48 - Thriving in Private Practice: What You Need to Know

    11:02 - Advanced Degrees: Are They Worth It?

    13:35 - Building Your Private Practice: Niche, Marketing, and More

    16:20 - Additional Revenue Streams for Therapists

    19:55 - Balancing Career Success with Personal Values

    22:18 - Free Resources to Support Your Journey

    All for you!

    Xo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    PS. Hereā€™s the link to that free resource I shared with you today: https://www.growingself.com/coach. I hope it helps you get clarity about your career path, and your financial prosperity as a therapist.

  • What shocked me the most about starting a private practice? My success had NOTHING to do with therapy. It had to do with understanding marketing basics and knowing how to run a business! I was TOTALLY unprepared.

    šŸŽ‰ Are you struggling to fill your therapy practice? Do you want to get more therapy clients, but feeling overwhelmed by the daunting task of attracting more clients? šŸŒŸ

    Well. my friend, this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists!ā€ is for you!! šŸš€ In this power-packed session, we're unveiling the ultimate secrets to transforming your private practice and ensuring your caseload is overflowing with eager clients. šŸ†

    šŸ”„ Here's what you'll uncover:

    00:00 Introduction: The Ultimate Guide to Attracting More Therapy Clients

    01:41 Game-Changing Marketing Strategies for Therapists

    03:51 Elevate Your Digital Footprint: Building a Magnetic Online Presence

    06:32 Networking Secrets: Building a Referral Powerhouse

    09:31 Ethical Mastery: Navigating Client Referrals with Integrity

    11:20 Client Retention Magic: Keep Your Caseload Overflowing

    16:55 Finding Your Niche: The Power of Specialization

    24:21 Smart Strategies: Financial and Practical Tips for Success

    28:40 Wrapping Up: Essential Resources and Next Steps

    šŸ’” This isn't just another marketing talkā€”this is your ticket to a thriving, successful practice. Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting, these tips will revolutionize how you attract and retain clients.

    šŸ“¢ Don't miss out! Hit play now and embark on your journey to practice success. If you find this episode helpful, share it with a colleague, subscribe to our channel, and leave your questions in the comments. Let's keep the conversation going and support each other in achieving love, happiness, and success! šŸŒˆ

    šŸ”— Stay connected:

    Subscribe to Love Happiness and Success For Therapists on your podcast app

    Subscribe to my channel on YouTube

    Connect with me on Linkedin

    Leave a comment with your thoughts and questions on the blog: https://www.growingself.com/get-more-therapy-clients

    Let's make your therapy practice the talk of the town! šŸŒŸāœØ

    Xoxo,

    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

    P.S. I shared a BUNCH of free resources with you in this episode. Access them all, right here: https://www.growingself.com/therapists

  • šŸ”„ Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? šŸ”„

    Hey there, fabulous therapists!

    If youā€™re anything like me, youā€™ve probably poured your heart and soul into building your therapy private practice. And letā€™s face it, managing the business side of things isnā€™t exactly why we got into this field. But what if I told you that the very tool you rely on for efficient practice management might actually be working against you?

    The Shocking Discovery

    It all started with a seemingly innocent email from a colleague. ā€œHey Lisa, have you checked out the new terms of service for our mental health EHR system?ā€ they asked. Intrigued and a little concerned, I decided to dive in. What I found left me absolutely gobsmacked.

    I spent hours wading through 97 pages of legal jargon, and what I discovered was alarming.

    I recorded a podcast on what happened next and released this in July, BUT since the first version was released I've gained visibility into some new information... and some new developments have unfolded. I am in the process of updating this podcast and video, and will be re-releasing it soon.

    Stay connected with me so I can let you know that this has been posted. Join my weekly newsletter for therapists to get notified about new podcasts that will support you, and help you flourish and thrive in our shared profession. šŸ‘‡

    Join Newsletter to Get Notified

    Your partner in outrage āœŠ

    Lisa Marie Bobby

  • What Kind Of Therapist are YOU? šŸš€

    In this episode of "Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists," we're diving DEEP into the secrets of finding your niche as a therapist! šŸŽÆ Are you tired of being a generalist, doing a little bit of everything and struggling to stand out in a competitive market? Say NO MORE! Iā€™m Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and Iā€™m here to guide you through the FIVE POWERFUL STEPS to clarify your niche, become a true authority, and a trustworthy guide to the clients for whom you can do the most GOOD. šŸ’–

    šŸ”„ What Weā€™re Discussing šŸ”„

    00:00 - Why You MUST Specialize as a Therapist
    02:45 - Why Being a Generalist Hurts Your Practice
    07:30 - The Journey to Specialization as a Therapist
    13:20 - Step 1: Self-Assessment and Reflection
    19:45 - Step 2: Gaining Experience
    24:10 - Step 3: Continuing Education
    30:35 - Step 4: Marketing Your Niche
    36:50 - The Ongoing Journey and Regular Self-Evaluation
    42:15 - FREE Two-Part Training on Coaching Certification for Therapists

    This episode is PACKED with valuable insights, personal stories, and actionable tips that will transform your professional life. If youā€™re ready to step into your power, create a fulfilling career, and become the go-to expert in your field, you CANā€™T afford to miss this!

    āœØ CALL TO ACTION āœØ

    Are you curious about coaching certification for therapists? Do you want to create a career that not only meets your professional goals but also brings you joy and satisfaction? šŸŒŸ Iā€™ve created the ULTIMATE GUIDE just for you ā€“ a FREE two-part training on coaching certification for therapists! This guide will help you gain clarity on your long-term professional goals, explore the world of coaching, and create an action plan to achieve your dreams.

    šŸ”— CLICK HERE to take the free two-part training and get your hands on the ultimate guide to coaching certification for therapists: growingself.com/coach šŸ”—

    Donā€™t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing insights and professional tips. Let's create a career and life you LOVE! šŸŒˆ

    #TherapistLife #FindYourNiche #CoachingCertification #ProfessionalGrowth #LoveHappinessSuccess