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  • What if you could transform the end-of-life experience into a holistic, human journey rather than a purely medical one?

    Join us as we explore the profound and often overlooked aspects of end-of-life care on this episode of "Ask a Death Doula." We’re breaking down the three phases of end-of-life, from initial comfort measures to the body's natural decline, and highlighting the critical role of proactive planning. Discover how you can enrich these final moments for your loved ones and yourself by embracing new, progressive choices that celebrate life and honor the environment.

    Understanding legal preparations is crucial, and this episode sheds light on the importance of advanced directives and POLST forms. Learn why these documents are vital for ensuring your wishes are respected by medical professionals and how they can prevent common pitfalls. We share real-life stories to illustrate the necessity of awareness and education about these forms, empowering you to make informed decisions. This chapter is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate end-of-life care with confidence and clarity.

    We also take a heartfelt look at sustainable end-of-life options that go beyond traditional practices. Imagine the intimacy of home wakes, the eco-friendliness of natural burials, or the innovative choices of water cremation and human composting. These alternatives not only honor the deceased but also tread lightly on the planet and are often more financially viable. Host Suzanne O'Brien expresses her gratitude for your participation and encourages you to explore the free resources available at doulagivers.com. Prepare to transform your perspective on end-of-life care and make it a deeply meaningful experience.

    We dive into:

    (00:02) Navigating End of Life Care(06:49) End of Life Care Essentials(12:50) Understanding Advanced Directives and PULST Forms(17:48) Exploring Sustainable End-of-Life Options(27:02) Improving End of Life Care

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • What if a life-threatening health crisis could transform not just your body, but your spirit as well?

    Join us for an inspiring conversation with Peggy Lindsay, heart transplant survivor and author of "My Beat Goes On," as she recounts her extraordinary journey. Peggy opens up about her family's history of heart disease and the unexpected health scare at age 51 that led her to seek a second opinion, ultimately revealing the urgent need for a heart transplant. Her story underscores the power of proactive medical care and the compelling need for firsthand patient narratives, a gap she aims to fill through her book.

    Listen to Peggy's gripping account of her medical journey, where her healthcare surrogate battled to get her the advanced care she needed, leading to a timely diagnosis of cardiogenic shock. She shares the emotional crossroads between opting for hospice care and choosing the rigorous path to a heart transplant—a choice she made thanks to her daughter's unwavering support and the exceptional team at Tampa General. From navigating the trials of surgery and recovery to discussing the intriguing phenomena of cellular memory and heightened intuition, Peggy's story is a testament to resilience and the transformative power of modern medicine.

    We dive into:

    (12:34 - 13:31) The Importance of Having an Advocate(18:50 - 20:11) Life-Saving Transplant Journey(22:24 - 24:43) Life-Changing Organ Donation Offer(29:53 - 30:49) Visions of Deceased Loved Ones(32:42 - 33:48) Heart Transplant Connection and Donors(37:14 - 38:41) Seeking Health Opinions

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Buy Peggy Lindsay's book - My Beat Goes On: Chronicles of a Heart Transplant Patient

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

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  • Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Adrian Allotey, Founder of You Are Not Alone Elder Care

    Ever wondered how we can transform the final stages of life into a sacred and beautiful experience?

    Join us as we sit down with Adrian Allotey, an empathetic end-of-life doula and elder companion, who shares her heartfelt journey of turning end-of-life care into a deeply human and spiritual endeavor. Adrian opens up about her personal regrets and the lack of support she felt during her grandmother's final moments, shedding light on the importance of emotional and spiritual care. She introduces her innovative methods, like "dress rehearsals" for families, aimed at making the last days less fearful and more comforting.

    As we navigate through the conversation, Adrian's insights reveal the transformative power of love, presence, and intuition in end-of-life care. From the challenges of raising awareness about the role of death doulas to the profound impact of COVID-19 on our collective understanding of life and death, this episode is a powerful reminder of our shared humanity. Adrian's touching stories, including the comfort found in physical closeness, music, and involving distant family members, underscore the holistic and compassionate approach that can help us rebuild a more united and empathetic world. Tune in for an episode filled with wisdom, kindness, and a hopeful vision for the future of end-of-life care.

    We dive into:

    (06:29 - 07:25) Dress Rehearsals in End-of-Life Care(12:45 - 14:31) Reflections on COVID and Self-Awareness(19:28 - 20:28) End of Life Comfort and Communication(28:17 - 29:15) Embracing Life Through Death

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar You Are Not Alone Elder Care LLC

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Felicity Warner, Founder of Soul Midwives UK

    Can the final days of life be filled with dignity and grace?

