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  • Jaimie sits down with Liam—a Scottish-born, England-based gay dad—who shares the winding road he and his husband took to adopt their daughter through the UK’s foster-to-adopt system. From intense evaluations to surprise newborn pick-up calls, this story is filled with love, bureaucracy, and a whole lot of intention.

    You’ll hear how growing up under Section 28 shaped Liam’s identity, how he and his husband made the decision to adopt, and why they ultimately said yes to early permanence—despite the risks. It’s a moving, insightful story that shows just how badass LGBTQIA+ parents are.

    🚨 Plus, Jaimie shares a personal update on her wife’s chemotherapy journey and why now is the time to secure those second-parent adoptions if you're in the U.S. 🚨

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    🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

    (00:01:30) Growing up gay under Section 28 in Scotland(00:08:15) Jaimie welcomes Liam(00:16:00) Why intention is central to queer parenting(00:23:35) “The world’s worst game show”: Deciding what you’re equipped to handle in a child(00:33:55) Foster-to-adopt in the UK: what it is and why Liam and his husband chose it(00:47:40) How a paperwork technicality delayed their adoption by 6 months(01:00:50) Why Liam and his husband are choosing to be a one-child family—for now

    👨‍👨‍👧 About the Guest

    Liam is a Scottish-born gay dad living in the north of England with his husband and daughter. His story offers a rare and honest look at the UK’s foster-to-adopt process, shedding light on the emotional and bureaucratic hurdles many queer parents face—and the deep joy that follows.

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    ✊🏽 Take Action

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    📢 Because representation matters—and queer families aren’t going anywhere.

    History is watching. What we do now matters.

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  • Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny rise of online hate, they dive into how social media has shifted for queer creators in today's political climate. They also discuss second-parent adoption, why legal protection is a must for LGBTQ+ families, and how to handle the trolls that come with being openly queer online.

    This is a fun and heartfelt conversation between two gay moms who are just trying to raise good humans—while also dealing with a lot of ridiculousness from their kids (and the internet).

    🚨 And if you haven’t already, secure your parental rights with a second-parent adoption! Caitlyn and Jaimie share why it's crucial—and how you might not need a lawyer to do it. 🚨

    🎧 Listen now for the laughs, the real talk, and a reminder that representation really matters.

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    🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

    (00:01:10) Meet Caitlyn from 2ladiesand2babies—hilarious queer content creator and mom of two.(00:06:05) Parenting is a shit show—but laughing at it helps.(00:12:00) The state of social media: How trolls have ramped up, and why it’s more important than ever to stay visible.(00:22:50) "I’m woke AF." Fighting the myth that woke is a bad word.(00:36:29) Second-parent adoption: What it is, why it matters, and how you might be able to do it yourself without a lawyer.(00:45:31) “I've been lazy.” Jaimie on realizing the fight for LGBTQ+ rights is far from over.(00:50:04) Knitting at a protest? It tracks.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Caitlyn is a social media influencer and content creator who, along with her wife, operates the popular social media account "@2ladiesand2babies." Caitlyn shares candid and humorous insights into her family life as a mom of two boys. She brings a unique perspective as a social worker, while her wife is a homicide detective, giving their audience a multifaceted view of family dynamics and parenting. Caitlyn's content is appreciated for its authenticity and humor, often shedding light on everyday parenting challenges with a queer lens.

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    💡 Educate yourself & others on policies affecting our community

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  • Marie Newman isn’t just an advocate—she’s a fighter. As a former Congresswoman from Illinois, she took on big fights for LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare equity, gun reform, and more. But her mission became personal when her daughter came out as transgender, propelling her even deeper into the fight for equality.

    In this episode, Marie shares her unexpected path to Congress, the struggles of passing meaningful legislation, and why she refuses to back down—even as anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric ramps up across the U.S. and beyond. She also opens up about her family’s journey, the reality of raising a trans child in today’s political climate, and what we can all do to push back against the attacks on our rights.

