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Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profilesâitâs exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circleâs founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authenticallyâfirst online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.
With Connell and David as your guides, youâll discover:
4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle
6:38 How Inner Circleâs Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles
7:55 Why the Platformâs IRL Events is âWhere the Magic Happensâ
10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World
11:25: Connellâs One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life
19:29: How âTinder is Like McDonaldâs,â in Davidâs View
27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity
30:54: How to Decide if Sheâs Worth a Second Date
33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women
35:32: Davidâs Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: âOpposites Donât Attractâ
Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!
LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:
https://about.theinnercircle.co/
CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:
https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/
DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374
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The new year is here, and nowâs the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee youâll find love in 2025. These arenât flimsy resolutions youâll abandon by February. Theyâre bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.
Using Connellâs tested moves, youâre about to learn:
01:30: Why Resolutions Failâand How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results
05:45: What Women Really WantâAuthenticity!âand How to Give it to Them
14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type
24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence
38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025
51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches
1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend
Your dream girl is waitingâdonât wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!
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Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadnât had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. âThatâs more than Iâd had the entire previous year,â he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, whoâs now his girlfriend. âI knew she was the one.â
Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life⊠higher! Connell and Jake discuss:
09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jakeâs Breakthrough
13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend
16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week
17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out
20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connellâs â80-20â Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women
34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates
40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues
45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy
58:19: Connellâs No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jakeâs decade of loneliness is behind him.
Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!
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With over 1,000 dating apps out there, itâs hard to know which one is right for youâand which will waste your time and money. In this episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether youâre looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates⊠and even find your soulmate!
Hereâs what Connell covers in this episode:
1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates
2:45: No. 7: The Leagueâitâs About Quality, Not Quantity
4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Arenât Hollywood Handsome
7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmonyâWhich Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?
12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women
15:15: No. 2: Bumbleâs Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever
19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is⊠Hinge! Hereâs Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge
22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps
Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparksâand matches into love!
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Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, youâre making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you donât even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identifyâand fixâthe hidden dating mistakes men make. Youâll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connellâs dating advice column.)
Youâre about to learn:
2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman youâve just met
6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on
16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever
22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence
25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love
33:00: The single biggest dating mistake youâre making
39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection
47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement
59:17: Lisaâs no. 1 dating tip that every man must know
Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!
FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:
http://GoodMenProject.com
CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECTâS DATING SUBSTACK:
http://gmpdating.substack.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Quotes
"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey
"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey -
Itâs Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, âho, ho, NO!â Itâs getting old, right? In this episode of the âHow to Get a Girlfriendâ podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zachâa personal trainer and 40-year-old single dadâlearns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.
Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. Youâre about to learn:
6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)
8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flawâand How to Talk about it On Your Profile
14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic âDILFâ Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love
17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile
21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First
23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It
27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps
30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches
32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didnât Know You Were Making
55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches
1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun
Hit âplayâ now and start getting good matches on the apps.
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Quotes
"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach
"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach -
Are you facing a lonely New Yearâs Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ballâalong with your romantic hopesâdropping. (More like New Yearâs ROTTEN EveâŠ) Guess what: 2024 doesnât have to end that way! In this episode of the âHow to Get a Girlfriendâ podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. Youâll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new loveâor at least a sexy make-out. And youâll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.
With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:
1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Letâs Vent)
5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety
10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman
12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone
14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women
18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet
20:45: The âZ Patternââa Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact
22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time
Listen now and make this New Yearâs Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.
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Quotes
"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"
What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett -
Maybe youâve been in Jackâs shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Thenâbam! She says, âIâm just not feeling a connection.â Frustrating? Absolutely. âIt happens a lot, and I donât know what Iâm doing wrong,â Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jackâs hidden flirting weaknesses (Jackâs aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.