    Join us for an enlightening journey into the heart of end-of-life care as we welcome Felicity Warner, the pioneering founder of Soul Midwives. Felicity shares her deeply personal story of how her grandmother's painful hospital experience ignited her mission to transform end-of-life care into a compassionate, holistic practice. Her efforts have since blossomed into a widely respected organization, embraced by the NHS, and she has received multiple prestigious awards for her groundbreaking work. Listen in as Felicity's story emphasizes the profound impact of human connection and holistic support, inspiring us all to envision a world where people can die with dignity and grace.

    In this episode, we also explore the transformative power of holistic approaches in hospice care, through the experiences of a journalist who transitioned into working with terminally ill young women. By highlighting the distinction between clinical interventions and the inherently human experience of dying, we underscore the significance of a 'good death' for both individuals and their loved ones. Additionally, we celebrate the growing global awareness of death through the success of the Soul Midwives conference, advocating for the integration of compassionate, non-medical care into mainstream healthcare. This conversation is a powerful reminder of how acknowledging our mortality can enrich our daily lives and the care we provide to those at the end of theirs.

    We dive into:

    (01:26 - 02:27) Creating Global Community Through Soul Connection(05:55 - 07:04) Inspiring Journey From Tragedy to Triumph(13:48 - 15:17) The Teachings of Dying Patients(17:33 - 18:31) The Beauty of End of Life(25:11 - 26:24) Embracing Life Through Awareness(29:28 - 30:41) Power of Compassion and Love

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar The Soul Midwives Portal

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

    More about Felicity and her work - Click here!

  • Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Brad Wolfe, Founder of Reimagine EOL

    What if confronting mortality could be the key to living a more meaningful life?

    Join us as we host Brad Wolf, the visionary founder and executive director of Reimagine End of Life, who shares his deeply personal journey and the pivotal experiences that led him to break down the taboos surrounding death through arts, spirituality, healthcare, and design. Brad recounts early inspirations, like his grandmother's wisdom and the impactful loss of his friend Sarah, demonstrating how mortality can serve as a powerful catalyst for living more fully.

    Through our conversation with Brad, we uncover the profound wisdom shared by those facing the end of life, including valuable teachings from thought leaders Frank Ostaseski and Ira Byock. We touch on the transformative power of forgiveness, gratitude, and the importance of meaningful relationships. Hear touching stories, such as that of young volunteer Grace, and learn how the pandemic has reshaped our approach to these essential conversations. Additionally, Brad gives us a glimpse into an upcoming festival dedicated to creating space for vital end-of-life discussions.

    Explore the transformative practices of writing legacy letters and love letters to oneself, and the importance of rituals and mindfulness in healing. Brad talks about Reimagine's remarkable initiatives, like the "Creating Space" festival and the "Mourning into Unity" initiative, which bring people together to support each other through grief and healing. Finally, Suzanne O'Brien wraps up the Death Doula Global Summit interview with heartfelt gratitude and anticipation for future discussions, leaving us inspired to integrate the wisdom of elders and face life and death with courage and compassion.

    We dive into:

    (04:01 - 04:52) Rediscovering the Value of Aging(09:39 - 11:47) Universal Laws and Common Humanity(14:11 - 15:52) Innovative Human-Centered Design Approach(21:45 - 23:42) Zoom Challenges and Opportunities(34:01 - 35:33) Path to Hospice and Consciousness(43:51 - 44:59) Sharing Wisdom in End-of-Life Care

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Reimagine Organization

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

    More about Brad Wolfe and his music - Click here!

  • Death Doula Global Summit Speaker Spotlight: Ken Ross President of the Elisabeth Kubler Ross Foundation.

    Honoring Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross: A Legacy of Compassion and End-of-Life Care

    In 2020, Doulagivers Institute sponsored The Death Doula Global Summit and had interviews with the most impactful pioneers in the Death Doula and Death Positive Movement.

    The wisdom and interviews are breathtaking. If you were not able to be part of that live summit, here is your chance as we will be spotlighting some of the great interviews that will not only heal your heart- but inspire you about what is yet to come.

    In this episode of Ask a Death Doula, Join us as Ken Ross, son of the legendary Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, shares his extraordinary journey and what it was like growing up with a mother who revolutionized how we understand death and dying?

    You’ll uncover intimate stories about his mother, from her early days as a humble Swiss woman to becoming a global pioneer in end-of-life care. Ken gives us an insider’s view into her remarkable life, revealing the profound impact she had on both him and the world.

