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Today I’m sharing a blast from the past - in the form of one of the first podcast episodes I ever recorded.
Do you struggle with trusting your partner?
Are you constantly questioning... but WHAT IF they are going to cheat or leave me one day? How can I trust them!!
Then this episode is for you.
We're going to uncover what trust actually is and why you don't need to focus so much on trusting THEM when you can trust YOURSELF. -
Our unmanaged minds can create so much unnecessary pain and drama in our relationships.
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If you often feel rejected and hurt in your relationships - then this episode is for YOU.
I'm offering you 5 questions to help you take back control of your fearful brain and feel empowered - regardless of what the other person is doing.
Ready? LISTEN NOW.
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When we're constantly spiralling in 'What if...' thoughts...
Why rejection seems so terrifyingWhat we're actually afraid ofHow dirty pain is the cause of a lot of our sufferingAND how to overcome your fears and feel confident and secure
- What if they break up with me?
- What if they're mad at me?
- What if they're lying to me?
- What if they leave me?
... it's because of how we're subconsciously answering those questions.
In today's episode, I'm talking about:Ready? LISTEN NOW.
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Do you tend to take things personally?
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Always interpreting things your partner or friends do as a rejection and then feeling miserable?
Do you anxiously worry about the future of your relationships? Spiraling in scary 'What if...' thoughts?
Do you avoid conflict? So afraid of losing people from your life for good?
If so - you likely have a fear of rejection.
And in today's episode, I'm sharing 7 symptoms of fear of rejection and how each of them f*cks with our relationships.
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Do you struggle feeling confident? And often find yourself feeling anxious, insecure, and filled with self-doubt?
Where confidence comes from (and where it doesn't come from)Confidence-eroding thoughts vs confidence-producing thoughtsAnd the two key components to creating unshakable confidence
Did you know that, despite what a lot of us think, confidence isn't actually something you're just born with?
And that you can actually create MORE confidence by managing the way you think?
In today's episode, I'm talking about:
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When you look in the mirror, are you quick to berate yourself with criticism?
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Mentally noting all the ways you need to change or 'fix' something about how you look in order to be 'good enough'?
When you look at pictures of yourself - do you instantly hone in on what's 'wrong' and beat yourself up?
With my wedding coming up, I have had a similar experience of noticing increasing pressure from my brain to look and be 'good enough'.
And in today's episode, I share 4 steps for overcoming these thought patterns and getting out of the 'good enough' trap.
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There's a lot of talk in the online space about needs and the importance of finding partners that meet our needs.
What do we really mean by 'need'?Why we often don't just ask for what we wantWhy need entitlement causes issues in relationshipsHow to see needs as a collaboration How to meet your own needs when your partner can't
But how do we actually go about asking for what we want?
In this episode, I'm discussing:Ready?
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Do you often avoid having the harder conversations with loved ones?
Questioning your thoughts cheat sheet
Not really being truly honest about how you feel and sweeping things under the rug to avoid conflict?
Or maybe you do bring up issues, but you do it in a way that doesn't tend to result in connection...
Then this episode is for YOU!
I'm going to talk you through some key steps for cleaning up your own mind before difficult conversations and some practical tips for showing up as your best self.
AND how to make the conversation a SUCCESS - regardless of their response.
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Do you ever find yourself obsessing over and trying to decipher how much someone else likes you?
Why answering the question isn't cut and dry Why we're so obsessed with it in the first placeA better question to focus on in your relationships instead
Whether your partner loves you as much as you love them...
Or whether your friends feel as close to you as you do to them...
If so - this episode is for YOU!
We're going to talk about:
Self Esteem Building Kit
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Do you find yourself being pretty critical of the people in your life?
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Your partner, your friends, your family members...
Feeling frustrated and negative about the ways they show up or the things they do / don't do?
Our brains' habit of criticizing can cause so much unnecessary disconnection in our relationships.
Tune into this episode to find out WHY we're doing it and useful tips for how to stop.
