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After experiencing God's healing in our marriage, we wanted to share with others what He had done for us. It gave purpose to our pain, and every opportunity we had to share reminded us of what God had done.
But this meant that we had to sometimes share very personal details of our journey. As we did this, we gave other couples "permission" to transparently share their stories. This mutual vulnerability created beautiful relationships as we became intimately known to others in a God-honoring way.
Join us as we read the final chapter of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that radical courage and vulnerability allowed us to participate in the healing of others.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - This episode also includes the Epilogue, where our youngest daughters provide their comments on how our coming clean affected them when they were only 11 and 9 years old. It's candid and fresh and will encourage you to also share your story with your kids.
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at â https://a.co/d/eiZKpNyâ
The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at â https://a.co/d/gzUdIGBâ
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â â â â â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples struggle with whether, when and how to reengage again sexually. In fact, some studies suggest that 20-30% of all couples live in a sexless marriage.
Is it really possible to create new feelings of sexual desire and intimacy after suffering the pain of betrayal?
Or to create sexual intimacy that never existed before?
Join us as we read Chapter 11 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that God wants to be invited into your sexual journey, and with his help, your sexual intimacy can flourish no matter the pain you've gone through.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/eiZKpNy
The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/gzUdIGB
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â â â â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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In Part 1 of Rey and Jane's story, Jane described how she forgave Rey for a 10-year relationship he had with her sister. Rey described how it was so hard for him to accept Jane's forgiveness, believing that forgiveness was only for people who were better than him.
Today, you're going to hear how this path of mercy, grace and forgiveness took them toward becoming battle partners. It's an amazing story, and you don't want to miss it!
We've served with Rey and Jane for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family.
So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years.
Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Do you want to hear more from Rey and Jane? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (â witministries.comâ ). They would be glad to speak with you!
Resources:
Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ . â â â â
To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.com.â
Buy Phil and Priscilla's award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â â â â â â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â â â Buy the award-winning Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â â â â â â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â â â
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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We first heard Rey and Jane Alvarenga's story 7 years ago, and it was instrumental in helping us believe that God could rescue our marriage, no matter how big the pit was that we had dug.
Today, we're so pleased to introduce Rey and Jane to you.
We've served with them for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family.
So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years.
Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (witministries.com). They would be glad to speak with you!
Resources:
Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at SavageMarriageMinistries.com. â â
To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.com.
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â â â â â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â â Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â â â â â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â â
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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When you hear the word "temptation", what feelings do you have? Sin? Failure? Frustration?
All these feelings are normal, because few people know how to escape from temptation.
Join us for this podcast, where we share with you the game changers in our marriage that have allowed us to understand that temptation is a testing, but doesn't need to necessarily lead to sin.
If temptation has created fear and insecurities in your marriage, you don't want to miss this one!
Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at savagemarriageministries.com. We'd love to talk with you!
Resources:
Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at â Services 3 â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ
Join the Savage Marriage Community at â â â â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ â â â
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â â â â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â â â â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â â
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples settle for just getting back to a functional marriage, but not one that's emotionally intimate.
Is it really possible to recover feelings of emotional connection?
Or to create emotional intimacy that never existed before?
Join us as we read Chapter 10 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that empathy and compassion are the gateways to emotional intimacy.
Once we began to see one another's back story and understand why we did what we did, God allowed feelings of empathy and compassion to spring up, taking us toward a level of emotional intimacy we'd never before experienced.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at â â â Services 3 â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ â â Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â â â â .
The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on â â â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â â â â â â WITMinistries.comâ â â â â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We'd always believed that emotional and sexual intimacy were the keys to a great marriage. But when our marriage broke down after 28 years, we wondered what happened.
Was it possible that there was more to marriage than emotional and sexual intimacy, and we had missed it all these years?
Join us as we read Chapter 9 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that spiritual intimacy with one another was the missing part of our relationship.
Once we began cultivating our spiritual relationship with one another, God began showing up in supernatural ways we had never before experienced.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at â â Services 3 â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ â Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â â â .
The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on â â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â â â â â WITMinistries.comâ â â â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We had a lot of ground together after Phil "came clean" seven years ago. Our 28 year marriage was functional, but we still felt like roommates, always wanting more, but settling for less. And we thought everyone else was in the same boat.
But seven years ago, we discovered three things that have made all the difference, and we believe these three things can take you from feeling like roommates, to sensing fulfillment and intimacy again.
Join us as we discuss our journey, and how you can start your own journey of transformation in your marriage.
Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at Services 3 â Savage Marriage Ministries
Join the Savage Marriage Community at â â â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ â â
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â â â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â â â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ â â
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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Have you ever struggled with intruding thoughts that seen to take you hostage, dictating how you will think, feel and act?
Well, we sure did!
Join us as we read Chapter 8 of our award winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll see that not every thought in your mind is yours!
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at â Services 3 â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â â .
The popular study guide for this book is also available on â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â â â â WITMinistries.comâ â â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We receive lots of feedback on our book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, and sometimes there are some strong emotional responses, like when someone says their spouse threw our book across the room or out the window.
So, what do we say when we hear reactions like this?