    We also honor Dr. Kubler-Ross’s relentless advocacy for marginalized communities. From aiding bullied classmates and animals in her youth to providing compassionate care for AIDS patients during a time of widespread stigma, her dedication knew no bounds. Despite facing severe backlash and professional ostracization, her mission to ensure dignified end-of-life care never wavered. Her pioneering contributions to holistic patient care have paved the way for modern advancements in palliative care, inspiring countless medical professionals, including registered nurse Suzanne O'Brien, who reflects on Dr. Kubler-Ross's influence on her own work.

    Looking to the future, Ken shares exciting developments aimed at preserving and expanding his mother’s legacy. Discover how the Elizabeth Kubler-Ross Foundation is growing its global reach, from launching online education series in multiple languages to digitizing her archives at Stanford. As we navigate the challenges of COVID-19, this episode is a poignant reminder of the transformative power of adversity. Embrace life fully, learn from your fears, and carry forward the compassion that Dr. Kubler-Ross championed throughout her life.

    We dive into:

    (04:23 - 05:44) Growing Up With an Incredible Mother(08:46 - 09:36) Maintaining Humanity During Crisis(12:14 - 13:41) Importance of Holistic End-of-Life Care(20:06 - 21:16) Global Online Education Collaboration Efforts(24:29 - 25:49) Global Expansion for Death Cafes(30:33 - 32:48) Life-Changing Journeys and Cultural Connections(35:42 - 36:41) Death as Universal Teacher

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Elizabeth Kübler-Ross Foundation

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

    Learn more about Ken Ross Photography - Click here!

  • Understanding Death: Finding Peace and Healing in Grief

    Can understanding death truly transform your experience of grief?

    In this deeply moving episode of Ask a Death Doula, we explore powerful insights shared by hospice nurses and end-of-life care professionals. These stories reveal comforting phenomena such as seeing deceased loved ones and experiencing a surge of energy, offering a profound sense of peace. We also demystify the nature of grief, highlighting that it is a natural response to any significant loss, not just death, helping listeners navigate their own healing journeys.

    We honor the remarkable life and legacy of Stacey White, a dedicated doula giver whose impact transcended her untimely passing. Stacey's resilience through severe health challenges and her peaceful acceptance of the end of her life left an indelible mark on all who knew her. Join us as we reflect on the unpredictable yet soothing nature of grief, comparing it to the ocean's ever-changing tides, and find solace in the knowledge that Stacey is no longer in pain.

    Lastly, we delve into the profound connection between grief and love, emphasizing gratitude for the love shared with those who have passed. Practical advice is offered on allowing emotions to flow naturally and reframing death as a celebratory transition. We also highlight a free webinar that has provided immense support to caregivers and those processing loss. This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Stacey White, fostering a sense of global community and inspiring each of us to continue her legacy of positivity and mentorship. Join us and share this message of healing and hope with your loved ones.

    We dive into:

    (02:14 - 03:54) Healing Grief With Truth(06:36 - 07:46) Belief in Afterlife and Shared Experiences(10:57 - 12:12) Journey Between Worlds(15:47 - 17:29) Remembering the Amazing Stacey White(19:38 - 20:48) Navigating Emotions Through Grief(27:13 - 28:18) Finding Meaning in the Spiritual Journey

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • The Vital Role of End-of-Life Doulas

    Join us for a profound exploration of the pioneering work of Barbara Karnes in the American Hospice movement. In this episode, Barbara shares her inspiring journey from initial disillusionment with nursing to finding her true calling in hospice care, influenced by legends like Cicely Saunders and Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. Beginning her career at the onset of the AIDS epidemic, Barbara recounts her early days volunteering and working at Kansas' first hospice. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, she highlights the unique approach of hospice care, which prioritizes a sacred and meaningful end-of-life experience over the traditional medical model that often views death as a failure.

    Listen in as we discuss the critical importance of human connection and trust-building in end-of-life care. We explore how simple acts like sharing a cup of coffee with primary caregivers can provide emotional, mental, and spiritual healing that complements the physical care of the patient. The conversation sheds light on the shortcomings of the current hospice system, which often prioritizes physical aspects over emotional support and suffers from frequent nurse rotations. Barbara emphasizes the need for time and presence to build genuine bonds, pointing out the gaps in the mainstream medical system that hinder compassionate care. We also touch on the transformative power of education in end-of-life care, recognizing the impact of well-crafted educational resources.

    Finally, we explore the evolving role of end-of-life doulas and the importance of creating sacred, meaningful experiences for those in their final stages of life. Barbara addresses common misconceptions about the dying process and the need for more holistic, personalized approaches that contrast sharply with the mainstream medical focus. We share touching stories, including Oprah Winfrey's use of Barbara's hospice book during her mother's final days, underscoring the universal need for compassionate end-of-life support. Join us as we conclude with insights and blessings for the work being done by death doulas worldwide, celebrating their crucial role in providing comfort and care during such pivotal times.

