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  • In this episode, I explore the dangers of social isolation and the ease of fading from meaningful connections as we age. Reflecting on a festival with my daughter, I emphasize the importance of providing value in relationships and the stabilizing role of marriage amidst transitory friendships. I discuss the need for honest feedback to foster personal growth and urge listeners to actively engage with their communities. Ultimately, I advocate for nurturing our relationships as essential lifelines that keep us anchored in joy and purpose.

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  • In this episode, I engage with a caller reflecting on his tumultuous marriage and recent divorce. He shares struggles with emotional disconnection and feelings of depression. We explore the impact of unresolved conflicts, societal pressures around masculinity, and the dynamics of people-pleasing in relationships. As he begins to process his experiences, he recognizes the importance of authenticity and meaningful connections in his pursuit of healing and personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the challenges of rediscovery and the potential for healthier relationships moving forward.

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  • Sunday Morning Live 27 April 2025

    In this episode, we discuss a study revealing that only 24.5% of COVID deaths in certain Greek hospitals were directly caused by the virus, raising questions about hospital incentives and the accuracy of health data. We examine the weak correlation between school spending and student outcomes, highlighting implications for educational reform.

    We engage with audience perspectives on Generation Z's views on home ownership amid economic instability, and explore the psychological dynamics of modern relationships, focusing on effective communication.

    Additionally, we touch on the film industry's shift towards family-friendly content and what it reflects about generational values, concluding with a discussion on personal growth and the need for resilience in planning for an uncertain future.

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  • Do you have an example of non-determinism being an emergent property out of deterministic subcomponents?


    I'm curious @Stefan Molyneux why do people seem to avoid simplicity or any reductions in complexity?

    I get tons of requests to add complexity to software at work without any regard for value provided to customers.

    I find it fun, interesting, and not overly difficult to simultaneously remove complexity, often deleting large amounts of code, even while adding features and making the program more robust.

    I saw this recently too with people mocking Musk's raptor 3 engine, which is a massive simplifications of the previous raptor 2 and 1 designs. I see this not only as practical, but also a thing of beauty that something so simple can be so functional, and likely, more reliable because of it. Yet, people seem to hate it, and I don't quite understand.

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  • Dear Stefan,

    I have been listening to you content for sometime now, and would like to express immense gratitude to you for your insight and work on self knowledge, parenting, and philosophy. All your call-in shows provides unbelievable value and helped me with both the reason and courage to confronted my childhood. Your skills in weigh through all the fog, rationalisation, justification and narratives to stay on laser focus on the topic were a pleasure to witness. Please kindly use these awesome powers to help me see more clearly on how to move forward.

    I have just hit 30 yrs old last December, as I feel the last of my youth is leaving me, I started to experience a form of mid-life crisis. Like I have not truly lived though admittedly I have spent the first 25 years of it in survival mode, and I have only started to seriously build and take control of my life in the last 5 years. Not quite sure what to let you know, looking forward to speaking with you.

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  • Wednesday Night Live 23 April 2025

    In this episode, I discuss my recent health challenges and their impact on my content creation. I share trivia about aviation pioneers from Ohio, reminisce about classic sitcoms, and present surprising statistics on public perceptions of historical events. The main focus is the COVID-19 pandemic's implications on health policies, children's development, and alarming IQ drops. I also explore declining birth rates and the financial burdens of student loans, urging listeners to reflect on the interplay of culture, individual freedom, and societal structures.

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  • In this episode, host Stefan speaks with a caller struggling with estrangement from his oldest daughter amid a complicated family history. The caller recounts emotional turmoil during her wedding when she requested both him and her stepfather to walk her down the aisle, deepening their rift. He reflects on his decision to avoid speaking negatively about his ex-wife, which he hoped would help their relationship but instead led to misunderstandings.

    Stefan highlights how past dynamics influence current relationships and encourages the caller to maintain open communication with his children. By the end of the discussion, the caller gains valuable insights into his actions and a renewed hope for reconciliation with his daughter.

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  • If the neural weights of our values neurons is randomly initialized as by neural network back propagation does that mean we can get an ought from an is and that that is basically randomness from the total universe’s electromagnetic smog?

    If you could go back in your life to when you were 17 and left school, what would you differently and why?

    If we are merely the current iteration of our genes, what moral obligations do we have towards other iterations?

    You did the best years ago ...the Christmas truce...it can't be beat

    What is the nature of consciousness?
    Where do thoughts come from?
    Give those a shot.


