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On this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori welcomes Daryl Potter, a Canadian banker and published author, for a conversation that takes us far beyond the typical stepfamily story. Daryl isnât a member of a blended family himself, but his experience raising a child with two extremely rare medical conditions has given him a unique perspective on navigating âirregularâ family dynamics and finding beauty in unexpected places.
Daryl opens up about his 28-year marriage, the cultural mosaic of his household, and the challenges and profound blessings of caring for his daughter, who is the only person in the world with her combination of diagnoses. He shares how his family has had to rewrite the script on everything from holidays to family vacations, and how his son has learned life skills and empathy far beyond his years.
Throughout the episode, Daryl and Lori delve into themes of grief, acceptance, reframing success, and the importance of not comparing pain, reminding us that everyoneâs journey holds its own weight, no matter how âbrokenâ it may appear from the outside. Darylâs story is a powerful reminder that, whether youâre in a stepfamily or not, every family must find its own version of normal and discover joy, purpose, and connection along the way.
In this episode, we discuss:
Coping with and Managing a Severely Disabled Child Grief and Adapting to a "broken" or Non-traditional Family Impact on Siblings: The "Leftover" Dynamic Finding Meaning and Perspective in Suffering and Difference Key Advice for Parents Facing Disability or Blended Family ChallengesNacho Parenting Success Stories:
âThe biggest surprise? The kids are actually happier now. I stepped back, let go of the pressure, and our entire home changed for the better.â ~ S.C., California, USA
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Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In todayâs episode, Lori and David dive deep into the realities of sacrifice within stepfamilies. Lori shares a heartfelt personal story about giving up a long-awaited lunch with a friend to help her stepson, Ethan, navigate buying a car, a perfect example of the countless everyday choices stepfamilies make for each other. Together, Lori and David discuss how sacrifice isnât just about doing things for your own kids, but often includes stepkids and even partners.
They challenge the misconception that ânachoingâ means not caring or refusing to help, and explain how setting boundaries can actually strengthen relationships and protect your mental health. The hosts also touch on stepfamily celebrations, like Stepmotherâs Day, the importance of not keeping score, and why caring for your own well-being is essential. Join Lori and David as they get real about being kind, both to others and to yourself, and find out why sometimes, the healthiest choice is to Nacho.
In this episode, we discuss:
Reflections on Sacrifice In Stepfamilies Nacho Parenting and Relationship Nuances The Importance (and Limits)of Sacrifice Emotional Realtities and AcceptanceNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
"Having my stepkids full-time was overwhelming. I felt like I had to step up and fill shoes that werenât mine, and it nearly broke me. Nachoing showed me that I can support their mom without trying to be their dad. Now thereâs less stress, more peace, and the start of real trust growing between us." ~ Todd, WI
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On todayâs episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Chad Bignac, transformationist, consultant, author, and coauthor of the new book âBlend, Donât Break.â Drawing from over 22 years of blended family experience, Chad opens up about the challenges he and his wife faced merging their families after personal tragedies, including the loss of his first wife and his current wifeâs ex-husband.
Chad shares candidly about the painful missteps and valuable lessons learned along their journey, from clashing parenting styles and personal assumptions to the importance of unity, compassion, and self-growth. He details the turning point in his familyâs story, catalyzed by his wifeâs severe health crisis, and how choosing to respond rather than react helped heal deep family rifts.
Through heartfelt stories and practical wisdom, Chad emphasizes the power of compassion, influence over authority, and the need to unpack old emotional baggage before starting anew. Whether youâre in a blended family or looking for guidance on overcoming personal and family struggles, this episode offers honest insights and hope for healing and connection.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Early Challenges in Blending
- Authority vs. Influence in Parenting
- Becoming a âStudent of Your Childrenâ
- Creating Environments for Healing in Blended Families
- Advice for Prospective Stepfamilies
Nacho Kids Success Story:
I thought stepping up meant stepping all the way in, but it was destroying me.