    🔥 Nobody is coming to save us—we have to be the ones to step up. 🔥

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    🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

    ✔️ How Marie’s fight for LGBTQ+ rights began—and why she made it her mission✔️ Her journey to Congress & the challenges of passing real change✔️ Raising a trans child & navigating the medical & legal system✔️ The dangerous rollback of trans rights & DEI policies✔️ How to get involved and push back against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Marie Newman is a former U.S. Congresswoman from Illinois who built a career fighting for marginalized communities. Before politics, she worked in marketing, anti-bullying activism, and women’s rights advocacy. She’s also the author of A Life Made From Scratch, a powerful memoir about her journey. As the mother of a trans daughter, Marie has dedicated her career to creating a more inclusive world.📖 Preorder her book, "A Life Made From Scratch," here

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    💡 Educate yourself & others on policies affecting our community

    History is watching. What we do now matters.

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  • Heather grew up in the Bible Belt as the daughter of a gay man and a pastor’s granddaughter, suppressing her truth for years. She married a man, started a family, and did everything ‘right’—until, at 38, she realized she was a lesbian… while on a literal therapy call in the closet. Now, she’s untangling decades of religious trauma, reclaiming her identity, and proving that it’s never too late to live your truth.

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    🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

    🏳️‍⚧️ Religious trauma and its lasting impact on queer identity💡 The moment she realized she was a lesbian—while on a literal therapy call in the closet!💜 Coming out while married with kids: the struggles & breakthroughs✨ Healing generational trauma & embracing authenticity👩‍👩‍👧 Co-parenting post-divorce and navigating life after coming out

    Heather’s story is raw, real, and so damn relatable for anyone who’s ever questioned themselves or had to untangle the messaging they were raised with. And let’s be honest—many of us have. Her journey reminds us that it’s never too late to live in your truth.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Heather is a 40-year-old late-in-life lesbian, single mom, and spiritual seeker from Fort Worth, Texas. Raised in a deeply religious environment as the daughter of a gay man, she spent years struggling with religious trauma before fully embracing her truth at age 38. Now, she’s on a mission to heal generational trauma, co-parent with love, and help others navigate the journey to self-acceptance. Heather is also launching a new podcast, Cozy Betches, where she explores healing, queerness, and authenticity.

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  • Jaimie sits down with gender diversity expert Rachel Hulstein-Lowe to talk about raising transgender and non-binary kids in today’s political climate. Rachel, a parent of a non-binary child, shares insights on the impact of anti-trans legislation, generational shifts in understanding gender, and how parents can advocate for their kids. She also opens up about her own family’s history—her father came out in the Midwest during the AIDS crisis—and how the stigma against gay people then mirrors today’s attacks on the trans community. This episode is all about love, resilience, and the power of community in the face of discrimination.

    🏳️‍🌈Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank (use code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.

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    🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

    Acknowledge and understand the parallels between past and present struggles faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the face of societal opposition and stigmatization.Emphasize the importance of staying informed, engaged, and vocal about the challenges and legislative threats faced by the transgender community.Advocate for trans rights by actively engaging with others who may not be aware of the issues facing the community.Parents are encouraged to believe and support their children throughout their identity journey, as self-discovery and acceptance are pivotal for a child's well-being.Building a network of support and community can provide the necessary resources and emotional strength needed to navigate these challenging times.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Rachel Hulstein-Lowe, a gender diversity expert and parent coach currently based in the Boston area, has dedicated her career to uplifting the stories of transgender individuals and their families. Her personal journey is intimately entwined with this mission as she is the proud mom of a non-binary child. Rachel's expertise in social work emphasizes social justice and diversity, making her a valuable voice in discussions around gender identity.

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  • As the U.S. ramps up its attacks on LGBTQIA+ rights, it’s hard not to see the parallels with Italy and other conservative countries tightening their grip on queer families. The Queer Family Podcast dives into this reality with Giuseppe, a single gay dad who built his family through surrogacy in the U.S.—something he could never have done in his home country of Italy, where surrogacy and adoption for queer parents are outright banned.

    Despite these barriers, Giuseppe persevered, proving once again that LGBTQIA+ folks will always find a way to thrive. His story is a testament to the power of resilience, chosen family, and the unbreakable spirit of queer parents everywhere. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation about the global fight for family equality and how, no matter what laws are thrown at us, we will keep pushing forward.