    Hey Stefan. I've been listening to and watching your content for 15 years now, and you have been a great source for all things philosophical. I am grateful for all the work you put into educating and informing others. In particular, as it pertains to the State.
    My question is, do you believe we are, either in or approaching the modern equivalent to the enlightenment era, when humanity (or, at least a portion of humanity) will finally be getting an upgrade regarding knowing what it means to be a free human being?
    Or, is it too early yet, and we have to go through something akin to the dark ages for awhile first?
    Thanks for all you do. I hop you get the chance to answer my question.


    Are human beings worth helping?

    Is it really better to give than to receive?

    When you back on YouTube?

    Objective morality exists?

    what are feelings exactly. if you're in the mood, same for time.

    Why do some people think that life and creation itself could have been a random accident?

    Thoughts on the following:
    Humans aspire to gain wealth so they can skate on the backs of the fiscally enslaved.

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  • How to emerge from 10 years of isolation and cross the desert

    Topic Detail: Hi Stefan, I'm a 31 year old man who's recently found the show (in October). Philosophy has taken a fire to my heart. I have been ravenously devouring your books and call-in shows and podcasts in the past months.

    I am emerging from a very long period of isolation, and I need help navigating this life transition. I am starting from a point of zero quality relationships, and need to cross the desert!

    I've confronted my parents about my childhood. This confrontation not only confirmed their nature as abusers to me, but it engendered a neurological shift in me where I feel more confident, competent, and action-orientated than I've ever felt in my life. I've confronted my parents, moved out of their house, and am taking steps to further my career. Before, I was burning time with hedonism. I had no goal. Subconsciously, I didn't want a marriage like my parents', or for my future children to have my childhood. I avoided dating in my twenties.

    When I first moved out in my early twenties, I fell into drug addiction and isolation. I returned to live with my parents in a sort of prodigal son way in my late twenties. I've just moved out again and have told my parents I want I hiatus from our relationship. I don't have another decade to waste. I want love and a family.

    In this most critical period of my life, I need guidance! I appreciate your time reading this.

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  • Sunday Morning Live 20 April 2025

    In this episode, I discuss the importance of establishing explicit agreements in relationships to prevent conflicts from unspoken expectations. By exploring various scenarios, I highlight how unclear boundaries can lead to emotional manipulation. I reflect on modern dating challenges and the influence of socio-economic factors on partnerships, emphasizing the need for honesty about desires and boundaries. I also critique societal narratives that create unrealistic relationship standards, reinforcing the value of clarity and accountability for healthier interactions.

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  • "Hello Stef, You've spoken about the challenges faced by the single sons of single mothers. Would you please elaborate on the challenges they face, their mental/emotional blind spots and handicaps, and how to best navigate and understand the struggles they may not even know they have? Many thanks in advance."

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  • Friday Night Live 18 April 2025

    In this episode, I explore the intersection of philosophy and contemporary societal issues, addressing political rights, the historical context of voting struggles, and the importance of storytelling in shaping societal narratives. We discuss current events, including the lab leak theory related to COVID-19 and rising autism rates, questioning public health narratives and accountability among health officials. I invite listeners to reflect on moral transformations in their lives and emphasize the need for critical thinking and personal responsibility in navigating an evolving world.

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  • Wednesday Night Live 16 April 2025

    In this episode, we analyze the political economy of autism through Toby Rogers' insights, linking rising prevalence rates to environmental factors, as noted by Robert F. Kennedy Jr. We highlight alarming global statistics, the staggering economic costs of autism spectrum disorder, and the lack of government action on toxic exposures. Engaging with audience experiences, we discuss the emotional toll on families and the societal stigma surrounding mental health. The conversation touches on ADHD diagnoses and parenting anxieties, emphasizing the need for compassionate dialogue and community engagement to address autism and mental health challenges.

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  • First call: https://fdrpodcasts.com/5522/my-girlfriend-summons-me-to-sin-freedomain-call-in

    In this episode, I converse with a caller who shares his journey of self-discovery following a breakup. He discusses moving back in with family while pursuing an accreditation and the emotional complexities of caring for his brother with spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). We explore the impact of his past, including a confrontation with his parents about their parenting, and how these dynamics affect his relationships and future aspirations.

    I emphasize the importance of his independence while navigating familial obligations, ultimately guiding him to find a balance between supporting his brother and pursuing his own fulfillment. The discussion showcases the resilience needed to manage personal growth amidst emotional challenges.