As a stepdad, I believed it was my job to take the lead and fix everything. I disciplined, managed homework, scheduled appointments⊠and got nothing but pushback. My wife and I were constantly arguing, and I felt like an outsider in my own home. Then we found Nacho Kids. Learning to Nacho helped me stop parenting by proxy and start supporting my wife as her partner, not as a replacement dad. The stress lifted, and surprisingly, my stepkids started warming up to me once I stepped out of the power struggle. Nacho Kids didnât just change our home, it gave me my peace back. ~Mark T., Stepdad of 2
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Welcome back to another episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In todayâs show, Lori and David dive into a challenge faced by many blended families: What happens when one partner feels that their stepchild is being disrespectful, and the biological parent doesnât step in? Kicking things off with a listener's heartfelt question, Lori and David unpack the complexities of stepkids shouting or insulting their stepparent and stepsibling, as well as the tension that arises when boundaries and respect are on the line.
Throughout the episode, they discuss practical strategies for handling disrespect without overstepping boundaries, the importance of focusing on your own responses, and how to talk to your partner about these challenging issues without stirring up more conflict. The hosts also highlight why sibling (and step-sibling) rivalry can sometimes be just as much about building bonds as it is about butting heads, and why letting kids work out their differences can lead to healthier relationships in the long run.
Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or somewhere in between, today's episode offers real-life insights and actionable advice on navigating respect and boundaries in a blended family. Grab your headphones and get ready to "nacho" your way to a happier home!
In this episode, we discuss:
Nacho Parenting Philosophy in Conflict Scenarios
Responding to Disrespect from Stepchildren
Perceptions of Respect and Boundaries
Stepparent vs. Biological Parent Discipline Dynamics
Navigating Sibling and Stepsibling Relationships
Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
"Nacho Kids Academy saved my sanity and my marriage. It took a little while because my husband wasnât happy with me Nachoing. He didnât understand it. But once he saw the positive changes from my Nachoing, he couldnât deny that Nachoing was changing things for the better.â ~ Ellison - Happy stepmom in TX
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On todayâs episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with "Bookworm Stepmom," for a heartfelt and engaging conversation about navigating the highs and lows of blended family life. Stepmom opens up about her journey from single and childless to stepmom of two girls and mom to two more young children, one of whom is autistic. They dig into the realities of co-parenting with an ex, maintaining balance in a blended household, and how stepmomâs personal experiences as a stepchild shape her compassionate approach to stepmotherhood. From honest discussions about the challenges of special needs parenting and managing finances for the future, to candid stories about family dynamics, Bookworm Stepmom shares wisdom, humor, and practical tips for anyone in a blended family. Whether youâre a stepparent, bio parent, or just love an honest family story, this episode is packed with lessons and laughs you wonât want to miss!
In this episode, we discuss:
Expanding the family with "ours" kids Dealing with high-conflict and jealousy Navigating divorce, affairs, and co-parenting Parenting Special Needs ("Ours") Child Financial planning and inheritance in Blended FamiliesNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
I Didn't Need to Leave - I Just Needed to Nacho
I was emotionally exhausted, constantly fighting invisible battles in my own home. My stepkids ignored me, my partner seemed stuck in the middle, and every day felt like I was losing a piece of myself. I thought the only way to find peace was to leave.
Then I found the Nacho Kids Academy.
At first, I was skeptical - how could not parenting actually help? But the step-by-step guidance, real-life examples, and support inside the Academy opened my eyes. I learned how to let go of the responsibilities that were never mine to begin with. I stopped trying to fix things I didnât break. And I finally started healing.
The results? Less tension. More laughter. A stronger marriage. And oddly enough, a better connection with my stepkids now that Iâve stepped back.
Nachoing didnât mean giving up. It meant choosing peaceâand Iâll never look back. If you're struggling, this isn't just a course. It's a lifeline."
~ Jessica T. - A now happy stepmom! Thanks Nacho!
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Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this heartfelt and relatable episode, hosts David and Lori dive into the annual struggle of graduation ticket allocations. With only a handful of coveted seats for high school and college ceremonies, blended and extended families are often left negotiating who gets a spot in the audienceâand who doesnât. Through personal stories and a bit of humor, David and Lori explore the emotional minefield that limited tickets can create for parents, step-parents, grandparents, and, most importantly, the graduates themselves. They emphasize the importance of keeping the celebration focused on the students and share creative ideas for making everyone feel included, even if they canât physically be at the ceremony. Whether itâs planning an after-party or tuning in to a livestream, they remind listeners that graduation is about honoring the kids without piling on extra stress. Join them as they navigate one of the tricky realities of modern family life.