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    🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

    Surrogacy Challenges: Giuseppe highlights the challenges and obstacles of pursuing surrogacy abroad amid Italy's restrictive laws against queer family-building.Family & Identity: Giuseppe's journey reveals the struggles of forming a chosen family in a society where traditional norms heavily influence social acceptance.Societal Barriers: The narrative underscores the ongoing societal and legislative challenges faced by LGBTQIA families in Italy, including the rollback of rights.Community Support: The significance of chosen family and support networks in overcoming personal and societal obstacles is emphasized throughout Giuseppe's story.Advocacy & Resilience: Giuseppe's experiences reflect the broader necessity for continuous advocacy for LGBTQIA rights and the power of resilience in the face of adversity.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Giuseppe is a 56-year-old gay father from Italy who has bravely navigated the complexities of parenthood and identity in a conservative society. His journey to fatherhood involved international surrogacy, defying stringent Italian laws against surrogacy and adoption for single individuals.

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    🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Co-written by Dianni Hall. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

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  • Jaimie shares a heartwarming conversation with Sophie and Agnese from London, showcasing the resilience and adaptability of queer families. They detail navigating the NHS fertility system, selecting a sperm donor, and the emotional challenges faced during the process, including a sperm shipment fiasco, a miscarriage, and a couple of womb switches along the way. Through perseverance and adaptability, their journey ultimately leads to a successful pregnancy. Tune in for an inspiring testament to love, determination, and the beautiful complexities of LGBTQIA family-making.

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    🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈

    The process of choosing a sperm donor involves numerous considerations, often shifting from physical attributes to health factors.Miscommunications during international sperm shipments can pose significant challenges, but situational resilience is key.Emotional support and understanding are crucial in managing the personal and shared complexities linked to fertility treatments and unexpected hurdles.Shifting roles in pregnancy within a queer relationship can foster deeper mutual understanding and reinforce the bond between partners

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Sophie and Agnese are a resilient and inspiring queer couple based in London, England. Sophie works as a casting agent in the film industry, while Agnese, originally from Rome, Italy, has established herself in the tech sector. Together for six years and married for two, they are on an incredible journey to build their family, expecting their first child after navigating the complexities and challenges of assisted reproduction as a lesbian couple in the UK.

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  • Jaimie sits down with Caitlin, a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Ashley, spent six years navigating the path to parenthood with a known donor. They dive into the complexities of donor relationships, legal agreements, and the unexpected yet beautiful involvement of the donor’s parents as paternal grandparents. Caitlin shares her experiences with different insemination methods, medical challenges, and the profound joy of growing their family. This episode offers an honest and insightful look at the many layers of building a family within the LGBTQIA+ community.

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    Known donor arrangements can vastly differ from anonymous ones, providing unique dynamics and potential for deeper familial connections.Legal frameworks, such as donor contracts and second-parent adoptions, are essential components to consider in family planning for queer families.The emotional complexities of involving known donors include managing relationships with donor relatives and potential changes in family dynamics.Mosi Baby Kit played a pivotal role in Caitlin’s successful at-home insemination efforts.An emphasis on openness and honesty in communicating donor origins to children is critical for Caitlin's family philosophy.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Caitlin is a dog groomer in San Diego, which is where she met both her wife and her donor. Caitlin's story is one of perseverance, resilience, and the unique dynamics of known donor family-building.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE)The Lesbian Guide to Conception (Book, mentioned in the discussion)Mosie Baby Kit - tell ‘em Jaimie sent ya ;)Clear Blue Advanced Ovulation Kit

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  • Jaimie welcomes Sarah and Tamara to discuss their journey as queer moms and grandmothers, exploring the complexities of known donor conception, non-biological parenting, and how gender norms influence body image. Sarah shares her personal experience with the BRCA gene and the emotional journey of breast removal, offering diverse perspectives on body identity and self-expression. Together, they emphasize the importance of open conversations about gender and representation. The episode also highlights their documentary, Not Quite That, and its role in sparking meaningful dialogue within the LGBTQIA+ community.