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  • In this episode, I examine family dynamics, trust, and the need for honesty, addressing a listener's question about betrayal involving a fiancé and a cousin. I discuss the difference between superficial peace and genuine resolution, highlighting how open communication is vital. Personal experiences with censorship illustrate the dangers of silencing differing opinions and the impact on societal harmony.

    I question the authenticity of relationships built on pretense and explore the ethical responsibility to confront wrongdoing. Additionally, I delve into the complexities of empathy, trauma, and personal freedoms, advocating for agency in interpersonal choices. Ultimately, I encourage listeners to confront uncomfortable truths to foster deeper, more meaningful connections.

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  • In this episode, I speak with a caller navigating feelings of inadequacy and jealousy in her early marriage due to her husband's tumultuous sexual history. We explore the impact of her Catholic upbringing, their rapid relationship progression, and how these factors contribute to emotional turmoil and intimacy issues.

    I emphasize the importance of open communication and the potential need for couples counseling, despite her husband's resistance. The discussion highlights taking responsibility for one's feelings and creating healthier communication patterns. Ultimately, I guide her toward reclaiming her agency in the relationship, addressing themes of understanding and trust in blending different life experiences.

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  • Did you live in Budapest at one point?

    How to deal with enormous moral failure

    Definitions. Please teach us how to build good definitions.

    I miss your content brother

    What have you been doing and will you start making videos again. Do Spotify podcasts like then old days on youtube

    Will you shave your head for 4b movement ?

    What do you think is the value of a college degree anymore?

    If you feel like every thought you have is outside of society's Overton window should you consider moving?

    How do you define the ‘meaning of life’?

    Hi Stef, hope you're doing great. I used to watch your podcasts when you were on YT.

    Won’t you take me to funky town?

    Seriously, I don't think the brainwashed radical leftists are going to stop. What are your thoughts?

    Are politicians subject to contract law? (Why don’t they simply put their campaign promises in writing?)

    Why do the masses hate the truth so much, and those who speak it?

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  • Sunday Morning Live 13 April 2025

    In this episode, I explore the philosophy of self-defense in light of a recent stabbing incident involving a teenager, discussing Texas laws and the concept of "reasonable force." I highlight the tragic implications of such events on youth and the importance of personal safety strategies.

    The conversation shifts to parent-child relationship dynamics, emphasizing the parent's influence on healthy interactions and the effects of societal pressures on modern relationships, especially regarding women's life choices. I underscore the need for honesty and shared values in relationships while addressing broader societal challenges and the importance of fostering open discourse in an increasingly polarized environment.

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  • Hi Stef,

    I called in ~6 months ago. I was not doing very well, with me losing my first employment and the "business" I was a part of not doing very well. You gave some direction about sticking with my at-the-time mentor to establish a new career, but I can say that when I called you was definitely not only a bad time, but also quite ineffective, given the stress and dissociation I had to maintain daily. I was focused entirely on the "how" in our previous conversation and was not seeking answers to pressing questions. The result was a likely frustrating and forgettable experience as I brought my anxieties into your life. I seek to remedy that but also to have a genuine, honest conversation, which is still very rare for me. I have some questions that time away from the death-spiral of my inner parents has illuminated and I'm seeking your valuable input.

    Things have changed since July, with the ultimate step (ironically) being to do less. I ditched the gurus and mentors, and pulled back from all of the relationships I had. There was no one I was close to, and all of my social circles were built on lies I made for approval. Upon telling them of my deception, I was invariably removed from them, as expected. I now work happily and have more time for philosophy, and, hopefully soon, joy and progress towards joy.

    The core principle behind my need to lie to these groups to gain acceptance was acceptance. This never worked. Nobody valued me anywhere, especially not my parents.