In this episode, we discuss:
Graduation Ticket Challenges Emotional Impact on Graduates and Families Solutions When Tickets are LimitedNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
"Before finding Nacho Kids Academy, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. I loved my husband, but the constant tension with his kids and the drama with the ex was tearing me apart. I felt like I was walking on eggshells in my own home, trying to parent kids who didnât want me there.
Joining Nacho Kids Academy was a game-changer. I learned how to step back without stepping away, how to Nacho the things that werenât my responsibility and focus on my relationship with my husband and myself. The coaching calls, the community, the step-by-step layers, it all gave me tools I didnât even know I needed.
Now, my home feels peaceful again. I can show up as a loving partner without feeling like Iâm constantly battling for space or respect. And the best part? My relationship with my stepkids has actually improved because Iâm no longer forcing something that wasnât working.
If youâre a stepparent feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or ready to give up, please, do yourself a favor and join Nacho Kids Academy. It saved my marriage and my sanity." - Sarah M., Stepmom of 2
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In this enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we explore the fascinating world of stepfamilies in American history with our special guest, Lisa Wilson, the esteemed author of "A History of Stepfamilies in Early America." Lisa shares her journey of uncovering the untold stories and patterns of stepfamilies, reflecting on her personal experiences as a member of such a family. Delving into historical dynamics, Lisa discusses how the perception and roles within stepfamilies have evolved over centuries, from the challenges of integrating into what was once an emotionally-focused family model to combating age-old prejudices against stepmothers.
Lori and David, our hosts, invite listeners to a thoughtful conversation about the societal shifts that have affected family structures, highlighting the continuity of certain challenges stepfamilies face today, reminiscent of those from the 18th century. They touch on topics like the legal rights of step-parents, the economic considerations of remarriage, and even the portrayal of stepparents in popular culture.
Join us as we navigate this intriguing historical landscape, uncovering insights that resonate with modern stepfamilies and fostering a greater understanding of how these blended households have always been a fundamental part of the American family fabric.
In this episode, we discuss:
Historical context of stepfamilies Stepparents' challenges and shifts in family dynamics Societal perceptions and misconceptions Modern Community and family structuresNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
âI thought I had tried everything. Books, blogs, even therapy, but nothing helped me feel less like an outsider in my own home. Then I found Nacho Kids Academy. Within weeks, the stress in our home dropped dramatically. I finally understood that I didnât have to fix everything or be the 'bonus mom of the year.' I learned how to support my partner without losing myself. The daily tension? Gone. The constant guilt? Lifted. The relationship with my stepkids isnât perfect, but for the first time, itâs not painful. Nacho Kids gave me my peace and my power back.â- Sarah M., Stepmom of 3 and Proud Nachoâer
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Welcome to this episode of the NK Podcast, where hosts Lori and David dive into the intricacies of celebrating Easter within stepfamilies. The holiday season can be a delightful time, but it also brings unique challenges when navigating custody schedules and traditions in blended families. In this episode, Lori and David share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to manage these situations, offering creative solutions for celebrating Easter, even if it's not on the traditional date. They'll also discuss the importance of setting and respecting court-ordered holiday arrangements and the concept of life not always being 'fair' â a valuable lesson for kids in stepfamilies. Whether it's creating new family traditions or creatively handling gift-giving, Lori and David provide insightful tips for a harmonious holiday experience. So, grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let's explore how to navigate Easter in a stepfamily with grace and flexibility.
In this episode, we discuss:
Challenges During Easter in Step Families Fairness in Gift Giving Traditions and Adaptations Handling Emotional Challenges Life LessonsNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
âBeen There Done Thatâ
"I thought I had this stepparenting thing down. My first blend was a breezeâwe all got along, and everything just seemed to fall into place. So when I got into my current relationship, I assumed it would be the same. I was so wrong. From loyalty binds to feeling like an outsider in my own home, I was drowning in stress and resentment. Thatâs when I found Nacho Kids. Learning how to step back, redefine my role, and let go of what I canât control has been life-changing. Nacho Parenting helped me breathe again. Iâm no longer walking on eggshells or trying to fix everything. I finally feel peace in my homeâand in my heart." ~ C.B. from NY
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Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, hosts Lori and David welcome the insightful Karen McNenny, also known as the Good Divorce Coach. Karen joins us to challenge the traditional narrative of divorce as a conflict-ridden process. She introduces the concept of a 'good divorce,' presenting it as a tool, rather than a weapon, to transform family dynamics positively. Karen shares her personal journey and the genesis of her coaching business, emphasizing the importance of reshaping the divorce experience to focus on protecting future relationships, especially for those who co-parent. Tune in as we explore how thoughtful, intentional divorce processes can lead to a more harmonious family structure, even across two homes. Get ready to shift your perspective on divorce and discover how this transformation can ease not only the divorce process but also foster a healthier blended family dynamic. Enjoy the show!