    We dive into:

    (02:09 - 03:51) Transition to Hospice Care(06:46 - 08:41) Evolution of Hospice Care in US(13:48 - 15:30) Hospice Care Training(24:32 - 26:02) Hospice and Patient Relationship Bonds(29:28 - 30:08) End of Life Education Program Importance(36:57 - 39:08) Improving End-of-Life Support Services(44:44 - 45:50) Non-Medical Holistic Care for Elders(48:31 - 52:04) End-of-Life Doula Support and Guidance

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar More About Barbara Karnes Here

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Transform Your Health and Happiness with Forest Bathing: A Journey Through Nature Therapy

    Have you ever felt the healing power of nature wash over you during a simple walk in the park?

    Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, on "Ask a Death Doula" as I recount my transformative experiences in Central Park and share the ancient wisdom behind the practice of forest bathing. Discover how immersing yourself in nature can rejuvenate your mind and body, with benefits like reduced cortisol levels, lowered blood pressure, and a boosted immune system. This episode delves into the holistic health benefits of reconnecting with natural elements and how such simple, cost-free practices can significantly enhance our quality of life.

    We’ll explore the remarkable impact of forest bathing on mental well-being, from mitigating stress and inflammation to improving happiness and creativity. Learn about the spiritual benefits that come from moments of silence and meditation in nature, and hear why doctors are increasingly prescribing nature therapy as a holistic approach to health. Plus, join me on a 30-day forest bathing journey designed to foster growth, healing, and joy. Tune in for an episode filled with practical advice, personal stories, and an invitation to transform your life through the simple act of stepping into nature.

    We dive into:

    (00:02) Benefits of Forest Bathing and Wellness(08:48) Benefits of Forest Bathing(23:32) Healing Through Forest Bathing

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Two hospice nurses sit down and have a heart to heart discussion about the end of life and dying experience. Sharing the TRUTH about this sacred experience, and what people need to know to have the "Good Death".

    Get ready to be inspired and to look at life and death through an entirely new lens!

    Enter Julie McFadden, a hospice nurse whose journey from the fast-paced intensity of the ICU to the soulful realm of end-of-life care has shaped her into a poignant storyteller and advocate. She joins us to share the transitions and insights that have colored her career, offering a glimpse into the sacred moments that accompany someone's final days. Her upcoming book, "Nothing to Fear," emerges as a testament to her mission to educate and alleviate the fears surrounding death—a subject often shrouded in misconception and dread.

    The conversation spirals into the heart of hospice care, where Julie and I illuminate the oft-misunderstood dying experience. We're reminded of the natural progression of death, a path trodden by all but recognized by few. Reflecting on the language that doctors and nurses use, we question how reframing our perspective on death can not only be more honest but also more comforting. It's about embracing the full cycle of life rather than viewing its conclusion as a battle lost. Julie's insights challenge us to find beauty in the inevitability of death, and to see it as a part of our shared human experience, especially in times of great division.

    In the delicate dance between life and the after, there are moments that seem to defy time itself—these are the sacred encounters at the threshold of mortality that Julie and I explore. Through personal stories and heart-centered conversations, we pay homage to the spiritual growth that often accompanies physical decline. We ponder the profound love and energy felt at the bedside of those passing, moments that hint at something far greater than what we understand. As our episode draws to a close, we share a sense of gratitude for the connective tissue of humanity that caring for the dying reveals and invite listeners to carry this episode's message into their own lives and conversations.

    We dive into:

    (01:29 - 02:49) Becoming a Nurse(04:48 - 06:48) From ICU to Hospice(08:16 - 09:20) The Importance of Honest End-of-Life Conversations(13:18 - 14:35) Patterns of the Body's Natural Shutdown(22:18 - 23:15) Impact of True Connection in Healthcare(29:39 - 30:31) Bedside Visitations and Grief(32:39 - 33:31) End-of-Life Experiences and Awareness(37:57 - 38:39) Educating About the Dying Process

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteGET THE BOOK "Nothing To Fear"hereThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

    Learn more about Hospice Nurse Julie - Click here!

  • Steps to Safeguard Your Pet's Well-being

    What would happen to your beloved pet if something were to happen to you?

    Join us for a heartwarming and crucial conversation with Ingrid Harrison, a passionate advocate for animal welfare, as we delve into the world of pet trusts. Ingrid's touching journey, originating from her childhood on a dairy farm, offers a unique perspective on the profound emotional bonds between humans and their pets. Together, we explore the importance of setting up pet trusts, especially for animals with long lifespans such as birds, horses, and reptiles, ensuring they are cared for if their owners become incapacitated or pass away.