    My parents taught me little. They bought us things, but never examined what we wanted with any level of curiosity. A core theme I've tried to square personally from your work is that children want to be comforted and loved by their parents, but I can't recall a time when I distinctly wanted anything to do with them. Despite my clear memories of events, I can't remember a time in my life fondly or with joy at all. Not a time I'd return to, or a moment with my family I wish I could go back to. The same feeling exists when I think of the company of others, whether it's friends or family. Frankly, I hate them (everyone), and I hate my "experience" of living up to now. You mentioned a distinct distance from my anger and emotion in general on our call. I didn't even feel anything up until the past few months. I find myself unable to muster up the bandwidth for even the most basic curiosity towards anyone anymore. I feel burnt out by the idea before I even do it. This has been quite the preamble, so I'll just dive into my first question:

    My parents would die if I asked them to. If I de-fooed, ran off, and died of a heroin binge, they would have been tracking me the entire time and would pay for my funeral. They swear up and down that they would do anything for me and that they would weather any storm to ensure my safety and well-being. I can guarantee they would. For all intents and purposes, they "love" me, even though the relationship is built essentially on bribery, i.e. buy me stuff to placate me and keep me in the home. I've conversed with them before about history, and they even know my stance on their "parenting." They won't change, and I can't even imagine what restitution might look like, or whether restitution is even necessary. I'm at a loss, right at the finish line. How can I consolidate that "loyalty," that desire to do what's right by me, with how much ire I feel for them for not teaching me a damn thing about anything? It's a self-answering question just typing it out but I don't have the bandwidth or courage to answer it myself.

    Should time allow in our conversation, I have a few more questions about women specifically. My parents didn't teach me jack shit, just left me to my own devices and said "do whatever as long as it's not drugs." I have no earthly clue how to engage someone intimately, either as a friend or romantically. It's sometimes even manifested as a direct and scathing hatred of women as a whole. Like real, bona fide hatred Stef. I'm 28, and everyone woman I have tried to get with has called me a funny friend and wants nothing to do with me. I'm dead certain this has to do with my lack of real, genuine emotion over the past 3 decades but I'm stuck still. The hatred I feel is towards my mom, but even still it manifests and shifts the blame from her to women as a concept. I have no idea what I'm doing and have no examples but pick up artist content, self-help gurus, and redpill youtubers.

    I'm infinitely grateful for the time you gave me last time we spoke, and I'm hoping that the intermittent time has rendered me more able to not only have a genuine conversation, but also to provide you with a provoking, deep, and meaningful one too. I hope we can talk soon, and thanks again for all you do, Stef!

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  • 11 April 2025 Friday Night Live

    Watch the first 20 minutes of the debate being analysed here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ah6kirkSwTg&t=20s

    DOUGLAS MURRAY
    DAVE SMITH
    JOE ROGAN

    Expertise: If you freeform for 2 hours on US foreign policy, you are implicitly communicating expertise. I don't know much about Armenian history, so I can't do 2 hours, or anything close.

    If someone says: You do not have the rigor of an expert, the answer is not to say: I never claimed to be an expert. The answer is: What is an EXPERT?

    Credentialism is dead. Douglas Murray has an undergrad in English.

    Big things experts got wrong.
    - COVID / VACCINE
    - GLOBAL WARMING
    - MELTING POT
    - IQ RESEARCH
    - Psychotropics
    - Replication crisis in science
    - Not moving heaven and earth to find the source of autism - although diagnosis has gone up with government money for autism
    - Media bias - they are 'experts' who claim to be unbiased, and are ridiculously biased
    - Feminism - supposed to be about female equality, had morphed into female supremacy, 58.6% in university for instance
    - immigration
    - welfare state
    - depopulation VS WE NEED IMMIGRATION
    - intransigence

    "Mad in America"

    A lot of podcasters come out of frustration with 'experts' - if you like your doctor, you don't go looking for a new doctor

    When experts are faced with growing competition (me VS NYT or CNN) what do they do?

    I come from the business world, where competition drives innovation - I wrote programs that let end users change the entire system.

    You never badmouthed competitors, you positioned your strengths against their weaknesses, learned from them and would never try to get them cancelled by lying about them.

    The media/political world is wild - evil compared to business

    When we are at Vegas, at conferences, we would go to competitors booths and joke with them - like sports. VS Tonya Harding

    Well, media/politics work to get you deplatformed

    A lot of people in business had done sports - media, not so much

    Murray was talking to Joe, not Dave - to deplatform competitors rather than striving to understand what gives them appeal and an audience, and work to win over their audience. We tried to win over competitors customers in the business world.

    BOB IS A MEAN PODCASTER!

    Hostility and contempt from Murray was fascinating - I think it comes from despair - we can't save or help people, so silencing them is the only course of action, either because I don't have a good answer, or because the other audience is too dumb and bigoted.

    Anti-democratic of course, people can't choose their own podcasts but they can choose their own political leaders.

    I didn't advocate for silencing other philosophers - I just tried to win over their audience.

    Can you talk about places you've not visited?

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