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In this episode, I chat with the lovely Sarah Siegert - Expat Friendship Coach, on all things FRIENDSHIP.
The manuals and expectations we have of our friendsFriendship breakupsWhen friendships change due to life circumstancesMaking new friends as an adultWhy it's really all about our thoughts about ourselves
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Whether you're in a long distance relationship or not - there will be something in this episode for you!
Emotional permanence, and how some of us struggle to believe our partners still care about us when they’re not physically with usCompromise and deciding how a long distance relationship will lookManaging your anxious brain and processing your emotionsThe fears that often come up in long distance relationshipsFeeling pressure for the time you spend together to be perfectAND how you can feel connected to your partner, even when they’re not around or in contact
We're going to cover:
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In this week's episode, I'm talking about how our upbringing, society, and external influencers can shape and determine the way we think about ourselves, love, and relationships.
Do you automatically think being single in your 30s is a bad thing?Do you feel a bit shocked when you hear someone doesn't want kids?Do you find yourself behaving in ways that don't really serve you, but you're not sure why?Are you super hard on yourself? And feel like you're never meeting the standard you (or others) have set for you?
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If any of these things relate, this episode is for you.
I will also be sharing 6 common beliefs I see screwing with my clients' brains and offering ways to challenge them.
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Do you try to use the tools and concepts I teach to manage your mind - but sometimes struggle to actually feel better?
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Do you struggle to understand why something is bothering you and feel like you're skirting around the root of the issue?
Or often just have NO idea what you're thinking and where to even begin with thought work?
Thought work is the practice of working with our thoughts to change our emotional experiences.
As you may have heard before - our thoughts create our reality!
But often we can be so unaware of the thoughts creating our pain that we prevent ourselves from being able to address the real issue.
This episode is going to talk about moving past your surface-level thoughts to find the thoughts really creating your suffering.
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Are you often feeling disappointed, hurt, and rejected in your relationships?
What the 'They don't care' trap isWhy we end up thereThe problems it creates in our relationshipsAnd most importantly... how to get out of it!
And like the people in your life just don't make you feel loved and important?
You may be falling victim to the 'They don't care' trap...
Which is a pattern I see a lot of clients getting stuck in.
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Do you find yourself often doing what others want you to do, without giving much thought to your own preferences and desires?
Questioning your thoughts cheat sheet
Do you tend to make decisions on what's more likely to be approved of, consciously or subconsciously trying to avoid the risk of people being mad at you?
If so - you're probably already familiar with the term 'People pleaser'.
And in today's episode, I'm talking about the different types of people pleasing, why we do it, AND why being willing to risk rejection will change your relationships for the better.
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Do you have some issues in your relationship where household chores are concerned?
Uncover how socialization plays a huge part in the way each of us approaches responsibilitiesClean up your thoughts about what their habits mean about you and your relationshipTalk about how you can be direct and confident in asking for what you want And how you can step out of frustration and resentment, and create the peace of mind you truly desire
Do you just WISH you could get them to do their washing up faster...
Put a load of laundry on sooner...
Throw round a duster for once in their life?!
Living with another human being with a totally different brain than you is no joke.
But in this episode, we're going to:
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Do you find yourself being pretty hard on you?
What self-acceptance really isWhy we struggle to love and accept ourselvesThe excuses we make to not accept ourselvesHow to make shifts towards unconditional self-acceptance
Do you have a negative voice in your head, that's constantly ready to criticize you and tell you you're doing it wrong?
And that compares you to other people? Telling you you're always falling short?
In today's episode, I'm talking about how self-acceptance will change your life - including:
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Do you feel overly impacted by other people's bad moods?
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Like if your partner is grumpy after work - YOU automatically feel annoyed or irritated?
Or if your friend is being a little short with you - YOU automatically feel anxious?
If so - this episode is for you!
I'm going to teach you why other people's moods are never what's actually determining the way you feel, what actually is, AND how to take back control over your own emotional experience.
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