Jackâs coaching session with Connell will show you:
6:41 â Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material
9:33 â 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates
13:25 â The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants
17:53 â Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You
24:19 â How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates
27:30 â The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy
41:03 â How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation
52:49 â Jackâs Aha Moment: Why Heâs Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall
57:12 â The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible
1:01:18 â How to Give a âPower Complimentâ that Get Women Swooning
1:04:18 â The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates
Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!
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TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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Quotes
"Recognizing where youâre stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"
Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack -
Have you ever settledâin love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming
a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girlâhis wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. âTo attract a high-value woman,â he says, âyou need to become a high-value man.â
Hereâs what youâll learn in Connell and Garrainâs powerful conversation:
3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom
15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read
21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic âAlpha Malesâ
32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Manâs Secret Flirting Weaponâand How to Use It
39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair
40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars
52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date
58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date
60:03 Garrainâs 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again
Itâs time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.
LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONESâS INCREDIBLE STORY:
https://www.garrainjones.com/
TO APPLY TO HIS âARTIST POWERâ PROGRAM:
https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program
READ GARRAINâS BESTSELLING BOOK, âCHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFEâ:
https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507
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Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. Youâre not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approachingâand charmingâwonderful women.
Here are some highlights from Ericâs coaching session with Connell:
6:45âHow to Talk with Women AuthenticallyâNot Like Some Weird Pickup Artist
10:50âConnellâs Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman
11:30âThe âKaraoke Opener,â Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas
19:10âThe Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00âHow to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches
31:23âThe One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction
39:30âWhat Women REALLY Find Creepy (Itâs Not What You Think!)
46:20â3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers
52:01âThe Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her
1:03:08âLearn the âPush-Pull,â the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone
1:09:02âHow to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)
1:12:17âThe 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches
1:20:00âWhy Women LOVE âInterview Modeâ⊠When You Do it Connellâs Way
Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.
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Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boringâor worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, âWait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.â Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated âPassion Struckâ podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.
Hereâs what youâll learn in this episode:
2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear
12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemyâand How to Build Self-Worth
17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life
20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits
21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Datesâand Why They Love It
28:15 How Johnâs Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear
33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One
40:47 How to Show a Woman Youâre Dating that She Truly Matters
42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career
46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing
Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamicâbecause you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:
www.johnrmiles.com/
TO GET JOHNâS BESTSELLING BOOK âPASSION STRUCKâ:
https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-
ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1707604358&sr=1-1
TO LISTEN TO JOHNâS TOP-RATED PODCAST:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-struck-with-john-r-miles/id1553279283
TO HIRE JOHN AS A KEYNOTE SPEAKER:
www.harrywalker.com/speakers/john-r-miles
WATCH JOHNâS INSPIRING YOUTUBE CHANNEL:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW7cQNjZTEA
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Quotes
"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles
"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles -
Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when youâre unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. Youâve heard it before: âI didnât feel a connection, but we can be friends.â Frustrating, right? Letâs change that! In this episode of âHow to Get a Girlfriend,â Connellâwhoâs been on over 1,000 first datesâshares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.
Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:
4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)
11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word
20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)
25:25 â Connellâs 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common
30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Donât Do This!) and the RIGHT Way
36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe
38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected
44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connellâs Favorite First-Date Game: â5 Questions,â to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You
Stop hearing âLetâs just be friendsâ and start hearing âLetâs go out again.â Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!
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How do you talk to women and create true attraction? Whatâs the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of âThe Noble Art of Seduction,â Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. âGuys donât want to hear bulls*it,â she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. âThey want to hear the raw truth that gets results.â
You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:
(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients
(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her âDouble-Sided Complimentâ
(13:12) âThe Shadow,â the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive
(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic
(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You
(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career⊠and the Wrong Way
(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women
(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are âAbsolutely Dyingâ for Men like You to Approach Them
(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You
Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!