In this episode, we discuss:
Concept of a Good Divorce Parenting and Communication Post-Divorce Introduction of New Partners Maintaining Healthy BoundariesNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
I Thought Divorce Was the Only Option
"I thought my marriage was doomed. My wife and I couldnât agree on anything when it came to her kids. Every argument ended with one of us saying, âMaybe this just isnât going to work.â Then we found Nacho Kids. I realized that my role wasnât to discipline or fix anything - it was to support my wife as she parents her kids. The shift in our home was almost instant. The tension disappeared. The kids were happier, my wife wasnât stuck in the middle, and I could actually enjoy being in my own home again. If we hadnât found Nacho Kids, we wouldnât be together today. Itâs that simple.â - Mike R., Virginia, USA
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In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the often misunderstood concept of "nacho parenting." They start by addressing a common question: Does nachoing mean ignoring your stepkids? Lori shares her own journey of using nacho parenting to navigate difficult dynamics with her stepchildren, emphasizing that it's more about choosing not to engage rather than ignoring. Lori and David explain how this approach helped improve their family interactions. With anecdotes and guidance, Lori and David provide a deeper understanding of how nacho parenting can lead to healthier and happier blended families. Join them as they dispel myths and offer strategies to help stepfamilies thrive.
In this episode, we discuss:
Importance of Not Engaging Emotional Management Flexibility in Nacho Parenting Handling Disrespect from Stepkids You never Nacho safetyNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
I Was at My Breaking Point - Nacho Saved My Life
"I donât say this lightlyâNacho Parenting saved my life. I was drowning in anxiety and depression because I felt like a failure as a stepmom. No matter what I did, I was met with rejection, and it ate away at my self-worth. I started having thoughts that scared me. Thatâs when I found Nacho Kids. It completely changed how I saw my role. I stopped trying to be someone I wasnât meant to be and learned to set healthy emotional boundaries. For the first time in years, I feel free. I feel like myself again. And because I took care of myself, my marriage and stepfamily relationships have improved naturally. Nacho Kids didnât just save my marriageâit saved me.â - Jessica K.
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Hey, Nacho Parents! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind story of a step couple who faced some major challenges blending their families. They've got a history that goes way back, but things got complicated when their relationship rekindled as an affair. Now, they're dealing with the fallout, especially with one of the kids knowing about the affair. The catch? This kid has no idea that her mom actually cheated first, causing a whole lot of tension and misunderstandings. Join us as we break down how this couple is managing to mend relationships, navigate the truths and misconceptions, and work towards a harmonious future together. You won't want to miss this one!
In this episode, we discuss:
Lies cause damage
Disagreements on household rules and enforcement
Consequences of affairs on family dynamics
Do you set the record straight?
Should you tell your kid the truth about your ex - their bio parent?
Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
âI Was Ready to Walk AwayâNow Weâre Stronger Than Everâ
"Before I found Nacho Kids, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. The resentment, the constant fights over parenting, and feeling like an outsider in my own home had worn me down. I thought I had to be a âparentâ to my stepkids, but all it did was create conflict and push me further from my husband. Learning to Nacho gave me permission to step back, focus on my marriage, and let go of what wasnât mine to fix. Now, instead of fighting over stepfamily issues, my husband and I are a team again. This method didnât just save my marriageâit saved my sanity.â ~ Emily S. - USA
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Welcome back to the Nacho Kids podcast! In this episode, titled "Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms/Stepfamilies," hosts David and Lori dive into the complex dynamics of navigating Mother's Day as a stepparent. With Mother's Day just around the corner, they tackle the often-sensitive issue of unmet expectations and the potential for hurt feelings. Lori and David offer practical advice for stepparents on setting boundaries and communicating desires with their partners, the importance of self-care, and how to embrace Stepmother's Day. The hosts also explore the pitfalls of comparison and emphasize the significance of creating one's happiness. So, join David and Lori as they bring a mix of heartfelt insights and light-hearted banter, aimed to make this Mother's Day a cherished occasion for everyone involved.