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    Sarah and Tamara's pioneering path as a lesbian couple navigating family planning via a known donor showcases the evolving landscape of queer family options.The significance of supportive community networks and chosen family, exemplified by their close-knit relationship with their donor and expanded family.An intricate discussion on gender expression and body image, catalyzed by Sarah's personal experience as a BRCA gene carrier, underscores the wider implications for identity exploration.The podcast emphasizes the critical need for representation and gender-affirming healthcare for non-cis folks within medical and societal contexts.Impactful insights on parenting within a queer context showcase how open communication and love can foster healthy family dynamics, contributing to the overall well-being of children.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Sarah and Tamara are partners and trailblazing parents within the LGBTQIA+ community, having been together for nearly 40 years. Sarah is a business owner and also BRCA2 gene positive, sharing her personal journey through a documentary titled Not Quite That. Tamara is a therapist and together with Sarah, they are proud mothers of three children and have recently become grandmothers, extending their loving family further.

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    Not Quite That https://notquitethat.ca/California Cryobank (LOVEISLOVE) https://www.cryobank.com/Rainbow Railroad to support mother and daughter, Pari and Pani (https://sponsor-a-case.funraise.org/team/help-a-lesbian-woman-and-her-daughter-to-safety)Hereditary Cancer Resources: United StatesCanada

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  • Jaimie interviews Elle Moxley, founder of the Marsha P. Johnson Institute, to discuss the ongoing fight for gender-affirming care and trans rights amidst political regressions. With a new administration coming into the White House, this timely conversation underscores the urgent need for community support, visibility, and action in combating hate and protecting transgender individuals. Elle shares insights on fostering collaborative solidarity and provides valuable resources for building stronger, more inclusive communities. This episode focuses on the resilience of the LGBTQIA+ community and offers hope and guidance for navigating these challenging times.

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    Elle Moxley stresses the importance of gender-affirming care as a basic human right vital to the existence and identity of transgender individuals.The Marsha P. Johnson Institute is actively working to develop comprehensive resources like the Trans Bill of Rights toolkit to support the transgender community.Recent legislative measures in states like Ohio highlight the urgent requirement for collective activism and community solidarity.Families and allies have crucial roles in educating themselves and supporting transgender rights by participating in local advocacy efforts.The underlying aim of oppressive legislation is control and domination, emphasizing the necessity for community resilience and perseverance.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Elle Moxley is a prominent activist and the founder and Executive Director of the Marsha P. Johnson Institute. Elle is dedicated to protecting the human rights of Black transgender people in the United States, advocating against the mounting legislative attacks on the transgender community. With a lifetime commitment to social justice, Elle has been a pivotal leader within critical social movements over the last decade and a fierce advocate for gender-affirming care, striving to ensure safety, visibility, and community support for transgender individuals.

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    Marsha P. Johnson Institute: marshap.orgElle Moxley on Instagram: @elle_moxley Trans Bill of Rights Toolkit: marshap.org/toolkit

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  • Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2023

    Jaimie and guest co-host Tom dive into the complexities of known donor dynamics in queer parenting, featuring insights from guests Marea and Ray, midwives sharing their personal journeys. Explore the intricacies of donor selection, legal agreements, and family integration. Marea and Ray discuss their unique conception stories and how supportive community structures like midwifery can enhance the childbirth and postpartum experience. Discover how their shared experiences led to the collaborative development of their book, "Baby Making for Everybody," offering guidance for LGBTQ and solo parents navigating family building.

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    Known donor arrangements can add complexity to family building but provide significant emotional and genetic clarity for queer families.The importance of supportive postpartum care cannot be overstated, with Marea and Ray advocating for well-prepared post-birth environments."Baby Making for Everybody" is a vital guidebook for LGBTQ+ and single parents, filled with practical advice and personal experiences.Community and peer support are invaluable during the processes of queer conception, pregnancy, and parenthood.Birth stories shared on social media by Marea and Ray serve to normalize and celebrate the diverse realities of childbirth.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Marea and Ray are trailblazing queer midwives and authors who co-authored the book "Baby Making for Everybody." Marea is a licensed midwife who specializes in supporting the LGBTQ+ community throughout conception, pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period. She is also the founder of PregnantTogether— a virtual community for queer folks and solo parents from TTC through parenting. Ray has been actively involved in home birth midwifery for over a decade. Both Marea and Ray are committed to providing accessible, empowering reproductive care and education for the LGBTQ+ community and solo parents.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    Pregnant Together: Marea's (virtual) community supporting queer folks & solo parents from preconception through parenting. Use this special link for a month free! Ray's Midwifery Practice: Refuge Midwifery on InstagramBook: "Baby Making for Everybody" Available on babymakingforeverybody.comSocial Media for the Book: Baby Making for Everybody on Instagram