    In this episode, we outline the essential steps in planning a pet trust, from selecting potential caregivers to compiling detailed information about your pet's needs. Learn why it's important to have emergency contacts and care plans readily accessible, particularly for those who live alone. Ingrid shares her decades of dedication to animal advocacy, offering valuable resources and inspiration for all pet owners. Wrap up with Suzanne's heartfelt gratitude towards Ingrid's work and her own plans to secure her pet's future, inspiring listeners to take immediate action. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that underscores the responsibility and love we owe to our animal companions.

    We dive into:

    (02:52 - 04:15) Love for Animals From Childhood(04:17 - 06:26) Learning From Animal Connections(11:50 - 13:30) Importance of Pet Care Awareness(16:16 - 17:16) Importance of Having Conversations About Inheritance(28:03 - 29:01) Navigating Pet Trusts and Obituaries

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Ingrid Harrison - Elder Care Advocate & End-of-Life DoulaAffordable Personal Services and Pet Care LLCTreasured Pets Obituary FB Page

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Learn how to be a "Tele" Death Doula and work with people from the comfort of your own home!

    Covid-19 changed our lives forever. It also changed many different ways that we provide care. Join me, Suzanne O'Brien, as we explore the fascinating world of death doulas and how they provide essential support to individuals and families now through the use of technology.

    Drawing from my background as a hospice and oncology nurse, we discuss the holistic, non-medical care that death doulas offer. By reframing death as a human experience, rather than just a medical event, we uncover how death doulas fill a critical gap, ensuring every moment is met with compassion and understanding.

    As the COVID-19 pandemic reshaped healthcare, we delve into the rise of Teledoulas—death doulas who provide their essential services through technology. This innovative approach has not only increased accessibility but also reduced stress for families by removing geographical barriers. We highlight the invaluable role Teledoulas played during the crisis, offering remote guidance and reassurance at a time when physical presence was limited. By utilizing platforms like Zoom, FaceTime, and Skype, Teledoulas have redefined end-of-life care, showcasing the enduring potential of telehealth.

    Thinking about becoming a Teledoula? We break down the practical steps to start this fulfilling career, emphasizing the importance of education and training through the Doula Givers Institute. From offering a free 30-minute consultation to creating a structured and compassionate business model, we provide actionable insights to build trust and establish professional boundaries. Whether you're looking to enter the field or simply curious about the profound impact of death doulas, this episode offers a comprehensive guide to navigating and excelling in this vital profession.

    We dive into:

    (01:25 - 02:52) The Teledoula Movement(05:11 - 06:20) The Importance of Teledoulas(11:14 - 11:45) Understanding the Importance of Teledoulas(18:09 - 19:06) Importance of Free Consultations for Doulas(28:58 - 30:38) End-of-Life Doula Care Planning

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    Links mentioned in this episode:

    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Chalk Marks and Heart Strings: A Journey of Authenticity

    Discover the transformative power of love and art with Justin Lucci.

    Justin is the founder and CEO of the Global Love Project, who joins us to share his heartrending yet inspirational journey. After a personal tragedy reshaped his world, Justin traded his corporate suit for sidewalk chalk, starting a movement that encourages us to connect with our most authentic selves. Throughout our conversation, he opens up about the pivotal moments that led him from loss to a life abundant with purpose, spreading messages of love that resonate in the hearts of those who encounter his chalk art.

    Justin's story is a testament to the undeniable impact of community and personal growth. I reveal the profound sense of unity and reflection fostered by a weekly chalk art event I host, demonstrating how such gatherings can serve as the bedrock for cultivating authentic happiness and deeper human connections. We delve into the concept that life's most harrowing challenges can indeed be the catalyst for our most significant evolution, and how a collective effort in intentions and actions can magnify the beauty of our shared human experience.

    Closing this episode, we reflect on purpose and creativity as forces that shape our existence. Chalk art emerges not just as a medium of expression but as a poignant metaphor for life's transient nature and our innate yearning to express freely and fearlessly. Join us in celebrating the simplicity and power of purpose that lies in the energy we infuse into our daily lives. Justin's journey inspires us to find our creative outlets and to come together in elevating love and growth within our communities, marking the pavement—and our lives—with vibrant hues of hope and connection.