In this episode, we discuss:
Navigating expectations as a stepmom on Mother's Day Stepmother's Day Focusing on yourself Avoiding comparisonsNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
The Stepmom Who Thought 'Nachoing' Meant Ignoring"At first, I thought Nachoing meant just ignoring my stepkids, but Nacho Kids Academy taught me that itâs really about setting boundaries, respecting my role, and creating a healthier family dynamic. Once I stepped back, I was shocked at how much better my marriage and my relationship with my stepkids became. It turns out, they actually like me better when Iâm not trying to parent them!" ~ Amanda R.
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In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes Mae, a stepmom navigating the challenging dynamics of her blended family. Mae lives with her partner, their two-year-old child, and her partner's kidsâa 13-year-old girl and a 10-year-old boy. Mae shares the trials she's faced stepping into a maternal role, dealing with stepchildren full-time due to their mother's sporadic involvement. Tune in as she candidly discusses the struggle of balancing her partnerâs expectations, managing her stepson's anger issues, and finding harmony through the Nacho Kids method. Whether you're a new stepmom or have been in the role for years, Maeâs story offers relatable insights and genuine conversation about creating a cohesive family. Join us as we dive into these real-life stories, real people, and real help in blending families!
In this episode, we discuss:
Behavioral Challenges with Stepson
Challenges of Disengagement
Managing Emotions and Responsibilities
Honesty and Family Conversations
Future Concerns and Stepsonâs Behavior
Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
The High-Conflict Ex Situation
"My stepkidsâ mom made our lives miserable. It felt like everything I did was wrong, and my husband was stuck in the middle. After joining Nacho Kids Academy, I stopped trying to compete with their mom and started focusing on my own peace. The drama doesnât affect me like it used to, and my husband and I are finally on the same page. This program saved my sanity!" ~ Kara L., KY, USA
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In this milestone episode of the NK Podcast, we're celebrating our 300th episode! Join hosts Lori and David as they reflect on five and a half years of podcasting, sharing their journey and the valuable lessons they've learned along the way. From the challenges and joys of blending families to the unexpected twists and turns of stepfamily life, Lori and David dive deep into their personal experiences. They share heartwarming stories of growth and transformation, emphasizing the importance of resilience and adaptability in the face of change. Tune in to hear how the Nacho Kids method has helped them navigate the complexities of stepfamily life and how their podcasting journey has not only impacted their lives but also touched the hearts of listeners around the world. This special episode is a testament to the power of perseverance, connection, and the shared goal of creating better blended family experiences.
In this episode, we discuss:
Reflection on Consistency and Challenges
Adult Children Moving Back In
Family Gatherings and Dynamics
Distance in RelationshipsNacho Kids Academy Success Stories:
The Stepparent with Adult Bio Kids & Younger Stepkids
I raised my kids to adulthood, so I thought I knew what I was doing when I married my husband, who still had young kids. I quickly realized step-parenting is NOTHING like regular parenting! Nacho Kids Academy gave me the tools to step back, respect my husbandâs role as their dad, and focus on supporting rather than controlling. Now, instead of stress and resentment, our home feels more like a partnership! - Debbie W.
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In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the NK Podcast, we're joined by stepmom Whitney, who revisits her story after first appearing on the podcast three and a half years ago. Whitney shares an incredible journey that showcases resilience, compassion, and the power of relationships in the midst of adversity. As a stepmom with no biological children and a 17-year-old stepdaughter, Whitney recounts her experience of supporting her stepdaughter's mother through a terminal cancer diagnosis. This candid conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, the emotional challenges of navigating a blended family, and the unexpected bond that formed between Whitney and her stepdaughter's mother. Join hosts Lori and David Sims as they explore Whitney's remarkable story of love, strength, and the unexpected paths life can take. Don't miss this episode, which is sure to resonate with anyone who has faced life's challenges with an open heart.