We say, Hallelujah! At least what's been on the inside is coming out!
The first step toward recovery is to show what requires restoration, and the emotional and physical manifestations of inward feelings are clues on where to look for what needs to be healed.
Join us today as we talk about what God can do in the middle of our strong displays of emotion. It's God's road to recovery, and we invite you to join us as we walk through it!
Phil and Priscilla
P.S. - If you've enjoyed our podcast, would you please subscribe and provide a rating? Your comments are helpful for others to find our podcast who may also be looking for healing and restoration in their marriage!
Resources:
Join the Savage Marriage Community at â â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ â
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ â Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ â
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame," Phil and Priscilla learn that to start the journey forward, they need to take a journey backward...to what happened in their childhood...to their "take it to the grave lists". After addressing the wounds of their past, they begin the awkward conversations with their extended family and see further "ripple effects" of their story...a real miracle of healing.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!Phil and Priscilla
Resources:
If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, contact them at [email protected]. More details are available on their website at Services 3 â Savage Marriage MinistriesOur hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â â .
The popular study guide for this book is also available on â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â â â WITMinistries.comâ â â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins", Phil and Priscilla detail their painful confessions with their five children, with their three adult children describing (in their own voices) their reactions. It's a turning point in their reconciliation, as Priscilla sees Phil do something she never thought he do - humble himself before his children.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â â Amazonâ â â â â .
The popular study guide for this book is also available on â â â â Amazonâ â â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â â WITMinistries.comâ â .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 5, Phil describes how he attends 4 Days 2 Freedom and learns how humility is the key to unlocking the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome his past, his addictions, and his self-centeredness. Priscilla describes how she sees her identity in Christ, and both she and Phil turn the corner to a new life, a new relationship and a new marriage.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â â Amazonâ â â â .
The popular study guide for this book is also available on â â â Amazonâ â â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at â WITMinistries.comâ .
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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While talking about porn has become mainstream in many churches, using the "M" word - masturbation - hasn't. Even mentioning it seems to evoke feelings of shame, with many people choosing less offensive words, like "solo sex" or "self-pleasuring".
But masturbation has real effects on our body, soul, and spirit, and realizing freedom from the associated idol of lust is not only possible, but probable for people committed to doing whatever it takes to find help.
Join Phil and Priscilla on this podcast as they talk about how masturbation affected them, and how they now live in freedom.
Resources:
Join the Savage Marriage Community at â Savage Marriage Ministriesâ
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at â Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Booksâ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at â Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Booksâ
And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 4, Priscilla describes how her healing began at 4 Days 2 Hope, and how God showed her what it meant to forgive by faith. It was where Priscilla began to see her own journey toward healing, and what God wanted to do, not only in Phil's life, but also in hers. Without this revelation, Phil and Priscilla's path toward reconciliation would have been very different.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
Resources:
Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on â â â Amazonâ â â .
The popular study guide for this book is also available on â â Amazonâ â .
Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â â .
Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.
Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 3, Phil and Priscilla describe how Phil "came clean'', beginning the painful journey toward healing. Through the emotional sharing, Priscilla agrees to help Phil "get fixed", even though she isn't aware what's in store for her in the weeks ahead. It's a pivotal point in their story we're sure you won't want to miss!
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on â â Amazonâ â . The popular study guide for this book is also available on â Amazonâ . Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ â . Thanks for partnering with us!
Phil and Priscilla
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"Date Night" has become almost a required step for every couple to have a successful marriage, promising emotional bliss for couples who'll stay committed to one night a week alone.
And when date night doesn't work, some couples throw in more sex, following programs like the "30-day Sex Challenge".
Yet, we meet many couples whose marriages are struggling, while they're religiously having date nights (and trying to have more sex).We were one of those couples for twenty-eight years, unable to find real intimacy in the face of numerous moral and spiritual failures, but still counting on date night to solve our problems.Join us on this podcast as we talk about how we experienced real intimacy in our marriage...intimacy based not on what we could do...but on what only God could do.
- Phil and Priscilla, Savage Marriage Ministries
Resources:
Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries
Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: BooksBuy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books
And follow our podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.
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We're releasing our audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!
In Chapter 2, Phil and Priscilla describe how Phil's sin continued to grow, and how Priscilla was affected - even though she didn't know what was going on with Phil. Through the twists and turns, they describe how Phil was finally pushed over the edge to begin a painful disclosure process.
We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on â Amazonâ . the popular study guide for this book is also available on Amazon. Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at â SavageMarriageMinistries.comâ . Thanks for partnering with us!
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We're releasing our audio book chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you! Share it with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!
And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on Amazon. Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at SavageMarriageMinistries.com. Thanks for partnering with us!
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If you are a husband, you may have been intimated with the idea that husbands are the "head" of the wife. If you are a wife, you may have been appalled with how your husband has wanted to sometimes rule over you, like you didn't really have a voice or significance.
But do you really know what the Bible means when it says the husband is the head of the wife?
Well, we didn't! In fact, it's only been recently that we've deconstructed this passage, and it's reinforced what God has shown us in the recovery, reconciliation and rebuilding of our marriage!
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