    We dive into:

    (02:16 - 03:32) Healing and Intentions Through Loss(06:40 - 07:41) Healing Through Chalk Artivism(11:30 - 14:32) Sunday Chalk Art Community Event(16:31 - 17:10) Finding Purpose Through Human Experience(23:11 - 25:14) Elevating Consciousness Through Global Love

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    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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  • Fostering a Network for Impactful Doula Services at Life's End

    Have you ever considered how the knowledge of death might deepen your appreciation for life?

    Suzanne shares her expertise on creating a vital network resource list, a toolkit that arms you with connections ranging from estate planning lawyers to eco-friendly burial options, ensuring that your doula practice is not only a beacon of support for grieving families but also a thriving business.

    Step into the realm of ethical end-of-life guidance and learn how to seamlessly integrate these services into your community through our discussion on building a robust death doula resource network. Suzanne illuminates the path to crafting stress-free end-of-life plans, emphasizing the transformative impact meticulous preparation has on the experience of the dying and their loved ones. This episode is an invitation to harness the power of death doula resources, enriching your practice and profoundly altering the landscape of end-of-life care. Join us as we honor life's final transition and the remarkable difference a well-prepared doula can make.

    We dive into:

    (00:02) Network Resource List for Deaf Doula(10:01) Building Death Doula Resource Network(20:08) Building a Deaf Doula Resource List

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    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

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  • Guiding Lights in the Passage from Life to Death with Judi Arasi

    Join us as we shine a spotlight on Judi Arasi, a remarkable graduate from the Dula Giver Practitioner program, whose journey into becoming a death doula is nothing short of inspiring. Judi shares the pivotal moment that propelled her towards this calling—the death of her mother-in-law—which revealed to her the pressing need for a more informed and compassionate approach to end-of-life care. Our conversation with Judi illuminates the critical role of death doulas in offering solace and support to families navigating this profound chapter of life, and underscores the burgeoning global recognition of death as an intrinsic human experience rather than a medical event. Listen in as Judi's personal narrative captures the transformative power of embracing one's true purpose in serving others during life's final moments.

    In this heartfelt exchange, I reflect on the life-altering lessons learned from my vocation in end-of-life care. The profound privilege of being invited into the intimate space of people's homes during times of crisis has reshaped my outlook, instilling in me an appreciation for gratitude, forgiveness, and the art of cherishing human connections. I recount poignant interactions with patients and their families, emphasizing the deep bonds and the sense of extended family that emerges from this unique form of caregiving. This conversation culminates with the emotional recounting of being honored with the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization Volunteer of the Year Award for 2023, a testament to the significant impact that compassion and companionship have in the lives of those we serve. Tune in as we explore these touching moments and celebrate the indelible impact of end-of-life care on both the giver and receiver.

    We dive into:

    (04:47 - 06:03) Discovery of Doula Calling(19:45 - 21:02) Supporting End-of-Life Choices With Doulas(23:16 - 23:51) Becoming a Doula

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

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  • Conversations at Life's End with Tomorrow's Generation

    Could our silence on the subject of death be shaping our children's fear of the inevitable?

    This time, we peel back the layers of this taboo topic and reveal why it's essential to introduce our youngest minds to the concept of mortality. As a hospice nurse, I've witnessed firsthand the impact of death on families and the profound intuitive understanding children can have when it's explained with care. In sharing stories from the bedside, we uncover the lasting effects of shielding children from death and argue for their inclusion in the dying process. We’re not just discussing the end of life; we're advocating for an early and healthy relationship with its reality.

    This episode isn't about the gloom of passing; it’s a call to live with authenticity and urgency. I share reflections from those in their twilight hours who wish they’d followed their hearts sooner. It's a poignant reminder that our time is finite and that we should seize the moment to pursue our passions. I inspire you by sharing my own leap into learning Spanish and challenge you to align your life with what truly stirs your soul. Let's break free from the cycle of stress and step into a life driven by inspiration and wonder.

    To close, we touch on the importance of honest, open conversations about the cycle of life with our children. Providing resources and strategies, we explore how to talk about death in an age-appropriate way that fosters curiosity rather than fear. As we wrap up, I extend heartfelt thanks for your engagement in this crucial dialogue. It is my hope that you'll be moved to integrate these insights into your life, as I continue to weave them into my own journey. Join me, and together let's reshape the narrative around death—one conversation at a time.

    We dive into:

    (00:22 - 02:22) Talking to Children About Death(15:27 - 16:53) Children's Energy Awareness and Hospice Nursing(22:53 - 24:53) Following Your Heart(30:08 - 31:31) Teaching Children About Death and Purpose

    RESOURCES TO TALK WITH CHILDREN ABOUT DEATH:

    Navigating conversations about death with children can be incredibly challenging, yet it's crucial for their understanding and coping. Based on the available resources and their focus on providing compassionate, clear, and supportive guidance, here are the top three resources that are highly regarded for helping to talk to children about death:

    1. *The Dougy Center* - The Dougy Center offers comprehensive support for children, teens, young adults, and families grieving a death. They provide thoughtful resources, including tip sheets and activity books, specifically designed to help children understand and process grief. Their approach is widely recognized for being both empathetic and effective, making them a leading resource in grief support. - Source: [The Dougy Center](https://deathwithdignity.org/news/202...)