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  • Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2020 This episode first aired in 2020, back when the show was called If These Ovaries Could Talk, co-hosted with Jaimie’s co-founder, Robin Hopkins. With the new changes coming to government, Gena Jaffe’s work with Connecting Rainbows is more important than ever.

    In this episode, Gena shares her journey using reciprocal IVF to create her family and how that experience inspired her to found Connecting Rainbows. Her organization helps LGBTQ folks navigate starting, growing, and protecting their families. This conversation is just as relevant today as it was when it first aired.

    Tune in and learn how Connecting Rainbows continues to make an impact!

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    Reciprocal IVF Journey: Genna Jaffe shares her family-building experience, emphasizing that the journey can take unexpected but rewarding turns.Legal Awareness: The importance of legal protections like second parent adoption and healthcare proxy for LGBTQ families cannot be overstated.Connecting Rainbows: A comprehensive platform launched by Genna Jaffe to provide LGBTQ individuals and families with vetted legal and fertility resources.Community Support and Education: Genna's initiative not only offers legal resources but aims to educate and empower the LGBTQ community.Navigating Fertility Decisions: The episode discusses insurance challenges and the nuances involved in selecting a fertility path, highlighting the necessity for informed choices.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Genna Jaffe is a lawyer who specializes in business law. Alongside her legal career, she is also renowned for her robust social media presence where she educates and shares her journey as a part of the LGBTQ community. Jenna is passionately involved in supporting LGBTQIA+ families, demonstrated by her creation of the organization Connecting Rainbows, which connects individuals and families with legal resources and fertility support. Her expertise and dedication extend to advocating for the community and creating a comprehensive platform to assist with family planning and protection.

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    Connecting RainbowsConnecting Rainbows on InstagramGena Jaffe’s personal Instagram

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  • Join Derek and Romaine of The DNR Show for a festive bonus holiday episode featuring special guest Jaimie! 🎄✨ We’re diving into holiday traditions, family dynamics, and all the gay holiday cheer you could ask for 🙃🤪. From heartwarming memories to queer holiday vibes, this episode is perfect for anyone navigating modern family life or just looking to keep their holidays a little more fabulous.

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  • Jaimie chats with Aiden, a trans dad, about embracing differences, self-discovery, and building his family—first as a solo parent and later in a polyamorous relationship. They dive into sperm donation with a known donor, IVF, pregnancy loss, and the importance of connection, community, and representation. Aiden also shares his dream of starting a podcast for trans parents.

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    Aiden emphasizes the importance and beauty of living authentically, illustrating how one's unique perspective can positively influence and transform society.Sharing personal experiences, Aiden debunks myths around transitioning and fertility, highlighting key aspects of parenthood after testosterone.Through nuanced storytelling, the episode sheds light on the significance of finding community support and the value of chosen family in navigating queer parenting.The episode addresses the emotional complexities of miscarriage, emphasizing resilience and the healing journey amid loss.Aiden advocates for trans-inclusive birth work and comm

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Aiden (he/him) is a trans dad, neurodivergent individual, and a queer community advocate. He embarked on a journey of becoming a solo parent and later transitioned into a polyamorous family structure with his partner. Aiden is passionate about creating awareness and representation for trans parents and is currently venturing into becoming a labor doula while sharing his rich experiences through a podcast aimed at supporting trans families.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    Aiden's Personal Instagram: @flyguy.circusPodcast Instagram: Transparent JourneysCalifornia Cryobank Website: California Cryobank - Use promo code LoveIsLove for a free level one subscription to their donor catalogue.