Featured Guest
Kezia Noble, The Worldâs Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert
TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIAâS 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS
www.kezia-noble.com/
VISIT KEZIAâS YOUTUBE CHANNEL
http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert
GET KEZIAâS BESTSELLING BOOK, âTHE NOBLE ART OF SEDUCING WOMENâhttp://www.amazon.com/Noble-Art-Seducing-Women-Foolproof/dp/1843587629
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
FOR FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30
Quotes
"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble
"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble -
Do you see women youâd love to talk to, but youâre just not sure what to sayâand youâre afraid youâll get rejected? Youâre not alone. Matt, 25, was battling âapproach anxiety.â He wasnât sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls âoutside the box,â a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.
Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Mattâs breakthrough:
5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars
8:31 Connell Identifies the âInvisible Wallâ that Stops Matt from Approaching
14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection
17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women
20:32 Connell Shares âthe Biggest Secretâ to Confidently Approaching
23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women
26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating
37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring
42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework
46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted
53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way
58:21 The Hinge Prompt thatâs CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients
After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girlsâthe kinds of women heâd been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In todayâs episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.
In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:
(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL
(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness
(20:00) How Lindseyâs Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives
(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet
(29:50) How to Tell if Sheâs into You
(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men
(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird
(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk AboutâŠand NOT to Talk About
(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them
(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks
(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!
(1:01:44) Lindseyâs Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know
Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!
READ LINDSEYâS SUBSTACK
https://wemetatacme.substack.com/
CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST
We Met At Acme
GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEYâS LIVE SHOWS
http://www.wemetatacme.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30 -
In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, âNo More Nice Guy,â is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deidaâs âThe Way of the Superior Manâ and Brene Brownâs âDaring Greatly.â
In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Gloverâauthor of âThe Dating Essentials for Menââwill discuss:
(5:03) How Connellâs Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever
(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women
(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why âNice Guy Syndromeâ Is Hurting Your Love Life
(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life
(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem
(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.
(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little âCavemanâ in the Guy She Dates
(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole
(50:22) Dr. Gloverâs Formula to Be a Man of âLoving Dominanceâ
(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You
(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women
(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Womanâs Phone Number
(1:09:45) Dr. Gloverâs Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone
Are you ready to stop being âMr. Nice Guyâ and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!
TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVERâS COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, âDATING ESSENTIALS FOR MENâ
http://www.drglover.com
FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X
http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Odds are, you see women youâd love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You donât know what to say, and you donât want to seem creepy. Itâs frustrating⊠but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrettâwho has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coachâshares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And youâll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere
(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted âPUAâ Tactics
(7:15) Why Connellâs Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof
(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women
(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head
(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment
(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety
(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question
(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym
(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker
(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy
(41:15) How Connellâs Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes
(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett
"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this weekâs special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your hostâdating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrettâteaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so youâll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And youâll do all of this with authentic charmâno weird pickup tricks needed.
In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps
(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send
(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love
(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies
(12:57) The BIG Mistake Youâre Making in the Apps
(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages
(15:30) How to Write the âOpposites Attractâ Opener
(17:58) How to Write the âCompliment + Nicknameâ Opener
(20:56) How to Write the âPop Quizâ Opener
(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love
(29:58) Connellâs 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates
(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy
(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out
(40:32) Why Connellâs New âSurprisingly Sexyâ Opener Works with ANY Woman
(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode
Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!
Quotes
"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett
"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30 -
Chances are, you struggle with flirting. Youâre not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. Youâre about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.
In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:
(4:58) The âAha!â Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication
(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone
(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication
(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say
(18:30) The â80-20 Ruleâ to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics
(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use
(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment
(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)
(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend
(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates⊠and the WRONG Way
(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal
(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid
(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure Youâll Never Run Out of Things to Say
Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
Quotes
"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirtingâit simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett
"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett -
Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Letâs change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophyâRadical Authenticityâto help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!
In this episode, Connell will tell you:
(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men
(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women
(10:30) How Connell âStoleâ His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros
(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss
(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women
(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence
(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connellâs Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone
(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him
(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell
(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity
(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity
(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today
(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, âDating Sucks but You Donâtâ
Quotes
"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett
"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO âTHE FLIRTY 30,â 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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