    2. *Tomorrow's Rainbow* - Tomorrow's Rainbow specializes in providing free grief support to children and teens who have experienced the death of a loved one. Their approach emphasizes honesty and clear communication, offering resources and tip sheets on how to discuss death and suicide with children. Their best practice advice for telling the truth after a death aims to support healthy coping mechanisms. - Source: [Tomorrow's Rainbow](https://www.tomorrowsrainbow.org/reso...)

    3. *Sesame Street Resources* - Sesame Street has developed sensitive and age-appropriate resources to facilitate discussions about death with young children. Their materials, including videos, articles, and activities, are designed to help children express their feelings and ask questions in a safe environment. Known for its gentle and caring approach, Sesame Street's resources are particularly suited for younger children. - Source: [Today's Parent](https://www.todaysparent.com/family/f...)

    Each of these resources provides unique tools and strategies aimed at facilitating conversations about death in a manner that is compassionate and appropriate for children. Whether through direct support, practical advice, or engaging educational materials, they offer valuable assistance to caregivers seeking to guide children through the complexities of grief and loss. For anyone looking to explore these topics more deeply or seeking support in guiding a child through such conversations, these resources present a great starting point.

    Remember, the goal is to provide a safe space for children to express their feelings, ask questions, and receive the support they need and brining death back as the natural, sacred experience it was meant to be.

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    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

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  • Reimagining End of Life Care with Kim Adams and Community-Based Care

    Imagine the impact of a world where the final stage of life is met with compassion, dignity, and a return to the caring embrace of community.

    That's the transformative vision Kim Adams, a passionate advocate in the death and dying movement, and I discuss during an enlightening conversation on end-of-life care. As we traverse the topics of home funerals, green burials, and the necessity for community homes for the dying, we uncover the profound differences these services make for those facing their twilight years without the support of family.

    Venturing into the realm of the Omega Home Network, we shed light on the inspiring endeavor to create non-medical, social model homes that serve as an alternative to traditional medical facilities. These havens prioritize the human experience over clinical treatment, offering around-the-clock caregiving as an extension of family. We examine the collaborative spirit that forges multiple homes into a collective, emphasizing the importance of local support and the synergy with hospice services. Our discussion navigates the complexities of regulations, ethical considerations, and the practical steps involved in establishing these compassionate communities.

    In an era when the conversation around death is often shrouded in discomfort, our dialogue aims to dismantle taboos and foster open discussions about end-of-life care. We explore how the upcoming conference in Indianapolis can serve as a nexus for education, networking, and the sharing of resources to aid in the creation of non-medical care homes. By extending an invitation to join this movement, we underscore our shared commitment to ensuring that everyone has access to a dignified and 'good death.' Join us on this journey to reimagine the final chapters of life as a celebration of legacy, love, and community care.

    We dive into:

    (00:00 - 00:21) Unity Through Shared Experiences(06:30 - 07:33) The Family's Role in End-of-Life Care(13:45 - 14:36) Importance of End-of-Life Awareness(20:47 - 23:03) Global Doula House Expansion Plans(26:55 - 27:44) Community Collaboration for Social Change

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    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar Omega Home Network

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

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  • Mastering Life's Choices: Harmonizing the Ego and the Heart

    Have you ever felt torn between the whispers of your heart and the logic of your mind?

    Our latest conversation delves into the profound realization that we navigate life with not one, but two internal compasses: the ego and the heart. Together, we explore the subtle yet powerful cues these guides offer and introduce the 'Ray technique,' a transformative tool I've developed to help you harmonize these distinct voices. As we embark on this journey, you'll learn to choose love over fear, reshaping not just your personal narrative but also contributing to our collective human tapestry with every heart-led step you take.

    Embarking on a voyage through varying states of consciousness can be as disorienting as it is enlightening. In this conversation, we traverse from the fog of unconscious living, where the ego often leads us astray, to the clarity of a superconscious state, where our true purpose aligns with service to others. The empowering concept of co-creation with the universe is illuminated, contrasting the effortless flow of life's currents with the struggle of ego-driven force. Discover how consulting your heart can provide solutions of a higher wisdom, fostering a deeper connection within and to the world around you.