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  • Jaimie welcomes Lamia to the to discuss zir journey of embracing gender fluidity and using Ze/Zem pronouns. They explore Lamia's experiences navigating parenthood as both a biological and non-biological parent within a queer and multi-ethnic context. Lamia shares personal stories, including the challenges and joys of raising children with known donors, the importance of energetic healing through acupuncture, and the impact of losing close relatives. This episode offers an intimate look into queer family dynamics, gender identity, and community support.

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    Lamia Gibson shares an authentic narrative of embracing genderfluidity and utilizing the pronouns Ze/Zem to represent zem true self.The discussion highlights the significance of representation and understanding diverse gender experiences within the LGBTQIA+ community.Lamia elaborates on the complexities and joys of queer family building, such as using known donors and navigating non-biological parenting challenges.The episode underscores the pivotal role of holistic health practices, like acupuncture and Chinese medicine, in enhancing fertility and overall well-being.Jaimie and Lamia emphasize the

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Lamia Gibson is a dynamic and insightful guest with a rich background in acupuncture, meditation, and gender advocacy. As a genderqueer, parent to three, Lamia offers a unique perspective on parenting and family dynamics. With 22 years of experience as an acupuncturist, Lamia is passionate about holistic health, energetic healing, and the profound impact these can have on fertility and general well-being.

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  • Katie tells Jaimie about how she went from not wanting kids to ending up with 10 of them. As a queer mom who built her family through fostering and adoption, Katie shares her journey of embracing a queer identity while married to a man, and navigating the unique challenges of parenting a big family. Together, they dive into themes of love, chosen family, and the deep connections that come with fostering and adoption. Katie also talks about her work with Camp Quest, a summer camp dedicated to critical thinking and inclusion. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about creating safe spaces and empowering young minds.

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    Katie Hladky-Grant's journey underscores the intersectionality of queer identity and foster care, highlighting how LGBTQIA individuals often excel in nurturing environments for adopted and fostered children.The complexities of balancing personal identity, family dynamics, and the societal perceptions of queer relationships provide enriching perspectives on modern family structures.Camp Quest serves as a beacon for encouraging critical thinking and individuality among children, standing in opposition to traditional gender and heteronormative segregation.This episode intricately discusses the role of foster care within the LGBTQIA community, advocating for more inclusive and expansive definitions of family and parental roles.Jaimie and Katie’s dialogue illustrates the broader implications of chosen family and community, emphasizing the strength and resilience often found in non-traditional family settings.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Katie Hladky-Grant is a queer foster parent and Camp Quest leader from Ohio, dedicated to supporting vulnerable children and fostering critical thinking in youth education.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    Camp Quest - an organization focused on promoting critical thinking and fostering an accepting environment for children. www.campquest.org The founding executive director of Camp Quest, Amanda Metskas, co-authored Raising Freethinkers, which includes a chapter about Camp Quest and reflects their secular humanist approach to youth development. You can explore the book here.

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  • Jaimie revisits her birth story, originally shared on the podcast when it was called "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Celebrating over seven years of normalizing LGBTQIA family narratives, Jamie reflects on how her expectations of an idyllic birth experience were upended, a metaphor she connects to the current socio-political climate and the Thanksgiving week. After years of unexplained infertility, Jaimie finally got pregnant. One would think that would mean she was due an easy birth. But one would be wrong for thinking that. From birth to busted boobs. Hear how her second child made his way into the world.

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    Jamie's birth story serves as a metaphor for dealing with unexpected life outcomes and finding hope despite challenges.The experience highlights the unpredictability of childbirth and the pressures of preconceived expectations.Jamie discusses the emotional and physical demands of new motherhood, emphasizing the uniqueness of each child and parental experience.The episode sheds light on the societal pressures surrounding childbirth and breastfeeding, urging for understanding and support over judgment.A call to build supportive communities around shared experiences, prioritizing authenticity and inclusivity.

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    Camp Highlight: https://camphighlight.com, mentioned as a sponsor of the episode.

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  • Megan and Greyson join Jaimie to talk about their journey to parenthood. They discuss using a known donor, at-home insemination with a Frida Fertility kit, and navigating family planning as an LGBTQIA couple in Florida’s challenging political climate. Megan highlights disability representation in parenting, while Grayson shares stories of his transition and military service, offering a powerful narrative of love, resilience, and identity.