In this episode we discuss:
Challenges in Stepfamily Dynamics
Stepparent Perspective and Family Dynamics Shift
The Role of Faith and Support Networks
Reflections and Personal Insights
Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
The Stepparent with Adult STepkids
"I married my husband thinking that since his kids were grown, stepfamily life would be easy. Nope! His adult kids didnât like me, and I felt like I had no voice in our own home. Nacho Kids Academy showed me how to detach with love and stop trying to âfixâ things. Now, I focus on my marriage and let my husband handle his own kids. Itâs been life-changing!" - Lisa B.
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Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive into a critical conversation about the challenges and misconceptions faced by stepparents. They explore three common phrases that should never be uttered to a stepparent. First, the hosts debunk the idea that stepparents knew what they were getting into when joining a blended family, emphasizing the unexpected trials involved. Next, they tackle the unrealistic expectation that stepparents should love their stepchildren like their own, highlighting the unique dynamics and relationships within a family. Finally, Lori and David clarify the misconception that stepparents are "parents too," discussing the complexity of roles within a blended family. Join us as we uncover some hard truths and foster understanding and empathy for stepparents navigating these complex relationships. So, stay tuned for an enlightening episode filled with candid discussions and relatable insights!
In this episode, we discuss:
General Discussion on Expectations in Life and Relationships Clarification and Healthy Expectations in Stepparent-Child Relationships Understanding Unrealistic Expectations The Complexity of Roles Guarding Against Harmful Assumptions:Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:
"I thought since I had kids of my own and grew up in a stepfamily that I knew how to be a stepdad. Wrong. My wife and I fought constantly about discipline, boundaries, and how we should treat all the kids âequally.â Nacho Kids Academy helped me realize that âequalâ isnât always âfairâ and that my role in my stepkidsâ lives wasnât to be their dad. Once I stopped trying to force things, our home became so much calmer. The biggest surprise? My stepkids actually started coming to me on their own! We owe you so much, Lori & David!" - James T.
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In today's episode, host Lori welcomes Raffi Bilek, a marriage counselor based in Baltimore and the author of "The Couple's Communication Handbook: The Skills You Never Learned for the Marriage You Always Wanted." Raffi shares his experiences working with couples and emphasizes the importance of effective communication in relationships. He discusses cultural differences in communication, how childhood influences our communicative skills, and the challenges couples face when navigating conversations about money, expectations, and parenting in stepfamilies. Throughout the conversation, Raffi offers insights into improving dialogue and understanding within relationships, underlining the significance of empathy and active listening as keys to resolving conflicts and building stronger connections. Join us as we dive into these essential topics and learn how to enhance communication in our personal lives.
In this episode, we discuss:
Communication Skills Expectations and Conflict Empathy and Understanding Emotional RegulationNacho Kids Academy Success Story:
Stepmom and Bio Mom
"Blending families is HARD. I didnât understand why my husband treated my kids differently than his, and I was constantly frustrated that his kids got away with things mine never would. Nacho Kids Academy completely changed my perspective. Instead of comparing, I started focusing on what I could controlâmy own parenting and my relationship with my husband. The difference has been incredible. My stress level has dropped, and I donât feel like Iâm constantly walking on eggshells anymore!" - Rachel M.
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Join hosts Lori and David as they share three very important tips for the stepparent! Listen as they dive into essential strategies for creating a harmonious stepfamily environment. Lori and David discuss the common pitfalls stepparents might be falling into without even realizing it. They explore three crucial behaviors to avoid if you're looking to reduce stress and build stronger relationships within your blended family. From understanding the implications of negative comments about the stepkids to recognizing the importance of not taking things personally and knowing when to step back from disciplining your stepchildren, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to navigate the complexities of step-parenting and foster a peaceful, loving home.
In this episode, we discuss:
Tit-for-tat behavior Avoiding negative comments to family members Adulting versus parenting ExpectationsNacho Kids Academy Success Story:
Childless Stepdad
"I thought stepping in as a father figure was what my stepkids needed. Instead, it caused tension between me and my wife, and the kids resented me. Nacho Kids Academy helped me see that I was overstepping. Once I let go of trying to parent, my relationship with my wife improved, and the kids actually warmed up to me over time. Now, we get along naturally without me feeling like an outsider or a disciplinarian. We enjoy being around each other now!" - Mark D. âProud Nacho Stepdadâ
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Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother.
We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother.
We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in!
In this episode, we discuss:
Emotional Turmoil Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental AlienationNacho Kids testimonial:
Transforming Our Family"The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and Iâve built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.
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