    Sometimes life demands a leap of faith, and I share my own experience of uprooting my life from the familiarity of New York City to the unknown of Charlotte, North Carolina. The universe spoke in angel numbers, offering peace and affirmation in a time of turmoil. I extend an invitation to all listeners to embark on a profound personal transformation with our free Level One End of Life Doula training. This isn't just about acquiring new skills; it's an opportunity to rediscover your passion for life and align with your true calling. Join us and see where your heart leads you.

    We dive into:

    (03:46 - 05:14) The Power of Saying Yes(09:20 - 10:43) Holistic Understanding From End-of-Life Patients(14:19 - 15:41) Understanding and Shifting Your Ego(17:37 - 19:26) The Power of Alignment and Co-Creation(25:31 - 27:21) Finding Signs on Your Path

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    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!

  • Navigating the Tender Journey of Caregiving in Life's Final Chapter

    Can we truly bear the weight of end-of-life care alone, or do we need a village to carry us through?

    Join me, Suszanne O'Brien, as I tackle the often-overlooked yet essential questions that underpin the daily life of those offering care in the final chapters of a loved one's life. In the heartfelt journey of caregiving, I shed light on the acute and safety issues that cannot be ignored, and underscore the importance of a support system scheduler – a cornerstone in preventing caregiver burnout and ensuring the comfort of our dear ones as they near the end. By weaving in the moving tale of a daughter accompanying her father through his last days, I paint a vivid picture of the profound impact caregiving has on families and the undeniable necessity of a well-structured support network.

    As we navigate through the complexities of end-of-life care, this conversation extends beyond the immediate caregiver to the broader community. I discuss how a carefully coordinated support system, facilitated by a scheduler, can transform the daunting task of caregiving into a shared labor of love, efficiently involving friends and family in the care journey. Not only does this approach lift the shroud of isolation often felt by caregivers, but it also provides a pathway for others to offer support in meaningful ways, from meal trains to maintaining a tranquil environment for both the living and the dying. This episode goes further to offer hope and direction for those who feel called to this deeply rewarding work, announcing an upcoming free training for aspiring death doulas, fostering a future where compassionate end-of-life care is the norm, not the exception.

    We dive into:

    (10:29 - 11:41) Caregiver Support for End of Life(17:25 - 18:56) Supporting Patients and Caregivers

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    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

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    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

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  • Embracing Life's Final Transition: The Role and Impact of Death Doulas

    My journey as a hospice nurse revealed gaps and limitations in end-of-life care, inspiring me to advocate for a more compassionate approach.

    Stepping away from the sterile hospital corridors, we enter the realm of Death Doulas—unsung heroes who offer support, comfort, and dignity to those on their final journey. Today's conversation unwraps the intricate layers of becoming a Death Doula, highlighting the significance of proper training, early planning for end-of-life wishes, and the transformative effect of personalized care.

    The parallels between birth and death doulas are undeniable; both shepherd us through life's most profound transitions with grace and empathy. In this episode, we dissect the shortcomings of the hospice system, the fear surrounding death, and the necessity for a reliable presence during our last moments. The global death doula movement, born from a desire to educate and support, exemplifies the power of community-driven care, especially in the face of global crises like the COVID-19 pandemic, where traditional healthcare systems faltered under the weight of unprecedented strain.

    As we wrap up our heartfelt exchange, I share insights into the comprehensive training that enables Death Doulas to enrich end-of-life experiences. From practical guides to evidence-based care plans, the tools at our disposal are designed to empower those without previous experience to step confidently into this role. We explore the rewarding opportunity for a sustainable livelihood in this field, the importance of self-care, and the overarching goal to reframe death as a natural, human experience—handled with kindness, education, and unyielding support.

    We dive into:

    (00:56 - 02:16) Importance of Researching Death Doula Training(09:36 - 11:26) The Global Death Doula Movement(16:39 - 19:14) Knowledge and Support in End-of-Life Care(21:12 - 22:39) Self-Care in the Medical Field(25:54 - 26:37) Doulagiver Practitioner Course Details(33:22 - 34:33) Challenges and Solutions in Hospice Care

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    Doulagivers InstituteThe NEXT Free Level 1 End of Life Doula Training Registration LINK The NEXT Free Doulagivers Discovery Webinar

    80-90% of a positive end of life depends on these two things:

    Knowing the basic skills on how to care for someone at the end of life and planning ahead - and BOTH Doulagivers Institute is giving you for FREE!

    Access them Below!

    Making your wishes known is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your loved ones. Download The Doulagivers 9 Choice Advance Directive now! It's FREE!

    More about what we do at Doulagivers Institute - Click here!