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    Megan and Greyson are embarking on a new journey as expectant parents while tackling unique challenges posed by their backgrounds, including transgender identity and cerebral palsy.Their story highlights the intricacies of family planning for LGBTQIA families, including the use of known donors and personal insemination kits like Frida Fertility.Grayson’s transition in his 30s adds depth to discussions about representation, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for transgender rights in today's socio-political climate.The couple shares their strategies for navigating a healthcare system not fully adapted to their needs, emphasizing the importance of personalized care.Megan showcases resilience, advocating for visibility an

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Megan and Grayson: Megan and Greyson are proud expectant parents hailing from Tallahassee, Florida. Megan is an inspiring advocate for people with disabilities, working full-time and studying simultaneously while managing cerebral palsy. Greyson is a transgender male who bravely transitioned in his 30s. He served as a veteran in the U.S. Military during "don't ask, don't tell" and currently works with the Florida Department of Corrections. Their journey together reflects resilience, love, and the power of family.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    Frida Fertility: An at-home insemination kit used by Megan and Grayson.Mosie Baby: Another option for at-home insemination kits mentioned in the episode.@heyginasena : Referenced as a social media influencer providing actionable steps for LGBTQIA rights advocacy.

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  • Join Jaimie for an inspiring episode with Aspen and Eren, exploring LGBTQIA+ family dynamics, gender identity, and inclusive parenting. Aspen shares their journey from wanting to parent solo to finding love with Eren and choosing a known donor. Eren discusses their non-binary identity and the challenges of authentic, supportive parenting in a society slow to embrace fluidity. This episode highlights resilience, love, and the importance of representation for LGBTQIA+ families and future generations.

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    Aspen and Eren's family journey highlights the possibilities of building a family outside traditional norms, focusing on love and personal identity.Transitioning and self-exploration need not fit into a binary definition, and it's natural for one's understanding of self to evolve.Visibility and representation in media are crucial for normalizing LGBTQIA+ families and offering support to those navigating similar paths.Maintaining open, honest discussions about origins and identity fosters a secure, open environment for children.Books and storytelling serve as effective tools for parents to introduce and normalize diverse identities and orientations to their children.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    Aspen and Eren are a dynamic trans and non-binary couple who bravely share their unique journey of identity, family-building, and self-discovery. Aspen, a passionate advocate for expressing gender fluidity, courageously navigated the process of becoming a parent through home insemination. Bringing vast experiences and resilience, they have crafted a family with Eren, a non-binary partner who embraced their own complex identity and parentage dynamics. Together, they are devoted to creating a supportive environment for their child, enlightened by their diverse journey.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    Mosie Baby Kit: A tool used by Aspen for home insemination.Books mentioned include those explaining the LGBTQIA spectrum for children, like "He's My Mom" and the Alphabet book on identities.

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  • Jaimie and guest S. Bear Bergman delve into love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of the 2024 political climate. Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to 35+ years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. He opens up about the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and living progressive values. Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, packed with insights for inclusive parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous look at modern queer family life.

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    Progressive Parenting: Emphasizes the need for inclusive, conscious parenting practices that align with progressive ideals in modern family life.Transitional Advocacy: Bear shares his journey and the pivotal role of educational and activist work in fostering acceptance and understanding.Queer Families: Insights into building and nurturing queer families, addressing known donor situations, adoption laws, and the value of community support.Educational Literatura: Highlights the importance of inclusive literature as seen through Bear's publishing company, Flamingo Rampant.Resilience and Hope: Encourages finding strength and positivity in community bonds during challenging times, particularly relevant to queer parents and children.

    🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

    S. Bear Bergman is a writer, activist, and educator specializing in LGBTQIA+ topics. A queer and trans father, Bear has been involved in activism from a young age. Known for his insightful writing and advocacy, Bear has also established a children's inclusive publishing company, Flamingo Rampant, which focuses on creating literature that celebrates diverse identities in families and communities.

    🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:

    S. Bear Bergman’s Website: sbearbergman.comFlamingo Rampant (Inclusive Children's Publishing Co.): Flamingo Rampant WebsiteBear’s New BooK: Special Topics in Being a Parent

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